Don’t abuse your power [MAID]

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  • @brookealex1871
    @brookealex1871 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    This show helped heal my inner child. I watched my mom go through this and begged her to leave him since the age of 5. But financially she couldn’t support 5 kids on her own. She kicked ass and got us out of there and this show made me feel for her because she went through all of this

    • @Yoyobb409
      @Yoyobb409 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You’re not alone. Abuse is no joke…

  • @yabellparkin5576
    @yabellparkin5576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    My abuser called me boring, more than once. He used it as an excuse for his cheating. He used to say horrible things about me and I think that stuck with me. I never left because I always told myself that I would not find anyone who really loved me, I had no self-love and that was what had given him power over me
    , but now that time has passed, I really do not care that it can be boring because I like calm and quiet , I like who I am. thanks for this video

    • @VEKProduction
      @VEKProduction  3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Im so sorry you went through this! I love this comment, youve come so far sweetie. Im proud of you

    • @JalisaHapp2000
      @JalisaHapp2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You are so amazing ❤

  • @andreamenter4028
    @andreamenter4028 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    This tv show made me realize I was in one myself. I left him a few months later and am now 2 years free.
    I love this tv show so much, i dont know where id be without it.

  • @541Pro
    @541Pro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    This is a truly beautiful edit. You captured the feeling of the show while keeping your normal style. So glad you got around TH-cam’s rules and managed to post again. Keep it up!

  • @someone5502
    @someone5502 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I'm 20 and I'm running away today. I've been abused by my mother my whole life. I dont know what comes next from here but leaving her is the first step I NEED to take to have control of my life.

    • @annag.9350
      @annag.9350 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hey, how are you doing? Sending you lots of love.❤

    • @someone5502
      @someone5502 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@annag.9350 I'm doing pretty good actually, taking it one step at a time

    • @Jennifer-xd1vy
      @Jennifer-xd1vy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey are you good

    • @raylafure7431
      @raylafure7431 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hey, are you okay?

    • @someone5502
      @someone5502 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@raylafure7431 Not great honestly, just trying to survive but feeling lost

  • @robynhames2568
    @robynhames2568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    They captures the feeling of depression so well when she sunk into the couch and felt invisible.

  • @911nmg
    @911nmg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    As someone who's been through this shit, this edit hits hard. Thanks for putting your effort on capturing the show!

  • @jessicacandy1471
    @jessicacandy1471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Danielle deserved so much better

  • @TheOnlyLilBro
    @TheOnlyLilBro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    By far the best show of 2021 so far! And this edit is beyond beautiful! You captured the essence of the show perfectly and managed make yet another incredible video!

  • @MellanClear
    @MellanClear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Absolutely gorgeous as usual, so glad to see you vidding this show!

  • @lovelyrodriguez2190
    @lovelyrodriguez2190 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    "Why don't you like me anymore?"
    Can you take an educated guess?

  • @MsTinkerbelle87
    @MsTinkerbelle87 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    0:35 this scene hit me hard, i wish just once my mother chose me and my safety 💔

  • @peaachybri2005
    @peaachybri2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    this made me finally watch maid and holy shit, the best thing i’ve seen all year!

  • @annedio2828
    @annedio2828 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ive been through this young child with my parents very traumatic. Watching this show hits hard to home. This show very good eye opening message for people that are going through domestic violence

  • @jessicacrow3350
    @jessicacrow3350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ive watched this about 20 times in the last month. You did a really good job. Makes me cry every time

  • @naamamannheim3473
    @naamamannheim3473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I just loved this show, it brought so many emotions, and Alex is just a incredible character, she is po strong and powerful

  • @thelaranaz
    @thelaranaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This show is so special for me, as I've been through all those things myself. Thank you so much for this amazing edit💙

  • @cvsmixsunflxwer8604
    @cvsmixsunflxwer8604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I grabbed my earphones the second I saw this. This show + your editing = phenomenal

  • @Mona-hw2pm
    @Mona-hw2pm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This series is the best emotional series I wasn't even ready for😭❤️

  • @vblood_orchid1628
    @vblood_orchid1628 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have never seen a show so relatable to my life. Everything she has dealt with I have been through. Even now I am not with my abuser but I still feel like I'm in a huge pit. I have tried to dig my way out but things keep tumbling onto me. I have not given up yet. But I don't see myself doing this much longer

  • @leximoore8364
    @leximoore8364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s crazy that the song choice matches the these of the show to me. Like you truly captured the essence of the series in this one 4 minute clip which is crazy awesome 🤩 job well done

  • @MaddieBullock
    @MaddieBullock 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love this series. It’s so good! I wanna read the book so bad!

  • @lilliw3361
    @lilliw3361 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Honestly kinda late to this video but like wow!! This is one of the best edits for any show I have ever seen... Keep up the good work!!

  • @Countryrebelempress
    @Countryrebelempress 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    THE SAME THING HAPPENS GOING BACK TO A NARCISSIST

  • @ql688
    @ql688 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    ❤❤❤ i remember those blank stares for the first few months. Trying to figure out how i was going to make money to raise my two lil ones. I remember this harsh pains and secret cries.

    • @Lrc1313
      @Lrc1313 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do I do it 😟

  • @katerynatokar8520
    @katerynatokar8520 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great edit, watched this show 3 times already, better discovery of the last year for me! This show is special ❤️

  • @AngyReynols
    @AngyReynols 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    LOVE this show and your masterpiece too 💖

  • @kat6038
    @kat6038 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my favourite series of all time.

  • @lihikaveh6464
    @lihikaveh6464 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This edit broke me I can't oml

  • @oni8787
    @oni8787 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I started this today and finished it today. it's so rare for me to do that. Even high rating K-drama bore me out. This is a very different series and I love how it influence me.

  • @xGianniProdz
    @xGianniProdz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A beautiful edit for a beautiful show! Love this so much :')

  • @CountryCowboy008
    @CountryCowboy008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think “She Used To Be Mine” would be perfect for her too 😍

  • @wanderinginthewoods_sam
    @wanderinginthewoods_sam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you for making this video. I'm going through a dark time right now due to my ex-boyfriend. He abused me for six years and it took me a long time to get away from him due to his manipulative tactics, gaslighting me, and telling me that nobody else could love me. He'd also drink and take his anger out on me, and even poured alcohol over my head one night. That's such a mind game they play with you. They'll always remind you that you'll have nobody if you end up leaving them. Another thing they do is try to get you to feel sorry for them, by crying, tell you their depressed, suffering and that it's your fault in some way. He did this many many times when he felt like I was close to leaving him. I spent so many years blaming myself and I've also lost friends. Even on social media, which I rarely log onto anymore, because I came forward with speaking out. People will always judge you. I don't speak about it anymore. I'm now with a therapist and progressing everything, learning to heal and love myself for once before I ever get into a relationship again. I watched this video and cried, but thanks for making this video. I think it'll help other survivors of abuse speak out. Please don't be silent. You are not to blame. "I been on this carpet. I've lost weeks of my life to this carpet." That scene got me.

    • @usmantariq872
      @usmantariq872 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't give up keep going keep improving 👍🍀🍀

    • @leila7812
      @leila7812 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so strong and incredible, I hope you know this and have a wonderful life

    • @Yoyobb409
      @Yoyobb409 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so sorry. My mom went through this exact thing. My heart hurts for her every second and I really wish I could have done more.

  • @fleuve4737
    @fleuve4737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing edit! Thank u for this!💖

  • @tahraethestoryteller6079
    @tahraethestoryteller6079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wish you could see your work through our eyes
    So you know how great you and your work is 💖🤗

  • @Digmer
    @Digmer ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amber saw this and said yeah i could use this.

  • @AmeliaDevitaDixon
    @AmeliaDevitaDixon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Similar to my story, a single mom of 1 yr old and a 2 yr old, when I left my

  • @soleilquantique1210
    @soleilquantique1210 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It went out I was trying hard to separate and I succeeded even if it is still hard sometimes when I share the custody.

    • @VEKProduction
      @VEKProduction  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@soleilquantique1210 im so proud of you❤️

  • @sameraffe7452
    @sameraffe7452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg the Cassie edit got taken down 😞 what was the name of the song in that edit?

  • @brih9613
    @brih9613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is amazingggg

  • @annrosiestein
    @annrosiestein 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lloré muchísimo cuando ella volvió al refugio 😭😭😭😭

  • @cat_fromctr6189
    @cat_fromctr6189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I truly feel stuck

  • @MondoBeno
    @MondoBeno ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nate wasn't really fair to her. He took her in because he wanted to sleep with her. But she wasn't being responsible either. She didn't put her foot down when ex was rude to him, and she should've called to let him know she'd be coming back late.

    • @Exquisite11
      @Exquisite11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nate really loved her don’t say that. It’s unfair for her to be with her ex while his baby sitting her kid and accommodating her

    • @surette2012
      @surette2012 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Exquisite11not excusing anything more so just explaining, but these guys really do swoop in during these tumultuous overlaps and transitions during these women’s lives. These guys just get that ‘I’m gonna save her and she’s gonna owe me so bad.’ fantasies stuck in their heads.
      It was a vulnerable time, she is trying to shake off a trauma bond with her abuser. What should be an interim of healing and getting her on her feet is this Ill timed courtship. expectation of some transaction for his kindness and aid. I won’t dismiss she was rude or confused at times and it can look a certain way seeing a pining guy babysit for the girl he likes while she’s still dealing with her ex .
      Whenever she went to her ex it wasn’t like this romantic escapade, it was scary and sad. Her dissociating and just falling back into bad habit. It’s not a random fact that it takes multiple tries for people to gets away from manipulative abuse.
      If he had any realism in his head he would not expect a relationship in that bubble of time.
      Many irl women Try to date while being stalked/having a retraining order on the ex.
      They go through a lot of shame and guilt by trying to bring someone else to their "drama".
      Idk I just think it’s not a cut and dry he good and she bad situation. Lot of nuance.
      The whole drama of it all is no one is perfect here and there’s a lot of fear, avoidance, and resentment bubbling in her. She’s in survival mode and people get selfish in that state, especially if a kid is in the mix.

  • @sparklejumpropequeen111
    @sparklejumpropequeen111 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love ur account so much!

  • @luazultraducoes5840
    @luazultraducoes5840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wordless 😭

  • @sheisaghost
    @sheisaghost 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Do you know where I can see all the episodes? I don't have Netflix

  • @braca977
    @braca977 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good job !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @oldaccxunt
    @oldaccxunt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    don't mind me, just going thru all my isfp 6w7 characters so I can see how I'm perceived 💗💓💗💓

  • @namianagrande
    @namianagrande หลายเดือนก่อน

    reminds me of my sister :(

  • @amnaahmed7472
    @amnaahmed7472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to avoid copyright claims??
    Plz guide..

  • @Puhdge
    @Puhdge 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Godt nyttår! (Hvis det er lov å si så sent i januar???) Håper ting går bra, sender deg kjærleik! 🥰

  • @lihikaveh6464
    @lihikaveh6464 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you save the clips?? I'm looking for then for ever

  • @jacquinwimbish5103
    @jacquinwimbish5103 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First go around the mother & the little girl won my heart, when she messed up the 2nd time I felt like she the mother deserved it!!! Good series...

    • @juliacoelli3738
      @juliacoelli3738 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Anyone coping with so much stress and whose self esteem has been messed up might be fooled by someone they once cared for promising to change. It happens to so many people, it's an impossible situation and many are killed by those who abuse them. She did her best

  • @For-Ever-A-Blessing
    @For-Ever-A-Blessing 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Iam literally a reality of maid

  • @pridelover6665
    @pridelover6665 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Eternity I love love love love love to love love love love your love your💘

  • @Luvlily_official
    @Luvlily_official 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My favorite series love u alex and maddy 👸👧🏻💖

  • @__Pars__
    @__Pars__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why don't you upload videos like before ?

    • @VEKProduction
      @VEKProduction  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TH-cam deletes almost all my videos

    • @__Pars__
      @__Pars__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VEKProduction why?

    • @__Pars__
      @__Pars__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VEKProduction
      Is it because of copyright?

    • @__Pars__
      @__Pars__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VEKProduction Jeg synes du er veldig vellykket

    • @VEKProduction
      @VEKProduction  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@__Pars__ Nei, Eller jo litt siden yt ikkr liker at jeg lager videoer av ekte problemer, og det er det jeg elsker å gjøre

  • @tiffanymadison6606
    @tiffanymadison6606 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Back song?

  • @frenchenglish8918
    @frenchenglish8918 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Movie name please !!

    • @alainag744
      @alainag744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s a tv show it’s called Maid

  • @franciscagomes185
    @franciscagomes185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i'm watching this show. I love this song. Have you ever watched Cruel Summer? It's a great show you could edit. I'm watching this edit as soon as I finish the show. Love you♥️

  • @Pinshes_Shishotas
    @Pinshes_Shishotas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My girlfriend is a nympho. Is that considered abuse?? Im all dried up and cant say no cause she can cheat on me. Im 19yrs old and shes 20.

    • @rebecamoreira4900
      @rebecamoreira4900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You deserve something better than this. You are young you totally can find someone that treat you better

  • @Brenduh03
    @Brenduh03 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why didn’t she stay with Nate

    • @Gabriella-z2f
      @Gabriella-z2f หลายเดือนก่อน

      She needed to heal

    • @ccutehoney
      @ccutehoney 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      because he was not a good guy. No one should expect anything from you for helping you out. He’s just another abuser but with a better facade

  • @MissB-fg1kd
    @MissB-fg1kd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sean 🥵🥵🥵🥵

  • @redminote5pro399
    @redminote5pro399 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful N Proud Western Society 😅😂