Trapped In Gambling Addiction That Almost Destroyed His Life

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  • After struggling with gambling addiction, Ike Dweck slowly turned his life around. He has gone on to help others in need.
    He created the SAFE Foundation which is a New York state licensed OASAS (office of alcoholism and substance abuse services) outpatient treatment program located in Brooklyn, New York. They serve as a reliable haven for those experiencing difficulties with cigarettes, vaping, prescription drug addiction, alcoholism, and compulsive gambling.
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ความคิดเห็น • 115

  • @Iriesoul808
    @Iriesoul808 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    35 years old lost over 20k in 3 months over 5 years I lost over 200k im done sports betting ruined my life. Starting all over again it’s gonna be tough on us but we gonna make it

    • @alexbroughton2874
      @alexbroughton2874 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lost 500k in options trading last year. 40 yo m

    • @ChatB.E.G.
      @ChatB.E.G. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I believe in you🌹

  • @kelb6355
    @kelb6355 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I lost all my money today I saved, and now I feel so sick. I wish I never ever started gambling. I want to stop so bad, but the casino will send brochures with free play and gift cards and draws me back. 😢 I'm so tired of losing my money every week. It's so sad to have this addiction. 😢

    • @halfwaykim7457
      @halfwaykim7457 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here. It is hard

    • @ChatB.E.G.
      @ChatB.E.G. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I believe in you🌹

  • @bradleysmoose6582
    @bradleysmoose6582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    You my friend are an inspiration to me personally. I am a compulsive gambler too. You are so articulate in your parlance. What a pleasure it was to hear you express your own vulnerability. I hope God blesses you many times over. I now realize how sick I am as a gambler.

    • @LivingLchaim
      @LivingLchaim  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Rooting for your recovery 🥹

    • @bradleysmoose6582
      @bradleysmoose6582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LivingLchaim Tell Mr. Articulate how overjoyed he made me feel. I am now on my own road to recovery because of him.

  • @Erik-wb6ys
    @Erik-wb6ys 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Today is the day that i will change myself. i dont want to be stuck, i dont want to watch everyone around me move further in life and me standing there. I dont want to lie to my close ones about things that gambling caused me. I dont want my relationships hindered by me being a gambling addict. i want my life back im still young this is not the life i want.

    • @GustavoDiaz-gi6ck
      @GustavoDiaz-gi6ck 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Glod bless you brother. I feel your pain .we will beat this ,stay strong.

    • @ayomidefrancis-akinlolu3035
      @ayomidefrancis-akinlolu3035 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How is it now mate, I hope you’ve finally stopped?

    • @norahanne7133
      @norahanne7133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don’t watch slot channels. They promote this daily.

    • @donaldlyons17
      @donaldlyons17 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@norahanne7133 Slots are the most action packed part of gambling in my opinion so no I say watch slots 24/7 but thing is for me I have to stick to my budget.

    • @emilepelayo8864
      @emilepelayo8864 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How are you doing today?

  • @CanabisRevolution
    @CanabisRevolution 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Winning money is very addicting…. The heart breathing through my chest before the dice come out and the adrenaline rush when hitting my numbers…. And the pure rage when I lose…. It’s addicting. And if I stop…. Who is gonna care if I don’t.

  • @jenniferescava2039
    @jenniferescava2039 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Best guy!! He should be blessed and have the strength to continue to help others.

  • @cathypaz3555
    @cathypaz3555 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great Pod!! Thanks for the inspiration!! ❤

  • @skqq3250
    @skqq3250 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is a real real heart to heart. I love this and I don’t even gamble. Thanks for helping everyone with this cautionary tale.

  • @kristine8338
    @kristine8338 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Verschrikkelijk. What an openhearted interview. ❤️

  • @haroldmoss6864
    @haroldmoss6864 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for the podcast. Great information 👍 👌 👏

  • @suzieheng3953
    @suzieheng3953 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Omg, this happens to my brothers, sisters, cousins, neighbors etc they just keep quiet 🤫 some die in silence. Some are strong to stay away etc....lots of problems 😢have faith in God to survive this storm that is hitting humanity right now. Stay far far away. There is no such social gambling. They are destroying humanity

  • @ranlitt3201
    @ranlitt3201 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Gamblers do not think logically as he states. He owns an abuse center. He makes money from them. He does NOT sound as a recovering gambler. Hypnotism, the only chance. I know.

  • @SaulMalekSpeaking
    @SaulMalekSpeaking 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m a 25 year old Jewish guy educating schools on gambling risk. Recently talked to Chabad San Antonio on the topic… really need to have more of these conversations in the Jewish community. Would love to talk sometime

  • @susanking876
    @susanking876 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You just said it. Alcohol was destroying my body mind and spirit, boy gambling doesn’t have the risk of health so i made that excuse for myself all the time. Always the excuses. I am coming up on my fifth weekend free of going to casino. Praying I can stay free of that BS.

  • @arigross9864
    @arigross9864 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    If you walk in and casino for the first time
    For an example and you win 5G
    The casino caught you in the net and you most likely stay a gambler for a while and lose lots of money

  • @cathypaz3555
    @cathypaz3555 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you so much for this podcast. I needed it so much!

  • @jennylim1558
    @jennylim1558 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Excellent podcast! I wanted to help family members who are addicted to gambling but just didn't know how to communicate with them. This helps a lot!

  • @halfwaykim7457
    @halfwaykim7457 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this. Thank you very much

  • @sheilarubio9346
    @sheilarubio9346 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Gambling is the worst addiction my son borrowed lots of money from people he has no friends and ruined his married I don’t know what to do with him I paid some of his debt but he keep doing it I’m planning of abandoning him

    • @mathewkimosop1736
      @mathewkimosop1736 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      dont do that find help

    • @ChatB.E.G.
      @ChatB.E.G. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sorry❤ I believe in you🌹

  • @mmp495
    @mmp495 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ike is doing a great service with his foundation to many.❤❤❤

  • @mikeerickson967
    @mikeerickson967 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    wow the opening statement was sooo profound.. i have never heard that before

  • @CGoldstein
    @CGoldstein ปีที่แล้ว +9

    SAFE is a wonderful organization! Saving lives and families literally!

  • @debbielasalle5472
    @debbielasalle5472 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I have a gambling problem, and I don't know what to do about it.

    • @LivingLchaim
      @LivingLchaim  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Debbie. We’re so sorry. It must be so tough. There’s a link to Ike’s org in the show notes as well as Relief’s free number to call for guidance. You can get through this! 🫶🏻

    • @annoravetz5908
      @annoravetz5908 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You have done the initial thing is to admit it. Congratulations! Follow a 12 step program. I have realized it's no different in drinking addiction, in that you can't have just a little drink, you're off the wagon, you can't just do a little gambling, you end up spending all you have. "Don't go!" delete the apps. Get a calendar and a bunch of gold star stickers. Give yourself a gold star for every day gamble-free, it's literally a day-to-day thing.

    • @cnm8152
      @cnm8152 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Same bro, today is my last day and im serious about it. I have a serious problem. I keep chasing the same high i get from my rare wins. Its almost like im trapped. But starting now. Only i can make this change.. and it starts today

    • @thomasyost4959
      @thomasyost4959 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Double down dont give up

    • @perpetualswap
      @perpetualswap 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You need suport system a work that occupies you and it gives money and just stop it

  • @ChristianBoring-md6fw
    @ChristianBoring-md6fw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I'm struggling too ..I never thought I'd be so addicted to gambling

    • @LivingLchaim
      @LivingLchaim  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh man. Stay strong ♥️

    • @ChatB.E.G.
      @ChatB.E.G. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe in you🌹

  • @gogodan-gc7zh
    @gogodan-gc7zh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i need help too for my gambling addiction😢 until now i am still struggling, i think it almost hit me in rock-bottom. anyone can help! i am a compulsive gambler at my late 40's.

  • @blexasgames
    @blexasgames 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks 😊

  • @dentallab.
    @dentallab. ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Who gives permissions to casinos to literally killing people all around the world?

    • @victorblock3421
      @victorblock3421 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I had a terrible gambling addiction back in the 1990's. It nearly destroyed me and and changed my life for the worse. I managed to kick it and more than 2 decades later I have no temptation. Even a Casino opened in my area several years ago and never feel the urge.
      The casino wasn't killing me, I was. It was my fault totally. Today I have zero debt and enough to live well into old age and beyond. Not having excuses and the humiliation helped cure me.

  • @vinokumar6361
    @vinokumar6361 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this video. it's one of the best education for life

  • @jn2400
    @jn2400 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I got into slots about a month ago..won 4 grand on the 2nd day...at this point im probably 5 grand in the hole. Unless you can leave when up and able to follow strict rules best to avoid

  • @ranlitt3201
    @ranlitt3201 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bad gamblers don't associate their loss amount with how much their job pays. I'm sure he didn't. He's just rationalizing. The very sad thing is they are ok with losing. It's a rush....pain.

  • @zurioxsrl
    @zurioxsrl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    If gamblers know investing money insted of glambling its much better. When you see the power of compound interest you will forget about gambling...

  • @MMchannel-xt9or
    @MMchannel-xt9or 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I began my gambling back in 2015, when i lost my job and I'm still actively engaged in gambling to this day. Reflecting on my earnings over the past decade, it's astounding to realize that I've amassed a million dollars in income, from my regular salary. I could have easily saved for a new home and made some good investments. I've allocated maybe $500,000, towards expenses such as rent, show-off living, restaurants, travel and car-related costs. However, my gambling habit has resulted in a loss of half a million dollars. I feel sorry for myself, I feel sorry that I have put my family and my partner is a weird situation. I need help.

  • @pokerqAK47
    @pokerqAK47 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I win in poker but it’s not good for me emotionally…

  • @markshepherd7367
    @markshepherd7367 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel so sorry for all gamblers that get stuck in this nightmare. You must never play slot machines or go to casinos etc. You can perhaps win on horses if you don’t bet often, but you need to know what value is and the form of the horse you are betting. I always tell everyone that they should never take up gambling on anything if you haven’t started. Plus you have to get burnt before you understand what you are doing. You can quit this nightmare but it must come from you, don’t look at anything concerned with betting. Anyway I wish you all the best in quitting.

  • @darkassassin2683
    @darkassassin2683 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    G Going
    A Always
    M Miserably
    B Broke
    L Losing
    E Everyday
    Don't Gamble you can't win in the long run so don't bother!

    • @LivingLchaim
      @LivingLchaim  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Well said!

    • @Meme1337xd
      @Meme1337xd 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      too late now already in debt and lost all my savings ;(

    • @propheticallyflowstewart3090
      @propheticallyflowstewart3090 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen!

    • @NthabisengDithebe
      @NthabisengDithebe 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      We know that you loose in the long run, we want wins in the short run

  • @steveneumann32
    @steveneumann32 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My favorite moment was when you said “clickity clickity click”

  • @thomasyost4959
    @thomasyost4959 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    After watching this ur answer was obstain and pray. What do u charge ur patients

  • @TheSilentGal41
    @TheSilentGal41 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I NEED HELP

  • @nhlalalachauke1atgmailcom
    @nhlalalachauke1atgmailcom 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I wish I had someone to help me pay my Gambling debt of $5k I feel like dying

    • @ChatB.E.G.
      @ChatB.E.G. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe in you🌹

    • @NthabisengDithebe
      @NthabisengDithebe 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I take it one day at a time really, what can I do? I just trust God over this horror

    • @nguyenmallett7049
      @nguyenmallett7049 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have to much gamble debts don't know how I can pay. I wish some one can pay for me I will quit gambling

  • @wtfa2910
    @wtfa2910 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I must admit I love casinos I absolutely love them all the bells and whistles the slot machines just beautiful and I just walk right past them to the ultimate prize of all a fucking buffet now that's where I win

  • @gustavoberdu1370
    @gustavoberdu1370 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I need to know more about...
    I am here with my lOss and my life being ruined

  • @pauly5502
    @pauly5502 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Weird: November 3rd 1987 was a Tuesday not a Sunday

    • @dylan2k1
      @dylan2k1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm guessing his actual last bet was the Tuesday week after not the Friday he lost

  • @bringbackthenordiques5990
    @bringbackthenordiques5990 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Phillies and 49ers parlay looks good

  • @rickcinway2312
    @rickcinway2312 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How come even good-looking people (I’m a sub par 5 man myself) have addition issues?

  • @DuyPham-nz7oe
    @DuyPham-nz7oe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Wining is destroy my life 🥲,.57 years old nothing, lost everything,.

    • @EyesWideOpenTruth
      @EyesWideOpenTruth 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I hope you get better ❤️‍🩹 my friend. I did it 3-4 times in last 15 years. I’ll never get back what I lost. It’s all material crap. But I have my health and peace ☮️ of mind. That’s more valuable than anything.

    • @iyannaspann8384
      @iyannaspann8384 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      God Loves You!

    • @binlondon9685
      @binlondon9685 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am 53 years old, lost 2 million pounds, unfortunately I am still addicted.

    • @DuyPham-nz7oe
      @DuyPham-nz7oe 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@EyesWideOpenTruth Woa you so strong 💪 brother, God bless you!

  • @teambitcoin7530
    @teambitcoin7530 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If I go to recovery on Saturday, would you mind if I bet the super bowl on Sunday? I really like the Chiefs with two points 🏈

  • @Avrumy101
    @Avrumy101 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow wow wow ❤❤❤ 100% on target

  • @daisylavender5275
    @daisylavender5275 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Combine a sugar addiction with gambling, and you get My 600lb Life!!!!!!

  • @juliusjr04
    @juliusjr04 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Damm, I’m in a casino right now 😕 gambling. I spend every Saturday here for the past 10years. Never had a losing year. I gamble with a bankroll separate from life money. 😕 I have monetary and time stop parameters. I know my game inside and out, I never (very rarely) disobeyed the numbers, I never (very rarely) drink alcoh0l 😕, I see big tippers, they don’t last. These dealers smile with everyone. They break my b@lls though, they see me like their coworker or something😕, I don’t look at gambling as a big score. It’s an hourly for me 😕

  • @ianmallows660
    @ianmallows660 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When I used to see my dad betting on horses and dogs as a child the days he won I used to think I want some ov this a lot is lernd behaviour I’m a gambling addict alcoholic drug addict I always felt less that so I allways wandered more ov every thing I’m nearly 4 years sober all because ov aa and the 12 steps 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼📕📕📕❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rce4651
    @rce4651 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i gambled with a rabbi in AC to pay off cc and debt

  • @teambitcoin7530
    @teambitcoin7530 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anytime that you're praying for a win, you know you're on the wrong side of that bet

  • @MrMichaellee5353
    @MrMichaellee5353 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I believe that gambling addiction is worse then drugs and alcohol - because you cant see the physical damage it's doing as it is all mental

  • @angusseletto1511
    @angusseletto1511 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Dangerous World" should be the title

  • @momentumliberty514
    @momentumliberty514 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cannabis(THC) does help wonders for some people, you cannot compare it to destructive toxic substances with no medical value..
    Stimulant drugs for example, are REALLY dangerous for gamblers because they amplify it 10x❤

  • @user-lx9qg8we6j
    @user-lx9qg8we6j 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's a sucker's game win often to keep u wagering. On the horses pros can win long term but you need to have actuarial skills or pay for people to do the math. A big bank over 300k is needed to start with and they only gamble 1 or 2 percent per bet. It's a business and if the advantage or edge isn't there they won't bet they will go play golf or take the kids out somewhere. For Some people it's a very serious long term problem that effects every aspect of their lives.

  • @John-ue6ok
    @John-ue6ok 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    GOOD MORNING IT'S A BAD PASS TIME 😪🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @lallyamanteofficial
    @lallyamanteofficial 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    @youtube ! Pls ban those gambling content creators ! They only show the winnings !

  • @thebl4ckt00th
    @thebl4ckt00th 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's Peter Schiff!

  • @bulgingbattery2050
    @bulgingbattery2050 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My stepdad has been addicted to smoking and gambling since he was in his 20s, and now he's in his 70s and hasn't stopped.
    In fact, he only seems to be getting worse.

  • @ChatB.E.G.
    @ChatB.E.G. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🥀🌹

  • @tripledoublegainz3612
    @tripledoublegainz3612 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mozel Tov!

  • @ucrain4971
    @ucrain4971 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I thought i was addicted to gambling but I eventually won $150,000... i stopped shortly after that but im thinking of getting back into it... its not addiction, its about being consistent and clever!!!!

    • @LivingLchaim
      @LivingLchaim  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Oish. We wish you much success but it’s a very slippery slope. When you need Relief’s help please give them a call.

    • @blkndna1374
      @blkndna1374 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Did u lose it all yet?😂

    • @torralba4349
      @torralba4349 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's a trap! You'll never beat it. I gambled for 20 years and won big many times but lost it all in the end!

    • @moopmoop345
      @moopmoop345 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You must be a troll, you can't be consistent and clever when the odds are not in your favour

  • @Atreph
    @Atreph 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    won 200 in 3 days and lost 50 today so i blocked my account for 30 days, still up 150+. who says the house always wins? just gotta outsmart them and know when they are trying to put you down!

    • @michaeldempsey22
      @michaeldempsey22 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Have you lost it back to them now?

  • @johnnybates7580
    @johnnybates7580 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    oh no....religion is the biggest crutch.

  • @LetterSignedBy51SpiesWasA-Coup
    @LetterSignedBy51SpiesWasA-Coup ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Congrats on the weight loss.

  • @HonestAbe689
    @HonestAbe689 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great interview however when you have details such as 20 year old + panama + Boston = To many details. IMO