Why Narcissists Can’t Forgive: The Grudges That Never Die! | NPD | Narcissism | Behind The Science
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- Why Narcissists Can’t Forgive: The Grudges That Never Die! | NPD | Narcissism | Behind The Science
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Nice to hear your voice again 👌🏼 Thanks for your illustrative channel
It takes a true and genuine ability to take accountability, being honest, a high level of realness, being in touch with reality, a regard for others' feelings, humbleness, dimishing of pride, less entitlement, and a sense of right vs wrong, remorse, maturity and selflessness to not hold grudges to forgive and let things go and be abke to move through life not holding people hostage because you can't get over what you did someone or what they did to you. Forgiving others and forgiving yourself takes will, effort, and intention to change your heart thinking and actions. Narcs are not willing to change; grow, and heal. That's something they aren't willing to do.
i feel like this was me after years of dealing w/ trauma and frenemies. i forgave and forgave and they bullied me in private and made me look stuipid in public like i was the one w/ the problem. Once i realized that it was them i grew tired and angry not wanting to EVER get treated like that again. I wanted to get them back because that was a way for them to be exposed for how they do evil to people and get off like their innocent
exposing them, getting back, is futile, a total waste of time, energy, and effort. when you speak of 'they', i take that as several beings? what you should try is forgive, forget, move on, and have 0 contact with all those involved. as long as there is contact of any kind, there is control. if you choose contact, everything is on you; and you have nobody to blame, but you.
@lilfairycupcake
I did. I never physically did anything to try to get them back but in recent years I had hope they met someone like themselves so they see how evil they are.
I moved on , moved away they always went the extra mile to FIND me or go through people that knew me.
They would say I distance myself from them for no reason or try to tell others I'm just sensitive and I'm wrong not granting them access.
Over time I would give in because I thought reconciliation meant forgiveness and in time me opening up that door to them they All hurt me 10x worse
It's no need to tell others in my family because narcissist have people so blinded ( even myself) they are charismatic and I'm learning the term " flying monkeys " these are the people that will always side w/ the narc and do whatever it takes to get the narcissist access to you again.
I'm just trying to heal my emotions I had a rough life trying to people please and save everyone. I asked God to heal me but I must try to have better boundaries for my own sake.
@lilfairycupcake
I'm learning about " no contact " that's a extreme " no no " in my family structure they expect even if you been beat up, graped you always allow family access to you.
I had to move from a few of them so they just couldn't show up to my place again. I'm going to save and move far but I want to make sure my finances are set 1st and I'm emotional healed before being completely solo.
Not healthy when a person is erring often in the jumping [to conclusion] bias when for example false assuming that there is a higher rate of narcissism among people in only some communities like for example everybody who votes for or who belongs to a political party while being a politician. When a narcissist is confronted by someone who has adopted an unhealthy way of being the narcissist will take it deeply personal while over reacting to that.
What are you saying exactly??