@nealcassady-yn3bh When people say "redpill" in dating, everyone usually means different things now. It used to just mean you were aware of hypergamy and that the dating scene can be an uphill battle for an average guy vs an average girl. It doesn't have to mean you agree with every single MGTOW talking point.
Just a reminder to my conservative family, we HAVE to make sure not to be filled with hate against the radical left or anyone. Pray for your enemies, and don't fret over the wicked. God will cut them down suddenly, and when we die, we won't remember any of the stuff going on here. Pray for them.
@2v_5r84 Oh yea, not just hanging around. 2 kids, the little one has CP, and the older one is just insane. These guys trip me out. I'm still the masculine, main decision maker. My wife organizes bills, but I still pay 4k a month in them
I think being a stay at home parent is the absolute best thing a parent can do for their child/ren! Your child deserves the best, and I firmly believe no one can take care of a child better than one of their parents. Loving and caring for your child is a parental thing, not a maternal thing. Dads are just as important as moms.
Shout out to the silent hero here, the video editors. The SpongeBob clips, the zoom ins on Matt's funny twitches, all of the video editing is amazing. Freaking hilarious, and we appreciate you (or y'all).
I am literally weeping because I can't understand WHY these people are filming themselves doing these things? If it's so great, just live it! You don't need the internet's attention or validation to enjoy your life!
It could always be worse…I was working ridiculous hours while cooking, cleaning and even being required to iron my ex-husband’s boxers and our sheets. He quit his job after we were married, stayed home watching porn, gaming, and cheating with other MEN. (I found out later about the cheating with men.) he told everyone I was his retirement plan. I hated it. He was very controlling, paranoid and became increasingly abusive over time. Thank God he’s my ex. We had no kids as well. Having a stay at home husband, who never did shit, while having no kids sucked. It was embarrassing.
@@filipcrnoja5385 Thank God I did! I have 4 beautiful children with my amazing husband, work part time and get to be with the kids the rest. I’m an attorney, so I work because I want to, not because I have to. My husband is a godly, kind, intelligent, hardworking man. It’s not how we start out that matters, just how we finish!
Im a mostly stay at home dad....my autistic son responded to my presence better than his mother.... it's not something i wanted to do....or ever thought of doing....but its what i HAVE to do for my kid....these dudes are an embarrassment to me....when i have free time from being dad im an electrician...these dudes are just generally useless to society....
My father had to take care of my brother and I when my mother was hospitalised repeatedly when we were children. He worked a full time job, cooked, cleaned etc and drove almost 3 hours round trip each day to visit her. That's what a man does. And these guys get tired doing the dishes
Prittyugly , its because you thought of him when you wear buy I other things. Same with boyfriends who gift their girls money, they love that you can prioritize them in spending ,,, now think of a girlfriend getting flowers but she paid for them, takes away everything from the experience ,
I am a stay at home dad. I served in the military and several years in law enforcement. I am medically retired from multiple head injuries. I am able to support my family through VA and medical retirement compensation. I also have recently returned to school to finish my bachelor's and hopefully get a job teaching middle school. My wife and I have joked that I am her trophy husband, but not all trophies are first place.
Thank you for your service you have an actual reason to be home you served your country in more ways then one these dudes are just useless in our society
Maybe not first place, but definitely first class. Thank you for your service and for endeavoring to use your life experience to educate kids. Best of luck to you in this next phase of your life.
Anyone else note that Chandler didn’t make Lucy’s ice latte the night before; she had to do it herself. And why is she spreading honey on her own bagel? Chandler, step up your game.
ABSOLUTELY I noticed that! I think it plays into Matt's theory they will all get divorced. Nobody wants to be seen as not being capable of doing things for themselves.
Whoever at the Daily Wire hired the editor who knows a lot about meme culture is a freaking genius! These videos are hilarious when it’s not full of outdated pop culture references and makes the entire video worth watching!
If feminists claim househusbands were patriarchal staying at home, contributing little while their wives had to work all day I would cry with laughter.
See, this is why stay at home mums need, deep appreciation, support and love… it’s not easy and it’s easy to slip into depression, for both men & women in similar circumstances. There is deep appreciation for the awesome stay at home dads who put in the care, love and dedication for their families!
@@sandysmith71LOL yet I bet most of the stay at home moms would flip if the husband came to them and said "I've been thinking. Let's swap and you be the sole worker and fiancial provider and I stay home with the kids and do chores". Vast majority would absolutely refuse or at least protest that idea. Not saying being a stay at home mom is easy. Not at all. But we both know its generally the preferred option. Unless she's going to be working her dream job or something. Also stay at home moms get to retire quite early from most of their duties when the kids move out, and even before that it still becomes more easier. Because as the kids age there's an element of less dependency they have. They can be told to do certain things and start taking up chores themselves, which is a help to the mom. Plus they become more social (school, fiends etc) so they're not in the house as much needing someone to constantly tend to them and hold them back from other tasks. Whereas the dads role (or who ever is the worker/financial provider) is practically a life long job. Or at least it is until his older years And as the kids age, unlike the stay at home mom, it can get actually more harder/demanding for the dad/financial provider. Because general expenses increase...a LOT. Funding their education, especially college fees, their social lives and hobbies etc. Then there's the expenses of wife too. Stay at home mom is by far the shorter sentence and overall its the easier task. The dad could very well still be working long after their own kids have become adults themselves and gotten married and have their own kids. Because he still has to provide for the wife and all her life long expenses. And the most ridiculous thing out if all is when some say that stay at home mom is "unpaid labor". Its literally the opposite. Stay at home moms are receiving a life time of being financially provided for in return for their chores. They get a house, medical care, vacations, food, water, clothes, money to spend on themselves. Everything from basic neccesities, to vital survival needs, to leisure and more. And to touch on what you said. There is huge lack of appreciation for the working dad too and the level of responsibility it entails. Many don't know, or care to know, the burn out, worry and depression that comes with that too. It tends or be approached with this "eh well thats life, you're supposed to do it" type attitude. Or just with an overall absent mind. Its no where near as "celebrated" or appreciated the way stay at home moms are. In fact, stay at home dads aren't celebrated along side the stay at home moms. And when the mom is the one who works, be it single or in a relationships. THEN we hear how tough it is and how much it should be celebrated. If the dad is the one doing the stay at home parent stuff, suddenly that role doesn't seem to be as big a deal. He's looked at with sense of worthlessness, and suddenly the working wife is seen as the unsung hero battling on for the good of the family. So its not so much the jobs/roles thats being given appreciation. It only really depends on what the mom/wife is doing.
They are not liberal, they're the opposite or illiberal. Words are incredibly powerful! The left obviously understands this, and the right, like usual, is completely clueless.
I’m a stay at home husband but only because of a head injury I had 8 months after coming home from Iraq. These guys are genuinely pathetic. My wife greatly appreciates me because I am a man of God. I will protect her and she knows with my protection she’s good. I pay my way with my disability and am a real man around our house. This is a very sad trend. .
Hi sir, was this desert storm or a more recent incident in Iraq? I'm not American, but I ask because I was born and raised in Kuwait. The US helped in making Kuwait safe again after the invasion. Also, I'm sorry about your injury.
Ohhhh, so you’re also just a stay at home husband. Just like the people in the video 😂 You’re just trying to create a distinction to make yourself feel better. Your situation is perfectly fine, so is the one in the video, no need to justify it.
A lot of people in the comments are missing a lot of the point here, 99% of these guys are stay-at-home HUSBANDS, not stay-at-home DADS. These dudes arent staying at home and taking care of kids, they're staying home and doing a few chores while their wives go out and work to support just the 2 of them.
I lost my job at one point and HATED having my wife be the sole provider in our childless home. I worked so hard to find a job and took a job I hated just to contribute until I could find something else. That's what you do!
That’s what you did but thanks to the people who push social norm’s people can happily live their lives while staying at home if they’re partner provides enough
See my husband and I are both conservatives, but my husband is a stay-at-home, homeschooling dad, and this is the one thing that really irks me about some conservatives. It is possible for it to work out fine if it suits both the husband and wife well. I just happened to make more $$ than my husband, and we wanted our kids to have a parent home and then we decided we also wanted to homeschool, so my husband stayed home. We couldn't have afforded it otherwise. He also supports our family by doing a lot of renovations on our home that we couldn't otherwise afford to do.
I don't think there's anything objectively wrong about a stay-at-home DAD. But if a woman is working two jobs and a man is just sitting around doing a bit of cleaning a cooking with 0 kids to care for or anything he's doing that's actually productive... that's not really right.
@@faithdrawing3858 Well, I totally agree with that. Before kids, he worked a full time job. After kids, he's not only raising them but educating them as well and does a lot of work around the house. I work one job.
This hit home. I'm a house husband and stay at home dad of 5 kids, my wife is a doctor. I'm also retired from the Marine Corps and homeschool as we travel so that makes me feel a little better. Even when we're home I take care of the house and home school I still have time to manage some rentals and have a woodworking side business. I also take care of all the car's, fill the freezer with wild meat and teach the kids about surviving in the wild, terrorist attacks or just general combat training. I should start a program about being a house Man, cutting wood, building decks and falling trees with your new baby is strapped to the front of you.
Not gonna lie, her expression at 7:15 actually broke my heart. That is the face of girl who isn't into a guy and is well aware that he should not be doing such nice things for her. That expression is a mix of flattery and guilt. Poor fella...
This man in the video doesn't have children, he's healthy and his wife works two jobs. Maybe one of those jobs is really another guy that she can respect.
Not true at all. If you have kids you should actually raise them instead of being lazy and putting them in a daycare or sending them to school where they’re indoctrinated. With regard to socializing you can just put them in different activities as they grow up. I’ve known a lot of people who act normal who were homeschooled and have no problem making friends.
I find it funny when the side that says “let people live their lives the way they want, leave them alone” always has to talk shit about people living their life’s the way they want and not bothering anyone.
Exactly. Male feminist with douche bag backwards baseball cap and zero children. Cleaning a pill box apartment and keeping stocked with chocolate chippies is a tough job.
@@Parrallaxativeswhich should be bashed... How is letting your wife stay at home and not go through the stress of working and being the breadwinner and carrying all the responsibility of being the sole provider being misogynistic and letting your wife handle everything, get two jobs, whilst you, the strongest, fittest, human in the house with the body built to withstand the stress of working is left doing the easy jobs in the house and enjoy yourself most of the time at home everyday, this isn't misogynistic??? My goodness, the twisted minds of westerners and their need to just let women do something men did without even thinking of the science behind it, not to mention the morals and psychology of it... This marriage isn't going to last especially in the divorce culture of America, I'm very close to certain that she'll get dissatisfied with him and either be cheating on him behind his back, at work or she just comes out one day to the house with a guy and turn the nonhusband into a cuck which seems like his final level or she would just call it quit which would be probably what happened but I hope it's the cuck option tho...
I don't think women who don't have kids need to work out side of the home. My husband is a full time job....taking care of him & the house needs. I have stayed home since we had kids & I will NOT go back to work once they leave in a couple of years. I am way too busy to get a job.
Honestly I live within 30 minutes of NYC and I've seen salaries for remote executive assistants on Indeed upwards of $100,000 so I doubt that she's broke, especially with a stay at home husband and living in NYC. She's got to be highly educated and experienced to afford what she has. Matt Walsh should feel ashamed for disrespecting her like that.
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I could listen to Matt’s cultural analyses/sermons all day. Whenever I need a good dose of truth and facts, I come here. I always leave refreshed and revitalized to face the barrage of cultural error with strength. Thank you, Matt!
I hope he is feeling better now. Also stay at home Dad isn't the problem. The guys on here gave no reason why they were staying home bc there were no kids to take care of.
@@heresyoursign9273Yes, God didn't design humans to be stay at home dads unless both parents stay at home. It is the husband/dad's job to provide and protect; in other words work.
The funny thing is that I do these things as a single guy, no kids and I still have a full time job. Couldn’t agree more with Matt that this isn’t a gendered issue, just don’t be worthless to society.
Yeah, I don't need to do any favors for "society". The way I see it when people talk about how "society" wants you to act they are just peer pressuring you to act a certain way.
10:05 I love the fact she didn’t even say my loving husband or my husband made me my lunch. Chandler made me my lunch. That’s how little respect she has for her husband. Nobody on tik tok is going to know chandler is her husband without knowing her or context. Chandler can be a butler for all we know. But I don’t blame her it’s hard to give those men respect when they don’t act as if they deserve it
@@Parrallaxatives she doesn’t do it to please the people watching and it’s not even about that. It’s about respecting your husband and marriage and being proud of and in it. How do we expect her to respect the marriage if she doesn’t even respect the title?
I'm a stay at home dad I'm disabled however I have a heart condition I take care of my 2 Boys for 9 hours while my wife works I love my boys and they are my duty and life of course I love caring for them what good dad don't in any way shape or form wouldn't want the joy? As for self respect I've gained so much my children have taught me so much and it's made me respect my self so much more and appreciate everything my wife does my family is simply amazing 😊
I'm glad that you both found something that works for you. My husband-to-be has severe depression and anxiety and is essentially unable to work, but is still such a help and support to me with whatever he is able to do. This isn't how I imagined my life, but I Love him and we're a team. It's worth the sacrifice.
Yeah don’t let Matt Walsh make you feel bad. If you’re in love you’re probably doing the best you can. Whether that’s at the widget factory or in the kitchen doesn’t really matter. ❤
I won't lie. When I was going through med school, my wife was the sole provider, and to help her out, I took on more of the house chores. But it was all part of a larger plan we discussed, so she could be a sray at home mom when we started a family. 14 years later, it has been all well worth it, and we love that my wife gets to spend the day with our 2 year old. Then again, I wasn't a "house husband" I was a student and a husband, and we were a couple with a plan.
@@therainman7777gamma... He clearly was studying to eventually take control of his family once again as the breadwinner... It was a means to an end... And I'm a guy who roasted the nonhusband in the video with my gf and both our siblings and their spouse... He was the topic of the conversation throughout Thanksgiving...
Many of the cultures where there's a stay at home wife discourage women getting a job so that they can focus on being a mother or future mother. And in many of those cultures even if there aren't kids at present, there'd definitely be in laws living with the couple usually elderly people who need care. So majority of them are doing some sort of work + care. But I would admit that some have no work or hobby with cooks and cleaners and just enjoy sleeping and shopping
If you cook most meals from scratch, properly clean the home, budget, etc, there’s actually a lot for a stay at home wife to do. Add to it taking care of in-laws and church volunteering, and there can easily be a full day of work.
I took a medical retirement from the Army. My wife got pregnant and makes substantial money at her job. We sat down, talked about it, and daycare wasn't in our cards. We wanted to have a parent in the household and we know it wasn't feasible if we both worked. My VA comp makes it so I have my own stipend and I pay my own bills. I didn't have my father around so this has been a challenge but it has given me the opportunity to be a great father to my son. I struggle with feeling shame about what I'm doing with my life but ultimately this choice was best for our son. I'm self aware that society most likely sees me like these men.
I think *in general* it works best for the mom to be the stay at home parent. But, like every rule, there are exceptions. It sounds like the alternative option for you guys would’ve been both of you working and a stranger or other family member watching your son. You staying home means his parents get to be his primary caretakers, and that’s a lovely thing :)
I’m sorry. I can’t imagine how hard that is. I really pray you and your wife have a prayer life because it can’t be easy for either of you. But you did what you had to do.
I'm in a very similar boat, I'm separating soon but not through a medical sep, but with my VA and going to school I'll still be able to cover a lot of bills and be a stay at home dad, we earned it brother the service takes a toll on us with our bodies
Nothing wrong with being a stay at home spouse depending on the circumstances.I'm 34 year old disabled vet who has had 3 spinal surgeries, two foot surgeries, and a shoulder surgery and I'm in pain all the time. Being a stay at home isn't always a choice.
I am a 37 year old and retired due to disability, your case and my case don't apply, we have no choice and we cannot work even if we wanted. Problem is most of these people are healthy 😅 I can respect stay at home mom and dads but a healthy dude or a woman who doesn't want to do anything all day because they decided so and the partner working 2 jobs to exausthion is just reeking of lazy.
An unemployed actress living in NYC with an unemployed house husband? She has wealthy supportive parents. He is an indentured servant who will eventually be replaced.
9:55 Can we all notice that she's doing devotion, spending time in John. So we can conclude that they consider themselves Christian while living this unhealthy, unbiblical lifestyle.
Matt's right. I had a house husband and not only was it difficult, (impossible) to respect him, he did not respect himself. Other men did not respect him. He became angry, frustrated and violent. He was a man baby. He never arrived at manhood.
@@ShayBugler-xq8sg I respect the idea, but in reality it doesn't work. Why is beside the point. With children, in particular it fails. Working women still have to nurse the babies. Across the board men did not respect him. We were flower children and had flower babies. We meditated and refrained from eating animal products. We sought peace and spirituality. Everything was in place for a happy transfer of power. It destroyed his self-esteem and made me the "man" of the house. I didn't want that role.
Yep. Been there too. My former husband was a SELF- APPOINTED "house husband." After we finished college, he just never bothered to get a job, leaving me to earn the income for us both while he did less and less to help out at home... just slept and watched TV. His self esteem and my respect for him hit rock bottom. He never grew up! In the end I was working full time AND doing all the house work, so I divorced and lost half of everything I'd earned as well! Men need to be providers. Otherwise they turn into infantile slobs and users. I totally agree with Matt.
Yeah, I've sad to say I've dated a couple of guys that didn't work while I did and I paid for everything. I was young and knew they were embarassed about it, so I didn't want to make them feel bad, but neither of us respected each other that much because they didn't want to be with a woman behaving more masculine either (which naturally occurs when you're taking a crucial male's role)
I know people have a hard time with Matt Walsh, but that’s because we have lost the ability to except truth. Matt Walsh is a blast from the past. He is what we all need to hear. And every man should watch this episode. It will save him so much heartache in the future.
Sometimes he's profound and 100% correct. Sometimes he falls so flat so much so that even his own audience has to call him out on it. It's what happens when you're a bit of a dogmatic zealot
@@anacc3257This is a great point. I went from proudly enjoying him on Joe Rogan, to cringing when he pulled out a statistic of what he “thought” was accurate. Basically he said millions of kids were on hormone blockers and the real number was around 4,000. Don’t get me wrong that is still way too many, but Matt’s self-confidence can blind him from the truth. The important thing to understand is no person is ever perfect and the way people blindly support people they idolize is disgusting. Trust is not one and done, it’s something you build and sometimes lose. I consider myself a fan of Matt, but I will never be afraid to call him out if he says something that isn’t true. I’m sure he understands.
@sunpath8741Matt does make excellent use of satire, but I don’t think everything he says is satire. He holds his beliefs genuinely and that can be shown clearly by his actions. Also, if you were part of the gang you would know Matt finds things like “dogmatic zealot” to be a badge of honor.
Actually no. Stop trying to be a victim. Women all over the world are stay at home wives. It’s the norm all over the world. It’s the stay at home husbands who are called slaves and effeminate.
OMG, this is so funny. The duo here of Matt and his editors are so much fun to watch. As a stay at home father, i dont have the time, the need, or the desire to post on tiktok. Thats one key giveaway. If they had kids, they wouldnt demean themselves with stupid tiktok videos. Focus on your kids lol
The worst thing about this is them trying to act like the dynamics between men and women is the same across both genders. As if women want the same thing from men that men want from women 😂 Your wife is going to resent you eventually if you try and act like a woman just remember that 🤷🏾♂️ doesn’t mean you can’t be considerate but there’s a clear limit to when you are just emasculating yourself.
I don't think it's necessarily immoral for the husband to stay home (depending on the circumstances), but I think that long term it doesn't work for the vast majority of men. My sister's husband was a stay at home husband after he got out of the army. He managed their rental properties and such, but he got bored after a few months and now he's trying to get a job even though they don't need the money
I don't know how anybody could be bored at home. There are SO many things to do. I spend hours watching all these videos and doing research and writing freelance articles, at NO PAY, in order to spread the word about all that I have learned. And then there's all the family history/genealogy to do, I'm writing books about that. And then there's all the fun hobbies, like sewing, doll collecting, etc. There aren't enough hours in the day!
my friend this was an Army guy were talking about here a huge part of what he knows is being out of base camp and doing things so yea managing rental properties would get boring for him @@Cindybin46
I feel like men’s self respect and dignity should not be measured by being the provider of money for the household. We are only conditioned to think that way but there needs to be a mind shift. Younger women want to work and do not feel they should have to compromise because of a man’s fragile ego. Women resent men who hold them back.
I wouldn’t say that’s not lonely. Women in their 50s with cats can still have sex and relationships with men. It doesn’t matter what age a women or man is, they must respect each other, listen to each other. Neither a man or women should hold the other back ever
My dad had to stay at home because of his back. He was on a cane by 32 and worked himself right up until he almost couldn’t walk anymore because he dreaded the idea of not providing. When he did actually have to apply for disability my mom never made him feel any less respected. Because he wasn’t. We all saw how much worse his back was because of the extra five years he worked after he should have stopped. We knew what he did for us. He did take on some of the more stereotypical “mom jobs” but he always did it like my dad. He taught me algebra while teaching me how to shoot a rock off our deck. Taught me biology while skinning a deer. Had the book for history propped in front of him as he made chili. He was never this.
being a stay at home dad is understandable. Someone needs to be with the kids, and in this current economy/climate sometimes it works out that the father has to do it. But these people have NO KIDS?! what are they even doing? They're just bums.
I don't know why it'd ever have to be the mother working and father at home, most high paying jobs men are naturally more skilled at, like electricians or corporate positions. And, of course children need their dads, but women are naturally much better at raising kids. We're more nurturing, more patient, creative.
I still remember around 20 years ago , I was visiting a friend who lived in another state. We were out somewhere and we ran into a friend of his that I did not know. They used to work together. At one point in the conversation, his friend said what are you doing now? My friend answered, “I’m doing the stay at home thing now with the kids”. I will never forget the look on his friends face. It was as if he couldn’t process the information. I knew exactly how he felt. As a man, no way.
My father stepped into this role when he retired and my stepmother was still working. He wasn't running around getting her drinks or catering to her whims. He was just picking up slack because he had time and my sisters were still at home. It's different he still did some work and started up a business. These guys are kinda like a vanilla kink dominatrix etc. with sweaters and jeans and less leather and whips.
When my dad retired due to his health, he took over all the housekeeping and grocery shopping, ironing the laundry even, and still maintaining a big garden. Fortunately for him, it was a time when people didn’t video everything.
Matt hit the nail on the head- there are no kids, nobody should be “stay at home”, whether the woman or the man. We all know that these people are showing the glamorous side of things, when the truth is a lot of these dudes probably spend most days playing video games or binging Netflix.
If the toilet/kitchen/whatever look that bad, and NO KIDS ARE INVOLVED, clearly that guy (and his lady) haven't done isht for cleaning in a WHILE. This is just clout chasing. How's your house get that bad? I homeschool 4 kids from 1st grade to high school, and sometimes my house looks that bad, but I'm teaching 2 kids to read, middle school, high school, and tutoring history, geography and science, teaching Sunday school, and cooking allergy friendly meals from scratch. Where's your time go, bro?!
@@Jenny76721 you can be a homemaker and work as well. Men have responsibilities in the home and also work, why should it be different for women? Sounds like laziness to me. If she (or you) wants to be a stay at home mom one day, then her and her husband need to save a lot of money in order to make that happen. That happens by both individuals working and contributing to the finances before kids come into the picture.
I met a stay at home dad. He was worthless. If his wife Isn't home to get kids ready for school The go with hair uncombed, faces unwashed, in dirty clothes, with no breakfast. If someone is sick she has to take time off from work.
I grew up with a stay at home dad. He did a perfectly good job raising the four of us. I think moms are the ones more suited to the role, but it made sense why my parents chose that route-my mom was making more than 2x as much money as my dad when she got pregnant with me, and she got like 12 weeks of maternity leave on top of that. I will admit it’s not the ideal, but don’t knock stay at home dads as if they are incapable of being decent parents.
Work on your self image. Whatd manly? Raising a family or working for a boss? You can certainly do both if you keep balance but if you have to choose I'd choose a stay at home dad
@@bugsbunny2944At least one person has to work to raise a family, unless you want to live in squalor. So I'll choose work, I'm my own boss though, lol
I don't think it's necessarily immoral for the husband to stay home, but I think that long term it doesn't work for the vast majority of men. My sister's husband was a stay at home husband after he got out of the army. He managed their rental properties and such, but he got bored after a few months and now he's trying to get a job even though they don't need the money
Between me and my roomate, we take out the trash once a week which is barely one kitchen sized bag. How do you have that much trash that it is a daily chore?
I have a friend who owns her own business working 40-50 hours per week. They needed more money so she got a second job. Her husband stays home with the kids. I have no issues with him staying home but why couldn't he get a job during her off hours? She went 2 weeks without seeing her kids because she left before they woke up and got home after they were in bed. I'm so sick of lazy men
I wouldn't. I'd actually be happy for her. I grew up with a stay-at-home mom, and she raised me and my siblings well. She went back to work later in her mid 40's at a library as we grew older.
I find it weird that you think there has to be kids for there to be a housewife. Women shouldn't be made to feel guilty for wanting to take care of their homes and husbands. REAL women want REAL men, and they want THEM...to provide.
Yes! Take Mr. and Mrs. Wilson on Dennis the Menace, for example. They never had any kids but Mrs. Wilson enjoyed being home and taking care of her husband. This was common back then.
I agree. I think it comes down to a lot of people not knowing how much or what homemakers (even without children) take care of, because plenty of it is unseen work. I have no problem productively filling my days taking care of my husband and our household, and the work doesn’t stop come Saturday and Sunday- it’s seven days a week. So, I can’t take the judgment too seriously when I’ve had people call me a slave AND say that I don’t work, all in one breath. Lol
I don't think it's wrong to be a stay at home wife, but I personally don't understand it. I am a homemaker with 3 kids that I'm homeschooling and I take care of the house, finances, garden, etc. I don't get it, but I'm sure there are plenty of women who do it and aren't lazy, I don't have a window into your household, I'm just saying that it's not just men like Matt who don't get it, I don't get it either, not in the modern world with washing machines, dishwashers, etc. In the past when you had to do a lot more household labor, I totally get it. There are definitely ways to keep busy with volunteer work or a homestead or something, I just understand that from the outside it seems a little lopsided on work load in the modern age if there aren't kids.
Modern day women, particularly those who live in cities want to earn money for themselves, without burdening or expecting men to pay more or for everything. Women should not expect or demand men to make them feel financially secure. GO OUT and work too. You will still have plenty of time to look after the house and each other.
My father is a stay at home dad, I don’t know why we made that decision but it was the best thing ever. Me and my dad are now best friends and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Now I am a teenager he is lookin for work because he is a man, working gives him joy. I’m so glad he could take on that role while my mom worked. Our family is perfect together, but acting all femme about it is stupid.
I'm a stay at home Dad. Daycare in my town is stupid expensive so I would be working just to pay for daycare. My wife is a hoarder so that didn't work out and I had to take over. I run my house strick as hell, I would piss the entire left off if I filmed how I do things.
I was a stay at home dad. My wife was military, and we kept getting stationed at bases in small towns. A job that would pay for daycare, pay bills, and have money for a good life wasn't around. Now, as soon as I could go back to work. You're damn right, I went back. I'm no scrub, mooching off my wife.
A busy stay-at-home Dad is entirely different from these silly, effeminate "males" on tiktok, pretending to be useful when they're precisely the opposite.
One of the sexiest things about my husband is he takes care of stuff and is a leader in our family. A few days a week I work till 2:10, then have a part time gig till 7. On those 3 nights he does dishes, laundry, driving kids around. On nights Im home I do that stuff to give him a break. We work together to get stuff done and keep our household stable. I have so much respect for him showing our kids that when mom is working literally all day, he steps up to do more. When dad is working over time on a Saturday mom steps up to do more. We are both able bodies with kids that are getting older and are more independent, so we both work to pay for their sports and needs.
I've been forced to be a "home dad" for almost a year because of unemployment and this has been the worst part of my adult life. I love taking car of my children but i can't stand being at home, not working on projects, being stuck on a routine. As about respect from wife, she was amazing and supportive but our relationship went down a bit during this period. She always felt i did nothing.
@@greendog456 I meant to put "A" for 'a life' but i doubt they even had any real life outside tiktok either. I could be wrong. But based on the videos. Either these videos click bait for Tik-Tok or there's something more to it.
As a stay at home wife I respectfully disagree that we should work without kids. 😊 I quit my full time job to come home, and without the long hours and time away I can make sure my husbands laundry is ready for him every day, him meals are prepped for the week, and he has a clean, calm home to walk into end of every day. I also have time I wouldn’t otherwise have to dedicate to learning the domestic skills our moms never taught us (thanks feminists) like cooking organically and from scratch, baking, sewing clothing and blankets. Home care is a full time job if you do it right. In my spare free time I also help my parents out and we sometimes do charity quilting. I really don’t think households were meant to be dual income. I think the feminists ruined that one when they left the workforce and drove up the GDP over the last generation. How do you have a happy home life when BOTH people are gone? How can you expect the breadwinner of the house to be strong and focused, when he’s expected to drop everything and scrub baseboards when he gets home? My husband is able to work, study and train 10X harder because I’m here to support him and he doesn’t have to sweat the small stuff. I just don’t see why we women need to neglect the home for a silly little paycheck we don’t need in the first place. LEAN OUT ladies, live on less.
You do you...but because I work and contribute 70k a year we were able to afford 100k in home renovations, upgraded from a 1300 sq ft twin in a bad school district to s 2,000 sq ft in a better neighborhood AND a rental property...all in less than 5 years. My husband pays the mortgages and utilities while I pay for food, vacations, renovations, clothes etc. With both incomes, we get to live the American dream. Before we met, I lived in an apartment with nothing but savings in the bank and my husband had a house he couldn't afford to fix up. In an ideal marriage, husband and wife work together to make a better life. I'm so grateful for my income and the freedom it gives me so that I can buy what I want instead of having to beg my husband for money for everything from tampons to new windows. No, thank you! Is my home "neglected"? Maybe a little messy sometimes but at least I payed to replace those lead windows.
The fact that the woman starting to earn more in a relationship significantly increases the likelihood of divorce is a big problem given men are massively discriminated against in academic and hiring
The only person I know who is a stay-at-home husband/father actually does incredible things. He is a PhD student in Geology, takes care of the kids. They share house chores. He is an athlete who eats 'marathons' for breakfast and has also competed in Iron Man. This is the cringe part of things. There can be a few right ways to do a 'stay-at-home' man, but most are cringe.
I couldn’t be with my husband if he was a stay at home father. Like that’s my job! I care for the kids, the house, I cook all the food! I do all the cleaning! He cares for us pays the bills and fixes everything! I borrow HIS credit card and take myself shopping with the kids! I enjoy him taking care of all of us and he enjoys me doing the other half!
I got married in July and im finishing college and working part time and my husband works full time it takes me maybe two hours at most each day to do all the necessary cleaning and maybe another hour or two for all the cooking there's no reason for both people to stay home before you have kids
There’s nothing wrong with a man staying home. Stay at home husbands are different than stay at home wives. They are men at home. Men at home farm, do house renovations, play sports with their kids. It’s better than daycare.
I had to go back to work 8 weeks after giving birth while men are out here doing this tomfoolery. There’s everything that’s wrong with the world in a nutshell.
In the 2nd clip, the guy said she works 2 full time jobs and I assume that means he doesn't work since he's the house husband. Then he surprised her with flowers I assume he bought with the money she earned? As a woman, I'd expect that from my 8 year old, asking me for money to buy me a gift. But not from my husband 🤣🤣 it's not the same when it's your money. Also, I agree with no stay at home spouses. When I get married, both of us will work and when we have kids I will be a stay at home mom. Then when the kids are old enough to go to a good private school, I will get a part time job while the kids are in school. Drop the kids off at school and pick them up.
Women want security, that’s what a real man represents. Men want to be respected, that’s what a wife gives to her husband by honoring his authority as head of the household. Tradition ! ❤ Love it ❤
For many couples this is exactly the case and it works for them! For other couples, they work better as a team without a power dynamic. Personal choice! ❤ love it ❤
Lol. Give me a break. Women with self respect do not accept a mam holding authority over her. Those days are long over. Most young women no longer expect the man to be the sole or main provider of money. Women are more than happy to make their own money and women understanding need and demand mutual respect from their husbands. Otherwise, it’s a divorce.
@@ShayBugler-xq8sg LOLOL. You are correct that women THINK they want all the things you listed. The real truth is that women have become less happy over time as they have increased their participation in the workforce and abandoned traditional feminine values/behaviors. They are lost and attempting to find their value in things that they themselves do not naturally value. You'll attempt to argue against this, but it literally does not matter; the biological facts are set in stone.
It's funny how a house-husband is presented as a great thing for a man to be but a housewife is the worst, most horrible thing for a woman.
Exactly!
What are you talking about? Who presents a house-husband as a great thing?
@nealcassady-yn3bh When people say "redpill" in dating, everyone usually means different things now.
It used to just mean you were aware of hypergamy and that the dating scene can be an uphill battle for an average guy vs an average girl.
It doesn't have to mean you agree with every single MGTOW talking point.
Just a reminder to my conservative family, we HAVE to make sure not to be filled with hate against the radical left or anyone. Pray for your enemies, and don't fret over the wicked. God will cut them down suddenly, and when we die, we won't remember any of the stuff going on here. Pray for them.
@nealcassady-yn3bhwhich video?
As a Stay at Home husband (disabled kid) there's never a reason to get a camera out and act feminine about it
@2v_5r84 Oh yea, not just hanging around. 2 kids, the little one has CP, and the older one is just insane. These guys trip me out. I'm still the masculine, main decision maker. My wife organizes bills, but I still pay 4k a month in them
@2v_5r84 Keyword: FATHER... Totally agree...
It isn't that uncommon.
I think being a stay at home parent is the absolute best thing a parent can do for their child/ren! Your child deserves the best, and I firmly believe no one can take care of a child better than one of their parents. Loving and caring for your child is a parental thing, not a maternal thing. Dads are just as important as moms.
@@No-sv6mu Thanks, I really appreciate that
Shout out to the silent hero here, the video editors. The SpongeBob clips, the zoom ins on Matt's funny twitches, all of the video editing is amazing. Freaking hilarious, and we appreciate you (or y'all).
And the filthy frank reference!
Also the alien 😂😂😂😂
I am literally weeping because I can't understand WHY these people are filming themselves doing these things? If it's so great, just live it! You don't need the internet's attention or validation to enjoy your life!
They do this hoping to find more losers just like themselves so they don't have to feel so bad.
It's for fun dude it isn't that deep.
I've been saying this with the trad wife movement as well.
If you didn't tiktok it, did it really happen?
@@The_NovuIt's called critical thinking 'dude', maybe you should learn the skill 🤔
"maybe dont pack her ALL of her favorite foods" killed me 🤣
😂😂 my jaw dropped
I nearly spat out my coffee 😂😂😂
Maybe one, maybe none 💀
It could always be worse…I was working ridiculous hours while cooking, cleaning and even being required to iron my ex-husband’s boxers and our sheets. He quit his job after we were married, stayed home watching porn, gaming, and cheating with other MEN. (I found out later about the cheating with men.) he told everyone I was his retirement plan. I hated it. He was very controlling, paranoid and became increasingly abusive over time. Thank God he’s my ex. We had no kids as well. Having a stay at home husband, who never did shit, while having no kids sucked. It was embarrassing.
Damn that's messed up. I pray you find someone better and deserving of a hard-working woman like you!
@@filipcrnoja5385 Thank God I did! I have 4 beautiful children with my amazing husband, work part time and get to be with the kids the rest. I’m an attorney, so I work because I want to, not because I have to. My husband is a godly, kind, intelligent, hardworking man. It’s not how we start out that matters, just how we finish!
Im a mostly stay at home dad....my autistic son responded to my presence better than his mother.... it's not something i wanted to do....or ever thought of doing....but its what i HAVE to do for my kid....these dudes are an embarrassment to me....when i have free time from being dad im an electrician...these dudes are just generally useless to society....
It means you're a good Father.
Best of luck to you and your family. ❤❤❤
That’s different. You had a specific & uncommon reason. You’re not a wimp.
Good luck and God Bless.
You actually have a child that needs you. Huge difference between you and some of these tiktok men.
My daughter is also autistic. Your situation is completely different
My father had to take care of my brother and I when my mother was hospitalised repeatedly when we were children. He worked a full time job, cooked, cleaned etc and drove almost 3 hours round trip each day to visit her. That's what a man does. And these guys get tired doing the dishes
Your old man was a boss.
@@schrempskynate8944 Still is. But definitely don't call him old, he's in denial
And he probably didn't even contemplate taking videos of himself for praise! Our generation is just weird.
Mad respect to your father.
Bro respect 😳
Wow he bought her flowers and candy with her own money, I'm sure she really appreciated that
Right 😂
😂😂😂
My husband appreciates it when I buy him gifts with his money. It's strange to me but he really appreciates it so.
Prittyugly , its because you thought of him when you wear buy I other things. Same with boyfriends who gift their girls money, they love that you can prioritize them in spending ,,, now think of a girlfriend getting flowers but she paid for them, takes away everything from the experience ,
@@KA-cm5mb boyfriend/girlfriend is way different from husband/wife. It's the thought that counts bottom line.
I am a stay at home dad. I served in the military and several years in law enforcement. I am medically retired from multiple head injuries. I am able to support my family through VA and medical retirement compensation.
I also have recently returned to school to finish my bachelor's and hopefully get a job teaching middle school.
My wife and I have joked that I am her trophy husband, but not all trophies are first place.
Thank you for your service you have an actual reason to be home you served your country in more ways then one these dudes are just useless in our society
No, you're a badass who served and retired from the military and law enforcement.
Thanks for your service.
Maybe not first place, but definitely first class. Thank you for your service and for endeavoring to use your life experience to educate kids. Best of luck to you in this next phase of your life.
Thank you for your service
Sounds like you're an IMperfect human, yet you're perfect for your wife & children! (Also, many sincere thanks for your service).
Gotta love how that guy cleaned pretty much the entire house to look busy for his tiktok, you know he doesn't do that every day
Yeah, did you see that filthy bathtub?
It wasn’t even a house. It was an apartment!
Could do that on an average of 30 mins a day. In fact done that in my bachelor time.
Two adults in an apartment. Cleaning is 15 minutes a day unless you're filming for tik tok.
It only takes 2 hours a week to clean a 2 bedroom house.. I want to know what he's doing the rest of the time
There’s a difference between being a good spouse and abandoning all your pride like goddamn
Anyone else note that Chandler didn’t make Lucy’s ice latte the night before; she had to do it herself. And why is she spreading honey on her own bagel? Chandler, step up your game.
ABSOLUTELY I noticed that! I think it plays into Matt's theory they will all get divorced. Nobody wants to be seen as not being capable of doing things for themselves.
I also noticed that! Also, I noticed she barely mentions her husband in her video compared to his.
I noticed that he is taking credit wtf
@andreathompson-bg4hl He's making it sound like he is doing this every morning. Apparently, he is not.
Exactly 😂😂😂😂
"I promise that's not a hickey"
Something these stay at home husbands hear frequently.
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Whoever at the Daily Wire hired the editor who knows a lot about meme culture is a freaking genius! These videos are hilarious when it’s not full of outdated pop culture references and makes the entire video worth watching!
It's not outdated pop culture references
The real tragedy is that they believe this is a flex
It is s flex tho
9:41 “this is not a hickey it’s a curling iron burn”😂
COULD CHANDLER BE ANY LESS OF A BIAAAATCCCHH”
Looks more like an easy hustle to me. And if you get divorced, they owe you alimony.
You go boy!🤣
Nobody cares that you work hard. You're the loser for having no choice cuz your wife would leave you if you stopped working
They know it isn't a flex, but they hope that if they pretend hard enough, they can at least convince some other people that they are flexing.
If feminists claim househusbands were patriarchal staying at home, contributing little while their wives had to work all day I would cry with laughter.
Don’t give them any ideas 😂
Do you have a job? Or are you a stay at home husband?
@@saregama-r8td I don’t believe in stay at home husbands
@@knownazsuperior Neither do a majority of women who were bought up correctly.
@@saregama-r8td I know …
I was a stay at home dad for my oldest daughter. It was great but I ended up getting depressed from not going to work.
That's because you're a man😊
Im a stay home dad atm not by choice really let me tell you it is depressing I miss working and being the bread winner while my wife stayed home
See, this is why stay at home mums need, deep appreciation, support and love… it’s not easy and it’s easy to slip into depression, for both men & women in similar circumstances.
There is deep appreciation for the awesome stay at home dads who put in the care, love and dedication for their families!
Yeah. That happens to a lot of women. Wish men understood that
@@sandysmith71LOL yet I bet most of the stay at home moms would flip if the husband came to them and said "I've been thinking. Let's swap and you be the sole worker and fiancial provider and I stay home with the kids and do chores". Vast majority would absolutely refuse or at least protest that idea.
Not saying being a stay at home mom is easy. Not at all. But we both know its generally the preferred option. Unless she's going to be working her dream job or something. Also stay at home moms get to retire quite early from most of their duties when the kids move out, and even before that it still becomes more easier. Because as the kids age there's an element of less dependency they have. They can be told to do certain things and start taking up chores themselves, which is a help to the mom.
Plus they become more social (school, fiends etc) so they're not in the house as much needing someone to constantly tend to them and hold them back from other tasks. Whereas the dads role (or who ever is the worker/financial provider) is practically a life long job. Or at least it is until his older years
And as the kids age, unlike the stay at home mom, it can get actually more harder/demanding for the dad/financial provider. Because general expenses increase...a LOT. Funding their education, especially college fees, their social lives and hobbies etc. Then there's the expenses of wife too. Stay at home mom is by far the shorter sentence and overall its the easier task. The dad could very well still be working long after their own kids have become adults themselves and gotten married and have their own kids. Because he still has to provide for the wife and all her life long expenses.
And the most ridiculous thing out if all is when some say that stay at home mom is "unpaid labor". Its literally the opposite. Stay at home moms are receiving a life time of being financially provided for in return for their chores. They get a house, medical care, vacations, food, water, clothes, money to spend on themselves. Everything from basic neccesities, to vital survival needs, to leisure and more.
And to touch on what you said. There is huge lack of appreciation for the working dad too and the level of responsibility it entails. Many don't know, or care to know, the burn out, worry and depression that comes with that too. It tends or be approached with this "eh well thats life, you're supposed to do it" type attitude. Or just with an overall absent mind. Its no where near as "celebrated" or appreciated the way stay at home moms are.
In fact, stay at home dads aren't celebrated along side the stay at home moms. And when the mom is the one who works, be it single or in a relationships. THEN we hear how tough it is and how much it should be celebrated.
If the dad is the one doing the stay at home parent stuff, suddenly that role doesn't seem to be as big a deal. He's looked at with sense of worthlessness, and suddenly the working wife is seen as the unsung hero battling on for the good of the family. So its not so much the jobs/roles thats being given appreciation. It only really depends on what the mom/wife is doing.
These "stay at home husband's" make my eyes bleed. Tell me you vote Liberal without telling me you vote liberal
They are not liberal, they're the opposite or illiberal. Words are incredibly powerful! The left obviously understands this, and the right, like usual, is completely clueless.
Liberals wear masks.
would you say the same thing about a stay at home wife?
@@m4tta with kids? No.
@@billbuffalo6755what wrong with being a stay at home dad?
I’m a stay at home husband but only because of a head injury I had 8 months after coming home from Iraq. These guys are genuinely pathetic. My wife greatly appreciates me because I am a man of God. I will protect her and she knows with my protection she’s good. I pay my way with my disability and am a real man around our house. This is a very sad trend. .
Thank you for your service 🇺🇸
Hi sir, was this desert storm or a more recent incident in Iraq? I'm not American, but I ask because I was born and raised in Kuwait. The US helped in making Kuwait safe again after the invasion.
Also, I'm sorry about your injury.
Respectable. Thank you for your service
Stay at home husband's/dad's are a disgrace, I don't care if you served your country, it's a turn off,a man does women's work!🤣🤣🤣🙄😮💨
Ohhhh, so you’re also just a stay at home husband. Just like the people in the video 😂 You’re just trying to create a distinction to make yourself feel better. Your situation is perfectly fine, so is the one in the video, no need to justify it.
She wanted to make sure people know she’s not sleeping with him 😂😂😂
A lot of people in the comments are missing a lot of the point here, 99% of these guys are stay-at-home HUSBANDS, not stay-at-home DADS. These dudes arent staying at home and taking care of kids, they're staying home and doing a few chores while their wives go out and work to support just the 2 of them.
Bingo.
I lost my job at one point and HATED having my wife be the sole provider in our childless home. I worked so hard to find a job and took a job I hated just to contribute until I could find something else. That's what you do!
Exactly! But then again, men/child apparently don't have any shame.
That’s what you did but thanks to the people who push social norm’s people can happily live their lives while staying at home if they’re partner provides enough
You're a MAN ❤
Go read my reply and see if you identify with that situation.
That just your opinion and your life. A man being jobless doesn’t make him less of a man.
See my husband and I are both conservatives, but my husband is a stay-at-home, homeschooling dad, and this is the one thing that really irks me about some conservatives. It is possible for it to work out fine if it suits both the husband and wife well. I just happened to make more $$ than my husband, and we wanted our kids to have a parent home and then we decided we also wanted to homeschool, so my husband stayed home. We couldn't have afforded it otherwise. He also supports our family by doing a lot of renovations on our home that we couldn't otherwise afford to do.
I agree with you. Why is it wrong that the man stays home? I don't get that.
I don't think there's anything objectively wrong about a stay-at-home DAD. But if a woman is working two jobs and a man is just sitting around doing a bit of cleaning a cooking with 0 kids to care for or anything he's doing that's actually productive... that's not really right.
@@faithdrawing3858 Well, I totally agree with that. Before kids, he worked a full time job. After kids, he's not only raising them but educating them as well and does a lot of work around the house. I work one job.
@@forlife84 Yeah, I can definitely respect that! Raising kids and homeschooling them is just as much work as any other job, really.
@@faithdrawing3858 It definitely is!
This hit home. I'm a house husband and stay at home dad of 5 kids, my wife is a doctor. I'm also retired from the Marine Corps and homeschool as we travel so that makes me feel a little better. Even when we're home I take care of the house and home school I still have time to manage some rentals and have a woodworking side business. I also take care of all the car's, fill the freezer with wild meat and teach the kids about surviving in the wild, terrorist attacks or just general combat training. I should start a program about being a house Man, cutting wood, building decks and falling trees with your new baby is strapped to the front of you.
That's a lot of words to say that you're a house husband. Wonder what wife's doctor co workers think of the arrangement.
Do you also breastfeed
She is cheating on you son
Now that’s how you do a stay at home dad!
Impressive! Good job, I can definitely respect that
Not gonna lie, her expression at 7:15 actually broke my heart. That is the face of girl who isn't into a guy and is well aware that he should not be doing such nice things for her. That expression is a mix of flattery and guilt. Poor fella...
Matt’s face is the appropriate response to that.
He did it to himself
When your having to work 2 jobs but your husband thinks it's a good idea to spend money on silly treats for a tiktok video
Y’all saw a one second clip on her face and are like “their life is horrible “ grow up
This man in the video doesn't have children, he's healthy and his wife works two jobs. Maybe one of those jobs is really another guy that she can respect.
Stay at home dad: yes
Stay at home husband: no
I dont know. get the kids to daycare. They'll even socialize better
Not true at all. If you have kids you should actually raise them instead of being lazy and putting them in a daycare or sending them to school where they’re indoctrinated. With regard to socializing you can just put them in different activities as they grow up. I’ve known a lot of people who act normal who were homeschooled and have no problem making friends.
@@zach3965 that is the dumbest shit i ever heard
A wife working two jobs and a young healthy man/husband just stays at home??! Wow. Just wow.
@@kiannordkvist5750if he is disabled yes , but if he's healthy , why ?? You know
@@ufyyrud1254 clearly they are happy with the lifestyle that they have chosen so just let them be
I find it funny when the side that says “let people live their lives the way they want, leave them alone” always has to talk shit about people living their life’s the way they want and not bothering anyone.
@@kiannordkvist5750maybe cuz he’s lazy AF
@@kiannordkvist5750 Agreed. If people are doing their thing, they’re happy and they aren’t bothering the people around them…who cares?
He lost me at "Leave your misogyny at the door"
I put my own head in a guillotine when he said "chocolate chippies"
Look at you the word leave your misogyny out the door was directed towards the type of people who bash his lifestyle
Exactly. Male feminist with douche bag backwards baseball cap and zero children. Cleaning a pill box apartment and keeping stocked with chocolate chippies is a tough job.
@@Parrallaxativeswhich should be bashed... How is letting your wife stay at home and not go through the stress of working and being the breadwinner and carrying all the responsibility of being the sole provider being misogynistic and letting your wife handle everything, get two jobs, whilst you, the strongest, fittest, human in the house with the body built to withstand the stress of working is left doing the easy jobs in the house and enjoy yourself most of the time at home everyday, this isn't misogynistic???
My goodness, the twisted minds of westerners and their need to just let women do something men did without even thinking of the science behind it, not to mention the morals and psychology of it... This marriage isn't going to last especially in the divorce culture of America, I'm very close to certain that she'll get dissatisfied with him and either be cheating on him behind his back, at work or she just comes out one day to the house with a guy and turn the nonhusband into a cuck which seems like his final level or she would just call it quit which would be probably what happened but I hope it's the cuck option tho...
@@Parrallaxativesthe dude bought her flowers and candy with her own money... Yeah, she would soon be done with this, very very soon...
@@johnnycrown5097Well said dude.
I don't think women who don't have kids need to work out side of the home. My husband is a full time job....taking care of him & the house needs. I have stayed home since we had kids & I will NOT go back to work once they leave in a couple of years. I am way too busy to get a job.
6:05 💀💀💀 maybe don’t pack all of her favourite food 💀💀
*that got me rollin*
"she's an actress and he's a house husband - no one's working in this family!" Lmao DEAD 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Honestly I live within 30 minutes of NYC and I've seen salaries for remote executive assistants on Indeed upwards of $100,000 so I doubt that she's broke, especially with a stay at home husband and living in NYC. She's got to be highly educated and experienced to afford what she has. Matt Walsh should feel ashamed for disrespecting her like that.
Go cry lol @@TruffleSeeker54
@@TruffleSeeker54You feel ashamed for disrespecting Matt Walsh
@@TruffleSeeker54Not broke, but also not working.
Here is the first executive assistant job I pulled from Indeed in the NYC area;
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I could listen to Matt’s cultural analyses/sermons all day. Whenever I need a good dose of truth and facts, I come here. I always leave refreshed and revitalized to face the barrage of cultural error with strength. Thank you, Matt!
My husband was a stay at home dad while he recovered from extensive injuries from his time in the military. It was terrible. We all hated it.
I hope he is feeling better now. Also stay at home Dad isn't the problem. The guys on here gave no reason why they were staying home bc there were no kids to take care of.
Someone not knowing how to temporarily take care of home affairs is a really big issue
I worked as a medical professional for twenty years, before a brain injury kept me home. I love my new life as stay at home dad.
@@heresyoursign9273Yes, God didn't design humans to be stay at home dads unless both parents stay at home. It is the husband/dad's job to provide and protect; in other words work.
Not even remotely the same thing. Dude sacrificed his body for duty; based AF
To say it shortly: If you're a home husband, your wife have a work husband.
Sounds like jealousy to me.
The funny thing is that I do these things as a single guy, no kids and I still have a full time job. Couldn’t agree more with Matt that this isn’t a gendered issue, just don’t be worthless to society.
Screw society, I would have no problem with being a stay-at-home dad.
Yeah, I don't need to do any favors for "society". The way I see it when people talk about how "society" wants you to act they are just peer pressuring you to act a certain way.
@@BishopWalters12 Totally agree.
@@TruffleSeeker54 100%.
@BishopWalters12 that's fine. Stay at home husband though? No kids? Absolutely not.
10:05 I love the fact she didn’t even say my loving husband or my husband made me my lunch. Chandler made me my lunch. That’s how little respect she has for her husband. Nobody on tik tok is going to know chandler is her husband without knowing her or context. Chandler can be a butler for all we know. But I don’t blame her it’s hard to give those men respect when they don’t act as if they deserve it
Referring to him by name only makes him sound like her pet cat.
If they did people would say it’s “gushy and corny” you can’t please the crowd
@@Parrallaxatives she doesn’t do it to please the people watching and it’s not even about that. It’s about respecting your husband and marriage and being proud of and in it. How do we expect her to respect the marriage if she doesn’t even respect the title?
I'm a stay at home dad I'm disabled however I have a heart condition I take care of my 2 Boys for 9 hours while my wife works I love my boys and they are my duty and life of course I love caring for them what good dad don't in any way shape or form wouldn't want the joy? As for self respect I've gained so much my children have taught me so much and it's made me respect my self so much more and appreciate everything my wife does my family is simply amazing 😊
I'm glad that you both found something that works for you. My husband-to-be has severe depression and anxiety and is essentially unable to work, but is still such a help and support to me with whatever he is able to do. This isn't how I imagined my life, but I Love him and we're a team. It's worth the sacrifice.
Yeah don’t let Matt Walsh make you feel bad. If you’re in love you’re probably doing the best you can. Whether that’s at the widget factory or in the kitchen doesn’t really matter. ❤
I won't lie. When I was going through med school, my wife was the sole provider, and to help her out, I took on more of the house chores.
But it was all part of a larger plan we discussed, so she could be a sray at home mom when we started a family.
14 years later, it has been all well worth it, and we love that my wife gets to spend the day with our 2 year old.
Then again, I wasn't a "house husband"
I was a student and a husband, and we were a couple with a plan.
BEEEEEEEEEETAAAAAAAAA
How old were you when you started med school?
@@therainman7777gamma... He clearly was studying to eventually take control of his family once again as the breadwinner... It was a means to an end...
And I'm a guy who roasted the nonhusband in the video with my gf and both our siblings and their spouse... He was the topic of the conversation throughout Thanksgiving...
@@johnnycrown5097perfectly fine. Your family dynamics are different.
@@therainman7777Stay on the playground kid!
Nothing wrong with a stay at home wife. Actually very common in many traditional cultures.
99% ofthose cultures assume the stay at home wife is soon to be a stay at home mother
A lot of deeply unhappy stay at home mothers.
it is when the 'wife' is a fucking dude
Many of the cultures where there's a stay at home wife discourage women getting a job so that they can focus on being a mother or future mother. And in many of those cultures even if there aren't kids at present, there'd definitely be in laws living with the couple usually elderly people who need care. So majority of them are doing some sort of work + care.
But I would admit that some have no work or hobby with cooks and cleaners and just enjoy sleeping and shopping
If you cook most meals from scratch, properly clean the home, budget, etc, there’s actually a lot for a stay at home wife to do. Add to it taking care of in-laws and church volunteering, and there can easily be a full day of work.
I took a medical retirement from the Army. My wife got pregnant and makes substantial money at her job. We sat down, talked about it, and daycare wasn't in our cards. We wanted to have a parent in the household and we know it wasn't feasible if we both worked. My VA comp makes it so I have my own stipend and I pay my own bills. I didn't have my father around so this has been a challenge but it has given me the opportunity to be a great father to my son. I struggle with feeling shame about what I'm doing with my life but ultimately this choice was best for our son. I'm self aware that society most likely sees me like these men.
I think *in general* it works best for the mom to be the stay at home parent. But, like every rule, there are exceptions. It sounds like the alternative option for you guys would’ve been both of you working and a stranger or other family member watching your son. You staying home means his parents get to be his primary caretakers, and that’s a lovely thing :)
My son is in the same position.
Your son is blessed.
I’m sorry. I can’t imagine how hard that is. I really pray you and your wife have a prayer life because it can’t be easy for either of you. But you did what you had to do.
I'm in a very similar boat, I'm separating soon but not through a medical sep, but with my VA and going to school I'll still be able to cover a lot of bills and be a stay at home dad, we earned it brother the service takes a toll on us with our bodies
Nothing wrong with being a stay at home spouse depending on the circumstances.I'm 34 year old disabled vet who has had 3 spinal surgeries, two foot surgeries, and a shoulder surgery and I'm in pain all the time. Being a stay at home isn't always a choice.
I am a 37 year old and retired due to disability, your case and my case don't apply, we have no choice and we cannot work even if we wanted. Problem is most of these people are healthy 😅 I can respect stay at home mom and dads but a healthy dude or a woman who doesn't want to do anything all day because they decided so and the partner working 2 jobs to exausthion is just reeking of lazy.
This type of behavior would dry my wife up like the Sahara desert.
An unemployed actress living in NYC with an unemployed house husband? She has wealthy supportive parents. He is an indentured servant who will eventually be replaced.
9:55 Can we all notice that she's doing devotion, spending time in John. So we can conclude that they consider themselves Christian while living this unhealthy, unbiblical lifestyle.
Matt's right. I had a house husband and not only was it difficult, (impossible) to respect him, he did not respect himself. Other men did not respect him. He became angry, frustrated and violent. He was a man baby. He never arrived at manhood.
I respect a husband who stays at home and does the housework. I’ve no problem with that.
@@ShayBugler-xq8sghousework is a woman’s job 😊
@@ShayBugler-xq8sg I respect the idea, but in reality it doesn't work. Why is beside the point. With children, in particular it fails. Working women still have to nurse the babies. Across the board men did not respect him. We were flower children and had flower babies. We meditated and refrained from eating animal products. We sought peace and spirituality. Everything was in place for a happy transfer of power. It destroyed his self-esteem and made me the "man" of the house. I didn't want that role.
Yep. Been there too. My former husband was a SELF- APPOINTED "house husband." After we finished college, he just never bothered to get a job, leaving me to earn the income for us both while he did less and less to help out at home... just slept and watched TV. His self esteem and my respect for him hit rock bottom. He never grew up! In the end I was working full time AND doing all the house work, so I divorced and lost half of everything I'd earned as well! Men need to be providers. Otherwise they turn into infantile slobs and users. I totally agree with Matt.
Yeah, I've sad to say I've dated a couple of guys that didn't work while I did and I paid for everything. I was young and knew they were embarassed about it, so I didn't want to make them feel bad, but neither of us respected each other that much because they didn't want to be with a woman behaving more masculine either (which naturally occurs when you're taking a crucial male's role)
I know people have a hard time with Matt Walsh, but that’s because we have lost the ability to except truth. Matt Walsh is a blast from the past. He is what we all need to hear. And every man should watch this episode. It will save him so much heartache in the future.
“Accept”
Sometimes he's profound and 100% correct. Sometimes he falls so flat so much so that even his own audience has to call him out on it. It's what happens when you're a bit of a dogmatic zealot
@@anacc3257This is a great point. I went from proudly enjoying him on Joe Rogan, to cringing when he pulled out a statistic of what he “thought” was accurate. Basically he said millions of kids were on hormone blockers and the real number was around 4,000. Don’t get me wrong that is still way too many, but Matt’s self-confidence can blind him from the truth.
The important thing to understand is no person is ever perfect and the way people blindly support people they idolize is disgusting.
Trust is not one and done, it’s something you build and sometimes lose.
I consider myself a fan of Matt, but I will never be afraid to call him out if he says something that isn’t true. I’m sure he understands.
@sunpath8741Matt does make excellent use of satire, but I don’t think everything he says is satire. He holds his beliefs genuinely and that can be shown clearly by his actions. Also, if you were part of the gang you would know Matt finds things like “dogmatic zealot” to be a badge of honor.
Every boy needs to see this. Every man should already know it.
What infuriates me is that if I do the same exact things for my husband I’ll be called a slave.
That isn't right either.
Why would you be called a slave? My wife has done these things.
Actually no. Stop trying to be a victim. Women all over the world are stay at home wives. It’s the norm all over the world. It’s the stay at home husbands who are called slaves and effeminate.
Matt’s editor deserves a pay raise. We need to start a petition immediately.
Good post, Matt's editor!
Cringe way of talking 😂
Dude makes millions 😂
Why? Are irrelevant SpongeBob memes and endless overstimulation supposed to be funny?
@@okok5560yes you killjoy
OMG, this is so funny. The duo here of Matt and his editors are so much fun to watch. As a stay at home father, i dont have the time, the need, or the desire to post on tiktok. Thats one key giveaway. If they had kids, they wouldnt demean themselves with stupid tiktok videos. Focus on your kids lol
The worst thing about this is them trying to act like the dynamics between men and women is the same across both genders.
As if women want the same thing from men that men want from women 😂
Your wife is going to resent you eventually if you try and act like a woman just remember that 🤷🏾♂️ doesn’t mean you can’t be considerate but there’s a clear limit to when you are just emasculating yourself.
I don't think it's necessarily immoral for the husband to stay home (depending on the circumstances), but I think that long term it doesn't work for the vast majority of men. My sister's husband was a stay at home husband after he got out of the army. He managed their rental properties and such, but he got bored after a few months and now he's trying to get a job even though they don't need the money
I don't know how anybody could be bored at home. There are SO many things to do. I spend hours watching all these videos and doing research and writing freelance articles, at NO PAY, in order to spread the word about all that I have learned. And then there's all the family history/genealogy to do, I'm writing books about that. And then there's all the fun hobbies, like sewing, doll collecting, etc. There aren't enough hours in the day!
@@Cindybin46 he's got lots of hobbies, but I think he just felt like he wasn't contributing enough to the household since they don't have kids.
It’s not a moral issue. I think more and more men do want to be stay at home dads and want their women to go out and work to bring in the money.
That's mad. I don't get bored with myself of my mates. Have he considered drinking?
my friend this was an Army guy were talking about here a huge part of what he knows is being out of base camp and doing things so yea managing rental properties would get boring for him @@Cindybin46
There’s no way I could look at myself in the mirror if I was a stay at home dad or husband while my wife worked.. I can’t even comprehend that..
I feel like men’s self respect and dignity should not be measured by being the provider of money for the household. We are only conditioned to think that way but there needs to be a mind shift. Younger women want to work and do not feel they should have to compromise because of a man’s fragile ego. Women resent men who hold them back.
@@ShayBugler-xq8sgI'm sure you will resent men until you're a lonely 50 year old with lots of cats.
I wouldn’t say that’s not lonely. Women in their 50s with cats can still have sex and relationships with men. It doesn’t matter what age a women or man is, they must respect each other, listen to each other. Neither a man or women should hold the other back ever
@@Drew_Peacocksingle women are generally happier and cats are cuter than what I can assume is a child in your profile pic...
@@melissam597Truth got your panties in a bunch?🤣
My dad had to stay at home because of his back. He was on a cane by 32 and worked himself right up until he almost couldn’t walk anymore because he dreaded the idea of not providing. When he did actually have to apply for disability my mom never made him feel any less respected. Because he wasn’t. We all saw how much worse his back was because of the extra five years he worked after he should have stopped. We knew what he did for us. He did take on some of the more stereotypical “mom jobs” but he always did it like my dad. He taught me algebra while teaching me how to shoot a rock off our deck. Taught me biology while skinning a deer. Had the book for history propped in front of him as he made chili. He was never this.
Seeing Matt suffer through these TikToks is pure guilty pleasure.
😂😂😂
"Non-surgical strategy to become a eunuch." 😂
🤣👍
Matt you’re killing me 🤣 especially with the last clip. No one is working yet they living in NYC 😂 for real. We have a do nothing and an actress 🤦🏻♀️
being a stay at home dad is understandable. Someone needs to be with the kids, and in this current economy/climate sometimes it works out that the father has to do it. But these people have NO KIDS?! what are they even doing? They're just bums.
what is your opinion about housewives?
@@okbrostartcoping5835 that ppl should make their own decisions in life. they can do what works for them
@@okbrostartcoping5835If you get home and she hasn't done anything then she's a bum.
I don't know why it'd ever have to be the mother working and father at home, most high paying jobs men are naturally more skilled at, like electricians or corporate positions. And, of course children need their dads, but women are naturally much better at raising kids. We're more nurturing, more patient, creative.
Are you calling stay at home wives without kids bums too?
I'd be so peeved if my husband lounged around while I went out to work. Man, what a turn off
"What's the guy's name?..... Chandler?" 😂😂 that made me burst out laughing
I still remember around 20 years ago , I was visiting a friend who lived in another state. We were out somewhere and we ran into a friend of his that I did not know. They used to work together. At one point in the conversation, his friend said what are you doing now? My friend answered, “I’m doing the stay at home thing now with the kids”. I will never forget the look on his friends face. It was as if he couldn’t process the information. I knew exactly how he felt. As a man, no way.
My father stepped into this role when he retired and my stepmother was still working. He wasn't running around getting her drinks or catering to her whims. He was just picking up slack because he had time and my sisters were still at home. It's different he still did some work and started up a business.
These guys are kinda like a vanilla kink dominatrix etc. with sweaters and jeans and less leather and whips.
When my dad retired due to his health, he took over all the housekeeping and grocery shopping, ironing the laundry even, and still maintaining a big garden. Fortunately for him, it was a time when people didn’t video everything.
Genius post
Matt's editor definitely had fun with this video, and I am so here for it 😂
7:25 the look of guilt when she came back from getting cream pied by a Chad to him.
😂
Matt hit the nail on the head- there are no kids, nobody should be “stay at home”, whether the woman or the man. We all know that these people are showing the glamorous side of things, when the truth is a lot of these dudes probably spend most days playing video games or binging Netflix.
If the toilet/kitchen/whatever look that bad, and NO KIDS ARE INVOLVED, clearly that guy (and his lady) haven't done isht for cleaning in a WHILE. This is just clout chasing. How's your house get that bad? I homeschool 4 kids from 1st grade to high school, and sometimes my house looks that bad, but I'm teaching 2 kids to read, middle school, high school, and tutoring history, geography and science, teaching Sunday school, and cooking allergy friendly meals from scratch. Where's your time go, bro?!
I disagree. It is important for women to be homemakers even if there are no kids
@@Jenny76721 you can be a homemaker and work as well. Men have responsibilities in the home and also work, why should it be different for women? Sounds like laziness to me. If she (or you) wants to be a stay at home mom one day, then her and her husband need to save a lot of money in order to make that happen. That happens by both individuals working and contributing to the finances before kids come into the picture.
Isn’t that trad wife on TikTok also childless?
That’s all most men do nowadays anyway, oh and prance around in heels and lippie.
Im just dying laughing at him repeating “no kids?!” But he doesn’t know there’s a whole genre of stay at home DADS on TikTok too 😭😭😭
“Genre”?? lol
2:10 does he know he's also a man ? And should also throw himself in the trash too ? These NPCs have 0 self awareness.
I met a stay at home dad. He was worthless. If his wife Isn't home to get kids ready for school The go with hair uncombed, faces unwashed, in dirty clothes, with no breakfast. If someone is sick she has to take time off from work.
I grew up with a stay at home dad. He did a perfectly good job raising the four of us. I think moms are the ones more suited to the role, but it made sense why my parents chose that route-my mom was making more than 2x as much money as my dad when she got pregnant with me, and she got like 12 weeks of maternity leave on top of that. I will admit it’s not the ideal, but don’t knock stay at home dads as if they are incapable of being decent parents.
Poor mom
She works two full-time jobs and he thinks pulling his weight is cleaning the house and making her lunch?
I don’t think I could be a stay at home father and have self respect. Although I have no issue with people being one, I never could.
Work on your self image. Whatd manly? Raising a family or working for a boss? You can certainly do both if you keep balance but if you have to choose I'd choose a stay at home dad
@@bugsbunny2944At least one person has to work to raise a family, unless you want to live in squalor. So I'll choose work, I'm my own boss though, lol
@@bugsbunny2944And you wonder why your wife is as dry as the Sahara desert.
I don't think it's necessarily immoral for the husband to stay home, but I think that long term it doesn't work for the vast majority of men. My sister's husband was a stay at home husband after he got out of the army. He managed their rental properties and such, but he got bored after a few months and now he's trying to get a job even though they don't need the money
@@The_Greipist i work 40 hours. I could work 60 and live in a nicer place. But its all about trades and priorities
Proud to be a full time dad on weekdays and then have a part time job on weekends!! It’s what works for us. At the end of the day Family first.
Between me and my roomate, we take out the trash once a week which is barely one kitchen sized bag. How do you have that much trash that it is a daily chore?
Whoever edited this video did a fantastic job 🤣🤣
It’s better with every new video 🤭
I can confirm my husband has NEVER taken a straw out at home. Probably doesn’t even know we have a stash of them for me and the kids 😂
I have a friend who owns her own business working 40-50 hours per week. They needed more money so she got a second job. Her husband stays home with the kids. I have no issues with him staying home but why couldn't he get a job during her off hours? She went 2 weeks without seeing her kids because she left before they woke up and got home after they were in bed. I'm so sick of lazy men
If a woman made this video, about how she treats her husband, people would go nuts.
I wouldn't. I'd actually be happy for her. I grew up with a stay-at-home mom, and she raised me and my siblings well. She went back to work later in her mid 40's at a library as we grew older.
There are No kids x 8. 😂😂😂😂
Matt is hilarious 😂
Your editors are just the bomb!
I find it weird that you think there has to be kids for there to be a housewife. Women shouldn't be made to feel guilty for wanting to take care of their homes and husbands. REAL women want REAL men, and they want THEM...to provide.
Yes! Take Mr. and Mrs. Wilson on Dennis the Menace, for example. They never had any kids but Mrs. Wilson enjoyed being home and taking care of her husband. This was common back then.
I agree. I think it comes down to a lot of people not knowing how much or what homemakers (even without children) take care of, because plenty of it is unseen work. I have no problem productively filling my days taking care of my husband and our household, and the work doesn’t stop come Saturday and Sunday- it’s seven days a week. So, I can’t take the judgment too seriously when I’ve had people call me a slave AND say that I don’t work, all in one breath. Lol
I don't think it's wrong to be a stay at home wife, but I personally don't understand it. I am a homemaker with 3 kids that I'm homeschooling and I take care of the house, finances, garden, etc. I don't get it, but I'm sure there are plenty of women who do it and aren't lazy, I don't have a window into your household, I'm just saying that it's not just men like Matt who don't get it, I don't get it either, not in the modern world with washing machines, dishwashers, etc. In the past when you had to do a lot more household labor, I totally get it. There are definitely ways to keep busy with volunteer work or a homestead or something, I just understand that from the outside it seems a little lopsided on work load in the modern age if there aren't kids.
A woman should be working, with or without kids. That was Matt's point.
Modern day women, particularly those who live in cities want to earn money for themselves, without burdening or expecting men to pay more or for everything. Women should not expect or demand men to make them feel financially secure. GO OUT and work too. You will still have plenty of time to look after the house and each other.
My father is a stay at home dad, I don’t know why we made that decision but it was the best thing ever. Me and my dad are now best friends and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Now I am a teenager he is lookin for work because he is a man, working gives him joy. I’m so glad he could take on that role while my mom worked. Our family is perfect together, but acting all femme about it is stupid.
I'm a stay at home Dad. Daycare in my town is stupid expensive so I would be working just to pay for daycare. My wife is a hoarder so that didn't work out and I had to take over. I run my house strick as hell, I would piss the entire left off if I filmed how I do things.
I was a stay at home dad. My wife was military, and we kept getting stationed at bases in small towns. A job that would pay for daycare, pay bills, and have money for a good life wasn't around. Now, as soon as I could go back to work. You're damn right, I went back. I'm no scrub, mooching off my wife.
A busy stay-at-home Dad is entirely different from these silly, effeminate "males" on tiktok, pretending to be useful when they're precisely the opposite.
Don't ignore your kids in daycare. Make sure there's at least one parent at home.
One of the sexiest things about my husband is he takes care of stuff and is a leader in our family. A few days a week I work till 2:10, then have a part time gig till 7. On those 3 nights he does dishes, laundry, driving kids around. On nights Im home I do that stuff to give him a break. We work together to get stuff done and keep our household stable. I have so much respect for him showing our kids that when mom is working literally all day, he steps up to do more. When dad is working over time on a Saturday mom steps up to do more. We are both able bodies with kids that are getting older and are more independent, so we both work to pay for their sports and needs.
I've been forced to be a "home dad" for almost a year because of unemployment and this has been the worst part of my adult life.
I love taking car of my children but i can't stand being at home, not working on projects, being stuck on a routine.
As about respect from wife, she was amazing and supportive but our relationship went down a bit during this period. She always felt i did nothing.
All will be well.
Maybe because she still has to do a lot even though she’s the only one working…
@@LatiWins Nope. Not having a job =/= not working.
"I'm not actually...... sleeping with this guy" haha
Oh so he does what EVERYONE DOES
Goes to the store, buys groceries, does house work.
I don't think these idiots have NO LIFE.
You DON'T think they have no life? Or you THINK they have no life? I'm very confused what you're trying to say.
1 or 2 years.
Like Matt says.....there is no respect for a closet homosexual husband.
Not every man does that and not every man does all the chores and duties that housewives typically do
@@greendog456 I meant to put "A" for 'a life' but i doubt they even had any real life outside tiktok either. I could be wrong.
But based on the videos.
Either these videos click bait for Tik-Tok or there's something more to it.
Yeah, but now the wife doesn’t have to worry about it and takes stress off of her so you don’t have two stressed out people.
As a stay at home wife I respectfully disagree that we should work without kids. 😊 I quit my full time job to come home, and without the long hours and time away I can make sure my husbands laundry is ready for him every day, him meals are prepped for the week, and he has a clean, calm home to walk into end of every day. I also have time I wouldn’t otherwise have to dedicate to learning the domestic skills our moms never taught us (thanks feminists) like cooking organically and from scratch, baking, sewing clothing and blankets. Home care is a full time job if you do it right. In my spare free time I also help my parents out and we sometimes do charity quilting.
I really don’t think households were meant to be dual income. I think the feminists ruined that one when they left the workforce and drove up the GDP over the last generation.
How do you have a happy home life when BOTH people are gone? How can you expect the breadwinner of the house to be strong and focused, when he’s expected to drop everything and scrub baseboards when he gets home? My husband is able to work, study and train 10X harder because I’m here to support him and he doesn’t have to sweat the small stuff.
I just don’t see why we women need to neglect the home for a silly little paycheck we don’t need in the first place. LEAN OUT ladies, live on less.
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I love you 😊
You do you...but because I work and contribute 70k a year we were able to afford 100k in home renovations, upgraded from a 1300 sq ft twin in a bad school district to s 2,000 sq ft in a better neighborhood AND a rental property...all in less than 5 years. My husband pays the mortgages and utilities while I pay for food, vacations, renovations, clothes etc. With both incomes, we get to live the American dream. Before we met, I lived in an apartment with nothing but savings in the bank and my husband had a house he couldn't afford to fix up. In an ideal marriage, husband and wife work together to make a better life. I'm so grateful for my income and the freedom it gives me so that I can buy what I want instead of having to beg my husband for money for everything from tampons to new windows. No, thank you! Is my home "neglected"? Maybe a little messy sometimes but at least I payed to replace those lead windows.
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Well you referenced the best Spongebob episode so I can hardly complain that you did it twice.
The fact that the woman starting to earn more in a relationship significantly increases the likelihood of divorce is a big problem given men are massively discriminated against in academic and hiring
When a man earns more, it increases the likelihood of divorce
The only person I know who is a stay-at-home husband/father actually does incredible things. He is a PhD student in Geology, takes care of the kids. They share house chores. He is an athlete who eats 'marathons' for breakfast and has also competed in Iron Man.
This is the cringe part of things. There can be a few right ways to do a 'stay-at-home' man, but most are cringe.
The editor deserves a raise for this one.
Thank you for your sacrifice on our behalf Matt & Team, it is greatly appreciated.
9:40 that couple is so bored and hate their partner. Just proves they wont last long 😂 and she wants people to know its not a hikey haha. Sad.
I do more household chores than any of them and have a job lol.
I couldn’t be with my husband if he was a stay at home father. Like that’s my job! I care for the kids, the house, I cook all the food! I do all the cleaning! He cares for us pays the bills and fixes everything! I borrow HIS credit card and take myself shopping with the kids! I enjoy him taking care of all of us and he enjoys me doing the other half!
Me too, I can't imagine my husband becomes a stay at home husband
This is one of the saddest things anyone has ever said online.
@@JulinaC28Is this your first day on the internet?
@@Woo_Woo_WomanI think so probably just turn 18
Your husband also needs to spend time with his children, meet their emotional needs and build relationships with them.
I got married in July and im finishing college and working part time and my husband works full time it takes me maybe two hours at most each day to do all the necessary cleaning and maybe another hour or two for all the cooking there's no reason for both people to stay home before you have kids
There’s nothing wrong with a man staying home. Stay at home husbands are different than stay at home wives. They are men at home. Men at home farm, do house renovations, play sports with their kids. It’s better than daycare.
I had to go back to work 8 weeks after giving birth while men are out here doing this tomfoolery. There’s everything that’s wrong with the world in a nutshell.
In the 2nd clip, the guy said she works 2 full time jobs and I assume that means he doesn't work since he's the house husband. Then he surprised her with flowers I assume he bought with the money she earned? As a woman, I'd expect that from my 8 year old, asking me for money to buy me a gift. But not from my husband 🤣🤣 it's not the same when it's your money.
Also, I agree with no stay at home spouses. When I get married, both of us will work and when we have kids I will be a stay at home mom. Then when the kids are old enough to go to a good private school, I will get a part time job while the kids are in school. Drop the kids off at school and pick them up.
Some things should stay private.
Women want security, that’s what a real man represents. Men want to be respected, that’s what a wife gives to her husband by honoring his authority as head of the household. Tradition ! ❤ Love it ❤
For many couples this is exactly the case and it works for them! For other couples, they work better as a team without a power dynamic. Personal choice! ❤ love it ❤
Lol. Give me a break. Women with self respect do not accept a mam holding authority over her. Those days are long over. Most young women no longer expect the man to be the sole or main provider of money. Women are more than happy to make their own money and women understanding need and demand mutual respect from their husbands. Otherwise, it’s a divorce.
"head of the household" oh please lol
@@ShayBugler-xq8sg LOLOL. You are correct that women THINK they want all the things you listed. The real truth is that women have become less happy over time as they have increased their participation in the workforce and abandoned traditional feminine values/behaviors. They are lost and attempting to find their value in things that they themselves do not naturally value. You'll attempt to argue against this, but it literally does not matter; the biological facts are set in stone.