Putting yourself in the right room EVEN if it means spending your own money. Omg this came at the perfect time omg. Adama, keep this up. I’ve commented a few times now because I’m binging your videos. These are SO good. -32 year old financial consultant
7:28 I needed to hear that, I’ve always been so good at science and hidden the parts of me that I actually loved just because they weren’t science. I studied Civil engineering but I love makeup, content creation and marketing and denying myself my creativity side actually made me collapse and eventually ended up dropping out from Civil engineering because I mentally couldn’t handle the inner conflict. I’m currently learning how to embrace both sides of me❤️
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
It’s crazy because I’m 25 and am realizing the same I wish I would’ve just listened to older people when I was 20 but sometimes you just gotta learn urself I guess 😂😭
I always say do it even when you second guess yourself. I started my Yt channel like that. started my LinkedIn posts like that......I saw how people believed me which gave me more confidence. Also tell yourself out loud, 'I deserve x and I am working towards it'
My biggest blocker is not wanting to join all of these seminars, workspaces and shops just to be able to meet people to get a new job. I am just very introverted and don’t find a lot of fun out of small talk or what feels like kissing ass just to get an ounce of extra notability. I just feel like I’m always putting on a mask when it comes to work and it feels so ingenuine and draining.
I feel you. Though I do feel like it’s less about performing and more about not being afraid to take up space and show people what you have to offer. I’m introverted too but I want to go take what I want out of life instead of waiting for it.
I see you. And I totally understand where you're coming from because I used be like that, and I still kinda am. For me I discovered that it was just a limiting belief. Also, like @theselflovemuslimah said, I was not comfortable taking up space and being perceived. My journey to overcoming the limiting beliefs started with coaching, kinda like therapy, where I learned various things to change my mindset, and to self regulate. In a month's time I had already seen significant improvement. I'm still a work in progress, but I now have the right frameworks that help me find confidence from within, and shut down limiting beliefs when they come up. I wish you all the best on your journey, and that you end up finding out what works for you.
real, I explained this to a friend and they found it hard to understand why talking to people I don't want to just to get an opportunity felt like ass kissing. Every forced laughter and questions about someone's life feels so in-genuine. Every time Im interacting with people in this type of instance it feels like i have to put a mask on and perform and hope someone likes my performance enough to put a coin in my hat :(
I also have this block. A Public Speaking coach I had gave great advice regarding this discomfort with Networking. Be interested in the other person and keep in mind that you can benefit them as well. When you know people you can bring two people together for a project they need done or an opportunity. They can also do this for you it a synergistic relationship, just take more interest in people beyond the work basically!
I've had this video downloaded for more than a week now, but didn't feel the NEED to watch it. Today, I decided to watch it and I must admit, I NEEDED the information and lessons from this content today more than I would've, had I watched from the start. Thank you so much, Adama, for sharing this valuable tips with us. Love you❤
I'm a big fan Adama 💗💗💗 The part about embracing the arts AND science! It was such a battle of mine for so long but I'm finally seeing how they can be balanced and in some cases, complement each other!
Hi Adama!! I just rediscovered your channel! I think I’ve been subscribed for over a year now but am now just deep diving more into your content, and boy would I say I rediscovered you at the perfect time. I’m loving all of your videos, even your older ones, and they just are such a positive addition to my life right now. I’m 20 1/2, and I’m all about focusing in my 20s and using my youth/time to the fullest! 🎉Love love love all of your content ❤❤
Im grateful that ur video popped up✨! Im 19 and I feel lost and sometimes feel like im missing a lot, like I feel that time is just going so fast and im not doing what I want to do.
your videos and energetic presence are so reassuring, calming, and encouraging! I feel more productive in a motivated way, not a stressed out, urgent type of way. Thank you
@@AdamaLorna unlike my profession I think I would do it again. It's a creative job especially for femininity. You get to want to look good and be softer as first in line
Love this video! Can you speak more about failure in terms of learning and sharing in public? I agree that it’s hard to get over! Public speaking has been a problem area for me over the years.
This ain't no open letter to yourself... it's one to your younger sibling rught here..Thank You so much for this❤... I'm 21 and you just gained a subscriber❤
Yep, a Godsend really. I needed this video. Ive been contemplating going back to my barista job or continuing as a jobhunter in my career field. Plus the louis comment😅..ive been called out. I havent acted on it but the thoughts have been there.
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
I wasn’t going to comment, but I just got an ad as you were talking about having hobbies outside of work and school, just to nurture the soul, and the ad I got was saying “if you have a child in 6-12th grade…blah blah blah… if they’re doing hobbies outside of school trying to get into college (something like that). Don’t. It’s a complete waste of time.” Idk, I just found that funny and realize there’s so many false advertising out there.
This was such a good video. even tho im 29! Any advice for someone who feels so late behind in life? only one job in my career so far, and im trying to apply to a new one, but it feels impossible to land an interview and obtaining new skills and new ways of leveling up.
I just found your channel and I love your insights and advice! I was wondering, what made you decide to start your TH-cam channel? I’ve always been shy of it because it takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there and share your stories. I also worry because I currently work in the tech/legal fields and older generations always are telling me to have a minimal social media presence. How did you navigate that?
To add to the one dimension, I’m artist, I have degree in GD and have a plethora skills under the “Art” category, how one get into the math/science spaces/skills ? I do like math how do I explore this into a skill?(I do have the mindset as you said I can’t do science etc etc )
@7:35 What if its the other way around? I'm more into the arts, whether it be fine arts, language arts, etc, but I feel like math and science isnt for me. How can one improve or maybe even be inspired to tap into the sciences and mathematics?
The way I usually do this (though it’s different for everyone!) is I try to find something that makes me curious about it, or to find an aspect I like enough about it that I might want to learn more. Sometimes just sitting with the topics and getting to know the subjects can help! (I’m a writer, so when I’m unsure about a subject I try to think of a book idea related to it that I’d research for, and that usually helps me want to learn more and approach it with more interest.) (maybe see if there’s something about science or math that you could use in your art! I like using formulas and experiments in mine to simplify projects I see as daunting)
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
Hey Adama, i tried contacting you on TikTok but I got hit by scammers pretending to be you. I tried purchasing your course but teachable is not allowing. Payment keep failing. I need help and I need the course.
Why don’t ya’ll use capital letters in the titles and especially leaving “i” common? Curious as to if it’s just a being lazy thing or did they stop teaching the younger generation how to write English?
The silence around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is unbelievable. This book reveals powerful techniques, yet people remain unaware. Don't miss out - discover what everyone's ignoring!
Apologies I'm out of focus due to the mic, I guess this is more of an audio experience! 🤍
We love it anyway. This video impacted me. Thanks so much for making it for us!🎉❤❤❤
Tu oll
Ma che 5:36 5:36 non si si fa
As a 19 year old, this video was so helpful and informative! Thank you so much
I’m 20 and I agree!
Then it did exactly what I hoped it would. You're so welcome! 🤎
Im watching this as a fellow 19 year old
Same here❤!!
same here! I’m also 19 yrs old
Putting yourself in the right room EVEN if it means spending your own money. Omg this came at the perfect time omg. Adama, keep this up. I’ve commented a few times now because I’m binging your videos. These are SO good. -32 year old financial consultant
7:28 I needed to hear that, I’ve always been so good at science and hidden the parts of me that I actually loved just because they weren’t science. I studied Civil engineering but I love makeup, content creation and marketing and denying myself my creativity side actually made me collapse and eventually ended up dropping out from Civil engineering because I mentally couldn’t handle the inner conflict.
I’m currently learning how to embrace both sides of me❤️
Real!!
I studied civil engineering too, I am passionate about Art and I kept it hidden for a very long time. But I am now embracing that side of me.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Who is the author
@@baqiahlimmy1141 it's a scam, ignore it.
It’s crazy because I’m 25 and am realizing the same
I wish I would’ve just listened to older people when I was 20 but sometimes you just gotta learn urself I guess 😂😭
The hair 😍
The makeup😍
The look 😍
Thank you 🥰🥰
Girl thank yew. I’m turning 26 soon and needed to hear this.
You’re literally the best youtuber. Thank you so much for all your advice
Wow, thank you so much! 🤎
I always say do it even when you second guess yourself. I started my Yt channel like that. started my LinkedIn posts like that......I saw how people believed me which gave me more confidence. Also tell yourself out loud, 'I deserve x and I am working towards it'
I have been a receptionist for 5 years and it’s crazy that I only started believing in myself in my fifth year. Anyway, I love how you speak
My biggest blocker is not wanting to join all of these seminars, workspaces and shops just to be able to meet people to get a new job. I am just very introverted and don’t find a lot of fun out of small talk or what feels like kissing ass just to get an ounce of extra notability. I just feel like I’m always putting on a mask when it comes to work and it feels so ingenuine and draining.
I feel you. Though I do feel like it’s less about performing and more about not being afraid to take up space and show people what you have to offer. I’m introverted too but I want to go take what I want out of life instead of waiting for it.
I see you. And I totally understand where you're coming from because I used be like that, and I still kinda am. For me I discovered that it was just a limiting belief. Also, like @theselflovemuslimah said, I was not comfortable taking up space and being perceived.
My journey to overcoming the limiting beliefs started with coaching, kinda like therapy, where I learned various things to change my mindset, and to self regulate. In a month's time I had already seen significant improvement. I'm still a work in progress, but I now have the right frameworks that help me find confidence from within, and shut down limiting beliefs when they come up.
I wish you all the best on your journey, and that you end up finding out what works for you.
real, I explained this to a friend and they found it hard to understand why talking to people I don't want to just to get an opportunity felt like ass kissing. Every forced laughter and questions about someone's life feels so in-genuine. Every time Im interacting with people in this type of instance it feels like i have to put a mask on and perform and hope someone likes my performance enough to put a coin in my hat :(
@@theselfloveprincesss that’s a really good way to think about it instead!
I also have this block. A Public Speaking coach I had gave great advice regarding this discomfort with Networking. Be interested in the other person and keep in mind that you can benefit them as well. When you know people you can bring two people together for a project they need done or an opportunity. They can also do this for you it a synergistic relationship, just take more interest in people beyond the work basically!
I'm growing so much through your content. I love you, and I think you're my role model. 🥺❤️ I'm currently 21 years old.
Thank u so much I'm turning 23 in 3 months and I found this very interesting and beneficial , it impacted me in some kinda way.
This is so real, I am an art person who always stayed away from sciences because I thought it was just never for me
Babes you’re killing it with the content! Love it and need it! ❤
Thank you! I defo feel like I'm in a flow state right now 🤎
My favorite TH-camr!
I appreciate you 🥺🤎
I've had this video downloaded for more than a week now, but didn't feel the NEED to watch it. Today, I decided to watch it and I must admit, I NEEDED the information and lessons from this content today more than I would've, had I watched from the start. Thank you so much, Adama, for sharing this valuable tips with us. Love you❤
I'm a big fan Adama 💗💗💗
The part about embracing the arts AND science! It was such a battle of mine for so long but I'm finally seeing how they can be balanced and in some cases, complement each other!
Starting this video and the sound quality is so top-notch!
Tbh I've been playing around with different mics but this one is always the best, its just a bit in the way 😂
Thank you for noticing 🤎
Im 24, i found you when i was like 20 and you're still ever inspiring.
girl this should literally be a podcast, i love your voice ! it makes me want to listen to this all day ! thank you for the insights ♡
Hi Adama!! I just rediscovered your channel! I think I’ve been subscribed for over a year now but am now just deep diving more into your content, and boy would I say I rediscovered you at the perfect time. I’m loving all of your videos, even your older ones, and they just are such a positive addition to my life right now. I’m 20 1/2, and I’m all about focusing in my 20s and using my youth/time to the fullest! 🎉Love love love all of your content ❤❤
Such wonderful insights! Thank you so much, it felt like a lovely mini mentorship
Thank you, i'm glad you found it valuable 🤎
Also this a great video, I’m 24 post-uni and this is extremely beneficial I needed this, thank you
Im grateful that ur video popped up✨! Im 19 and I feel lost and sometimes feel like im missing a lot, like I feel that time is just going so fast and im not doing what I want to do.
Same as me
I love you English 😍 thanks I didn't waste my 20's ,thanks. I find this information very useful.
About to turn 20 in a few dayssss
I'll be 20 next year
Happy to have come across this information 😊
You help change my life every upload :)
That means a lot to me, thank you 🙏🏾
Loved this so much and will definitely use this advice. Just turned 24 and navigating life can be difficult sometimes.
your videos and energetic presence are so reassuring, calming, and encouraging! I feel more productive in a motivated way, not a stressed out, urgent type of way. Thank you
I really wish I met people w your mindset
I aspire to be like you and this video is really insightful and it makes total sense. Thank you!
I love your voice
Thank you! 🤎
I love the way you speak and the content that comes out of you. ❤
Great video ! I feel encouraged, and you weren’t repetitive with the points . Thanks for sharing ❤
Value creation and sharing 👏👏… thank you soo much
100k!!!! So happy for you!!!
Love your videos as always Adama! Everything you said I am definitely exploring and going through in my early 20s right now
I really enjoyed this video, thank you so informative. Will be coming back to it regularly
I loved being a receiptionist it was only 3months, short lived I tell you.
Yeah same tbh. I did at a gym whilst at university and I gained so much from it!
@@AdamaLorna unlike my profession I think I would do it again. It's a creative job especially for femininity. You get to want to look good and be softer as first in line
such a beauty. she kinda looks like tems
Love this video! Can you speak more about failure in terms of learning and sharing in public? I agree that it’s hard to get over! Public speaking has been a problem area for me over the years.
Your voice !!! it's so beautiful.
This ain't no open letter to yourself... it's one to your younger sibling rught here..Thank You so much for this❤... I'm 21 and you just gained a subscriber❤
Really great advice
Thanks so much !
Thanks for sharing!
Yep, a Godsend really. I needed this video. Ive been contemplating going back to my barista job or continuing as a jobhunter in my career field.
Plus the louis comment😅..ive been called out. I havent acted on it but the thoughts have been there.
Thank you so much for this advice❤❤
This is best advice ever gotten..thanks sis
❤ You
I relate to this video sm! thank you!
Glad! You're welcome ✨
Thanks Adama. Really high value content!
Thank you!
Exactly what i needed to hear ❤since I'll be turning it soon
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
Love love love this!!
I appreciate you and your work
Thank you! I appreciate you and your support
Very valid yea! Generate ur own luck 🤞
I wasn’t going to comment, but I just got an ad as you were talking about having hobbies outside of work and school, just to nurture the soul, and the ad I got was saying “if you have a child in 6-12th grade…blah blah blah… if they’re doing hobbies outside of school trying to get into college (something like that). Don’t. It’s a complete waste of time.” Idk, I just found that funny and realize there’s so many false advertising out there.
Incredible content, as always! 🙌
Thank you! 🤍
thanks girl
I just turned 20 six days ago and this came on my feed right on time❤
love your videos !!! tuning in from Malaysia
Thank you!!
i appreciate this video 💞
🤍🤍
This is highly informative.
Thank youuu😊
I love watching your videos so much. Thank you
I'm happy you do! You're welcome
Thank you for this video!
What skills do you recommend??
Thank you
Thank you beautiful !
Great video ❤
Hey girl! Listening to you on a commute 😊
Hope you had a good day at work 🤍
@@AdamaLorna Thanks! I actually drove to a cafe and then did a dance class. Was way too advanced for me so I cried lol but I'm feeling better today.
I just turned twenty a couple weeks ago! This was extremely helpful, thank you! DO you offer mentorship services?
I'm 20, you're literally the woman I aspire to be. I'm also a woman of color, and want to be a software engineer and gym rat haha
Me except I wanna be an accountant lol
Thanks alot for sharing your experiences
That helped me alot
You're welcome 🤎
Thank you 🙏🏿
Nice one girl ❤
This was such a good video. even tho im 29! Any advice for someone who feels so late behind in life? only one job in my career so far, and im trying to apply to a new one, but it feels impossible to land an interview and obtaining new skills and new ways of leveling up.
I just found your channel and I love your insights and advice! I was wondering, what made you decide to start your TH-cam channel? I’ve always been shy of it because it takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there and share your stories. I also worry because I currently work in the tech/legal fields and older generations always are telling me to have a minimal social media presence. How did you navigate that?
Great voice 🎉
#1 I love your videos !!
I'm currently a loner on purpose. I don't want to be around negativity. How can I change my surroundings?
Thank you so much,i feel like i have wasted my early 20's 😢
Me too but we still have a chance I believe 🥲… I turned 25 on December 15th and I feel so aimless… but I’m going to turn it around from now
@@anastasiatee9254rooting for you boo❤🥹
@@chisomogbonna8992 thank you so much 🥹
Wow!!!
You look like Tonto Dikeh omg. Gorgeous 🥰
I see itt
Great video, however, the audio is quite low
To add to the one dimension, I’m artist, I have degree in GD and have a plethora skills under the “Art” category, how one get into the math/science spaces/skills ?
I do like math how do I explore this into a skill?(I do have the mindset as you said I can’t do science etc etc )
Well. I just turned 30 😔
So much of this applies throughout life!
@7:35 What if its the other way around? I'm more into the arts, whether it be fine arts, language arts, etc, but I feel like math and science isnt for me. How can one improve or maybe even be inspired to tap into the sciences and mathematics?
The way I usually do this (though it’s different for everyone!) is I try to find something that makes me curious about it, or to find an aspect I like enough about it that I might want to learn more. Sometimes just sitting with the topics and getting to know the subjects can help! (I’m a writer, so when I’m unsure about a subject I try to think of a book idea related to it that I’d research for, and that usually helps me want to learn more and approach it with more interest.) (maybe see if there’s something about science or math that you could use in your art! I like using formulas and experiments in mine to simplify projects I see as daunting)
It always easy to network but how do keep ur network after the conference. Cause I don’t speak to people after the conference
I'm 22 and I'm scared.
Hey, is there any self development book you would recommend?
Where did your accent go?
❤
Some please like my comment I will come and rewatch
I thought you were Temz 😂
Real 😂😂😂
Adama, I consider you my first mentor, thank you so much for all your insightful videos🤍
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
Hey Adama, i tried contacting you on TikTok but I got hit by scammers pretending to be you.
I tried purchasing your course but teachable is not allowing. Payment keep failing. I need help and I need the course.
Why don’t ya’ll use capital letters in the titles and especially leaving “i” common? Curious as to if it’s just a being lazy thing or did they stop teaching the younger generation how to write English?
It's sort of a way to tap into the algorithm and obtain more views. Most people don't capitalize letters when typing in the search bar.
it's a style
I’m neither lazy nor uneducated to answer your question. It’s largely a style preference.
For the same reason you used "ya'll" instead of "you all."
🤣🤣🤣🤣 and you’re using “y’all”?🤣🤣 get lost and touch grass please
The silence around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is unbelievable. This book reveals powerful techniques, yet people remain unaware. Don't miss out - discover what everyone's ignoring!