It's in my recommendation too and it's maybe because my crush rejected me too😂😂😂 He likes one of my friends and I literally hate my fucking life now! It sucks!
You will. There will come a time when you feel you didn't lose anything. It's the other person who lost you. This is the best time for you to love yourself and improve yourself. Everything heals. It just takes time. But you won't heal until you taka actions. You won't heal if you spend all the time thinking about the other person. Just trust that whoever is meant to be with you, will be with you. So let go of everything and focus on yourself. Then you'll see this as an opportunity to become the greatest version of yourself. And also you are not alone. Good luck....
The moment when you might see them going hand in hand with someone else, you will understand your feeling for them is no longer strong like you always thought as you won't cry anymore, everything becomes so clear in front of you.
Because we are so bless with so much love insides us that we want to share with that sp someone but he/she is just to blind to see and feels it...because they are empty ..
because you want to try to fix your childhood wound by grabbing on to the person who doesnt love you back, but you are actually just repeating the unhealthy relationship.
@@amitmondal4077 Love is ubiquitous and eternal. Just walk into the right church, and you'll feel it again. Romantic love is the most inconsistent of loves. The other forms are all very real and enduring.
I don't think romantic love is real or special, and I think romantic relationships are a bad thing. I think humans should just stop being in romantic relationships. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. Romance seems like an ugly thing. Many fathers and brothers are hoping that their daughters/sisters never date or get married and remain single for their whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships. The overprotective father/brother thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a much better place without them. If someday that the human race ditches the concept of romance and romantic relationships, and got rid of stuff like dating and marriage, fathers/brothers would be happy about it since they wouldn't ever have to worry about their daughters/sisters ever dating if that ever happened. People (especially women) should avoid being in a romantic relationship and be single for life since romantic relationships are dangerous.
@@searain1573 Well, look at it this way, if there were no romantic relationships, no one would be having kids. The human race would cease to exist. Which might not be a bad thing? LOL! I will always believe in love. Heck, all of my songs are about love. Love inspires me, all kinds, even the heart break of unrequited love. Give someone you love a hug and take care.
Loving someone who doesn’t love you back. Is like being in a cave with no flashlight It’s like feeling your heart beat, but noticing it’s not in sync anymore It’s like screaming on top of a building and not having that support in case you fall It hurts And it’s more bitter than sweet. It’s like the taste of lemons but not of the sugar in your cup of lemonade. It’s the feeling of the yearn of having someone next to you in your bed, but looking over and seeing absolutely nothing but sheets.
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@@Saara100 So from what I can tell you wished you were blind? Well I highly doubt you really want that. And how would you even know you were explaining the colours in a way that was actually understandable anyway?
I was the guy who wasn't ready for her... she tried for so long... it took her walking away for me to see what I was giving up... now its too late.. so walk away, you'll either show them the light, or you'll move on to other happiness
I honestly don't know what happened or why he ended it for sure. I'm pretty sure it was someone whom we both know talking sh*t and feeding him lies. He had been kinda mean to me 3 days before.. so I had not messaged him in those 3 days, then out of nowhere, late at night I get the text if doom. No matter what has ever happened before, he always maintained contact and when things went wrong fir him he always came back. Now he's unfriended me on Facebook, and I know he's a lurker.. so I know he's watching what I post. I haven't been posting anything relevant to this situation and I know he's expecting me to message him begging him to come back but I haven't nor will I because I am not the one who messed up and ended it ... It was in a very hurtful way too. I do love him and don't want him to be totally gone from my life. Idk what to do. I feel like I at least deserve an apology, for how disrespectful he had been. If he does message me wanting to work this out.. what do I do? I mean there are things that will have to be different and I do know he has respect for me and that he does care and does have feelings for me. This whole thing is a result of an impulsive reaction out of anger and frustration. We both did things the wrong way, but I apologized for my actions before the conversation ended.
@@jennifermorrow12 don't go back even if he apologizes. I know its sad to realize u have to move on but realize this... he listened to a 3rd party more than he trusted u. Theres no going back from that. Would you really want to marry someone who can do that to you? Instead of asking u about the things he was told, he just believed it. Instead of giving you the benefit of the doubt he just accepted those outside whispers as truth. And you don't want to be with someone who doubts you so easily. Please realize its a blessing in disguise and move on. Heal, because he didnt take your feelings into account when trusting someone else's lies, if u get back with him in the long run you'll already know he has the ability to do it again
@@katharinerodriguez9659 I know. I'm trying to move on and let go. It's just so freaking painful realizing this, and that clearly I never meant anything to him, he always said he trusted me.. if he did this wouldn't be happening. I'm destroyed, I just hurt so much.
@@jennifermorrow12 I get it... im going thru something painful as well. My ex was my first ever bf, and I thought he helped me with a lot like losing weight and dressing better since he wanted me to feel good about myself... turns out he never found me sexually attractive since I was overweight and lied the whole relationship about it waiting for me to lose enough weight for him to find me sexaully appealing... 65lbs and it wasn't enough. And 2 months before I finally ended it (hardest thing I had to do, i only did it because he admitted he didnt feel love for me and I had too much pride to stay) he met a girl at the gym and ended up liking her. She never liked him back but imagine how it felt for him to fall out of love with me (if he ever even loved me) just to fall in love with a girl who put him in the friend zone... so much lies... a lot of pain to heal from... but believe me, u deserve so much better. U deserve someone who loves u as strong as u love. Someone with the same values as you. You got this, I believe in you!
If you truly love someone but the other person doesn't love you, and if you believe that person is a really good person at heart, don't stop loving them but stop expecting from them. It's tough but eventually you will find happiness in their happiness.
When People Make You Feel Unwanted, Don't Leave To Make Them Feel Sad Or Guilty, They Won't. Leave Because You No Longer Have A Reason To Stay. Sometimes You Have To Be Strong For Yourself. What Is Meant To Be Will End Up Good And What's Not-won't. Love Is Worth Fighting For, But Sometimes You Can't Be The Only One Fighting. At Times, People Need To Fight For You. If They Don't, You Just Have To Move On And Realize What You Gave Them Was More Than They Were Willing To Give You And More Than They Deserve.
True if someone really feels connected to you and cares or misses you enough to put effort they will reach out. Or they will stay quiet bc they are not capable of being vulnerable like you are. That is the mismatch and these differences will keep violating one another and keep you stuck in frustrations.
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When you get an asshole that's indecisive, half hearted and is only a part time lover. Then that's the time to put him/her in the trash. They're time wasters and blood sucking vampires that will drain your energy. Stay away from those. 🙏🏽❤
I do blame myself. But I also realise that not all are meant to be loved. After being used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned, I promised myself never to let it happen ever again. Even if this meant never approaching anybody for the purposes of friendship nor to find a girlfriend. My method worked flawlessly. I have not been back stabbed by false friends nor betrayed by a fake girlfriend since 8 August 2000. Of course this means I have no friends nor a girlfriend. However, everything has its price. The price I paid of having nobody in my life is far worth never having to be used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned ever again. I am 100% except from ever being emotionally destroyed by anyone again.
@paktinkami2365 I didn't need to try. I've done that many times before. Most recently, it was 2 months ago. Time is too precious to waste on anyone who does not deserve it from you. You have to have self respect & value yourself 1st before anyone else can respect you and hold you in high esteem.
but everything in their proper boundaries. It doesn't mean that we'll love that person unconditionally forever and let them trample all over us. It means at that specific moment in time our love is for them to keep and we don't ask for anything back.
@@Sari-ip3no True. Love gives it's not about taking. It's not a feeling but rather an act that produces a feeling. Issue is that people assume love only comes in forms of feeling good. Sometimes, it doesn't.
@@Sari-ip3no Thank you. Too many of these types of videos (and comments) paint the object of unrequited affection as necessarily cruel people who didn't give the other person what they felt entitled to. The messages then come across as bitterness and sour grapes: "I was really too valuable and awesome for them to be ready for me, so their loss." I don't see how someone really in love could really convince themselves of this when it comes to (for example) an innocently oblivious object of affections, or a friend who was never unkind to them or never *actually* sent mixed signals. Such sour grapes messages therefore don't really help sufferers, because they're based on a lie. Oftentimes, as you say, people don't end up together because of real lack of compatibility. And what some don't want to hear is that some people are turned down because they do actually need to work on themselves, or because they've behaved in a way that does not facilitate trust.
I gave her everything. I changed my behaviour to suit her. I became friend with her family. I work overtime to buy her things. I googled and learn on how to improve communication in a relationship. But still, she chose to dump me and after a few day she told me she met a new guy. I cried...alone in my room so that nobody can see my weakness. UPDATE : Umm guys, this was like 9 month ago back when I was still sad hahaha 😂 But now,I'm in a new relationship and I adopt 2 puppies. So thanks for the support. Cheers!
@@NARINDERSINGH-vh5zt Who knows?! There are a million reasons why she behaved like that but he should relate the problem to her personality, not her gender.
Sometimes you've done someone wrong and you try to fix it and the other person isn't willing to forgive no matter how hard you try. At some point you have to let go,forgive yourself and say you gave it your best shot.
Sometimes, people forgive but there are still consequences. And sadly, those consequences may mean that things will never be able to feel or be the same for the other person. As long as the letting go and carrying on doesn't mean staying angry at the person for "not being forgiving enough" (which minimizes the pain they received and might not want to have to deal with again), I agree.
The worst thing of being rejected by someone we love is that we convince ourselves that we are not good enough. There’s something wrong with us. I lost myself Shame on me
This is true. We ALWAYS blame us. Whether we're really to blame or not. Ive been divorced 42 years, never remarried, my ex always said it was my fault, I believed him. I tried so hard to be a better wife, mother, lover, housekeeper, just whatever. Nothing was good enough
Nothing worse than loving someone so much , and they repeatedly hurt you . Eventually have to realize that person is just toxic and as much as it hurts the right thing to do is let them go because in the end your better off .
After being dumped by text and then finding out she already had a new man I spent far too long pining for her. Don't waste your energy on someone who doesn't even cares about you. They showed you who they are and those actions spoke volumes. Move on and leave them behind. Find your worth
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""I want you to remember this - You are too full of everything that makes you whole, to ever be loved in halves"" - i will remember this.. thank you so much!
To the girl who I had given my 110%, who I had made my first priority, thanks for treating me the way you did so I could realise how flawed humans really are. I’ll learn from all my mistakes and never make a girl my 1st priority.
Same here man. I treated her like a Queen, she was my world my everything. Apparently love isn't enough these days. I crashed and burned but now I've risen from the ashes like the Phoenix. Now I'm the King. Never gonna let another woman define my worth. I deserve better.
cliff harjo That’s the spirit my brother. Always remember to never let anyone take control of your peace of mind and happiness. May you get what you desire from life 🤙🏻
@Darth Vader OH MY FUCKING LIFE!!!!! I'm in the middle of crying and then come across this comment!!! I literally choked on my fucking tears you MORON hahahahahahahahaha Holy fuck thank you for making me laugh!!! This is the funniest fucking comment I've come across in forever!!!
@@stephenp1368 "You are too full of everything that makes you whole" - The speaker is saying that the person they are addressing is a complete and whole person, possessing all the qualities and characteristics that make them unique and self-sufficient. "to ever be loved in halves" - The speaker is saying that because the person they are addressing is so complete and whole, it would be impossible for them to be loved only partly or in a limited way. They deserve a love that is complete and unconditional. So the sentence is saying that the person they are addressing is so complete and whole that they are not capable of being loved in half or incompletely. They are worthy of a complete and unconditional love
Bottomline: know your value and walk away when you feel like your needs are not being met. Better idea: you are already whole, you just need to find that out for yourself. Anyone who sees you otherwise are just projecting their insecurities onto you. Maybe try this out: Be OK with what you are right now. Just for a day, look for at least 1 thing that makes you feel glad to be you. Writing this for myself so I can reread this in the future. If it resonated with you, please know that you are loved. 💕💖
“Love shouldn’t be a war you have to fight to keep hold of” This made me sad because I realized all my life all I’ve ever done is fight for someone else’s feelings but have never won any battles. And after my recent fight and defeat I’ve been completely burnt out and have become like a shadow going day to day through the motions It kind of hurts to know I’ve never felt love that I dont have to suffer for
You are describing physical grief. Just go through it. Feel it. Know it is transient, like all other human emotion. Find something simple that you love, that inspires you. And hold it. Hold onto it. Make art with it.
This made me tear up. I’m in the process of finally letting him go and begin enjoying the beauty that is of being with me once again. Understanding me. Cherishing me. LOVING ME. You’re beautiful and don’tneed someone else to feel like such 💜
Actually the only thing more exhausting than loving someone who doesn’t love you back. Is falling in love with someone who loves you dearly but you two can’t be together.. that is just painful
Ammar Taicho I'll give you an example because I know what he's talking about. I am Jewish and he's Muslim we are both in love with each other but could never be together because of the religion.
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A failed relationship can turn you into an avoidant person that will push away other people. Even if it doesn't help and you crave physical or emotional closeness to a human being, there are so many living creatures that are able to love unconditionally. I'm thinking about getting a dog or cat to travel the world with. Making lasting memories and experiences is what life is about. ♥️
I needed to hear this. When I woke up, I was struggling between doing activities for myself or reading the messages of people I care about. In the end, my desire to spend time with myself couldn't beat the desire to engage with people that interest me. Yet, when I opened the social app, I realised that I had received 0 messages. Watching this video raised the importance of doing activities with myself above the need to engage with people. Because what I seek from others people, I can give it to myself right now. Thank you for the video. And yes, the google algorithm is scary. It knows everything I write down and use it to find the most suitable content.
Here’s an update from a comment I left 8 months ago ~ . I finally moved on from him, took me around 6 months to slowly change my views towards him (it was an on and off relationship of two years so that’s why it took a bit longer) We still talk but I see him as nothing more than a friend. If he gets someone else, I’ll be happy for him and who knows what the future holds for me :) I’m so happy by myself than dating has no room in my life atleast for now. So a reminder to the ladies. You can do it too 💋❤️ you can learn to love yourself more than anything else in the world.
Joseph Sebastian It's cuz evolution detected that your genes are shit so it forces you to find a much hotter person and do whatever is in your power to extract higher quality genes from it.
We need to first love ourselves. and when we do, and when someone else isn't ready for us, we are strong enough to let them go in love and know there is better for us. Thank you for this beautifully done art piece.
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I promised myself I’ll wait for him till he talks to me again like he did before, I waited for a year. And I remember saying “I’ll give it a year, even if I’m not over him, I would have to move on if he doesn’t try to talk to me.” And now that a year has already passed, It’s time I move on so wish me luck!
I wish you good luck but you can't Stop loving someone you ever loved ! I am also waiting for her ,I fought against my own fellings to prevent myself from falling in love,but see what happened- she is now my friend I know she is with someone else but still I am waiting , so, listen dear plz don't think that you are going to stop loving him ,you may love someone else you may get so much involved that you don't get time to remember him but you cannot unlove someone ...... If I said too much then forgive me I am quite unstable right now I am in her thoughts finding answers to some of my questions 😅😊👍
@@restlessbeing_123 still killing myself a little bit everyday. Giving up on me. Still see my worth screaming inside my head. Knowing exactly why I'm not good enough
I just put all my love into that one person who just played with my emotions......We are not seeing each other anymore but it surely hurts 😩....be happy with yourself becoz at the end of the day no one but only you are going to be With you ....😊😊
Same here, I came to live in a foreign country for her, she said she was coming also, told me to just give her some time. What I finally realized is that she'd stopped loving me along time before but was keeping me open for money. I sent her money on 2 different occasions. After the last she just cut me off.
Nah man, don't question your or their emotions. They were real but it wore off because of circumstances that made your partner feel insecure about themselves. When they retreat and you pull them back, fearing to lose them, they get even more intimidated. In that moment, where you curse the unfortunate timeline you are in, there is no better option than letting the person find themselves. They will take their time and not return. They will find someone new. They may come back but hoping that they will will tear you apart. Every time you talk to them your char lights up only to die out immediately because you know that you are chasing a dream that is most likely not going to come true. Beware, though, because the internet and the world has billions of experiences and they, including me, will give you personal advice. Make your own experience and embrace the warmth and cold of love. Be aware that it has payoff and risks.
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It's literally hell like why on earth you do not even know if you love me or not i mean wht The fuK. And you keep thinking all day all week if they feel guilty or some shit when you start ignoring them and doing the same but they never miss you at all. So I'm left with broken, devastated, burned and tortured heart💔 I mean if you had fkin doubts at the start why did even stayed that long, sometimes i wish i was dead before that confession, at least you made the process much easier to them and i wonder if they would give a shit about it
😢you all speak my heart right now, I mean they'll stay and you'll be giving signs that you're in love and they'll know, but when you finally open up, 😢they tell you they don't love you that they used to, the girl I love told me she has loved me in all ways😔, but she couldn't tell me and I also have always been in love with her, it freaking hurts, sometimes it feels like I should crawl to her begging I've known her for years it's like she should reach inside and see😔
Amen that is so true - I am in hell right now she told me after 36 years of marriage that she don’t have The right feeling fore me anymore - I still love her but this can’t be fixed it’s over
It's even more hard when they break up with you and say that they don't love you anymore. You're so into them because they wanted you like crazy earlier and now they don't. But sometimes when they break your heart, it's just not the right time. But it's okay. People can be evil too. Just be prepared and hope for the best.
Having someone tell you that they’ve fallen out of love with you is probably the most painful thing I’ve experienced. I love him so much (I still do). He wanted me like crazy in the beginning until he didn’t anymore. That notion is close to physical pain.
Last Wednesday my ex, Debora, break up with me after 5 years full of love and she said she doesn’t love me anymore. I feel utterly destroyed, luckily I live with my family and they are staying really close to me
@@UdunHorror I’m so sorry to hear that. I know that feeling all too well but thank God you have your family to keep you close. It won’t be easy but you will get through it. You will feel everything. Every emotion. Every impulse, and you will have to allow all of those feelings that burrow deep beneath you to come out. You will feel every year and every ache in your heart, but this ache will not last forever. And for the days that are extra hard, remember how much love there is for you. 5 years isn’t an easy thing to let go. It will take time and patience. And the sun will rise up again, and you’ll try again tomorrow and the next sun rise until you are healed. I hope it comforts you to know that you were strong enough to feel vulnerable to let love in, despite the ending. You deserve better. So much better. Deborah also deserves better, and I hope you know that it wasn’t your fault. You were enough. More than enough. More than enough to know that you are capable of love again. You are capable of letting go of those memories and renewing yourself with new ones. Learn about yourself. Do things you never got to do in those 5 years. Fill yourself up with love and know that you are loved. You will find it again and when you do, you’ll know it was meant to be. I hope you know this. Much love, Amanda ❤️
@@DavidGonzalez-pj3zi It gets better with time. You learn to live with their absence. My best wishes with you, I hope you take this time to realize how many people really do love and care for you. You will get through it, it’ll take time but you will. Lots of love, Amanda 💕
Because we always want to have something we can't. We used to find our crush to be very beautiful or handsome in our eyes. Like we see expensive beautiful things in a shop. We used to adore it, but when we already have it, we see the ugly and bad side of it. But don't forget that love isn't just happiness it's a more complicated. Love is when you accept everything. Because if you can't love someone on their ugly side you don't deserve the beautiful side of them.
It takes one to know one. You know that the thing or the qualities you love about someone? You yourself already possess the same qualities. That's why you can see it in them! To the beautiful, precious soul who made this video: Thank you. Youre a real one ❤
I just discovered this video, and I needed it. I have been in a relationship for a few years, and despite her being so mean, and saying the most horrible and hurtful things, I have stayed. Why....Idk, maybe like the video said, I just thought that if I tried harder, and kept showing up, she would come around. Bottom line, I am convinced that some people just don’t have hearts or compassion. I am tired of being hurt, when all I wanted to do was love this person and give them the world. Thank you for the video. It was beautiful.
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This was truly inspiring. Every girl I've ever liked never likes me back. At times I do feel quite hopeless, but then I remember that I am a unique and colourful person who deserves to be loved the way I am. So if somebody that I like does not return my affections, that just means that they're not the right one. It will be a long and lonely journey, but I will one day find a girl I like who will feel the same way towards me.
Don't listen to Den (above). 'Not acting like a man' what nonsense! You shouldn't have to truncate or change yourself for anyone. You will find the right girl, who will love and appreciate you, exactly as you are.
@@raindrops21_9 Thanks, that advice really does mean a lot to me :) I never do like when people belittle others for not being manly enough. Thank you for understanding.
@Den Danske Helt hahaha, I'm a girl! So I think I'm well qualified to speak about what women like in a man and it's NOT phonies or men who are too scared to show vulnerability, affection and love. Matthew has just met girls who weren't meant for him. You're so condescending, calling him 'kid' and telling him he's not acting like a man. Why do you feel the need to do that? Very odd.
It doesn’t supposed to “make you feel better”, it supposed to make think and realise you need to change your focus. Enough of being everything about them and start focusing on yourself. As long as you keep expecting someone to make you happy, the longer you will be unhappy. Take your power back, be happy first and then find someone who want to share it with you. 🙏
Excellent videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him)
It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him*
It’s a burning ache that grow deeper until it draws you into an unsinkable pit of despair feeling like your life is coming to an end and you can’t bear your very own existence. I just wish things were different but they do occur for a reason.
The better question is, I wonder how long I am going to put up with someone who doesn't love me one bit. When you find the answer to THAT question, then your life is in your hands. Until then, you are letting HIM decide how happy you will be. Have a good day!
Such a short message, but so clear so powerful. I can't stop crying because I am going through this and to see from this perspective is just too eye opening. Thank you!
I’m also going through some tough times. I was just rejected by the girl I love, it hit hard. I got into alcohol and excessive drinking. I started Puking every night. I was about end my life but my friends texted me right before I killed my self and stopped me minutes before it was to late. If you need help talk to someone don’t give up.
If they say: 'I'm not ready for you' that doesn't mean they aren't ready for themselves, it means you're not their type and they try to be polite. Where is this notion coming from that if they don't like you back they're less or something. I think it's harder knowing that you're not their type. But completely changing for someone is the worst thing you could do for yourself and I think no one deserves to be a second choice and everyone deserves unconditional love. To be loved and love someone at the same time.
You wanna know the worst part...the worst part is...is that they’re never ready for me...never...no matter how much I change, no matter how much of myself I tear off...they never want me
I saw this when it first dropped and it hit a nerve. I was roughly a year into a seperation of the longest relationship of my life as well as my marriage and this didn't mean the same as today. Almost 2 years and I have taken this time to focusing on me and happiness, to figure myself out on my own. I had never been one to be alone much, which I see now as a major tell.. But this time alone was tough and days, I wanted to give up..but as I learned more about myself.. I could feel air fill my lungs again. What does the future hold? No clue and honestly not sure if love and romance are even something I am seeking.. finally I can enjoy my own company...and that's a huge step. So glad I caught this again..
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Can't believe almost 30 & Single. My goodness, no one is there for me, only me in my ups & downs, only me clapping for me, only me to hugging myself in my bad days. They are lucky who have experienced true love. Hope everyone finds their love, peace & happiness.
I loved her... She acted like she also love me.. Now she is tired and saying the truth that she doesn't love me... But I still love her. Edited:- I'm tired of fake peoples
Mine was like that, but she decided we weren’t worth the chance cause there was a possibility of not working out, even tho she “loved” me so much (we were LDR). Now I’m here goin nuts, meanwhile she keeps with her day by day just chillin like none big happened.
"When people say they're not ready for you, what they are really saying is they are not ready for themselves." This is the coping mantra of the weak narcissist. Blaming others for your misery makes you more miserable.
Only this quote is all I am against in this video. If you are garbage and I am not ready for you... WTF?! Maybe something is missing form the quote or perhaps we don't understand it..
I really needed this 😭❤️ I keep hoping that this guy will want me, hoping he’ll change his mind. Deep down I know it has nothing to do with me, it not that I’m not enough. I just think I love him so of course I want that feeling reciprocated. I also know that in a few days I have to let him go, and I know I will move on. It just hurts right now
@@annieann1653 sorry to hear that. Hang in there. Dont bottle up the emotions and dont regret thinking about the good times. It does get better, its slowly getting better here for me. Make this time all about you. Do things you want to do and treat yourself!
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im trying to love this person who is having a hard time loving themselves. As much as i want to care for and make them feel appreciated, it's really hard when they cant see it and love themselves first.
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It’s just so hard Loving Someone for 14 years and been faithful. Than suddenly that like someone else knowing it wouldn’t work out, and coming true. You feel as if your worthless wanting them to know you are there however; I’m just hurting myself because I deserve more than this.
Wow this was timely. I got ghosted and cold shoulder treatment and can't understand why. But this message is spot on. Why couldn't I see that for myself? I think I'll watch this daily until the knot in my stomach is gone.
Why is this in my recommendation...
Update: crush rejected me btw
Lol same here it hurts like a bitch
@@tutasubliminals8946 yes, but now you can move on from that son of a bitch who doesn't Fucking deserve an amazing person like you.
It's in my recommendation too and it's maybe because my crush rejected me too😂😂😂
He likes one of my friends and I literally hate my fucking life now! It sucks!
My long time gf left me for some guy...f#$k i am so lonely now😂😂
Crush dont rejected till know but they didn't accepted me also 😂😂😂
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This comment is underrated!
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Yw! Man..
I said I would never. But now I find myself on the verge of it.
Thankyou.. im tired of pleasing people i loved
This made me feel like I don’t need him as much as I think anymore
I wish I was like you😔
You will. There will come a time when you feel you didn't lose anything. It's the other person who lost you. This is the best time for you to love yourself and improve yourself. Everything heals. It just takes time. But you won't heal until you taka actions. You won't heal if you spend all the time thinking about the other person. Just trust that whoever is meant to be with you, will be with you. So let go of everything and focus on yourself. Then you'll see this as an opportunity to become the greatest version of yourself. And also you are not alone. Good luck....
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The moment when you might see them going hand in hand with someone else, you will understand your feeling for them is no longer strong like you always thought as you won't cry anymore, everything becomes so clear in front of you.
Kyla Mckenna i think this is what’s going to save me
This is by far the best message after dealing with a real hardcore narcissist
When someone says they aren't ready for you it doesn't mean they aren't ready for themselves. They say that because they don't want YOU. Truth cures.
😂😂😂😂😂
And they are a shitty person lol
@J boh Elijah Damn that's good! I guess in the end we all want to be loved.
Agreed.
Spot on!
I was crying over him when finding this video now I’m crying over how stupid I am for crying over him
Kait 😭😭😭😭😭
i fought with my best friend over a BOY... i’m stupid
Isn't love a b@@@&?
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my crush rejected me because i was taller than him
@@gghfbd7416 go apologize to your bestie!!
Why we always love the one's who doesn't even love us back?
Because we are so bless with so much love insides us that we want to share with that sp someone but he/she is just to blind to see and feels it...because they are empty ..
@@rafidaabdulmajid8988 no, human wants what they cant have, its a simple human nature..
Rafidah Abdul Majid wow you damn right
Dracula not entirely true but I understand your point
because you want to try to fix your childhood wound by grabbing on to the person who doesnt love you back, but you are actually just repeating the unhealthy relationship.
This is totally true. In most cases, it is all about them, not you. Move on to someone who is ready, willing, and able to love you.
No. If you are rejected, it most likely means they don't like you. They will like someone else.
I cannot love anyone else. Love is dead!
@@amitmondal4077 Love is ubiquitous and eternal. Just walk into the right church, and you'll feel it again. Romantic love is the most inconsistent of loves. The other forms are all very real and enduring.
I don't think romantic love is real or special, and I think romantic relationships are a bad thing. I think humans should just stop being in romantic relationships. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. Romance seems like an ugly thing.
Many fathers and brothers are hoping that their daughters/sisters never date or get married and remain single for their whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships.
The overprotective father/brother thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a much better place without them. If someday that the human race ditches the concept of romance and romantic relationships, and got rid of stuff like dating and marriage, fathers/brothers would be happy about it since they wouldn't ever have to worry about their daughters/sisters ever dating if that ever happened.
People (especially women) should avoid being in a romantic relationship and be single for life since romantic relationships are dangerous.
@@searain1573 Well, look at it this way, if there were no romantic relationships, no one would be having kids. The human race would cease to exist. Which might not be a bad thing? LOL! I will always believe in love. Heck, all of my songs are about love. Love inspires me, all kinds, even the heart break of unrequited love. Give someone you love a hug and take care.
*Sometimes when you fall for someone they aren’t ready to catch you. Instead they might let you fall crash and break.*
THIS!
There are a lot of playing mind games that “ men” do ....
Yip.
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Oh my God..this was healing
"My heart is at ease knowing that what was meant for me will never miss me, and that what misses me was never meant for me."
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Amen
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Right ! I feel like people need to start treating each other better though
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Loving someone who doesn’t love you back.
Is like being in a cave with no flashlight
It’s like feeling your heart beat, but noticing it’s not in sync anymore
It’s like screaming on top of a building and not having that support in case you fall
It hurts
And it’s more bitter than sweet.
It’s like the taste of lemons but not of the sugar in your cup of lemonade.
It’s the feeling of the yearn of having someone next to you in your bed, but looking over and seeing absolutely nothing but sheets.
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It just doesn't bloody work.
@@Saara100 So from what I can tell you wished you were blind? Well I highly doubt you really want that. And how would you even know you were explaining the colours in a way that was actually understandable anyway?
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😂 it's people like you who share joy in this harsh work
. Ik youll find someone...stay strong
@@jacksummer4041😂😂
Copy that
I was the guy who wasn't ready for her... she tried for so long... it took her walking away for me to see what I was giving up... now its too late.. so walk away, you'll either show them the light, or you'll move on to other happiness
I honestly don't know what happened or why he ended it for sure. I'm pretty sure it was someone whom we both know talking sh*t and feeding him lies. He had been kinda mean to me 3 days before.. so I had not messaged him in those 3 days, then out of nowhere, late at night I get the text if doom. No matter what has ever happened before, he always maintained contact and when things went wrong fir him he always came back. Now he's unfriended me on Facebook, and I know he's a lurker.. so I know he's watching what I post. I haven't been posting anything relevant to this situation and I know he's expecting me to message him begging him to come back but I haven't nor will I because I am not the one who messed up and ended it ... It was in a very hurtful way too. I do love him and don't want him to be totally gone from my life. Idk what to do. I feel like I at least deserve an apology, for how disrespectful he had been. If he does message me wanting to work this out.. what do I do? I mean there are things that will have to be different and I do know he has respect for me and that he does care and does have feelings for me. This whole thing is a result of an impulsive reaction out of anger and frustration. We both did things the wrong way, but I apologized for my actions before the conversation ended.
@@jennifermorrow12 don't go back even if he apologizes. I know its sad to realize u have to move on but realize this... he listened to a 3rd party more than he trusted u. Theres no going back from that. Would you really want to marry someone who can do that to you? Instead of asking u about the things he was told, he just believed it. Instead of giving you the benefit of the doubt he just accepted those outside whispers as truth. And you don't want to be with someone who doubts you so easily. Please realize its a blessing in disguise and move on. Heal, because he didnt take your feelings into account when trusting someone else's lies, if u get back with him in the long run you'll already know he has the ability to do it again
@@katharinerodriguez9659 I know. I'm trying to move on and let go. It's just so freaking painful realizing this, and that clearly I never meant anything to him, he always said he trusted me.. if he did this wouldn't be happening. I'm destroyed, I just hurt so much.
@@jennifermorrow12 I get it... im going thru something painful as well. My ex was my first ever bf, and I thought he helped me with a lot like losing weight and dressing better since he wanted me to feel good about myself... turns out he never found me sexually attractive since I was overweight and lied the whole relationship about it waiting for me to lose enough weight for him to find me sexaully appealing... 65lbs and it wasn't enough. And 2 months before I finally ended it (hardest thing I had to do, i only did it because he admitted he didnt feel love for me and I had too much pride to stay) he met a girl at the gym and ended up liking her. She never liked him back but imagine how it felt for him to fall out of love with me (if he ever even loved me) just to fall in love with a girl who put him in the friend zone... so much lies... a lot of pain to heal from... but believe me, u deserve so much better. U deserve someone who loves u as strong as u love. Someone with the same values as you. You got this, I believe in you!
@@katharinerodriguez9659 I'm sorry to hear that. Thank you, I believe in you too, sis! 🤗
If you truly love someone but the other person doesn't love you, and if you believe that person is a really good person at heart, don't stop loving them but stop expecting from them. It's tough but eventually you will find happiness in their happiness.
But it hurts whenever i see the person i loved the most doesn't feel anything for me dude 😢
❤
I'm only a human ..not a superhuman like realized people such as Jesus, Buddha who can do this selfless love.. lol It's hard..
@@rishijaiswal6621 It hurts, but if you love that person, you loved him/her however they feel about you.
Nooo, don’t do that. Remove that person from your life. You deserve love.
When People Make You Feel Unwanted, Don't Leave To Make Them Feel Sad Or Guilty, They Won't. Leave Because You No Longer Have A Reason To Stay. Sometimes You Have To Be Strong For Yourself. What Is Meant To Be Will End Up Good And What's Not-won't. Love Is Worth Fighting For, But Sometimes You Can't Be The Only One Fighting. At Times, People Need To Fight For You. If They Don't, You Just Have To Move On And Realize What You Gave Them Was More Than They Were Willing To Give You And More Than They Deserve.
I absolutly agree
🖤
I truly needed this . Thank you
True if someone really feels connected to you and cares or misses you enough to put effort they will reach out. Or they will stay quiet bc they are not capable of being vulnerable like you are. That is the mismatch and these differences will keep violating one another and keep you stuck in frustrations.
This is brilliant.
I wish you could see how seriously this message touched me. Its like it was made for me personally. I literally broke down. I have been so broken and lost and ready to explode. This helped. Your great.
Thank you :/
Keep it tight
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You and me both you just can't help who you love it's like every part of you knows that's who you want
Please don’t hate me for this. But it’s you’re*. Hope you feel better buddy!
Tyler Harrison hugs for you my man. It will get better. There is an end to the pain. Be good to yourself first and foremost
I'm tired of blaming myself because they weren't ready for me.
No, you just weren't enough for them. And it's not your fault. You will be enough for someone else.
When you get an asshole that's indecisive, half hearted and is only a part time lover. Then that's the time to put him/her in the trash. They're time wasters and blood sucking vampires that will drain your energy. Stay away from those. 🙏🏽❤
I guess you were not his type.
@@rexsongodinho5623 Thanks, Captain Obvious.
I do blame myself. But I also realise that not all are meant to be loved. After being used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned, I promised myself never to let it happen ever again. Even if this meant never approaching anybody for the purposes of friendship nor to find a girlfriend. My method worked flawlessly. I have not been back stabbed by false friends nor betrayed by a fake girlfriend since 8 August 2000. Of course this means I have no friends nor a girlfriend. However, everything has its price. The price I paid of having nobody in my life is far worth never having to be used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned ever again. I am 100% except from ever being emotionally destroyed by anyone again.
Just walk away from anyone who is wasting your limited and precious time
Try it
@paktinkami2365
I didn't need to try.
I've done that many times before.
Most recently, it was 2 months ago.
Time is too precious to waste on anyone who does not deserve it from you.
You have to have self respect & value yourself 1st before anyone else can respect you and hold you in high esteem.
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Well put. Thank youuu.
but everything in their proper boundaries. It doesn't mean that we'll love that person unconditionally forever and let them trample all over us. It means at that specific moment in time our love is for them to keep and we don't ask for anything back.
@@quockhanhchu5366 Thank you. Yes, I agree with you, very well put!
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That's a recipe of being taken advantage of by the way.
I am too valuable to give myself up to someone who doesn’t feel the same. Thank you
Calm down.
@@Sari-ip3no True. Love gives it's not about taking. It's not a feeling but rather an act that produces a feeling. Issue is that people assume love only comes in forms of feeling good. Sometimes, it doesn't.
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@@Sari-ip3no Thank you. Too many of these types of videos (and comments) paint the object of unrequited affection as necessarily cruel people who didn't give the other person what they felt entitled to. The messages then come across as bitterness and sour grapes: "I was really too valuable and awesome for them to be ready for me, so their loss." I don't see how someone really in love could really convince themselves of this when it comes to (for example) an innocently oblivious object of affections, or a friend who was never unkind to them or never *actually* sent mixed signals. Such sour grapes messages therefore don't really help sufferers, because they're based on a lie. Oftentimes, as you say, people don't end up together because of real lack of compatibility. And what some don't want to hear is that some people are turned down because they do actually need to work on themselves, or because they've behaved in a way that does not facilitate trust.
I gave her everything. I changed my behaviour to suit her. I became friend with her family. I work overtime to buy her things. I googled and learn on how to improve communication in a relationship. But still, she chose to dump me and after a few day she told me she met a new guy. I cried...alone in my room so that nobody can see my weakness.
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@james b that's bullshit!👎
@@paria8721 simp
@@paria8721 then why she dumped him
@@NARINDERSINGH-vh5zt Who knows?! There are a million reasons why she behaved like that but he should relate the problem to her personality, not her gender.
Every relationship you will ever have, is about, how the other person makes you feel.
True love is loving someone whether they love you back or not, otherwise you don't love them, you just love yourself.
There’s someone who love you too and you never love back. Karma is chasing all of us.
True
The end of all of this things is a marriage 🤗. THE END
Yeah but sometimes that person is toxic so we cannot love them
Yes
To me that just sounds like false hope.
Huh. Changed my mind from “why wasn’t I good enough” to “they weren’t ready for me”
One sided love is a waste of time and heartache.
Tbh I just convinced myself starwars and god are two things I love even though it still hurts to have no one lol
But you still love that person. Even if it's one-sided.
Sometimes you've done someone wrong and you try to fix it and the other person isn't willing to forgive no matter how hard you try. At some point you have to let go,forgive yourself and say you gave it your best shot.
Sometimes, people forgive but there are still consequences. And sadly, those consequences may mean that things will never be able to feel or be the same for the other person. As long as the letting go and carrying on doesn't mean staying angry at the person for "not being forgiving enough" (which minimizes the pain they received and might not want to have to deal with again), I agree.
The worst thing of being rejected by someone we love is that we convince ourselves that we are not good enough. There’s something wrong with us. I lost myself
Shame on me
This is true. We ALWAYS blame us. Whether we're really to blame or not.
Ive been divorced 42 years, never remarried, my ex always said it was my fault, I believed him.
I tried so hard to be a better wife, mother, lover, housekeeper, just whatever. Nothing was good enough
@@joycethiery2488 i hear you
😔 I hear you too ... I pray you find yourself happier and stronger 🙏❤️
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Well, being rejected ALL my life so of course theres something wrong with me.
Nothing worse than loving someone so much , and they repeatedly hurt you . Eventually have to realize that person is just toxic and as much as it hurts the right thing to do is let them go because in the end your better off .
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After being dumped by text and then finding out she already had a new man I spent far too long pining for her. Don't waste your energy on someone who doesn't even cares about you. They showed you who they are and those actions spoke volumes. Move on and leave them behind. Find your worth
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""I want you to remember this - You are too full of everything that makes you whole, to ever be loved in halves"" - i will remember this.. thank you so much!
To the girl who I had given my 110%, who I had made my first priority, thanks for treating me the way you did so I could realise how flawed humans really are. I’ll learn from all my mistakes and never make a girl my 1st priority.
Feeling the same bro😶
Same here man. I treated her like a Queen, she was my world my everything. Apparently love isn't enough these days. I crashed and burned but now I've risen from the ashes like the Phoenix. Now I'm the King. Never gonna let another woman define my worth. I deserve better.
cliff harjo That’s the spirit my brother. Always remember to never let anyone take control of your peace of mind and happiness. May you get what you desire from life 🤙🏻
Kim R You’ll get over this brother. Stay strong, tough times never last long but tough people do 💪🏻
Facts bro😔
"You are too full of everything thats makes you whole to ever be loved in halves''
Nilam Zahrin can you explain this sentence
@Darth Vader OH MY FUCKING LIFE!!!!! I'm in the middle of crying and then come across this comment!!! I literally choked on my fucking tears you MORON hahahahahahahahaha Holy fuck thank you for making me laugh!!! This is the funniest fucking comment I've come across in forever!!!
Doesn’t make any fuckin’ sense if you ask me
"Water is made out of water"
That part got me right there.
Love's getting rare these days
@@H.EMPRESS this is true. It’s sucks for the ones that wants love. It’s much harder to trust people
And there intentions nowadays
@@laurarae6070 there is all of us here though willing and wanting love! If there’s someone like you belive there is lots of us ❤️
I second that my man
I know, it's very painful, but you have to let it go and move on. You will always find someone that's better, but first you have to let it go.
"You are too full of everything that makes you whole to ever be loved in halves"
💯💯💯💯
I actually don't get it at all
@@stephenp1368 "You are too full of everything that makes you whole" - The speaker is saying that the person they are addressing is a complete and whole person, possessing all the qualities and characteristics that make them unique and self-sufficient.
"to ever be loved in halves" - The speaker is saying that because the person they are addressing is so complete and whole, it would be impossible for them to be loved only partly or in a limited way. They deserve a love that is complete and unconditional.
So the sentence is saying that the person they are addressing is so complete and whole that they are not capable of being loved in half or incompletely. They are worthy of a complete and unconditional love
Show them what they lost. Make them regret everything they have said and done.
" Be Successfull"
@@teamtiny ummm you are right but when you work harder to show others its kinda become 😅 motivational at least for me!!
She wont regreat.
why should she regret
@@sanjadebbarma2388 idk its her choice lmao... i dont want to think about a 2 yr old comment so whether she die live or do watever idc
They never regret baby😂
Bottomline: know your value and walk away when you feel like your needs are not being met.
Better idea: you are already whole, you just need to find that out for yourself. Anyone who sees you otherwise are just projecting their insecurities onto you.
Maybe try this out: Be OK with what you are right now. Just for a day, look for at least 1 thing that makes you feel glad to be you.
Writing this for myself so I can reread this in the future. If it resonated with you, please know that you are loved. 💕💖
Amazing comment 💖
It’s a proven fact that everyone falls in love more than once in a lifetime.
Beautiful video and gives me hope it’s heartbreaking when the one you love purposely rejects you
Where ru from?
“Love shouldn’t be a war you have to fight to keep hold of”
This made me sad because I realized all my life all I’ve ever done is fight for someone else’s feelings but have never won any battles.
And after my recent fight and defeat I’ve been completely burnt out and have become like a shadow going day to day through the motions
It kind of hurts to know I’ve never felt love that I dont have to suffer for
realise that not all will have their lover in a lifetime, get over it accept the fact..
im going through the literal exact same thing. been a few years now of a rollercoaster trying to curb my feelings about myself because of it all.
love is like a was easy to begin with but very hard to stop
Story of my life.
You are describing physical grief. Just go through it. Feel it. Know it is transient, like all other human emotion. Find something simple that you love, that inspires you. And hold it. Hold onto it. Make art with it.
Love yourself enough to walk away,....What doesn't kill you makes you stronger..
Or stranger...
This made me tear up.
I’m in the process of finally letting him go and begin enjoying the beauty that is of being with me once again. Understanding me. Cherishing me. LOVING ME. You’re beautiful and don’tneed someone else to feel like such 💜
kanva in ang ve but kei chu letting her ania.....anyway lets hope for the best
To be wanted , needed and loved in every way is a true gift that many will never have
Love at first sight is one of the most common eye disease
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@@nickcarter224 fuck off
Actually the only thing more exhausting than loving someone who doesn’t love you back. Is falling in love with someone who loves you dearly but you two can’t be together.. that is just painful
Give us an example, cuz I didn't understand
Ammar Taicho I'll give you an example because I know what he's talking about. I am Jewish and he's Muslim we are both in love with each other but could never be together because of the religion.
Lifeisbeautiful Exceptitsucks yeah it's easy to say when you're not in someone's shoes . In some cases people get murdered for this.
The only thing holding you guys back in this scenario is fear.
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Thank you, Sarah Snow, for being even more beautiful on the inside that doesn't fade for being too full to ever be loved in halves. ❤
To the man who let me go, I just want you to know that I love myself the most and thanks to you I will never again let anyone ever get that close.💔
Melissa Alnardo you’re loved dear remember that ❤️
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I feel the same but I am heartbroken he has moved on I don't Go out anymore I feel like I am so ugly
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It’s a proven fact everyone falls in love more than once in a life time.
When TH-cam recommendations know you best than anybody else...
I needed to hear this.
When I woke up, I was struggling between doing activities for myself or reading the messages of people I care about. In the end, my desire to spend time with myself couldn't beat the desire to engage with people that interest me. Yet, when I opened the social app, I realised that I had received 0 messages.
Watching this video raised the importance of doing activities with myself above the need to engage with people. Because what I seek from others people, I can give it to myself right now.
Thank you for the video.
And yes, the google algorithm is scary. It knows everything I write down and use it to find the most suitable content.
Here’s an update from a comment I left 8 months ago ~
. I finally moved on from him, took me around 6 months to slowly change my views towards him (it was an on and off relationship of two years so that’s why it took a bit longer)
We still talk but I see him as nothing more than a friend. If he gets someone else, I’ll be happy for him and who knows what the future holds for me :) I’m so happy by myself than dating has no room in my life atleast for now.
So a reminder to the ladies. You can do it too 💋❤️ you can learn to love yourself more than anything else in the world.
How did you do it please?
We always love the ones who doesn't love us back.
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It's cuz evolution detected that your genes are shit so it forces you to find a much hotter person and do whatever is in your power to extract higher quality genes from it.
Sad truth
We need to first love ourselves. and when we do, and when someone else isn't ready for us, we are strong enough to let them go in love and know there is better for us. Thank you for this beautifully done art piece.
It’s a proven fact that everyone falls in love more than once in a lifetime.Sometimes no replies is a reply.
Loving a Crush is just like holding painful thorns in hands .She will never ever love me back ! 🤗Just let it go!
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I promised myself I’ll wait for him till he talks to me again like he did before, I waited for a year.
And I remember saying “I’ll give it a year, even if I’m not over him, I would have to move on if he doesn’t try to talk to me.” And now that a year has already passed, It’s time I move on so wish me luck!
Good luck, you can sure do it!
I wish you good luck but you can't Stop loving someone you ever loved ! I am also waiting for her ,I fought against my own fellings to prevent myself from falling in love,but see what happened- she is now my friend I know she is with someone else but still I am waiting , so, listen dear plz don't think that you are going to stop loving him ,you may love someone else you may get so much involved that you don't get time to remember him but you cannot unlove someone ...... If I said too much then forgive me I am quite unstable right now I am in her thoughts finding answers to some of my questions 😅😊👍
I tried to talk to my ex now over a year. But ended up knowing I'd end up in jail if I went over there
@@andyweldon4521 how are you now?
@@restlessbeing_123 still killing myself a little bit everyday. Giving up on me. Still see my worth screaming inside my head. Knowing exactly why I'm not good enough
I just put all my love into that one person who just played with my emotions......We are not seeing each other anymore but it surely hurts 😩....be happy with yourself becoz at the end of the day no one but only you are going to be With you ....😊😊
Same here, I came to live in a foreign country for her, she said she was coming also, told me to just give her some time. What I finally realized is that she'd stopped loving me along time before but was keeping me open for money. I sent her money on 2 different occasions. After the last she just cut me off.
Ohh😠😠
I wish you the love of your life! May God bless you, don’t regret being yourself. You were good, and God will reward you for that .
Nah man, don't question your or their emotions. They were real but it wore off because of circumstances that made your partner feel insecure about themselves. When they retreat and you pull them back, fearing to lose them, they get even more intimidated. In that moment, where you curse the unfortunate timeline you are in, there is no better option than letting the person find themselves. They will take their time and not return. They will find someone new. They may come back but hoping that they will will tear you apart. Every time you talk to them your char lights up only to die out immediately because you know that you are chasing a dream that is most likely not going to come true. Beware, though, because the internet and the world has billions of experiences and they, including me, will give you personal advice. Make your own experience and embrace the warmth and cold of love. Be aware that it has payoff and risks.
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Loving someone who doesn't love you back anymore but used to is more painful. It's literally a living hell every day.
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Speak my heart, girl.
It's literally hell like why on earth you do not even know if you love me or not i mean wht The fuK.
And you keep thinking all day all week if they feel guilty or some shit when you start ignoring them and doing the same but they never miss you at all.
So I'm left with broken, devastated, burned and tortured heart💔
I mean if you had fkin doubts at the start why did even stayed that long, sometimes i wish i was dead before that confession, at least you made the process much easier to them and i wonder if they would give a shit about it
😢you all speak my heart right now, I mean they'll stay and you'll be giving signs that you're in love and they'll know, but when you finally open up, 😢they tell you they don't love you that they used to, the girl I love told me she has loved me in all ways😔, but she couldn't tell me and I also have always been in love with her, it freaking hurts, sometimes it feels like I should crawl to her begging I've known her for years it's like she should reach inside and see😔
Amen that is so true - I am in hell right now she told me after 36 years of marriage that she don’t have The right feeling fore me anymore - I still love her but this can’t be fixed it’s over
Fear is number 1 killer of love, it diminishes our self love and then it disables us from receiving and sharing love. Love comes from within.
It's even more hard when they break up with you and say that they don't love you anymore.
You're so into them because they wanted you like crazy earlier and now they don't.
But sometimes when they break your heart, it's just not the right time.
But it's okay.
People can be evil too.
Just be prepared and hope for the best.
Having someone tell you that they’ve fallen out of love with you is probably the most painful thing I’ve experienced. I love him so much (I still do). He wanted me like crazy in the beginning until he didn’t anymore. That notion is close to physical pain.
Last Wednesday my ex, Debora, break up with me after 5 years full of love and she said she doesn’t love me anymore. I feel utterly destroyed, luckily I live with my family and they are staying really close to me
@@UdunHorror I’m so sorry to hear that. I know that feeling all too well but thank God you have your family to keep you close. It won’t be easy but you will get through it. You will feel everything. Every emotion. Every impulse, and you will have to allow all of those feelings that burrow deep beneath you to come out. You will feel every year and every ache in your heart, but this ache will not last forever. And for the days that are extra hard, remember how much love there is for you. 5 years isn’t an easy thing to let go. It will take time and patience. And the sun will rise up again, and you’ll try again tomorrow and the next sun rise until you are healed. I hope it comforts you to know that you were strong enough to feel vulnerable to let love in, despite the ending. You deserve better. So much better. Deborah also deserves better, and I hope you know that it wasn’t your fault. You were enough. More than enough. More than enough to know that you are capable of love again. You are capable of letting go of those memories and renewing yourself with new ones. Learn about yourself. Do things you never got to do in those 5 years. Fill yourself up with love and know that you are loved. You will find it again and when you do, you’ll know it was meant to be. I hope you know this. Much love, Amanda ❤️
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I definitely feel your pain.. my ex told me this a few days before christmas...
I hope you're doing well.
*hugs*
@@DavidGonzalez-pj3zi It gets better with time. You learn to live with their absence. My best wishes with you, I hope you take this time to realize how many people really do love and care for you. You will get through it, it’ll take time but you will. Lots of love, Amanda 💕
There's a weird pleasure in loving someone who doesn't love you back
I loved a girl for 12 years and I know what you mean
Because we always want to have something we can't. We used to find our crush to be very beautiful or handsome in our eyes. Like we see expensive beautiful things in a shop. We used to adore it, but when we already have it, we see the ugly and bad side of it. But don't forget that love isn't just happiness it's a more complicated. Love is when you accept everything. Because if you can't love someone on their ugly side you don't deserve the beautiful side of them.
EXACTLY!
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"You will never get the best of them"
It takes one to know one. You know that the thing or the qualities you love about someone? You yourself already possess the same qualities. That's why you can see it in them!
To the beautiful, precious soul who made this video: Thank you. Youre a real one ❤
I just discovered this video, and I needed it. I have been in a relationship for a few years, and despite her being so mean, and saying the most horrible and hurtful things, I have stayed. Why....Idk, maybe like the video said, I just thought that if I tried harder, and kept showing up, she would come around. Bottom line, I am convinced that some people just don’t have hearts or compassion. I am tired of being hurt, when all I wanted to do was love this person and give them the world. Thank you for the video. It was beautiful.
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Her loss!!
How are you doing?
This was truly inspiring. Every girl I've ever liked never likes me back.
At times I do feel quite hopeless, but then I remember that I am a unique and colourful person who deserves to be loved the way I am.
So if somebody that I like does not return my affections, that just means that they're not the right one. It will be a long and lonely journey, but I will one day find a girl I like who will feel the same way towards me.
All power to you man, all power to you
Don't listen to Den (above).
'Not acting like a man' what nonsense!
You shouldn't have to truncate or change yourself for anyone. You will find the right girl, who will love and appreciate you, exactly as you are.
@@raindrops21_9 Thanks, that advice really does mean a lot to me :)
I never do like when people belittle others for not being manly enough. Thank you for understanding.
@@matthewodonnellgavaghan My pleasure Matthew! Stay positive, remember: there's a lid for every pot :)
@Den Danske Helt hahaha, I'm a girl! So I think I'm well qualified to speak about what women like in a man and it's NOT phonies or men who are too scared to show vulnerability, affection and love. Matthew has just met girls who weren't meant for him.
You're so condescending, calling him 'kid' and telling him he's not acting like a man. Why do you feel the need to do that? Very odd.
I appreciate your advice but it doesnt make me feel better
Why tho
He is right it just breaks you down more
You are right somehow
Accurate
It doesn’t supposed to “make you feel better”, it supposed to make think and realise you need to change your focus. Enough of being everything about them and start focusing on yourself. As long as you keep expecting someone to make you happy, the longer you will be unhappy. Take your power back, be happy first and then find someone who want to share it with you. 🙏
Excellent videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him)
It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him*
That's incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in bringing back lost loves.
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He told me he loved me. He told me he cared. Why did he have to lie. I loved him. Why couldn’t he love me back.
"Remember when we fought about who loves each other more? See, I was right"
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It’s a burning ache that grow deeper until it draws you into an unsinkable pit of despair feeling like your life is coming to an end and you can’t bear your very own existence. I just wish things were different but they do occur for a reason.
I’ve been in love with the same guy for three years. He doesn’t care one bit for me. I wonder if this will ever go away.
Maybe dating another guy will make you kinda "forget" him? Idk
It will trust me been in your shoes
Leave him he doesn't deserve you
Same here and got dumped for the third time n I still cant let go of him.
The better question is, I wonder how long I am going to put up with someone who doesn't love me one bit. When you find the answer to THAT question, then your life is in your hands. Until then, you are letting HIM decide how happy you will be.
Have a good day!
I’ve been holding onto a love I had over a decade and I don’t underhand why I won’t let her go.
Is it just me people who focused on the editing because it's amazing? Lol.
i think is that u only one who had commentd like this to get likes but failed to attract??😆😅
Such a short message, but so clear so powerful. I can't stop crying because I am going through this and to see from this perspective is just too eye opening. Thank you!
I’m also going through some tough times. I was just rejected by the girl I love, it hit hard. I got into alcohol and excessive drinking. I started Puking every night. I was about end my life but my friends texted me right before I killed my self and stopped me minutes before it was to late. If you need help talk to someone don’t give up.
I believe we are Love itself, we are just so out of tune with our essence we search for validation elsewhere.
Wow ! That was deep and beautiful.
Are we hate itself too?
I got rejected twice by the same girl..it hurts so much yaknow.
I didn't know what to do till now.
Thanks for this video.
Friendzone her and move on...
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Be happy she rejected you and didn't lead you on
I got lead on and then rejected, then she got my hopes up and rejected me again.
When someone tell you that you are their friend, and ghost away or don't show any concern or take effort to spend time with you, that ain't a friend.
If they say: 'I'm not ready for you' that doesn't mean they aren't ready for themselves, it means you're not their type and they try to be polite. Where is this notion coming from that if they don't like you back they're less or something. I think it's harder knowing that you're not their type. But completely changing for someone is the worst thing you could do for yourself and I think no one deserves to be a second choice and everyone deserves unconditional love. To be loved and love someone at the same time.
It’s a proven fact that everyone falls in love more than once in a lifetime.
You wanna know the worst part...the worst part is...is that they’re never ready for me...never...no matter how much I change, no matter how much of myself I tear off...they never want me
I saw this when it first dropped and it hit a nerve. I was roughly a year into a seperation of the longest relationship of my life as well as my marriage and this didn't mean the same as today.
Almost 2 years and I have taken this time to focusing on me and happiness, to figure myself out on my own.
I had never been one to be alone much, which I see now as a major tell..
But this time alone was tough and days, I wanted to give up..but as I learned more about myself.. I could feel air fill my lungs again.
What does the future hold? No clue and honestly not sure if love and romance are even something I am seeking.. finally I can enjoy my own company...and that's a huge step.
So glad I caught this again..
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Can't believe almost 30 & Single. My goodness, no one is there for me, only me in my ups & downs, only me clapping for me, only me to hugging myself in my bad days. They are lucky who have experienced true love. Hope everyone finds their love, peace & happiness.
I loved her...
She acted like she also love me..
Now she is tired and saying the truth that she doesn't love me...
But I still love her.
Edited:- I'm tired of fake peoples
Same
Mine was like that, but she decided we weren’t worth the chance cause there was a possibility of not working out, even tho she “loved” me so much (we were LDR). Now I’m here goin nuts, meanwhile she keeps with her day by day just chillin like none big happened.
Same thing happened with me too bro😭😭
"When people say they're not ready for you, what they are really saying is they are not ready for themselves."
This is the coping mantra of the weak narcissist.
Blaming others for your misery makes you more miserable.
Only this quote is all I am against in this video. If you are garbage and I am not ready for you... WTF?!
Maybe something is missing form the quote or perhaps we don't understand it..
I really needed this 😭❤️ I keep hoping that this guy will want me, hoping he’ll change his mind. Deep down I know it has nothing to do with me, it not that I’m not enough. I just think I love him so of course I want that feeling reciprocated. I also know that in a few days I have to let him go, and I know I will move on. It just hurts right now
Whatever it is that you're seeking from other people, try to find a way to give it to yourself.
My wife left me a couple of months ago. Im exhausted...
I understand that brother its been nearly 2 months here for me since my wife left. The pain of heartbreak is the worst. Hope you're hanging in there!
@@annieann1653 sorry to hear that. Hang in there. Dont bottle up the emotions and dont regret thinking about the good times. It does get better, its slowly getting better here for me. Make this time all about you. Do things you want to do and treat yourself!
My wife/children's mother left me after 5 years for a convicted murderer/rapist serving life in prison 💔💔😖😩😰😵its been a year and a half and I miss the way her eyes lit up the room or the way we finished each others phrases and words I miss running my hands through her brown flowing hair!!
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Anthony Taylor Much love to you. I am going through a breakup of 6 months and when i see your situation it makes me appreciate that my relationship ended sooner rather than later. Stay strong. You are loved
im trying to love this person who is having a hard time loving themselves. As much as i want to care for and make them feel appreciated, it's really hard when they cant see it and love themselves first.
This came up when we finally had our closure after our break up.
I'm so grateful
God will always send one to test ur faith never ever love them more then God🙏❤️
i just cried with this video. you deserved 1 million likes.. love all your messages ❤️ sarah 😍
Omg i dont comment on YT... but this is truly beautiful!!!! Thank you!
To be honest it hurts...more than I could ever imagine, but for this I have only one word...thank you ❣️
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It’s just so hard Loving Someone for 14 years and been faithful. Than suddenly that like someone else knowing it wouldn’t work out, and coming true. You feel as if your worthless wanting them to know you are there however; I’m just hurting myself because I deserve more than this.
I needed that today! ❤️
Wow this was timely. I got ghosted and cold shoulder treatment and can't understand why. But this message is spot on. Why couldn't I see that for myself? I think I'll watch this daily until the knot in my stomach is gone.