Filipina shares why it might be hard to meet a good girl for you (and more)
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Hard to find a nicer, more down to earth girl than Weng, you can check out her channel here, great content with a great perspective on things www.youtube.com/@itsweng0106
Hey Chad, I wanted to let You know I deleted my comment.
You have a sub-human troll that replied to a comment I made. And didn't seem to understand English. Making condescending remarks and saying I make no sense.
I reported all his comments.
He must be a millennial and probably doesn't even know how to use a rotary telephone. I AM two generations older than him. He has absolutely no respect.
The way he comments, make me believe he is a horrible individual and definitely worse with others.
What else is new.
@@ericsolkamans-kj2fd oh OK yeah no worries, unfortunately there are a lot of negative comments at times. I appreciate you watching the channel
I appreciate when vloggers include a link to their guests. It's a bit disappointing when they don't. Perhaps there is a competitive element ?
@@ChadFosterExplores I AM only a subscriber. Because I AM passive aggressive type Sigma-male. I find it best to delete all and uninstall youtube.
Being born before all this new technology, makes it easier for me to do without it. I don't even use a laptop or computer.
This will be my last message. If anyone asks (most likely not), just say, "He's" not subscribed anymore and he uninstalled TH-cam. That was his last message to me.
As soon as I send this to You, I will be gone from TH-cam.
I will really miss the ones I connected with. At least the ones in the Philippines, we will meet in the Future.
@@ericsolkamans-kj2fd well that's pretty extreme! bye...
I found this Filipina most refreshing, her perspective and outlook is great. I wish most Filipinas were more emotionally mature.
The interview was well done. You allowed Weng to freely express herself. It was great to hear her thoughts.
Take your time... don't rush it... Look for the soft hearted good ones who will put you first.
The rest ignore....
Weng's honesty and staying true to herself are the rare qualities of any woman, of anyone! Great job, my beautiful friend!
A 20 yr. old Filipina is so much more mature than a 30 yr. old American girl. Filipino culture says a 30 yr. old Filipina is past her prime. A young serious Filipina is far better than the insecure, jealous older gals. I am in early stages of courting a 20 yr. old. First time we met I spent 3 days with her and her family in her home town....finally on the third night I had to ask her where her phone was? In my purse...in three days and nights I had never seen her phone in her hand. She is not a Tik Tok girl, but a young serious girl with goals in her life and very serious about achieving them. Younger the better I believe.
No your delusional , been there done that, get someone more age appropriate for lasting relationship, young ones need to party , hangout with friends , get college degree etc
@@humungushumungus213 I have yet to meet or spend time with a single Filipina that drinks. You must be thinking of Angeles City or girls from Cebu or Manila. Iloilo doesn’t have any bar fine bars etc…one of the factors I used in choosing where to live. And my long time friend who’s lived in San Fernando, La Union me too’s that point. His 15 years living in PH has the same experience…average Filipina drinks little if at all. Most Filipina’s are focused on improving their self and in particular their families lives via college…and drinking and partying would be a huge disappointment for her family that is financing her education. Just don’t hang out in bars and you won’t run into current or former bar girls as I have never been into high mileage girls anyway.
@@humungushumungus213you are not mature enough to comprehend basic things like not looking for partygirls, no bar girls, no tattoos, no city girls, avoid Angeles area, etc.
Age appropriate is 18-28 for most Men.
If a Man is very old, and do not want children then 30-50.
Life expectancy is low in ph.
Cancer, diabetes, heart attacks, etc.
Wow, she is incredibly smart, well spoken, articulate & an excellent communicator. Of course we notice her physical beauty, but all those other things are quite remarkable. I can also recognize she is wise & mature, a very high quality lady
Ok😁
As a Filipina myself, It's rare to find a good Filipina. If you find one treasure her!
With all the beautiful women in the Philippines, why would you want to get involved with a married girl if nothing else it can be dangerous. 🤔
And one with 4 boys too
Because love is more than skin deep. Sometimes you don't find love, it finds you!
Not to mention bonus if she is also pretty as she is.
@@chriselmore1969 Don't be stupid, you're just being a captain save-a-hoe. Men don't fall in love with women in these types of situations.
VERY dangerous! It'll earn you a balisong to the gut because, as a foreigner, you're marked as a potential mark for scams. The next balisong is to your throat unless you pay $$$ to compensate him for the future value of all the paychecks she gives him. By law, half of all her earnings are his if she remains his wife.
I met Weng in Cebu in January at a meet and greet. She is more attractive in person and was extremely friendly towards both myself and my filipina girlfriend.
One of the best interviews I've seen. Thanks for doing this. Weng is really interesting and obviously a very unique Filipina. She really gives me hope that maybe there are more like her out there. Ironically I would imagine that the very difficult life of being a single mom may explain why she is the mature honest woman that she is. Hardship can often produce good character.
Morena means they are dark skinned which in Philippines is looked down upon. Every tv/movie personality is light skinned bi-racial in PH. Every billboard or magazine ad…you name it they are all light skinned. Every skin care product (including sunscreen lotion) states it lightens your skin! Most women here walk outside during the day with an umbrella because they don’t want to get darker. Very sad yet I love Morena girls!
LOL ' I'm happy that you're a single mom '......said no man ever.
HAAAA TRUE ........
😅😅😅😅😅plus divorced or separated
@@addictcar69For the right woman, there is no such thing as a deal breaker. For the right woman I would eagerly crawl over broken glass.
Yeah nice girl but 4 kids is 4 ball and chains too many!
@@Lawrencerice How many men think this same thought and then they finally meet 'the right one'. If only it was that easy.
Thank you, chad,For this interview, you're so humble and respectful! I really do appreciate 😊🙏
Weng is a lovely and personable lady, but for single guys a women with a child is a no, much less 4. That is too much complexity, especially if there are different fathers involved.
She has said on her channel that they are all from the same father. But, I agree it would be a very hard up hill battle.
My God, she’s so beautiful. Hope it all works out for her soon. She won’t be single for long…❤️
She deserves to find someone. I wish her well.
Great interview . And a very down to earth and beautiful woman👍
Good for her she is very responsible lady
...now.
If both parties agreed. They can use the Article 46 of Family Code as ground for their annulment. Much lesser expense for annulment process.
Wow... yes but the pride of the arorgant Filipino man...say no more
I haven't seen that in any case I hake seen. It seems that either many dont understand it, including the lawyers, or one party or the other doesn't agree with it. Rowena has been separated for almost 8 years now with no end in site. Each year she thinks she will get the answer and be free but then something else comes up. Now she says MAYBE by September 2024 she will get the annulment. It's SAD as she initiated the separation but we have no idea why and what her husband thinks about all this. We ONLY hear her side of things and that's not a complete full story.
A filipino man would want a ransom if he knows its a foreigner;)
Weng seems like a woman who is a good ambassador for Filipinas. very good person with a happy outlook, sense of humour, honest and practical. I wish her well for her future. I hope she finds a genuine guy who can care for her and her children, treat her with the respect and love that she rightly deserves. We shouldn’t be judgemental about her past, we have all made mistakes, sometimes it is not our fault. Great video Chad, I’d love to PM you with a few questions about what to expect when transitioning from a LDR online to meeting the first time, building on that relationship (if it seems to be working), taking her back home to meet the family, then deciding on where to go from there…. back to Philippines for a potentially cheaper lifestyle or get your woman as a permanent resident and preparing her for work in your home country. I’m an Aussie, 62. pretty damn poor compared to many i’d assume, have two adult kids and close to my siblings, mum, kids friends and concerned about how they will deal with me going os for future. I am sure many expats have had to deal with these sorts of issues and are torn between needing someone who is capable of loving you with all your faults, low income and advancing age hence moving to the Filipina or bringing her home which can present opportunities but financially pretty challenging vs LDR with family and friends, broken hearts back at home and isolation from those close to us especially if things don’t work out. cheers, Al
Great interview with Weng. This really tells a lot about her and what she’s all about. Open, honest and mature while also knowing what she wants but in no hurry. 😊
Great interview Chad….
I'm facing the issue she just mentioned. I'm about to fly all the way to the PH to meet a girl, and she wants to meet me at the airport.
she's my Gf, we've been in a Long distance relationship for 1 year, but I"m the only one sacrificing time and money, and you think it's fair that I'm ONLY going to see you as a option? that alone pisses me off, the fact they think they deserve to be THE only option when they're not providing or sacrificing anything, that's not how it works.
I had to sacrifice time, money resources and decide to choose to spend my time, especially flying to another country.
And you want me to believe a 30 year old has more to offer me than a 20 year old? I rather have a immature 20 something, that a mature 30 year old who had to learn the hard way.
Sorry, that's not how relationships work unless women want to start being the bread winners for their husbands and boyfriends.
WOW, great video, I really enjoyed it, she is very well spoken and has a lot of knowledge for the guys coming over there to be on the lookout for, great job. More.
She makes a good impression, seems smart about life and relationship.
Thanks for the interview Chad and thank you Weng for your thoughtful information. Just trying to soak up all the good messages the two of you pass along on your channels.
As long as you are honest with your situation to your new partner, honesty is always the best policy
Also if both parties is on geed terms a Mutual Separation Agreement can be written up that would allow both to have separate love interest while still legally married
Thanks Chad, another great one! I take the positive from this one that you have to take your time in getting to know someone. I suspect meeting a beautiful woman in a beautiful place gives you rose colored glasses and makes it easy to overlook real and very serious issues.
Long time subscriber to Weng's channel. She's great, and tells it like she sees it, good or bad. I would recommend her channel to those looking for helpful information from a Filipina's point of view that isn't sugar coating it and saying what she thinks you want to hear. She hasn't sold out her integrity for clicks&views using click bait in tight skimpy outfits and talking just about sexual topics, don't go there if that's all you're looking for.
Great interview with Weng!
I believe I hit the jackpot and got lucky. I've met a beautiful traditional yet mature thinking Filipina woman. We are getting along great. I just got back from meeting her in the Philippines and we chat and video chat multiple times per day. I will be visiting her in her area later this year. She's never asked for money. Actually has her own. We both want a quality companion for the future and I believe we have found that. Not to mention the country and people are beautiful. I've found my future home.
I wish you and your partner the best of luck 🤞
Hope it all works out! Don’t be away from her too long…you don’t want a local boyfriend to move in…always a risk…
@etfremd Not when you find the right one. Plus, if that is the case then I wouldn't want to be with her. I don't want a relationship with someone I can't trust. If you find a good woman and you are respectful to them and take care of their emotional needs the physical needs will wait! And again, if I have to worry about her finding someone else, then that's not the person for me.
I think it is worth it to sift through as many Filipinas as necessary in order to find a good one because the good ones are great! That said, there is not a chance in hell that I would tolerate jealousy, silent treatments, phone assaults, etc etc etc. If my partner can't trust me and treat me with maturity and respect, then she has to go immediately. That is why so many people say to slow down and take your time. Reekay is the best advice giver in this regard. Anyone who doesn't spend a significant time with their prospective relationship partner and be exposed to their thinking and behaving outside of the honeymoon phase is asking for disaster. Great interview Chad.
clearly tou don't understand the Filipina culture so best you move on
@@ronaldtaylor4530 Clearly I don't give a rats behind about your opinion but my user name definitely does apply here. In she goes!
They do realise that getting married again or taking another partner is adultery maybe the Catholic Church don't teach them that now .🙏
Most married Filipino's husbands are long gone living a new life never interfering in your relationship. However date a married Filipino at your own risk. Some men may try to blackmail you instead of going to police if they find out about your relationship. Remember the world is full of good and bad people with your safety being your responsibility. Until the laws changes in the Philippines tread carefully staying out of trouble.
Great interview Chad
Very articulate young lady.
Lovely, smart lady. Looking forward to your next video!😊
Her mindset is good.
she has good potential for somebody who doesn't mind a single mom.
Personally,
I don't t date single mothers let alone one with 4 kids and I don't recommend it.
I MUST come 1st after God..
not kids, not parents nor siblings...
Because for me,
my woman is 1st in my life..
A man becomes ONE with his woman NOT with her family/siblings/whatever.
Otherwise, she can be somebody else's woman.
Great and very honest interview!
Fantastic interview. Weng is knowledgeable and she expresses her feelings/opinions eloquently.
This young lady comes across as a very mature woman and I also believe women who have raised kids already know how to love deeply. Most guys are looking for a single woman with no children but I hope this woman finds a man that’s the right fit for her.
I believe if you listen to someone long enough to tell you everything you want to know. You have to follow your gut feeling.
I've seen her channel and was wondering why she didn't have a LDR or something. She's such a smart and nice person but I guess this explains it. Great video Chad.
Filipina City girl and province girl varies on their character; behaviors and mindsets depends on their upbtingings, environment they grown up and friends influences they have in their life.
new camera gear? Image quality looks good
iPhone
Weng's awesome. She is so hard working and optimistic. I encourage others to check out her channel. Her personality is rather infectious.... however, manage your expectations regarding production quality. She is still learning the technology but she's come a long way already. Good interview Chad, Salamat. Peace and Love, B Goat
People should be focused on the information being presented instead of how it was done. I agree Weng is great, she doesn't sugar coat it, she says it like she sees it, good or bad.
Thank you for this excellent interview with this lovely articulate woman.
Great video
Great interview Chad.. that is one sweet woman!! You just know it!!
I first went to the PI in 1989.
The changes ive seen. I wouldnt even atempt to find a girl in this day and age.
Girls are impossible today. It's the sad reality.
Nice interview, she seems very sincere
New subscriber here. Enjoying the videos. Currently in Central America but really considering the Phillipines. Enjoying the videos. JD
I love Weng. She's so likable. 🙂
Her personality was the thing i liked the most about her can see how she thinks and speaks she is very intelligent and smart lady. Seen the jealous side of a Filipina lady before but i was just internet friends with her. What i have learned over the last 5 years is Philippine culture the dos and donts. meeting a Filipina family for me is an honour you get to know them eat with them an extended family you cant beat that.
She seems like an awesome person
Chad, where were you interviewing Weng? Looks like a lovely spot.
Ayala mall cebu, yea great spot particularly the terraces
Why would or should an expat even think about dating a single mom or previously married woman with all of the dramas involved with her previous ex- husband or ex boyfriends? Especially you will never be the number one priority in her life, her kids will come 1st., her parents 2nd., her siblings 3rd., relative 4th., & pets 5th. & maybe you will be last if she can find the time for you..🤔
You won't even be considered part of her family either especially if it's an old guy. They are only there to exist and give a financial backing
absolutely agree. To many responders here just hanging off one girls view...crazy, dumb, downright stupid. Do your own research and investigation you lazy people.
she's awesome and wise. period.
Great advice Weng! 😊 you deserve a great man 👍🏼
Ms Weng 's the first thing we as men and women must do is ask GOD too fix our heart first before we get out there and be sure we want true LOVE and a Traditional relationship you're a beautiful lady
Yes, you are an option like any other woman. So is the man an option. That speaks for itself but what is important is how you treat one another and what your mutual goals are. If you're serious with eachother then you have trust to keep you connected. If you wait untill your LDR comes over by the time he arrives you yourself will have a hard time because your insecurities will play a dark part in the back of your mind which eventually will destroy the relationship and future plans. So be honest to yourself and in honesty you can build a healthy relationship that will last.
Weng is the kind of woman that instinctively brings down your defenses. It's nice to know there are still some very high quality women out there. She deserves to be someone's Disney Princess.😊
Weng is an amazing lady 😊
Weng told me once, all the Filipinas are different, I think she is 100% correct. It takes time to have two paths cross for compatibility and purpose in life to share together. Another Filipina said it took 3 years and many dates to eventually find her life partner. I think she was very patient to hold out for the right one, and just understand what in a person you’re looking for, so when they appear your available, and not taken.
Hopefully one day I can find my foreigner man
Let's be honest here. She has a right to be careful and picky about some things, but the man that's going to be with her will too!! She has 4 kids and that is a huge deal. That will eliminate many men. Also, that man does not owe her anything but may choose to help her out. She should be so appreciative to any future partner and I am guessing she will be. She seems like a decent woman.
I hope the divorce laws are never overturned in the Philippines. Once the proverbial foot gets in the door, it is only a matter of time before easy divorces and no fault divorces follow. It is part of the problem that is driving so many American men to look in the Philippines for a wife instead of their home country. Men and women should commit to each other for life for better or worse without making plans for abandonment. It is the only way to right a sinking ship. It should encourage making good decisions about marriage instead of people thinking they can walk back their marriage vows if they don't like the situation, or if things get rough.
It is unbelievable that no channel suggests that the foreigner go and talk to the Filipina's father first. This act would prevent thousands of future problems.
Mine didn't have a father OR a mother, but a grandmother and aunt (real mothers who raised her). The mother just came back into her life when I arrived on the scene. Had to get permission for travelling but not "marriage" (she'd approved of that already). It's been a little difficult living apart but I can't (or don't want to) retire for several more years.
I’ve never seen an expat in this country that can match the beauty of my wife, because they have been fed of line of BS about finding them online. Some of the most beautiful are in far off provinces that you will never visit in your lifetime, but they do have the Internet. Why would anyone restrict themselves to just the girl they pass in the street or at the mall when there are so many out there much better. Learn to vet girls online use game skills charm and common sense at your age. Good luck.
Great video. Hi Weng. (New sub)
Hey thank you for the sub! Glad you enjoyed the video
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An annulment is actually a process through the church. Not so much the government. And up it's expensive!! Mostly catholic I think 🤔
CHURCH GREED .....BUY GOLD JUNKY STUFF
Separate annulment case from the Catholic church (if one wants to remarry in Church) and from the government; the annulment case is independent of each other.
@@MonicaTanAnLeng Interesting. Never heard this perspective before. Potential double expense. Thank you for the warning. 🙏
She's hiding her current man. No way she can pay for an annulment by herself. Tsk tsk
and she would rather invest the money into education of her kids...
correct !!!
what website/dating app do you recommend to meet Filipina woman? Thank u!!!
There is a central government office in Manila; foreigners can check too see if girl is still married. All you need is some personal information from her.
"I gonna make any future guy pay for my mistakes with the last guy!". "I respect that!" - white knight.
Chad...i guess times have changed. It was much easier in 2010 when I moved there. I'm blessed with a sweet, educated, professional wife...and we are equals. Back in US now...wife's a teacher,as always, and we are happier than ever. We will be back one day...
I enjoy her YT channel and content. Somehow I missed this aspect of her life ? Hopefully she is successful soon. She is incredibly intelligent and delightful.
I wouldn't have an issue with dating a separated woman... and would gladly pay for the costs associated with a legal divorce. There is very little risk of going to jail...and it's relatively easy to be discreet.
Hopefully she finds a good guy.
I know my girl is genuinely honest
steffys husband here, Ayala mall is a nice place, is there still a TGI FRIADAYS THERE?
yes, by all means, shop around and sample the merchandise before you buy! if she be crazy, go to another island!!! FAST!!
not according to Mark , he found a child bride
Common sense how refreshing !!!
Weng is a classy lady
I know the issues with “separated” Filipinas. I raised 4 boys. Ready for a daughter. Finding the right Filipina with just one child, a daughter between 4-10 would be ideal. Young enough to accept me as a father. Are there any?
I would wait til september for her !!
The annulment process and dealing with Filipino lawyers and the legal system is pretty horrific. They were talking about changing the laws pretty recently. It needs changing.
Weng you are amazing and absolutely beautiful filipina woman
Nice lady.
Due to the risk, though, I'd hold on to my own "Weng."
I am just at the 10 minute mark and must comment on she prefers the guy still in his country...of course she does as that means money being sent to her and no work on her part. I am in Iloilo having moved here in early December and plan to stay in PH for many years....most girls online are blown away when they find you you are already here because their whole game is based on you not being here. Many girls stop chatting or just aren't available, and then next issue really is their shyness and fear of speaking English...just about every girl I have met insists on bringing someone with them and 80% of the time it's a lady boy or a gay guy because their English is always much better. I don't mind that on the first time to meet but one gal in Bacolod wants to bring her gay cousin with her when she comes to Iloilo for the weekend....and that too is okay as he will just be here for dinner the first night and staying with relatives. Many girls have so little self confidence they just tell me how ugly they are and are afraid to meet. One canceled on me yesterday for that very reason. It's only been a few months and I'm not contacting too many gals on dating sites but I'd say most are geared towards talking money out of a guy still in his country.
dude , on dating sites there are women of all different colour,
a lot of mature not good looking women who will probably never gonna date again,
second group single moms who face a difficult challenge to find a mate, the young and good looking women there play the game of money of course, coz they can find someone easily in real life unless they stay all day at home with mom😅 many foreign men on dating site will never make it to the Phils😂
@@christofotto2499 The younger gals don’t have the polish of the late 20’s and older girls with their sob stories…so much easier to sniff out. Good girls don’t bring up money as they are too proud to ask. I have known gals for six months that wouldn’t accept money just for load. The good ones for sure. I’m only interested in a young girl with drive and goals. Lots of them out there
assuming you are 60 /70/80 and she is 20 or 21 you always gonna have to pay for the game,
doesn't matter who is going to ask at what time and with which attitude😂 she brings the youth to the table and you the atm
I like to talk to the college girls too but only the not good looking ones,
otherwise I feel too intimidated ,the game would be too obvious to me😅
@@christofotto2499 Morena girls grow up thinking they are ugly. They are bullied and looked down upon their entire life. Filipinos like light skinned chubby girls while most westerners like Morena girls who have little self confidence so at no time do they have the upper hand…and in reality she just wants a stable home life and isn’t caught up in the material world 20% of all women in every country is. Stay out of the cities and most are very open to large age gaps.
@@UncleWobby2024 filipinas are way too small for me, am a tall German by German standards,
also Morena means often 5 -8 siblings I don't want to pay their medical bills , probably she is single mom if she looks good by any standard but you may learn about it only later 😂
its a huge task , alone for a flight I can invite a lot of women to a coffee date in my place 😂 but they are not interested coz of my low paying job
I like tall african women if they are funny and approachable, many are not 😂
women are women no matter where you go however the property laws may be ok still in the Philippines
It's Weng 😊.
Is it take your time and what kind of time are we talking? Years? Decades? Almost all of the guys I know are single. Some are like me and not even dating. Out of the 100 or so guys I've meet I know maybe 2 that have been in a relationship more than 1 year. Interesting dating dynamics here for sure.
You're spot on, interesting is a good way to put it, pros and cons to dating here but I think more cons than people realize.
ask Weng how many sponsors she has
wengs link not working.
She is giving her Ex more power than he deserves. After 7 years, she is waiting too long to "restart" her life.
It’s around 600,00 pesos
Younger guys have more options and way easier to find than the old timers.
Hello❤❤❤
Just remember guy's, it's illegal to date a married woman in the Philippines, and separated is still married.
So.....look for the older women with kids because they have more emotional maturity. How convenient for an older woman with kids.
3rd time was a charm for me