FREE help for woman w/ PTSD - packing up home to move (office)

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  • We are back to the house where it all started...my first few videos on this channel were of this home. This home had issues with carpet beetles and pantry moths. After cleaning up the kitchen, living room, her son's room, and three bathrooms, I left there thinking things were under control and that she was making good progress on her own, and she was, so it was a surprise to me when I texted her a few weeks ago just to see how things were coming along and this was the response I got:
    "We have gotten a little bit more done at the house, but not as much as I would like. I've had some health issues comes up that have made it harder for me to clean and honestly my anxiety has made it hard, too. My neck has been hurting since early this year and at some point it became so painful that I couldn't turn my head which made it hard to drive or do much of anything. I went and got an MRI and have a few things going on in my cervical spine that are causing nerve pain and they're wanting me to get injections that will help with the pain and potentially help with the inflammation and, if that doesn't relieve the pain, I might have to get surgery. On top of that, my husband and I have been wanting to get pregnant, but haven't been able to due to my latest test showing positive for polyps in my uterus (this is the second time), so I will have to get surgery to remove the polyps either later this month or next month. Anyway, all of it has been too much, so I haven't been doing much, But I started feeling like there's more to my struggle to get this house clean. I have some pretty bad memories there with my ex-husband." -- then she goes on and tells about the abuse, which I told her I would leave out the details -- "I think the longer I've been staying away from that house, the more I've felt like I could never go back and I keep thinking it's just because of the bugs, but I think it's also because of the PTSD associated with my ex-husband. So, this past week, we started looking at houses and we're strongly considering selling our house. However, that still means we need to clean our house so, if we find somewhere we'd like to go, we're gonna have a big push to move everything to storage pretty quickly."
    There is more to this story which I will explain in the video, but that is the gist of what's going on here. I have really grown to love this woman and feel bad that she has been through so much and would love nothing more than to see her get a fresh start in a new home.
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ความคิดเห็น • 288

  • @heatherakagamermom7790
    @heatherakagamermom7790 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I’m glad she has you. You did a great job. I think she’s right. She should move. A brand new start is exactly what she needs. ❤

  • @DianaStuckert-y4x
    @DianaStuckert-y4x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have severe PTSD. She needs away from that house ASAP. Thank you for helping her out. I hope she can live somewhere she can have a dog. Dogs help in ways that therapy and medication just can't.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She has actually moved out to a rental while their house is being built. Yay! Also, she got a dog a couple of years ago while she was living with her parents. You're right, dogs are very therapeutic. I can't even express how much I love dogs. They are just the best!😊

  • @alwaysthesleepless1
    @alwaysthesleepless1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I too suffer from PTSD, depression and anxiety. It makes it difficult to keep up on daily chores. It is also difficult when you have flashbacks most of the time. Concentraiting is hard. I admire what you do for people it must give you a great deal of satisfaction. Keep up the good work.

  • @trinn4ever
    @trinn4ever ปีที่แล้ว +19

    You are changing her world, and it counts ❤️

  • @katiblue
    @katiblue ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I looked over at my husband on his computer when the Tetris music started, and he was bopping his head. 🤣

  • @HungerSTR1KE
    @HungerSTR1KE ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always like it when a cleaner can buy new bedding or even replace a stained bed. It really is a beautiful touch. I hope your channel grows and you get enough from it to give back even more.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Since this collaboration, it has grown so much that I am now setting aside any donations from the super thanks feature to buy things for the homeowners to help get things organized or to give them something they desperately need. I'm so thankful for all of the support!🤗❤️❤️

  • @Dennise_Who
    @Dennise_Who ปีที่แล้ว +8

    These videos take forever to watch because I have to get up and clean something. NOT complaining!
    I am looking forward to you working with @MidwestMagicCleaning and @CleanWithBarbie ! ❤

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Haha! I love it!
      Thank you! I am so stoked about it!❤

    • @dwt20125
      @dwt20125 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same,Im sitting watching the video and looking around for something to clean.😃.Great work Bonnie.

  • @sarahconklin1256
    @sarahconklin1256 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is so beautiful❣️ people don’t know how important mental health is❣️

    • @lia-liz2012
      @lia-liz2012 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And so misunderstood...people judge so easily 😢

  • @marybolieu
    @marybolieu ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You are so sweet and have such a huge heart. Thank you for helping out people in need and bringing us along.

  • @jillneer7305
    @jillneer7305 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The work you're doing to clean up this home is amazing! Talking with, & being a friend to this woman, is the HELP she needs to move on! ❤

  • @josephdaly2015
    @josephdaly2015 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So happy after hearing what she dealt with that they are going to sell this house and move. I really think it will ease a lot of her ailments. Wishing them health and happiness in their next chapter. Have a great week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍💐🙏

  • @sadafahmad3078
    @sadafahmad3078 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your voice is so soothing to ears. I watch your videos to hear you, and you are doing amazing work

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's so nice of you. I find it pretty funny that so many people find my voice soothing. I hear it totally differently and it just sounds odd to me, but I'm getting used to hearing it now I guess. Thank you!

  • @melaniewest3947
    @melaniewest3947 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We all need help at some time. This lady needs all the help she can get. It does get better

  • @bobbishuemaker7973
    @bobbishuemaker7973 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Can't wait to see you, Barbie and Midwest in Oct!!

  • @annwilliams6438
    @annwilliams6438 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have found that as a person with physical problems that the only way to not have my home a pile of clutter within two months is to have a daily routine. Got to do a little each day. AND have small dustbins in a lot of places (which can be easily emptied each day.) In each bedroom, in the sitting area, in an office area, in the bathroom, in the kitchen of course, in the dining room, in play areas. Having a place where bits and pieces can be thrown within three or four steps - and with a flip of the wrist for each bin/container they can be emptied into one bag which can then be thrown out each day.

  • @ccgirl5055
    @ccgirl5055 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Really like watching these help-one-another videos. Thanks for posting. (Slight comment about client's health. If she has neck, back, or nerve pain, I highly recommend people try chiropractors before leaping to surgeries. However, not all chiropractors are equal, choosing one that is very reputable with a good practice is important. I have Multiple Sclerosis, my mom has a sensitive neck, my dad has poor hips, the chiropractors have saved us so much pain.)

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching! I have tried chiropractors before and I almost always leave in more pain than I came in with. I have tried different ones over the years. There was one I found where I used to live who I felt did a better job, but then I moved and I haven't been back to one since. I know they are super helpful for a lot of people though and, you're right, I'm sure it depends on the chiropractor. I found physical therapists to be more helpful, but even that only helps for so long before I end up needing surgery. This woman is trying everything she can to avoid surgery though, which is wise. I avoided it as long as I could as well, but unfortunately, ended up needing it after I tried everything.

  • @elfstarsaka
    @elfstarsaka ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have similar neck issues, and when it's bad, it really does make it nearly impossible to do anything except lie down and take the pressure off my neck. I hope they are able to get a fresh start so she can start healing, at least mentally if not physically too.

    • @debby891
      @debby891 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same with me and I did have disc fusion surgery in my neck and still can be debilitating

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry to both of you about your necks. You don't really realize what pinched nerves and disc bulges in the neck can effect unless you've dealt with it. It's pretty miserable. Hard to stay in a good mood when you have constant pain, headaches, numbness, can't use your arms well, etc. I feel ya!

  • @deannaw9657
    @deannaw9657 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    SO EXCITED for your collab!! The minute Mack announced it on his go live, I thought about what a great opportunity it would be to grow your channel FAST😊!! Good luck and great job as always!! ❤

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know! I am beyond grateful he is willing to allow me to be part of this collab! It's a dream come true! Thanks so much for your support!!❤😊

    • @johnkelly9451
      @johnkelly9451 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We are looking forward to collab too!... Going to be Epic for viewers and even more Epic seeing our fav channels via eachothers recommendations and mentions...So amazing how each of you help others and inspire so many for their own places and for others too. Thank you all for everything! ❤❤❤

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnkelly9451 Thank you! The support has been amazing, both from my viewers and from Mack and Barbie. I really love that we all are cleaning in VERY different areas (big city, rural, suburban) and all have our own styles, so it's going to be a fun collaboration!

    • @johnkelly9451
      @johnkelly9451 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp That's what makes each of you so special...(big city, rural, suburban), The common thread is you are all so good and help people that really need it and each of you have good hearts... We've learned alot from each and apply it in our own homes too... we thank each of you... collab is going to be fun... Just thrilled to see you all together in a collab... maybe someday you all could do a distance zoom clean video then a live zoom q & a... once in awhile later?.... Whatever comes next... we will be tuned into each of your channels! Thankyou... ! ❤️!!!

  • @laurahicks8084
    @laurahicks8084 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Looking forward to your cleaning collaboration!

  • @tonimcbride2205
    @tonimcbride2205 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beyond thrilled for her to move. PTSD is not nice. This house is a trigger considering all her suffering. God bless this lady. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you, Toni! She and her family just moved a couple of weeks ago and I know it has helped tremendously with the PTSD.

    • @tonimcbride2205
      @tonimcbride2205 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp a trillion percent, bless her heart? ❤️🙏🏽

  • @niksand1713
    @niksand1713 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are a great person and friend!

  • @cziegle3794
    @cziegle3794 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yay top 17 and top 111 comments and likes. Love this channel. Best to you and your family. Thanks for making this video.

  • @micheleboschert175
    @micheleboschert175 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for supporting this dear one.💗

  • @mareebarrett1267
    @mareebarrett1267 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love that you tell us about the people you help and explain the situation. Great job yet again❤❤

  • @debby891
    @debby891 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love your videos, have so much admiration for your compassion and selfless giving of your time and hard work so that others have a fresh start. After reading a few of the comments I would just like to say that I do think it’s important to share a little of the background of their situation that caused this and you do it very respectfully as does, Auri, Barbie and Mack. I am 64, have had 26 surgeries to include 4 total knee replacements, back and neck disc surgeries, use a cane and a walker and also care for my 85 year old mom with Alzheimer’s. I am the opposite, am and have always been OCD clean so needless to say is a huge physical challenge but my way of coping with the constant physical pain (I’m allergic to all pain meds) and the unbelievable emotional challenges of dealing with Alzheimer’s. Many times people say “you look great and your home is always beautiful “. I internal response is blind people look great but still can’t see so many times people don’t realize the real hidden struggles that one is living with. Great job❤❤

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks so much for your comment. I know it's not the most cheery video, but I, too, think it IS important to share people's struggles. I think so many people feel like they are the only ones going through a specific struggle and, for some reason, it just feels better to know you aren't the only one. It gives me hope and makes my own burdens seem manageable. And, holy cow, 26 surgeries?!! That is WAY too many for one person. And without being able to take pain meds, I can't even imagine the constant pain you must be in on top of dealing with the emotional challenges of helping your mother with Alzheimer's...one of the most awful diseases you can witness and one that is usually harder on the caregiver than the person with the Alzheimer's (runs in our family, too). I'm so sorry! But, you're right, we put on a happy face and just push forward so it's hard for people to know how big our struggles are sometimes. My heart goes out to you and your mother!❤❤

  • @christinecornezcolmenero9356
    @christinecornezcolmenero9356 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just found out about you through Mack, so I immediately subscribed to your channel. I have been watching him and Barbie for some months now.
    The collaboration should be great to watch. I'm looking forward to it. I admire your capacity to give to those who are experiencing difficulties. You guys/ gals are great.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awesome! Welcome! I'm thrilled you're here! I'm so excited about the collab! It's going to be awesome!😊❤

  • @kellimeguiar534
    @kellimeguiar534 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's such a beautiful thing you are doing for her. Especially these days it's getting very difficult for everyone it's got to be even harder these days for folks with health problems and ptsd.

    • @kellimeguiar534
      @kellimeguiar534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It really is wonderful to see others helping others. We all need to just be kind to each others. I have really serious knee issues so I completely understand. I just have to stick to a schedule so it dosen't get away from me. Thank you for understanding and caring.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for sharing. Yes, it seems everyone is struggling with something.

  • @sandebryant3878
    @sandebryant3878 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I pray every works out well for this lady. Mental health and physical health mix together can definitely be a struggle. How has she kept the rest of the house that you did clean for her? I hope your hard work was continued. ❤❤ I felt the same as your husband. And I hope it's not true. She may need to check into getting a house cleaner for two days a week.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She has definitely, not only kept it up, but has gone through and gotten rid of so much of the stuff that she has been trying to ignore for the past few years, but now finally dealing with it. Besides the physical issues she is dealing with right now, I do know she is feeling a lot more hopeful than she has in a long time since reaching out for help and deciding to move on from this place with horrible memories. Thanks for your comments. ❤

  • @aurorauniversalis1633
    @aurorauniversalis1633 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video as always! Hopefully she moves out, moves on and gets the fresh start she needs.

  • @aussieisy
    @aussieisy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nothing little about what you have done for this family, it is HUGE for them! God bless you!

  • @lisamcdonald9792
    @lisamcdonald9792 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What an amazing difference ❤ You do a wonderful job!
    I hope this family does have better days ahead. God bless you for all you do. Also, you have a new t-shirt idea for channel "Oh look more water bottles" 😁

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much! Yes, I've thought about that as a shirt idea, but I also don't want to copy too much of what Mack is doing. I'll think about it though. I guess it is different than "Oh look, more dishes!" and maybe a fun version of my own. 😋

    • @lisamcdonald9792
      @lisamcdonald9792 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think he would mind at all! LOL 😁😁@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp

  • @patriciap2355
    @patriciap2355 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    👍🏼J’aime votre empathie ❤et j’admire votre dynamisme!! Bises de France 🇫🇷

  • @sarahwilks2413
    @sarahwilks2413 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bonnie you are amazing! What a fantastic job you did, can't wait to watch more in the series xxxx

  • @cintalopez-teijeiro5683
    @cintalopez-teijeiro5683 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Girl! You made me laugh loud with the Tetris 😂😂😂 So good you helped her again ❤

  • @annw1395
    @annw1395 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're a miracle worker! Huge transformation!

  • @LadyAurora10
    @LadyAurora10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so sweet. 🙏🏻 Amazing result!

  • @ShellyCline
    @ShellyCline ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for helping her Bonnie. Your compassion and empathy is so heartwarming.
    As a DV survivor I can absolutely relate to that anxiety.
    I wouldn't be surprised if her anxiety is related to the abuse and not so much the bugs. But there's only one way to find out.
    Git awn outta there lol. I hope she and her family are able to move soon and get a fresh start.
    Wonderful video. ❤

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "Git awn outta there..." Love it! Yep, I'm sure the abuse has way more to do with her not doing well in that house. I'm sad to hear you have been through DV as well. Glad you are a survivor!❤

    • @ShellyCline
      @ShellyCline ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp thank you, Bonnie 💕

  • @sharonchandler6245
    @sharonchandler6245 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bless you for helping her.

  • @maryrichardson6205
    @maryrichardson6205 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Paper and books are the worst to go through, good job.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I really enjoy paper clutter, actually. I know it's weird, but I get a little excited to go through a pile of paper!😄❤️

  • @diane6037
    @diane6037 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great job 👏 you are helping her transform her life, wishing her a happier future, Thank you for sharing with us ❤

  • @RobinSpencer-wc6hj
    @RobinSpencer-wc6hj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome job! Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤

  • @MollyJoAnn
    @MollyJoAnn ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love your positive attitude, Bonnie. Also appreciate you sharing your neck pain knowledge, learning is always helpful.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you! And having typed for a neurosurgery clinic for 9 years and a pain specialty clinic for about 16, plus my own issues, I know WAY more than I ever wanted to know about neck pain and the different treatments...LOL!

  • @teliesamann2302
    @teliesamann2302 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love watching your videos

  • @rebeccaashton5390
    @rebeccaashton5390 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You did a great job. What a difference. Thank you for helping this lady and her family. So glad to find your channel. I am looking forward to the collab with Barbie and Mack. 3of my favorite people in one video. Woo hoo.😊

  • @eyrunsigrunardottir6977
    @eyrunsigrunardottir6977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope she sells this house and moves to a new home. My advise is to only unpack what she needs to begin with to keep maintenance to the minimum. She can´t go through much decluttering now, she must be in a better place for that 💜 I did this; I have an illness that makes it hard for me to maintain the home like it was but I also can´t push myself to get rid of too much. I somehow managed to strip down to somewhat minimalist living but stored the rest of my things in upper cabinets and in my storage room. So very, very helpful on my journey to better health.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Great advice! I have been pretty surprised with how much decluttering she actually has done while we've been packing things up. I think a lot of it was easy to get rid of if it had any association with her first marriage and, because she wasn't functioning for so long, most of that stuff was buried. Once it surfaced, she didn't hesitate to get rid of it. But, I agree, taking her time to unpack things into a new house will help because I think it's amazing how little we can actually live with. We don't need all the "stuff" that just takes more time and energy to take care of. Thanks for your suggestions!

  • @cathyprosser1050
    @cathyprosser1050 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you were clearing out under that desk and said Oh look, another water bottle😅. I was reminded of Mack on MMC when he'll say Oh look, more dishes (to wash ...😂😂). He's even got t-shirts now that say that. Anyways, that was kinda cute. You did a great job. You are a wizard at organizing things to fit a maximum number of items in a box😊❤

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL! That's actually why I said it that way.😄 In one of my very early videos, I cleaned the room of the boy who lives here and he had about a million water bottles and I found myself saying, "oh look, more water bottles," not really even intending to say it like Mack, but it came out that way and so I thought it would be funny to say it just like Mack in this one...haha! I still need to get me one of his shirts.😜👍

  • @kimberlymckellar6995
    @kimberlymckellar6995 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re AWESOME! 😊😊❤❤

  • @shawntennant9049
    @shawntennant9049 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a good steward! Thank you for giving me motivation to get up & get something done

  • @NaturalDirtQueen
    @NaturalDirtQueen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the original sound on the vacuum section ❤

  • @ingerfalch-jacobsen1717
    @ingerfalch-jacobsen1717 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also, some serious packing skills you got there!

  • @marystrenke3050
    @marystrenke3050 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Two of my sons fit the description of executive dysfunction 😮 Chaotic to say the least

  • @buckeyedav1
    @buckeyedav1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the way their desk are arranged. Anna In Ohio

  • @carolynoquinn4573
    @carolynoquinn4573 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Hon! I can't wait to see The Collaboration!!!

  • @marloespeters8404
    @marloespeters8404 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ik wish this family all the best ❤ oh and i can't wait for your collab with Mack and clean with Barbie 🥰🥰

  • @lisasteinhardt6537
    @lisasteinhardt6537 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mack is awesome... He put me onto you

  • @leashy1204
    @leashy1204 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great job!!!💞💞💞💞

  • @cyndaarce6986
    @cyndaarce6986 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you sprinkle 20 Mule Team Borax on the rug it might help get rid of the bugs. I know it does for fleas.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, you're correct. This is actually what we are doing to treat everything as we pack it up is we sprinkle a little bit into each tote/box before we start packing things to make sure we are killing everything before moving it to storage. Then we sprinkle it all over the carpets after the room is cleared. I meant to talk about that in this video, but I will on the next one.

  • @cathtf7957
    @cathtf7957 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Why is it that nobody ever just says, " I don't do cleaning or housework? "

    • @fjklfdasdf
      @fjklfdasdf ปีที่แล้ว +4

      that would be so refreshing!

  • @mariaalvarez8385
    @mariaalvarez8385 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Job! Can't wait for the collab you are going to do with Magic Clean and Barbie!!

  • @sheryllester3490
    @sheryllester3490 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mack from midwest magic sent me over. I subscribed. Love what I'm seeing.

  • @lawaincooley6788
    @lawaincooley6788 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a blessing to this lady. ♡

  • @jamiehogg1807
    @jamiehogg1807 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The TETRIS music made my day. Gave me a laugh and motivation. I'm the same with sorting like that in the dishwasher 😂

  • @frelsi__Andrea
    @frelsi__Andrea 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for talking about executive dysfunction. I have ADHD - Primarily inattentive (formerly known as ADD). ADHD is well known around the world, but what it actually means to have ADHD, seems much less known. Like just the name doesn't describe it enough, executive dysfunction does so much better. As a result of this being less known, when you say you have ADHD, it's more often shrugged off than it should be. Many don't see how serious it can be for some people. But of course, executive dysfunction isn't only in ADHD, it's also a part of depression, brain damage and more, but just talking from my own perspective and my own experience :)

  • @dixiegeorge9665
    @dixiegeorge9665 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks! Have fun with Mack and his family and Barbie ❤ I want to be a member❤

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Dixie! You are the sweetest! I've spent the last few hours with them and they are all, including Emily, amazing people! So excited to tackle this house tomorrow!

    • @dixiegeorge9665
      @dixiegeorge9665 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp ❤️ don't hurt your back 😳❤️

  • @lorettalouvros207
    @lorettalouvros207 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good job! Amazing👏👏👏

  • @cynthiaphillips1474
    @cynthiaphillips1474 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You do beautiful work! But if I had bugs, maybe I would put garbage where it belongs, in the garbage can!

  • @Demi-qn4gb
    @Demi-qn4gb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent job...i so dislike these wall to wall carpets.... consider them always dirty no matter how often clean or vacuum

  • @mjs.2000
    @mjs.2000 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great job. 😊

  • @AndiE-pq6xp
    @AndiE-pq6xp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's a chain reaction!! Every time you do something for someone It's contagious!! ❤❤

  • @laurastewart2418
    @laurastewart2418 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I subscribed...really enjoying the videos😊

  • @bearfog07
    @bearfog07 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Another amazing transformation! Thanks, Bonnie x

  • @grandmasfavorites
    @grandmasfavorites ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @Brandi62
    @Brandi62 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the organizing queen! I have never seen anyone pack a tub so well! You are right, that nerve pain from the spine is horrendous! I have had two rounds of surgeries with two at a time in the same week. I had 3 dics repaced and had my shifted spine stabilized with plates and screws so I know how bad that pain is! I hope she gets some relief soon.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, that's really a lot for you to have gone through. Three disc replacements?! I actually thought there was a limit of two disc replacements. But maybe that's just dependent upon the surgeon. I know mine wouldn't do more than two. I hope it really helped you!

    • @Brandi62
      @Brandi62 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I had two discs replaced the first time and the third a year later. Thank God it finally took the nerve pain away! My hubby likes to clean so I was blessed that he could help.

  • @Paula-mk8so
    @Paula-mk8so ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi .I am here because of Midwest magic cleaning and barbie and I've just subscribed to your channel .I enjoyed the video 😊

  • @nancythomas1954
    @nancythomas1954 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just left Mac's channel lol He said to say hi from Midwest Magic Cleaning and hes says so "suck it" 🤣😂🤣 I subscribed so you will probably see more of me. I look forward to seeing you guys collab with Barbie also. You have a nice channel started here, lets see if we can get it to grow ❤❤❤

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad you're here! Yes, I just watched his latest video. The guy is freaking hilarious! I cannot wait for our collab next week!!😍😁

  • @debraroma4319
    @debraroma4319 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Watching cleaning videos usually helps ease my anxiety, but these detailed sad stories don't help cheer me up one bit.

    • @antoniad.6177
      @antoniad.6177 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sad stories happen. The take away from this should be, if we don’t have such deep struggles as this gal does, to be thankful and count our blessings. An additional lesson should be that judging others sucks bc we just never know what’s going on in others lives!

    • @hmontalvo64
      @hmontalvo64 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No volume helps

    • @4455thor
      @4455thor ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think the sad stories belong with the clean up. And with the clean up comes HOPE. And hope is SO all important. My house is a mess too, but after seeing a video like this I find a box and fill it or empty it. Sometimes only in part, but I DO something.
      Our basement is being "haunted" by water from below, so a lot of thing have to be protected from water. Ideally we should empty the basement, but we don't have the room upstairs. So we empty by throwing out, donating and selling extras. We are of an age, where we downsize, because we need to move within a few years to a smaller place.

    • @sadieross-johnson2800
      @sadieross-johnson2800 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep up the good work, I love your content and attitude. As an aside, what is it with American houses and carpets, I’m not saying houses don’t have carpets in England but we have a lot more hard wood floors, which are much easier to clean. I only have carpet on the stairs.

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Antonia, Thor, and Sadie for your responses to this. I know it's not the most motivating or cheery cleaning video, but I figure there are plenty of those out there. I love a good motivating cleaning video, but I also want to bring more awareness to the mental health aspect of things and how rampant it is and also how it touches so many parts of a person's life. Everything may look perfect or at least completely normal in the lives of people we associate with, but you never really know what is going on behind closed doors. I just want to show this side of those closed doors to help people have more compassion for others and treat everyone as if they are going through something pretty rough because they very well could be.

  • @StoophStoph
    @StoophStoph ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dang, I saw this just in time. I was on here binge watching all your videos and all of a sudden a saw a new one pop up on your pageXD

  • @lawaincooley6788
    @lawaincooley6788 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome job!!!

  • @melaniehutchinson5306
    @melaniehutchinson5306 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Melanie! How are things coming with your own venture into the free cleaning world?

    • @melaniehutchinson5306
      @melaniehutchinson5306 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I am working on my writing career by starting a blog … planning my exit and early retirement from a long corporate career. Also now decluttering our empty nest. 🥳

  • @brendarussell1265
    @brendarussell1265 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good job !!!

  • @michellesimpson6734
    @michellesimpson6734 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Job!! Thank you for sharing.

  • @Alwaysherethere
    @Alwaysherethere ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes i came over from Midwest Magic. I subscribed 😊

  • @dorenedaniels7493
    @dorenedaniels7493 ปีที่แล้ว

    My goodness now this is beautiful God bless you 🙏❤️

  • @annietoro4648
    @annietoro4648 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done as always ✅👏

  • @patriciastubbs7605
    @patriciastubbs7605 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very inspiring !!❤

  • @lgibson0515
    @lgibson0515 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing! Im sure with the media coverage & the collaboration, your channel cant help but grow!! 🙏 🎉❤🎉

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right?! I am just elated at how quickly it is growing! It's like a dream come true to be able to help people as my job!

  • @deborahhopper4832
    @deborahhopper4832 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! What a great transformation ❤️😀👍Can’t wait to see your collaboration with Mac and Barbie😀

  • @Wachtelkatze
    @Wachtelkatze ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it 😍

  • @angelajenkins6933
    @angelajenkins6933 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for helping this family, I really like your channel and thank you for being such a patient and caring person. I pray your channel grows alot!

  • @lindamiller1945
    @lindamiller1945 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video

  • @mightygamer7474
    @mightygamer7474 ปีที่แล้ว

    Came over from Midwest Magic Cleaning. Looking forward to checking out your channel.

  • @carolebridges798
    @carolebridges798 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great job. Aren’t you afraid that you could be packing up bugs and then they would moved to the new house?

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you. So, we are actually treating all of the boxes/totes with a sprinkle of Borax before packing them to kill off anything we may inadvertently pack up. I looked this up and this seems to be the best way to not bring the infestation to a new home. I forgot to mention that in this video, but I will on my next one. If you look at the tote before I start packing up the Funko Pops, you'll see the white powder at the bottom of the tote.

    • @carolebridges798
      @carolebridges798 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am glad you did this, I was worried. @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp

  • @connieverbeck1110
    @connieverbeck1110 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful!!

  • @dianeb411
    @dianeb411 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy to see and hear your growing self confidence. You are so amazing, l see your true self that is loving kind and giving. Looking forward to your group cleaning adventure!!!!

  • @cindyroberts5703
    @cindyroberts5703 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved your narrative and another job well done.

  • @snudder.s.m.l.5026
    @snudder.s.m.l.5026 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some people just steals our hart ( in a good way)
    Big hugs from Denmark 💝🥰🌹

  • @carolynoquinn4573
    @carolynoquinn4573 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For that carpet, I would need my plug in Shark!!!

    • @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
      @ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I wish I had had a slightly more powerful vacuum. Although, this little Dyson did a pretty good job for what I was tasking it with. I did have to keep unclogging all of the stuff that would get caught in there though.🤔😊

    • @carolynoquinn4573
      @carolynoquinn4573 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp That's the downside of a stick vacuum. I love my Shark Cordless.

  • @lanahundley8625
    @lanahundley8625 ปีที่แล้ว

    You inspire me 😊

  • @kerynrabe8110
    @kerynrabe8110 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi🤗new subscriber here😁 Mack from Midwest magic cleaning told me about the collab between you and Clean with Barbie 😁 looking forward to it 😁 you did such a great job 😁 well done 👏🏻🙌🏻😁

  • @gmateri67mc39
    @gmateri67mc39 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice job!