becoming THAT WOMAN in your 20s: appearance, money, charisma, hobbies & relationships
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- becoming that WOMAN in your 20s: appearance, money, charisma & relationships
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I learned from my twenties how shallow people are. Looks make or break how people treat you off the bat. Be the most attractive person you can be for yourself because I promise you get better treatment
True but also jealousy. Bad bad bad jealousy
Sure, but also why would you want to be around people who only treat you kindly if you’re attractive? You can’t control how others treat you but you can control your environment (for the most part). You don’t actively need to be spending time with people who only value you as a person based on what you look like.
@@teddyf3960 most people treat you based off looks
@@teddyf3960 Its bad.... But that is hpw pple is, since it cant be changed why not use it to your advantage
Fr but it hurts so bad . Having this realization
I just turned 20 and I feel lost. I feel alone, I feel a lot of anxiety, especially in social settings. I feel like I don’t know myself. I feel like I’m trying to do so many things, but not really knowing what I want
You are gonna get over it gurl. Its just a matter of time. You are a goddamn woman who is gonna manifest everything she aspires. Just have faith.
Loads of love❤
@@ME-eo2ju thank you so much for this!!!!!!
I felt this! But I would say to break out of this you gotta KNOW YOURSELF. You already lowkey figured out what you gotta do it’s just about seeing it through. & always remember BE AUTHENTIC. Be genuine! It pays in the long run… I’m telling you. You’d be surprised how many people are NOT GENUINE !
@@LuvKitKatt THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THISSS !!!! I had to learn how to not be so hard on myself and to accept things because I’m still young and learning. And I’m slowly learning that people’s intentions are not pure, and it hurts. But as long as I feel like I’m genuine to myself it’s all that counts
Me too 🫶🏽
thank you for being the big sister we all need
My pleasure ❤️
I second that
right! totally agree :) love her
like seriously ❤️
I FELT EVERY PART OF THIS VIDEO, especially the part of boundaries, i literally lost all my friends cos i finally started having boundaries when i turned 25, i guess not everyone was meant to finish the journey with us, but tbh am glad i believe they weren't meant to be in this next chapter of my life, better now than realizing this later,
I feel you on the losing people portion. I'm glad you did what you needed to do ❤️
But how do we find new friends after we've lost all of them...
@@MsSimixx just keep doing the things you love. Go to the places that inspire you and you will meet like minded people so you dont have to struggle to fit in but also becar2ful I trying to not just say or I vibe with this person. Because not every vibe is healthy. They might turn our to be horrible. For the most part dont rush the finding new friends process. Just be yourself first. Understand you and everything else will follow in due time
Yes, really needed this because I’m 25 and I do not like my appearance and that’s due to the fact that I don’t like my body and I know it’s something I can change but I’m lazy 😩 so I feel in order to step into my womanhood I need to gain confidence and it starts with loving my body first. I rebuke the spirit of laziness
Yes AMEN 🙏
you *are* not lazy, you are being lazy right now. but laziness is not your identity. you can make change and can make change now. just sit in a quiet place, maybe put a song that gets you in a flow (i usually start with the song tajdar e haram, it's a spiritual song so sets me in right mood) and start from scratch. think of it as a prayer to god, say to god why you feel you are miserable, first address your worries. and then start visualising from now on, exactly from where you are, what small changes u can do to lead to ur desired state. and visualise urself doing them, visualise ur hurdles clearing up one by one. finish the visualisation as the song ends. open your eyes, thank god, and start taking just the next right step you can take. you can do it!
@@tai-gm8sywow 🌟 thanks for that gem
Period girl you got this 🫶🏾💗
I am 52, want to change my life for the 2nd innings. I started my fitness journey and want to be the fittest at my 53rd birthday. I am doing Pilates, gym and learning new languages to keep my brain young. I love your voice n your videos. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I don’t ever comment on videos but thank you coming from a 19 year old turning 20 in December.💓🧘🏾♀️
I’m glad this was valuable! ✨
I literally just turned 20 today and I came across this video, I needed this, thank you.
Am 21 ❤
same i turn 20 yesterday
For someone without a mother figure… thank you for the advice ❤
Wow, you’re so welcome ❤️
I turned 22 months ago, I literally don't know which direction I want to go and this video makes so much sense. I needed this!
I’m glad you found it! ❤️
I only started watching your videos by chance last night, and from then on, I was hooked. Most of the videos i watched piqued my interest, touching on topics I've been wanting to start, but didn't know how too. Every video i watched felt specifically tailored for me. The manner in which you communicate your message is so clear and simple. Your videos are not so long, which keeps me engaged... Thank you for your videos
Wow, thank you so much. I appreciate you taking the time to comment this and I'm glad you're already enjoying the content! ❤️
Turning 25 in a couple of weeks, I feel so behind bc I’m just now starting to be consistent with putting myself first. Better late than never though ❤ thanks for the video
I’m 17 ready to become the best version of my self and this video has had a great impact on me thanks 🙏 ❤
I just turned 22, and I just feel confused in my 20s and I wanna be the best version of myself and all the pressures from society and what others expect from you is difficult
It is because society makes it this way! Especially them being obsessed with stripping the “innocent” energy that you have.. is crazy !
I'm 18 & I live with a single dad, I love this type of content I can't wait for my future self when I have mentors who prepare me for womenhood instead off be dreaming about one day I'll be the women I wanna be, no it's a everyday task the content I watch, the things I do, the people I surround myself with etc.
Omg I always say this; being open to LISTEN even if you may not agree, that's always a good thing. Girl you just got a new subscriber x😚
It opens up a new world! Welcome to the winning side ❤️
Can we get a tutorial on your hair??
Beautiful video, just had a break up after 5 years and was looking for some uplifting videos, I turned 25 two months ago and I've always wanted my 25th year to be the year I finally move into my woman hood, surprisingly this was also the year I felt like I was depressed for the first time in my life, also made the most money this year, but I still felt like something was missing, I look at myself and I feel like a complete mess, I hate the way I look, I have so many dreams, aspirations and things I want to do, but I couldn't just get myself to do them, I'm hoping with this break up, I can finally break free from that cage and look and feel the way I really want to
Girl we are in the same boat, I’m 24 Turning 25 next month and was forced to move back with my parents and I’m also broke. But thanks god I found a fantastic job that I love and where I can grow, I am looking at life now with positivity.
You got this girl, just remember you are a boss women and you control your own life just manifest the things you want and you will achieve that!! 🙏❤️
I just discovered your channel and I'm in love. I'm turning 25 this year and super scared but this video just warmed my heart. Thank you Adama❣
I turned 25 on March 4 this year 😊
You’re welcome! ❤️
You’re scared to be alive? Thank God for every year because eventually you won’t get the next one
I'm 23 and working on moving out of my home city. Because i realised i dont actually like the mindset of this city. I thought i was immune because i wasnt from a "small town" but im realising i need to move somewhere else for my own sanity
i turned 20 last week I really needed this
stepping into my womanhood rn, thank you Adama
I love and appreciate that you said “ that woman “ it’s degrading to oneself to state “ that girl” it’s a maturity level I think we all need to learn the difference. Speaking from an entomology perspective
I will be turning twenty in a few months and this was absolute gold. You just got a new subscriber!
You really are my big sister on the internet, thank you so much for this ❤️
This video was so powerful. Thank you for your words of wisdom ,and inspiration. You inspired me as a woman in my 20’s. Keep shining ✨
Thank you so much ❤️
I love your content! I’m currently in my journey of becoming THAT woman and your video confirmed a lot for me. Thank you!!
This is my first time watching you and I can already see myself staying my attention span is awful but I was engaged from start to finish I definitely needed this💕
I am 39 and can sense the maturity in you. It’s extremely refreshing. Your amazing my dear ❤❤❤
You are so well spoken and articulate, your voice and intonation make me want to listen to you speak ALL DAY LONG ❤
wow your videos always come at the right moment for me truly a big sis for me
I'm so glad they do! ❤️
your hair looks amazing😍 can we pls get a tutorial?
Thank you so so much for this, i’m turning 20 in a months time- this vid arrived just in time😊
Your hair is GORGEOUS!!
I love that segment about hobbies! Btw, what's your skincare routine? You're glowing
Thank you! It's pretty simple I use Avene foaming face wash and moisturisers and sometimes i use Tretinoin thats about it! ❤️
I just love everything that you do Adama. Your contents are very valuable and I always take something enriching from it. Thank you ❤
Thank you lovely, appreciate you too! ❤️
I’m 36 and this was very insightful, thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it! ❤️
Your hair in this video is the first time I've seen my hair texture as beautiful. Wow. You're absolutely stunning.
Wow, thank you! ❤️✨
I love the way you express yourself, you seem to be a natural speaker. I really enjoyed your advice. 🙂😘❤️
Thank you so much! ❤️
I’m 30 and I think there’s a lot of gems in this video! 💎 I find these types of videos quite interesting cause everyone has a different lived experience that shapes the advice given. Generally love your content and was happy to learn you’re a fellow Geographer as well 😁🌍
I am so happy I came across this channel. I met a fabulous 86 year old woman today who looked phenomenal and i thought “that’s who I want to be” so I have to start taking steps to become like that ❤❤❤
Thank you for this. Can you make a video about Leaning into you Feminine Energy and controlling your emotions next?
I love your voice and the entire message of this video, I really think that more people need to hear this (especially the finance stuff)
Thank you! ✨
This is just the video I needed ❤I turned 21 ,2 days ago and I feel overwhelmed about a lot of things. 😢😢😢I'm new to the channel and I hope this journey is going to be great and better.
Wow! Adama, the topics you touched on and the wisdom you shared is absolutely dynamic. I can relate to the areas of combining skill sets, censoring what one consumes on social media, nurturing healthy relationships and much more. I look forward to watching other videos of yours! Thank you.
Oh WOW this is deep. I’m in my forties but it speaks to me….every single word. I’m happy I came across your video and subscribed in the first few minutes. Thank you!
I appreciate it, you're welcome! ❤️
I too, relate to this comment. I am in my 40 and I feel zero negative impact on my life due to my age.We women must never feel outdated. We should be confident in age and not 🚭 ashamed of age but confident cuz you are gaining wisdom and experience
Adama! You’re really THAT GIRL!!! I don’t know how else to put it. It’s astonishing
I think i found the channel I've been looking for!!!
Firstly, it's nice to meet my namesake 'Lorna'. Also I love how this video is calm, enriching & fulfilling .💝
Hey! Thank you ❤️
when i was about 13, i dreamt i had a 13 year old daughter named Lorna, so i thought i'd save that name for future use. i ended up not naming them any Lornas, though it's funny I did remember that dream a few days ago.
Your voice is so soothing❤.. I needed this as I turn 27 ..late 20's but better late than never I guess
I'm in my forties and I really liked your video. You reminded me on having hobbies 😅
I subscribed to your channel 😉
22 y/o here! Stepping into Womanhood gracefully 💕
You just got a brand new subscriber!! Thank you ❤
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Your hair>>> omg!!
You are so beautiful, well spoken and mature. Hopefully you're already very proud of yourself--surely your parents are.
This is a beautiful comment. Thank you so much ❤️
Huh so what's going on
Just discovered your video, just turned 25 4/4 an been going through a quarter life crisis an also creating boundaries for myself
I really needed a video like this ❤ earned a new subscriber
I totally agree get with those more seasoned who can pull you up to
The best advice on leveling up I’ve heard in a long time, without the pump and flare of fake in my face. Thank you.
"I'm trying to look good forever"
I’m 23 and I’m tearing up needed to hear this 🥹✨💚
i’m turning 20 today…thank you so much for this video ❤
Have a wonderful birthday then🎉
I hope you had an amazing birthday! You’re welcome ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this information this is my first time watching your channel
I discovered your page today and I love it! you just gained a new subscriber!
First time watching and I’ve subscribed already, just what and who I need to listening to in this my mid 20’s
I'm glad you found the channel! ❤️
November 17th, 2023
I can’t wait to watch and use this video to improve myself
You’re voice is so soothing and calming
Absolutely loved this ❤ Also you look so lush 🥰 love your space 😍
Thank you so much! ❤️
9:29 this!! Multiple people will try to push your boundaries. Definitely ! Definitely!
This video is enough to convince me you are the online big sissy I've been looking for❤
Can I get your number u look pretty
Relationships are forever showing me flames. I am codependent on others and i hate it
I’ll be 26 next month. I just finished my masters in arts admin and as I’m ATTEMPTING to enter into the workforce I’m feeling this tremor in my foundation and my plans because I’m not as prepared for this as I thought. I’m curious to what set you on your path to success. I didn’t have the direction and guidance that I needed, so I went to college and grad school pursuing dance and the arts because that’s what I was put in and practiced from childhood on. But, I had no real plan for what comes after. And, my family was just proud to see me pursue anything. I thought I was on the right course but I’m now trying to figure out how to sustain myself and build a life. I find myself considering whether I need to back track and start over in another industry that is more conducive to that. Is it too late, and is it worth more student loan debt?
Never
instantly subscribed, this is such a valuable (and concise) video! tyyy
Thank you! ❤️
Very valid points and your voice is so soothing ! Can we please get details on your hair ? It’s gorgeous 🫶🏽
Short but very complete video with good information
i love this channel so much! 🥰
Thank you! 🥺❤️
Yess ! Speaking of fitness appearance yoga works for me , also you can do a Little with a lot ❤
beautiful advice thank you! spoke to my soul
This makes me happy!
Thanks for making a video for younger women, was struggling to find them tbh
My pleasure ❤️
This video came right on time, thank you!
I’m glad! You’re welcome ❤️
Thank you for this, always look forward to your uploads! ❤
Thank you! 🥺❤️
As soon as you mentioned fitness and lifting I subscribed. Overall valuable information!
So inspiring and engaging! Thank you!
You're welcome! 💕
Her hair is GOLDEN !!!!!!…. MOVE OUT THE WAY DO YOU SEE THE PRETTY LAYERS ? New Inspo , so beautiful , so soft and full looking!! its like a whisky lash set but in hair !!!
Thank you very much. Got to be 26 today and i am not happy i just met your video.
The boundary part got to me so deeply because i haven't set that up well enough.
Anyways thank you very much for this video.
Also i love❤ your voice.
You had me at Sims😂 Thank you for sharing this information!
Hey Adama, Love this video, I would like to request a morning routine video if you haven't already done it, also how to set systems to organize life, what sorts of things should we actually be doing ina morning or night routine that will help us be productive or get good sleep etc. some routines are filled with about 10 things and after the morning routine, one is way too tired to even begin the day lol...What times do you work out? Also, please never quit TH-cam! your videos are helpful. I will personally accept you taking a break but if you quit I will find you and make you write a book🤣🤣🤣just joking
Hey, thank you! Sure my last morning routine is over a year old and i could do with a new one. LOL yes ma'am ✨
Video came right in time! Thank you.
When she mentioned Pinterest, I was like yep, she knows the shit ❤❤
You are so well spoken
😂😂I felt called out when you mentioned the sims!! Thanks for the advice❤❤
Our sims community is an interesting one 😂❤️
I really enjoyed this, i cant wait to watch more of your content
Thoroughly enjoyed this. I really have to work on my boundaries.
I'm glad you did! ✨
I never comment under youtube videos but if I COULD LIKE THIS A THOUSAND TIMES, I WOULD!
I love this whole video!! Thank you for sharing this 🔥❤️
Thank you! ❤️
Loved your perspective ❤
Thank you! ❤️
Youre so well spoken!!! Love your content as well
00:01 Stepping into womanhood in your 20s
01:24 Find your fitness routine early for long-term benefits.
02:52 Develop a sophisticated and classical style in your 20s
04:17 In your 20s, find your unique combinations of skills and interests for earning and fulfillment.
05:42 Explore diverse hobbies and passions for personal growth and fulfillment.
07:04 Challenge your ideas and be open to different perspectives
08:31 Nurturing high-quality relationships in your 20s
09:57 Establish boundaries and trust your intuition in your 20s
Thank me later😉
I like your voice.. it doesn’t put me to sleep like most TH-camrs 😍
thank you for the amazing video
You’re welcome!