DO NOT CHASE WOMEN.
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- Hey guys, welcome back to another video! In this one I explain why as men you should NOT chase women. I hope this vid can be of resource to you guys out there and with that said I will catch you all in the next one, cheers! :)
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heck yeah, on point bro
Bro!!! Spot on advice!! My last relationship ended. Things like that would of really got me down in the past. I took ALL of that energy and effort I was putting into her and started putting it into myself. I've lost close to 50lbs in the last 3 months and have just completely change my mindset into a positive one. I feel amazing physically and mentally!
Like your video man I had to learn the hard way I’m on some new things now
Butterfly analogy- When we are younger and try to chase a butterfly it would always fly away, but if you stop chasing and stay still , the butterfly would eventually land on you
good example
Wow wow wow....man you opened my eyes 😉😁
What a good point didn’t think of that
I'm a woman, if i feel like the guy is not chasing i think he's not interested and go away, maybe just try to find a spot in the middle
@@5679791 And u start chasing him if u find him attractive.
focus on your mission. man's first priority is his mission, inner strength, ENERGY
StoicTrader fact my man. Let’s get it! 👊🔥
@@imdavidhammond 🏇
The Tao ☯️
💯 soo true my man👊🏾
True man...
My Grandpa said men who chase women never have money
But
Men who chase money always have women
Boys have to work to reach the finish line. Along the way, they become men. Women just show up at the end and pick the winners
That was also a line in the Chris Rock movie. I love my wife
your granpa is a legend
Cause they’re shallow and want money lmao. They gotta chase women cause they don’t have money, but ones who have money get chased
Unless you're a pickup artist, then you turn chasing women into money.
I've done the chasing and it's not worth it , if you get it doesn't last . The best thing in the world is being on purpose , blessings brothers.
JOSE CANAL facts homie. Stay on the mission and life will support the rest. Let’s crush it. ❤️🤟
I didn't chase women and I am still single for many years....no girl approaching me.... Am I still doing any mistake 😭
@@devilisbackk Do you have a life? you still have to interact with them somehow .
@@devilisbackk Do you have women at your job?? Lol
@@grievous5243 no I am a freelance photographer so I hardly come across any singles..even if I meet any girls they are already committed and not available..... 😭
I think with women you just have to show your interest, be clear on your intention and then go about your life. That's different from chasing. Just throw your cards on the table , then focus on you and see how it turns out.
ALcovers couldn’t have said it any better. 🙏
you are absolutely right,without standing aside,this will give you nothing
So true. People say that nobody is chasing them. It’s because they still need to show a little bit of interest
I agree.
Absolutely right Sir. well said it.
I needed this, man. Just do you and the right person will come around. You will attract that person. Chasing people in general is draining. Just focus on you!
Edward Gomez that’s it my man. Keep killing it homie. ❤️🙏
This applies to anything really. I was around negative toxic people for a long time. I took up martial arts and cycling and had 0 friends who shared similar interests. Now I have a lot of friends in both hobbies and even some martial arts friends took up cycling and vice versa. I feel good cuz I'm healthier and live an active lifestyle and have positive new friends with similar interests who push me to progress.
ya ur right but still we if dont chase apply efforts to woo her she will be with someone else this has happened to me a lot when i didn't chase or woo because i focused too much with myself
When you chase the energy you put out there is that they are the prize that has to be sought after rather than you putting it out there that you are the prize and if they want you it's up to them to make it known and make the first move!!
From my experience, chasing women feels unnatural and energy draining. I had to reverse that. It took a while, but I was able to make that adjustment. I just simply focused on me and started having hobbies. What's funny is that whenever I go somewhere whether it's hiking, a basketball game, fishing, or even a restaurant, women would DM me saying that they want to go with me the next time I'm out.
But if you haven't chased how did they get your number? Tinder? Instagram?
tahts good keep posting activities on snapchat
@@brianandrade4763 They were females that I have known for years. I am friends with them on social media.
It felt unnatural for a reason. Cos you know you’re a prize and you shouldn’t be chasing women. If a woman likes you she will have no problem pursuing you even if she’s really shy.
@@michaele.francis Did you post your activities on the social media you had them added on? How did they see and know that you were doing these activities in order for them to want to join you?
“The pain of giving up is the pain of death, but death of the old is birth of the new.” 😊
💯🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💯
You a real homie man. Not talking about bullshit but youre just telling the real lessons
trigger wood try to bro. Wanna give it to you guys straight up!
Self-worth is actually the core foundation to get everything in the appropriate way :)
ratna ningsih 100%! 🙏
it's definitely not okay that we are taught to chase & pedestalize them. don't be so worried about what you say; you're tiptoeing, I know you believe what we are taught isn't okay either
StoicTrader I hear you bro! Just a slightly sensitive topic. I’m getting there. Love fam. 🤟
@@imdavidhammond love your channel btw, it's inspired me to start making more vids too !
I just turned 20 years old , but thanks for this video brother you have saved me from many dangers out there. Best wishes from Panama 🇵🇦
If you’re chasing something or someone it means they are running away, but don’t confuse that with approaching & pursuing a worthwhile relationship if that’s what you desire
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When men chase women or feel the need is because theirs a mother wound. Men are looking for emotional connection, to be hold, supported etc. Things that we should have received from our mothers but it didn't. For those who were raised by single mothers is more apparent. Heal your soul, face your wounds and take time to heal, the rest will fall into place. You will feel whole. Take care
I feel what you’re saying about how you don’t view anyone as inherently better than you, no matter how successful they are. Ever since I began focusing on my purpose, nofap, career, fitness, etc...I stopped watching movies/TV shows and stopped watching sports. I used to look up to people I watched on TV but now, none of that means anything to me. Couldn’t care less
That's it man. We all start somewhere and it always seems "impossible" until it's done. Let's crush it man!
Extra note:Fk social media.
@@rememberfreedom5925 But yet your on it. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Top quality youtuber rising. Great Content
Mr. Banerjee Love my man. Let’s bring it all home! 😤❤️📈
No matter how fat or ugly they are and how hot of a guy you are, chasing doesn’t work. Been doing it since 12, its never worked for me.
I believe that there is a difference between pursuing and chasing. I think chasing implies that a person is immature as an individual and has undefined objectives so he/she often come across as desperate to find anyone. However, pursuing is a strong masculine characteristic and people who pursue in relationships or in other domains of life are more grounded in who they are, they know and value themselves, they have pre-established standards for relationships and they invest only when they identify a compatible individual who is worthy of their time and energy.
This is a men's platform woman!
I agree... men who don't pursue seem feminine. Very unattractive.
Regardless of words being used, men putting too much focus on women are not attractive nor masculine.
So true!!
Hell No!! make her chase, men do not pursue like the old times anymore and pursuing women not values your manhood, this is just a statement that women like you say to make men "pursue" her, get the f out of here, this is men space no need women distorting our views and today we do not simp like in the 1950
I'm a woman and still appreciated watching this video
I'm a man and appreciate you 👍
Yes same I’m a woman and I agree with him
@@samiuddinomer2538 Simp
David is the type of dude, we need in our circle. Glad we are able to connect with you via the internet man. Keep up the great work!
You flipped my life’s thinking process-much needed. You are definitely underrated!
Cheers bro glad it could help man! :)
Don't chase women chase your dreams
the reason you are chasing is because she is running from you...work on your purpose, your health, adopt masculine hobbies, get your finances in order and watch them chase you! As a man, we are given the burden of performance and without that we are not deemed high value which is why you are chasing them! #purposeoverwomen
Aligns with what my grandma says, have female friends and just pick the best one. But above that focus on your business.
Love that you reply to every comment not many youtubers do that mad respect 👊
Josh B cheers josh! I try to while I still can. You guys are amazing and I want this community to be a power team! 🙏❤️🔥
Hey! I'm a woman, clearly..I stuck around and watched this until the end, and appreciated it! I honestly agree with building self worth and not putting the opposite sex on a pedestal, regardless of whether you're a man or a woman..because you'recoming from a place of lack. I appreciated your perspective. I do think gallantry is starting to die out, which is a shame. I wish men did pursue more, like apparently they did back in the day. Now I feel it's cocky men just dropping bait and breadcrumbing, ghosting and expecting women to throw themselves and lowering their value. Please remember to still respect women. This makes dating difficult as woman are more free and some, desperate! I wish we could see each other more as human, less game-playing, that's all. If you are genuinely interested in a woman, then you still should chase her, but a woman also needs to give back to a man who sees her as worthy. We're missing the point. The law of attraction can work both ways. Maybe we both have something to learn?
Exactly 🙌🙌🙌🙌
I agree with you, speak with women when you see she is worth your time. Never think „I must have this and that“ because it means you don‘t have it. Just act like you have everything you need and approach your goals with that feeling of „having it all“. That is all you need to know.
i fully support your comment and this whole scenario is so damn complicated thats why i have been single all my life 😰😰
Mate, thank you so much for creating this channel, and the content that you spend time making.
Very glad i discovered you. All the best.
Glad I found your channel man! So excited for more videos. All love bro ❤✊
There is so much truth you spoke bro. I can feel it, I needed it. 👏🏻👏🏻💪🏻
you're a real one and i can feel your energy and the deep work youve done from here, i got goosebumps even, good work man, subscribed
I love your videos; the energy you put into them is contagious and inspiring. You're just 22, yet I feel like you're up there with other 'hyper-charismatic' personalities in the self-help / seduction world. I appreciate how you consciously get out of the way of your message, so that it comes through cleaner, if that makes sense. It also makes me more curious about you, haha. Keep it up, bro!
This is the video that started it all. Love you man 💯
Just the Fffffffn video i needed! You spoke to me on so many levels man, and is exactly why you have gained a sub.
Needed to hear this. Very insightful video! I appreciate you David.
the energy im giving this girl is outta the roof , we were in a 3 year relationship and we’re on a break right now bc we’re too toxic and we’re trying to better ourselves.
She decided to take a break which i never ever wanted to do BUTT i’m givign a lot of effort to make this work but i see no effort comign form her yet she’s the one that decided to take this break but is not contributing on fixing anything.
This doesn't mean you can't be bold and walk up to a woman and start a conversation, get her phone #, etc. None of that implies that you're chasing them. However, if they pull away or don't contact you after you've established something, don't keep pursuing. Let them come to you. Keep focusing on YOU.
Thanks man, I like how you're humble and respectful to other people giving advice etc. Liked and subscribed!
DoubleOh9 cheer! Appreciate you 🤟
Thanks bro. I needed to hear this. I need to learn to focus internally on myself more instead of focusing on trying to make a relationship work or chase the girl.
Man I really needed to hear this. I appreciate it. Liked
This was awesome to watch. Focusing on yourself and building your self-worth is what you need to attract the right people into your life.
Straight to the point and no bs! Good video as always.
Dinag Sengupta CHEERS! 😁 it’s what I try to do fam!
Or like Kratos said "Atreus, you hunt, you don't chase the deer"
sorry dad
exactly
@@user-nc3oj2yd7x do not be sorry. Be better
Exactly what I needed to hear at this right moment.Thank you
This is excellence. Thank you for the service.
This is powerful man. I’m self improving 🙋🏽♂️ & this is the kind of content that needs to be heard me/others
buncoko Mrwetyana 100% man! Keep it up homie! 🤟🔥
Thank you, i see how you apply spiritual practices to self development and i love it
Dude you’re on fire! Blessings 🙏🏼🙏🏼
You’re a smart dude broski. I appreciate the info!
I began to focus on myself after I left a toxic relationship. I've been focusing on myself for 2 months and I've been attracting positive people. Even more women
Best video you’ve made always go back to this certain video when I need abit of motivation
Found this Channel recently.Its Got a good vibration.
Subscribed cause all you speak is realness and truth. Keep spreading your messages brother ✊🏻
God bless you brother, you‘re so right. Focus on yourself...
I stopped the video in mid,blocked some girls on social media,then again came back to watch the remaining.
Yeah haha I deleted my inbox from someone and left her on read
Really need this. Awesome message, man
Thank you for this wonderful video David. I needed it.
Thanks so much man, this is so helpful 🙏🙏
Why does it feel like you popped up in my life at the right time .. dude it’s crazy how you’ve existed grew up to like this and to this exact moment and we connected.
Teaching me how to be a MAN I swear if i see a women was in the comment taking notes I’d be hella surprised
True, I started working on my inner core
And it’s amazing
Chase excellence not women stay on your purpose Guy's
smeefy zeus that’s it man. Men chase championships, women chase champions. 🏆
I see your comments on mystics channel ..✌🏻
I hate it when my homie betrays me and the other homies for a girl that doesn’t like him anyway
Agreed 🙌🏼 Focus on YOU and everything will just fall into place. Great and simple content 👍🏽
Yeah but this doesn't get you laid
@4:52 "Instead of diverting or disseminating your energy outwards to these things".......YES!! Awesome!!😂
Going behind a women always made me weak as it made me Emotionally attached to them.
Excellent work you´re doing here!, also you energy is deep and very well rooted, you´ll achive great things! I´m glad I found your channel, greeting form Mexico
This is sooo true... couple of months back a girl chased me ( took my number from my frnd & started texting me) and she said she had feelings for me.. n now i dont even knw if she misses me..
Conclusion : STOP CHASING GIRLS. and focus on yourself more♥️
Spot on advice, and every video is superb!
Dude just subscribed watched 2 of your videos before this. Have to admit you are pretty good and speak naturally keep it up
Thanks man. You know back in school I got jealous of everybody. But since I watched your this video, I understand now. Thanks for the help!!
Appreciate this man 🙏🏻
thanks for this. i needed to hear this!
P K 🙏🙏
Thanks for your advice. Will do the maximum to follow.
You make really good videos man. Keep it up. I look forward to seeing your upcoming videos.
Thank you for this, really needed it. I’ve been struggling because I feel like I need new friends and I have had the same old friends for quite a while now. I just want new people to come into my life and make my life more interesting
Deasley then DO IT! You got this. Cut out the negativity and ask for new friends. Keep your eyes out and continue to work on yourself. You got this man ❤️🙏
I’m diggin this video bro 👏🏾🍾
I made this mistake before, so i agree. I'd rather women chase ME.😂 Anyways, great video, David.👍
Maurice Cooper love my man. Let’s keep CRUSHING it 2020! 🔥🤟🙏
Woman would chase you if she’s interested so you’re doing the right thing.
I am really on this man letterally working on to myself worth my game my inner strenght all of thing that ive dream for and i know that im doing good and what i am thankful of coz is it all just come just naturally because of my listening to you man, Thank you very very much in helping me reaching my goals in life..More power david!
thank you man for your words of wisdom now i will only focus on my spiritual, mental, and financial health. and what benefits me
You couldn’t have said it better. Once you focus and harness that energy it will for sure transform and blossom to more and better things. Only time will tell if your up for the challenge ✔️
Nyjah Huston's twin!
Good content brother.
been doin this bro even before i watched your vids. you're goddamn right bout it. im still on the process and i can feel the effects now after 5-6 months. slow progress but its all worth it. 💯
Thanks for the video man
I've been working on myself the last 5 years and haven't chased girls. I've been single for 5 years with no texts or girls ever hitting me up. I started trying to meet girls and I met a girl that broke it up because she doesn't know what she wants. Not chasing has never worked for me or anyone I know.
That's fine, live the single life then or meet women that know what they want.
1:05 what you're trying to say is we have been told that we have to earn their attention by working hard and impressing them. That they're the prizes and we must qualify ourselves to have them. Also that they're the prizes without any effort just for veing women.
That's the mainstream media narrative.
Very good content bro...we must focus on our dreams and careers rather than focusing on girls.
Career and family is the basic requirement...Very strong message for today's youth who ignores their parents and career for girls. Keep it up bro, full support to you👏👏👍
suraj mishra 🤟🤟🙏
100% agree with you focus on you the right one always comes when you ready
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Lol I was Waiting For The F Bomb😂. Great Video. Straight Facts.
That's really truly ! Am done to that as from today
Enlightment, peace, love and abundance
Thanks man, this helped big time!
God bless you always bro. You did help a lot of men. May God always give you wisdom. 🤗
Good shit bro. Very insightful video. God bless.
I REALLY LOVE YOUR VIDEOS BRO❤️!!!!
Thank you David I appreciate it. From saudi arabia 🇸🇦
Tell it! Great content here. 👍
All these relationship coaches telling me to post on social media to show the other person the fun they're missing out on. I think that advice will drain masculine energy. Just move on, if they come back, they win. If not, who cares? They lost. Know your self worth!
Man you are the best talker i have ever heard you are special keep going
Speak with people when they are worth your time. Never think „I must have this and that“ because it means you don‘t have it. Just act like you have everything you need and approach your goals with that feeling of „having it all“. That is all you need to know and all you need to do.
oh bro you say realyy great things , u have my support
Chase success first, then women will chase you. 100% true.
(Once you get the money, you get the power, when you get the power, you get the women.)
-Tony montana
Always believe that you are unconditionally GREAT! I am not great because I am rich or I am good looking, I am great because I am great!