As a Malaysian woman, we are not desperate to date western men or just any man. We have free education until high school and extremely cheap university fees. There are a lot of educated women who work in different industries like STEM, healthcare, and etc. We mainly date for long term goal that ends with marriage. We want to build functional family that will contribute to the society in the future. It’s just our cultures.
Housing, fuel and etc are still considered affordable for most Malaysians. It literally costs 0.4 USD/litre for RON95 fuel, around 8k USD for a brand new local Sedan. It costs around 300USD for a 2 bedroom apartment in the capital city. Our education is free until high school, public universities are extremely cheap and sometimes even fully sponsored for students that come from less fortunate families. Malaysia also offers free healthcare to its citizens or legal residents.
in malaysia people dont use their sexual preferences as their identity here is more conservative and nuclear family oriented morals, whatever sexual stuff we keep behind close doors, its private and not promoted in public. kids innocence is put in a higher priority than peoples political view or sexual desires. yes we do have lgbt here and they move like a normal person in a any society, but they dont boast about it. whatever they do behind close door is their own choice
@@CRUZEOO even in America, it's not like most people are actively talking about their sexual orientation. I think people get the wrong idea about the West from media clips. Loud narcissist people are getting the media attention.
Food hygiene standards in Malaysia are way way higher than Thailand, Indonesia and the rest of Southeast Asia bar Singapore. Malaysia and Singapore have the highest standard of hygiene in Southeast Asia.
True, Msian women mostly highly educated.They dont need upgraded bcos they also used to live n study in western countries.They know well about many people around the world.😊
Yup, our halal certificate required cleanliness of food from raw material to the plates. Regardless of ur race and religion cleanliness is the priority for healthy life and as a muslim we are proud to lead the halal and cleanliness in our daily life. May this will lead to the cleanliness of the environment as well
@@keangwooichoo6138 Just can't help it with the racism dig huh? infact this isn''t so much of a surprise because when I went to Malaysia I found the chinese were the most racist when compared to the malays and the tamils. They always have a chip on their shoulder against anyone thats not white until they visit the west and they themselves get treated subpar by the whites and deservedly so.
He wasnt being racist. That is happening to our women. Last time rich chinese women were courted by 'nigerian prince' & scam millions out of those poor ladies. Nowadays bangla/paki men go after malay widows/divorcees/anak dara tua🤭@@kapow4
As Singaporean who spend more time in KL with Malaysian gf and close friends here, surely Malaysia is far much better cultural society. If you want hateful, salty and impatient culture, travel to Singapore, and you will see it for yourself. 😅
Haha i got my mother's siblings who are SG citizen in Singapore . My mother is Malaysian and borned in Johor before Spore and Msia separated. Truely there good and bad/kiasu people everywhere, but Kiasu in SG is another level far above Malaysia Hahaha
You sure about Singapore being more salty, hateful? As a Malaysian, most of us always troll and screw Singapore as much as possible to the extent I felt some of us are a little salty.
Westerners have to accept the fact that malaysian women are not like philippines, thailand. There is no push and pull factor. Probably financially equal or richer than western men who is looking for a gf. No point. Dating is ok at equal footing. Not gold diggers.
@@realgrilledsushi hey dude i thought that you maybe got that money talk with good ammount of money with some Malays Malaysian Women in Jalan TAR or Chow Kit road in Kuala Lumpur yeah they are soooo gorgeous, hope they fulfilled your satisfactions!!! 🤣🤣🤣😁😁😁🫢!!! Tau Diam aja.
@@realgrilledsushi Sure there will be outliers. However housing, fuel and etc are still considered affordable for most Malaysians. It literally costs 0.4 USD/litre for RON95 fuel, around 8k USD for a brand new local Sedan. It costs around 300USD for a 2 bedroom apartment in the capital city. Our education is free until high school, public universities are extremely cheap and sometimes even fully sponsored for students that come from less fortunate families. Malaysia also offers free healthcare to its citizens or legal residents.
@@realgrilledsushi here is msia? Is it local or Indonesia immigrants ladies? ..check 1st their background but if u need more option just hop to Philippines..easy mail bride there
Yes better check.. legal foreign workers or illegal patis or really local gold diggers. Avoid the head hunters by not boasting your wealth or elevated style of life..
Malaysian is basically quite modern yet still conservative, we still hold on to the religious and cultural values , so relationship with opposite sex is usually in accordance to the cultural/religious value of the local, but of course there are some malaysians who are a little bit liberals but then doesn't mean that they prefer short term relationship, mostly prefer the long term.
Halal certification can be retracted if not clean. Does not matter if it is a fastfood, a packet of snack, bottled ketchup, ramly burger, nasi kandar. For indian and chinese stalls we do not apply for halal logo as it wasn't meant for muslims to eat anyway.
When you say 'chinese women' it can mean 2 things, there's Malaysian Chinese, and there's China Chinese, they are two very different thing, thought I'd mention :,-)
Nah,u got it wrong im muslim and i happen to have lbgt friends and i don't mind at all as long they keep to themself and not force the idea into public just like what the west did
racism in Malaysia ia not about race, it is becoz the different point of view about idea, vission, mission and legal and prohibited in different culture from foreigners that is not fit with Malaysian culture.
Malaysian women prefer to guarantee a lasting relationship rather than a short relationship because they don't want headaches. More than that, the majority of Malaysian women are highly educated and have careers. If you want a short relationship and go away, you can find it in Thailand, the Philippines or in Bali.
Malaysia is a live and let live society if you keep your personal life personal and private. In the west it's all about see me, hear me, accept me when nobody asked or cares until you try to force it upon people, especially children.
Be humble, that is what we ask you for : to european or american tourist, we know that you come from developed countries where generally, every aspect of your socio economic achievement is far greater than us ; the Malaysia. Be nice, kind and humble. - respect our way of life and our culture. We will respect you in return .
I wouldn't call it racism but it is more towards anger, usually towards Bangladesh, Pakistan, Rohingyas people, racism is when you hate people for their skin colour and have prejudice towards them because of it, it is more anger because the nationalities I named, a lot of them came into Malaysia illegally, either by boats illegally or overstayed, not paying taxes, set up stalls illegally and selling stuffs, pretending to be sick and poor and getting free groceries from Malaysia government (Rohingyas), also a lot of them illegally brings in their family members and wives and give birth in Malaysia for free, they would arrived at hospitals and wanting to give birth, the hospitals have no choice but to accept as they are due to give birth, Bangladesh, Myanmar, Rohingyas people do this, all these uses a lot of nations money when these money could be helped towards the poor locals, these people are overpopulating Malaysia illegally and using the nation resources, I think the anger is justified and similar things are occurring in USA with the illegal immigrants using the nation resources and the citizens aren't happy with it. Of course the people who came in legally, people have no problems with them, even the nationalities I named. For Indonesians, people have no problems with them, a lot of them came in illegally and work illegally without passes too, but they are respectful people and rarely create issues, so the locals have no problems with them.
agree. these illegal immigrants memang beri banyak masalah kepada orang Malaysia dan penguatkuasaan undang2 imigrant. Malaysians have no hatred towards any race but when illegal immigrants population makes headaches... whose gonna keep calm about that? any countrimen will react the same or evern worse.
Whike rohingyas and banglas are muslims they are culturally incompatible with the muslim malays, they speak different language and have dufferent cultural practices, indonesians get it easier as they speak similar Malay language and culturally similar. Same as US white who may not liking Mexicans desoute both are Christian but culturally different.
12:24 I dont think western malaysians have any beef with eastern malaysians or vice versa. We get along like families. Some of us are literally families. I think the issue is the Philippines claim Sabah as theirs and that's about it. I'm from Shah Alam, Selangor but personally my favorite city is Kuching, Sarawak.
@@zaki-pq1psSteal? Nah, waste? Yes! Also those resources and yet your race still bitch about the Chinese while your leaders treat you like children and rob you blind😂
@@realgrilledsushi more of Western propaganda or should I say a Caucasian propaganda or maybe I should honestly say "a butt hurt colonial Caucasian seedlings propaganda.." Because most of the bad narrative about West Malaysia and east Malaysia always comes from white color skin that stayed at Borneo maybe they wanted Borneo for themselves and raised again the glory of "white rajah" Just to be clear here.. If we do have beef.. Why many east Malaysian from Sabah and Sarawak working at West Malaysia and do they ever been bother by West Malaysian? No.. Absolutely not.. But the things is those Philippines people that always pretending to be from East Malaysian people are the one we both (east and west Malaysian) having beef with.. Because one rule.. If you are not Malaysian don't ever dare to pretending to be Malaysian. Just accept who you are and don't used "Malaysian citizenship" As your tickets for scamming people all around you and giving a hoax information about Malaysia with their weird attitude and principles.. Which far off from Malaysian especially the east Malaysian people. “capeesh”
my tips for traveller if you guys are afraid of food poisoning eat the local fruits first to get your gut biome ready after a day or two you can dine without worrying of food poisoning
Ben, you are accurate in your observations! As a Malaysian here, I think i appreaciate our country more after listening to you....thank you for bringing things into perspective, even though i had my tertiary education in Canada so in conclusion, Malaysia is best for me...
21:13 Hi Ben, my aged mil from NZ said she would live here forever, if not for the heat and humidity😅😅. But you are absolutely right. Malaysia is a great country but it's not for everyone and that is not the fault of the country nor the person. Likewise, for everywhere else. My husband, as a white foreigner, has adjusted somewhat well here after many years. We live in a totally un-expat area and he still can't used to the heat and rain, mosquitoes and 'brave' motocyclists, yet, he cannot imagine living anywhere else now. The people, the food, the culture - for him, the perks outweighs the cons 😂 Cest la vie. Que sera sera. Love your vibes, Ben.
Racism in Malaysia that is on 'obvious level' is the institutional racism since it is laid out in our constitution - in a way to protect the rights of the 'people of the land'. Right or wrong is another story which I am not able to comprehend let alone voicing out as its the sensitive issues to talk about. Another type of racism is based on political movement to take advantage of whatever benefitted then, as in any part of the world, politic - blood sucking creature. On personal level, do not generalize us Malaysian because to each their own. Sometimes an outburst towards others who coincidentally belongs to different races seen as an act of racism without context - which unnecessary judgement for us to make. As for me myself a Malay. My best friend is Christian Bidayuh (a tribe from East Malaysia). My business partner is Christian Indian (Malaysian). My wife is Chinese Muslim. My in-laws are Chinese Buddhist. My daughters are just confused 😂 but they understood that we are all the same and the differences is just the way of life, be it cultural practice, religious beliefs and everything else up to a sleeping patterns, different, as we all are unique individuals who living among many other unique individuals... there shouldn't be any issue for those who look around, take a step back, and think. Its not worth it to pick one (i.e. race) of the many differences and exploiting it. If we are going to do it, why pick one? Go all they way from race to sleeping pattern, or else its a waste of time to 'venture' into trivial things just for that one particular differences. In fact, there are a lot more similarities than differences between us, so why bother on small differences.
The first paragraph isn't actually racism, it is called Indigenous rights, very much part of democracy. Even full democracy countries like USA, Australia, New Zealand have similar Indigenous rights for its indigenous people, where they get benefits in housing, educations and land. Of course indigenous people always have to fend off immigrant races who demand to have the same rights and have the indigenous rights abolished and called these rights as racism. In New Zealand, Australia too there are people dissatisfied with indigenous rights and wants it to be abolished.
Also Sabah and Sarawak have stricter indigenous rights than Peninsular Malaysia. You even need passport and work visa to work in Sabah, even though you're also Malaysian.
@@TeleeFONE Interesting. I saw this comment by an Australian aboriginal person: Should Aborigines receive special treatment in Australia? No, As an Indigenous Australian (Dharug) myself. I have never supported/understood the Aboriginal Identification boxes within schools and the workplace. They are quite literally the definition of systemic special treatment. As a student whose Aboriginal mother doesn’t choose to tick the boxes, (Because she can, in fact, pay the FULL school fees as a single mum), It is an insult. These “identification” boxes imply two things. One that Indigenous Australians need extra asistance and can’t get in on their own merit. Two that Indigenous Australians are somehow always at a socio-economic disadvantage. These boxes sow division between Australians and actually uphold systems that allow preferential treatment on the basis of race or ethnicity. What is not very well known is that schools actually recieve separate funding on the basis of how many Indigenous students they currently hold. Shameful. This type of seperatism within the educational system isn’t alone, it is also within the housing sector which provides seperate “programs” for Indigenous Australians. In summary, there are proud indigenous people who disagreed with such divisive policy.
@@forytube4998 removing the gaps of rich and poor post-WW2 and during the communists era where British was giving their (stolen from indigenous) assets to their loyal servant, chinese.
1:42 Not surprised you dated two Indonesian women in Malaysia. Outside Indonesia itself, Malaysia has the highest diaspora of Indonesians mostly as migrant workers here. Indeed Malaysia is host to at least 7 million foreign migrant workers in Malaysia from Indonesia, Bangladesh, India, Pakistan, Nepal, Myanmar, Philippines... representing 22% of the country's population and 45% of the workforce.
According to the Malaysian Department of Statistics, there were approximately 3 million migrants living in Malaysia by the end of July 2023, which made up 8.9% of the country’s population of 33.4 million Source: The International Organization for Migration (IOM), UN.
@@tiputertipah9664 Those are the documented/legal migrant workers. However most migrant workers especially from Indonesia are undocumented/illegal or in local phrase PATI (Pendatang Asing Tanpa Izin). Including PATI, the number of at least 7 million foreign workers in Malaysia is from Tun Mahathir's statements/speeches in 2019 when he was PM - you can search Internet for those.
@@khairulanwar5212 Yes I suspect so: 3 million is the number of documented/legal foreign workers registered with Malaysian Immigration. 7 million include both legal and illegal/undocumented foreign workers.
Malaysian women can take care of themselves and do not depend on foreigners to survive. Basically Makaysian women are not hard up of foreign men but they are approachable though
as Malaysian we always welcone every guest or tourist from all the worlds to MALAYSIA..most Malaysian either MALAYS CHINESE INDIAN and others races from east Malaysia we live and happy respect each others...
Have you considered going to a clinic or a hospital to help ease or even treat your allergies ? Healthcare is affordable here, don't worry about the cost.
oh.. taiping is very near my hometown house... if I knew you were there, I would have invited you to take ride with me to some nice places like Bukit Merah Dam (with train crossing it), some villeagers morning market / evening market ... Anyway, enjoy your stay in Malaysia.
I've never experienced eateries serving bad or stale food. The health department is very strict about this. The owner will have his business license revoked or suspended if they receive any complaint from patrons of food outlets.
Thanks for your honest insights- it's very true that people should decide for themselves only upon personal experience rather than simply assume that if it's something someone said online, it must be right for them- more often, it's not at all.
I'm local and I personally don't prefer to go to mamak haha as it is a bit less clean than your usual kopitiams or food courts. Yes, a lot locals do go to mamak as they do provide different type of food varieties.
Ben the way u comments n seeing places not very common people have it. Most people like to have quick guide. That's why they go for the review mostly fr people outside of the country who has been visiting there. Normally when something bad happen to them they straight away comments n post to the social media. When u comments like that with some emotional going on that not a good one. U didn't thinking it's twice. We as Malaysian don't like to be compare with other countries especially our neighbors ( hot topic). We don't bother actually until certain level..😆😆. We don't care not many people want to visit here. If they want to come here , they are welcome. Then let's the country itself do the talk. We don't mind to be called not popular n underated county. We like to be staying like that be a hidden gem of South East Asia.. be happy n enjoy ur traveling life Ben.
Why only men travellers looking to date the local women? The women travellers could be looking to date local men too... but for a short term.. like hit and run, it's not the local culture here in Malaysia😅😅😅
@@theresasidion7256 must be naive girls in sabah. But Malaysians are not as materialistic as the singaporean and Thai ladies- the reason they are easy to get if you are ang mo/falang.
Those places with the trays of food sitting out... Important that there are a lot of people eating not an empty restaurant with those food trays sitting out that's asking for trouble.
Thank you for honest opinions. One thing everyone need to remember about women in Malaysia, they are not throw away diapers. Whatever it is we are not perfect, we are trying hard to be better human being, past, present & future. We stand what we believe, not just plain believe. For today we can see the example around the world when somebody got nothing to stand on, you know what I mean.
I agreed with you bro...most them who make a bad comment about Malaysia they just stay here for a few days or weeks..as your mentioned if they stay more longer in Malaysia then they know how is Malaysia is about..
Welcome to Penang. Have you tried the local Chinese hawker food? We have famous hokkien mee, curry mee, koay teow soup, Char koay teow etc. I suggest you to go and have a try. 😊
People who handled food in Malaysia has to be vaccinated with typhoid. Premises are checked all the time both by the health ministry and the local authority. A food poisoning case is a death sentence for a business.
Well said ben.. good view video.. i hope the city authority do something about unhygienic eateries.. the wet market at Chowkit is so third world very biohazard.. i just wish they could build something thing really beautiful to the same level as those in Barcelona or Istanbul.. the standard of hygiene definitely need to go through some kind of a revolution in Malaysia
Muslim women in Malaysia mostly well educated, they do better than most muslim men in our universities, colleges, and they know of their right under Islamic law.if you are looking for wife materials they are the one of the best muslim women women, but you have to convert to Islam.if you are looking for one night stand or short term partners they are not that kind of things
I'm a local but I don't simply eat at any places. I'm quite particular with cleanliness on how food displayed n prepared at any premises. You know your stomach well, don't eat simply anything.
Malaysia absolutely not a good place for Cassanova..this is why: 1. Malaysia are muslim country...even non muslim girls are not an easy target for something like that.. 2. most single woman are highly educated.. 3. i can say... a little bit picky..😅 4. less desperate because most of them have a nice jobs with a good sallary.. 5.Malaysian Parents always keeping eye on their kids relationship... theyre so curious about the peoples who always hanging out with their kids...especially their single daughters... (i think this is the main reason)
Sexuality is not an issue that can be discussed freely here, it can be said to be sensitive. keep it to yourself. even Tinder application is not common here. if there is any, they keep it for themselves.
Of course it can be discussed, especially on TH-cam, it’s a platform for me to discuss things like this. Tinder and other dating apps are far more common than you think, with both Muslim and non-Muslims.
@@benfishermin i talk about culture... I know everyone use tinder, including here in malaysia... but NOT COMMAN HERE... Thats my point. I never see any dating apps in any phone i see so far...
@@benfishermin and that will not normalized here... As youtuber, you should know who is your audience it... Its not comman, doesnt mean you cant talk about it... But its still sensitive issue...
Hey Ben, a local person here who is keen on exploring my own country. I am planning to explore east coast of west MY in the coming months and if you are happen to be here, let me know if you are keen to join me.
Thank you for your positive comments.. Talking about racial issues.. I think most Malaysian has no issues with foreigners. Except some Bangladeshi and Indonesian came to Malaysia without proper papers and illegal. Some of them are taking over jobs for Malaysian and some are breaking Malaysian rules and local ethics.
Oh no... there's not really clashing between East or West Malaysians😅😅😅😅😅😅. Just some culture differences. I'm an East Malaysian, a Bidayuh who stayed in KL for 20 years now. It's fine just, as usual, internet trolls from both side. For LGBT, there are some. My former housemate are transgender & I'm friends to a few. There's a few cases but most just minding their own business. They're not out OUT but among friends, even conservatives, there's not much of an issue. Just don't go full The 1975, then the government will make some noise. Hope, you'll continue to have good time here. 😊😊
Malaysians are not racist I believe I’m not However it’s only natural that there’re some who are.. If we’re racist then we won’t open up for foreigners to work and live here ❤ Malaysia 🇲🇾
Its common in our life to have a commitment and marriage before relationship it not just Asian thing it very common 50 years back before secular and sexual revolution. Malaysian lady usually are very commited to marriage because they dont want to become a public property and here born without legal marriage status parent will effect children later on both officially and socially. When you talks about NY its make sense these place whats freedom they got freedom, but how about morality? The US use to be a place that quite conservative not so long ago but you pay the price of your freedom. Now the country with most single parent (mother) in the world where children more likely to have free sex follows the parent, it create a circle of abuse, neglect and immorality. Also where are morality , dignity and human values put highly but times goes by everything must have a freedom, then humanity sofficate and now can identify as whatever they wants even as a tree. One can be gay in Malaysia but just dont fight with everyone just to be gay do it at your own premise do not sexualize our kids and the public with any sick agenda.
Let's have a coffee next time when you're in KL. My husband a American - has been here 6 years. You two might find some interesting topics to exchange/chat about.
Don't worry, if it's mamak especially the with lots of customers, the food will be all gone by lunch, if you saw more of those food. They're already refilled the food.
What u were saying are right.People hv to come to the place where they want to settle down, all the places are unique on its own, ln asean we are neighbouring countries hv no issue at all.This region is war free n the culture is appropriate to its people.We hv good relations between neighbours in term of its citizen movement between countries.We hvnt hd any problem bcos our culture are the same only different religion but in common we are the same eastern culture.😊
Are they chinese malaysian or mainland Chinese? Indonesian women better avoid. Muslim women , to marry them have to convert to Islam. But they are family oriented of course.
My father-in-law dated a Thai woman who is Buddhist. He converted to Buddhism to be with her. It’s her requirement so they can go to temple together. He agreed, she’s kind and 40 years younger than my FIL. I even older than her.
As for gays, gays are everywhere of course, even in Afghanistan. There are gays lives together freely in Malaysia, and quite visible in the entertainment industry. The key thing is don't flaunt it, no need big banners telling your preference. I've live here most of my life, not heard anyone charged by being gay here, not like what you hear in Uganda or Zimbabwe.
Hygiene decrease in smaller towns outsidr the citiess..ive been to small towns two hours away frkm KL and grossed by the hygiene at the local eateries that I lost appetite 😅....so avoid dodgy local eateries that dont look clean from outside. In some east coast states i keep to fast food restaurants if im unfamiliar with the local eateries.
Not so much from East vs West Malaysia. The East are not particularly happy with their situation, as they have been abandoned by the federal government but there isn't that much animosity towards individuals. There are racial tensions between Chinese vs Malays though & sometimes Indians too. LGBTQ is fine as long as u don't show PDA. I mean even straight couples don't show PDA. Most people don't approve of homosexuality but we are also very MYOB people. As far as immigrants though, I have to admit that there is prejudice towards them. Many of them are overworked too. Most would work 7 days a week 12 hours per day. Which is shameful how the government has been letting this happen for decades. Malaysia should do better on this issue.
I think the longer Ben is getting used to Malaysian food, his allergies will disappear over time, then we could see him eating nasi kandar WITH rice.😊😂😂
i have a Muslim friend inviting two young American Mormon missionaries to stop by his house and enjoy Hari Raya open house. the two youth smartly dressed with ties welcome the rest while cycling in the heat of the day. these youths go around on bicycles here.
I think west guy would like borneo(east Malaysia) woman since most of them are christian or other religion. They really different from west Malaysia. I see lot of west guy married east Malaysian people than west Malaysia.
Msia is good for family but not solo traveller, however, i dont like westerners settling down here..for tourism myb ok..but permanently, as a local i dont welcome the idea
@@benfishermintrust me we don’t… for traveling is ok but living here? nah.. we still recovering from colonial times. alot of us still don’t trust foreigners bcs different values of life. (alchohol,open sexual relationships and etc)
Malaysia chargers non-resident individuals a 30% tax rate. And this tax money goes to the public infrastructure of Malaysia. Why would you not want foreigners is just ignorance.
@@n0ah4177 to many foreigners in here.. chinese,indian,bangladesh,nepal,other SE asian neighbouring countries and european. it’s gonna be difficult for us to keep our value as muslim. but i still welcome foreigners just don’t want them to be here in large numbers.. that it. no offence✌🏼if european want their value to be protected why can’t we?
There are always certain level of racism and xenophobia in every country but I think what makes Malaysia different is less violent. It seldom gets physical. People get beaten up because of their race is very rare. It goes same with their sexual orientation. The LGBTQ+ scene in KL is not less happening compare to many Western countries. It just never or better not get publicise.
I don't want my country to be known as a place to get cheap women. yes, there is, but not in our culture and I am totally against it. don't compare our country with european countries or thailand. like it or not, accept it as it is.
@@benfishermin what i mean is the perception of most tourists from Europe and the US... especially towards Islamic countries like Malaysia. If you want a girl easily, go to Thailand or the Philippines. please skip malaysia... Who cares how many women have you slept with? still that's not our culture, and I'm not at all proud of that.
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As a Malaysian woman, we are not desperate to date western men or just any man. We have free education until high school and extremely cheap university fees. There are a lot of educated women who work in different industries like STEM, healthcare, and etc. We mainly date for long term goal that ends with marriage. We want to build functional family that will contribute to the society in the future. It’s just our cultures.
Housing, fuel and etc are still considered affordable for most Malaysians. It literally costs 0.4 USD/litre for RON95 fuel, around 8k USD for a brand new local Sedan. It costs around 300USD for a 2 bedroom apartment in the capital city. Our education is free until high school, public universities are extremely cheap and sometimes even fully sponsored for students that come from less fortunate families. Malaysia also offers free healthcare to its citizens or legal residents.
Well said. We are selective we are not hard up to marry a MAT Salleh 😂😂😂
@@gasolina4432malaysian fuel price is like top 10 in the world.
Nice one. U ar not cheaper like that, date do Blabla and go😂😂
What's MAT ? @@Rosie-k3i
in malaysia people dont use their sexual preferences as their identity
here is more conservative and nuclear family oriented morals, whatever sexual stuff we keep behind close doors, its private and not promoted in public. kids innocence is put in a higher priority than peoples political view or sexual desires.
yes we do have lgbt here and they move like a normal person in a any society, but they dont boast about it. whatever they do behind close door is their own choice
@@CRUZEOO even in America, it's not like most people are actively talking about their sexual orientation. I think people get the wrong idea about the West from media clips. Loud narcissist people are getting the media attention.
Make it short.
Malaysia is not promoting sex.
But malaysian love sex😂
HAHAHHA
Not in the open tho😂
Bingo 🤗🤗🤗
Well.. we're not shameless. There's western hypocrisy of normalizing teenage pregnancy and yet shames marriage. Isn't that stupid?
I am Vietnamese and to me Malaysian women are very respectful and educated.
Food hygiene standards in Malaysia are way way higher than Thailand, Indonesia and the rest of Southeast Asia bar Singapore. Malaysia and Singapore have the highest standard of hygiene in Southeast Asia.
True, Msian women mostly highly educated.They dont need upgraded bcos they also used to live n study in western countries.They know well about many people around the world.😊
Yup, our halal certificate required cleanliness of food from raw material to the plates. Regardless of ur race and religion cleanliness is the priority for healthy life and as a muslim we are proud to lead the halal and cleanliness in our daily life. May this will lead to the cleanliness of the environment as well
Agree 100%
You bet
@@Ameng3471agreed
Thank you for being honest about Malaysia. Ladies in Malaysia are mostly educated. Most of them have a secure job.
Some hv inheritance land. That was why bangla illegal immigrants are aiming too on local women in small towns. That is happening.
@@keangwooichoo6138 HAHAHAHAH yup true 🤣🤣
@@keangwooichoo6138 Just can't help it with the racism dig huh? infact this isn''t so much of a surprise because when I went to Malaysia I found the chinese were the most racist when compared to the malays and the tamils. They always have a chip on their shoulder against anyone thats not white until they visit the west and they themselves get treated subpar by the whites and deservedly so.
@@keangwooichoo6138 Just can't help it with the racism dig huh?
He wasnt being racist. That is happening to our women. Last time rich chinese women were courted by 'nigerian prince' & scam millions out of those poor ladies. Nowadays bangla/paki men go after malay widows/divorcees/anak dara tua🤭@@kapow4
As Singaporean who spend more time in KL with Malaysian gf and close friends here, surely Malaysia is far much better cultural society. If you want hateful, salty and impatient culture, travel to Singapore, and you will see it for yourself. 😅
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Dang..😂
Haha i got my mother's siblings who are SG citizen in Singapore . My mother is Malaysian and borned in Johor before Spore and Msia separated. Truely there good and bad/kiasu people everywhere, but Kiasu in SG is another level far above Malaysia Hahaha
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You sure about Singapore being more salty, hateful? As a Malaysian, most of us always troll and screw Singapore as much as possible to the extent I felt some of us are a little salty.
Westerners have to accept the fact that malaysian women are not like philippines, thailand. There is no push and pull factor. Probably financially equal or richer than western men who is looking for a gf. No point. Dating is ok at equal footing. Not gold diggers.
With right amount, money talks😂
@@realgrilledsushi You're describing western girl mate
@@realgrilledsushiyeah.. not unless you associate with those kind of women.. they are every where in the world.. guess you've met lots eyy...
@@realgrilledsushi hey dude i thought that you maybe got that money talk with good ammount of money with some Malays Malaysian Women in Jalan TAR or Chow Kit road in Kuala Lumpur yeah they are soooo gorgeous, hope they fulfilled your satisfactions!!! 🤣🤣🤣😁😁😁🫢!!! Tau Diam aja.
muslim women are more civilized in general, not just in malaysia.
Women here aren't so desperate to date western men to escape poverty.
If they like you, they like you.
Beautiful park btw
Not a place for passport bros 😂
True that’s why they’re desperate for men that will fund their lifestyle🤣
@@realgrilledsushi Sure there will be outliers. However housing, fuel and etc are still considered affordable for most Malaysians. It literally costs 0.4 USD/litre for RON95 fuel, around 8k USD for a brand new local Sedan. It costs around 300USD for a 2 bedroom apartment in the capital city. Our education is free until high school, public universities are extremely cheap and sometimes even fully sponsored for students that come from less fortunate families. Malaysia also offers free healthcare to its citizens or legal residents.
@@realgrilledsushi here is msia? Is it local or Indonesia immigrants ladies? ..check 1st their background but if u need more option just hop to Philippines..easy mail bride there
Yes better check.. legal foreign workers or illegal patis or really local gold diggers. Avoid the head hunters by not boasting your wealth or elevated style of life..
Malaysian is basically quite modern yet still conservative, we still hold on to the religious and cultural values , so relationship with opposite sex is usually in accordance to the cultural/religious value of the local, but of course there are some malaysians who are a little bit liberals but then doesn't mean that they prefer short term relationship, mostly prefer the long term.
Halal certification can be retracted if not clean. Does not matter if it is a fastfood, a packet of snack, bottled ketchup, ramly burger, nasi kandar. For indian and chinese stalls we do not apply for halal logo as it wasn't meant for muslims to eat anyway.
Unless you’re selling halal certified foods
When you say 'chinese women' it can mean 2 things, there's Malaysian Chinese, and there's China Chinese, they are two very different thing, thought I'd mention :,-)
yup most that wok in bars and club are not local Chinese
chinanese
Both type C with different current setting hahaha
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So sorry westerners man.. Malaysian women are not "cheap" as you think.. they are very VALUABLE.. !!!
Malaysians are one of the friendliest people in the world.
Malaysia isn't Thailand or Philippines if you know what I mean.
Nah,u got it wrong im muslim and i happen to have lbgt friends and i don't mind at all as long they keep to themself and not force the idea into public just like what the west did
Yes. I, too, know many lgbts. They know I don't approve of lgbt coz Im a muslim but I accept them as a person. And so they accept me too
racism in Malaysia ia not about race, it is becoz the different point of view about idea, vission, mission and legal and prohibited in different culture from foreigners that is not fit with Malaysian culture.
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Malaysian women prefer to guarantee a lasting relationship rather than a short relationship because they don't want headaches. More than that, the majority of Malaysian women are highly educated and have careers. If you want a short relationship and go away, you can find it in Thailand, the Philippines or in Bali.
Malaysia is a live and let live society if you keep your personal life personal and private. In the west it's all about see me, hear me, accept me when nobody asked or cares until you try to force it upon people, especially children.
Yes, very true!
I like how u put it. Live and let live
Be humble, that is what we ask you for : to european or american tourist, we know that you come from developed countries where generally, every aspect of your socio economic achievement is far greater than us ; the Malaysia. Be nice, kind and humble. - respect our way of life and our culture. We will respect you in return .
Exactly
Don't know why anyone watches this clown, he doesn't even want to integrate with locals
I wouldn't call it racism but it is more towards anger, usually towards Bangladesh, Pakistan, Rohingyas people, racism is when you hate people for their skin colour and have prejudice towards them because of it, it is more anger because the nationalities I named, a lot of them came into Malaysia illegally, either by boats illegally or overstayed, not paying taxes, set up stalls illegally and selling stuffs, pretending to be sick and poor and getting free groceries from Malaysia government (Rohingyas), also a lot of them illegally brings in their family members and wives and give birth in Malaysia for free, they would arrived at hospitals and wanting to give birth, the hospitals have no choice but to accept as they are due to give birth, Bangladesh, Myanmar, Rohingyas people do this, all these uses a lot of nations money when these money could be helped towards the poor locals, these people are overpopulating Malaysia illegally and using the nation resources, I think the anger is justified and similar things are occurring in USA with the illegal immigrants using the nation resources and the citizens aren't happy with it. Of course the people who came in legally, people have no problems with them, even the nationalities I named. For Indonesians, people have no problems with them, a lot of them came in illegally and work illegally without passes too, but they are respectful people and rarely create issues, so the locals have no problems with them.
Exactly.
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agree. these illegal immigrants memang beri banyak masalah kepada orang Malaysia dan penguatkuasaan undang2 imigrant. Malaysians have no hatred towards any race but when illegal immigrants population makes headaches... whose gonna keep calm about that? any countrimen will react the same or evern worse.
Whike rohingyas and banglas are muslims they are culturally incompatible with the muslim malays, they speak different language and have dufferent cultural practices, indonesians get it easier as they speak similar Malay language and culturally similar. Same as US white who may not liking Mexicans desoute both are Christian but culturally different.
Wow you said it as clear as a whistle...
12:24 I dont think western malaysians have any beef with eastern malaysians or vice versa. We get along like families. Some of us are literally families. I think the issue is the Philippines claim Sabah as theirs and that's about it. I'm from Shah Alam, Selangor but personally my favorite city is Kuching, Sarawak.
Nahh in their mind east malaysian still believe west malaysian steal their money😂
My wife is from Sabah. She us educated, a reserve army officer and obviously family. ❤
Oh they do😂 of course on a personal level nobody gonna bitch about it to you
@@zaki-pq1psSteal? Nah, waste? Yes! Also those resources and yet your race still bitch about the Chinese while your leaders treat you like children and rob you blind😂
@@realgrilledsushi more of Western propaganda or should I say a Caucasian propaganda or maybe I should honestly say "a butt hurt colonial Caucasian seedlings propaganda.." Because most of the bad narrative about West Malaysia and east Malaysia always comes from white color skin that stayed at Borneo maybe they wanted Borneo for themselves and raised again the glory of "white rajah"
Just to be clear here.. If we do have beef.. Why many east Malaysian from Sabah and Sarawak working at West Malaysia and do they ever been bother by West Malaysian? No.. Absolutely not.. But the things is those Philippines people that always pretending to be from East Malaysian people are the one we both (east and west Malaysian) having beef with.. Because one rule.. If you are not Malaysian don't ever dare to pretending to be Malaysian. Just accept who you are and don't used "Malaysian citizenship" As your tickets for scamming people all around you and giving a hoax information about Malaysia with their weird attitude and principles.. Which far off from Malaysian especially the east Malaysian people. “capeesh”
Hello MyBrother Ben..gembira melihat anda sihat dan pastikan membawa sebotol air mineral sambil berjalan jalan 😃✌️🤝🇲🇾
Speaking of not judging a ‘book’ by its cover… just rewrite the title in: Why Malaysia is not the place to have one night stands
my tips for traveller if you guys are afraid of food poisoning eat the local fruits first to get your gut biome ready after a day or two you can dine without worrying of food poisoning
If you look for short-term engagement for women, please find at other countries, that do not happen in Malaysia.
It definitely happens but less frequently for sure
Ben, you are accurate in your observations! As a Malaysian here, I think i appreaciate our country more after listening to you....thank you for bringing things into perspective, even though i had my tertiary education in Canada so in conclusion, Malaysia is best for me...
Happy to hear this 😁😁
Also, it's comfortable living here .. where most people understand and speak your language.
21:13 Hi Ben, my aged mil from NZ said she would live here forever, if not for the heat and humidity😅😅. But you are absolutely right. Malaysia is a great country but it's not for everyone and that is not the fault of the country nor the person. Likewise, for everywhere else. My husband, as a white foreigner, has adjusted somewhat well here after many years. We live in a totally un-expat area and he still can't used to the heat and rain, mosquitoes and 'brave' motocyclists, yet, he cannot imagine living anywhere else now. The people, the food, the culture - for him, the perks outweighs the cons 😂 Cest la vie. Que sera sera. Love your vibes, Ben.
How you verbalise your thoughts and opinions is refreshing. Very honest and perceptive. Thanks for speaking with facts and understanding❤🎉
Racism in Malaysia that is on 'obvious level' is the institutional racism since it is laid out in our constitution - in a way to protect the rights of the 'people of the land'. Right or wrong is another story which I am not able to comprehend let alone voicing out as its the sensitive issues to talk about. Another type of racism is based on political movement to take advantage of whatever benefitted then, as in any part of the world, politic - blood sucking creature.
On personal level, do not generalize us Malaysian because to each their own. Sometimes an outburst towards others who coincidentally belongs to different races seen as an act of racism without context - which unnecessary judgement for us to make.
As for me myself a Malay. My best friend is Christian Bidayuh (a tribe from East Malaysia). My business partner is Christian Indian (Malaysian). My wife is Chinese Muslim. My in-laws are Chinese Buddhist. My daughters are just confused 😂 but they understood that we are all the same and the differences is just the way of life, be it cultural practice, religious beliefs and everything else up to a sleeping patterns, different, as we all are unique individuals who living among many other unique individuals... there shouldn't be any issue for those who look around, take a step back, and think. Its not worth it to pick one (i.e. race) of the many differences and exploiting it. If we are going to do it, why pick one? Go all they way from race to sleeping pattern, or else its a waste of time to 'venture' into trivial things just for that one particular differences. In fact, there are a lot more similarities than differences between us, so why bother on small differences.
The first paragraph isn't actually racism, it is called Indigenous rights, very much part of democracy. Even full democracy countries like USA, Australia, New Zealand have similar Indigenous rights for its indigenous people, where they get benefits in housing, educations and land. Of course indigenous people always have to fend off immigrant races who demand to have the same rights and have the indigenous rights abolished and called these rights as racism. In New Zealand, Australia too there are people dissatisfied with indigenous rights and wants it to be abolished.
@@TeleeFONEexplain new economic policies 😊
Also Sabah and Sarawak have stricter indigenous rights than Peninsular Malaysia.
You even need passport and work visa to work in Sabah, even though you're also Malaysian.
@@TeleeFONE Interesting. I saw this comment by an Australian aboriginal person:
Should Aborigines receive special treatment in Australia?
No, As an Indigenous Australian (Dharug) myself. I have never supported/understood the Aboriginal Identification boxes within schools and the workplace. They are quite literally the definition of systemic special treatment.
As a student whose Aboriginal mother doesn’t choose to tick the boxes, (Because she can, in fact, pay the FULL school fees as a single mum), It is an insult. These “identification” boxes imply two things. One that Indigenous Australians need extra asistance and can’t get in on their own merit. Two that Indigenous Australians are somehow always at a socio-economic disadvantage.
These boxes sow division between Australians and actually uphold systems that allow preferential treatment on the basis of race or ethnicity. What is not very well known is that schools actually recieve separate funding on the basis of how many Indigenous students they currently hold. Shameful. This type of seperatism within the educational system isn’t alone, it is also within the housing sector which provides seperate “programs” for Indigenous Australians.
In summary, there are proud indigenous people who disagreed with such divisive policy.
@@forytube4998 removing the gaps of rich and poor post-WW2 and during the communists era where British was giving their (stolen from indigenous) assets to their loyal servant, chinese.
1:42 Not surprised you dated two Indonesian women in Malaysia. Outside Indonesia itself, Malaysia has the highest diaspora of Indonesians mostly as migrant workers here. Indeed Malaysia is host to at least 7 million foreign migrant workers in Malaysia from Indonesia, Bangladesh, India, Pakistan, Nepal, Myanmar, Philippines... representing 22% of the country's population and 45% of the workforce.
According to the Malaysian Department of Statistics, there were approximately 3 million migrants living in Malaysia by the end of July 2023, which made up 8.9% of the country’s population of 33.4 million
Source: The International Organization for Migration (IOM), UN.
@@tiputertipah9664 Those are the documented/legal migrant workers. However most migrant workers especially from Indonesia are undocumented/illegal or in local phrase PATI (Pendatang Asing Tanpa Izin). Including PATI, the number of at least 7 million foreign workers in Malaysia is from Tun Mahathir's statements/speeches in 2019 when he was PM - you can search Internet for those.
@@tiputertipah9664 The figure of at least 7 million foreign workers is from Tun Mahathir said in 2019 when he was PM.
3mil legal balloons to 7 mil including the illegals.
@@khairulanwar5212 Yes I suspect so: 3 million is the number of documented/legal foreign workers registered with Malaysian Immigration. 7 million include both legal and illegal/undocumented foreign workers.
Malaysian women can take care of themselves and do not depend on foreigners to survive. Basically Makaysian women are not hard up of foreign men but they are approachable though
as Malaysian we always welcone every guest or tourist from all the worlds to MALAYSIA..most Malaysian either MALAYS CHINESE INDIAN and others races from east Malaysia we live and happy respect each others...
Yes seems overall quite peaceful and welcoming
Have you considered going to a clinic or a hospital to help ease or even treat your allergies ? Healthcare is affordable here, don't worry about the cost.
oh.. taiping is very near my hometown house... if I knew you were there, I would have invited you to take ride with me to some nice places like Bukit Merah Dam (with train crossing it), some villeagers morning market / evening market ... Anyway, enjoy your stay in Malaysia.
I've never experienced eateries serving bad or stale food. The health department is very strict about this. The owner will have his business license revoked or suspended if they receive any complaint from patrons of food outlets.
For 2 months of living here, i'm amazed at the accuracy of your perspective. Enjoy your stay. Great video.
Thanks for your honest insights- it's very true that people should decide for themselves only upon personal experience rather than simply assume that if it's something someone said online, it must be right for them- more often, it's not at all.
I'm local and I personally don't prefer to go to mamak haha as it is a bit less clean than your usual kopitiams or food courts.
Yes, a lot locals do go to mamak as they do provide different type of food varieties.
Tikus makan ayam mamak baekk punya
Ben the way u comments n seeing places not very common people have it. Most people like to have quick guide. That's why they go for the review mostly fr people outside of the country who has been visiting there. Normally when something bad happen to them they straight away comments n post to the social media. When u comments like that with some emotional going on that not a good one. U didn't thinking it's twice. We as Malaysian don't like to be compare with other countries especially our neighbors ( hot topic). We don't bother actually until certain level..😆😆. We don't care not many people want to visit here. If they want to come here , they are welcome. Then let's the country itself do the talk. We don't mind to be called not popular n underated county. We like to be staying like that be a hidden gem of South East Asia.. be happy n enjoy ur traveling life Ben.
Why only men travellers looking to date the local women? The women travellers could be looking to date local men too... but for a short term.. like hit and run, it's not the local culture here in Malaysia😅😅😅
Kalau ada boleh handle ke bang? Hancur ko kang 😂😂
Ada bro.. Usually the hotel workers or the local tour guides.. Happened in Sabah..
@@theresasidion7256 must be naive girls in sabah. But Malaysians are not as materialistic as the singaporean and Thai ladies- the reason they are easy to get if you are ang mo/falang.
we are MALAY WOMEN! but yes there are few of indonesian women. but in MALAYSIA the citizen women in Malaysia are MALAY WOMEN! Thanks!
Those places with the trays of food sitting out... Important that there are a lot of people eating not an empty restaurant with those food trays sitting out that's asking for trouble.
Thank you for honest opinions.
One thing everyone need to remember about women in Malaysia, they are not throw away diapers. Whatever it is we are not perfect, we are trying hard to be better human being, past, present & future. We stand what we believe, not just plain believe. For today we can see the example around the world when somebody got nothing to stand on, you know what I mean.
VERY informative and thoughtful. I have HIGH respect for you, for caring about giving information., Benjamin. ~ Tazzz ~
I'm glad you watch and enjoy my stuff man, your support is much appreciated!
@@benfishermin ur welcome. I got you. I believe in you. 😏
I agreed with you bro...most them who make a bad comment about Malaysia they just stay here for a few days or weeks..as your mentioned if they stay more longer in Malaysia then they know how is Malaysia is about..
I think the longer you spend here the more you will enjoy it. The more places I visit and more people I meet, it makes me like it even more.
I like the background ambience you are in. So gorgeous❤
Welcome to Penang. Have you tried the local Chinese hawker food? We have famous hokkien mee, curry mee, koay teow soup, Char koay teow etc. I suggest you to go and have a try. 😊
People who handled food in Malaysia has to be vaccinated with typhoid. Premises are checked all the time both by the health ministry and the local authority. A food poisoning case is a death sentence for a business.
Conclusion: Malaysians are more educated hence its not like Cambodia/ Philippine / indo / thai
Keep up the good work mate.
Well said ben.. good view video.. i hope the city authority do something about unhygienic eateries.. the wet market at Chowkit is so third world very biohazard.. i just wish they could build something thing really beautiful to the same level as those in Barcelona or Istanbul.. the standard of hygiene definitely need to go through some kind of a revolution in Malaysia
Try to learn what Islam is while you are in Malaysia.you'll be surprise that it is not the same as perpetuated by western media.
Muslim women in Malaysia mostly well educated, they do better than most muslim men in our universities, colleges, and they know of their right under Islamic law.if you are looking for wife materials they are the one of the best muslim women women, but you have to convert to Islam.if you are looking for one night stand or short term partners they are not that kind of things
I'm a local but I don't simply eat at any places. I'm quite particular with cleanliness on how food displayed n prepared at any premises. You know your stomach well, don't eat simply anything.
Malaysia absolutely not a good place for Cassanova..this is why:
1. Malaysia are muslim country...even non muslim girls are not an easy target for something like that..
2. most single woman are highly educated..
3. i can say... a little bit picky..😅
4. less desperate because most of them have a nice jobs with a good sallary..
5.Malaysian Parents always keeping eye on their kids relationship...
theyre so curious about the peoples who always hanging out with their kids...especially their single daughters...
(i think this is the main reason)
Sexuality is not an issue that can be discussed freely here, it can be said to be sensitive. keep it to yourself. even Tinder application is not common here. if there is any, they keep it for themselves.
Of course it can be discussed, especially on TH-cam, it’s a platform for me to discuss things like this. Tinder and other dating apps are far more common than you think, with both Muslim and non-Muslims.
@@benfishermin i talk about culture... I know everyone use tinder, including here in malaysia... but NOT COMMAN HERE... Thats my point. I never see any dating apps in any phone i see so far...
@@benfishermin comman to ppls like you, but not for us... As simple as that... I never proud if my country easy dating or not...
@@benfishermin and that will not normalized here... As youtuber, you should know who is your audience it... Its not comman, doesnt mean you cant talk about it... But its still sensitive issue...
Just my 2 cents opinion, pls avoid any sensitive issues... Especially here in malaysia... Accept it or not, up to you...
You should come to Sabah.. Esp. 30th and 31st May for the Harvest Festival..
Hey Ben, a local person here who is keen on exploring my own country. I am planning to explore east coast of west MY in the coming months and if you are happen to be here, let me know if you are keen to join me.
Thank you for your positive comments.. Talking about racial issues.. I think most Malaysian has no issues with foreigners. Except some Bangladeshi and Indonesian came to Malaysia without proper papers and illegal. Some of them are taking over jobs for Malaysian and some are breaking Malaysian rules and local ethics.
Oh no... there's not really clashing between East or West Malaysians😅😅😅😅😅😅. Just some culture differences. I'm an East Malaysian, a Bidayuh who stayed in KL for 20 years now. It's fine just, as usual, internet trolls from both side.
For LGBT, there are some. My former housemate are transgender & I'm friends to a few. There's a few cases but most just minding their own business. They're not out OUT but among friends, even conservatives, there's not much of an issue.
Just don't go full The 1975, then the government will make some noise.
Hope, you'll continue to have good time here. 😊😊
hi ben. nice to listen to your comment. you picked ur words carefully and u talked at good pace making it easy for ur viewers.
enjoy Malaysia.
Thanks a lot my friend!
Malaysians are not racist
I believe
I’m not
However it’s only natural that there’re some who are..
If we’re racist then we won’t open up for foreigners to work and live here
❤ Malaysia 🇲🇾
I agree .. it depends where you put yourself.. blending in wisely
Since you like to walk, try Ketumbar hill hiking. Plenty of nice people especially in the morning & lots of things to see. You will like it.
Its common in our life to have a commitment and marriage before relationship it not just Asian thing it very common 50 years back before secular and sexual revolution. Malaysian lady usually are very commited to marriage because they dont want to become a public property and here born without legal marriage status parent will effect children later on both officially and socially. When you talks about NY its make sense these place whats freedom they got freedom, but how about morality? The US use to be a place that quite conservative not so long ago but you pay the price of your freedom. Now the country with most single parent (mother) in the world where children more likely to have free sex follows the parent, it create a circle of abuse, neglect and immorality. Also where are morality , dignity and human values put highly but times goes by everything must have a freedom, then humanity sofficate and now can identify as whatever they wants even as a tree. One can be gay in Malaysia but just dont fight with everyone just to be gay do it at your own premise do not sexualize our kids and the public with any sick agenda.
Thank you for sharing your story..#loveyoubro
No problem glad you enjoyed
Food handlers in Malaysia have to go for health checks and specific food handlers vaccinations... and they attend training.
Let's have a coffee next time when you're in KL. My husband a American - has been here 6 years. You two might find some interesting topics to exchange/chat about.
Lol man's anti social good luck with that
@@orkidzma lol 🤣 Yup, realized that! Not my lost.
I agree about the hygiene issue in that particular outlets. But some places are up there, standard wise.
There are definitely still many people around the world that don't have adequate knowledge about Malaysia.
Don't worry, if it's mamak especially the with lots of customers, the food will be all gone by lunch, if you saw more of those food. They're already refilled the food.
What u were saying are right.People hv to come to the place where they want to settle down, all the places are unique on its own, ln asean we are neighbouring countries hv no issue at all.This region is war free n the culture is appropriate to its people.We hv good relations between neighbours in term of its citizen movement between countries.We hvnt hd any problem bcos our culture are the same only different religion but in common we are the same eastern culture.😊
Are they chinese malaysian or mainland Chinese? Indonesian women better avoid. Muslim women , to marry them have to convert to Islam. But they are family oriented of course.
My father-in-law dated a Thai woman who is Buddhist. He converted to Buddhism to be with her. It’s her requirement so they can go to temple together. He agreed, she’s kind and 40 years younger than my FIL. I even older than her.
As for gays, gays are everywhere of course, even in Afghanistan. There are gays lives together freely in Malaysia, and quite visible in the entertainment industry. The key thing is don't flaunt it, no need big banners telling your preference. I've live here most of my life, not heard anyone charged by being gay here, not like what you hear in Uganda or Zimbabwe.
😮 incredible to see how you can do a video under the scorching sun 🌞
Can you share at which park were you doing this vlog?
Try, visiting Port Dickson, beach in Negeri Sembilan (N9) , it's nice
Wow Ben, you're walking in Central Park of Malaysia
Which park is this?
Taman Dusun Bandar
Is there any Algerian living in KL currently? Need some information about sending money to Algeria from Malaysia. Plz if anyone's knows it .
Hygiene decrease in smaller towns outsidr the citiess..ive been to small towns two hours away frkm KL and grossed by the hygiene at the local eateries that I lost appetite 😅....so avoid dodgy local eateries that dont look clean from outside. In some east coast states i keep to fast food restaurants if im unfamiliar with the local eateries.
In which park did you shoot this video? Thanks
Hi Ben, continue pursuing the things that inspire you and remain positive about the beautiful things in life!
Not so much from East vs West Malaysia. The East are not particularly happy with their situation, as they have been abandoned by the federal government but there isn't that much animosity towards individuals. There are racial tensions between Chinese vs Malays though & sometimes Indians too. LGBTQ is fine as long as u don't show PDA. I mean even straight couples don't show PDA. Most people don't approve of homosexuality but we are also very MYOB people. As far as immigrants though, I have to admit that there is prejudice towards them. Many of them are overworked too. Most would work 7 days a week 12 hours per day. Which is shameful how the government has been letting this happen for decades. Malaysia should do better on this issue.
I think the longer Ben is getting used to Malaysian food, his allergies will disappear over time, then we could see him eating nasi kandar WITH rice.😊😂😂
Ben get a malaysian wife who can cook and you’re set for life😂
i have a Muslim friend inviting two young American Mormon missionaries to stop by his house and enjoy Hari Raya open house. the two youth smartly dressed with ties welcome the rest while cycling in the heat of the day. these youths go around on bicycles here.
Very nice park. What is the name is this park please?
Malaysian food handlers are required to be vaccinated so as to ensure that they don’t have infectious disease.
I think west guy would like borneo(east Malaysia) woman since most of them are christian or other religion. They really different from west Malaysia. I see lot of west guy married east Malaysian people than west Malaysia.
I can't wait to check out east Malaysia soon!
May i know that place u are here ? Soooo peacefull
Try go to sabah & sarawak, borneo side of malaysia. I sure you find a different 'feel' compare to peninsular malaysia.
Msia is good for family but not solo traveller, however, i dont like westerners settling down here..for tourism myb ok..but permanently, as a local i dont welcome the idea
That's strange, almost all Malaysians welcome foreigners to live here with open arms. What's your reasoning?
@@benfishermintrust me we don’t… for traveling is ok but living here? nah.. we still recovering from colonial times. alot of us still don’t trust foreigners bcs different values of life. (alchohol,open sexual relationships and etc)
Malaysia chargers non-resident individuals a 30% tax rate. And this tax money goes to the public infrastructure of Malaysia. Why would you not want foreigners is just ignorance.
@@n0ah4177 to many foreigners in here.. chinese,indian,bangladesh,nepal,other SE asian neighbouring countries and european. it’s gonna be difficult for us to keep our value as muslim. but i still welcome foreigners just don’t want them to be here in large numbers.. that it. no offence✌🏼if european want their value to be protected why can’t we?
Interesting topic..
About racism in the comments. They are actually is just a few and same person that go everywhere in youtube/social media and making a racist comments.
Good to know, I should just block these kind of people from now on
There are always certain level of racism and xenophobia in every country but I think what makes Malaysia different is less violent. It seldom gets physical. People get beaten up because of their race is very rare. It goes same with their sexual orientation. The LGBTQ+ scene in KL is not less happening compare to many Western countries. It just never or better not get publicise.
It take 2 or 3 month for us to change or accept the new life ..
Night life...most of them are NOT Malaysian....😂😂😂😂
I don't want my country to be known as a place to get cheap women. yes, there is, but not in our culture and I am totally against it. don't compare our country with european countries or thailand. like it or not, accept it as it is.
That’s exactly what I said in the video, it’s not a place to come and pick up women. Maybe you misunderstood.
@@benfishermin what i mean is the perception of most tourists from Europe and the US... especially towards Islamic countries like Malaysia. If you want a girl easily, go to Thailand or the Philippines. please skip malaysia... Who cares how many women have you slept with? still that's not our culture, and I'm not at all proud of that.
@@benfishermin Sexuality is not an issue that can be discussed freely here, it can be said to be sensitive.