My girlfriend and I are LDR she has lots of foreigners approach her to take her out she says no and got a local guy who approached her she said no as well. As long as there is loyalty and a serious commitment, it doesn't matter if other men are offering trips. Because my girlfriend is still loyal to me and is not tempted.
@MelPatton-yi8se I actually do know how lucky I am. I do not take my girlfriend for granted, and I have to thank the Lord multiple times that he gave me her. She literally is everything i was looking for and asked God for. Day one on our first date. I knew she was rare. But you can as lucky as me take your time choosing a fililina and do not just pick the first woman you meet. My girlfriend was my fourth date
@mikesphilippineretirement Yeah, that's how it is for me. I never worry about my girlfriend cheating or anything, and she tells me whenever she's going out and where. Right now, I know where she is at.
@MelPatton-yi8se you need to go there yourself. I am glad I went their. I met my girlfriend in the Philippines, then we became LDR soon I am moving there. Do not settle for the first girl you meet. My girl was my 4th date, and she's literally everything I was looking for.
@MelPatton-yi8se yeah you should leep trying I recommend going there then go on the dating sites I think the reason me and my girl get along so well and we trust each other so much is because we met in person in the Philippines then became LDR so we did things backwards. Meeting in person can make or break the relationship so it's important
Picking the brains of two experienced, interesting, and respectful Vloggers. I really enjoyed this episode Mike.... Safe travels home. Peace and Love, B Goat
Mike, Kudo’s to the brilliant mind who conjured up this idea to bring you three together and discuss the current mindset and topics between foreigner and Filipina. This was FRESH and very helpful for curious minds. Thank You! 😊
@@mikesphilippineretirement On my browser the video quality didn't look very sharp even though I had it set to 4K. It didn't look 4K. Did you upload differently on this one? Maybe YT was having a bad day. I could hear Chad ok but Jom's audio was weak.
An amazing video Mike. You nailed it. One tech point though. It was recorded in 4K but the quality was 720 at best. Either a dirty or out of focus lense. Just constructive criticism. Thanks again.
Great questions Mike. You see seasoned interviewer now. I enjoy it. I’m in Vietnam and I’ve been Indonesia (not Bali). I don’t drink nor go to bars. I’ve not met a “tricky or secretive” women in these places. Then again I’m not a tricky or secretive person. I do believe we attract what we are. To me the Philippines has gone lower on the list after my extended slow travel in Vietnam and Indonesia. I’ve known so many guys who overlooked huge red flags in the Philippines. I’m enjoying Vietnam and will stay much longer. It takes years to understand a culture. Guys who think they know a culture or person after months or years usually get surprised because they don’t take enough time to understand a culture
Hey Mike, Good Video and I enjoyed the discussion. I don’t know why but the video quality was down. Were you using a backup camera? I just remembered, your IT support remained at home, video settings could have been off! 😆
Jom may put off meeting in person for a while because she wants to have to time to make sure - as much as she can - that he's not a creep or otherwise notice something about him that makes her uncomfortable. Better to find out online than when she's face to face with him.
There are usually different reasons why Filipina don't want to meet in person. obvious one is she could be a scammer, I also came across one who chatted online pretty fluently but when we met she didn't speak a word of English, she said she was using a translator, her answers came too quick and with good English so I was thinking someone else might have been helping her. I am with Chad on this one if they don't want to meet pretty quickly, I just move on.
“Famous” Chad’s upcoming visit back to his homeland might just be what the doctor ordered and possibly help him reinvigorate his game for his next Philippine tour. 👍🇨🇦 l👍
@@rickychan1047 i really don't think they are a couple. They could have met other at an expat/Vlogger get together some months ago in Dumagetti. I know Jom was there with Mike, Old Dog Paul and others.
13:20 look up the word scam, then look up the word robbery. When someone miss leads you to get money from you, that is a scam. Stop ✋️ simp for these women 😤
@@ShawnVanNinja You're not a victim if you willingly do it. If you ignore all the warnings that have been given, you're not a victim, you're an idiot. If you don't give money, you can't be scammed.
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What’s happening brother? I found a wonderful woman just doing what I exactly said I was going to do when I came here. Just integrate with locals, travel to different places and allow life to happen organically and it surely does if you’re kind with an open heart 🙌❤️
It's kind of sad that neither one said, intelligence ? How about getting to know a person first and go from there to see if there is any chemistry ? Not the size of the man's wallet ?
@@JustJhoanne No progress on the Lsuite but I'm making good use of the time to heal and get stronger 💪 and fix up the farm for more 💲💲 when I can finally sell and move to PH. HOW BOUT YOU!?? You are one super Lowkey Vlogger.... hahahaha. I miss your lives they were lots of fun. You're clever and the other animals in your petting zoo were all generally pretty nice guys. You have the same Gig and Digs? Hope you're healing too. Peace and Love, B Goat
HI MIKE , enjoyed this video but wish I knew their ages. I was surprised how tall the girl was , yet hope not a lot of girls want 6 foot , since I am only 5 foot 8 LOL Well TY for another cool video GOD BLESS CIAO
In other interviews, you can tell by her replies, she's quite westernized, and needs to be the center of attention. When she's done interviews with other Filipina's, she constantly interrupts them. Not someone I would be interested in personally.
@@mikesphilippineretirement Mike, can you explain how Larry is right and I'm Wrong, when I was agreeing with his comment? "...men think that if they spend a lot of money on a girl, she will fall in love with them." "They will fall in love with his wallet..."
Mike, if you know anything about tampo, you should make it a topic of one of your discussions sometime. It's been my personal experience with my wife that tampo lays well hidden deeply inside the closet until I unwittingly make a remark that sets her off. Then, I endure the silent treatment for a day or two. It's a cultural thing. Some filapinas may even throw things. Mine threw a couch cushion at me one time. Then, in a day or two it's suddenly over as if nothing ever happened. 😂 Keep sharing those great videos. B😃B
Well Chad...the one that want to date and have fun are NOT good mom. SIMPLE...BUT if I were you This one girl beside you is just about the best...smart, beautiful, serious, good English, intelligent and not in for fun, love nature like you...EVEN IF SHE SAID NO...please tell me that you at lease proposed.😇
People should start LISTENING to the videos, instead of focusing on the woman's looks. They might realize how westernized some of these Filipina's are, Jom is one of them. The type women you fled your own country to get AWAY from.
Me thinketh although this Chad talks about the chemistry the occassional Interruption and talking over seem to indicate the good looks may have been a........factor🤪😉
I disagree, Chad’s answers and her’s were very different in a lot of ways. Chad looks like he’s ready to go back to Canada 🇨🇦. I really thought he would’ve found another partner after Rosie.
Like what? I felt too based on his facial expressions and answers. He sounded like a disappointed person. But he is a good guy. Though it's not 100%, people from the same country can read each other. Chad's demeanor is typical Canadian, polite, thoughtfulness, openess...etc
I can tell you that Filipinas do not want a young guy. It was rough when i was there, problem with lots of Filipinas is they think maturity goes with age and will potentially miss out on a great man that is their age. For example i am younger than 30s but I am serious and a familly and children in the future but Filipinas will just assume i am a player, not serious and not ready for a family because of age alone, Where as if they talked to me they would see that i am different. Talking from experience i went to the Philippines.
@mikesphilippineretirement it's crazy to me because they are missing out on potential great guys that are young, serious and mature like me. If my girlfriend had that mindset, we would not be together.
I dont find her attractive. Shes like a 3 out 10 at best. Janet is the one that is attractive. I would say Janet is a 7 out of 10. Janet is above average to me.
Hi 👋 Mike! For me personally texting 💬, chatting or meeting someone in person start the ball rolling for a conversation. In that you both can get a better feel about the other , talk about life & what each other’s future plans are and go with your gut feeling 👍. Being honest , open, and just being yourself is key I believe. Wholesome loving, caring, honest province lady is where I would look 👀 to find my life partner. TY Mike👍😉. Blessings 🙏🌸🌺🌼
I think personal meeting is the only way. A woman can say and be anything she wants online, but much harder to hide in person. But I do agree, SLOW is the ONLY WAY. It takes about 6 months for a person to get comfortable enough to show who they TRULY are on the inside.
Agreed 👍 100%. In person is the best way to get a gut feeling about someone. See if U2 have chemistry ⚛️ and if so go from there! Red flag 🚩 is if she asks for $$$!! Then exit stage left.
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My girlfriend and I are LDR she has lots of foreigners approach her to take her out she says no and got a local guy who approached her she said no as well. As long as there is loyalty and a serious commitment, it doesn't matter if other men are offering trips. Because my girlfriend is still loyal to me and is not tempted.
when you find the right one Trust becomes something you need not to worry about
@MelPatton-yi8se I actually do know how lucky I am. I do not take my girlfriend for granted, and I have to thank the Lord multiple times that he gave me her. She literally is everything i was looking for and asked God for. Day one on our first date. I knew she was rare. But you can as lucky as me take your time choosing a fililina and do not just pick the first woman you meet. My girlfriend was my fourth date
@mikesphilippineretirement Yeah, that's how it is for me. I never worry about my girlfriend cheating or anything, and she tells me whenever she's going out and where. Right now, I know where she is at.
@MelPatton-yi8se you need to go there yourself. I am glad I went their. I met my girlfriend in the Philippines, then we became LDR soon I am moving there. Do not settle for the first girl you meet. My girl was my 4th date, and she's literally everything I was looking for.
@MelPatton-yi8se yeah you should leep trying I recommend going there then go on the dating sites I think the reason me and my girl get along so well and we trust each other so much is because we met in person in the Philippines then became LDR so we did things backwards. Meeting in person can make or break the relationship so it's important
Picking the brains of two experienced, interesting, and respectful Vloggers. I really enjoyed this episode Mike.... Safe travels home. Peace and Love, B Goat
Thanks Billy
Thanks Mike for having Chad and Jom on your channel. You always have such great content and guests too. Thanks my friend.
Welcome Herb
For men there is a saying the girls get prettier at closing time. For women guys get more handsome the bigger the wallet.
hahaha never heard the wallet part b4
Mike, great discussion with two of my favorite people on YT. Thanks for including them on your channel. Jom is so cute and I love her personality.
Our pleasure!
Jom looks like Danica McKellar when she stared in the TV show: The Wonder Years. She have no problem meeting a good looking man from the US.
or in the Philippines
Mike,
Kudo’s to the brilliant mind who conjured up this idea to bring you three together and discuss the current mindset and topics between foreigner and Filipina. This was FRESH and very helpful for curious minds.
Thank You! 😊
Much appreciated!
That's great to hear the perspectives of both the foreigner and filipina. Great interview Mike!
Gray what did you think of the sound and video quality
@@mikesphilippineretirement On my browser the video quality didn't look very sharp even though I had it set to 4K. It didn't look 4K. Did you upload differently on this one? Maybe YT was having a bad day. I could hear Chad ok but Jom's audio was weak.
Thanks Gray
She's pretty especially her smile, I don't know why some don't find her pretty.
everyone finds her beautiful
She's a 10
Great because I saw some comments here says that she's not , maybe just a hater
She's very cute and pretty with a cute bubbly personality
@@jeffbecraft7174 - Wrong, lol.... I do like her pouty look though.
Thanks for the video Mike
WELCOME
Great video, more like this Mike.
Thanks! Will do!
You never know when you are going to meet the the right partner. Good video, Mike...Jim
You got that right!
Different interview Mike! Very cool. It surprised me Jom is that tall. And congrats to her for graduating!
yea 5'7"
@@mikesphilippineretirement i read some where that taller Filipinas/Filipinos might have Chinese heritage.
Great job Mike. Great interview.
It was easy they did all the work
I was sitting right there behind you guys. I wanted to say hello but didn’t want to disturb you guys! But very cool to see you there!
should have stopped by and said hi
@@mikesphilippineretirement I will next I see you then!
And some don't want to meet in person because they are trying to play you, after two weeks they still don't want to meet move on
maybe we can not say everyone is the same and acts the same way
Always have 3 on the hook at a time!!
An amazing video Mike. You nailed it.
One tech point though. It was recorded in 4K but the quality was 720 at best. Either a dirty or out of focus lense. Just constructive criticism. Thanks again.
Thanks for the info!
Thank you
Very nice interesting video
Glad you liked it
Great questions Mike. You see seasoned interviewer now. I enjoy it. I’m in Vietnam and I’ve been Indonesia (not Bali). I don’t drink nor go to bars. I’ve not met a “tricky or secretive” women in these places. Then again I’m not a tricky or secretive person. I do believe we attract what we are. To me the Philippines has gone lower on the list after my extended slow travel in Vietnam and Indonesia. I’ve known so many guys who overlooked huge red flags in the Philippines. I’m enjoying Vietnam and will stay much longer. It takes years to understand a culture. Guys who think they know a culture or person after months or years usually get surprised because they don’t take enough time to understand a culture
Enjoy Vietnam
Hey Mike, Good Video and I enjoyed the discussion. I don’t know why but the video quality was down. Were you using a backup camera? I just remembered, your IT support remained at home, video settings could have been off! 😆
I saw that
Very interesting Mike, especially when she tries explaining putting off meeting. Me think it is about rejection as well.
that it could be
Jom may put off meeting in person for a while because she wants to have to time to make sure - as much as she can - that he's not a creep or otherwise notice something about him that makes her uncomfortable. Better to find out online than when she's face to face with him.
The two. .. They seem like a good fit . very cool .
not a couple both are single
I enjoy the discussion and thought that was a good matchup.
Thanks Mike
Neither one of them said they were looking for an intelligent person. Makes you wonder...
hahaha
They are being honest. Were "sexually" attracted to each other, and then hope they are intelligent after the throbbing bone goes down.
There are usually different reasons why Filipina don't want to meet in person. obvious one is she could be a scammer, I also came across one who chatted online pretty fluently but when we met she didn't speak a word of English, she said she was using a translator, her answers came too quick and with good English so I was thinking someone else might have been helping her. I am with Chad on this one if they don't want to meet pretty quickly, I just move on.
thanks for sharing Franky
Too many red flags with her
Poor Chad, you can see the life/interest draining out of him, the more the girl explained herself & her plans in regards to dating😅😅😅
“Famous” Chad’s upcoming visit back to his homeland might just be what the doctor ordered and possibly help him reinvigorate his game for his next Philippine tour. 👍🇨🇦 l👍
Have no doubt, she has a 'grocery list' as a good friend once put it. Guess who will be paying for the items on that list?
@@JamesHickman-g5c yours truly
@@rickychan1047 i really don't think they are a couple. They could have met other at an expat/Vlogger get together some months ago in Dumagetti. I know Jom was there with Mike, Old Dog Paul and others.
13:20 look up the word scam, then look up the word robbery.
When someone miss leads you to get money from you, that is a scam.
Stop ✋️ simp for these women 😤
I wish we could shout that from the mountain top here. So many YT vlogs these days encourage it.
If you lead with your wallet, that is all you will ever be seen as.
@@ejtaylor73 victim blaming... good 👍 job bro
@@ShawnVanNinja You're not a victim if you willingly do it. If you ignore all the warnings that have been given, you're not a victim, you're an idiot. If you don't give money, you can't be scammed.
@@ejtaylor73 Amen Brother!
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Thanks Janet
Hi Mike in the next 18 months I'll be moving to the Philippines windted how I contact u love your channel
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What’s happening brother? I found a wonderful woman just doing what I exactly said I was going to do when I came here.
Just integrate with locals, travel to different places and allow life to happen organically and it surely does if you’re kind with an open heart 🙌❤️
Thanks for sharing Michael
Looks like his great granddaughter.
Great great granddaughter
@@mikesphilippineretirement 🤣
Video chatting is a great way to feel someone out. If they wont video chat move on dudes.
good point
It's kind of sad that neither one said, intelligence ? How about getting to know a person first and go from there to see if there is any chemistry ? Not the size of the man's wallet ?
👏🏼👏🏼💯💯
Thanks Jho
WuzSup Ruler Girl
@@Billy_B_Goat how are you?
@@JustJhoanne No progress on the Lsuite but I'm making good use of the time to heal and get stronger 💪 and fix up the farm for more 💲💲 when I can finally sell and move to PH. HOW BOUT YOU!?? You are one super Lowkey Vlogger.... hahahaha. I miss your lives they were lots of fun. You're clever and the other animals in your petting zoo were all generally pretty nice guys. You have the same Gig and Digs? Hope you're healing too. Peace and Love, B Goat
Hey Jhoanne in this video I’m the whole time I’m 🤐you know what I mean.
Offer a girl in Cebu a trip to Boracay, and she will instantly accept and drop the guy from last week, thats the dating reality
has it happened to you Rick?
@@mikesphilippineretirement Not to me, but I'm acquainted with Filipinas that have done that, a partner's friends.
HI MIKE , enjoyed this video but wish I knew their ages.
I was surprised how tall the girl was , yet hope not a lot of girls want 6 foot , since I am only 5 foot 8 LOL
Well TY for another cool video
GOD BLESS CIAO
she is 23. Chad is older
What is name of her utube chanel? I did not understand her.
@itsjomsadventure
She's plausible, but like most Filipinas, take what she says, with huge grain of salt.
In other interviews, you can tell by her replies, she's quite westernized, and needs to be the center of attention. When she's done interviews with other Filipina's, she constantly interrupts them. Not someone I would be interested in personally.
I do not think she is interested in you ejtaylor
I personally like to video chat with them get to know them really good before I even think About meeting them in person
That is how they roll
Mike, I believe that many men think that if they spend a lot of money on a girl, she will fall in love with them. Worst thing that one can do.
They will fall in love with his wallet, NOT HIM.
Larry is right you ejtaylor wrong as always
@@mikesphilippineretirement Mike, can you explain how Larry is right and I'm Wrong, when I was agreeing with his comment? "...men think that if they spend a lot of money on a girl, she will fall in love with them." "They will fall in love with his wallet..."
It is not his wallet but his spending to much on her to spoil her or just showing off
Mike, if you know anything about tampo, you should make it a topic of one of your discussions sometime. It's been my personal experience with my wife that tampo lays well hidden deeply inside the closet until I unwittingly make a remark that sets her off. Then, I
endure the silent treatment for a day or two. It's a cultural thing. Some filapinas may even throw things. Mine threw a couch cushion at me one time. Then, in a day or two it's suddenly over as if nothing ever happened. 😂
Keep sharing those great videos.
B😃B
I think I did that one but last year I should update it
In reality …all relationship are about control, sex and money$$$...Humans are not very good at real LOVE...everyone got and agenda.
yes that can be true
Well Chad...the one that want to date and have fun are NOT good mom. SIMPLE...BUT if I were you This one girl beside you is just about the best...smart, beautiful, serious, good English, intelligent and not in for fun, love nature like you...EVEN IF SHE SAID NO...please tell me that you at lease proposed.😇
I saw incompatibility, I wouldn’t recommend
People should start LISTENING to the videos, instead of focusing on the woman's looks. They might realize how westernized some of these Filipina's are, Jom is one of them. The type women you fled your own country to get AWAY from.
Me thinketh although this Chad talks about the chemistry the occassional Interruption and talking over seem to indicate the good looks may have been a........factor🤪😉
looks are always a factor
@mikesphilippineretirement
Yep the., green growing is always more appealing than the..........ripe rotting fruit!@!?😉
Cute girl!
she is
She says, ' i don't usually ask for money' so...........
that is what she said
Nice, I'd like to meet her
She is in Cebu. Check out her TH-cam channel
Also you almost asked Chad, what about dating a single mother?? She’s more stable, less likely to cheat 😀
Did not know if he dated a single mom
What does she bring to the table if she's looking for respect and no fun?
NEXT! 😊
if you get the girl you get the fun
I see these two with possibilities ✌️✌️♥️
what possibilities
@@mikesphilippineretirement
GO figure ehhhh 😉😉😉
I disagree, Chad’s answers and her’s were very different in a lot of ways. Chad looks like he’s ready to go back to Canada 🇨🇦. I really thought he would’ve found another partner after Rosie.
Chad isn't dumb to fall for her
5ft7 woman needs 5ft7 guy... 69.. just putting it out there..
your sick
Something off about this guy
Like what? I felt too based on his facial expressions and answers. He sounded like a disappointed person. But he is a good guy. Though it's not 100%, people from the same country can read each other. Chad's demeanor is typical Canadian, polite, thoughtfulness, openess...etc
I hate to judge but her answer of going abroad sounded like a green card seeker.
I can tell you that Filipinas do not want a young guy. It was rough when i was there, problem with lots of Filipinas is they think maturity goes with age and will potentially miss out on a great man that is their age. For example i am younger than 30s but I am serious and a familly and children in the future but Filipinas will just assume i am a player, not serious and not ready for a family because of age alone, Where as if they talked to me they would see that i am different. Talking from experience i went to the Philippines.
yes young guys are a red flag to local girls
@mikesphilippineretirement it's crazy to me because they are missing out on potential great guys that are young, serious and mature like me. If my girlfriend had that mindset, we would not be together.
I dont find her attractive. Shes like a 3 out 10 at best. Janet is the one that is attractive. I would say Janet is a 7 out of 10. Janet is above average to me.
Boring af
Hi 👋 Mike! For me personally texting 💬, chatting or meeting someone in person start the ball rolling for a conversation. In that you both can get a better feel about the other , talk about life & what each other’s future plans are and go with your gut feeling 👍. Being honest , open, and just being yourself is key I believe. Wholesome loving, caring, honest province lady is where I would look 👀 to find my life partner. TY Mike👍😉. Blessings 🙏🌸🌺🌼
I agree chickenlegs. Slow and go is fo me.
I think personal meeting is the only way. A woman can say and be anything she wants online, but much harder to hide in person. But I do agree, SLOW is the ONLY WAY. It takes about 6 months for a person to get comfortable enough to show who they TRULY are on the inside.
Agreed 👍 100%. In person is the best way to get a gut feeling about someone. See if U2 have chemistry ⚛️ and if so go from there! Red flag 🚩 is if she asks for $$$!! Then exit stage left.