Seerah of Prophet Muhammad 69 - The Prophet's Marriage to Zaynab - Dr. Yasir Qadhi | 23rd Oct 2013
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- Title: The Prophet's Marriage to Zaynab
The story of the marriage of our Prophet (ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam) to Zaynab bint Jahsh (raḍyAllāhu 'anha) is drenched in much controversy.
Many Non-Muslims consider it an infatuated love story between the Prophet (ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam) and the wife of his "adopted" son Zayd b. Ḥārithah (raḍyAllāhu 'anhu).
A topic so controversial that later Scholars of Islam completely turned away from addressing this subject in their books.
Join Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi in this special episode of the Seerah of our Prophet (ṣallallāhu 'alayhi wa sallam) as he addresses this controversial subject head-on in an academic & analytical detail, in sha Allah!
A talk not to be missed!
Study the biography of the single greatest human being that ever walked the surface of this earth, whom Allah sent as a Mercy to Mankind.
This lecture was recorded on 23rd October 2013
Massive respect for YasirQadhi for speaking the Truth best to his knowledge & not hiding anything from us. He's gonna be my new reliable Islamic source from now on. Geo!
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One of the most beautiful stories of the seerah and one of the best lectures I've ever heard. May Allah swt reward you immensely for the efforts you put in this one lecture alone.
Assalamu Alaikum. @Yasir Qadhir at the end of the video and also in the beginning you mention from the hadith that Ayesha (RA) and some others said that if the Prophet Muhammad (SM) were to hide any verse then it would be this verse of Sura Al-Ahzab verse 37.
My point is, why cant this verse be the verse that our Prophet was actually hiding. This supports both points strongly but rather changes the whole point of what he(our prophet(sm)) was actually hiding. SO WHAT MY POINT IS THAT WHEN AYESHA (RA) SAID THAT PROPHET (SM) COULD HAVE HID IS EXACTLY WHAT OUR PROPHET HID FOR A LIMITED PERIOD OF TIME.And Prophet Muhammad (SM) did tht cause of emabarresment that you cannot marry someone who you got married to your stepson which is exactly what the the verse is followed with, "... And you feared the people, while Allah has more right that you fear Him. So when Zayd had no longer any need for her, We married her to you in order that there not be upon the believers any discomfort concerning the wives of their adopted sons when they no longer have need of them" Al-Ahzab last part of verse 37.
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@@Zayn-al-Abideen this verse came after to show what prophet saw is hiding
not the verse he is hiding
To be honest I wouldn’t go into too much depth. It is between Allah and the prophet saw. Not a question of life and death is it lol.
Allahmade it clearin the Quran that ‘ we married you to her ‘ khalas.
@@houseofsofia6650 that's not what the person above has said...
This is how ,all religions establish their rule by playing with the emotions of its followers
Khizu2k except no other religion has these kind of discussions
2:55 info about zainub RA
4:00 the prophet asking zainub RA to marry zaid RA
14:20 surah ahzab
24:20 tafseers of the aya version A version B pros and cons
1:10:53 moral of the story
1:11:42 Q/A
Thank you so much Dr. Qadhi. When I first read the story I was also having trouble in my heart. But after listening to the whole thing, I understand it now. Our beloved prophet was a man amongst us who too had feelings and urges but he unlike us didn't act upon it and felt awkward. Allah rewarded him and fulfilled his feelings while keeping his station high among his companions.
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I really don't see a big deal about version A,
yeah
Me too... There was nothing wrong absolutely
Version A is actually a fabricated hadith seen here. I don't understand why Yasir Qadhi doesnt mention this 》 th-cam.com/video/-5K7r8DDM24/w-d-xo.html
@@xamihkhan yes u r right🙂
Wanted to listen the whole series again n again until I die
May Allah Reward Dr. Yasir Qadhi Allahumma Ameen for you Work and Spending Hours searching, again May Allah Reward you Allahumma Ameen
What is the big deal? I don't understand how this is controversial at all.
Same
Only Evangelical Christians run with this story and twist it.
iera uk Exactly. It doesn't bother or sway me at all.
Subhanallah version A is not authentic. This is what the scholars of our time said
the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) saw Zaynab from behind a screen and that he was attracted to her and fell in love with her, and Zayd found out about that and began to dislike her, and he wanted to give precedence to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) concerning her, so he divorced her so that he could marry her after him, none of that has been proven by means of any sound isnaad. The Prophets are of the highest status and are too chaste in heart and too noble and honourable in attitude to do any such thing. Moreover, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is the one who had arranged her marriage to Zayd (may Allaah be pleased with him), and she was the daughter of his paternal aunt. If he had been attracted to her, he would have kept her for himself in the first place, especially since she was reluctant to marry Zayd and did not agree to it until the verse was revealed, then she agreed. This was the decree of Allaah which He arranged in order to abolish jaahili customs, and to show mercy to the people and make things easier for them, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) saw Zaynab from behind a screen and that he was attracted to her and fell in love with her, and Zayd found out about that and began to dislike her, and he wanted to give precedence to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) concerning her, so he divorced her so that he could marry her after him, none of that has been proven by means of any sound isnaad. The Prophets are of the highest status and are too chaste in heart and too noble and honourable in attitude to do any such thing. Moreover, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is the one who had arranged her marriage to Zayd (may Allaah be pleased with him), and she was the daughter of his paternal aunt. If he had been attracted to her, he would have kept her for himself in the first place, especially since she was reluctant to marry Zayd and did not agree to it until the verse was revealed, then she agreed. This was the decree of Allaah which He arranged in order to abolish jaahili customs, and to show mercy to the people and make things easier for them, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
People of nowadays make everything big deal
There is no problem at all. The Prophet salAllahu alaye wassallam was, is and inshAllah will be the perfect human being ever born. The Greatest of all human beings.
@@humanityisislam did you listen to the entire lecture? it seems you've missed some massive points!!
@@georgesomi8542 he had sons, but let me guess, you're the 1+1+1=1 logic following type of person?
@@humanityisislam .
No, Brother that is a False story that Prophet saw her & Felt Attractive to her.
@@worshipperofallah1 but yasir qadhi just said it why would deny the prophet was inclined to her and zaid offered to divorce im muslim but i quite dont understand this story sth doesnt add up
@@firdosabashir6585what doesn't add up?
I do not see any controversy in it. Prophet salAllahu alaye wassallam was a human and if Allah swt has tested him in every shape and form, it is up to Allah.
Allah swt is the creator and owner of all knowledge and HIS sharia. If HE is the witness, no one else is needed. Just ponder on how people of Jannah will be married. It makes you understand. Allah knows the best. Priase to HIM and darood to Prophet salAllahu alaye wassallam.
Episode 52 + 69 Notes (Also posted this on EP52s comments as the FTFs are from both videos)
Background to the Wives of the Prophet SAW
The Prophet SAW was initially married to Khadijah RA and after her death. The Prophet SAW was not seen smiling for many months and he was recommended by Khawlah Bint Hakim RA to take another wife. She recommended him two women and the Prophet SAW decided to marry both. After them, the Prophet SAW married many other women.
The Ummahatul Mu'minin are:
1. Khadijah Bint Khuwaylid
2. Sawdah Bint Zam’a
3. Aisha Bint Abu Bakr
4. Hafsa Bint Umar
5. Umma Salamah
6. Zaynab Bint Khuzaymah
7. Zaynab Bint Jahsh
8. Juwayriya Bint Al Harith
9. Umm Habiba
10. Safiyya Bint Huyayy
11. Maymunah Bint Al Harith
I have already done notes on Sheikh Yasir Qadhis Mothers of the Believers series. Check the comment sections under each video in that series on his MAIN YT channel. So i wont repost them here as its too much information. I will post the FTFs though
Fun Trivia fact: Aisha RA was the Prophet SAW’s favourite wife after Khadijah RA.
Fun Trivia fact: The Prophet SAW actually had a dream that he would marry Aisha RA before he proposed.
Fun Trivia fact: Aisha RA was the only virgin that the Prophet SAW married.
Fun Trivia fact: Abu Bakr RA told Umar RA, that had the Prophet SAW not proposed to Hafsa RA, then he would not have turned him down.
Fun Trivia fact: Aisha RA stated that Hafsa RA was her main competition amongst the wives of the Prophet SAW. The irony however is that, both of their fathers had this same trait.
Fun Trivia fact: When Uthman RA wanted to copy the Mus’haf, he had to obtain it from Hafsa RA.
Fun Trivia fact: Only two of the Prophet SAW’s wives died during his lifetime. Khadijah RA in Makkah and Zaynab Bint Khuzaymah RA in Medina.
Fun Trivia fact: Zaynab RA’s mother, Hind Bint Awf who was a Non-Muslim is known as the most “noblest mother in law in the history of mankind” because she had 7 daughters from different marriages. All of whom went on to marry or give birth to Islamic luminaries. Zaynab RA and Maymuna RA married the Prophet SAW. Asma Bint Umays married Jaffar RA, Abu Bakr RA and Ali RA one after the other. Umm Fadl who married Al Abbas RA. Lubaba who married Al Walid and is the mother of Khalid Ibn Walid RA. Salma Bint Umays who married Hamza RA.
Fun Trivia fact: Hamza RA has a daughter who was later adopted by Jaffar RA, her uncle, who was married to Asma Bunt Umays RA.
Fun Trivia fact: Maymuna RA is the aunt of both Khalid RA and Al Abbas RA.
Fun Trivia fact: Umm Salamah RA was the first lady to migrate to Medina.
Fun Trivia fact: Umm Salamah RA had a deep love for her first husband Abu Salamah RA, to the extent that after her Iddah when Abu Bakr RA proposed to her, she rejected him.
Fun Trivia fact: After the marriage of Zaynab Bint Jahsh RA was when the laws of Hijab were revealed. They were revealed after almost everything else.
Fun Trivia fact: Khamr was made haram, after the Invasion of Banu Nadir and a short while before the marriage of Zaynab Bint Jahsh RA.
Fun Trivia fact: The Prophet SAW told Zayd Ibn Thabit RA to learn Hebrew. This was done so that he can interpret any letters the Prophet SAW receives from the Yahud. Zayd RA did this within 15 days.
Fun Trivia fact: Zayd Ibn Thabit RA was he personal scribe of the Prophet SAW and complied the Qur’an after his death. His knowledge of the Qur’an was excellent.
Fun Trivia fact: Aisha RA stated that, “the first time I saw Juwayriya RA, I hated her” and this was because Aisha RA knew, that the Prophet SAW would find her attractive.
Fun Trivia fact: Aisha RA stated that, “I don’t know of any lady who brought more blessings to her tribe than Juwayriya RA”. This was because her entire tribe became Muslim.
Fun Trivia fact: The chief of the Banu Mustaliq, Haritha Bin Abi Dirar fled and wasn’t captured by the Muslims.
Fun Trivia fact: Umm Habiba RA had the most grandeur wedding out of all of the Wives of the Prophet SAW. This is because the Najashi did it in Abyssinia on behalf of the Prophet SAW.
Fun Trivia fact: Aisha RA’s only love rival for the Prophet SAW was his wife Zaynab Bint Jahsh RA.
Fun Trivia fact: Aisha RA despite considering Zaynab RA to be a love rival. Always spoke of Zaynab RA in high regard and considered her to be the most pious lady she ever saw.
Fun Trivia fact: Zaynab RA was the first of the wives of the Prophet SAW to pass away after him.
Fun Trivia fact: Zaynab RA was given the best Walimah out of any of the wives of the Prophet SAW. Her Walimah included a miracle where the Prophet SAW used a small dish to feed a lot of people.
Fun Trivia fact: The wives of the Prophet SAW were divided into two camps. One led by Aisha RA and the other led by Umm Salamah RA. Zaynab RA was in the latter camp.
Fun Trivia fact: The Nikkah contract of Zaynab RA to the Prophet SAW, is in Surah Ahzab, Ayah 37. Therefore there were no witnesses or Wali needed.
Fun Trivia fact: During Umar RA reign, the Wives of the Prophet SAW, received the most amount of money. More than even the first converts.
Fun Trivia fact: Abu Ayyub Al Ansari RA waited outside the tent of the Prophet SAW & Safiyya RA, all night out of fear that Safiyya RA may harm the Prophet SAW.
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Disclaimer for my Notes of Sheikh Yasir Qadhi’s Seerah of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam Series:
Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh, these are my notes on Sheikh Yasir Qadhi’s Seerah series.
Please note: I HIGHLY recommend that you all watch YQ’s Seerah series, as I DON’T cover every single detail the Sheikh mentions. I made these notes primarily for myself but, decided my fellow brothers and sisters may benefit from them too. I no doubt will have made mistakes in my notes. All the good in these notes is from Allah SWT and all the mistakes are from myself. But, I was very meticulous and tried my best to make sure everything is accurate as the Sheikh mentions it.
You also will see I have added “Fun Trivia facts” under each of my notes. These FTFs are information YQ said that was off topic or not necessary to include in my notes for the episode. But, they were still worth mentioning hence the inclusion as FTFs. FTFs aren’t always HAPPY pieces of information. Sometimes they are very sad trivia. I just want to say that FTF is the phrase I used for them all collectively when making the notes.
One thing I wanted to do but am too lazy to do is, maybe someone could take the FTFs from under each “Episode” and make an Islamic reminder/information IG/TikTok account and post them daily or something. Could be a great form of Sadaqah Jaariyah.
Please keep me in your Duas and ask Allah SWT to forgive all our sins during this blessed month and beyond! Ameen
These women were so lucky , that they able to get married at any point in time. Im 34 & unmarried. Unable to find any suitable spouse because of society i live in.
Where ya from
@@newsspreader4726 Karachi. Pakistan.
@@attivamp6435 impossible , I live in India🙄 anyhow may rabbul hizza Allah help you to find a suitable groom asap. Aameen ya rabb
@@newsspreader4726 Aameen
I will prefer older women to young while marrying . But can't do for the society too.
AlhamdulilLah just managed to finish a lecture today Tuesday 28th September 2021.
Jazakum-ul-Lah Khairan 💓
This Seerah seems to want to emphasize that the prophet was a man who wanted to marry various women because he liked them - not because they actually were strategic alliances and had important reasons. For example, YQ mentions multiple times that the Prophet liked Joyinda (spelling?) and thus married her. He is basing this on Aisha's statement that she was jealous, etc. Aisha was a young and apparently fiery woman who seemed to be jealous quite a bit. It makes much more sense that Joyinda would marry the Prophet as an alliance to save her people. Same with the daughter of the Jewish clan, the daughter of Abu Sufiyan, the daughter of Abu Bakr and Omar, etc., all important alliances. Even the prophet's daughters were married in alliances, etc. This supports the fact that while married to Khadija, there was only 1 wife. But later, once he became a leader, alliances became more important. This would also explain why the Prophet was permitted more wives than the other men.
Well, Respected Sir you have really wrapped up the whole incident with all the objectivity and I am glad that Islam has come out clean as a result. This lecture will obviously go a long way in slapping all those ugly blame games which have been haunting the pious life of our beloved Prophet. Moreover. as you rightly said, humanity needs a human role model who can guide us all by presenting the perfect model and at the same time doing so by living in the same real world as we do and facing the same emotions that we all come across and that is what makes the character of a real man. I am deeply thankful for your efforts and may Allah bless you with his love and mercy. Thanks once again.
None of us are had right to say what is what not feed our Sallolohu Alayhi Vasallam
Version A no problem version B no problem
We shouldn’t really give any opinion it is what it is
Alloh knows better!🤲🏻
Not controvers at all is my opinion....after all,he is a human saw
it doesnt bother me at all!
I love him more becuz of this 8) Sallallaho allayhi wa sallam
Yes he was a human, but to call him the greatest, not so sure? how about if you were adopted by someone, and your adopted father went to your house and you were not present, and your adopted father saw your wife in less clothes and felt something in his heart and you have to divorce your wife and later your adopted father marries your ex-wife? can we call your adopted father a nice person let alone the the greatest person and an example for all times? please I am a muslim and want to die as a muslim but this is troubling me.
@@humanityisislam don't call urself a Muslim doubting the integrity of our prophet is a sin n how can u create a story u haven't read surah 33 al azhaab verse 34 onwards it is indeed a witness that AAP saw wanted zaid Rz to continue wedlock n u call urself a Muslim n ur degrading the status of Aqa saw repent urself may Allah forgive u
@@humanityisislam th-cam.com/video/9B1DRYjriQI/w-d-xo.html
@@humanityisislam Please watch full video...
how people knew he hid a feeling for zaynab(ra) ...did prophet(sm) ever said this???(a big "question mark" it is)....and if the atheists accept the version A then they should also accept islam is the only true religion otherwise this line would not have been revealed in quran-"while you concealed within yourself that which Allah is to disclose."
+truth seeker Exactly. And this is the same problem I have with "satanic verses". If non-muslims are saying satan inserted verses when Jibreel (as) was saying the verse then they first have to believe that Muhammad (saw) is a real prophet and that Jibreel (as) came to him (saw) with revelations.
Zainab(ra) was a beautiful woman and Ayesha(ra) considered Zainab(ra) as her peer in beauty. When Prophet Muhammad was sexually aroused by looking at a woman, he only went to Zainab's house and asked for sexual intercourse when she doing household work and satisfied himself(Sahi Muslim, 3240) and plus Prophet Muhammad was attracted to beautiful women as he himself has said: the things which he loved in this world are women and perfumes(Nisai, 3939, authentic)
@@humanityisislam there is no such hadith u liar hate u
@@believeitornot7786 there is but he just gave the wrong source. It's Sahih Muslim 1403 not 3240.
@@humanityisislam sunnah.com/nasai/36/1
Please read full hadith
Personally, I have no issue with the prophet SAW having a liking for Xainab RA. But I have a huge problem with people saying that he wished for Zayd RA to divorce her. One is a normal human feeling that you can’t control but the other is a consciously made desire which is not befitting of a prophet.
Surely if he (saw) wished for Zayd RA to divorce her RA, he (saw) wouldn't have then told him to divorce her and fear Allah right
@@EsoTarek I should clarify, that if he said it for sure then I will accept it wholeheartedly, but in light of a lack of evidence I choose not to believe it
@@guy5140 Allah knows best
May Allah SWT give you immense reward for doing this Seerah ya Sheikh
Version B looks more appealing..
Whatever it is, it is all Allah's qadr which came as en sunnah for all of us Muslims.
Alhamdulillah
Honestly God bless you for such a thorough explanation and not shying away from the truth, may Allah always keep you steadfast. I think truly their are benefits and wisdom to be derived from these narrations, and there is no shame in truth and in honesty.
I really like Dr Yasir Qadhi very informative I read something about it but he gave me allot of information on this issue. Though I don't see any controversy on this issue. But I can understand that if some one is anti Muslim he would see such thing
If you don't see whats wrong with this then you lack depth. The issues are obvious
you don't see anything wrong just because you are emotionally bound to the fabrication that whatever Muhammad had done in his life ,is for a righteous purpose. But sadly ,you can't explain ,what may be the purpose
@@khizar918 of course theres a purpose ...your sleeping in class...nway the purpose was to allow marriage btw the wife of adopted son and the foster father
@@bellah09 Btw.....i don't want to argue with a dumb ass like you
@@khizar918 OK smart A$$ was not looking for an argument rather was replying to your damn question!!
i really don't know why you made a big deal of version A, i find in it the best reaction to such situation;
he immediately cast his sight aside and left the house remembering God and exalting him, insisted on Zaid to keep her and not divorce her and didn't take advantage of the situation even if he might have feeling for her and he is the ruler on top of that, until when the other party got divorced without him interfering he went and knocked the front door, beautiful story
may Allah reward you with good shiekh Yasir
Regardless..The fact is Version A is actually a fabricated hadith. Yasir Qadhi didn't mention it 》 th-cam.com/video/-5K7r8DDM24/w-d-xo.html
Love My sheikh ❤️
Me too ❤
Salam.
I didn't find any problem or controversy or shame in this marriage. And I would lean more towards version A myself because it seems more logical. If the prophet SA. knew he was destined to marry Zainab RA. like version B suggests then why would he marry his adopted son to her in the first place?!
Also Allah commands Zaid RA. (through the mouth of the prophet SA. In the Quran) to keep his wife when he was ready to divorce Zainab RA. while she is not destined for Zaid RA. to begin with?
JAK Sh. Yasir for taking the time to give us all versions and opinions. May Allah bless you and make this series of lectures easy for you to see through.
Salam
i agree i saw no controversy over this matter .
+jazz1one "If the prophet SA. knew he was destined to marry Zainab RA. like version B suggests then why would he marry his adopted son to her in the first place?!"
If this version is true maybe Prophet (saw) knew about it after he (saw) got Zaid (ra) married to Zainab (ra)?
how about if you were adopted by someone, and your adopted father went to your house and you were not present, and your adopted father saw your wife in less clothes and felt something in his heart and you have to divorce your wife and later your adopted father marries your ex-wife? can we call your adopted father a nice person let alone the the greatest person and an example for all times? please I am a muslim and want to die as a muslim but this is troubling me.
Vegan Pakistani first of all Zaid RA did not HAVE TO divorce his wife,there was no obligation on him , in fact Muhammad SAW suggested against divorce. Zaid RA divorcing zainab RA was entirely his choice .
Zainab was not wearing less clothes she just wasn't in a hijab, those days women wore very modest dresses which covered every part of them. She just wasn't wearing hijab.
If version A is true it just shows how humane our prophet SAW was . Liking someone's looks does not make anyone bad . I like so many Hollywood actors who are not even muslin does that make me bad? You may also like a person genuinely like say a someone you know or a Bollywood/Hollywood actress , will such a thing .make you look bad.
I really did not find this topic controversial.
tuba husain
Well Zaid shouldn't have divorced his wife at all when Prophet Muhammad was commanding him to not to divorce and fear Allah, but he disobeyed Prophet Muhammad and divorced because he knew the intentions of Prophet of Allah to which Allah is saying that he was hiding, so basically Prophet's command to keep your wife was just a lip service.
Not wearing hijab that is what attracted Prophet Muhammad and he couldn't stop himself from appreciating her beauty.
Liking your adopted son's wife and later marrying her is humane?? do you even understand the meaning of humane?? If your husband was an adopted son and later divorces you because your father in law liked you when you were not wearing hijab and later marries you, how can all this be considered humane and an example for all of humanity??
You liking Bollywood/Hollywood actress who dance and sing and performs obscene acts publicly is Halal? You are not an example for all of mankind but Prophet Muhammad is, how can some of his actions and teachings fails the ethical and moral tests of our times?
"I really did not find this topic controversial." - Fine, you may not find this controversial but many will, why didn't Allah protect Prophet Muhammad from such actions which later will become a headache for Muslims and all their energy will be spent in defending his personality rather than inviting humanity to worship Allah???
Honestly I don't see anything wrong with version A
Dear Brother Yasir,
I was listening your speech on Zaynab RA. As you have mentioned version A and version B on the basis of the interpretation of earlier scholars and later scholars. And I felt both types of scholars kept Prophet SA in the center of the story and made him the ultimate actor of the story and relate him to the Quranic Ayat.
But as I was listening you and thinking - I felt why should we not examine the quranic verse keeping Zaynab RA in center?
Why not it would be a probability that Zaynab RA, herself fallen in love of Prophet SA and expressed her willingness to marry him at some stages in Macca before her marriage or in Modina after her divorce and being a true slave of Allah called Allah to make it happen. Mohammad SA was hiding this 'desire' or 'willingness' or 'egerness' of Zaynab RA within him as because he himself was not interested to her.
As sometimes man does not like to marry someone for many variety of reasons. So, we see prophet SA insisted Zaynab RA to marry his adopted Son Zayed and tried to wrap up the whole things. May be Prophet SW thought in that case Zaynab RA will never think about Prophet SW ever as he became technically the father in law.
But Zaynab RA prayed to Allah in a way so that Allah SW pleased to her. And as Allah Himself is the best planner even over our prophet SA - so He Himself exposed it in Quran and ordered Prophet SA to get marry with her by letting the divorce take place between Zaynab RA and Zayed RA though Prophet SA was insisted Zayed RA not to divorce.
If you think the theory might has little logic within it - may I request you to conduct a recap research focusing the quranic ayat and hadith keeping this theory in mind.
At one point Yasir Qadhi says that when Zaynab heard about the prophet's s.a.w.s. proposal she didn't "jump of joy". So I don't think she had a special inclination towards him. And Allah knows best.
+Francesco van spronsen because that is the behavior of a pious person never let overjoy or sadness get in their head rather leave everything in the hands of God the Creator for an assist, and if Zainab doesn't like prophet, she would just refused him right away.
+Abdullah Yusuf
holy s...... man.... that will be one of the greatest plot twist of Islamic history in arabia.
But that's just a possibility.
we shouldn't preach something without knowing for sure
Woww
Subhanallah!! Sheik saab how eloquently explained
First time iam getting this much details in this regard...jazakallah
Both versions are pretty amazing and nothing problematic about them
Version A is actually a fabricated hadith seen here. I don't understand why Yasir Qadhi doesnt mention this 》 th-cam.com/video/-5K7r8DDM24/w-d-xo.html
Yeah I don't think there is anything sensitive. No non muslim can intimidate me with this event
May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!
With due respect sheikh, as far as I know there is a whole fabricator in the chain of narration of version A. Obviously the later books are not going to include a fabricated report. You guys can check out farid's video about Zaynab's (RA) marriage , he clarified it nicely. It's not even in Ibn Ishaq. I don't get why Sheikh Yasir needed to highlight a fabricated story which he himself previously said was pushed by orientalists by ignoring authentic books and they were relying on obscure references.
can u give the link of Farid's video
I just read on islamqa, fatwa number 96464, and taking that information, and what yasir qadhi said, it seems the correct opinion is that he was thinking about marrying her for a beneficial purpose (to show the permissibility). Yet he still said fear Allaah and keep her for yourself.
None of the old texts mentioned "love" entering his heart, including the primary sources yasir qadhi mentioned.
& Allaah knows best
Mahae Alam you have to believe both in Allah and His messengers to be considered a believer.
The statement of faith is there is no God worthy of worthy of worship and Muhammad (s) is His slave and messenger. As for your confusion regarding the prophet's marriages, brother see the prophet (s) doesn't do anything out of his own whims and desires. If you believe in God, then you know that the prophets exactly follow the will of God.
And honestly, that should be enough for us to believe in the prophet(s) and his decisions. But if it is difficult to understand even after that, then remember that the age of puberty differs from person to person, and obviously we're talking about a time which was more than 1400 years ago!
We cant compare the culture of that time with our time.
May Allah open your heart to Islam brother, ameen :)
Subhanallah سُـبْـحَـانَ ٱلله
اَلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰهِAlhamdulillah
اللّٰهُ أَكْبَرAllahuAkbar
لَا إِلَٰهَ إِلَّا ٱللهْ. Laa ilaaha illallaah
I see no problem with version A he is the greatest person indeed SAW but he still a human SAW
THIS is controversy?!
Times I've heard haters bring up Zaynab: 0
Times they've called the Prophet (SAW) a pedophile: LEGION
سلام عليكم.
جزاك لله خيرا..
No problem with Story A or B..
If our Messenger S a w knew She Ra would be his Wife..
That naturally would Be a Strange situation in his Blessed heart .
Since she Ra was a Cousin & Rasul Allah S.A.W knew her before Ayah of Hidjab..
Such Human nature arise in the Interpretations of ..
And we Trust our beloved Prophet Muhammad & Allah Say He is the Best of character..
version B is true to me...because Allah said "that which Allah is to disclose"...so Allah would disclose something ...so what did he disclose?he only disclosed about the marriage not anything like "that prophet(sm) had something for zaynab(ra)"...so it's clear version B is true
@@humanityisislam have you watched the vedio
this is clear ignorant comment
@@humanityisislam wow, what an ignorant and asinine comment.
When did Allah ever disclose to the Sahaba that the Prophet had feelings for Zaynab *while she was Zayd's wife*??
Allah never disclosed that. Therefore, "version A" is false.
صلى الله عليه وسلم ورضي الله عنهم
This is the reason i left Islam. Way too convenient for him to break down any barrier by just saying "Hmm. Well god just told me I can!" He couldnt marry her because it was his sons wife so he said god said "adoption isnt real" Then he couldnt marry her because she said she wants time to think, so again he said god said "you are now married" I mean really? Really?? Its so obvious he used "allah said" to get exactly what he wanted
are you mad??
@@bullseye9723 is there anything false in what I said?
@@sanjayw9878 why dont you understand zaid was not his son!!!
@@bullseye9723 He was his adopted son fool. Then the prophet wanted to marry his wife, and prophet said "ok god just now told me that adoption isnt real, so now i can marry your wife." Lol the timing on that is just too perfect. Why was that only revealed at the time the prophet wanted his an adopted sons wife? Too perfect. He obviously made it up so he could get what he wanted
@@sanjayw9878 brother can you give me refrence where prophrt told he wanted to marry zainab?? instead zaid wanted to give divorce to zainab so many times but prophet told him not to do it!! and first of all .. the prophet would know her beauty at first place itself of zainab as she was his cousin..anyways in the chain of narration version A is daif meaning in chain of narration one person was unknown!
I dn't understand why Prophet Muhammad (saw) didn't married another wife when Khadijah (RA) was alive
I guest out of love and respect for her
1:16:10 -- :'D Loved the response, and the incident with Mugheera and Bareera. "Aren't you amazed at how much Mugheera loves Bareera, and how much Bareera hates Mugheera?"
+abdelbaasit1 I don't know about Abbas (ra) but I am amazed.
Allaah said, "you feared the people, when Allaah has more of a right to be feared," doesn't this hint that version B was more correct? Why would Allaah say that He has more of a right to be feared unless He was admonishing him (similar to surah abasa). And version A doesn't seem to make sense with that part of the ayah. Because it seems he (saw) feared the criticism of the people, and the moonafiqoon did jump on this opportunity to criticize him, which is exactly what he feared. However, Allaah wanted to demonstrate that it is a permissible marriage. And Allaah "has more of a right to be feared"
Can someone explain how that part of the ayah fits with version A?
Jazakallahu Khayran Ahsanul Jaza
Do both Version A and B question whether the Prophet's heart was turned by Zainab or does it accept that the Prophet loved her, and was hiding it.
Version A is actually a fabricated hadith seen here. I don't understand why Yasir Qadhi doesnt mention this 》 th-cam.com/video/-5K7r8DDM24/w-d-xo.html
Still don't have a clue of why adopted and biological children should be different
to avoid confusion in lineage actually suppose i take an orphan girl and educate her but she doesn't becomes my daughter after 10 years i can marry her
if Prophet Muhmaad ( sws ) lusted around for zainab bin jash ( ra ) he could have married her at very first instance and to marry a beautiful girl i don't need to take off her clothes and see her naked to marry her
Ethically if you would like your adopted kid to behave like a biological kid ( Love, Respect, Care, Respect the value system, take care of you in need) I still can't see why differentiate ....
+John Supreem it's just exist in fairy tale it may sound harsh to you on practical grounds if i take a girl and declare her my biological daughter then it means no one in my family can marry her like my brother or uncle etc
yes u may not want to differentiate between adopted and biological and even we are not doing out arrogance like u are nothing ur are orphan
no its comes to lineage and y know issues like property etc
suppose i take a boy as son and I have a young daughter then it may happen that they may fall in to error u know what i mean so i can marry my daughter to him
+Affan Khan rather than they falling in error
defending the undefinable.... Still Mumbo Jumbo.. My adopted daughter is my brothers niece. So tomorrow if he marries my adopted daughter ... I become his father in law and brother.... Unthinkable .... Unethical
At 40:46, it should be corrected as, "I wanna devorce Zainab" rather than "I wanna marry Zainab", isn't it?
I don’t see any controversy in this. Allah ordained it in the holy Quran simple. Allah knows everything.
Version A is not authentic this is what the scholars of our time said
the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) saw Zaynab from behind a screen and that he was attracted to her and fell in love with her, and Zayd found out about that and began to dislike her, and he wanted to give precedence to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) concerning her, so he divorced her so that he could marry her after him, none of that has been proven by means of any sound isnaad. The Prophets are of the highest status and are too chaste in heart and too noble and honourable in attitude to do any such thing. Moreover, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is the one who had arranged her marriage to Zayd (may Allaah be pleased with him), and she was the daughter of his paternal aunt. If he had been attracted to her, he would have kept her for himself in the first place, especially since she was reluctant to marry Zayd and did not agree to it until the verse was revealed, then she agreed. This was the decree of Allaah which He arranged in order to abolish jaahili customs, and to show mercy to the people and make things easier for them, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baaz, Shaykh ‘Abd al-Razzaaq ‘Afeefi, Shaykh ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Ghadyaan, Shaykh ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Qa’ood.
Fataawa Islamiyyah (18/137-141).
Thankyou Shayk Yasir; alot of good information literrally changing my life
Sir I am a Muslim and i am proud of it. I have a question, i do not know
whom to ask there for i am asking you please answer and help me. It is a
controversial story of our Prophet, now here is the question, So
basically when ZAYNAB and her brother refuse the marriage proposal of
ZAYED, Prophet said that she has to marry him and this is what Allah and
Rasul want and you have obey it in other word forced them to marry.
But at the time when ZAYED wanted to divorce her the Prophet said do not
divorce your wife and fear Allah, why he did not said that Allah and
Rasul does not want to divorce your wife and you have to obey what Allah
and Rasul said. Please answer my question. Will be very grateful if you
do so.
Ashraful Islam
because Allah's order was enough
It was the advice of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) to Zayed (ra). However, Almighty Allah Had other will and the divorce did happen. After the divorce the Ayah of marriage Between Prophet Muhammad ( pbuh) and Zaynab ( ra) revealed. This is my understanding.
Hi Brothers, I am confused about one thing and was not able to understand it fully after watching this video. When the Azab Aia was revealed before or after the marriage? Also, was it revealed before Zaid divorcing his wife or after the divorce?
The verse was revealed during the ministry of the Prophet, before Zaid's divorcing. The verse specificaly an inspired verse, thus, its a prophecy!
Nowhere in the Quran that says explicitly that the Prophet married his daughter in law. Verse 37 specifies someone else. Verse 38 refers to who were the women ALLAH imposed on the Prophet and for that verse, we will have to cross reference with 33:50, which shows explicitly who were the women that the Prophet could married!
Besides in verse 33:40 again explicitly proves that the Prophet is "not the father of any of your men". He had no blood relation with any of his sahabah, no sons or step sons.
Peace
Alhumdulillah, JazakAllah khair brother.
I don’t know why this was controversial; it’s normal that our Prophet would have feelings towards women. That’s not surprising
How on earth do you even have sexual feelings for your own adopted son’s wife? Ewwww!
I heard about this just last night and I thought of getting the facts surrounding it. Alhamdulillah, I'm OK with this explanations... In all Allah knows best.
don't understand the fuss. masha Allah great seerah.
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR
15:50 -- SubhanAllaah! Amazing...
Assalamu alaikkum sir...who among our umm ul mumineen ........is mother of orphans or was highly charitable?.......Zainab bint khuzaima Ra or Zainab bint jahsh(Ra)because in some part of the previous lecture I heard two wives died when our prophet saws was alive that was khadija Ra and Zainab bint khuzaima Ra .......I heard that Zainab bint khuzaima Ra was called umm Al masakeen not Zainab bint jahsh (Ra).......I am not saying that our mother Zainab bint jahsh (Ra) was not pious but I heard Zainab bint khuzaima (Ra)was given the title umm Al masakeen
Have you got the answer. Im also confused.
@@A.A. zainab bint khuzaymah ra is umm al masakeen......and zainab bint jahsh ra was said by prophet muhammed pbuh will die among his wives first after his death because she has the longest hand in terms of charity
sheikh from your lectures it's sounds like hazrat ayesha was 'jealous' of lot of ppl. appreciate your truthfulness throughout the series. she was human also after all.
Every woman is jealous of her husband other wives
Always say inshallah :)
Excellent explanation
Version B is correct with out doubt inshallah ...
And you're making this conclusions based on what ? U were there at the time ? 😊
Subhanallah
Any man knows who his wife will be the moment he lays eyes on her... his heart makes the intention of making an honest woman out of her.
That's a beautiful and optimistic way of looking at the intentions of a man...
ماشاء الله
Masha Allah
God reward you with the best!
version B.my humble opinion
Jazak Allah khair brother
MASHALLAH beautifully explained
Dr. Yahir Qadhi knows so much!
I think he should debate Christian Prince.
Dr. Qadhi should humiliate Christian Prince.
I don't think he likes debating.
From what i remember he said that he dissent like debating when he was having dialogues with James white.
اما انتخاب الله ج :
آل ابراهیم ع پیامبر شد
آل محمد ص وصی پیامبر شد
«حدیث سفینه» را جماعت بسیارى از اهل سنت از رسول خدا(صلى الله علیه وآله) نقل کرده اند که برخى از آنها عبارتند از:
1 ـ حاکم نیشابورى به سند خود از حنش کنانى نقل مى کند که از ابوذر، در حالى که درِ کعبه را گرفته بود، شنیدم که گفت: «ایّها الناس! من عرفنى فأنا من عرفتم، و من انکرنى فأنا ابوذر، سمعت رسول الله(صلى الله علیه وآله) یقول: مثل اهل بیتى مثل سفینة نوح، من رکبها نجى و من تخلّف عنها غرق»؛ (اى مردم! هر کس مرا مى شناسد پس من همان کسى هستم که مرا مى شناسد. و هر کس مرا نمى شناسد من ابوذرم. از رسول خدا(صلى الله علیه وآله) شنیدم که مى فرمود: «مَثَل اهل بیتم در بین شما همانند کشتى نوح در میان قوم نوح است، هر کس سوار بر آن شود نجات یافته و هر کس از آن تخلّف کند غرق شود»).(1)
2 ـ طبرانى نیز به سندش از حنش بن معتمر از ابوذر نقل کرده که گفت: از رسول خدا(صلى الله علیه وآله) شنیدم که مى فرمود: «مثل اهل بیتى فیکم کمثل سفینة نوح فی قوم نوح، من رکبها نجى و من تخلف عنها هلک و مثل باب حطّة فی بنى اسرائیل»؛ (مثل اهل بیت من در میان شما همانند کشتى نوح در میان قوم نوح است، هر کس سوار آن شد نجات یافت و هرکس از آن تخلّف کرد هلاک شد. و همانند باب حطّه در میان بنى اسرائیل است).(2)
3 ـ ابن اثیر جزرى در ماده «زخّ» این حدیث را این گونه نقل کرده است که پیامبر(صلى الله علیه وآله) فرمود: «مثل اهل بیتى مثل سفینة نوح، من تخلّف عنها زخّ به فی النار»؛ (مثل اهل بیتم همانند کشتى نوح است. هر کس از آن تخلّف کند به ...........).(3)، (4)
پی نوشت: (1). مستدرک حاکم، ج 2، ص 343.
(2). المعجم الصغیر، ج 1، ص 139.
(3). نهایه ابن اثیر، ماده زخّ.
Please what is ishq????
Passionate love
Very detailed ما شاء الله
Muhammad didn't hide this verse because he wants us to do the same meaning we can marry our adopted son's wives. Simple. I wish he could have hidden all these bad verses so that Quran could have been the Bible and we all could have been protected.
جزاك الله خيرا
Jazakallah khair Sheikh
Baarakallaahu feek 🙏🏾🙏🏾
37:50
Did he just say Asharis are not Sunni?
One question
Ummal Masakeen was Zainab bint Jahash or Zainab bint Khuzaima?
ﷺ
10:15
Jazzak Allah khair shaikh
he is not quoting authentic hadiths pls dont believe him!!
Can u tell me which hadith he quotes is not authentic.
@@nikhatparveen1934 story about zaynab's marriage
@@bullseye9723 i think u didn't even listens his lectures about zainab marriage your accusation to our shaikh is baseless .i am following Shaikh yasir qadri for so many years he never quotes an un authentic narration.so kindly dont tell me who should i listen to or not.
@53 what is Ishk?
I think Ishk means fantasizing...Allahu alam
or infatuation
ishk is love-fantasie
Ishq means love.
Ishq mohobbat both means love
I don't find any problem with this portion of history,why this is controversial.
Less knowledge is very harmful , so please try to watch full video .
Thanks for telling the truth.
1:03:17
Mansha Allah jizaka Allah kheer
1:16:00
There are a few problems with this account.
First, if it is true that Allah SWT predicted that the Prophet PBUH would eventually be married to Zaynab, then the Prophet PBUH is guilty of blasphemy by virtue of acting against the wishes of Allah SWT when he asked Zaid not to divorce her. Unless, the Prophet PBUH was implying that they could both, the Prophet PBUH and Zaid, be married to Zaynab at the same time; an even more immoral proposition. However, the conundrum was relieved when Zaynab was divorced and the marriage with the Prophet PBUH took place.
It does remain a mystery however as to how Allah SWT ‘informed’ the Prophet PBUH about his wishes regarding the marriage, as there is no mention of this in the Glorious Quran, while the commandment about allowing marriage to adopted sons was revealed rather quickly to help out the Prophet PBUH.
Secondly, the important question is that why was it so important for Allah SWT that the Prophet PBUH should marry Zaynab, such that in doing so, Allah SWT had to reverse a perfectly ethical and workable social and moral code, whose reversal simultaneously diminished the status of the adopted sons [most likely orphans] and opened the door for lecherous old men to lust after their foster daughter-in-laws.
There is no rational answer. The apologetic defense of the incident offered by Muslim Apologists thus requires the lowering of the standards of human decency and dignity.
For the Apologists, there is indeed no shame in that the Prophet PBUH desired the wife of his adopted son when inspired to do so by Allah SWT, even when the adopted son was considered equivalent to a biological son in all other respects. The apologists would sooner have people marry their own daughters on divine commandment than go against the wishes of Allah SWT. After all, on divine command theory (DCT), the objective basis of morality is defined as just the will of Allah SWT, no other justification is necessary. The Prophet Lot is on record in Genesis doing exactly just that, i.e. producing progeny with his own daughters. However, DCT is not explanatory in scope and is therefore useless as a mechanism of moral causality.
We thus appear to be checkmated on this issue. We are required to defend, on the one hand, the immoral desire of the Prophet PBUH for a women who was the wife of a person who was his son in all practical respects, and on the other hand, the immoral injunction of Allah SWT in initiating and sanctifying such a union. The only way out of this dilemma is to expunge the offending verses on moral grounds by invoking the logic of textual corruption of the Quranic codices, which is not difficult. That would also automatically nullify all later biographies and commentaries, which depend on the veracity of the offending verse. That would still leave us with having to contend with the brute fact of the immorality of the actions of the Prophet PBUH, but it would absolve Allah SWT from blame. The Prophet PBUH was only a human after all and even a perfect human being is not free of errors, otherwise he would be God, which is blasphemy.
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Their is a major problem with your logic. If God tells you that you will die trying to live is not disobedience to God.
Also wanting to do something is not Haram actually doing so is. You said such a ruling would cause one to want to be with their daughter in law but if there son did not divorce them their is no halal way to do that.
And what are you saying about textual corruption anyone who disbelieves in a word of Allahs book is a KAFIR
If Mughera had truly loved Baghera and treated her well during their marriage, she would not be divorcing him now. Once she has a way out, of course he's running after her, wanting her back and unable to take her rejection of him. But instead of looking at this realistically, we'll just women bash as if it's so funny and then ask the sisters if they have any questions.
How do you know what their relationship was like?
@@EsoTarek I don't; it is a logical conclusion. If a woman is happy with her husband, she will not want to divorce him. She was his slave. Think about it. How kindly did he treat her that she now wants to have nothing to do with him.
@@yasminea7149 you shouldn't jump to conclusions and make assumptions without knowing the facts. For all you know maybe she felt she was suddenly above him now that she wasn't a slave, Allahu alam
@@yasminea7149 Barira and Mughira were both slaves, she was not his slave. As far as I remember from the last time YQ mentioned them, they got married because a slave could only marry a slave so there weren't many good options for Barira. Hence it was her right to push for divorce and Mughira's right to still pursue her to make amends. It doesn't necessarily mean he was mistreating her, it was possibly a situation like Zayd and Zaynab where both were noble believers but simply were not compatible. In fact the Prophet (S) and Umar (RA)'s daughter Hafsa (RA) were inching close to divorce on the Prophet (S)'s end, but that does not make Hafsa (RA) a bad person.
As for the levity in YQ's narration, it's something understood by men. There's no insult to Barira (RA), she's still a sahabiyya above us all in piety. YQ also makes similar quips about Umar (RA), especially regarding his eagerness to discipline people, without crossing the line of being disrespectful. There's no ill will here.
سبحان الله
51:30
I understand that Zaynab RA was a great woman, but isn't Fatima RA much more religious and pious than Zaynab? Because, Fatima RA is going to be the Queen of the women in Jannah!
We need to get out of this comparing status mentality. Sayyidah Fatima is the greatest of women and the most like her noble father, this is true. This does not prevent us from praising others.
+iloveu975 Realize that whenever there's talk about the wives of our Prophet (saw) with the context of jealousy and comparisons and what not, it's always done within the context of Fatima (ra) having already passed away. All the comparisons etc. are about the then living wives of our Prophet (saw).
Fatima (ra) is on another caliber.
This isn't an issue.. especially now.
After this happened people knew and people had no issue.. so why people have am issue now?
mashaAllah
Anyone can tell me because never heard or I missed it in the all seerah did Aisha r.d.a memorized Quran keerim .
Hatip Kazani It took her 3 months to memorize the full Quran after Rasulullah SAW passed away. I forgot which number of Seerah.