Why Breakup or Divorce Hurts | Sadhguru

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  • @mandana423
    @mandana423 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Completely true guru
    But I believe that
    A bitter end
    Is better than
    An endless bitterness.....

  • @sheirelle10
    @sheirelle10 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    ✨Don’t loose yourself in the process of divorce. Get to know who you are again know your worth keep those memories they’re your past this is another phase of your life to make more beautiful memories after Be one with yourself 💫✨Peace Love and Light ✨💫🌻

  • @Yashuop
    @Yashuop ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Raise your hand if you've been watching Sadhguru for a long time🤚

  • @oconnorfamilylaw
    @oconnorfamilylaw ปีที่แล้ว +43

    To anyone out there who is struggling, it does get better. Divorce is difficult but it can also be a beautiful opportunity to create your new path forward in life. It’s your chance to reset and start over by chasing what matters most to you. It will hurt but you are stronger than the pain. You can do this ❤

  • @greglloyd6863
    @greglloyd6863 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thanks Sadhguru! Yes, divorce is not an easy thing to go through. I like your advice: take the opportunity to feel whole within yourself again. It’s been two years for me and I’m starting to feel happier and happier and really want to pivot to a more spiritual life now. Sai Ram.

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Do not allow the energy of negative people to affect you.🎉🎉🎉

    • @datboytalkinrungotellem
      @datboytalkinrungotellem ปีที่แล้ว

      @@poetryfrompoverty2178 hi pottyfrompedofiloery, hey mate, i just searched your country on the world map, i saw your governance actions and was wondering if you are trying to be the first clown-ran-nation or something. Please confirm/deny, thanks.

  • @Tomara710
    @Tomara710 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Some divorces are a blessed relief and a very joyous occasion. The moment of true liberation and freedom. When you can finally start to emerge from the dust...doom and gloom and start to breath and live . Their not all painful. 😁

    • @nmc1859
      @nmc1859 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I hope this is the case with mine. I'm divorcing a covert narcissist 👍

    • @nicolepilgrim3142
      @nicolepilgrim3142 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m sorry this lady I knew didn’t divorce her husband of 40 years and the relationship started out good in the beginning but became very toxic (husband became an alcoholic over time and chain smoker) and abusive overtime and she got sick (stressed,became sick in the body etc) and recently died, (husband still alive drinking and smoking like of nothing happened) if she had divorced and left a long time ago she probably would still be here, but she was holding out on the act of marriage (in sickness or in health, richer or poorer until death do us part) 😔

    • @jahnavimodi8422
      @jahnavimodi8422 ปีที่แล้ว

      True ❤

  • @anitakhatrishrestha9146
    @anitakhatrishrestha9146 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    He has explained it beautifully🙏

  • @ludibinoinprogress
    @ludibinoinprogress ปีที่แล้ว +11

    in other words.... to accept the Life in the way It is, complete by It self 😊🙏🏻

  • @productivitysharma3455
    @productivitysharma3455 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    5:35 - 5:46 that's it!! These was the answer ❤

  • @ramnaslai2980
    @ramnaslai2980 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Divorce = Freedom
    If your partner is hopeless, mental than divorce is the best thing. No need of memories also.
    For me Divorce = new life

    • @nehasavesoil
      @nehasavesoil ปีที่แล้ว

      He is talking about the innate memory of the body, the energies. It is called 'Runanubandha'.

    • @deepikanarasimha6009
      @deepikanarasimha6009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yess iam too facing this.he is a disaster for 22years..

    • @Yogendra55Yadav
      @Yogendra55Yadav ปีที่แล้ว +1

      India a country where marriage is a sacred union bw to souls is now a burden as now India is also moving ahead towards westernization this could lead to a moral collapse as this is now happening in the West.

    • @ramnaslai2980
      @ramnaslai2980 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Yogendra55Yadav will you survive with a mental person who tortures you daily?

    • @nilanjanpramanik3587
      @nilanjanpramanik3587 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No

  • @roginoapacible1
    @roginoapacible1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    my dad, usually say, everything that happens in our life has a song, from happy to sad and even dealing with death. he told me, in order to overcome it, it is like learning how to swim for the first time, we feel fear jumping in the water, but when we slowly dip ourselves to it, just trying to embrace the nature of it, slowly we overcome our fear and learn how to to swim. he shared to me a song that he always listen when he thought of my mom since they separated. title is, memories of our dream by eddie perigrina, we both listen to it and cry, and again and again, it becomes easier.

  • @vishtafayaz
    @vishtafayaz ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Memory! Makes Sense to me right at this moment!

  • @PawanMusing
    @PawanMusing ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Better to be single rather than toxic relationship

    • @chetuqwerty
      @chetuqwerty ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But the harsh surprise is, you wouldn't know! It seems sweet in the beginning, and often we'll be so much into it, mostly we fail to identify the toxicity. It will be late before we realise.

    • @CatWoman6
      @CatWoman6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just left an abusive alcoholic. I have a chance now to heal.

    • @AL-wc8oy
      @AL-wc8oy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was complete before man come into my life. My life was at its best when I was single

  • @chandramohanmanikkath5809
    @chandramohanmanikkath5809 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Do not divorce yourself, from yourself ❤

    • @7200ounceman
      @7200ounceman ปีที่แล้ว

      schizophrenic statement

    • @blessed6477
      @blessed6477 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@7200ouncemanhow? It's just metaphorical

  • @Smol-111
    @Smol-111 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s better to walk along than walk with a fool 🙏

  • @trevsedgwick3324
    @trevsedgwick3324 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Some one may get divorced but not want it to happen! It becomes a thing that’s out of your hands, I never wanted to divorce my wife but it happened. To this day she gone but still with me this is a terrible thing a daily torture.

    • @ritua7s
      @ritua7s ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x
      @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Memories fade but the scars still linger" (Tears for Fears) played through my headphones as a young man after divorce.
      It took years before I could accept the scars. It is a kind of death. And now I know that just as I trust other men with scars -- because it shows they have had the courage to try and stand back up after failure -- I can trust myself.

  • @nilanjanpramanik3587
    @nilanjanpramanik3587 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Stay together ❤️ ✨️ 💓

  • @ResonanceNews
    @ResonanceNews ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Healthy detachment is key!

  • @VeganBrianAnimalActivist
    @VeganBrianAnimalActivist ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My current break up is very hard to deal with, thank you

    • @dumb_o
      @dumb_o 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How did you move on?

  • @brinihawraa5688
    @brinihawraa5688 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Like always wonderful to hear you speak

  • @angeloiodice9304
    @angeloiodice9304 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you, Sadhguru. You are Great Compassion.

  • @ArunAdhikari-wu7qv
    @ArunAdhikari-wu7qv ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you guruji..
    Really needed this

  • @shivanshusharmazone
    @shivanshusharmazone ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadguru, now Im at a stage in spirituality in which whole world seems illusion to me but I am scare of some entities who lives always with me.

  • @thelivinggoddess7704
    @thelivinggoddess7704 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Sadhguru 🙏🏾 my husband passed away and navigating widowhood

  • @soumyadiphalder9524
    @soumyadiphalder9524 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sadguru I am from Kolkata . I feel more positivity and happiness when I listen your prabachan . I want to initiate from Isha but I can't understand English properly .can I initiate from Isha ?

    • @earthrelaxzone
      @earthrelaxzone ปีที่แล้ว

      Hindi version is also available IE Initiate in Hindi also available

  • @PROUDSANATANI1
    @PROUDSANATANI1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank God i am unmarried and i don't have this kind memories 😔😔😔😔

    • @JOKER_007-7dx
      @JOKER_007-7dx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why sad ? Be happy . 🎉🎉🎉.

  • @akshayveeramally1069
    @akshayveeramally1069 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadhguru you have changed my life aspect at a basic level. Thanks , pranam ❤

  • @anweshaanurakta4347
    @anweshaanurakta4347 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You're so sweet Sadhguru.

  • @sreenivasansreeni1874
    @sreenivasansreeni1874 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏 Thank you, Sadhguru 🙏

  • @ebenezerquartey188
    @ebenezerquartey188 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting viewpoint on divorce.

  • @alienallen2983
    @alienallen2983 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍 SADHGURU 🙏>>>💚

  • @natureatitsfinest5450
    @natureatitsfinest5450 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! Sadhguru you explained this quite well..

  • @dewishlist4548
    @dewishlist4548 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 🙏🏻🍀

  • @omojuwaisaiahsalvation1119
    @omojuwaisaiahsalvation1119 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inspirational ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Shushstush
    @Shushstush 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou ❤️

  • @paul-aquarius
    @paul-aquarius ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadhuguru can we rewrite some of our prarabdha Karma? Please guide me.

  • @kimhoffman433
    @kimhoffman433 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Sadhguru. #savesoil

  • @spazzychalk
    @spazzychalk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How long is enough time for the body to workout the physical parts of it

  • @pacarnyajisu
    @pacarnyajisu ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Divorce is complicated, you wanna cut partnership but somehow half of your heart ever love him, even created a child 😅😅

  • @firstbornsonkharsyiemlieh9335
    @firstbornsonkharsyiemlieh9335 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😢this is always happens in this new generation

  • @Dilan-d9y
    @Dilan-d9y ปีที่แล้ว

    Love Sadhguru

  • @kalyanc9279
    @kalyanc9279 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadhguru❤

  • @Jasmineliam22
    @Jasmineliam22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Divorce is never the way out, My husband and I have been having issues before I
    sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I wasn't going to let my marriage of 9years crash

    • @Margrette6
      @Margrette6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing, I am kind of in a similar situation, how did you handle it?

    • @Jasmineliam22
      @Jasmineliam22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      well not the orthodox way but I was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

    • @Margrette6
      @Margrette6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      please how can I get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

    • @Jasmineliam22
      @Jasmineliam22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

    • @Margrette6
      @Margrette6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this valuable information, I will check her out now..

  • @bannariamman9211
    @bannariamman9211 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes

  • @kalyanc9279
    @kalyanc9279 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadhguru🙏

  • @tahiyamarome
    @tahiyamarome ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have lost one spouse to death and now i am dying and my spouse will lose me. It will be hard but he will be ok. As i was before. Life ends. Love doesn't.

    • @ritua7s
      @ritua7s ปีที่แล้ว

      love lasts forever: God bless you on your next journey 🙏🏼

  • @rahulpahalwanifitness2778
    @rahulpahalwanifitness2778 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have ojas please guide me I am here at Isha foundation to met you sadguru

  • @88jameson88
    @88jameson88 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why is my timeline flooded with divorce videos this week?

  • @singhabhi9946
    @singhabhi9946 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't know sadguru what can I do I m suffering right now

    • @88jameson88
      @88jameson88 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Life is suffering. Find someone as messed up as you are and try and settle thing downs together and rebuild a brighter future.
      You could leave, but if you dont do the internal work you will be in the same situation with another person Reliving the same problems

    • @oneeyedlair
      @oneeyedlair ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@88jameson88Death is peace 🕊️

    • @shadow8594
      @shadow8594 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do the practices given like meditation and you'll start to feel more stable and happy as well as getting clarity so you can make the best decisions for your wellbeing.

    • @oneeyedlair
      @oneeyedlair ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@shadow8594 meditation doesn't work for everyone especially for people with chemical imbalance in the brain

    • @littlesunshine4591
      @littlesunshine4591 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It all works out dear , give yourself time

  • @dillipkumarmaduli8882
    @dillipkumarmaduli8882 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    om namah shivay

  • @TheChillDil
    @TheChillDil ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Breakup or divorce can be a deeply painful and challenging experience for individuals involved. Sadhguru, a spiritual leader and speaker, is known for his profound insights on various aspects of life, including relationships and emotions. In his talks on why breakup or divorce hurts, Sadhguru may address the emotional and psychological impact of these life events. He might explore the human attachment to relationships and how the end of a partnership can trigger feelings of loss, grief, and uncertainty.

  • @missepicmandy
    @missepicmandy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why is pain painful?

    • @JOKER_007-7dx
      @JOKER_007-7dx ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why is Joy Joyful?

    • @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x
      @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because it is a gift. Ask the diabetic who cannot feel his feet and you will know the answer.
      This signal. This information. It's from the limbic system that gives us emotions. Just don't mistake the feelings for the underlying phenomenon or you'll be chasing ghosts. The limbic system is designed not for happiness but to keep you alive. This is evolution. The divine path is to stand up to evolution and choose happiness (be that excitement or contentment) in enjoyment, satisfaction, and purpose.

  • @nayaleezy
    @nayaleezy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If your spouse resists growth for too long, get out sooner than later

  • @AnnMitt
    @AnnMitt ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Marriage is extremely difficult

    • @tahiyamarome
      @tahiyamarome ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mature people devoting themselves to one another's welfare is not only beautiful. It's actually quite easy. Devotion to the other is the key.

    • @CatWoman6
      @CatWoman6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tahiyamarometrue but very difficult when one person has an alcoholic addiction.

  • @grandmastergyorogyoro532
    @grandmastergyorogyoro532 ปีที่แล้ว

    8:29

  • @ghanshyampjoshi
    @ghanshyampjoshi ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🙏

  • @mashkesarkar6649
    @mashkesarkar6649 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @untouched5131
    @untouched5131 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏

  • @kasurivirangi3608
    @kasurivirangi3608 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @tchaliz4925
    @tchaliz4925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if working out the memory takes the rest of your life?

  • @AfreenKhanum-o9l
    @AfreenKhanum-o9l 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is there anyone to help me to get through my divorce

  • @gloriamoody6025
    @gloriamoody6025 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🏾❤️

  • @Skyndsamlove9723
    @Skyndsamlove9723 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guru ji night me koi chij utha deti hai sarir ko dba deti hai par uss dbane me dar nhi aanand hai or future me hone wali chije dikhai de rhi hai kuch tym se mujhe to ek hadsa bhi dikhai dia kuch bhut bura aur kisne kraya wo bhi hadsa kya hai samaj nhi paya lekin Jo wo Banda hai mai naam nhi le sakta poltics se juda hua hai aur raat ko khuch light jo sirf dikh kar gayb ya band ho jati hai bilkul thodi hi upar mujhse kai baar aisa hota hai kuch hai mere pass jo mere sath hi rhti hai pakshio ke rup me mai bilkul nikmaa tha logo ki Nazar me mujhe lagta tha mai aisa hi hu to kaise badlu sabki sunte sunte ek din drugs me ghus gya sab tbah lga mar jau na usne Marne dia aur ek din sote hue kisi ne pakda piche se chuntia Kanti kamr me aur mere andar aisi chije aati hai kisi ki samsya hai wo kyu hai aur Mera sab yaad aagya ki mere sath aisa kis wjah se hua kuch urja hai ya ishwar hai

  • @Santigames-ti5rt
    @Santigames-ti5rt ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Namasté 🙏✨🌀♥️🍀

  • @aniketramnaresh
    @aniketramnaresh ปีที่แล้ว

    Please suggest some boys name 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Anngelinaa725
    @Anngelinaa725 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have court case running with my husband from last one year. He filed divorce I filed domestic violence. I can feel the pain.

    • @oneeyedlair
      @oneeyedlair ปีที่แล้ว

      You can rebound 🪃 with me if you live nearby

    • @Marwadi_baisa1444
      @Marwadi_baisa1444 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same ......mere sath bhi yhi hua....

    • @fresh.prince7472
      @fresh.prince7472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@oneeyedlairshe just threw up
      Thinking of you 😬

    • @oneeyedlair
      @oneeyedlair ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fresh.prince7472 that's not vomit, it's ejaculation 😂

    • @fresh.prince7472
      @fresh.prince7472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@oneeyedlair you should the nearest you get to anyone is this every night 🖐️😂

  • @Mukti-Nirvanaa
    @Mukti-Nirvanaa ปีที่แล้ว

    I request PM modi to give Seva charge of all Spiritual places like kailasha kedarnath ..maa chintpurni ..vrindavan to all in India To Sadhguru nd all maa nd Swami of isha..
    Only then nd then the spiritual places can be saved from becoming a mere tourist place..pls Sadguru Save Our temples 🙏🙏🙏.
    Can somebody who is in power pls send my request to PM modi nd sadguru ji ...
    Because m so little..I have no power 😢

  • @dilukafernando8597
    @dilukafernando8597 ปีที่แล้ว

    💚🙏💚

  • @nehasavesoil
    @nehasavesoil ปีที่แล้ว

    🙇🏻‍♀️

  • @shivnayak7081
    @shivnayak7081 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is private matter between couple

  • @patriciadunbar6372
    @patriciadunbar6372 ปีที่แล้ว

    🖐🏽

  • @aprilhollow5780
    @aprilhollow5780 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥺

  • @gabriel.pedro_
    @gabriel.pedro_ ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤🙏✨️🕊🐬

  • @hiyelow2999
    @hiyelow2999 ปีที่แล้ว

    Atoms split a part. 💣 like hydrogen. People are no different. The physical separation, even in long distance relations, after intimate relations- kiss, hand holding, intercourse become interconnected. Forever. Angela Yee and I have a new movie featuring Taraji P Henson called Exes, where a new couple has to experience each other's past. Comedy/horror..

  • @bindhubindhu6142
    @bindhubindhu6142 ปีที่แล้ว

    Divorce

  • @shivgauri8654
    @shivgauri8654 ปีที่แล้ว

    Say am searching for wrong person they are leave in Afghan

  • @srravishankar
    @srravishankar ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are being liberated from a burden of life. So chill & party harder. Don't be so senti. 🤔

    • @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x
      @MichaelPrudhomme-u7x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As the saying goes, stop trying to steer the river.

  • @AL-wc8oy
    @AL-wc8oy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Lucky you, you have divorce. Meanwhile here in the Philippines you are trapped forever in the toxic relationship😂

  • @Radhika-v6o
    @Radhika-v6o 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    radhika rashiv radhika rashiv radhika rashiv radhika rashiv radhika rashiv radhika rashiv radhika

  • @durgaprasad5488
    @durgaprasad5488 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think this question comes from samantha😢

  • @shubhangigupta8563
    @shubhangigupta8563 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥹❤❤

  • @chullotm1970
    @chullotm1970 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Save Soil!

  • @datboytalkinrungotellem
    @datboytalkinrungotellem ปีที่แล้ว +1

    deeverssse 🤣

  • @princessjavellana898
    @princessjavellana898 ปีที่แล้ว

    Drasolowlah vampire heart

  • @yakshithpb5077
    @yakshithpb5077 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never seen Sadguru came in court for anyone's matrimonial issues lol... Shut up bro ❤️ best for you

  • @UNKNOWNCRAZYZZ
    @UNKNOWNCRAZYZZ ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤

  • @sateeshmaddineni9257
    @sateeshmaddineni9257 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏

  • @aniketramnaresh
    @aniketramnaresh ปีที่แล้ว

    Please suggest some boys name 🙏🙏🙏

  • @SabineRinchen
    @SabineRinchen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🙏🏼❤️