How to get over someone who doesn't want you.

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  • @BryantBaudelaire
    @BryantBaudelaire 7 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    Omg this is deep because I'm going through this right now.

    • @stephengreico2810
      @stephengreico2810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bryant Avant tell me about it man

    • @gata143711
      @gata143711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stephengreico2810 same here 😫

    • @stephengreico2810
      @stephengreico2810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HEIDY NUÑEZ I hear ya Heidi...it gets better trust me..you’ll be just fine...Leo doing things that take your mind off it while striving to be your best self

    • @british_teaa3296
      @british_teaa3296 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same brother same

    • @onceupxn
      @onceupxn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same. ;c

  • @timmyyusuf991
    @timmyyusuf991 7 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    i will try to do all this and more....cos am tired of being miserable.....the hurt doesnt seem to stop

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      timmy yusuf honestly my man! give this a go and I can promise you you'll feel better and you will grow from this! If you feel like you want to talk or you have questions drop me a message on insta @ jchizzy23 and I'll be able to clear up any questions you may have :)

  • @kayligo
    @kayligo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Accept and express your emotions. Accept it’s over. No contact. Cut them off. Hobbies. Friends. Ask yourself what it’s really about? Why is it hard to let them go?

    • @NyllaRaee
      @NyllaRaee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hobbies and friends don’t work

  • @georgejetson9801
    @georgejetson9801 7 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    Thank you so much. My husband is leaving me after 15 years and it's so hard to let go when we've made a life together for so long. Your voice is calming and reassuring

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      E Fox Thank you for commenting and im glad you've got something out of this video! keep going, you'll get through it :)

    • @mayphoenix4725
      @mayphoenix4725 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      E H + How have you been (update)? I hope you have a swift recovery.

    • @Candaicelovesjesus
      @Candaicelovesjesus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Phoenix yes I’m curious too. How are you? I pray all is well. Love you God Bless

    • @mayphoenix4725
      @mayphoenix4725 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      JesusLovesMe2 + Thanks for the encouragement...I'm still healing. I feel like I'll never find the right one. I've been alone most of my life. I've tried looking nice, praying, staying busy, dating sites and nothing seems to work. I just want to not care about love if I'm not going to have a love life. It hurts also that people around me seem to find someone with little effort. I've even asked God if I was cursed or just destined to be alone. I'm grateful for my health, job, and the few friends and family I do have. I would just love to have that soulmate to spend the rest of my life with. I hope your doing good and hopefully your heart is joyful.

    • @Candaicelovesjesus
      @Candaicelovesjesus 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      May Phoenix I know that’s how it seems now but God knows all things. I was just in a courtship with a Christian man who really broke my heart. He put his hands on me and hurt me. That ended and now I feel very much alone. God made a man to be strong to protect us- the weaker vessels, not to hurt them 😔. Many days I feel that way too, but keep the faith in God and allow him to transform you from the inside out.

  • @abrielle.lynn7773
    @abrielle.lynn7773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    My boyfriend broke up with me and we made so many memories and he doesn’t seem bothered by it and then I’m over here crying it’s just horrible

    • @Iamget2gether
      @Iamget2gether 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m goin thru that rn :/

    • @christianxc1710
      @christianxc1710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Iamget2gether same bro

    • @Idk-xs3sb
      @Idk-xs3sb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same thing with me. It's hard to get over her

  • @erggebfdfd5705
    @erggebfdfd5705 7 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    I just got friend zoned by a girl I love today, this helped me thank u

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Ergge Bfdfd Don't worry about it man! you'll definitley grow from this experience and thank you for watching and commenting man, i appreciate you sharing that with me :)

    • @mitchelltarbit
      @mitchelltarbit 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ergge Bfdfd same here :(

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Mitchy T keep going man :)

    • @phra2545
      @phra2545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same, I honestly thought she was the one 😢😥😭

    • @user_abcxyzz
      @user_abcxyzz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You're lucky. I'm not even good enough to be in the friend zone.

  • @KingNothin18
    @KingNothin18 7 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    hey dude around 3 weeks I ago I told my crush how I felt about her but then got rejected, this video helps me feel better :)

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Alex Roman hey man! big respect to you for having the courage to tell her how you feel! that's not always easy but don't sweat it man, this experience will make you stronger ☺.. and I appreciate you commenting man, im honoured this made you feel better :)

    • @KingNothin18
      @KingNothin18 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joshua Chisambo Thanks man!

    • @Hallowedwanderer
      @Hallowedwanderer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stay strong king. Work on yourself and learn to love yourself.

  • @kennedyantoinette7466
    @kennedyantoinette7466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Literally crying about this rn.

    • @sofiaaguirre2601
      @sofiaaguirre2601 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      did it get better?

    • @kennedyantoinette7466
      @kennedyantoinette7466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      sofia aguirre girl I’m so done with him. You learn to get over it and move on

    • @sofiaaguirre2601
      @sofiaaguirre2601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kennedy Antoinette i wish that were the case for me:( my ex left me yesterday and our 2 years is in 2 weeks :( he said i was clingy and annoying and he couldn’t lie abt his feelings anymore. i thought he was my person and it hurts so much

    • @kennedyantoinette7466
      @kennedyantoinette7466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sofia aguirre and yk I was dealing with a guy who said we were exclusive but he was ready for a relationship for a year. Then found out he was sleeping with someone else. So sometime things don’t go the way we want but you learn to deal with the hits and keep rolling

    • @Proudmuslimah123
      @Proudmuslimah123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too!

  • @SamanthaN92
    @SamanthaN92 6 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    This has been a constant struggle I go thru. Rejection has been so crippling to me that at the age 25 im considering celibacy for the rest of my life. When you been rejected as many times as i have, you wonder if its even worth it. And if you do manage to find someone, you feel like; "well nobody else wanted me, so this guy is going to date someone nobody wants". being single isnt all that bad anyway. Giving your heart to someone is a huge risk.

    • @varoothini
      @varoothini 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Dear Sam, I am in your place as well. It's okay. The right person will know your worth. Keep faith. ❤️

    • @LaDyLuCk909
      @LaDyLuCk909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'll love you Sam ♥️♥️

    • @motlagomangmakoe4456
      @motlagomangmakoe4456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your not the only one sis

    • @jeremymagee2650
      @jeremymagee2650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That last sentence sent chills up my spine... very true!!!

    • @adaezechioke8469
      @adaezechioke8469 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You deserve to be loved so don't worry. On a very good day you will meet someone who love's you

  • @joecool97
    @joecool97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    First don't try to have strong feelings for the person. Second don't keep asking the person out. Third if they like you as a friend but not romantically get over it. Four think of what you want in someone special. Five don't settle for anyone.

  • @leethomas4887
    @leethomas4887 8 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    This really made me feel better

  • @1coco317
    @1coco317 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I enjoyed the video!! Life sometimes just doesn’t make sense. Especially, the people that are in it. People will hurt you , and act like you hurt them . 💔😢

  • @ashleyalberto3364
    @ashleyalberto3364 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    He broke up with me the day before Valentine's day 😭I felt so dumb on Valentine's day 🙁 I cried in school in front of everyone thanks to God he wasn't there at the moment bc when I saw him my heart sank 😭 and I tried staying strong in front of him but I just couldn't. I ran out of the class and cried on my own😧😭

    • @mayphoenix4725
      @mayphoenix4725 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love Ash + I hope your feeling better and find someone better. I got rejected 2 weeks ago and it still hurts bad...

    • @ashleyalberto3364
      @ashleyalberto3364 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      May Phoenix oh I’m sorry to hear that but yes I found the perfect person and it’s my bestfriend . I can’t believe I didn’t see it earlier. But hope you feel better

    • @mayphoenix4725
      @mayphoenix4725 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love Ash + I'm glad you did, your beautiful, intelligent, and deserve someone to that appreciates what you have to offer.

  • @iKayBee
    @iKayBee 8 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    imma give you an L for this video....
    L for Like..

    • @Cpepuzani
      @Cpepuzani 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      iKayBee yes

    • @MELI-c8k
      @MELI-c8k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      L for lovely 😊 and C for cutie and H for Hot :)

  • @superstandard
    @superstandard 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It's been almost 2 years, I have even been in another relationship during that time and I simply cannot stop thinking about her...

    • @rb757
      @rb757 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you doing now

    • @superstandard
      @superstandard ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rb757 I am completely dead inside, and I still think about her. It's mostly about reminiscing on a time when I had a soul...

  • @priscillaxsafi
    @priscillaxsafi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    all of the steps you said I did them before watching your video and it helped but what caught my ear was when you said about enjoying your own company,making you happy

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Priscilla Bless ohh I think that's one if the biggest keys, I'm so glad you picked up in that :D

  • @mateagalic1378
    @mateagalic1378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    After over 3 months of not talking to him, my feelings are still hurt so this video helped me a lot

    • @RoseGold1224
      @RoseGold1224 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      this meee im trying to forget his number

  • @joelesher2016
    @joelesher2016 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I've been seeing this woman for 9 months now, I put more time and energy into her than any other woman in the past and she told me she wants to be friends and heal herself. Thank you for this video. Every single day is a struggle to conquer my emotions. It's no easy task and your video is a good guide. Much appreciated!

  • @potterhead9707
    @potterhead9707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I want someone who doesn't want me back .

  • @lost5891
    @lost5891 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Well.. I'm in love with my bestfriend and I can't cut her off.

    • @Cristian-ks3hy
      @Cristian-ks3hy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did you ever tell that person? What happened?

    • @MaryMary-lq1rb
      @MaryMary-lq1rb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I understand that completely cause I'm in the same situation. But I had to walk away completely cause it was breaking my heart. I lost 50 pounds, I was crying myself to sleep and I was becoming bitter. I finally told him, I couldn't be friends with him anymore. But I'm glad you still have a friendship. Only you know what's best for you

    • @ninamartin2895
      @ninamartin2895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

  • @rjdiggs738
    @rjdiggs738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    For four years. I've been in love with a woman who doesn't give two shits about me and i was even still in love with her even though I knew the truth. This video makes a whole lot of sense and maybe I'll take this advice to heart.

    • @AiRbaL2000
      @AiRbaL2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      how you doing now? i went through the same length you went through. it stings, but we'll make it through somehow

    • @Mrshoottokill
      @Mrshoottokill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AiRbaL2000 how are you doing now

    • @AiRbaL2000
      @AiRbaL2000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Mrshoottokill I'm doing excellent, thanks for asking. Met a few more girls and eventually got really close to one. I stopped chasing and hoping for the wrong girl and moved on. It ain't easy, but they're are many good people willing to talk out there.

    • @Mrshoottokill
      @Mrshoottokill 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AiRbaL2000 did it just happen or was there some sort of light bulb moment

    • @Quickz221
      @Quickz221 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please move on same with me and I been working with her move on otherwise you will regret for the rest of your life

  • @laurynchandler5877
    @laurynchandler5877 7 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Please help me I'm so hung up on this person I can't sleep eat focus do anything I'm so miserable and have been for a year.

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lauryn Chandler hit me up on instagram or on snapchat and we can talk. I'll be more than happy to help you :) ( insta: jchizzy23, or snap me @ yochizz23)

    • @kimh9420
      @kimh9420 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@joshuachisambo5821 Hey ..can I dm u on Instagram?

    • @honestlylauren2876
      @honestlylauren2876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m going through the same situation now, how did you get through it?

  • @kelseyaftnfamily_o.o8633
    @kelseyaftnfamily_o.o8633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I met a guy that had every quality Iv been looking for. We clicked instantly, talked laughed! I wanted to make us official but he didn’t want a relationship. Days weeks then months of back n forth of be my BF and me trying to b his friend hopefully he will finally date me. Well long story short I blew up and told him how I felt, now I’m blocked from everything on his side. And I’m hurt hurt! Was his feelings just lies? If a man likes u and wants you around then what’s the issue? I can’t stop thinking about him!

  • @dinoortolani9188
    @dinoortolani9188 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Bro from the first second of your video. I liked your energy immediately :)

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dino Ortolani91 wow! thank you so much man haha, I really appreciate that 😄

  • @kristynchan6903
    @kristynchan6903 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    broke up today... thank you a lot. i'm gonna go out tomorrow and start filming short adventures again.

  • @theexsploder5886
    @theexsploder5886 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My girlfriend just broke up with me. This really does work and honestly just realize that it is over and move on look forward to what is in the future and don’t look back in the past

  • @mia4eva238
    @mia4eva238 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All of this sounds so easy but its the hardest thing in my life right now. I just don't wanna hurt anymore, I don't wanna be sad anymore, I don't know how to pick myself up.😔

  • @MMAwesomemutant
    @MMAwesomemutant 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A girl isn’t interest in me, not even being friends. This video by u helped me very much and I appreciate you a lot.

  • @cArNiFeX2x36
    @cArNiFeX2x36 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    4:53 so true but its so hard....

  • @bbwgrandma1469
    @bbwgrandma1469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Look man, im 3 years late to this video, but I appreciate you big time bossman. Ive been hurt countless times by people i couldnt get over and honestly i just needed to realize that i need to find my own happiness. Youre working wonders my guy thank you fr

  • @penguin2362
    @penguin2362 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So you cannot be completely happy.. until you're happy by yourself. You know what man, that's the reminder I needed, I use to enjoy my own company until I was too dependent on this special girl. But now I remember how happy I was on my own. I appreciate that.

  • @extremegamer619
    @extremegamer619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's hard to move on when you see them moving on in life and with someone else. but you can't, due to unemployment and having life kick you down constantly. Sometimes I wish life can just fast forward till the day I die, so I won't have to worry about these things.

  • @justingregorylugo5151
    @justingregorylugo5151 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fell in love with a married women whom I started to adore & the feelings felt mutual. I haven't heard from her in a few months. It's best to leave her alone and do my best to live my best life.

  • @ryankurtyan
    @ryankurtyan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I️ searched in the search bar something very specific. I️ came to this video surprised by how on the spot it was with me. THANK YOU IT HELPS VERY MUCH

  • @juanpablozeaolivera1214
    @juanpablozeaolivera1214 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cant lie I've been stressing over a bitch who doesn't want me...this literally made me realise what i should do...safe man🤙🏿

    • @jeremymagee2650
      @jeremymagee2650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude you said exactly how I feel..

    • @ZaeRackzz
      @ZaeRackzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeremy Magee sane brah niggas be going through it

  • @MinnieCeeOfficial
    @MinnieCeeOfficial 7 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    God you spoke the truth.

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      minnie cee Haha the truth shall set you free ☺

  • @liquidebibiza8908
    @liquidebibiza8908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dont be weak yall love yall

  • @PS-xb9hc
    @PS-xb9hc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You can be a whole person and still find and attract weirdos...

  • @chloesanimalfarm5827
    @chloesanimalfarm5827 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    the notebook one helped me SO MUCH!

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      chloe's animal farm yeh, that helped me lots too, it really helps get very thing out and stops you acting crazy hahaha👊

    • @jbasti227
      @jbasti227 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea suprisingly writing your thoughts and feelings out and seeing them in front of you really helps

    • @taneejaprin3755
      @taneejaprin3755 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whats the time stamp

  • @justindiddler101
    @justindiddler101 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That moment you have been alone so long you don't even care anymore

  • @B1gDevin
    @B1gDevin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I got ghosted recently and it actually Hurt because I thought she was mine and really liked her

  • @sunflower352
    @sunflower352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Adore how honest and straight to the point he is; quite helpful!

  • @EzekielWheel
    @EzekielWheel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You honestly made me feel way better thank you 🙌🏽

  • @ireneedmonds4712
    @ireneedmonds4712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you... this gave me the courage to end something that’s been on my mind so hard the past month basically.

  • @forbearingmotorhead
    @forbearingmotorhead 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boys and girls, just love yourself and most importantly your family cuz there's no one greater than family. Love your parents till their last days ❤️

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days.....♥️♥️♥️

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯💯

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whatsapp him for help..

    • @PeteS_1994
      @PeteS_1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if your family don’t love you

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PeteS_1994 Him can help you ok

  • @criticfortheuploader2035
    @criticfortheuploader2035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *I'm dealing with my emotions and have accepted this coward's choice to block me out of nowhere and move on after you just said he so called loved me, wow... He's heartache don't need him...*

  • @j_mae999
    @j_mae999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video. I have been dealing with this for years. I’m starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @jeremymagee2650
    @jeremymagee2650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's amazing how we fantasize about that special someone and the entire time, it's just an illusion in our minds. Slang term for Illusion is a "Fools Paradise"
    Then the music does nooooo Justice 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @isapaola9370
    @isapaola9370 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    omg this is such a good video and I'm not even heartbroke lmao

  • @artist6110
    @artist6110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    And what if you work at the same place with him and when he always acts like nothing happened before and starts to talk to you every time he sees you??

  • @JMar135
    @JMar135 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thanks man...you really made me feel a bit better when i watched this .Gave me some perspective 👌

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Johnmichael Marran you're very welcome man! Im glad it made sense haha, and thank you for commenting :)

  • @ape122
    @ape122 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    i loved a girl for more than 4 years she knows now but doesnt like me goes to the same school most classes im with her This helped me a little

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ReplayzJinxA hey man! props to you for having the courage to tell her! 🙌.. and ayy don't worry about it, hang in there man, you'll grow from the experience :) .. and thank you for commenting man, im glad the vid has helped you in some way :)

    • @ape122
      @ape122 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joshua Chisambo i shut her out of my life cause i feel like i have Bipolar cause i get a moment where i start to think of onw thing and all my sad feelings for her attack me (i start cryin

  • @joecool97
    @joecool97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great Video! So Positive and True! Happiness comes from within. Don't settle for anyone.

  • @kozi-nomad
    @kozi-nomad 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was amazing.. This is perfect. Thank you so much. Every word you said was so helpful, I took so many notes. Hopefully in the future when I come back to re-read this comment again, I'll have moved on from my lover x) thank you!

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wayy to go my bro! Those notes will help you! You'll get through it 🙌

  • @aidensnacklad4178
    @aidensnacklad4178 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    finding people to build on to your own happiness is key

    • @americawaters4257
      @americawaters4257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what I've always told my daughter.

  • @andialexander5806
    @andialexander5806 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is the kindest reminder that is incredibly empathetic . thanks so much

  • @aom1156
    @aom1156 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    please do more videos about loving oneself :) God bless you for all you do!

  • @garyoak317
    @garyoak317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    AHHHHH PATRICIAAA!!!!

  • @ellewills759
    @ellewills759 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    U deserve wayyyy more subs ur such a good TH-camr it rlly rlly helps wish I saw this when I broke up with my ex bare ago

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Elle Wills ahh Thank you SOO much! I really appreciate that, and thank you for taking the time to watch the video! and thank you for commenting :D

  • @danimarie1819
    @danimarie1819 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is great and spot on. I have been trying to move on from a guy i grew to really like at work but he doesn't feel the same way. He now has a gf. This advice helps both with the self reflection and dealing with the hurt with not making the cut with him. Thank you :)

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dani Marie thank you! And you get it, it really does make a difference. We learn so much about ourselves through self reflection so you have really hit the nail on the head there

  • @jonathanwatch5474
    @jonathanwatch5474 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im 3 years late but i will forget her and move on thanks joshua

  • @iveeedee
    @iveeedee ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s the “AHHHH PATRICIA” for me 😂😂😂. I watch this video weekly, thank so much for the advise!

  • @MELI-c8k
    @MELI-c8k 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried a lot and I had some ice cream and I had to watch tv and then . Nothing but happiness and thankful what a wonderful life I have .

  • @dimitarie
    @dimitarie 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you Joshua, this helped me a lot!

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      dimitarie It's all good! im just so happy you got something out of it and I really appreciate you taking the time to watch the videos! I can't say it enough but honestly thank you :)

  • @theboy4773
    @theboy4773 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have been through this recently and it worth guys don't stuck to people who don't want you,move on there are lot of fishes in the sea...even better one..once you meet them,you will laugh out fresh..once you are over you will never want them again😉

  • @samreyes9169
    @samreyes9169 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It helps knowing i'm not alone.

  • @MMm-cr8yd
    @MMm-cr8yd 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou I won’t get into another relationship- the emotional destabilising and complete rebuild of your self takes time - you do get there - it’s painfull and the amount of people in this world suffering heartbreak- seems like people are flippant about staying in a relationship. Things get a bit hard, they walk , rather than work it out. Wider community net working now - thru out world - opens more choice of people out there. People don’t stick it out in the hard times - they just drop and pick up elsewhere. Partnership / marriage use to mean something once.....

  • @lukemcginnis1
    @lukemcginnis1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude, she led me on for 5 months, then her friends told me she never really even cared. I would sing her to sleep. Write songs for her. And just be everything I could. And she never cared in the first place. Thank-you for this video

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰👩‍❤️‍👩

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay🥰😘

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whtsaap him"**???

  • @melo-melo2854
    @melo-melo2854 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know this video is old but it applies today for me. Thank you. It was beautiful and effective advice.

  • @stormbreakerthor6385
    @stormbreakerthor6385 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I want to thank you so much this is going to help me In the future and now let god bless you on the teachings you have taught these many people who are heartbroken

  • @joseafalvel
    @joseafalvel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for these advices, I think they are very good and you focus on self esteem instead, that was so cool because it's inevitable to think that ti's something wrong about me. I was looking for something that made me feel better and your words did it after being rejected at a company party by a girl who I liked since like six months ago and honestly I needed to hear that it's ok to sorrow for some time

  • @user-Floristry
    @user-Floristry 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy said he liked me back and now he's distancing from me and it hurts a lot, I always check when he's online or if he's talking to someone else and he usually is.
    I'll do the best I can to distance, thank you, man.

  • @kankrivantas2414
    @kankrivantas2414 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am glad I watched this. Thank you for helping me and others who are going through this. I appreciate it so much. I liked this person for about 3 years now and I'm learning to get over them. Also pointing out things you don't like about the person can actually help you get over them. I watched so many videos because I'm just desperately wanting to move on. But I'm learning. It's strange, it kinda makes me nervous trying to move on. I don't know why. Maybe that's just me being overly emotional. But anyways, again thank you so much. I love you man🌹

  • @gabegarrett8668
    @gabegarrett8668 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just came to the realization of what a horrible friend I was to this person but I also know that it want fully my fault and this really helped me thank you

  • @Prettymarta1
    @Prettymarta1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I really needed to hear this! Thank you

    • @joshuachisambo5821
      @joshuachisambo5821  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gio Dickens no problem man! it feels good knowing its helped you 👊

  • @hislilpanda5422
    @hislilpanda5422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I fell in love with his spirit and soul. I have never been able to stop loving him. I’ve been in different relationships and have enjoyed life I have 3 kids i didn’t let me not being with this person stop me from living but deep down I always hoped he’d come around and give me a chance. I’ve tried everything to let go but I’ve been unsuccessful. We have not talked in years we have not seen each other in years…yet I’m still in love with him.

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰👩‍❤️‍👩

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay🥰😘

    • @timwhite2875
      @timwhite2875 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whtsaap him"**???

  • @mca1159
    @mca1159 ปีที่แล้ว

    So thankful to find your video. I’ve been having a hard time letting go of a guy for at least a year now. We talk but I don’t know if he’s replying to my messages out of respect 🤷‍♀️

  • @LukeOlmstead1
    @LukeOlmstead1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me and this girl used to have a thing about a year ago and it didn’t really work out. Then a month later we started talking a lot and now we’re best friends. To this day I still have feelings, and I’ve never felt such a way around a girl before. I really like her and i finally told her how I feel and she just said thx for telling me. Ik she replied well but ah I thought I’d get something out of it. I’m just lost right now because I keep getting rejected and don’t know where to go. All summer I’ve been upset and sad about the whole thing and it’s got me down, I don’t know how to get my mind off this mess. I’m trying to move on but it’s so hard..

  • @jamesgeorge1350
    @jamesgeorge1350 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is amazing, thank you, it made me cry. It feels so true, the truth hurts 😢

  • @priyamalhotra5794
    @priyamalhotra5794 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Joshua from all the so called life coaches on you tube ur video has made the complete sense simple n practical especially the part where you say that one needs to spend time n be happy with themselves n that draws the right people to u as ur picky n choosy rather than wanting a relationship having a relationship with yourself first...amazing stuff helped me much more than the life coaches out there definitely was a sign for me great work have subscribed love ur video☺👍

  • @evamaraney1715
    @evamaraney1715 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is the truest shit ive ever heard... did all of this after my breakup and its really the best thing

  • @samsicles_jr
    @samsicles_jr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watched this video four years ago and was so helpful. Four years later and back in the same place. Still so helpful. Ty 🙏

    • @husainabelloajir364
      @husainabelloajir364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

    • @husainabelloajir364
      @husainabelloajir364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

    • @husainabelloajir364
      @husainabelloajir364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whtsaap him"**

    • @husainabelloajir364
      @husainabelloajir364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±2348140799323⏭⏭💕💕

  • @jadaackerman6157
    @jadaackerman6157 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is wisdom omg

  • @bestyleake-brooks9186
    @bestyleake-brooks9186 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so very much you delightfully honest, humbled and vulnerable handsome and with a beautiful spirit! It's awesome to see a video made from a masculine perspective. I feel like we are truly all "ONE"___🌎 and 💔 is the human condition....😭😥😮‍💨🌹

  • @trizyof3003
    @trizyof3003 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I meant thanks for the advice about writing it in your journal and see how you feel about it later that should really helps man appreciate it

  • @jdeezy453
    @jdeezy453 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m been going thru this for 3 years , thanks for your advice

  • @sylviam.castillo9931
    @sylviam.castillo9931 ปีที่แล้ว

    FOCUS on things you enjoy.

  • @awakingkorpze1189
    @awakingkorpze1189 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But what happens if none of your friends want to do anything with you, you're depressed, no one likes you and you hate your life?

  • @sarahdavies3690
    @sarahdavies3690 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such wise advice, thank you! X

  • @janelleglass3673
    @janelleglass3673 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This young man is brilliant!

  • @jordansthoughts54
    @jordansthoughts54 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Helpful I’m still in love with someone and she no longer has feelings for me. I’m trying to practice acceptance but this pain hurts like crazy

  • @ratcumowo8930
    @ratcumowo8930 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had a friend who liked me and I didn't so I told them and we got in a fight. But yesterday I saw them again and I like them but they are still mad at me. But I always need to come back.

  • @ZakariaAitOuakrim
    @ZakariaAitOuakrim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you a lot brother for your clever advices, I'm having hard time trying to forget her because she meant everything for me.. now it's all gone 😪💔 I'll try to stick to your precious advices bro.. Take care.

  • @nicktilles
    @nicktilles 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This actually helped out a lot, thanks man.

  • @marcyallison5996
    @marcyallison5996 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most important thing that wasn't mentioned. Reject the rejecter.

  • @bbrriiee
    @bbrriiee 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    i loved someone, but i never shared my feelings, and i moved away. i can't ever tell her i love her. its been 8/9 months since ive seen her, and i even drove past her house. i had the chance to see her and I didn't. oh well. im happy i met her and had this experience but I've been crying for half an hour. I havent loved anyone as much as them.

  • @dejanaenight7864
    @dejanaenight7864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Am I the only one watching because Im trying to get over the fact that I didn't have a father 😔😢

  • @anonymouxx9261
    @anonymouxx9261 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is actually what I've been looking for! :) I mean I am already letting go of her and this actually confirmed a lot of stuff tht I've been telling myself.. Tnx :D

  • @claudiavillarreal2277
    @claudiavillarreal2277 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    rejection sucks man

  • @Lonewofl99
    @Lonewofl99 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    me and girl was friends for 2 years I had feelings for her but she was in a relationship then they broke up and the feeling became strong I finally told her and she didn't feel thse but we was still friends but then we became more distance and there was wall between us and I was gonna ask to prom but they was talking so I didn't then to find out that she going to prom but didn't know alone and then I saw pics of her at prom and I started thinking ehy didn't ask her why wasn't I there with her why am I so scared I have try so much regret about her but she meant world to me I just can't get over her