How To Move On After A Breakup ? - Sadhguru Talk's - Spiritual Life

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  • @bannobundle
    @bannobundle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    If you are patching up with a person thats great, But if you are patching up with them because of all the memories you have had with them, always remember you are again patching up the wounds they gave you.
    With good memories there comes bad memories too, don't take decisions in a hurry if you are accepting them again in your life get ready to accept the bad memories too💕

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    No matter your association, you stand alone. Learn that

  • @rakshakulkarni2503
    @rakshakulkarni2503 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    It's not that we have had expectations.. we get used to the love, care, just the feeling that there's someone we can go to.. and suddenly life changes, the memories keeps haunting

  • @vaibhavgargrocks1
    @vaibhavgargrocks1 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This man saved lives.

  • @Neshia-hl9is
    @Neshia-hl9is ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I see it as basically be careful who you give your heart to

  • @techcanyon411
    @techcanyon411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    You can break-up in any way that t pleases and suite you, don't discomfort yourself to other. Your self happiness is paramount more than anything.

  • @ndflatt
    @ndflatt ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I don’t necessarily agree with saying when you were born, you were born alone because you did share the experience with your mother.

    • @yasminevine
      @yasminevine ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow Thats a really good point! I didnt think of that. You enter through your mother but exit alone.

  • @bookno11lr25
    @bookno11lr25 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    His first statement "somebody has moved on even if you stay distance will happen " resonate to this 40 year old man still standing where I was at 26 . Just accept the wisdom don't waste your time ,dont constipate yourself ,life is bful

  • @kiruthikamurugan5581
    @kiruthikamurugan5581 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Born alone die alone.... 👏

    • @PriyaMomma
      @PriyaMomma ปีที่แล้ว

      But you’re not born alone. You literally are attached to your mother.

  • @thetennisjournal
    @thetennisjournal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I have not seen a true healing process for break ups even from people like sadguru I am writing a book.

    • @jayd6098
      @jayd6098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go fuck yourself. No one gives a shit about your shitty book.

    • @aesthboho4694
      @aesthboho4694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Write and good luck

    • @NK-nh4vo
      @NK-nh4vo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All the best

    • @khavyashreya3491
      @khavyashreya3491 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Name of t book

    • @educationfuture
      @educationfuture 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Becaming a strong is the only solution

  • @Navneetpandey99
    @Navneetpandey99 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Re watch again and again it will help and increase your understanding...

  • @lemonmochi8669
    @lemonmochi8669 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i like how sadhguru picked up that hes talking to youths and the level of awareness they possess and also picked up from the tone and energy of the question. instead of addressing the heartbreak and pain that comes with a breakup of a relationship you put your heart and soul in, he instead talked about not getting into mindless relationships for the sake of experience and because everyone their age is experimenting. he worries that youths make the mistake of not processing what it truly means to be in a relationship and mindlessly move on with the next and the next and the next. thats what he means by being loose.

  • @typicallytoday394
    @typicallytoday394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    Asking for a friend 😝🤣

  • @gargshivam024
    @gargshivam024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He is an expert on everything

  • @vn7895
    @vn7895 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Keep talking Sadhguru ji

  • @nataliemartins3559
    @nataliemartins3559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This man has wisdom.

  • @atharv3954
    @atharv3954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    we all know who that friend was

  • @troy5010
    @troy5010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    For those of you who don''t really understand what he was trying to say, it wasn't very clear to me either. But I think he was saying/implying:
    - Do positive things after a breakup ( I presume like exercise, eating healthily, having healthy relationships with other people etc.) as this will give "memories leading to productivity" and increase the chances of you being able to do phenomenal things (i.e. being able to use the computer as a computer and not for chopping cucumber which is using it to do only a medicore thing)
    - He seemed to hint at a specific example too- making sure to think how a relationship will affect you before you jump into one. Make sure it will lead to positive things before jumping in. But I think that can be easier said than done!

  • @snoep1581
    @snoep1581 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    its imp to see what you have otherwise you will not achieve direction of your life. and don't ask for direction to anyone else. its your life and so its your direction. i wish evil person had not met me and created illusion of love, i would have had fulfilling life with the right person instead of waiting on wrong person for 18 years. your life is worth more than those evil people will decide for you.

  • @Fafalina500
    @Fafalina500 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don’t get it - how does this help with heartbreak ?

    • @lemonmochi8669
      @lemonmochi8669 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you should watch another video where he really talks about the heartbreak. his talk here doesnt address it because he picked up on the energy of his audience which are youths and instead talked about not mindlessly getting into a relationship at their age and keep moving on and finding someone else. maybe because at their age youths dont have the maturity and awareness to pour into what it means to truly be in a relationship or with someone significant and the impact and complications of that.

  • @pm7805
    @pm7805 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These things can happen even after a long standing marriage. Then One definitely needs yoga to come out of it gracefully.

  • @Coco-zj6wb
    @Coco-zj6wb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The answer was not relatable it went out of its way. 😒 in the end he only said... ‘akele aaye the akele jaoge’ nonsense.

    • @alexislaura9487
      @alexislaura9487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hello do you need help on how to get your ex back or to restore someone you love

    • @alexislaura9487
      @alexislaura9487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      there is a love specialist who help me get my ex back after 2years of divorce

    • @alexislaura9487
      @alexislaura9487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ✝1⃣2⃣0⃣4⃣5⃣0⃣0⃣1⃣6⃣6⃣2⃣

    • @snehavishwanathan2100
      @snehavishwanathan2100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ikr! I was waiting for the “how to move on” part.. but the answer was totally out of context

  • @kinarahendya7224
    @kinarahendya7224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cant clouse my eyes bcs everytime im clouse my eyes that memorry come again and so noicy in my head remember all thisthing abouth him 😔

  • @vn7895
    @vn7895 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am not a fortuneteller to know where the life takes me sadguru ji....

  • @naveedh27
    @naveedh27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Its Pointless. You may say I am not intellectually capable to understand but be honest and tell what is the link between ancestor, memory and integrity. Nothing. He could have simply answered "You are born alone and you will die alone" instead of beating around the bush.
    Don't take life too serious. Make fun of yourself and move on.

  • @snoep1581
    @snoep1581 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    he is right, but too late for my life which is already robbed by evil people around, who are well educated but have no significance of life of other individual, no law enforcement gives any help

  • @rohitmishraji
    @rohitmishraji 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Touched❤

  • @suraiyaadugyamfi6977
    @suraiyaadugyamfi6977 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Please how do I move on after 5yrs of break-up?
    Is really affecting me and I'm really trying my best 😭😭😭

    • @famweup
      @famweup 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tell your mind fuck it we ball

    • @daniellac.7588
      @daniellac.7588 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facing the truth is important. If you're still in love with your ex, you need to end that. Personally, the only thing that worked for me was a asking questions to an excellent tarot reader called moon moth goddess. I booked a private reading. She studied reiki healing and I kid you not I felt something in her reading. I'll probably book a reiki healing as well in a few months for something else. But it did it for me.

  • @raxzu1127
    @raxzu1127 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great explanation ❤

    • @shelkhan2069
      @shelkhan2069 ปีที่แล้ว

      They didn’t want you…simples

  • @shashG30
    @shashG30 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Osho was clear n clinical , this guy selling masala Puri , chorabatire

  • @farouqkatana7216
    @farouqkatana7216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love this advice fantastic 👏👏👏👏🙏

  • @muonagoogleuser7901
    @muonagoogleuser7901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    2:50 is that the girl who broke up with his frnd? Lol

    • @brandana9553
      @brandana9553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao

    • @naveedh27
      @naveedh27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She broke up with azeem

  • @ceamean
    @ceamean 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Why is he thanking him for? He didn’t say anything relevant and I’m sure his fans are like “he did, but you didn’t have the insight to understand it” pffft

    • @margretmicheal4856
      @margretmicheal4856 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a great man,who can help you manifest whatever u wannna manifest💯💯

    • @margretmicheal4856
      @margretmicheal4856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He helped me bring back my ex few days ago,without any delay💖💝

    • @margretmicheal4856
      @margretmicheal4856 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watzzap him**

    • @genichiroashina1
      @genichiroashina1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ok so Sadhguru is saying your mind is so complex so advance that you can really forget and move on! Create new memories is what he is saying! So you really didn't had the insight 😂 un-initiated 😅 😂

    • @anupamakumari5975
      @anupamakumari5975 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@margretmicheal4856yes please recommend..i really need it

  • @ananduansari6247
    @ananduansari6247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Not a proper answer to the question

  • @FRODIII
    @FRODIII 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Today was a tough day for me... i know it's kinda stupid what i'm about to say but whatever...
    So i met this girl only 3 weeks ago and i instantly fell in love with her, now before anyone says it no i don't fall in love easily, but this girl... i can't explain it! it's just love... but anyway the problem is that i immediately found out that she has a boyfriend... now that obviously was a blow at the time and even though she made it clear that she didn't want to brake up with him we kept talking anyway just like friends and that didn't bother me, i mean sure my intentions were others but i liked her so much that i didn't really care if we could only be friends! But anyway to not seem very clingy in this 3 weeks i didn't talk to her everyday but everytime that i did talk she always answered and also always shown interrest in engading in conversation etc even though her boyfriend didnt like her talking to other men so she told me... but anyway because of that i asked her many times if it was ok for her to be talking to me etc if she woudnt get into trouble and she always said that there was no problem, that she knew what she was doing etc... but because like i said above even if we were just talking as friends i didnt talked to her everyday just to see if she would ever talk to me first...
    Well... that day seemed to arrive today... sometime in the afternoon i got a message from her saying it would be better if she deleted my phone number and we stopped talking cause she was afraid that her boyfriend would ever find out that she talks to me and felt guilty etc... even though again we were only talking as friends etc... i replied very quickly cause i was afraid she might've block me at any second so i basically said that i understood ver position etc but really didn't have much time to say much more and she then just said a "take care of yourself bye" or something of the sorts...
    So again... i have dated many women before, both casual and serious but i NEVER felt like this in my life even though we never actually met in person... i tried to send a few more texts a few hours later didn't got a reply so i assume that she probably already blocked me... BUT ANYWAY i feel like i'm falling into a giant depression! I had depression before but never because of a heartbrake! I feel this HUGE emptiness in my heart! I even cried today! Now i know i shouldn't push her to anything, not even sure if i can since she blocked me, i mean we only texted on whatsapp etc and spoke on the phone, and i know she has a facebook we didnt talk there but it would be useless too...
    So what do you think ? Will she ever want to talk to me again ? This all thing is driving me crazy i never experienced something like this before AND AGAIN i've been in real relationships! And like i said the thing that caugh me really by surprise was this sudden dicision of hers! When the last time we spoke before 2 days ago she was really ok with everything in fact everytime that i brought up the subject she was always telling me to calm down that it was ok etc etc... And all this also happend today like 5 minutes after i woke up which made things seem even tougher... So can anyone help me ? It's really painful! Thanks!

    • @raksha926
      @raksha926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hey there!
      I hope you are fine.
      You know.. life is unpredictable and even more unpredictable are the people we rely on for our happiness. Since you said you were in relationships before so you would know it's not always in your control.
      All I would say is...take time before you get attached. We all have come alone and would go along leaving everything else behind in life. This is the biggest truth. Do good be good. Don't get bogged down. No matter how low you feel. Remember a heartbreak is just a heartbreak. Don't let it break your strength and spirit. No one in this world is so worthless. All the pain misery and anxiety will end. Just find your purpose in life and move on. Keep moving on maybe with happiness or just pain in your heart..but move on. Life really is topsy turvy path...who knows what good is there for you ahead.
      Take care. Have faith in yourself that you'll be happy and at peace.

    • @snehagowda6670
      @snehagowda6670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well!! It's really painful...but anyhow it has been 4 months over. how are you now??Are you ok now...

    • @JeanneCiampa
      @JeanneCiampa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Move on if it is meant to be ...it will otherwise you torture yourself. Lust happens in 3 weeks not love. Love grows over time.

    • @rakshithagowda2563
      @rakshithagowda2563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope you are doing fine now. I can feel you. During the breakup, at that instant we do feel so low about ourselves. We keep asking ourselves “Where did it go wrong”. We keep blaming ourselves subconsciously though we know there was nothing wrong done intentionally.We can’t digest the fact. But also overthinking about the situation will never you the correct answer. As a human being we have control of your thoughts. Now it’s up to us whether we want to choose “suffering” or “happiness “. Every human being is blessed and trust me you will be blessed with an amazing girl. You need to trust the process. If something bad happened just remember there is something good out of it. I have experienced all this in life. I hope what I said makes you feel better.

    • @lawvsmyths3918
      @lawvsmyths3918 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's been a year , I read everything . First tell me how's you now?good or same?

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m not holding anyone back

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes

  • @grk991
    @grk991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OSHO.... The real master.

  • @rinkis6724
    @rinkis6724 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Is video ko hindi me dub karkr dale pllz

  • @rajeevsingh449
    @rajeevsingh449 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Asking for friend🤣🤣🤣

  • @nesrinturel.official
    @nesrinturel.official 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    videolara çeviri özelliği eklermisiniz rica etsem

  • @yizheyingye611
    @yizheyingye611 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    second day ...so painful

    • @Valengray555
      @Valengray555 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How are you doing today? 🙂

  • @csnehasharma3003
    @csnehasharma3003 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I really don't understand wat sadguru suggested...is he saying that had made a mistake that I got into a relationship physically and emotionally
    Pl elaborate..need this

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right

  • @MiticDane
    @MiticDane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OK PEOPLE, write this down!! Don't use a laptop to cut a cucumber !!

  • @supriyasinha487
    @supriyasinha487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm so hurt..how to move on

    • @fedricpaul6484
      @fedricpaul6484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so excited cause my boyfriend who wanted to break up with me, just apologized to me asking me to forgive him, this was the help I got from Shek spells and charms

    • @fedricpaul6484
      @fedricpaul6484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Contact him on Face book

    • @9nomejro9
      @9nomejro9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you now?

  • @zachp419
    @zachp419 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do you release these memories ? Yoga ?

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re adding to your life in many of ways, but stuck.

  • @nanajin2011
    @nanajin2011 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @ashajoram6926
    @ashajoram6926 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cope with not cope up.

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    My ex need to learn this

  • @ashishvarghese4828
    @ashishvarghese4828 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nyz

  • @sharanyabagchi4614
    @sharanyabagchi4614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Can you please be direct? You completely went away from the question and made no sense!

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十𝟮𝟯𝟰7030894892⏯⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup he can help you too via whtsap..

    • @RishiKumar
      @RishiKumar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      true,
      but i think he wants to say that you cant just undo your feelings when you invested soo much for it. creat new memories to fade out the previous ones, and all you have to understand that are all your future is like macbook air, use it as computer, not cutting machine of cucumber.

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think their love charm went to them 😂

  • @nandini3546
    @nandini3546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How could I see this vedio when I saw the clg name itself is my bf's name😭😭

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Still not content enough to move on

  • @jenniferiloafunam3375
    @jenniferiloafunam3375 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are not asking for your friend,but yourself 🤭

  • @GS-md3hr
    @GS-md3hr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Has he ever even been in a relationship before?

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      十𝟮𝟯𝟰7030894892⏯⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup he can help you too via whtsap

  • @Trilly2233
    @Trilly2233 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥺

  • @bishwajeetsharma
    @bishwajeetsharma ปีที่แล้ว

    2:50

  • @abhishekpaul6094
    @abhishekpaul6094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My friend literally started chopping cucumber with his keyboard

    • @margretmicheal4856
      @margretmicheal4856 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a great man,who can help you manifest whatever u wannna manifest💯💯

    • @margretmicheal4856
      @margretmicheal4856 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He helped me bring back my ex few days ago,without any delay💖💝

    • @margretmicheal4856
      @margretmicheal4856 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watzzap him**

    • @margretmicheal4856
      @margretmicheal4856 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🌹 + 2 3 4 8 1 6 4 4 3 4 6 0 6🌹

  • @dozerjcb5668
    @dozerjcb5668 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    1st comment

  • @risingphoenix158
    @risingphoenix158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don‘t get it, he did not really answer the question did he?

  • @selbstsein967
    @selbstsein967 ปีที่แล้ว

    A lot of „unnecessary“ talking stuff with no answer from him 🙈
    He likes to talk a lot but … here he don’t know it because he may never experienced it because he „protected“ his system/heart to get in such a situation

    • @yasminevine
      @yasminevine ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He was married and his wife died so he HAS experienced it

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing is helping them to move on

  • @monalisaelizabeth2812
    @monalisaelizabeth2812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't stop thinking *Dr Danja the spell caster* for what he has done for me it worked am now in control of my family.

    • @silentsword6161
      @silentsword6161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's the dumbest type of promotion I have seen in a long time

  • @nightrider12soul
    @nightrider12soul ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After your partner broke your heart don’t cry.
    Just say I am going to bay a cigarets and never come back.
    Then bay a ticket too distant nice place and make love as much as you can.
    She will be the dust off the momory.

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not even worried about y’all

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are the ones holding on stop lying to yourselves

  • @arjunmehta4811
    @arjunmehta4811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadguru don't have adjact solutiom for this

  • @purpledurple2713
    @purpledurple2713 ปีที่แล้ว

    He didn't answer the question.

  • @shrishkhandelia1972
    @shrishkhandelia1972 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uss ladke ka muh dekh k samaj aa rha hai ki apne liye puch rha hai 😂

  • @b.r.9233.
    @b.r.9233. ปีที่แล้ว

    Bohot ho gya bhai...mai lga usko call krne 😴

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    They’re stuck and in denial. 😂

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    You pick on me but want to pretend I’m the issue

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    🧪

  • @MrRooster3000
    @MrRooster3000 ปีที่แล้ว

    🐓🙏🏾❤️🌹🐓

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing helping you to move on.

  • @michaelvincentdascil5354
    @michaelvincentdascil5354 ปีที่แล้ว

    Copy

  • @Daneiladams555
    @Daneiladams555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Terrible advice

  • @anishkesar2503
    @anishkesar2503 ปีที่แล้ว

    arey kehna kya chathe ho 😅

  • @wikimiki6333
    @wikimiki6333 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro's acting like he's stoned

  • @restrainingorder7301
    @restrainingorder7301 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was never in a relationship smh them boys been delusional....

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re obsessed.

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Go away

  • @johnnyfranklin499
    @johnnyfranklin499 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wolf

  • @deedee19791
    @deedee19791 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes

  • @monalisaelizabeth2812
    @monalisaelizabeth2812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can't stop thinking *Dr Danja the spell caster* for what he has done for me it worked am now in control of my family.