I like the distinction between detachment and indifference. I struggle with a relative who I believe wants to get closer to me, but I have reasons not to trust her. She doesn't know how I feel. In our family dynamic, it's not at all safe to be open and vulnerable. I stay detached, at the same time allowing for a limited interaction, even though she makes it clear that she wants more from me. I also put a stop to any emotional manipulations. Prompts to get me to open up go unanswered. She doesn't have the right "keys" to my inner self, and I know she's feeling frustrated by me. Thank you, Stoic Mind, for this thought provoking video! (I love the strong sculptures you show.)
I'm glad you found the distinction between detachment and indifference helpful. Your approach to maintaining boundaries with your relative while protecting your emotional well-being is wise, especially in an unsafe family dynamic. Prioritizing your mental health is essential, even if it frustrates others. Thank you for sharing your experience and appreciating the insights from the video!
It sounds like you're navigating a complex situation with thoughtfulness and self-awareness. It's not uncommon for family dynamics to present challenges in expressing emotions openly and honestly. The distinction between apathy and apathy is indeed subtle but significant, especially when considering relationships where trust has been compromised.🥰
Go with your gut and instincts and not your head, if you don’t trust their intentions then don’t trust them, keep listening to the stoic and thank god daily to keep you strong, manipulative behaviour is a gut feeling that’s usually true 🥰😇🙏🏼❤️
I struggle with detachment and allow my emotions to control me which has ruined my past relationships. Am glad to be reminded of this and will patiently walk through this process continuously.
I learned that by practicing detachment , one get a clear view and a big picture of one's life and what one is trying to achieve in life , what's interesting is how one gets ideas flowing in the head like never before.
I've been watching and taking in stoic philosophy videos for the past two year and can say much healing has blossomed as a result. This particular video is the best one yet. GOOD WORK, thank you!
@@womanofvalor1356 , If I may weigh in on your question about insulating your spirit. I think it's okay to have empathy, but if empathy pulls you into another person's business and it's causing you distress, use some discernment. For example, asking them what they plan to do about their situation, taking yourself out of it, while still lending them an ear with respect, but some emotional distance. This can send the subtle message that you aren't feeling a responsibility to fix their problems for them. In my experience, it has had to be learned and practiced. Each situation might call for more or less involvement of your emotions, depending on whether the person has brought the problem on themselves, or has run into a rough patch through no fault of their own, and is otherwise a responsible person whose need is temporary and reasonable.
Yes, I'm emotionally embodied by a force greater than anything I've ever imagined experienced or expected. Love doesn't think twice 💯 Great is thy Faithfulness ✨️
I like how you can tell the difference between distance and indifference. I have trouble with a family member who I think wants to be closer to me, but I don't trust her. She has no idea how I feel. Because of how our family works, being open and vulnerable is not safe at all. Even though she makes it clear that she wants more from me, I stay away from her while still letting us connect in a limited way. Aside from that, I stopped any emotional tricks. When people try to get me to open up, I don't answer. There are "keys" that she doesn't have to my inner self, and I know that makes her mad at me. Thanks, Stoic Mind, for making me think with this movie! (I really like the strong statues you show.)
Emotional detachment doesn’t mean being cold or indifferent; it’s about mastering the art of balance and creating healthy boundaries. This video is a reminder that by letting go of emotional dependency, we can reclaim our inner peace and focus on what truly matters. Learning to respond rather than react empowers us to navigate life with clarity, fostering resilience and self-awareness. A powerful lesson in protecting your energy while still embracing meaningful connections.
From what I gather its learning to be okay with outcomes that we may not like, serenity to accept how things are but at the same time not allow it to dictate you or you your own value.
Emotional detachment isn't about avoiding emotions; it's about understanding and managing them without letting them control us. This brings balance and peace to daily life.
Same! I think it’s a childhood trauma at least for me. My mom Wasn’t in my life for the 1st 3 years. I was w/ my grandma bc she left for the USA to start a new life.
Something happened after covid in the emergency room and my mom's death it's a little different now I thought I was good at first but I guess it's now a little more mature wellness
When I was in school I had many, many best friends. To this day I wonder why I kept changing best friends. I find it extremely difficult to find a best friend having grown older. Is that normal? Do people have too much baggage as we age? I thought that age is supposed to come with wisdom.
@pjproudify, You might have gained more wisdom with age than you realize. It's likely that you're becoming more choosy about who you let into your inner circle. I think this is inevitable as we age, since we have had so many layers of experiences building up over the years. Baggage isn't always bad, I think. We have learned!
I like the distinction between detachment and indifference. I struggle with a relative who I believe wants to get closer to me, but I have reasons not to trust her. She doesn't know how I feel. In our family dynamic, it's not at all safe to be open and vulnerable. I stay detached, at the same time allowing for a limited interaction, even though she makes it clear that she wants more from me. I also put a stop to any emotional manipulations. Prompts to get me to open up go unanswered. She doesn't have the right "keys" to my inner self, and I know she's feeling frustrated by me. Thank you, Stoic Mind, for this thought provoking video! (I love the strong sculptures you show.)
I'm glad you found the distinction between detachment and indifference helpful. Your approach to maintaining boundaries with your relative while protecting your emotional well-being is wise, especially in an unsafe family dynamic. Prioritizing your mental health is essential, even if it frustrates others. Thank you for sharing your experience and appreciating the insights from the video!
Let’s goooo! Good for you man!
You are truly brave and courageous while being compassionate. Outstanding!
It sounds like you're navigating a complex situation with thoughtfulness and self-awareness. It's not uncommon for family dynamics to present challenges in expressing emotions openly and honestly. The distinction between apathy and apathy is indeed subtle but significant, especially when considering relationships where trust has been compromised.🥰
Go with your gut and instincts and not your head, if you don’t trust their intentions then don’t trust them, keep listening to the stoic and thank god daily to keep you strong, manipulative behaviour is a gut feeling that’s usually true 🥰😇🙏🏼❤️
I struggle with detachment and allow my emotions to control me which has ruined my past relationships. Am glad to be reminded of this and will patiently walk through this process continuously.
I learned that by practicing detachment , one get a clear view and a big picture of one's life and what one is trying to achieve in life , what's interesting is how one gets ideas flowing in the head like never before.
Blessed are you all listening to these powerful insight 👍🙏
I've been watching and taking in stoic philosophy videos for the past two year and can say much healing has blossomed as a result. This particular video is the best one yet. GOOD WORK, thank you!
This is critical for Us empaths
ABSOLUTELY 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 I learnt this the hard way. Now life is easy-and I give my energy who DESERVES it the MOST.
@@chrismurray8483 how do you discern who meeds it most? Do you have a practice to insulate your spirit from feeling what they are feeling ?
@@womanofvalor1356 , If I may weigh in on your question about insulating your spirit. I think it's okay to have empathy, but if empathy pulls you into another person's business and it's causing you distress, use some discernment. For example, asking them what they plan to do about their situation, taking yourself out of it, while still lending them an ear with respect, but some emotional distance. This can send the subtle message that you aren't feeling a responsibility to fix their problems for them. In my experience, it has had to be learned and practiced. Each situation might call for more or less involvement of your emotions, depending on whether the person has brought the problem on themselves, or has run into a rough patch through no fault of their own, and is otherwise a responsible person whose need is temporary and reasonable.
@@notagain779 that is great information,
That I will utilize . Thank you
@@womanofvalor1356 By understanding where you stand in people's lives and act accordingly
Great job and great practice and which changed my life 🧬 nice 👍 inspiring thanks 🙏👍❤
Thank you ❤so much by helping people who are emotionally attached to practice DETACHMENT ❤❤
Yes, I'm emotionally embodied
by a force greater than
anything I've ever imagined
experienced or expected.
Love doesn't think twice 💯
Great is thy Faithfulness ✨️
I feel so connected to this way of living
This is super informative and is something I definitely need to and will practice. Eye opener. Thank you.
I like how you can tell the difference between distance and indifference. I have trouble with a family member who I think wants to be closer to me, but I don't trust her. She has no idea how I feel. Because of how our family works, being open and vulnerable is not safe at all. Even though she makes it clear that she wants more from me, I stay away from her while still letting us connect in a limited way. Aside from that, I stopped any emotional tricks. When people try to get me to open up, I don't answer. There are "keys" that she doesn't have to my inner self, and I know that makes her mad at me. Thanks, Stoic Mind, for making me think with this movie! (I really like the strong statues you show.)
Thank you for being a beacon of light & wisdom on my enlightenment journey.🤝🤝
Thank you for the reminder, I needed this right now in my life!
Thank so much for the message and insight 🙏
The best advice I have ever heard. Thank you
Emotional detachment doesn’t mean being cold or indifferent; it’s about mastering the art of balance and creating healthy boundaries. This video is a reminder that by letting go of emotional dependency, we can reclaim our inner peace and focus on what truly matters. Learning to respond rather than react empowers us to navigate life with clarity, fostering resilience and self-awareness. A powerful lesson in protecting your energy while still embracing meaningful connections.
I am facing a very serious challenge, and I am doing all that I can do to remain poised and certain😊❤🎉
These videos are saving my life right now.
Thank you so much .
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I love all the insight and wisdom that you give
Thank you for all the work. It's much appreciated 1
From what I gather its learning to be okay with outcomes that we may not like, serenity to accept how things are but at the same time not allow it to dictate you or you your own value.
Thank you loving this detachment has led me to some profound shifts as of recently
Emotional detachment isn't about avoiding emotions; it's about understanding and managing them without letting them control us. This brings balance and peace to daily life.
This is an excellent piece of information.
It caught my interest when I seen it I thank you for thanking me of having patience the end out come it almost always comes out better.
Thank you for this!
Fine one.
I am a man that wants to change, my intellectual brain be free of enemy. Thanks
Fits me like a glove. Thank you!
I'm having a problem with emotionally detaching from my narcissist ex
Very self-empowering. Thank you very much.
Detachment is essential
Indeed it is an eye opener.
Thank you so much, its so interesting topics, I need this...❤❤❤❤
I really need to learn detachment.
I’m a newbie….and very interested in learning emotional detachment….thank you…
Powerful and informative!!
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We're all gonna make it brahs
I need to stop struggling with self love. I deserve self- love ❤️
Very helpful ❤
I'm trying to do it in a healthy way 😢
Awesome
I struggle with this and it ruins my romantic relationships
Same! I think it’s a childhood trauma at least for me. My mom
Wasn’t in my life for the 1st 3 years. I was w/ my grandma bc she left for the USA to start a new life.
@@TheWholeDamnShow007 are you resentful ?
Let’s continue together.
I like detachment vs indifference
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Amazing
Listened till this far.
Something happened after covid in the emergency room and my mom's death it's a little different now I thought I was good at first but I guess it's now a little more mature wellness
I expected this podcast to be more connected to life reality then being read.
When I was in school I had many, many best friends. To this day I wonder why I kept changing best friends. I find it extremely difficult to find a best friend having grown older. Is that normal? Do people have too much baggage as we age? I thought that age is supposed to come with wisdom.
@pjproudify, You might have gained more wisdom with age than you realize. It's likely that you're becoming more choosy about who you let into your inner circle. I think this is inevitable as we age, since we have had so many layers of experiences building up over the years. Baggage isn't always bad, I think. We have learned!
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