I was told all the same crap.. "she only wants you for a green card", and "She will take all your money and house in five years" My response was, 'Well, it will be a great 5 years. :) Well, I was married before to an American woman closer to my age, and she took my money and almost my house...in 5 years. I have been married to my Filipina for 14 years and we have a 30-year gap. Additionally, when she first came to the US and we would go shopping, I noticed a couple of women (older American women) look at me with a disgusted look, but conversely, I saw men look at me, smile and give me a thumbs up!
My sons mom is 17 years younger. I have seen the look from older women. I deal with it by grabbing a hand full of but and pulling her close to me. The look quickly turns to disgust and we get a good laugh out of it.
Your relationship is probably an exception. I mean you’re delusional if you really think young women are attracted to old men with beer bellies 🤮🤮🤮most of the time we get with y’all cause you’re desperate and we want a man to take care of us. Or she’s waiting on you to pass so she can marry a younger Attractive guy 😂
@@fauxque5057 I live in Canada. Superb way to deal with the green eyes of envy from Western women who likely aged out in their 20's. I am 57, retiring soon and will likely head to Thailand. My best friend's first wife was a "Western" " Modern Woman". Enough said on that. He is married to Thai now. He has never been happier, nor more supported, loved or looked after. She works but he supports her financially. She is very good with money and looks after the budget, etc. When I tell my female friends I am heading to Thailand, they call me a pervert, and they are all Gold Diggers, etc. I smile softly and laugh. My uncle was 57 when he first got married, to a Filipina. She was 40. They had a son together. He passed away at 63, but they were the best years of his life, he told my mom. Keep grabbing her but and pulling her close, my friend. Enjoy the connection you have with the woman you cherish.
She can talk the talk but they have "been together" for 3 years yet only spent 30 days together. None of her opinions are based on any kind of reality or real experience. They are both just living a fantasy. Find a young woman who's been with an older guy for real in a settled life and interview her. She will be able to give some real insights on it.
Speaking from experience (found my Filipina wife) 18 years ago. I was 32 and my American wife left me because she was unhappy. I found my Filipina wife in my business travels to the Philippines. She was an absolute breath of fresh air. She was 22 and very sexy, fit, feminine , kind, appreciative. Nowadays they call that "Traditional". It was the first time I have experienced a woman with that type of energy. She is supportive, understand each others roles in a relationship and never take each other for granted. I can not tell you the peacefulness that she has brought into my life. We now have 2 boys 14 & 16. She is still unbelievably fit and sexy and our intimacy has never been an issue because she understands the needs of her man and I understand her needs. Women in the Philippines prefer older men because they want a experienced man who can teach them different aspects of life because they value experience and a strong man to build a family and life with.
BOOM!!!...thats what every man wants both you and me found these special women in Philippines....western culture has destroyed the traditional woman.......my age gap is 22 yr difference and we both very happily married over 10yrs
O I am 100 percent with you on this..American women have been destroyed by the liberal \Demonic Communist ideals. I stay far away from those and I have found peace in Filipinas that are 23 to 40 years old they all pretty much retained the traditional roles. I would never even consider going with American Girl ever if ever again.
That peaceful feeling 🙏🏽 You know you are home. This is where you are supposed to be. Nearly impossible with a modern “girl boss” woman on her journey.
I live in Colombia, not the Philippines, but we also have this issue. All of the people in the US think my wife is a Gold-digger, but we actually have the best relationship I have ever had. If you are stuck in a rut, it's just a long-term coffin. Be open-minded and explore the world.
Well, we would have to see your physical appearance, your wife's, know your age, her age, to judge if those people are right. If you are in Colombia and she is very young and you are old, she is definitely a g-digger. The relationship you might be having is that of a G-digger and a naive old man. Might be the best relationship you've ever had, but not hers. I'm sorry man. I'm just keeping it real here. I'm also Latino 100% not just some watered-down Latino in the US.
Yea i had a colombiana that lived in my home town , drop dead gorgeous, no language barrier I’m fluent in spanish and her English is very good, we would go to Colombia together, unfortunately she had Columbia bf’s with other issues, so i found someone else and left her
My Filipina wife is 25 years younger than me I met her in my home country Norway she is a 10 and she has a university education from her home country and she comes from a family that doesn't need my money either, I have never sent money to them. We have now been together for 6 years and married for 5 years, we moved down to the Philippines but went home when covid came, then we had a daughter who is 3 years old today And we live in Norway because I want her to grow up here at home. I am 61 years old and my wife is 36 years old. I have grown children and grandchildren who are older than my own daughter now. But we have a great time together and my wife is the best thing that ever happened to me.
I love the interview with this girl. She is intelligent, real and sincere and she is genuine in her heart and her personality. I like that she and her boyfriend have quality common sense with their relationship. I pray and sincerely hope I can find a beautiful woman like her when I come there. I hope you have more interviews with educated filipino women like her. Thank you for quality videos.
Wow, this young woman seems very mature and smart for her young age. I am very surprised. She seems very genuine and sincere. She provided excellent advice to expats seeking a relationship in the PHs. She is definitely a special woman. Her heart seems to be in the right place. God bless her.
What a special young woman. Its difficult at that age to see through all the smoke and mirrors society throws out. Relationships mostly come and go. Just enjoy them while they last and enjoy life. I was in my 40's before i figured that out.
I like old guys that send me money …I’ve been with my “partner” for 60 days in three years ..I find fat old guys attractive..I don’t want to get married ..I want to live in another country ..😂 she’s not delusional..she fully paid up member of the space cadets ..the German is delusional 😂
Well, like finds like. The man, her older BF, "I'm not delusional. I CAN date much younger women. I'm special!" You know, ALL geniuses who've disrupted humanity were considered delusional in their time, because they were ahead of the crowd of sheep.
Places like Philippines, woman grow up faster than western woman. They realize in an early age that what you need is more important than what you want in life.
Plus they're making sh!t outta bamboo with just a long knife growing up. They understand reality, unlike Western girls who are all in the head easily swayed by propaganda and silly ideals, all abstract and not based here on Planet Earth.
They grow up faster but more importantly they grow up with better values and they hold things important that actually matter vs western women who these days seem to all just want to be naked online and have guys buy them stuff.
Good perspective. I respect her points. Maybe most young Filipinas or even matured ones when found someone who really respects and love them can be very loyal and love and serve their men in a very traditional way.
Unless you have been to the Philippines and experienced these ladies you can not judge them .. Their culture is way different .. This lady is well educated and has ethics , this is the type you should be looking for ..
So she’s not been supported by the guy in three years..they’ve only been together for 60 days in three years lol and she does not want commitment in a relationship..and go out of the country to work. 😂 meal ticket ..
@@ohigho9717 Yeah that’s a good point, never thought of that..but I’m sure they talk and a chat 💬 on FaceTime etc …!?!?..she thinks she’s the player lol
@@ohigho9717 I think you are spot on having doubts as to this German biophysicist’s marital status. Not saying he’s married but if he isn’t, you would have thought he would have swept her off her feet by now.
Very interesting. This is a highly educated filipina who doesn't need a foreigner to go out of country for work. I travel extensively to hospitals across the U.S and see all types of filipino/filipina professionals that are recruited to the U.S. by various hospitals. I'm starting to see this in Education, as well, with licensed teachers being brought to small towns in the U.S. because they can't find local prospects. Someone would be fortunate indeed to land a Filipina like this.
@@Animeow08 That is true. I live in Florida and we have an agency nearby that imports Filipina nurses. I asked them to post my bio on the bulletin board for any nurses looking for an American bf. No interest at all. They are here now. Why would they need me?
@@wildbill562 All my coworkers who are Filipina nurses are MARRIED. Some will say that they're single but when questioned further, they admit that they're separated but technically still married because divorce is illegal in the Philippines. People marry young in the Philippines & divorce is illegal.
Marrying for money is like buying a car because the price is right. It’s true that you were looking in a certain value range, but you picked it because you liked it. Money is one of many factors. Always!
Another old goat donating money. How did she manage without you? Maybe you can give your money to me instead. I will tell you that you are a great old fool, as many times as you want to hear it. hahah.
I liked the comment about Christian Filipina as that is where I met my mate. We started out video chatting 3 times a day for 2 hours each session. Eventually I had to cut back to 1 hour because of the time difference. We did this for two years prior to me coming to the Philippines so it was very natural for us to be together after that. She sold her house and store and bought the property we live on and I am building the house we are living in even though it's not finished. We are also building a farm on the property and our love continues on.
My girlfriend will be 28 the same day I turn 45. I’ve had a lot of relationships and she is the first woman to make me laugh every day. It doesn’t hurt that she is gorgeous, well educated, and kind as well. That all makes me happy, but her humor makes me overjoyed.
This is a great interview and she seems so genuine and sweet, much like my girlfriend. I however am not much on the large age gap thing but she made sense of how she thinks. I'm 50, my woman is 48 with 2 girls (21&23) & an adopted son (10). She works in Dubai as an event organizer. We started talking in July of 2023. Has a car, her own house and supports them on her own. Spent 2 weeks with her and her family in her province for Christmas and New Year's. They are the greatest people I have ever met in my life. I can say with absolute certainty that I am in love with her and her family. They welcomed me to be part of their family almost immediately and ask nothing of me but to spend time laughing with them. I will definitely marry her. I have been trashed by American women my entire life, never again. The "Sweet" American woman i was married to for 10 years was nothing but a liar and cheater. Just used me for money like all the other American women i had been with. Filipinas are the real deal, they are loyal and sweet. Just like anywhere in the world you will have bad apples......but America is FULL OF THEM. The Filipino people i met on my trip are the most good hearted, polite, and hard working people i have ever met. They have the best family values also. I look forward to being part of their family hopefully for the rest of a long life. I was very fortunate to have met her and her family. Her mother did a great job raising her daughters to be such great women and have the values that they do. #thefilipinaway
Your comments are truly touching and very accurate especially regarding American women. Most are exactly as you described. My Doctor Brother married an American woman and two years later went through a Divorce from Hell in which she wiped him out financially in every conceivable way. My own first marriage was a nightmare but I became wiser and found and married a woman from Mexico who I would trust with my life. There is a large age gap which does not bother us in any way. Marry your new Soulmate and may you both enjoy a long and healthy life together with much joy and many happy days spent together and with her wonderful Family.
smart gal, that's the number one thing I luv about Filipinas, they are "Old-School" INTELLIGENT! They have common sense and that's because of their Christian wisdom, they obey God and that brings them good things in life!
Been married to my wife for 5 years, been together for 7. She's 27 years younger. What she is saying is spot on with what my wife says about marrying me.
She is exceptional. I think a foreigner would do what ever it takes to be with her. It comes down to the 3 sss. Smart, sweet and sexy. The maturity for her age makes her special.
@@bradleymiller7375 lol ya think a Filipina obviously so clued up is not playing the field. I’m actually shocked at the naivety of some guys ..I’ve got a 100 awful stories of “relationships”, here in the phil’s. For a Christian country ..there attitude to sex and promiscuous behaviour and money is wild…sometimes.
@@Eric-qm5xwthing is, good women don’t go out with foreigners. Only the ones who want to secure a future is daring enough to do it. I’ve lived in the Philippines and I have virgin friends who just went out with their local men. The more materialistic ones look for easy targets like older white men
It's around the world thing since old times. Like some old rich/broke kings, prince, chieftains, datus, rich, etc marrying young gals. The average foreigner is richer/green card than the average local. Old Catholic priests in Pinas decades/centuries ago had multiple young gf/wives.
She is smart, articulate, and doesn’t let society decide what is right for her. She is blazing her own trail in life and she will be happy because of it.
I educated my Filipina fiancé. I did this to lift her and her daughter out of poverty and have a future for her child. She has two yaya with fatherless kids, i plan to adopt these as they live on our farm and are as much family as our ( her daughter ). The age difference is 35 years. We have been together from before COVID. I retire this year and will start our / my last adventure from there. As I can only own 40% of a business, the yayas and her will share 60%. The adopted kids will continue to have education as well as siblings in a larger family and never have to answer “who’s your daddy!” Explaining multiple mommies will be differen!
Great interview. Great thoughts on marriage. Marriage is not words on paper or a public ceremony with witnesses. Marriage occurs over time with shared experiences in the hearts of the couple.
48 year age gap... Been together 6 years, the last 12 months in Australia together... Yes it can work... Never been happier and all my close friends and family support us!... Every case is different.... Lynn is working in Australia to support her family not me! Just been for a Thai dinner to celebrate 1 year in Australia together... Good luck to all!
What an absolute champion, after watching 100's of these videos, this was the greatest one yet, what a very switched on, focused and real young woman, the world is her oyster.. Philippines first female 🤔 Prime minister 🥇
In my experience, the Filipinos are not as acceptable about the idea of foreign age gap relationships as many people suggest. It’s just that the majority of Filipinos are very reserved in broadcasting their opinions to the public. We encountered two major situations regarding me and my Filipinas age gap, she 26 me 54 during my 5yrs living there. They did not confront me personally but confronted her. Most of them that are accepted by the family is because the money factor only.
Her use of the word “dominance” is strange to hear to the western man. Society has screamed at him that “me too” and the patriarchy is THE evil in the world. But that framing is wrong. Dominance is mentorship. Generous with your time and words. Kindness. Provider and protector. Kindness. “Just for your money” is indeed “so bad” because innocence can’t be owned. If you can buy it, it’s not innocence. Don’t be naive to scammers but also don’t be naive to innocence. If she is receptive, you be surprised only because western women have trained you that this is evil. It’s the opposite ❤
What a good and wise lady. I was in manila and the taxi driver was chatting with his filipina when i came into the cab. He wad 75years old and she was 20. They had a child together. It was not a problem and the 2 were in love. So whats the problem? Filipinos are not judgemental as the West. Great job girl
my fiance is 9 year age gap. we ended up falling in love unexpectedly, i wanst even on a dating site or app. just mutual friend on facebook i saw her and thought she was really pretty. and started chatting her. we started out as friends for like 5 months because there was a girl i was dating here in the USA at the time. but we broke up so I started chatting with the filipina more and we ended up falling in love and I found out she had her own business in Sabah, Malaysia. so we finally were able to meet 2 months ago in Philippines. she is incredibly busy woman. we both split costs in philippines so shes far from a scammer. we plan to eventually get married but its gonna take some time because shes to busy with her business and needs to find someone that can manage things for her in malaysia.
You found a needle in the haystack. This girl sounds like one of Charles Manson's wives. She has an answer for everything. She's been brainwashed by her philosopher bf. I'm glad she is not my daughter. It can happen to anyone no matter how smart they are.
Many men fear getting involved w a much younger woman but she demonstrates why it can work. It doesn't matter if u are at different life stages when u respect each other and want the best for your partner. Men, make an exhaustive list of every reason a younger woman might be problematic. It should include: aging effects, early widowhood, her family, your family, her society, your society, remarriage & other differences. Then, TALK THROUGH each issue w a woman. Be sure you advise her against it. That way, if she chooses you, you've done all u can to ensure she is fully aware of the ramifications of each issue. If she's an adult, she can make her own decisions. Then, you should make an EXACT PLAN for how she should make the money u leave her last. List investment options and show examples for each so she has choices. But also set things up to run automatically so she doesn't have to manage much at first, yet can make changes later. If she gifts u with her life, then its best to give her financial security after u are gone. True love cares past the grave but a selfish, unloving man does not.
I don't judge couples like this who's age gap is big becoz we dont really know their private love story, but she's impressive on the way she talks, she's intelligent
Wise young lady!! Especially regarding marriage being a "con tract" and a "binding" one at that. If we truly love someone, why do we need to bind them to us rather than allow them to walk away every day no strings! That, to me, is a greater love. Someone who stays/"loves" us inside a marriage does so, often, because the alternative is too difficult. But if there's no contract, no "marriage" and yet you wake up together each morning, then, in many ways, that's far more a testament of true love, care and affection. If only more understood that. If a someone doesn't want to marry me then I'd view that as true love and care. The moment they want to entrap and bind me, I'm running! Not because I'm scared of commitment, but because I value commitment within a framework of continual agency 😅 Apologies if that sounds like a lawyer speaking 😅 😅
This woman is exceptional in so many ways. She is very articulate, wise for her years, and intelligent. I would not expect to find a woman like this to be honest. It’s like winning a lottery. Sure people do win lotteries, but will I?
I dated a Vietnamese girl, I was 16 years older than her, but she was a great girl. Kind and intelligent and cute. I wish you guys luck in America. I couldn't do it, but maybe you can!
Great interview! She’s very intelligent and seems like a fantastic girl. Hope it all works out for her and he is as single as advertised. Let’s hope the German dude is dedicated to her in the long run. Hopefully for her it’s not a holiday romance/ sugar daddy situation.
This young woman is definitely wise beyond her years. Here in the USA dating has definitely changed and I am just not interested in the women who are available. The women near my age bring a lot of baggage, demands and lofty expectations. Why would I even consider marriage let alone a relationship? Marriage is a losing proposition for men when the legal system is brought into the equation (marriage is a contract), we lose our children and at least half of our assets or more depending on the state. Men are demonized and degraded here in the west; we are called "toxic". I understand why men are traveling to countries that have more traditional women and I think it's a good thing. The only problem is the younger guys will probably struggle finding work, for us older guys with pensions and retirement savings it's not an issue. Why can't you just have a committed relationship and not get married? The best advice she gave is to "SLOW DOWN". (Clarification) If you do want to have children and start a family yes, I do believe you should get married.
She is one smart cookie Sharing her experiences to the world. A lot of american men are done with american women And the court system. They're not looking for a train wreck. They're looking for traditional women. Can't find it here in america. Too bad The Asian women in the Philippines can't come here to find the good guy who would love to have a nice woman. Jerry Abbas From ST.LOUIS Missouri USA 🇺🇸
My girlfriend is 21 years younger than me. She wants an older man because I want a committed relationship. She wants someone that provides stability across the board. Our discussions have been so honest. No lies, no games. What we both want and need in a relationship. Unlike western women she as known a lot of hard work and having to take care of others. I will see her in September. And hopefully be able to be back in March to bring her back home. The conversations we have are so much fun, and we talk about so many different things. It's so nice to have a conversation.
My wife is 25 years younger. And yes, she has a thing for dominant older guys, dad bods, and white skin. And tiny, brown and in shape works for me. Dated for 4 years, married nearly 7 now.
i met my filipino gf when she was 19 years old,i was 58 years old.This is our 6th year in a relationship and our wedding is in september...i dont care what anyone thinks...if my wife to be and myself are happy ....good luck also to this lady and her partner in the video.
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Woow i like the way she is but also the way she thinks, very mature, love it, filipina girls are sooo beautiful, from inside out❤❤️❤️❤️❤️
Too damn expensive!
This young lady is far above average in both wisdom and intelligence.
Not in the Philippines most Filipino people are above average iq
most off the philipina's..........
My Chinese wife is thirty five years younger than me. We have been married for fourteen years. She is beautiful inside and out.
Such a bright young woman, best interview with a Filipina I've heard so far!
Great perspectives!
You see the difference a smart pinay is, a sincere and straight filipina, this Pinay will take care of u and do it very well.
I was told all the same crap.. "she only wants you for a green card", and "She will take all your money and house in five years" My response was, 'Well, it will be a great 5 years. :)
Well, I was married before to an American woman closer to my age, and she took my money and almost my house...in 5 years. I have been married to my Filipina for 14 years and we have a 30-year gap.
Additionally, when she first came to the US and we would go shopping, I noticed a couple of women (older American women) look at me with a disgusted look, but conversely, I saw men look at me, smile and give me a thumbs up!
those old women who looked at you with disgust are angry because you took away their opportunity to make you miserable
My sons mom is 17 years younger. I have seen the look from older women. I deal with it by grabbing a hand full of but and pulling her close to me. The look quickly turns to disgust and we get a good laugh out of it.
@@troysmith5749 hahaha, good one
Your relationship is probably an exception. I mean you’re delusional if you really think young women are attracted to old men with beer bellies 🤮🤮🤮most of the time we get with y’all cause you’re desperate and we want a man to take care of us. Or she’s waiting on you to pass so she can marry a younger Attractive guy 😂
@@fauxque5057 I live in Canada. Superb way to deal with the green eyes of envy from Western women who likely aged out in their 20's. I am 57, retiring soon and will likely head to Thailand. My best friend's first wife was a "Western" " Modern Woman". Enough said on that. He is married to Thai now. He has never been happier, nor more supported, loved or looked after. She works but he supports her financially. She is very good with money and looks after the budget, etc. When I tell my female friends I am heading to Thailand, they call me a pervert, and they are all Gold Diggers, etc. I smile softly and laugh. My uncle was 57 when he first got married, to a Filipina. She was 40. They had a son together. He passed away at 63, but they were the best years of his life, he told my mom. Keep grabbing her but and pulling her close, my friend. Enjoy the connection you have with the woman you cherish.
She can talk the talk but they have "been together" for 3 years yet only spent 30 days together. None of her opinions are based on any kind of reality or real experience. They are both just living a fantasy. Find a young woman who's been with an older guy for real in a settled life and interview her. She will be able to give some real insights on it.
True : that's was my thoughts also.
Speaking from experience (found my Filipina wife) 18 years ago. I was 32 and my American wife left me because she was unhappy. I found my Filipina wife in my business travels to the Philippines. She was an absolute breath of fresh air. She was 22 and very sexy, fit, feminine , kind, appreciative. Nowadays they call that "Traditional". It was the first time I have experienced a woman with that type of energy. She is supportive, understand each others roles in a relationship and never take each other for granted. I can not tell you the peacefulness that she has brought into my life. We now have 2 boys 14 & 16. She is still unbelievably fit and sexy and our intimacy has never been an issue because she understands the needs of her man and I understand her needs. Women in the Philippines prefer older men because they want a experienced man who can teach them different aspects of life because they value experience and a strong man to build a family and life with.
BOOM!!!...thats what every man wants both you and me found these special women in Philippines....western culture has destroyed the traditional woman.......my age gap is 22 yr difference and we both very happily married over 10yrs
@@manstarbig Me to and many many of my friends also Filipinas are the best
O I am 100 percent with you on this..American women have been destroyed by the liberal \Demonic Communist ideals. I stay far away from those and I have found peace in Filipinas that are 23 to 40 years old they all pretty much retained the traditional roles. I would never even consider going with American Girl ever if ever again.
Bro she was a gold digger. Keep it simple 😂
That peaceful feeling 🙏🏽 You know you are home. This is where you are supposed to be.
Nearly impossible with a modern “girl boss” woman on her journey.
I live in Colombia, not the Philippines, but we also have this issue. All of the people in the US think my wife is a Gold-digger, but we actually have the best relationship I have ever had. If you are stuck in a rut, it's just a long-term coffin. Be open-minded and explore the world.
Well, we would have to see your physical appearance, your wife's, know your age, her age, to judge if those people are right. If you are in Colombia and she is very young and you are old, she is definitely a g-digger. The relationship you might be having is that of a G-digger and a naive old man. Might be the best relationship you've ever had, but not hers. I'm sorry man. I'm just keeping it real here. I'm also Latino 100% not just some watered-down Latino in the US.
Yea i had a colombiana that lived in my home town , drop dead gorgeous, no language barrier I’m fluent in spanish and her English is very good, we would go to Colombia together, unfortunately she had Columbia bf’s with other issues, so i found someone else and left her
@@elchantajistacould you give a better explanation?
This Filipina very impressive!
My Filipina wife is 25 years younger than me I met her in my home country Norway she is a 10 and she has a university education from her home country and she comes from a family that doesn't need my money either, I have never sent money to them. We have now been together for 6 years and married for 5 years, we moved down to the Philippines but went home when covid came, then we had a daughter who is 3 years old today And we live in Norway because I want her to grow up here at home. I am 61 years old and my wife is 36 years old. I have grown children and grandchildren who are older than my own daughter now. But we have a great time together and my wife is the best thing that ever happened to me.
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That’s awesome!!! I wish you and your family the Best!
lucky most not so
You want a Filipina child to grow up in a foreign country Norway 🇳🇴???😅😅
What does having a University education have to do with anything?
I love the interview with this girl. She is intelligent, real and sincere and she is genuine in her heart and her personality. I like that she and her boyfriend have quality common sense with their relationship. I pray and sincerely hope I can find a beautiful woman like her when I come there. I hope you have more interviews with educated filipino women like her. Thank you for quality videos.
Wow, this young woman seems very mature and smart for her young age. I am very surprised. She seems very genuine and sincere. She provided excellent advice to expats seeking a relationship in the PHs. She is definitely a special woman. Her heart seems to be in the right place. God bless her.
AMEN!
She's adorable and well spoken. Your interview was very well done. I subscribed on the strength of this video. Keep up the good work.
What a special young woman. Its difficult at that age to see through all the smoke and mirrors society throws out. Relationships mostly come and go. Just enjoy them while they last and enjoy life. I was in my 40's before i figured that out.
This girl has a good head on her shoulders.
I agree! Super smart girl
Lol how to get a foreigner to support you. Therapists do not earn a lot in the phil’s ..the guys a meal ticket.
YES!...SHE WANTS THAT MONEY AND SECURITY IN LIFE...SHE IS NO FOOL!! GO GIRL!!
Hidden within her very youthful and "cute" appearance is a woman with the wisdom of the ages and ancients.
@@xavierkoolat6926 Nah just likes the peso.
She's a gem. Very wise and articulate!
“I am not delusional, I am special!” Is the best quote in the video!!!
I like old guys that send me money …I’ve been with my “partner” for 60 days in three years ..I find fat old guys attractive..I don’t want to get married ..I want to live in another country ..😂 she’s not delusional..she fully paid up member of the space cadets ..the German is delusional 😂
Her thinking shes special makes her delusional.
Well, like finds like. The man, her older BF, "I'm not delusional. I CAN date much younger women. I'm special!" You know, ALL geniuses who've disrupted humanity were considered delusional in their time, because they were ahead of the crowd of sheep.
Places like Philippines, woman grow up faster than western woman. They realize in an early age that what you need is more important than what you want in life.
Plus they're making sh!t outta bamboo with just a long knife growing up. They understand reality, unlike Western girls who are all in the head easily swayed by propaganda and silly ideals, all abstract and not based here on Planet Earth.
They grow up faster but more importantly they grow up with better values and they hold things important that actually matter vs western women who these days seem to all just want to be naked online and have guys buy them stuff.
@@vandinroth well in the west the girls are overt .. in the Philippines they are covert. Watch your wallet (religious or not).
This young lady is well-educated. It makes me proud. Atta girl! 😊
She is definitely one of the most insightful, intelligent & articulate filipinas I've seen. Wisdom & maturity well beyond her age. She is a winner!
My Indonesian wife is 30 years younger than me and we are the happiest people in the world.
Every woman should be just like this girl, she is so refreshing
Good perspective. I respect her points. Maybe most young Filipinas or even matured ones when found someone who really respects and love them can be very loyal and love and serve their men in a very traditional way.
You go girl! Whatever floats your boat 🙌🏼
Money floats her boat.
Unless you have been to the Philippines and experienced these ladies you can not judge them .. Their culture is way different .. This lady is well educated and has ethics , this is the type you should be looking for ..
So she’s not been supported by the guy in three years..they’ve only been together for 60 days in three years lol and she does not want commitment in a relationship..and go out of the country to work. 😂 meal ticket ..
@@ohigho9717 Yeah that’s a good point, never thought of that..but I’m sure they talk and a chat 💬 on FaceTime etc …!?!?..she thinks she’s the player lol
Taking a young wife back to Germany with a over 40 year age gap would be foolish.
@@ohigho9717 I think you are spot on having doubts as to this German biophysicist’s marital status. Not saying he’s married but if he isn’t, you would have thought he would have swept her off her feet by now.
Very interesting. This is a highly educated filipina who doesn't need a foreigner to go out of country for work.
I travel extensively to hospitals across the U.S and see all types of filipino/filipina professionals that are recruited to the U.S. by various hospitals.
I'm starting to see this in Education, as well, with licensed teachers being brought to small towns in the U.S. because they can't find local prospects.
Someone would be fortunate indeed to land a Filipina like this.
Umm yeaaa be careful cause no young educated woman has to go out with a older guy. Y’all just believe everything you see online
@@Animeow08 That is true. I live in Florida and we have an agency nearby that imports Filipina nurses. I asked them to post my bio on the bulletin board for any nurses looking for an American bf. No interest at all. They are here now. Why would they need me?
@@wildbill562 All my coworkers who are Filipina nurses are MARRIED. Some will say that they're single but when questioned further, they admit that they're separated but technically still married because divorce is illegal in the Philippines. People marry young in the Philippines & divorce is illegal.
This girl is genuine!!‼️‼️🇨🇦🇨🇦
I totally agree
"The best thing about older guys is that they don't argue like young guys" True, I am 66 and I am too tired to argue.
I am so impressed with her. I hope I'm lucky enough to find someone like her. Her boyfriend is very lucky.
She personifies the filipina perception that age is just a number. Refreshingly mature, intelligent and well spoken.
Her mindset is good.
If she doesn't come with a package deal,
she has good potential.
They all have baggage
@@mikebenge2853they are so SMALL.
Awesome interview! She is a rare find 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
What a wonderfully pleasant young woman. Puts western women to shame with her maturity and values.
This girl is so adorable and seems entirely genuine and sincere. How cute. 🥰
Wow, great interview!!!!! This girl is totes adorbs in a million ways. Certainly a high value Pinay. Good for them.
Very clever girl. Respect!!!
Marrying for money is like buying a car because the price is right. It’s true that you were looking in a certain value range, but you picked it because you liked it. Money is one of many factors. Always!
And she's smart enough to know this is good advertising, for horny old men! Take ur pick!
Im together 4 and half years with a pinay. I made here finish her college!And sure i support here 4 years. Agegape is 47
Ha, she can change ur diapers!
Another old goat donating money. How did she manage without you? Maybe you can give your money to me instead. I will tell you that you are a great old fool, as many times as you want to hear it. hahah.
I liked the comment about Christian Filipina as that is where I met my mate. We started out video chatting 3 times a day for 2 hours each session. Eventually I had to cut back to 1 hour because of the time difference. We did this for two years prior to me coming to the Philippines so it was very natural for us to be together after that. She sold her house and store and bought the property we live on and I am building the house we are living in even though it's not finished. We are also building a farm on the property and our love continues on.
What a brilliant young lady.
This lady displays lots of wisdom and common sense. WOW Great interview with great questions to draw her out,
Very strong and smart young lady
she is a keeper,thats the real one to look for
The filipina accent just drives me crazy with attraction and love
My girlfriend will be 28 the same day I turn 45. I’ve had a lot of relationships and she is the first woman to make me laugh every day. It doesn’t hurt that she is gorgeous, well educated, and kind as well. That all makes me happy, but her humor makes me overjoyed.
This is a great interview and she seems so genuine and sweet, much like my girlfriend. I however am not much on the large age gap thing but she made sense of how she thinks. I'm 50, my woman is 48 with 2 girls (21&23) & an adopted son (10). She works in Dubai as an event organizer. We started talking in July of 2023. Has a car, her own house and supports them on her own. Spent 2 weeks with her and her family in her province for Christmas and New Year's. They are the greatest people I have ever met in my life. I can say with absolute certainty that I am in love with her and her family. They welcomed me to be part of their family almost immediately and ask nothing of me but to spend time laughing with them. I will definitely marry her. I have been trashed by American women my entire life, never again. The "Sweet" American woman i was married to for 10 years was nothing but a liar and cheater. Just used me for money like all the other American women i had been with. Filipinas are the real deal, they are loyal and sweet. Just like anywhere in the world you will have bad apples......but America is FULL OF THEM. The Filipino people i met on my trip are the most good hearted, polite, and hard working people i have ever met. They have the best family values also. I look forward to being part of their family hopefully for the rest of a long life. I was very fortunate to have met her and her family. Her mother did a great job raising her daughters to be such great women and have the values that they do. #thefilipinaway
Your comments are truly touching and very accurate especially regarding American women. Most are exactly as you described. My Doctor Brother married an American woman and two years later went through a Divorce from Hell in which she wiped him out financially in every conceivable way. My own first marriage was a nightmare but I became wiser and found and married a woman from Mexico who I would trust with my life. There is a large age gap which does not bother us in any way.
Marry your new Soulmate and may you both enjoy a long and healthy life together with much joy and many happy days spent together and with her wonderful Family.
She is a smart young woman who has her stuff together.
smart gal, that's the number one thing I luv about Filipinas, they are "Old-School" INTELLIGENT! They have common sense and that's because of their Christian wisdom, they obey God and that brings them good things in life!
Been married to my wife for 5 years, been together for 7. She's 27 years younger. What she is saying is spot on with what my wife says about marrying me.
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I met a Filipino woman who is serious about marrying an older foreign man. She's 23 and I'm going to be 62 this year. 39 years age difference
What an intelligent articulate young lady ... Wish you all the best in life
She’s a keeper.
Too young!
She is exceptional. I think a foreigner would do what ever it takes to be with her. It comes down to the 3 sss. Smart, sweet and sexy. The maturity for her age makes her special.
Welcome to the countdown ..all aboard the skylark. 😂
Too young, no experience! At least she's not saying she's Virgin!
@@bradleymiller7375 lol ya think a Filipina obviously so clued up is not playing the field. I’m actually shocked at the naivety of some guys ..I’ve got a 100 awful stories of “relationships”, here in the phil’s. For a Christian country ..there attitude to sex and promiscuous behaviour and money is wild…sometimes.
@@Eric-qm5xwthing is, good women don’t go out with foreigners. Only the ones who want to secure a future is daring enough to do it. I’ve lived in the Philippines and I have virgin friends who just went out with their local men. The more materialistic ones look for easy targets like older white men
It's around the world thing since old times. Like some old rich/broke kings, prince, chieftains, datus, rich, etc marrying young gals. The average foreigner is richer/green card than the average local. Old Catholic priests in Pinas decades/centuries ago had multiple young gf/wives.
And they preach to Filipinos! Hypocrites!
She dropping gems with that 🪣 bucket list
A true and Amazing girl, love it and congratts to the gentleman!
This lady is well-educated. It makes me proud. Atta girl! 😊
An absolutely remarkable girl: thoughtful and beautiful.
I learnt so so much in this Video thank you Fretchie! Especially the second half… Very good advice especially for someone about to enter an LDR. 🙏
Im 82 and my filipina wife is 22. We have a great relationship. We take care of each other
😂😂😂😂
LDR 🤭🤭🤭
Love it ❤😅
She is smart, articulate, and doesn’t let society decide what is right for her. She is blazing her own trail in life and she will be happy because of it.
I educated my Filipina fiancé. I did this to lift her and her daughter out of poverty and have a future for her child. She has two yaya with fatherless kids, i plan to adopt these as they live on our farm and are as much family as our ( her daughter ). The age difference is 35 years. We have been together from before COVID. I retire this year and will start our / my last adventure from there. As I can only own 40% of a business, the yayas and her will share 60%. The adopted kids will continue to have education as well as siblings in a larger family and never have to answer “who’s your daddy!” Explaining multiple mommies will be differen!
Great interview. Great thoughts on marriage. Marriage is not words on paper or a public ceremony with witnesses.
Marriage occurs over time with shared experiences in the hearts of the couple.
This is similar to my present situation. I appreciate her perspective.
48 year age gap... Been together 6 years, the last 12 months in Australia together... Yes it can work... Never been happier and all my close friends and family support us!... Every case is different.... Lynn is working in Australia to support her family not me! Just been for a Thai dinner to celebrate 1 year in Australia together... Good luck to all!
Excellent video, and information! Thanks!
What an absolute champion, after watching 100's of these videos, this was the greatest one yet, what a very switched on, focused and real young woman, the world is her oyster..
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In my experience, the Filipinos are not as acceptable about the idea of foreign age gap relationships as many people suggest. It’s just that the majority of Filipinos are very reserved in broadcasting their opinions to the public. We encountered two major situations regarding me and my Filipinas age gap, she 26 me 54 during my 5yrs living there. They did not confront me personally but confronted her. Most of them that are accepted by the family is because the money factor only.
Depends if it looks a wide age gap..some guys look every year of there 50’60’s…
She has got a good hart and is really honest about a relation. Very good interview.
I actually think I recall seeing her face on the site! I am glad she found a good loving man who shares her values.
Very nice conversation about age gap. My bf Rick is 20 years older than me and i love him . Very good ❤
I knew a couple with an age gap of about 40-50 years. They had a good relationship and had two kids. I never judged them.
Her use of the word “dominance” is strange to hear to the western man. Society has screamed at him that “me too” and the patriarchy is THE evil in the world.
But that framing is wrong. Dominance is mentorship. Generous with your time and words. Kindness. Provider and protector. Kindness.
“Just for your money” is indeed “so bad” because innocence can’t be owned. If you can buy it, it’s not innocence.
Don’t be naive to scammers but also don’t be naive to innocence. If she is receptive, you be surprised only because western women have trained you that this is evil. It’s the opposite ❤
What a good and wise lady. I was in manila and the taxi driver was chatting with his filipina when i came into the cab. He wad 75years old and she was 20. They had a child together. It was not a problem and the 2 were in love. So whats the problem? Filipinos are not judgemental as the West. Great job girl
my fiance is 9 year age gap. we ended up falling in love unexpectedly, i wanst even on a dating site or app. just mutual friend on facebook i saw her and thought she was really pretty. and started chatting her. we started out as friends for like 5 months because there was a girl i was dating here in the USA at the time. but we broke up so I started chatting with the filipina more and we ended up falling in love and I found out she had her own business in Sabah, Malaysia. so we finally were able to meet 2 months ago in Philippines. she is incredibly busy woman. we both split costs in philippines so shes far from a scammer. we plan to eventually get married but its gonna take some time because shes to busy with her business and needs to find someone that can manage things for her in malaysia.
You found a needle in the haystack. This girl sounds like one of Charles Manson's wives. She has an answer for everything. She's been brainwashed by her philosopher bf. I'm glad she is not my daughter. It can happen to anyone no matter how smart they are.
A 9 year age difference is normal though. I wouldn't even call that an 'age gap' relationship. But congratulations.
I like the way she thinks.
Many men fear getting involved w a much younger woman but she demonstrates why it can work. It doesn't matter if u are at different life stages when u respect each other and want the best for your partner.
Men, make an exhaustive list of every reason a younger woman might be problematic. It should include: aging effects, early widowhood, her family, your family, her society, your society, remarriage & other differences.
Then, TALK THROUGH each issue w a woman. Be sure you advise her against it. That way, if she chooses you, you've done all u can to ensure she is fully aware of the ramifications of each issue. If she's an adult, she can make her own decisions.
Then, you should make an EXACT PLAN for how she should make the money u leave her last. List investment options and show examples for each so she has choices. But also set things up to run automatically so she doesn't have to manage much at first, yet can make changes later. If she gifts u with her life, then its best to give her financial security after u are gone. True love cares past the grave but a selfish, unloving man does not.
Very informative. She seems to be very real. Great video.
Very intelligent young lady she sounds well focused
I don't judge couples like this who's age gap is big becoz we dont really know their private love story, but she's impressive on the way she talks, she's intelligent
Well worth watching again!!
Wise young lady!! Especially regarding marriage being a "con tract" and a "binding" one at that. If we truly love someone, why do we need to bind them to us rather than allow them to walk away every day no strings! That, to me, is a greater love. Someone who stays/"loves" us inside a marriage does so, often, because the alternative is too difficult. But if there's no contract, no "marriage" and yet you wake up together each morning, then, in many ways, that's far more a testament of true love, care and affection. If only more understood that. If a someone doesn't want to marry me then I'd view that as true love and care. The moment they want to entrap and bind me, I'm running! Not because I'm scared of commitment, but because I value commitment within a framework of continual agency 😅 Apologies if that sounds like a lawyer speaking 😅 😅
This woman is exceptional in so many ways. She is very articulate, wise for her years, and intelligent. I would not expect to find a woman like this to be honest. It’s like winning a lottery. Sure people do win lotteries, but will I?
Great interview,you guess is very knowledgeable have her on again if you can.She should be a volgger se ya .😊
No don't become vlogger only wanting horny old man! More funds please!
This young lady is very wise,with a very good head 🗣️ on her shoulders 😉
I dated a Vietnamese girl, I was 16 years older than her, but she was a great girl. Kind and intelligent and cute. I wish you guys luck in America. I couldn't do it, but maybe you can!
No matter what country it's always down to the money. The man pays no matter what
Great interview! She’s very intelligent and seems like a fantastic girl. Hope it all works out for her and he is as single as advertised. Let’s hope the German dude is dedicated to her in the long run. Hopefully for her it’s not a holiday romance/ sugar daddy situation.
This young woman is definitely wise beyond her years. Here in the USA dating has definitely changed and I am just not interested in the women who are available. The women near my age bring a lot of baggage, demands and lofty expectations. Why would I even consider marriage let alone a relationship? Marriage is a losing proposition for men when the legal system is brought into the equation (marriage is a contract), we lose our children and at least half of our assets or more depending on the state. Men are demonized and degraded here in the west; we are called "toxic". I understand why men are traveling to countries that have more traditional women and I think it's a good thing. The only problem is the younger guys will probably struggle finding work, for us older guys with pensions and retirement savings it's not an issue. Why can't you just have a committed relationship and not get married? The best advice she gave is to "SLOW DOWN". (Clarification) If you do want to have children and start a family yes, I do believe you should get married.
it's great to see you back with plaid shirt (diagonal) and ball cap from some landscaping company
So great to hear a non toxic narrative from a woman.
I really liked this video! Thank you !
She is one smart cookie Sharing her experiences to the world. A lot of american men are done with american women And the court system. They're not looking for a train wreck. They're looking for traditional women. Can't find it here in america. Too bad The Asian women in the Philippines can't come here to find the good guy who would love to have a nice woman. Jerry Abbas From ST.LOUIS Missouri USA 🇺🇸
Very true
Come to US, is a train wreck! Westernized in a month! RUINED!
Her Boyfriend is a very lucky man cause she is a hidden Gem with very wise guidance in life from the Philippines
She's a gem!
My girlfriend is 21 years younger than me. She wants an older man because I want a committed relationship. She wants someone that provides stability across the board. Our discussions have been so honest. No lies, no games. What we both want and need in a relationship. Unlike western women she as known a lot of hard work and having to take care of others. I will see her in September. And hopefully be able to be back in March to bring her back home. The conversations we have are so much fun, and we talk about so many different things. It's so nice to have a conversation.
Great interview 🙏
My wife is 25 years younger. And yes, she has a thing for dominant older guys, dad bods, and white skin. And tiny, brown and in shape works for me. Dated for 4 years, married nearly 7 now.
i met my filipino gf when she was 19 years old,i was 58 years old.This is our 6th year in a relationship and our wedding is in september...i dont care what anyone thinks...if my wife to be and myself are happy ....good luck also to this lady and her partner in the video.