seeing your new videos first and then seeing your old videos shows how much you've grown in your self becoming comfortable and communication LOVE THIS LOVE YOU
Girl thank u for exist, I have been watching your videos for my most anxious week and you don’t know how much you helped me. Really tysm for being here with these amazing videos
Okay! I binge-watched your videos and I cannot help but admire you. I am consciously trying to incorporate things you said in my life.. let's hope we can get what we are looking for.
the thing I AM implementing straight away from this moment is: It doesn't matter to me what anybody thinks or says about me or anything related to me. What I think about myself and say about myself to myself is all that matters.
One of my friends are so confident and she told me what she did to get more confident! Stare at yourself naked for 5 minutes everyday. This might sound very strange but if you constantly look at your body you will be able to stand your body better and will see what you like in your body ❤❤❤
I too have personally faced these problems where I doubted my self worth and unnecessarily blame myself for being stupid not realising that its all okay and everything will make sense some day or the other. No one is perfect and if everyone was perfect life would just be so boring, imperfection is beautiful and self love is the most important. No one will love you if you don't love yourself first🙂🙂
My thing is I want to be confident but with boundaries and sometimes honesty. I do want to talk to people,and be able connect with others. But I'm still an introvert and need to recharge. And that's really hard to change. So if I get drained I won't pretend to be social rather I'd be honest. Tbh being honest about your needs is something I find admirable in others.
same being an introvert is hard ;/ I have a good number of friends but some days I just don't want to socialize so its hard to keep friendships going and it makes me guilty sometimes
I applied your tips today, I had an interview for an amazing job and I actually did really good even though I I’m so shy and hate interviews… omg thank you so much 🥹🥹🥹 love from France 💕💕💕💕💕💕
i admire ppl from france bc yall often learn 3 languages english spanish and french just to be able to talk to us tourists. and i know it took work so awesome.
I always try to avoid negative people who talk shit about pthers but sometimes they're family members that I really love but I can't stand when they talk bad about others ... and they're not open to having a discussion about why it's bad so usually I brush it off with a laugh and say like " Oh well they're living the life they want for themselves " when they start gossibing but I feel uncomfortable and guilty just staying in that conversation
You don’t have to stay in that conversation. If you really can’t tell them to stop or ask if you can go to your room, search for an excuse to leave. They won’t care who’s in or who’s out when they’re busy gossiping, so don’t worry too much.
I'm not gonna lie bro... You should start the conversation. Trust me, ik how you feel, sometimes there are situations where I just wanna speak my mind and get it off my chest, hut it can be hard, right? If that person who talks bad about others is your "friend" cut that person off. If it's a family member, talk to them about it. If they still won't listen, you can tell your parents. I know this won't work all the time, but it's good to try, right :) Have a great day, sugar! ❤️
I swear your own parents be the most judgemental people sometimes. I really try to defend whole ass strangers I know nothing about who were judged by my parents for very petty things (eg dressing sense of a stranger) I love my parents very much but I don't want to be judgemental and toxic like them. They form my most inner circle lol.
You know what... Your are the living example of success to me Because seeing your new videos first and then the old videos i can literally see how much you have truly succeed Your videos have made such a great imapct on me and my life that i can't explain it in words Thank you so much for doing this and making my life better Lots of love ❤️ ❤ ❤ -your true admirer....
meeting people like Younis a blessing why everyone is not like you you are a vibe girl💫 I just think why didn't i find you earlier🥺 keep going more power to you🤗❣️
Didi aapki english accent toh angrezo se bhi khatarnaak hai 😂🔥🔥. Okay jokes apart, the video was absolutely lit 🔥🔥. I personally loved the 'nothing is real' part a lot. After hearing your thoughts, it felt like I could do anything that I would shy away from 💪. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us 😊
New subbie! Seen your latest video and oldest video and was sold..you’re so good at what you do. Thank you for spreading happiness and wisdom in each video! 🤗
I'll be starting my TH-cam channel soon and seeing you grow so much through these years has motivated me so much to follow my dream. ✨ I'm a bit scared but I'll do it anyway, I'll work hard,keep following you. 💗 Thank you so much for all that you've taught me. You're like my best friend 💛✨ the one that I never had. 🫶🏻 I'll make sure,to make my younger self proud.🌻 Thank you so much,tam. Love you. 💗✨✨
Hi Tam, you are so inspiring! I adore these videos that you make and I love these tips! I am still in school and I am working on myself so thank you so much for motivating me to accomplish my goals!
It's weird but I just realized that I am the person who always says "Oh look what she's wearing" but sometimes I even compliment them. But most of the time I used to be complaining. I need to stop this for my best.
The picture in 7:42 was infact too cute🥺🥺... can't see why she was embarrassed of such a cute picture of her. These are the pictures of the moments we should preserve as memories...sweet memories
You are angel to give valieable advice to others♥, am so inyro shy and hiding myself, i know many things but people behave around me like am merd and they never believe me bcz i dont know how to express and am really tired all of that, the only thing i want is me real me
Thnku ♥️love from INDIA .i also have such friends in my past who always turns me down ,they usually campare me with my sis So i get fear ,doubt,anxiety, jeleousy, crying, low feminine aura😅 But i start my journey with your videos from today I haven confidence i definitely dump these all negative nature and become positive
How should I treat people who disrespect me ? I'm a woman and I have some male ,,friends" that always try to make fun of me. Should I distance myself from them? But then I'll never learn how to deal with them.
Hey tam which song is this? Btw you can mentioned about a app in your 2nd point can you plz tell me which affirmation app is this? Btw love From Shimla ❤
About the cutting off toxic people,i started my college this month and I really don't see good in any of my batchmates some are like so annoying,and rest are just toxic ik they're toxic but they are the only people ik rn I can't he loner for now so I just need peoples to hangout with (just to class and dorm)
I wish there were more brown girls like you in my day to day, so many brown girl friends brought me down and were jealous of me to the point where I have no brown girl friends tbh
I also think that talking good to yourself would help if it were in your mother language I don't know but personally I feel it's more convincing to my subconscience
@@tamkaur I’ll be sure to keep an eye out for that, but yeah that video would be so helpful especially for me being a sikh girl it’s hard to find nice outfits to go out in for a restaurant but still be modest. A lot of hijabis do compilations but it would be good to get aapne kuriye involved x
I honestly, am and was so damn judgemental of a few people in my class, its cause they didnt treat me so well., and well that hurted me And, i really wanted to stop doing that, Cuz like, honetly it started bothering sm that just today, i felt intimated by the people, of like, them just talking how they gonna celebrate their bday or the dress they gonna buy, or the new stuff their family is buying Or the, other frd of mine (shes honestly not a damn girls girl, and i hate that abt her-, and she sometimes just belittles me, which makes me wanna distance myself from her) (The other girl was, who spread rumours about me in class., and we in bio its only like 15 girls in the class, n am only positively feel great and good with is 2 people, n honestly only 1. But shes like away from me, like sits away from me and others are basically just, i woulsnt want to be near with, theres another girl whos goodd, but like shes close to those people so like. Yea. Oh yea, she also slut shamed me once with her frd and i seriously dont understand how they all just do a bad hurtful thing, and then be so normal with me afterwards, i stopped putting on a filter of "am fine" with their behaviour juet, started showing that am mad, but not saying alot and, while chatting with thses people if i dont agree with something ill tell them that, and but i dont say alot, cuz like. I dont think its gonna be worth while for me to make them understand, that the way they be viewing others not fine, n i honestly feel left out too much, but am starting to embrace it) And, am trying. To like grow. And stop caring what they do or say about me or anyone else, and just be sooo positive and confident that. Even if they r my frds or close to me, their behaviour or saying stuff wont affect me at all.
Okay. Ngl, i felt like i was a bad person for judging and stuff, till I realised while writing everything down here That, It's just insecure and lack of trust in them And, i never judged them for their choices Oh,- yea tho a girl's hair was in a bad bad condition but that wasn't a judgement N i wanna , like always just want to gatekeep stuff from them like my self improvement side cuz i don't want negative energy atleast not that , tho yea I'll get it at some point but yes
omg "I would never accept criticism from you if I wouldn't take advice from you" so powerful
watching old tamana grow to be the best podcaster
seeing your new videos first and then seeing your old videos shows how much you've grown in your self becoming comfortable and communication LOVE THIS LOVE YOU
AWWW THANK YOUUU!!
watching your latest vids vs your old vids is CRAZY!!!!! the way you have grown and changed so much omg
I wish i can meet people like you. You actually make me feel better about myself and help me see that it is possible to build confidence. ❤️
This means so much to me!! 🥺💗
@@tamkauri want you toooo ❤❤❤
@@tamkaurporn vido
❤❤❤
@@tamkaur I wish I can too..
stop gossiping
stop judging
You will internalise it
Think positive
say positive
look at posivitve things
put my attention in positive things 💅🏻🌟
True tips. Already apply most of them in my daily life. Must follow. You will not regret. Life is a joke so live it fully 🔥
Girl thank u for exist, I have been watching your videos for my most anxious week and you don’t know how much you helped me. Really tysm for being here with these amazing videos
Okay! I binge-watched your videos and I cannot help but admire you. I am consciously trying to incorporate things you said in my life.. let's hope we can get what we are looking for.
the thing I AM implementing straight away from this moment is: It doesn't matter to me what anybody thinks or says about me or
anything related to me. What I think about myself and say about myself to myself is all that matters.
One of my friends are so confident and she told me what she did to get more confident!
Stare at yourself naked for 5 minutes everyday.
This might sound very strange but if you constantly look at your body you will be able to stand your body better and will see what you like in your body ❤❤❤
I too have personally faced these problems where I doubted my self worth and unnecessarily blame myself for being stupid not realising that its all okay and everything will make sense some day or the other. No one is perfect and if everyone was perfect life would just be so boring, imperfection is beautiful and self love is the most important. No one will love you if you don't love yourself first🙂🙂
My thing is I want to be confident but with boundaries and sometimes honesty. I do want to talk to people,and be able connect with others. But I'm still an introvert and need to recharge. And that's really hard to change. So if I get drained I won't pretend to be social rather I'd be honest. Tbh being honest about your needs is something I find admirable in others.
same being an introvert is hard ;/ I have a good number of friends but some days I just don't want to socialize so its hard to keep friendships going and it makes me guilty sometimes
@@kimaya.3563 yep, so relatable. me too.
Yep same I even find it hard to talk to people
I can feel the confident already ✨🌟☄️💫
The intro>>>>>
Everytime I'm losing my confidence I watch this and gain back my confidence 😃. It's so funny xD. Tyyyyyyyyyyyyy 😭♥️
🥺🫶🏽
I applied your tips today, I had an interview for an amazing job and I actually did really good even though I I’m so shy and hate interviews… omg thank you so much 🥹🥹🥹 love from France 💕💕💕💕💕💕
i admire ppl from france bc yall often learn 3 languages english spanish and french just to be able to talk to us tourists. and i know it took work so awesome.
I always try to avoid negative people who talk shit about pthers but sometimes they're family members that I really love but I can't stand when they talk bad about others ... and they're not open to having a discussion about why it's bad so usually I brush it off with a laugh and say like " Oh well they're living the life they want for themselves " when they start gossibing but I feel uncomfortable and guilty just staying in that conversation
You don’t have to stay in that conversation. If you really can’t tell them to stop or ask if you can go to your room, search for an excuse to leave. They won’t care who’s in or who’s out when they’re busy gossiping, so don’t worry too much.
I'm not gonna lie bro...
You should start the conversation.
Trust me, ik how you feel, sometimes there are situations where I just wanna speak my mind and get it off my chest, hut it can be hard, right? If that person who talks bad about others is your "friend" cut that person off. If it's a family member, talk to them about it. If they still won't listen, you can tell your parents.
I know this won't work all the time, but it's good to try, right :) Have a great day, sugar! ❤️
I swear your own parents be the most judgemental people sometimes. I really try to defend whole ass strangers I know nothing about who were judged by my parents for very petty things (eg dressing sense of a stranger) I love my parents very much but I don't want to be judgemental and toxic like them. They form my most inner circle lol.
Tam is like an older sister to me, I'm so glad ik her! 💝
Love it! Also I would say to put yourself in uncomfortable situations. It shows how strong you are
You know what...
Your are the living example of success to me
Because seeing your new videos first and then the old videos i can literally see how much you have truly succeed
Your videos have made such a great imapct on me and my life that i can't explain it in words
Thank you so much for doing this and making my life better
Lots of love ❤️ ❤ ❤
-your true admirer....
meeting people like Younis a blessing why everyone is not like you you are a vibe girl💫 I just think why didn't i find you earlier🥺 keep going more power to you🤗❣️
No but I’m binge watching all your videos and sis is speaking factssss 💯
I was the same... Fat shamed... Suppressed....... Introvert... But nowww ....THE GAME 🎯 CHANGED
The glow up 🤭❤️
Didi aapki english accent toh angrezo se bhi khatarnaak hai 😂🔥🔥. Okay jokes apart, the video was absolutely lit 🔥🔥. I personally loved the 'nothing is real' part a lot. After hearing your thoughts, it felt like I could do anything that I would shy away from 💪. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us 😊
I love this ! As Real as it gets! 🔥🔥🔥 Excellent Stuff keep it up 👍
Thank you!
New subbie! Seen your latest video and oldest video and was sold..you’re so good at what you do. Thank you for spreading happiness and wisdom in each video! 🤗
The best video on self confidence i have ever watched waw ✨
🥺💖💖
wen i needed this,like anything 💗💗
Those are really wise words.....really love the content that you post 😊
Thank you 😊
7:43 THE CUTEST
Congratulations Tam!!! Tapping into thiss❤
i rewatched it and i enjoyed it again
You're a gem i can't get over your vids❤
I'll be starting my TH-cam channel soon and seeing you grow so much through these years has motivated me so much to follow my dream. ✨ I'm a bit scared but I'll do it anyway, I'll work hard,keep following you. 💗 Thank you so much for all that you've taught me. You're like my best friend 💛✨ the one that I never had. 🫶🏻 I'll make sure,to make my younger self proud.🌻 Thank you so much,tam. Love you. 💗✨✨
Yes girl GO AHEAD !
My first time commenting on a youtube video, so so happy you’ve reached a million subs now! Been your biggest fan since forever!!
Hi Tam, you are so inspiring! I adore these videos that you make and I love these tips! I am still in school and I am working on myself so thank you so much for motivating me to accomplish my goals!
That finishing sound bro !
Thank u...needed this kind of motivational positive energy💫
It's weird but I just realized that I am the person who always says "Oh look what she's wearing" but sometimes I even compliment them. But most of the time I used to be complaining. I need to stop this for my best.
✨ the accent ✨
The picture in 7:42 was infact too cute🥺🥺... can't see why she was embarrassed of such a cute picture of her. These are the pictures of the moments we should preserve as memories...sweet memories
Omgg Hindi song at the beginning 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫂🫂
You are angel to give valieable advice to others♥, am so inyro shy and hiding myself, i know many things but people behave around me like am merd and they never believe me bcz i dont know how to express and am really tired all of that, the only thing i want is me real me
I love this intro ❤
She is soooo adorable,little Tam. I'm so proud of you, where are you right now. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤ boss Tam, u are more beautiful every day !👑
Hopefully after following these i could increase my self confidence
Which is quite low 😔😔
You inspire me so much,I wanna be like you when I grow up
I love your advices so much!! 💕😍
so love your intro . way classyyy
Tam ,thank you for this video ❤
Thnku ♥️love from INDIA .i also have such friends in my past who always turns me down ,they usually campare me with my sis
So i get fear ,doubt,anxiety, jeleousy, crying, low feminine aura😅
But i start my journey with your videos from today
I haven confidence i definitely dump these all negative nature and become positive
Tam honestly we need friends like you literally!! Can we be friends 🥹❤️👉🏻👈🏻
this was sweet and helped me so much i cried 🥺
Your eyes are my biggest inspo
YOU inspire me so much!!!!!!!
Me watching this video bcz I`m making my own youtube channel...
GURL YOU ARE THE BESTTTTTTT!
I love it short and simple you go girl ❤❤❤❤❤ thanks so much
glad I found your channel xx
How should I treat people who disrespect me ? I'm a woman and I have some male ,,friends" that always try to make fun of me. Should I distance myself from them?
But then I'll never learn how to deal with them.
you looked so sweet in that old picture :((
Can’t agree enough!
What if the people who are really judgmental are my parents??
Can’t exactly distance myself from them😅
Hey tam which song is this?
Btw you can mentioned about a app in your 2nd point can you plz tell me which affirmation app is this?
Btw love From Shimla ❤
About the cutting off toxic people,i started my college this month and I really don't see good in any of my batchmates some are like so annoying,and rest are just toxic ik they're toxic but they are the only people ik rn
I can't he loner for now so I just need peoples to hangout with (just to class and dorm)
I am gluing compliments in my mirror :3
Sis I just love uh! That's all I can say🥹💜✨✨⭐⭐🪄🪄
🤗
Thanks for making myself me😚✨🫶🥹
You inspire me 🫂
Loved the intro and full video ofcourse ❤️
Thank you so much 🤗
I just love the outro music so much ,what song is it ...
The intro 🥹
Lol I don’t even have 5 people that I hang around the most😂😂
The intro ❤
I wish there were more brown girls like you in my day to day, so many brown girl friends brought me down and were jealous of me to the point where I have no brown girl friends tbh
Thankkk youuuu !!!! 💗💗
I have always been confidence but when it comes to TH-cam.... my confidence is quite low 😩 I feel like I’m soo cringey and then delete the whole video
I love your intro!!
Made my day❤
Your amazing!! thank you 🥰
You are!
I also think that talking good to yourself would help if it were in your mother language I don't know but personally I feel it's more convincing to my subconscience
THANK YOUUU I LOVE SO MUCH 😭😭😭💗💗💗💗
Modest outfits on the cheap would be a banger 💥
I’ve filmed a modest outfits reel for Instagram coming soon! But I’ll defo film that too 🥰
@@tamkaur I’ll be sure to keep an eye out for that, but yeah that video would be so helpful especially for me being a sikh girl it’s hard to find nice outfits to go out in for a restaurant but still be modest. A lot of hijabis do compilations but it would be good to get aapne kuriye involved x
7:40 NGL u look cute tho❤
And thankyou so much
It was amazing and relatable ❤.
I like to use the word "acting" instead of "faking", it is more fun and is positive
7 was so helpful thank u!!!
whats the lip shadeee ? looks so brown girl frndly omg !
Your truly awesome
Can any one tell me the name of song used in the intro 😁?
Queen by horsepowar!
@@tamkaur Thank you ♥️
The initial music on this video is from?!?!?!! Loveeeee itt
Helpful video
Love from Mumbai💛
love it ❤
I commit to myself for the confident person I am now n in becoming! Wud update after 3 monthss❤🎉
Thanks ❤
What's the song called 🎉
So good:)
What link is The Secret app?? Thanks
Whats the app?
I honestly, am and was so damn judgemental of a few people in my class, its cause they didnt treat me so well., and well that hurted me
And, i really wanted to stop doing that,
Cuz like, honetly it started bothering sm that just today, i felt intimated by the people, of like, them just talking how they gonna celebrate their bday or the dress they gonna buy, or the new stuff their family is buying
Or the, other frd of mine (shes honestly not a damn girls girl, and i hate that abt her-, and she sometimes just belittles me, which makes me wanna distance myself from her)
(The other girl was, who spread rumours about me in class., and we in bio its only like 15 girls in the class, n am only positively feel great and good with is 2 people, n honestly only 1.
But shes like away from me, like sits away from me and others are basically just, i woulsnt want to be near with, theres another girl whos goodd, but like shes close to those people so like. Yea.
Oh yea, she also slut shamed me once with her frd and i seriously dont understand how they all just do a bad hurtful thing, and then be so normal with me afterwards, i stopped putting on a filter of "am fine" with their behaviour juet, started showing that am mad, but not saying alot and, while chatting with thses people if i dont agree with something ill tell them that, and but i dont say alot, cuz like. I dont think its gonna be worth while for me to make them understand, that the way they be viewing others not fine, n i honestly feel left out too much, but am starting to embrace it)
And, am trying. To like grow.
And stop caring what they do or say about me or anyone else, and just be sooo positive and confident that. Even if they r my frds or close to me, their behaviour or saying stuff wont affect me at all.
Okay. Ngl, i felt like i was a bad person for judging and stuff, till I realised while writing everything down here
That,
It's just insecure and lack of trust in them
And, i never judged them for their choices
Oh,- yea tho a girl's hair was in a bad bad condition but that wasn't a judgement
N i wanna , like always just want to gatekeep stuff from them like my self improvement side cuz i don't want negative energy atleast not that , tho yea I'll get it at some point but yes