How To Stop Thinking About Someone (Forget Someone You Love)

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  • This video will show you exactly how to permanently stop thinking about someone that you love or enjoyed spending time with.
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    • How To Stop Thinking A...
    This video is about how to stop thinking about someone. It can also be used to show you how to forget someone you love, or how to stop missing someone, The basic premise is that the reason why you think about someone is because you think you would be happier if they were here. So, how to stop thinking about someone (how to forget someone you love) is to simply ask yourself "Can I think of some times when they were here that I wasn't happy?"
    Another way to say this is, if you want to know how to get over someone you love, what you really want know is how to stop thinking about them all the time. It is the thinking that is making you feel sad and lonely.
    The question of how to get over someone you love is very common, and most people think that the answer is "time". But, you can get over someone you love right now, if you simply discover that they didn't give you the happiness you truly want.
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  • @daisygreenland3643
    @daisygreenland3643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16405

    Everyone who is watching this video needs a hug 💔

    • @nicholehermoso7436
      @nicholehermoso7436 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Daisy x true

    • @squiddop0p715
      @squiddop0p715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      We all deserve to be happy EXCEPT FOR MURDERERS AND OTHER MEAN PEOPLE

    • @viviemcfavour1615
      @viviemcfavour1615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      True😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @charlie6196
      @charlie6196 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@squiddop0p715 but it's the other way round 🙂

    • @Toxicators
      @Toxicators 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      😭😭😭😭

  • @sennajmr
    @sennajmr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7530

    Distracting myself during the day is fine but when the night comes , its hard to sleep.

    • @Feber2001
      @Feber2001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +382

      The night is the worst part..

    • @tiffanyliranzo7187
      @tiffanyliranzo7187 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Maybe listen to music while sleeping.

    • @oxygeno2414
      @oxygeno2414 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Write down beautiful thoughts ever you gone through

    • @trustudy6083
      @trustudy6083 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      ASMR can help. Male artists for males. Female artists for females. Trust me it works for each gender :)

    • @valgracias9225
      @valgracias9225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Going through the same

  • @dazedsaint
    @dazedsaint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2502

    It's hard when that person doesn't know they're bringing you pain.

    • @osmi2816
      @osmi2816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Same Situation going on here ));

    • @prettyhooman5785
      @prettyhooman5785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      I never want to love him in the first place though.

    • @shayamaliperera6758
      @shayamaliperera6758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same here

    • @merariveland3239
      @merariveland3239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅

    • @LLL.LLL0
      @LLL.LLL0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes it is a painful feeling but if some people know that they have an effect on you even if it is negative they will start to arrogate you

  • @sseulgiikang6436
    @sseulgiikang6436 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1462

    Don't pursue if it's not mutual, find someone who loves you too

    • @BLOCKSTARSTUDIOS
      @BLOCKSTARSTUDIOS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are right

    • @adolf9006
      @adolf9006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I really thought she felt the same way 😃

    • @gamingwithnishal8870
      @gamingwithnishal8870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Okeuu

    • @alihaider-hm3dm
      @alihaider-hm3dm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      You are right but It's not that easy heart wants what it wants. You can't be wise and in love at the same time

    • @sayooj5873
      @sayooj5873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@alihaider-hm3dm i know it's not easy. but if you don't do it, you're just gonna end up hurting yourself.

  • @theonetrueking3612
    @theonetrueking3612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6592

    sometimes we are in love with the fantasies we associate with that person, not the actual person

    • @baileyhalford9592
      @baileyhalford9592 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      Wow. That makes so much since 😭

    • @ktxvi
      @ktxvi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      i'm going to hold onto this, thank you

    • @j.t2548
      @j.t2548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Usually

    • @tomray903
      @tomray903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      yuri boyka agreed, sometimes the person i think i love doesn't really exist

    • @mr.mister9607
      @mr.mister9607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      Yup. And sadly that is my problem, creating memories I never had, but could've had.

  • @hilarytrump3657
    @hilarytrump3657 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3373

    You know you're in a bad state if your watching this video

    • @papapipo3882
      @papapipo3882 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hilary Trump Lol. indeed!

    • @pigosapresley9761
      @pigosapresley9761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      you literally a copied a comment from 2 years ago

    • @daisygreenland3643
      @daisygreenland3643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hilary Trump 🤣

    • @girlonyoutube3982
      @girlonyoutube3982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hilary Trump I’m not...I barley miss them.

    • @michelleramirez4503
      @michelleramirez4503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hilary Trump ikr it's hard to move on if you have extremely strong feelings

  • @dayuummama
    @dayuummama ปีที่แล้ว +153

    "Sometimes, the person we want the most is the same person we're best without." 💔

    • @user-np9sg1ru4z
      @user-np9sg1ru4z ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @user-np9sg1ru4z
      @user-np9sg1ru4z ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @KimViewPoint
    @KimViewPoint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    They seem happy as if they were just playing with our feelings🙍😭

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      there someone who can help you get your ex back begging you for a second chance, his name is Dr Steve, he also helped me before and my ex came back to me

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wht ssap Him

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2347030894892.

    • @leeannecarter844
      @leeannecarter844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It breaks my heart ...how they just act like you never mattered

    • @padussia
      @padussia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@leeannecarter844 And then gives you mixed messages after they have told you they don't want you.

  • @angiepacquiao9395
    @angiepacquiao9395 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4333

    Am I the only one missing someone who was not even with me really?

    • @batpot607
      @batpot607 5 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      No your not

    • @lilosnitch3247
      @lilosnitch3247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      No youre not.

    • @cindy7210
      @cindy7210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      no

    • @Slurge47
      @Slurge47 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Angie Pacquiao no you are not... can someone please help us?

    • @agathathomas6154
      @agathathomas6154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      No you're not hun

  • @bigbossnaga7831
    @bigbossnaga7831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4254

    "When you're sleeping with a broken heart, waking up is the hardest part"
    - True 🤦

  • @OleSolomon1
    @OleSolomon1 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    everyone who is reading this I wish you the best!! You are doing great and you are loved!! If things aren't going good, remember it's temporary. Good things are coming your way!!

    • @JohnM...
      @JohnM... 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🤗

  • @naemalama6883
    @naemalama6883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Dear ex,
    Thank you for coming into my life and teaching me all those life lessons.Just because we broke up that doesn't make you the worst person in the entire world. In fact you were once the most amazing person I've ever met. Surely we ended up hurting each other even though both of us claimed that our love for each other was true. But I have to say that all the time we spent together were some of the best time of my life. And my respect for you will always remain the same. 😊

    • @prezoritse4631
      @prezoritse4631 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you now

    • @samscarletta7433
      @samscarletta7433 ปีที่แล้ว

      Likely long gone, living her best life

    • @2098ramkumar
      @2098ramkumar 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@samscarletta7433 hopefully

  • @BiggusDickus333
    @BiggusDickus333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2025

    Who else is just reading the comments instead of listening to the man.

  • @sebslasher8817
    @sebslasher8817 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2720

    Who else just wants to go back in time before you met them and see how happy you were😭

  • @ayumi600207
    @ayumi600207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    I am in love with the idea of him and it hurts so much that he can simply leave without a word. This video made me ponder and think of whether I am truly happier only with him.. it is right that when we miss someone and the good moments we need to understand the bad moments come with it and when I start to think of the conflicts I realised I wasn’t all that happy .. it is the pleasurable moments that still chained me to this person but it is another perspective and I did learn from this video.. he is so right.. I want to be happier by my own terms and now hinge on a single person that specific person..I want to give all of you a hug!

    • @mohammediquadri7648
      @mohammediquadri7648 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i can understand

    • @priyalkhapekar
      @priyalkhapekar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @dolores are you okay now?

    • @sea9sky9
      @sea9sky9 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hug back ;)
      Stay strong girl.

    • @ayumi600207
      @ayumi600207 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MEISON ah si, Dolore. Un nome di dolore.

    • @ayumi600207
      @ayumi600207 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@priyalkhapekar thanks priyal. How time flies. Been 6 months. I have tried dating, and all it had led is me feeling numb and disappointed. I think a lot has to do with my internal processing of thoughts. The one i have common interests with don’t know how to communicate. The one I can communicate with rattles on at times making me feel like these are merely strings of words i hear without comprehension. It is bitterness, some resentment. My fear is I’ll never be able to give my heart and mind to someone in the way I had thought I wanted to.

  • @lalalamiao4600
    @lalalamiao4600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I even didn’t have the opportunity to develop a real relationship with him…I had a crush on him, and I’m on my own to tackle with my crazy fantasies …still hurts😢

  • @guitawrizt
    @guitawrizt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2091

    *_"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option"._*

    • @owen0617
      @owen0617 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      guitawrizt that was a lot of help, wow

    • @guitawrizt
      @guitawrizt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Peace Owen.

    • @Linda-hp6rm
      @Linda-hp6rm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very beautiful and clever words!!!👏👏👏👏👍

    • @guitawrizt
      @guitawrizt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks Linda- a quote from Mark Twain

    • @anarosedoydora463
      @anarosedoydora463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks!

  • @mzzk817
    @mzzk817 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1613

    being ignored by the person you love will destroy you in so many ways💔

  • @RL-oj6pd
    @RL-oj6pd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I find myself missing an old friend more than an ex. I was far more vulnerable. She knew all my secrets... To lose her makes me feel like I simply not worth much to her.

  • @erkish2878
    @erkish2878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’d never thought I’d search this vid.

  • @heikin5562
    @heikin5562 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1458

    2% random viewers 98% broken hearted viewers (count myself in)

    • @chaycedith1362
      @chaycedith1362 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I just hope that those who broke our heart will be broken as well 😥

    • @oday6774
      @oday6774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U damn right

    • @samuelmmmk181
      @samuelmmmk181 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@chaycedith1362 Damn, I hope. Unless she did it on purpose.

    • @imranazam4127
      @imranazam4127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      #Heartbroken😒

    • @ludezo
      @ludezo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @pera7882
    @pera7882 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2524

    You know you're disparate when you start watching these video

    • @lexxie225
      @lexxie225 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Pretty much 😅

    • @mulbeo
      @mulbeo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      yeah, sad but true

    • @ZanOGAL
      @ZanOGAL 8 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      people who are desperate are people who look forward into a future...we want better things and we have goals...nothing wrong with desperate...its what u do that matters.Just by watching this video it makes u do good things instead of being a jerk or bad

    • @prestonrobert2625
      @prestonrobert2625 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you sir I just started this and shall enjoy it because of you.

    • @mariafoteini
      @mariafoteini 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      for real

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I’m happy being single.

    • @joym4022
      @joym4022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes it is really good.. but she dragged me.. and now she is cheating me.. bullshit 🙄.. but I cannot hate her

  • @ethancortezano
    @ethancortezano 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I know people watching here are struggling like me always remember one thing you live long why not live more and God loves you more.

  • @lacos3213
    @lacos3213 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3822

    Who ever is reading this and you're watching this to heal your broken heart I want you to know that you're a good person and there is nothing wrong with being in pain. This too shall past. You know that and I know that.

  • @Proxy_JM08
    @Proxy_JM08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1441

    2.7 million broken hearted out there, I thought I was alone, what am I thinking!

    • @JavelineerKrieg
      @JavelineerKrieg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Man... We are all in pain...
      We are at the stage that we stop enjoying the feeling of love and we don't know what to do... All i want is a hug.. Nobody loves me... Not even my family... But am in lova and pain😢

    • @sonisiddiqui2019
      @sonisiddiqui2019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      hey everything will be ok..love urself u r special in yourself

    • @TiyeeglowTV
      @TiyeeglowTV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yea not only you

    • @raginigupta4983
      @raginigupta4983 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hehe yeah

    • @Mahdi-up1os
      @Mahdi-up1os 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not alone 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

  • @certpa
    @certpa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    why me, i can’t take this pain. every single second shes on my mind. her voice. her hugs. just her presence in my life. i cant stop fucking thinking about this person no matter what i’m in so much pain. 3 years to the trash. i need help.

    • @Damiannn.
      @Damiannn. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey I almost had the same situation you have. Try to remember that In the future you will find someone like her or even someone 100% better than her. Ik man it hurts a lot and I promise you will find someone better.

    • @bengaltiger2491
      @bengaltiger2491 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      it's my situation now. i dont want anyone in future. i just need her.

    • @arandomperson1008
      @arandomperson1008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thats almost my situation, but it was a friend. she was so toxic but i don tknow why i miss her. maybe im just thinking about all the things she calls me and it disgusts me, but i still wish nothing changed.

    • @assanassan9044
      @assanassan9044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I m in the same situation
      But meantime I'm also thinking that if she doesn't love me let her go because the life will boring if I'm in love with her and she just playing along
      From the past 3 days I almost got heart attack
      One friend of mine told me thar take indral pills which worked actually
      I'm 100% sure that she will regret this in future but by then I will do the same because I will have moved on already

    • @yum811
      @yum811 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you

  • @yasminahmed7140
    @yasminahmed7140 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Well said!! I haven't felt this type of relief in months. You're a God sent 🎗️

  • @redesperacion496
    @redesperacion496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +994

    I wish I never met him so that I'll never be here.

    • @johnsmith7622
      @johnsmith7622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      So sorry...... We didn't deserve this. When someone loves us.... they are not supposed to hurt us.

    • @abovejc
      @abovejc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same, wish I never met her. Waisted a year of my life..

    • @mchris65
      @mchris65 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      John Smith they didn't really love us then. The sooner we understand this, the sooner we know love isn't the problem.

    • @bunawaf078
      @bunawaf078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too, wasted three years from my life.

    • @Jpose03
      @Jpose03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry you guys..I'm suffering a bit too..jus gonna take down time I guess

  • @chickenway8053
    @chickenway8053 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1354

    I wish I never met her

  • @MrPete-pm8gt
    @MrPete-pm8gt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I miss an old friend that moved away and I wish we could still be friends and see each other

  • @sanjinin5081
    @sanjinin5081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    you ever get your heart broken so bad you feel like a part of you just died? just an insane type of pain you’ve never felt before and makes you never want to love again

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey there! I can recommend you to someone who can help you get your lover back to you without delay. His name is Dr Steve,, he once helped me did mine.....

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Believe me his law of attraction techniques works very fast! And can help you attract your (ex) lover back as well as Your specific person..:)

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2 3 4 7 0 3 0 8 9 4 8 9 2.

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      WHTSSAP Him

    • @lulzyana6953
      @lulzyana6953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This! This is how i felt for a long time. U put it into words perfectly. Thank you, now i dont think im overreacting.

  • @caroline2832
    @caroline2832 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1674

    most people come here from past romantic relationships but i just miss my mom

  • @lucaschin3445
    @lucaschin3445 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1382

    I wish love doesn't exist

  • @jodaz74
    @jodaz74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Whenever i have the thoughts i listen to this it helps thanks. I don’t know how i got so obsessed over someone. It’s painful.

  • @sharulatha6955
    @sharulatha6955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We know we ain't gonna stop thinking of that person but we came hear for a relaxation. And this will make it to think about them more and more.

  • @hashoomishashem9487
    @hashoomishashem9487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    The thing that breaks my heart that i think about them all the time and they dont give a shit about me

    • @shantolion1576
      @shantolion1576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I feel your pain. Its sucks but try to flight it dont let it bring you down

    • @kairaking8199
      @kairaking8199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      They don't deserve you. You are amazing and loved by so many people. You don't need them.

    • @Spartaan...
      @Spartaan... 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They don't give a shit about you and they don't even bother hiding....

    • @hotdogedoctor8535
      @hotdogedoctor8535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know where you are at unfortunately

    • @extrarice3547
      @extrarice3547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I fell in love with someone who didn't like me

  • @thatgirl5630
    @thatgirl5630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1302

    When he said “you miss them because you think you’d be happier if they were here” I start cryin man, so true

    • @innogee8423
      @innogee8423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you want to get your ex back let me know, I can recommend you to a powerful spell caster who helped me get my ex back.he can help you also

    • @krdprogramming7010
      @krdprogramming7010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@innogee8423 i want this

    • @innogee8423
      @innogee8423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@krdprogramming7010 okay text him on Whtzap 📩📩

    • @innogee8423
      @innogee8423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@krdprogramming7010 (+2 3 4 8 0 8 9 3 3 9 0 4 2)

    • @johnpickford5523
      @johnpickford5523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww

  • @kuvalsingbharosa4343
    @kuvalsingbharosa4343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    the fact that most of us has tears in our eyes rn. One sided love is cruel.

  • @Pokerbilly77
    @Pokerbilly77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I really appreciate you Noah, every time I feel like I'm missing someone this video pops up in my mind because what you said is true and it makes me feel much better. No other video about this topic can give me this relief so thank you!

  • @shreyasharma6381
    @shreyasharma6381 5 ปีที่แล้ว +749

    Nothing is worst than not being missed by someone who you miss the most...💔😭

    • @tl4176
      @tl4176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      You were the one with a heart, be strong 💞

    • @kevinskonopeckis3330
      @kevinskonopeckis3330 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Stay strong! Life goes on! Same thing with me... it hurts so bad

    • @GhostSal
      @GhostSal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed!

    • @pavingmyway3428
      @pavingmyway3428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree....Some time it is very difficult to even survive.....m very alone in my "Relationship"....All the time... Feeling ignored.. Unimportant.

    • @flyingpan6583
      @flyingpan6583 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      but that is always the case, isn't it?

  • @mscisland
    @mscisland 5 ปีที่แล้ว +622

    Everyone who reads my comment. Keep your head up. This is only the beginning. God bless you all.😉

    • @neffex76
      @neffex76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You made my day man

    • @mariarubio710
      @mariarubio710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      M.S.C ISLAND Thank you so much

    • @logoword
      @logoword 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks that helped me

    • @_joe._.9210
      @_joe._.9210 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thx so much

    • @LoriCor-
      @LoriCor- 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks and God bless you, too! :)

  • @kadabenchihamohamedamine717
    @kadabenchihamohamedamine717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I can't stop thinking about her, I was talking to her two minutes before watching this video, she said you should stop loving me we're not together, I didn't anything for her I didn't hurt her or cheating her, she left me just like this after 5 years this hurting me soo man can't stop thinking about how beautiful is she, how lovely is she, ohh man I love her soo we're not together for 2 years from now but still love her.. my heart is burning 🔥🔥

    • @rain8183
      @rain8183 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damnn i just felt a little of the pain u got, i dont wish that to anyone fr

  • @AbuMahmud-sx9og
    @AbuMahmud-sx9og 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’ve watched over 20 videos like this one, and no one has explained it as good as you have. You are the first person that understands.

  • @sabrinababiixo
    @sabrinababiixo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +630

    Is anyone else crying their eyes out right now, even before I clicked this video

    • @TechTutorialsTalks
      @TechTutorialsTalks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yes

    • @ayumi600207
      @ayumi600207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yesssss

    • @ayumi600207
      @ayumi600207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I recently read a letter my first bf wrote me. It was all bullshit about love and all but it made me tear, made me wonder a 101 scenarios it could have gone.. i was immatured we both were and i know he is married now. He probably don’t think that I will ever still recall those memories. I don’t know if it is sadder to think about those memories Long ago or to know that there is no one other than myself recalling those memories

    • @Zsxcdwefivm
      @Zsxcdwefivm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I could lol

    • @chichi6809
      @chichi6809 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, crying rn.

  • @brookeeberhard889
    @brookeeberhard889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    Even when I’m distracting myself I still think about them WHILE I’m “distracting” myself

    • @LiyAxolotl
      @LiyAxolotl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same, but for me at least I don't cry when I am working, but still don't let them go...

    • @husseinalaa9110
      @husseinalaa9110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can't move on too cos' eveything I do I remember my self when I was doing that with them 🙂💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

    • @danoush21
      @danoush21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! My mind can forget him easier but what the pain I'm feeling in my heart😭💔

    • @aaajjjmmm1863
      @aaajjjmmm1863 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Feel the pain until it hurts no more

  • @geljose2247
    @geljose2247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I've almost lost my life for loving someone. I tried to forget everything about us, about our memories, but still can't. It's been a year but still, every minute,every hour, every day, I still think about that person. There are nights that I found myself crying, thinking about how my life messed up by loving too much. How can I free myself from this pain, I don't want to end up giving up my life. 😭

    • @Hailey-vj9vq
      @Hailey-vj9vq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      don’t lose hope you will be okay

    • @lathifaumarkutty8289
      @lathifaumarkutty8289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I can relate

    • @HarshPatel-dx8dx
      @HarshPatel-dx8dx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @geljose2247
      @geljose2247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why can't I stop myself from loving that person? 😔

    • @ivory8835
      @ivory8835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@geljose2247 uhmmm keep loving. You can't hate someone you loved. But you need to move forward. Idek if it makes sense lol. Like. Stop thinking about them but don't force yourself not to care or think about someone. Ah wait think of it this way that.... That person is dead. You still care about them but they're not gonna come back.... They're dead to you. That should help you ig. Like... Yes you love them but they're dead so they Cant come back

  • @vladyslavanufriiev1224
    @vladyslavanufriiev1224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Among all youtubers I've watched, Noah is the only one who really brought relief to me. So simple it's magical. Thank you so much!

  • @none377
    @none377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +452

    I lost interest in everything I used to enjoy. :(

    • @guitawrizt
      @guitawrizt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      We miss them because living with our self often sucks.

    • @amalia_89
      @amalia_89 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      None I feel the same

    • @brycevaldez4635
      @brycevaldez4635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Wow I honestly thought it was only me, like you feel unmotivated

    • @mayankpandey7646
      @mayankpandey7646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too...

    • @traleeseyoung3365
      @traleeseyoung3365 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      None it feels awful

  • @bekawinston5891
    @bekawinston5891 4 ปีที่แล้ว +686

    I just hate when you truly open up to them they take you for granted but when you treat them like trash they start loving you

    • @depressoexpreso668
      @depressoexpreso668 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That happened to me :|

    • @futurefx4068
      @futurefx4068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happened to me

    • @going-easy
      @going-easy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yup, it sucks

    • @samymaric4244
      @samymaric4244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Excatly !!!

    • @elijahmartinez5508
      @elijahmartinez5508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude I know what u mean the sad thing is a lot of people are like that now and days and were just gonna face the facts

  • @tiktokuser8498
    @tiktokuser8498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i think about this person most of the day, everyday, and the amount doesn't seem to decrease. i don't see this ending anytime soon even though I really want it to. i keep going back to our chat box and rereading everything. I hate myself for it. i just want this to end.

    • @sayooj5873
      @sayooj5873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only way to do that is to get rid of everything that reminds you of them. If you go back and keep rereading those texts, you'll end up hurting yourself more. The only way is to get rid of of everything about them from your life. I know it'll be very hard. I've been in the same situation as you. It'll be hard in the beginning, but you'll feel much better later. Hope this helps.

    • @tiktokuser8498
      @tiktokuser8498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sayooj5873 thought i erased my comment.
      thanks, it does help. but you're right, I tried erasing my discord account today to erase the conversations, and got as close as to click the 'delete' button and enter my password. then freaked out and clicked on 'restore account'. this is impossible.
      hope you're doing better.

    • @sayooj5873
      @sayooj5873 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tiktokuser8498 I'm doing good. It was very difficult for me. There were days I was really depressed for the whole day and couldn't even do things I used to enjoy. I realized it's not worth it and as time passed I felt better. She texts me even now, but I don't reply. Don't wanna get attached again and hurt myself. Love yourself. That's what's important. :)

    • @tiktokuser8498
      @tiktokuser8498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sayooj5873 im glad youre good now, bud :) it can be real shitty, i have to distract myself constantly to stay my happiest, being alone with your thoughts in a place like this is a nightmare, isn't it? im happy you've moved on and are more focused on yourself dude, sometimes it feels impossible but you can get there :D

  • @senriquesworld5873
    @senriquesworld5873 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Probably you are the guy who does the most intellectual talking on the most seemingly mundane topics, but bring out the most amazingly insights into them that otherwise is very hard to get into. Thankyou

  • @finnbalor9047
    @finnbalor9047 5 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    Sometimes memories sneak out of my eyes and roll down my cheeks

    • @lilyastor5980
      @lilyastor5980 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Finn Balor yo mate that was deep

    • @demeannnelson1876
      @demeannnelson1876 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Awe I feel that....

    • @aleb6245
      @aleb6245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its ok the same thing happened with me and my best friend we all are here together.!

    • @aleb6245
      @aleb6245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its ok the same thing happened with me and my best friend we all are here together.!

    • @finnbalor9047
      @finnbalor9047 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lilyastor5980 💓

  • @lparker1287
    @lparker1287 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2659

    It's sad that 1.3m people have viewed this:(. We're all in the same boat guys. I tell myself I'm over it but deep down I'm dying. I've started no contact and started hitting the gym to prevent dwelling on it. She wasn't the one for me and I have to accept it. Nearly the end of the year so everyone in 2017 I want all of you to start fresh. Get back out there, freshen up and enjoy your life. You'll look back on this time when you have someone better. It may take a while but there's always someone out there for you. Even if you're ugly like mee;) aha have a good day guys, chin up and take each day as it comes. Feel free to reply if you feel alone and need someone to talk too👍

    • @deemays12
      @deemays12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Brookzyyyy Hey man, I'm in the same boat. the pain is unbearable and my days are up and down. It's been 4 months since she left. feels like she left last week.

    • @maybugz
      @maybugz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Brookzyyyy 5 weeks into no contact after breakup. Still feel fucking broken, think of her everyday for most of the day but working on improving myself. Comforting to know I'm not alone in going through this.:(

    • @deemays12
      @deemays12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Brookzyyyy I agree

    • @lparker1287
      @lparker1287 7 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      dayum12 What keeps me going is telling yourself that you're better then that. Do something that will grab their attention if you see them in public in a months time for me I grew a beard , hit the gym , got a new haircut etc and that grabbed the attention of her. I watched a few vids in No contact and it kinda works however it don't stop me having a little look now and again on her profile and she probably looks at your profile but doesn't say to anyone she does. She'll try all sorts to get you upset or angry whether that is rebounding with another guy or flirting etc etc so if you don't rise to it she won't get what she wants which is for you to miss her or be upset over her. We all like the feeling when someone needs you and that's probably the feeling she likes. She likes to feel as if you are upset over her etc if you show no emotion she Might start making an effort with you if she's in love with you. Chin up mate

    • @deemays12
      @deemays12 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brookzyyyy I agree wholeheartedly...But my ex fiance is long distance!

  • @ronaldtremblay8507
    @ronaldtremblay8507 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This gentleman is a deep thinker and he does a pretty good job of explaining himself you just have to follow along carefully. Great video!

  • @rollakid
    @rollakid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Big internet hug for everyone who search for this video topic and stumble upon this.
    Make a lot of sense, I don't miss anyone when I'm on my motorcycle. I don't have time to think, I'm just outrunning my emotion.

  • @WorstCommentator
    @WorstCommentator 7 ปีที่แล้ว +598

    You broke my heart, but I still love you. I hope someday I’ll get over you.

  • @MichigaanFan
    @MichigaanFan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    I’m over here thinking about him constantly when I know he hasn’t thought about me once

    • @friendlyfire782
      @friendlyfire782 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You'd be surprised.

    • @GhostSal
      @GhostSal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me too, I’m in the same boat. Actually probably worse, she acts like she hates me, and it’s just because I care for her.

    • @Karim-rf5go
      @Karim-rf5go 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@GhostSal actually girls sometimes do this for you both to somehow to get in a relationship but she doesn't wanna show that she likes you first.

    • @flyingpan6583
      @flyingpan6583 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      the more you think about the other person, the more you will feel you means nothing to him/her.

    • @ChantalLovely
      @ChantalLovely 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sal Agnello i act like i hate the guy who i love for a longgg time. Just cuz i dont wanna show that i really miss him :(

  • @mythic5989
    @mythic5989 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These types of videos have literally saved my life in the past few months.

  • @amishamotwani3065
    @amishamotwani3065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel like I'm dying from inside, ever morning i hear his voice in my head. i still remember the day we met, i remember his smile, his eyes his voice, his touch, his Everything..

    • @amishamotwani3065
      @amishamotwani3065 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tinachoke5978 thnk u for his number 😊

    • @beyza-rt8xq
      @beyza-rt8xq ปีที่แล้ว

      how are you now?

  • @sarahsmith3016
    @sarahsmith3016 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1692

    The fact that 1 million people have viewed this is really sad : (

    • @_nutsbutts_
      @_nutsbutts_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      It's okay, we all landed on a good place. I actually feel a lot better because of this guy, Noah, and his voice is very soothing.

    • @twhitedeath5885
      @twhitedeath5885 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Milky's I've just met a German girl and I know I would never see her again so I wanna forget her as soon as possible :( It's just...painful

    • @_nutsbutts_
      @_nutsbutts_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Raif Anass Official actually, the same thing happened to me a couple of months ago.. With an American girl, from I think, North Carolina... Ah, she was sooo adorable. I don't know her name though! (funny, ain't it!)
      In short, you're not alone. I get you. But for your own good LET IT GOOOO, LET IT GOOOOO~~~ haha. You're free to vent here about it :) I'm sure you want to let someone else know how you felt, maybe that'll help.

    • @twhitedeath5885
      @twhitedeath5885 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Milky's I guess yea , I mean I'm Moroccan and she's German (I don't know her name too) it was like bzzzz when I saw her. I am on a trip to the Sahara of Morocco but not the south Sahara though , it's the east Sahara and there are a lot of tourists there. So we went my family and I to an Oasis and I saw her there. There was a guy there who gave us both 15 meters scarfs . He helped me put mine on and helped her put on one too. My father teased me saying "go take a picture with here" and he looked at my Mom saying "after that they will marry" I couldn't take a picture with her (I know she could have left me do it but I was afraid of her parents' reaction). It was a good opportunity to talk to her but...sometimes ,you just can't get what you want and I just wanna see her one last time. All that happened today , and I was filming a video where she figured but everything was blurry including her cute face :'(

    • @_nutsbutts_
      @_nutsbutts_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Raif Anass Official I get you sooo much. Don't deny these feelings of course, but with time it'll get better. Stuff like that had actually happened to me twice but I thought less and less about it afterwards. Even if I reeeaaally liked those girls. Everything changes, and it's not necessarily a bad thing. Peace :)

  • @r3ckl3ssofficial
    @r3ckl3ssofficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    To anyone and everyone watching this video. you're an amazing strong willed person, I know life seems low at the moment but you can overcome these emotions and feelings. I believe in you.

    • @malatimondal2012
      @malatimondal2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you....

    • @tionxd
      @tionxd 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't believe in myself

    • @r3ckl3ssofficial
      @r3ckl3ssofficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kebab b i believe in you. No matter what you do what goals you aspire. What other people say, what happened in the past. I believe in you, don’t give up. Keep pushing. I’m here for you 🙏🏽

    • @malatimondal2012
      @malatimondal2012 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@r3ckl3ssofficial maybe you are one of the rarest kind of people with empathy in this world....

    • @r3ckl3ssofficial
      @r3ckl3ssofficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Malati Mondal just hopping I can end the long chains of sorrow and loneliness. And find the smile people once lost. Take care Malati, and if you need someone to talk to, I’m here. Always will be.

  • @andrzejmaranda3699
    @andrzejmaranda3699 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Noah Elkrief: THANK YOU SO MUCH for this video! There are some people I NEED to FORGET ABOUT!

  • @Aseser-8
    @Aseser-8 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would just like to thank you.
    You’ve encouraged me to look at myself and what I’ve been doing and saying to make things worst.
    Sometimes you just need to keep hearing something until you can hear it differently.

  • @Dilyaev
    @Dilyaev 7 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    I got a problem.. there's one girl that haunting me in my thoughts all the time.. had 5 relationships after that girl.. but none of those relationships helped me get over her.. I just kept thinking and dreaming about her... thats my curse, when I really love someone I sincerely do.

    • @NoahElkrief
      @NoahElkrief  7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      The way out is to discover that she couldn't make you happy because she can't get rid of any of the thoughts that cause your unwanted emotions.

    • @abhisheklochab5580
      @abhisheklochab5580 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I was in college my final year i was attracted towards one of my classmate its been 5 years now i had multiple relationship after that none of them works she haunts like a ghost twice a week i had dream of this women i dont understand whats this feeling is...when i woke up after having nightmare i look at her fb photos which i no longer use but still i get this heavy headache and disgusting feeling

    • @danielmiller3388
      @danielmiller3388 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dilyaev i hear you brother

    • @loovesoul
      @loovesoul 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sorry for that man... I know that feeling. Some people just hit a special part in our hearts... damn.

    • @ricardszile5012
      @ricardszile5012 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i have simular problem , i break up with a girl 2 years ago , and until this day , shes still in my mind all the time , when i try to get together with a another girll , thath girl i loved so much keeps geting in my mind ... pls help my

  • @fruitybunny5106
    @fruitybunny5106 7 ปีที่แล้ว +594

    Tell yourself this mantra repeatedly "care about people who care about you."

    • @kalpeshgala
      @kalpeshgala 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      very true... get busy with people who care about u rather than wasting time on ones who doesn't care about u

    • @fruitybunny5106
      @fruitybunny5106 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      kalpesh gala yeap that's true 😊

    • @priyasaini3567
      @priyasaini3567 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks for that mantra..:(

    • @bawskee666
      @bawskee666 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      fak. i have so many regrets.

    • @Dhanishta3
      @Dhanishta3 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fruity Bunny Thanks. It kinda worked

  • @fchuoyung9018
    @fchuoyung9018 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this video, I will definitely forget about this boy now and forever, I have better people ready to love me, but I couldn't let go feeling for him. No more thinking of him from this minute

  • @Agtpianistofficial
    @Agtpianistofficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    thnks bro u made me smile and realize that i matter to myself and the opinion of those who left doesnt count...

  • @tl4176
    @tl4176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    I was happy before him, I just need to forget him to be happy again

    • @manifestationhappiness705
      @manifestationhappiness705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here.. 😕😕

    • @KILLERMANKILLERMANKILLERMAN
      @KILLERMANKILLERMANKILLERMAN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But my life is useless without him.He is my everything 😘

    • @moristhetiger
      @moristhetiger 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks sir, I really like this video sir wants us to focus on what made us feel bad instead of focusing on what is bad about the person we are obsessed with, Brilliant sir is involving both Feelings and thoughts elements of the Cognitive Bias theory in psychiatry, Brilliant sir.
      Ideally I don't want to focus on what is bad about the person I am obsessed with, that is not good, at the end infatuation aside we cannot lose respect for someone we should respect, afteral there is a lot of good to be learnt.
      At the end Emotional intelligenc is important and if you really lovethe person you think you love wouldn't you want to become more Emotionally intelligence so as to take better care of the person you love.
      I would recommendthe readers to see the Cognitive Bias theory and if someone has some experiences I would like to read and know, thanks.

    • @lauren-5368
      @lauren-5368 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's literally the same as me, exept he was a close friend, not a boyfriend

    • @firstlast-ep5ru
      @firstlast-ep5ru 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, I dont even like this son of a b***ch but my hear and my brain cant for get him. I wouldn't wanna be together even if he begged me but my heart burns the second i see him. It is the worst thing

  • @nigelicabrowne9728
    @nigelicabrowne9728 7 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    i hate myself for loving him, sometimes i dont understand why its so hard when its so obvious he doesnt feel the same

    • @karensanders8607
      @karensanders8607 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      nigelica browne Same I guess you can't make some one love you so you gotta live yourself even more each day.

    • @leilagarritsen
      @leilagarritsen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nigelica browne same omg

    • @rosegarcia5353
      @rosegarcia5353 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      nigelica browne Same 😭

    • @mickucute7605
      @mickucute7605 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      nigelica browne cause true love always gets hard to get out of it... i am still trying to b happy n dont think about that girl but still i fail...

    • @emmadavid4637
      @emmadavid4637 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      nigelica browne same

  • @user-dp3uq7tj5z
    @user-dp3uq7tj5z ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou so much.After watching this I have finally found peace.❤

  • @atiqoth
    @atiqoth ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for your video! Nobody can explain the feeling of a broken heart. It's really unbearable pain.Nothing can heal this pain but the time, may be.

  • @roses1419
    @roses1419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    "The saddest part of a broken heart isn't the ending so much as the start. The tragedy starts from the very first part, losing your mind for the sake of your heart." -Feist

  • @deepikarose7972
    @deepikarose7972 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    I really want someone to hug me and just say "it's okay"😭😭 missing someone is a hell on Earth....

    • @dianekwan6664
      @dianekwan6664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Deepika Rose has nôii

    • @aidanstegall6926
      @aidanstegall6926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That made me cry

    • @warroomscale
      @warroomscale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Everything will be fine beleve me I am in same situation💔

    • @sheelagodinho1166
      @sheelagodinho1166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s ok my hugs to you

  • @archravenineteenseventeen
    @archravenineteenseventeen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It's best to not falling in love and none is in love with you. That way, you do not suffer and the person who loves you doesn't suffer unrequited love. At the end, we all die anyway. Make focus to what you really wanted in this world rather than be with someone which not always is there in your journey.

    • @sarahawkins1917
      @sarahawkins1917 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.

    • @sonyavincent7450
      @sonyavincent7450 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Basically, don't ever risk feeling anything for anyone ever again in case you get hurt? In that case you're only living half a life.

  • @Johnphilips1234
    @Johnphilips1234 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s so true. We’re only missing the good points and we forget to see the whole picture.

  • @manalhh4264
    @manalhh4264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    You ! Yes u ! The one who is reading this comment
    I want u to know that I love you and you are not alone and everything is going to be okay with passion 💕

    • @asw11121112
      @asw11121112 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      :)

    • @tahanisaleh9497
      @tahanisaleh9497 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      GACHA{ SAVAGE} I hope so (:

    • @asw11121112
      @asw11121112 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      It will! As it did for me!!!

    • @ishu4625
      @ishu4625 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love you too🙂

    • @Alfaz_Hus
      @Alfaz_Hus 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😔

  • @solmoes
    @solmoes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +466

    I want to cry but i cant because i feel empty inside

    • @Mariasxo
      @Mariasxo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know how u feel

    • @layangdragon4486
      @layangdragon4486 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      killua zoldyck same

    • @Ouail98
      @Ouail98 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same bro

    • @voxron1367
      @voxron1367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I don fell empty because my hole body is full of tears for her.

    • @jamesmendez4332
      @jamesmendez4332 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      U wrote my feelings out exactly

  • @reaganchambers1084
    @reaganchambers1084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I used to love this person and I can’t get them out of my mind 😞 I wanna forget about them because I know they will never like me back.....

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      there someone who can help you get your ex back begging you for a second chance, his name is Dr Steve, he also helped me before and my ex came back to me

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love is sweet, love is life, true love never die. Don't give up on someone that you really love, all hope is not lost, there is still a chance for you

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wht ssap Him

    • @patriciaclay2111
      @patriciaclay2111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2347030894892.

    • @bonny3933
      @bonny3933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😢

  • @kavnainvohra8228
    @kavnainvohra8228 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You changed my way of thinking man, thank you from the whole of my very heart❤️

  • @youraclown4815
    @youraclown4815 5 ปีที่แล้ว +850

    How to Get Over Someone
    1. Block them
    2. Don’t go out to Party you need to Heal
    3. It’s okay to let it out
    4. Don’t sit around and mope
    5. Be Productive
    6. Know Your Worth
    7. Love Yourself
    8. Forgive and Forget
    It works and you’ll get better💜

    • @osonduchristabel7660
      @osonduchristabel7660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Flower Girl I don’t like who blocks me, blocking ppl is childish... my opinion ☹️

    • @youraclown4815
      @youraclown4815 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      osondu christabel it’s not childish it’s just blocking someone out your life it’s okay to do that 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @bambimayhay
      @bambimayhay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I block exes from my past...even friends who were constantly pushing me to party with them when I expressed I want to have some me time to heal..it works for me and then I unblock them as early as 4-6 months and as long as 12 months. They reach out and then i replied back or vice versa by that time I was stronger and healed and not as angry or hurt anymore. When they ask what happened. I said I disappear and ghosted you and explain “why” for me that’s my way of healing. To stay away and when I’m ready I reappear... including social media.

    • @osonduchristabel7660
      @osonduchristabel7660 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      bambi Mayhay have any of your boyfriend or exes blocked you out the blue without any explanation?

    • @bambimayhay
      @bambimayhay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      osondu christabel no they never blocked me I was the one whose always do the blocking for my own sanity and dignity...one ex was toxic I had to block him off we are now friends there was no romance anymore....the other one was I feel like I’m chasing him the whole time of the relationship he loves me and I too but always one foot in and one foot out that I got tired of it and the relationship we’re going nowhere as if I was just been leading on the whole time...we’re on and off for so long that I wake one day and decided I must regain my confidence back so I broke it off with him for good delete and block his number.... these people if they want to be in your life and not be toxic in a relationship and ready to commit they will always find a way to reconnect with you be it in Facebook, WhatsApp, email etc....but by that time it’s either you still want them back in your life or you yourself had lost interest...I dated after that “rebound” he too I block him because I feel like I had no connection with him and just wasting his time... but after 6 months I kinda miss the rebound and I reach out to him and we are now kind of starting to talk again..it’s no ones fault it’s just some people when you meet them they are not aligned in your time. I don’t take it personal. People who are married divorces, bfs and gfs break up.... all breakups is gut wrenching it doesn’t matter if you dump them or they dump you... there was a bonding that you both created and usually everything and everyone is nice in the beginning till you one of you realized that just loving is not enough....sometimes it’s just not working out...for example my ex won’t reply to my text or return my calls right away which infuriated me it take him forever to reply back that even when I expressed it to him that I feel unimportant he won’t change etc.. I never regret any relationship that did not work out though because every relationship after another will always teach you a lesson... I grieve and then I stand back up... you must grieve from breakups it’s normal. After a storm comes a calm and vice versa it natural.

  • @neatmagenta9328
    @neatmagenta9328 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    This comment section is the support system I need

    • @ninathethird
      @ninathethird 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      no one is alone with their heartache

  • @natsdaley9615
    @natsdaley9615 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is not where I want to be - there was toxic and full of tears. This reminded me there is not a place to dwell on. Thank u ❤

  • @alejandroazombra7529
    @alejandroazombra7529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She's my BFF and I have a crush on her for 3 years, and I feel like im dying everytime She's telling me a story how lucky she is with her boyfriend. I feel a lot emotions that I can't name and I also feel like im dying every single day because of thinking

  • @alincheraru8078
    @alincheraru8078 6 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    I AM BEAUTIFUL AND I DESERVE BETTER SAY IT WITH ME !

    • @Joe-pg3xx
      @Joe-pg3xx 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      .

    • @whawhajasmine
      @whawhajasmine 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for this!

    • @gocavs5432
      @gocavs5432 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No your ugly

    • @whawhajasmine
      @whawhajasmine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@gocavs5432 Dont be a little bitch, You don't make anything better by saying that🙄

    • @americancountryball2077
      @americancountryball2077 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go Cavs fr stop being a bitch

  • @norax1327
    @norax1327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +640

    I cant stop crying someone please help i cant do this

    • @user-qt9yn2vp2g
      @user-qt9yn2vp2g 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      everythings gonna be perfect♡and smile i love u so much ♡

    • @user-qt9yn2vp2g
      @user-qt9yn2vp2g 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No need to thank me hun its fine nd its okayy just u need to see that life is not alyws perfct nd we wont alyws get what we want really hun ♡ and m here if u wanna talk abt smthing bc me too m brokn right now as afuck but fineee m cool with it

    • @user-qt9yn2vp2g
      @user-qt9yn2vp2g 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have just wp if u want it send me msg there (+121640781110)

    • @norax1327
      @norax1327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      imane pissco i have no idea how that app works so im kinda struggling rn lmfaoo

    • @user-qt9yn2vp2g
      @user-qt9yn2vp2g 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hhhh really then u have fb?

  • @jingxianguan3177
    @jingxianguan3177 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So helpful! And feeling much better now!

  • @skonda4
    @skonda4 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome analysis, very clear n straight, beautiful articulation, though it needs watching again n again to understand better

  • @lisellesloan3191
    @lisellesloan3191 8 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    This is making me cry more...I guess what works for me best is still thinking how he is not only not crying over me--he's not even thinking of me! I'm getting an ugly, swollen, tear-stained face over someone who's not even THINKING about me!

    • @SadiLove101
      @SadiLove101 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same here

    • @cchachtel0325
      @cchachtel0325 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +liselle sloan I feel the exact same way.

    • @eddiek5281
      @eddiek5281 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +liselle sloan SAME

    • @marabella2
      @marabella2 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +liselle sloan i understand what you are going through. experiencing the same feelings as you. hugs!

    • @aquacreeper3520
      @aquacreeper3520 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same with me

  • @simpsonsanchez2352
    @simpsonsanchez2352 5 ปีที่แล้ว +494

    I find it hard because i see my ex in my dreams constantly.

    • @viviemcfavour1615
      @viviemcfavour1615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eish too bad

    • @mariakedibone5242
      @mariakedibone5242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      me too😭😭😭 it's been 2 years since we are apart but he keeps on appearing in my dreams and I do not know why😭😭😭

    • @SaGe3744
      @SaGe3744 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Man same here i xanr Sleep anymore

    • @leenbarghothi7798
      @leenbarghothi7798 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tyler Caruthers ikr

    • @Ko-miksPH
      @Ko-miksPH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too😞 he always appeared in my dream

  • @alejandrobecerra4352
    @alejandrobecerra4352 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This really helped me get over someone that was in my mind for the last 2 weeks

  • @Cinnmon10
    @Cinnmon10 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watched you about 5 years ago. I literally put this on repeatedly and went to sleep with it playing and not that, I stopped needing to watch. But somehow YT algorithm this content disappeared. I could not remember your name. But I knew if I searched my saved, subs and liked videos, which I needed to take the time to do, I could find you. Boom tonight was the night. I will never lose this content ever again. Glad you are back. Ti m e for further healing. You saved me out of a deep depression. You are the absolute best. Thank you for making this content. People need it!

  • @jesswood74
    @jesswood74 5 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    What sucks is idk why I still love him, like why

    • @prodbyemgwap1296
      @prodbyemgwap1296 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      exactly me

    • @verdi179
      @verdi179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Because love never dies. It's like a permanent emotion registered in your memory. Also it's because you care.

    • @jesswood74
      @jesswood74 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HUNK - Unmasked yup wrote that a month ago and nothing has changed

    • @Karim-rf5go
      @Karim-rf5go 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope you get over him and i completely dont understand why people do this cuz I would never break your or anybody's heart like that

    • @jesswood74
      @jesswood74 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Update: thought I wouldn’t get over him but I pushed through and can safely say I finally moved on, it’s possible guys just keep your head up and let life take it’s coarse cause everything happens for a reason.

  • @belenpaul1845
    @belenpaul1845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    I just want a hug... From that person

    • @evagacha9808
      @evagacha9808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me too.. (I'm literally thinking about my crush..) - _ -

    • @hnibuns
      @hnibuns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No

    • @FxPanda
      @FxPanda 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌

    • @TURBOSMC
      @TURBOSMC 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Thats the problem, we need them but they dont need us, we dont need them to be happy, but we know that with them we would be happier

    • @dragonwarrior1999got
      @dragonwarrior1999got 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How about a hug from me instead ?? Or a kiss ?? 😀😀😀

  • @reniadevio6697
    @reniadevio6697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for making everything clear . 💗

  • @Jin-pt4en
    @Jin-pt4en 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos kept me alive, it's been 8 years since I binge watch your videos. thank you!

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Text me would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!

  • @zareffx
    @zareffx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Wish i never got close to her!
    Should've realized how fragile our friendship was.

    • @fatimohd3112
      @fatimohd3112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      right facing the same situation 😦

    • @tochi8061
      @tochi8061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yo bro that's happening with me rn

    • @tochi8061
      @tochi8061 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did u overcome it?

    • @LaloKURD
      @LaloKURD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We were close friends before i told her
      I now need her back as my friend again im lonely

    • @tochi8061
      @tochi8061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LaloKURD bro. Same shit with me. I told her I loved her and I lost her as a friend. I need her :/

  • @giogiii8770
    @giogiii8770 7 ปีที่แล้ว +677

    I'm probably the more pathetic one here, I wasn't even in a relationship with this girl. I just realized she was the perfect women for me only after she got into a relationship.... word of advise men: don't wait, take that leap of faith.

    • @ArjanTV
      @ArjanTV 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      nah that girl wasn't your faith bru it was that other guy faith ....

    • @glassystudio
      @glassystudio 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      there... I took the leap of faith

    • @hman191ismyname
      @hman191ismyname 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      what if it ruins a friendship, don't wanna take that chance bro

    • @amber4079
      @amber4079 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +CGs Dollies meh Im WAY TO SCARED to cantact him again he went to another school and he haumts my dreams and thoughts and I hate it so frikin much.

    • @amber4079
      @amber4079 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Luna *haunts

  • @srksameer3757
    @srksameer3757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you are happy then u want to share your happiness with the one you loved the most 😭 so true love never dies

  • @Jolenecorn
    @Jolenecorn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All single people brokenhearted watching this moment please let's hug guys everything will be fine 🥺❤️