Pay Attention to How a Woman Compliments You
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For the guys that seem “perfect” .. we most likely was the nerd first & then learned how to embrace our social masculinity
Yes😂😂
@@Mrxplosiongaming we the ones smart enough to actually become a student of the game
Dam dis facts
One of the most insulting things a woman could say to a man is "If only I could meet a man like you." Hold up...what?! *Record scratches*
That statement has *never* made sense to me. The things that come out of some women's mouths.
Thats some bullshit
It's important to ask what she means, listen, don't react and receive the information before you assume, usually incorrectly bro
I feel like this is my biggest problem women find me to be good looking, but I tend to mold my personality to whom I with or talking to. I’m a deep person but most girls I attract aren’t on that type of stuff so I have to dumb it down with them
I used to do that.
True! I've experienced also
I completely understand this
Ams said if a women got initial high interest . Stfu ... can only take your way out the ass at that point . Ask follow up questions and expose less about you
I’ve been thru this
Women tell me that i'm very cool, and laid back. However, quite ofter I hear women say they have a hard time figuring out my intentions.
Keep it that way.
theglv you aint do anything wrong i am same way however watch what they do not say!!!
Keep em guessin 👌
I had my college advisor tell me that a few months ago. I had went on a college school trip with her and 5 other students. We had rented out an air Bnb for 3 days. She said those exact words to me. What does that mean?
Like what you're saying about analysing compliments to calibrate and categorize a woman's attraction. Would just like to add that compliments can also be used to flatter and disarm, lowering your defenses.
Pay attention to how these compliments make you feel. Consider the possible motives behind such compliments even though it may seem cynical. Women are not as "mysterious" as the culture tells us and can be just as calculating. Many men crave the approval of women on a subconscious level and we secretly cherish these compliments. If possible step outside yourself and be the watcher of your own emotional state. Stay frosty.
Good points.
Gona check out this Midnight series.
agreed. feeling is powerful. even for us men. sure women are more emotional but that energy wave of how it translats to your energy is important. good point
Facts
Women rarely complement on the regular. I take notice at any complement. Hitting the gym resulted in more complements.
That's what the gym does for a women.
I just saw this comment after I've commented . It's true.
that's that lust
Walking downtown to the office a woman stopped me, started a conversation and called me "georgeous." That's still in my head. LOL
Women are such horrendous liars, it's unbelievable
When I meet a man I pay attention and give compliments to his body if he is fit. I work out, and I want and I appreciate a man who works out as well. And I'm not thinking right away that I'm going to have sex with him, no no no, that ain't happening that soon. You see it's not just about the body if you pay attention. A man who works out, puts in effort, it's determined, it's motivated, it's not lazy, he wants something he works for it, he's not at home playing video games, he;s in the gym putting in effort. He's not being lazy hangging out with friends at a bear, he's in the gym putting the effort. All people want to be fit. Is there anyone who doesn't? But who's willing to put in the hard work, to be diciplined to get it? It's not that superficial as you'd be inclined to think. It's not at all actually. This tells me that if he wants something he is willing to put in hard effort to get it, and that he's not lazy.
Well said.
Curiously, what's your favorite bodypart on a man?
Actions speak louder than word's.... Check body language. When sum1 is super attracted 2 u. It shows even years lata real deep deep stuff...pay attention folkz
Exactly.
I always hear that I’m so charming and funny I just say to myself I’m bout to charm u and laugh yo drawls off real talk
LOL
Women have complimented me on my chill attitude. They say they can really be themselves around me. They can let their guard down. I just see it as some are undercover freaks and I found a cheat code to get them to come out that shell LOL
Get upload Bro. Rom!!
Thank you.
Heard that plenty of times too. Always seen it as an open door.
Wats the cheat code bruh
@@ceddy1232 being non judgemental , expressing and embracing sexuality
How do you get shy women to come out of their shells?
I also pay attention to a woman's compliments, because it can be a peak in to how men have treated her before. If a woman compliments me on being such a gentleman for doing simple acts like paying for our first date, opening a door, and pulling out a seat....then that means she probably isn't used to a man doing those types of things for her....which may seem great on the surface and in the moment, but usually leads to a woman self sabotaging down the line, because they think it's too good to be true "for them."
A woman called me adorable one time...That kind of offended me. I'm like I am a man don't be calling me adorable.
id argue that women telling you you're too serious, really means they'll think twice on trying to manipulate you (or play games), which i feel is a good thing, being they know from the get go you aint the one to fuck with. Trust me i get that compliment all the time, it used to bother me before, but i now feel like its an advantage over brothers who get played..
i wish i got the more handsome comments Rom lol, wear that shit proudly
Good points.
I love how u say breastesssessssssss lol
True fam! You definitely have to pay attention to what a woman says and how she says certain things to you as a man. From there, you'll know whether or not if she's being friendly, flirtatious as well as coming on to you! If you really understand and know women, you'll know if she's seducing and might not compliment you at all verbally, instead she'll keep it to herself but you'll still catch on to what she's trying to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That's true.
I find compliments to be empty observations that can later turn into insults over time.
Taking notes thanks, Rom. To all my veteran who served this nation. Thank you as well.
Thank you for your service fam.
When home girl said she thought you played for da Washington Redskins 😂😂😂
LOL! I'm naturally stocky.
This segment was enjoyable a great number of average women are not drawn to a "renaissance" men and vice versa usually due to an inferiority complexities that subconscious festers internally they would rather interact with a layman which they perceive to be a balance meeting of the minds if you will sometimes a complement is a bad sign depending on the tonality of the individual as for the philosophical thinker he should afflilate with cultured women and it call it a day brainy people are more prone to be loners if they are not intellectual stimulated by someone on par with them.
Real talk.
how i feel alot of the times. lot of others are deep thinkers like that.
What if a woman tells you that you smell good?
Best compliment I’ve ever received was that I give off a sense of serenity, like the Buddha
Whenever I compliment a man on something I admire about him, it excites me to want more of him. In other words, I want explore other dimensions of him whether it be sexual, platonic and/or spiritual. But it’s rare that I experience sapiosexuality within a man.
She Socratic Stoic if or when you do you're be married in no time talking like that. Believe you me!
She Socratic Stoic,
Those sapiosexual men are out there. Just keep doing you.
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She Socratic Stoic hello my beautiful black queen I like your mindset I usually don't like dark black women but you are beautiful so for the first time I think I could see myself with you
X X I cannot express enough how your cultural home environment factors into how we interact with the opposite sex....even the same sex too. Admiration on both sides of the sexes are fundamentally important.
Uncle rom.. with me it's the smile and the voice... people love it. It's to the point I got my 2nd job, and people wanting my number emails for inquiries etc. Crazy
I’m a big fan of the Midnight series as well. I adopted a lot of characteristics from what I have read in these books. Just didn’t move to Islam. But I agree with and respect a lot of the precepts.
iNSANE> I get the same eye compliments....yet I always get labeled as being too serious too., & on 1 hand I appreciate they see I'm not for the bullshit, yet on the other hand it causes a problem with my peculiar sense of humor & wittiness that they usually take offense to. I rather be appreciated for my personality, it took a lifetime to _mold_ it.
It’s a very important advice! I’ve failed at that many times.
Learn from the experience.
Thanks Rom
My own sisters always say that "i look like a player" lol. I used to wonder why i attracted those superficial bitchty women and my sisters gave me that:" bro you look like a player, that's why" which is shame since i like the really kindhearted/sweet girls. Regarding compliments from women, younger girls are really scared to give compliments in person (but might instead do it via social media and stuff). But older women (40+) compliment my eyes in person. I guess the older females are more secure with themselves and aren't as afraid to give superficial compliments.
Good observation.
Those younger women think they're to good to give compliments. They think you should be giving them compliments. The older women know they don't have beauty on their side to play that game anymore especially with a young man. ~Game~
Most compliments i get from women is the word u cute or handsome. I use to be like it damm that mean something but now im older im like those words don't mean nothing. Unless she called me hot or sexy then i dont care other compliments women say lol
Women also get surprised at a handsome man with intelligence. Turns them on and can scare them also, for a variety of reasons. In all honesty I don't like when women compliment me about anything whether it be my looks, intellect, manners, humor, etc. Women don't hand out compliments like men do, so usually when they do it, it is because they aren't used to experiencing it. At that point that's a "her problem" and not a "me problem." Women want rarity, but when it comes into their lives the vast majority don't know what to do with it.
I just was telling my co-worker the same thing pay attention when a women talk to you it tells you alot good vid
Truth.
Yeah I get that so often, they come at me on the lust aspect but they literally have to adjust themselves to me when it comes to my logic and all, atleast with a good majority of them. And yeah if there are just staring you down and really really checking you out and you’ve said nothing yet 9 times out of ten it’s a lust thing ease up with being deep with those.
Real talk.
Compliments are different than shade. That's this message.
Usually when a woman compliments me it's usually something about my appearance. (Usually my eyes, my hair or my complexion).
This has been the case for over 10 years but usually I don't take it too seriously because it usually leads to nowhere or has no real purpose outside of a one night stand here and there.
I mean if a woman thinks my eyes are sexy or my hair is ''beautiful'' then after a one night stand or a three months, she would still want to sleep with me right?
Usually these women who compliment me on something physical, after a couple months they won't be sleeping with me anymore and I'm thinking ''If she was so attracted to me and nothing changed, why the hell did she disappear on me?I'm still the same guy she was attracted to and nothing has physically changed about me''
These compliments are only good for realizing what women are attracted to you for physically and to use that to your advantage. That's all.
Well said.
There has to be something deeper then your looks to lock in a quality women. Women of low expectations and quality will go off your looks mostly. Others of value and mature mindset will look within your character and values to determine if she'll leave or stay. Keep your spirits up out here and remember you're enough brother.
God bless ⭐
Liking the video before listening
Uncle Ronny. Kills it
Man big F'n facts
Rom Is Rom!
Yep.
Rom Wills lmfao! 🤣
Compliments don't mean attraction unless you linking that with her actions
Depends.
@@RomWills True. Don't forget to checkout some of my videos you may like some of them
I had to go upstairs to the office today and all the women work up their and this one Julie said to me "you're hot stuff arnt you kie" and i was like, "Do you think so Julie?" and shes like yeah. I couldnt tell if she was like serious or just having a joke, sometimes i just cant tell.
I needed this tonite bro, everything you mentioned Is just what I’m going through. You talking to me like you there while it’s happening. Now I have to push up on the situation. Thanks brother💎💎💎💯💯🔥🔥🖤❤️💚🦍+🦁=👑♠️
verbal compliments are still not up to the par....
physical compliments..like touching your bicep saying man they are huge and strong...
touching your beard..
etc......
these are absolutely sex interest....
I talk about that in my book.
Rom Wills 👍
CYB ZER0 same for hair eh? " i like your hair? You have nice eyes? Physically attractive
Antonio Wolfpack 1990 yes same for hair, eyes, eyebrows, eyelashes in that order lol
@@tinasnow2006 what about "I like your shirt" is she thinking bout the shirt or how I LOOK in it. 💪
I had a lady friend tell me on multiple occasions about one of her friends who kept talking about me having nice shoulders even though me an fed her friend never met. Couldn’t pull the trigger really until I saw a picture of who this friend was. Even after telling my friend to put me on my friend didn’t do it because she liked me as well
Great video on my way home from work
Thank you.
I ain't check out the homie big Rom in a minute, & however I do check out what women say about me. Not because of insecurity, it's really gives me the insight on what they really like about me or sensing. For example, women say I'm intelligent and I can make them laugh. However I'm quiet. They wonder why I don't talk to them.
Seen.
DATING MINDSET AND RAW GAME AFI KINGDOM. All i know give them too much they are spoil..give them little is unsatisfied..give them the right mix is jackpot 🙉🙉🙉🙉
The quiet me just like a unpredictable mystery and actions
Good teaching right here. Because so many men (especially in my old neck of the woods) were stripped of these manly instincts growing up by their single mothers and pastors, they don't have the ability to discern being placed in a select or non-select category.
As you well know, I have much more on this, but one thing's for certain. If you ever hear the words 'nice', 'kind', 'sweet', 'safe', or 'good' pass her lips in regards to you or she compares you to inanimate, non-threatening objects like a teddy bear, she's officially placed you in the friend/GLB zone. Don't try ladder jumping because you might not like the landing...
Lol this is 100% false. I know a very elegant, beautiful high class model who have ONLY dated the guy that was privileged to gain those type of compliments from her as she's very picky and a good woman. Don't assume everything, it's the fastest way to misery and misinformation fellas 🙏🏻😎 God bless
@@t4t806 bruhhh, that's stay....1% out of 99%🙆🏿come on. He's referring to the majority, not minority.
Had a woman tell me she likes me with facial hair, she is attracted to men who have beards. This is after her smiling each time she saw me over months.
This tells me know she wants to take it to the next level.
Pay attention to compliments, sometimes it could be dangerous as well.(No one ever fucked over someone with a Frown they fucking over with a smile).
keep up the great work uncle rom
Midnight (aka Mayonaka) series! A favorite of mine as well.
Hollywood is scared to make a movie about him.
Rom Wills He’d be a powerful archetype for brothers to model ourselves after.
Check out my video tomorrow.
I just say thank you and keep it moving.
Real talk
Thank you.
Got the girl without dressing up . She talking about how I walk and shii lol. I knew she wanted to talk frfr at this Halloween Event for the kids and I took a picture w her ppl
Great lecture
Thank you.
Love the info bro
i also think contex matters. i use to work with this girl who talked about a customer we would have lke say "he's fine" blah blah. in a work meeting someone said he was a bit dopey, but she said " well he is really nice though". so i had to wonder if she meant nice guy or he's nice like kind, easy to be around. because she has called him fine.
If she ain’t putting her hands on you and feelings you then all that other shit don’t matter lol
Compliments to some (me) are subjective. Validation of looks is mostly never needed, it's an ancient shit. I'm interested in how quiet I can be, without turning her off, however still interesting.
Real talk. Cool video.
THank you.
Sister soldier is one of my favorite writers.
I love her stuff.
Qari Nero coldest winter ever ....classic
Absolutely....💯🔥💪👍
Yes sir and thank you.
Initial complements can definitely help you engage a woman's level of interest and/or how she sees you if you can pick up on it.
Side Bar: Rom don't you hate when you try to plug a friend in with a random woman like, "Hey, my friend thinks you're attractive and wants to get to know you". She responds, " Oh that's cute but what's up with you? What's your name?" Everytime I'm like Damn! LOL.
She wants you more.
Rom Wills I know fam. I told my boy sometimes you have to fire from the hip.
@@RomWillsyes and no. She want him more in a way because he being upfront and straightforward. Meaning no fks given. Women like that. They already know we want the 🐱. That's what women want to hearing but never experience. Rip Alan Roger Currie. The king of honest verbal seduction.
@@donnelle222yup
Good stuff, Rom. Keep up the good work.
Thank you.
Like Ya Messages OG👊😎 Keep Em Comin👍
Late but if a girl I barely see all of a sudden in a convo with 3 other people compliments my body and says she likes it, that’s it’s her type, what does she think of me?
She likes your body.
Thanks for the upload uncle Rom
You're welcome.
Rom how to react when a woman compliments you? Usually i just blush and say thanks
Best thing.
I refrain from complimenting men in person. I remember giving a compliment to a man and my hubby was so mad with me. He said I can think of it but he think those compliments should reserve for him only, since then, I think about my words. For example, like most Europeans black or white etc, I like black American accent, especially the males On my travel with two friends last year, we definitely asked questions just to hear their accent. No ambiguity, it's just the tone of their voices and their pronunciation.
I understand.
tweety's life with all due respect your significant other may have a self esteem issue or possibly insecure for him to be upset by suggesting compliments should be reserved for him exclusively yes their should be a respect factor always present considering you're married and providing you don't cross the fine line. It's somewhat like saying you should be only attracted to him only knowing full well that's not true nor realistic.
He's seems very confident, he doesn't have self confident issues, it's just he wanted to be the world in my eyes. You are right, of course he believes that I should only be attracted to him, in a way I think he's right. My hubby is very competitive in every way. He doesn't like I smile or compliment men, he rather I just not say anything. I have never heard him compliment a woman in front of me so I think I should have being more considerate, yet for me it was nothing until he pointed it out.
tweety's life You are respecting your husband is loving him. I want to give you props for that. 😉
Well that's normal. That was our promises from the beginning. I got married when I was 18, so I grew up with him and alongside him. We believed hat he's the head and eyes of our family and I'm the heart and ears.
What's up Uncle ROM.... I see you keeping it real over there.. excellent video my brother
Thank you.
I gonna be honest my first reaction is always denied here. Doesn't matter how beautiful she is but for some reason women love that about me and then wanna get close to me.
Great Advice.
Good stuff brother
I had a woman compliment me on my eyes and it was all out of the blue....I was kinda taken aback lol
She said I smell real good , then a few minutes later she texted me I smell really fucking good and she still smells me on her...but she’s still a bit distant
She made the compliment so profoundly the second time about how good u smell (man up
Although smelling good is a good thing but a woman can b attracted fresh man #cons-pros ,
I noticed that women will really like you you give them attention. You can tell they are into you then I try to have a deep intelligent conversation. Then they act like they just want to look at you but really don't talk just smile at you. I'm new I'm wondering if you made video how whenever a handsome guy just has a casual short conversation how women think you are flirting. Then when you are not interested after a while they mean mug you. As if you promise them something. You simply smiled and basically said hi in passing but then they become heartbroken without you even trying?
Absolute facts
yo Rom what did shock g from digital underground say "my nose is big big like a pickle but im still getting play" looks dont always determine things i gotta catch up on your vids bro im glad to see you still pumping out knowledge for us Rom i hope you and your family are well during this time Peace and Blessings to you.
RIP SHOCK G
I grew up like Theo Huxtable with a Gangster edge lol always had fine ass ladies around me since HS,,, so I dont sweat em I just bag tag and forget em..I tried to settle with one but got tired of dumbing down for her drama filled petty life filled with dealing with her kids and family issues that i never had in my family
5:15 most IG models have trashy personality. I have spoken to some nice ones. They weren't from the us.
Seen.
Uncle Rom I am well aware of how a women compliments me. Its like having super powers.
Question: If a woman says a man is a gentleman, do men take it as an insult?
Some do because many men feel like they have to be thugs to get a woman. I take it as a compliment.
I've always thanked men i've come across for being one towards me, however i recently heard a man say its he was insulted by the word. I was caught off guard by, it never knew. Thanks for confirming it for me Mr. Wills
Take a shot every time he says "right"
Rom you should be charging for this game u give out I’m a old head it take years to learn some of this game u give out for free great video.
I wonder, if a woman first come to you with a criticism like "you have an old phone get a nice new one". Or "you look tired what have you been doing?" Is that her choosing or are you being friendzoned?
She might be messing with you in a bad way. Some women are like that.
Rom Wills Before I applied your teachings, that used to happen to me. Seems now I can add it to the amount of crap women put decent men through. I've came a long way.
Classic Masterpiece!!!
Thank you.
3:10 I know about that holding up the nose. I move on
I hate when ladies speak on material things initially. Nothing about my character or even looks. They focus on money too fast then I know what they about.
I do get the serious thing too. Some are thrown off and I let them know. I should be a serious person as I have to handle business every day
Truth
Gotta learn how to read women like the read option in football.
Rom can you go more deeper into this? Or anything that describes this more in dept???
I 'll do another video soon.
Rom Wills thanks
HELLO THERE!!!!
Hey Rom, I've been following you for almost a year now and I like your material a great deal. The wisdom you drop is something I wish I've received when I was a kid or teenager.
Regarding your topic, I hardly get compliments, unless it's from a woman I'm already seeing. She may mention I look nice a particular day etc, but what's interesting is that some of the women I've been with has said to me they don't like to give me compliments because it'd gas my head up. This is in the context of her mentioning me to her friends and or family, and asking her simply what she said about me. I'm a humble dude (or I'd like to believe I am). Could you touch on that? Is it a self-esteem issue on their end? Or is it that they didn't have anything good to say at all?
Wishing you the best of luck sir, keep it up.
Women don't like complimenting men if they think it will give them a big head. Part of it is a control thing.
Rom I have a lot of women calling me cute even if they reject me …I’ve been practicing the body game & im direct …is cute a bad thing ?
💯
Great Rom....just one thing, maybe I missed it what does it mean when they say "your meen "
Might just be the DC accent.
Rom I still waiting on that gym channel
I have to find time.
What does it mean when girls call you a pretty boy
They think you look good.
most women see me as a boyfriend/husband person. But not someone they can have a night stand with. how can I change that?
Work on your sex appeal.
@@RomWills Thanks Sir Rom. i watched the video on sex appeal yesterday. i will watch it again and jot things down
You like a little brother to me = Friends zone🤷🤷🤷
Rom,what if she says "You smell good" ?
What is she compliments you on your wallet (specifically my wallet. That caught me off guard) and car?
she looking at you as a trick. she looking at what yu GOT not YOU.