1st story - a prenup is actually a good idea. It lets both parties have a clear vision of how the marriage will work and what they can expect from each other. Weddings don't have to be expensive. A park or beach and a Justice of the Peace, and boom, you're married! But then there is the issue of John being a grifter...
Also the fiance never proposed, she asked him after his gold digger mother asked her to. She really needs to listen to her mom, she doesn't seem to have planned a single thing.
I could see why some may frown on a prenup, but the more stories I hear online and in the news, realistic to protect ourselves when assets are there before marriage. Also, if buying a house together, protect ourselves by making sure both spouse names are in the paperwork even if one is the main buyer. Good to protect them both just in case. 😊
I personally think the boyfriend and his mum were running a scam on OP. Demanding expensive cars, food, and not helping with the venue. There were a lot of red flags, and OP was too damn desperate to get married.
No, it was obvious john and his mum were scammers trying to leech. Talking prior to marriage wouldn't have made a difference. OP was too damn desperate to marry the loser despite knowing John was contributing zero to the relationship.
"I really dislike it when people make the statement, 'You wouldn't understand because you don't have a child.' It's important for individuals to consider the context of the person they are speaking to before making such comments. What if the person they are speaking to cannot have children or simply chooses not to have them? Everyone's circumstances are different and should not be judged."
This. I am in Special Eucation and have Worked With Kids since i was 12 (tutoring, babysititng, teaching, as a nurse) and i am 30 now. My Cousin has. 2 Kids. One of Them, my goddaughter has a disability due to my Cousin Smoking while pregnant. She struggles a Gigant Lot. Like she Had to stay in Kindergarden a year longer because of developmental issues and she is repeating Grade 3 right now. She should be in Special ED, but my Cousin denyes that eventhough all teachers told her. Also cps told her and I told her even before my GD went to school. She Always tells me "you don't know because you don't have Kids" ... Like really? But i have at least 4 students With the exact developmental issues my GD has. I have helped bringing Up over 100 Kids. I am neurodivergenten myself. I know the Terror of being different in a regular school setting. My GD hates school. She is 2.5 yrs older than all her classmates. She has super poor social skills, she still acts Like a toddler throwing tantrums when in Public. Even her Younger Brother behaves better than her.
We all have contact with children even when they aren't our own. My sister has no children, but she is the favorite aunt by far. She has babysit my kids, taken them on trips, and handled them at all their ages. They confide in her and love her dearly. She knows children!
200 for a gift for a 2yo is WAY too much, and rude to ask for it. They do not specify but seem these ladies are just friends and Natalie thinks the shop owner is rich
My cousin who is mother to my godchild is like that. If it isn't new or expencive they won't stop arguing. Also she oftentimes unpacked the gifts on bdays and Christmas so the packaging wouldn't break so she could resell it for more money. I gifted my gd a hand painted (with a wood burner tool and paint) chest for her baptism. It had her initials and a tree and a lot of flowers on it. It was tufted with velvet inside and overall it took a huge amount of Work... Well my cousin poped it open and was annoyed because it "only" had a giftcard for a local, handmade baby store for (for example) special bibs, suckers, clothes. She told me that that wouldnt be very useful because my gd allready had clothes. ... Like wtf? Buy Something else for 200€ then... Also each gift i gave after was from a curated list i got send in advance. Thats a gigant nightmare for someone whos lovelanguage is giftgiving. Also it was all 100+€ loud plastic toys. My gd (now 11) last year told me that no matter what I get her, she would max. Play with it 3 weeks before she gets bored of it. I told her to get books or drawing supplies then and she told me only idiots would do that. Well thanks and that would be the last time this idiot would get her a gift.
I like the occasional long video...I hook up my speakers to my kindle & do so.e work around the room...I am the few who does not own a Tv,so this is perfect... Also, I like the the stories of this forum.& voice actress...
You would think that her husband would have been able to put her in check but instead he encourages her entitled behavior. Also, in the beginning of the video the child is a boy and when she’s talking to her husband he refers to their child as a she. Which is it?
Thank you!!! Finally, someone else who knows the entire quote! Over time, it has been shortened and eventually became an excuse for entitled shoppers to abuse shopkeepers and employees. People always look at me strangely when I add “…in matters of taste”.
Prenups are a good idea, as long as it's fair and equal for both parties. It can also be updated every few years - remove things that aren't relevant, discuss changes, etc. The benefit comes from each person knowing what to expect, and who's responsible for whatever.
Thank God the woman found Snowflake the cat. That guy that dumped her in the forest… He could be charged with animal neglect resulting in injury., abuse, etc. depending on what state he lives in. Also The writers are not aware that it’s illegal in the US to throw somebody’s belongings (clothes etc) out without plenty of warning.
Actually, if MIL wants to bring up gender equality for paying for a wedding, then it's quite the opposite of what she is implying. Traditionally, the woman's family pays for the wedding. So, that means, according to MILs theory, her son should be paying for more of the wedding.
I’m not so sure about this. I thought traditional weddings in America was that the brides father paid for the wedding. Maybe I’m misunderstanding what u r saying.
Mom wants grandkids, but wants future wife to cover all the expenses and probably support all 3 of them, plus kids, in the future. Once mom says it, john is all let's go.
Cats are great friends, they will never stab you in the back. Also they are a great judge of character. If my cats don't like someone then they are not worth my time.
Natalie thinks she should get everything she wants for her kid. You don’t ask people to bring a child a 200$ gift! She thinks that matters to a child. She’s ridiculous 🙄
Omg🤦🏽♀️😡 how old is this girl that she is just so naive & just goes w what the guy says & who the heck gets married just because the guy says " we should get married even tho I haven't proposed yet"! 🤷♀️🤬🤬 WTH is wrong w these women that they are just so blind to what is going on 🤦🏽♀️😡😡 I swear these women are just so childish & doesn't seem like they're grown up 🤦🏽♀️😡😡
Right. But to be fair asking someone wether they should get married is a proposal. Not the most romantic one, but a proposal nevertheless. And as soon as the other person agrees they are engaged.
When both are working both take care of the house my husband tried to say I had to do everything so I responded with if you want me to fill the traditional wife role you have to first fill the traditional husband role he was confused I said you have to be sole provider and sense your one job is not enough you will of corse be getting a second job because the role of a wife is to be in the home right it did not take him long to decide to help with the house😂
To show off past or older popular stories without the viewer having to constantly scroll through and find it by hand. Like an album or a "Best Of" collection!
I was married to a controlling, narcissistic AH for too many years but even he understood overtime (he was also cheap and wanted the money) and the need to get his own dinner when I had to work. (Good actors, by the way) She’s being wayyyy too subservient, apologetic, and generally a doormat. That’s annoying.
The mom story , the voices sound like the same person talking to themselves and trying to sound different. It’s nuts, would be friends with that obnoxious mom.
With the strikes about the ‘hardworking men so tired after a long days work’ I always think about the wife that swapped the chores for 2 weeks with her husband. He did not last more than a few days 😂
10K in 7 years, must be nice. Well, his salary is almost twice mine but still, 30 years later and I only have a few thousand as well, not through frivolousness at all. Payday to payday, no new car, no new clothes, simple lifestyle, no jewelry or watches or iphones, no fancy schnazzy computer, etc etc... a very basic lifestyle and still only a few thousand dollars after 30 years of working and they claim 10k in 7 years is only a little. Yikes.
3:31:11 anytime the husband berates his wife who also works outside the house for not upholding her ‘wifely’ duties to keep the house I’d snap back that if she has to work outside the house to supplement their income he’s not upholding his husbandly duties.
Why is her friend being so condescending? She is being overly forceful, pushing for an expensive gift, talking down to her. Why would she have to be so bossy
She's so dumb he needs to remind her to breathe? Well, that explains why she's with him.😂 How dense is he to think his ex still needs to listen to and help him?
If I had to go around in circles with Tom that much I’d feel like I was in a nascar race. No wait I’d have walked long before when this crap first started
Brett is the most ridiculous ex-husband ever. What exactly would keep calling his ex-wife for conversation or advice so long after the divorce was final? If they had remained friends it would be understandable, but geez.
Story one has me cringing, he doesn’t seem to wanna getting married and the girl seems airheaded and easily influenced by her mother in law to be , seems like the girls mum is clueless too and an enabler
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1st story - a prenup is actually a good idea. It lets both parties have a clear vision of how the marriage will work and what they can expect from each other.
Weddings don't have to be expensive. A park or beach and a Justice of the Peace, and boom, you're married!
But then there is the issue of John being a grifter...
A prenup would make you look cheap? No, it makes you look smart and like you have assests that you need to protect.
Also the fiance never proposed, she asked him after his gold digger mother asked her to. She really needs to listen to her mom, she doesn't seem to have planned a single thing.
@@IzzyPR2010don’t blame her
I could see why some may frown on a prenup, but the more stories I hear online and in the news, realistic to protect ourselves when assets are there before marriage. Also, if buying a house together, protect ourselves by making sure both spouse names are in the paperwork even if one is the main buyer. Good to protect them both just in case. 😊
There are too many red flags , step away
Love ends when money begins
The "housework" story...if I had a hubby like him I'd be a widow!
I'd be an incarcerated widow!
😂😂😊
😂😂😂
Story 1: The primary example of why people should talk before marriage.
I personally think the boyfriend and his mum were running a scam on OP. Demanding expensive cars, food, and not helping with the venue. There were a lot of red flags, and OP was too damn desperate to get married.
No, it was obvious john and his mum were scammers trying to leech. Talking prior to marriage wouldn't have made a difference. OP was too damn desperate to marry the loser despite knowing John was contributing zero to the relationship.
"I really dislike it when people make the statement, 'You wouldn't understand because you don't have a child.' It's important for individuals to consider the context of the person they are speaking to before making such comments. What if the person they are speaking to cannot have children or simply chooses not to have them? Everyone's circumstances are different and should not be judged."
This. I am in Special Eucation and have Worked With Kids since i was 12 (tutoring, babysititng, teaching, as a nurse) and i am 30 now. My Cousin has. 2 Kids. One of Them, my goddaughter has a disability due to my Cousin Smoking while pregnant. She struggles a Gigant Lot. Like she Had to stay in Kindergarden a year longer because of developmental issues and she is repeating Grade 3 right now. She should be in Special ED, but my Cousin denyes that eventhough all teachers told her. Also cps told her and I told her even before my GD went to school. She Always tells me "you don't know because you don't have Kids" ... Like really? But i have at least 4 students With the exact developmental issues my GD has. I have helped bringing Up over 100 Kids. I am neurodivergenten myself. I know the Terror of being different in a regular school setting. My GD hates school. She is 2.5 yrs older than all her classmates. She has super poor social skills, she still acts Like a toddler throwing tantrums when in Public. Even her Younger Brother behaves better than her.
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We all have contact with children even when they aren't our own. My sister has no children, but she is the favorite aunt by far. She has babysit my kids, taken them on trips, and handled them at all their ages. They confide in her and love her dearly. She knows children!
Good point I hope they read this and write better stories.❤
It's true you can not understand if you don't have kids. But it does not mean you can not be no good with kids 😊
I will not be friends with people that force me to buy gifts for their kids and putting price tag at that.
200 for a gift for a 2yo is WAY too much, and rude to ask for it. They do not specify but seem these ladies are just friends and Natalie thinks the shop owner is rich
Agree!!!
My cousin who is mother to my godchild is like that. If it isn't new or expencive they won't stop arguing. Also she oftentimes unpacked the gifts on bdays and Christmas so the packaging wouldn't break so she could resell it for more money.
I gifted my gd a hand painted (with a wood burner tool and paint) chest for her baptism. It had her initials and a tree and a lot of flowers on it. It was tufted with velvet inside and overall it took a huge amount of Work... Well my cousin poped it open and was annoyed because it "only" had a giftcard for a local, handmade baby store for (for example) special bibs, suckers, clothes.
She told me that that wouldnt be very useful because my gd allready had clothes. ... Like wtf? Buy Something else for 200€ then...
Also each gift i gave after was from a curated list i got send in advance. Thats a gigant nightmare for someone whos lovelanguage is giftgiving. Also it was all 100+€ loud plastic toys.
My gd (now 11) last year told me that no matter what I get her, she would max. Play with it 3 weeks before she gets bored of it. I told her to get books or drawing supplies then and she told me only idiots would do that. Well thanks and that would be the last time this idiot would get her a gift.
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These new stories are excellent!!! I love the one about the gold digging mother and son!!! 😂😂😂
She keeps an eye on snowflake when she’s not home but didn’t notice the cat was gone for two days. Yep really loves the cat
I like the occasional long video...I hook up my speakers to my kindle & do so.e work around the room...I am the few who does not own a Tv,so this is perfect... Also, I like the the stories of this forum.& voice actress...
Me too
Me too. Love the long ones especially when I’m baking!!
Me too when cleaning
That cat story would have had me in jail don't hurt my fur baby
I would never expect anyone to drop everything for my kids, they're my kids not anyone else's.
Same here!
You would think that her husband would have been able to put her in check but instead he encourages her entitled behavior. Also, in the beginning of the video the child is a boy and when she’s talking to her husband he refers to their child as a she. Which is it?
Jackson would experience real pain.
Cancel Brett's charge on the card without further discussion, and move out
Story 2: Brett doesn't have a fetish, he's abusive.
I don’t understand why she is listening to him insult her when she doesn’t have to talk to him at all smh
"The customer is always right in matters of taste."
Thank you!!! Finally, someone else who knows the entire quote! Over time, it has been shortened and eventually became an excuse for entitled shoppers to abuse shopkeepers and employees. People always look at me strangely when I add “…in matters of taste”.
@@rebeccamccann8710 I know, right? It bugs me to death, too.
I love this VA. She's amazing.😊
Why do you never add timestamps for the compilation videos 🤦♂️
That would be really helpful.
That's what I've been saying! Also, love your pfp!
Is it difficult or complicated to do this? Genuine question.😅
I just like the compilations, so no complaints here.
There would be hell to pay if someone hurt my fur babies!!!! That person is ☠️ to me !!!!!
Same!
Same.
A prenup is a good idea, when you have money and if he doesn't. It's a safe thing.
Brett means plank of wood in german... Thats exactly what he is... How fitting
Now you know that's insulting to wood. A plank of wood has many uses. This guy? He's as useful as a screen door on a submarine.
@@cyndicook7755 sorry, you are so right
Prenups are a good idea, as long as it's fair and equal for both parties.
It can also be updated every few years - remove things that aren't relevant, discuss changes, etc.
The benefit comes from each person knowing what to expect, and who's responsible for whatever.
1st story. She is clearly signing up for poverty. Why do that to yourself? He doesn’t sound that good.
The first ten minutes and I'm already thinking that this guy is a waste of space. What did she see in him?
I was thinking he was a waste when his mum asked for her hand in marriage.
Thank God the woman found Snowflake the cat. That guy that dumped her in the forest… He could be charged with animal neglect resulting in injury., abuse, etc. depending on what state he lives in.
Also The writers are not aware that it’s illegal in the US to throw somebody’s belongings (clothes etc) out without plenty of warning.
They don't have a handle on much regarding America tbh. But that's ok because suspension of disbelief really works
Im a parent and i think its to much for a two year old from a parent let alone from a friend
Natalie is a Momzilla, that's for sure.
Story 1- her head is in the clouds
Actually, if MIL wants to bring up gender equality for paying for a wedding, then it's quite the opposite of what she is implying. Traditionally, the woman's family pays for the wedding. So, that means, according to MILs theory, her son should be paying for more of the wedding.
I’m not so sure about this. I thought traditional weddings in America was that the brides father paid for the wedding. Maybe I’m misunderstanding what u r saying.
@@robertsimmons1sgretired820 that’s usually the case. My dad paid for my wedding. Like all my other sisters weddings.
Mom wants grandkids, but wants future wife to cover all the expenses and probably support all 3 of them, plus kids, in the future. Once mom says it, john is all let's go.
Cats are great friends, they will never stab you in the back. Also they are a great judge of character. If my cats don't like someone then they are not worth my time.
Yup.
The pettiness of that father in law is 10/10. He decided he will give them nothing till death 😂
Love your stories, please keep them coming. We enjoy them so much. Thank you.❤
Child's party...If you can't afford a party, don't have one.People need to stop expecting others to pay their bills.
Everyone that gets Married should sign a prenup if not incase of divorce but in case of death that way u don’t leave it completely to the gov
Need a prenup and a will done by good lawyers
Tom, everyone has a hand in housework, not just the wife.
LISTEN TO YOUR MOM...GET THAT PRE-NUP IMMEDIATELY!
3:17:00 approx. this story, her whiny voice cracks me up
‘Ta ta’ lol
‘Answer me!!! No fair!’ haha
The first call. Her mother tells her to check how much money her future husband has saved, get a pre nup etc yet she gives that fool 10k
Natalie thinks she should get everything she wants for her kid. You don’t ask people to bring a child a 200$ gift! She thinks that matters to a child. She’s ridiculous 🙄
Nice compilation!!!
Justice for Snowflake!!
Omg🤦🏽♀️😡 how old is this girl that she is just so naive & just goes w what the guy says & who the heck gets married just because the guy says " we should get married even tho I haven't proposed yet"! 🤷♀️🤬🤬 WTH is wrong w these women that they are just so blind to what is going on 🤦🏽♀️😡😡 I swear these women are just so childish & doesn't seem like they're grown up 🤦🏽♀️😡😡
Right.
But to be fair asking someone wether they should get married is a proposal. Not the most romantic one, but a proposal nevertheless. And as soon as the other person agrees they are engaged.
Baby friend story: I thought the baby was a boy? You started it out with the baby being a son but then changed it to a girl?
When both are working both take care of the house my husband tried to say I had to do everything so I responded with if you want me to fill the traditional wife role you have to first fill the traditional husband role he was confused I said you have to be sole provider and sense your one job is not enough you will of corse be getting a second job because the role of a wife is to be in the home right it did not take him long to decide to help with the house😂
Who brought this child man up.???
Has anyone else noticed the googly eyes on the watch spin whenever she puts her arm down? 🤪
It's sad there are people this dumb out there. Getting married just to be married is sick. And overblown wedding costs are crazy
So what was with the whole pasta at a cafe conversation
How many red flags does she need..?(John's and his mom(my)!
God will take care of those who disrespect their elders.😮 Karma will take care of the rest.
Can someone please tell me why channels do these huge story dumps? I never watch past the first one.
To show off past or older popular stories without the viewer having to constantly scroll through and find it by hand. Like an album or a "Best Of" collection!
@@TheJinx1441then why don't they indicate it up front. I prefer the ones that indicate compilation.
$3000 per month is not a lot, even for a single person unless you don’t have many bills.
So the pasta at the beginning of the story had absolutely nothing to do with it or did I doze off during that part
With 5 people that’s exactly 1,250 dollars not over
At least 1250,00 $.
Depending on the drinks or any extras it can be more.
Plus tip of course! At the standard 20%, it becomes $1500.00!
Plus tax and tip. You must also consider the drinks and dessert if any.
I was married to a controlling, narcissistic AH for too many years but even he understood overtime (he was also cheap and wanted the money) and the need to get his own dinner when I had to work. (Good actors, by the way) She’s being wayyyy too subservient, apologetic, and generally a doormat. That’s annoying.
Tom is a fool.
So the child is both a girl and a boy depending on where I am at in the story. “Proof before publish” should be your mantra for future videos.
Like a name would be nice😊
When someone has to say "trust me", DON'T!!!😡
yeah no if i found out i had to pay 10k a month for child support id probably disappear
Britney Spears had to pay about $40,000 a month to her ex-husband for their sons
@@cheyenneblack94 Yeah a background character like me paying that and a celebrity isn't a comparison even then id still disappear
The Tom and June story: Tom you are not helping! You are doing your damn part of the tedious task.
The mom story , the voices sound like the same person talking to themselves and trying to sound different. It’s nuts, would be friends with that obnoxious mom.
I only wish that they would provide a timeline in the description
I agree with OP in her assessment of her friend’s behavior, but she comes across as as preachy in crt her.
Almost 4h? Whaaaaaaa😮
"MAKE WISE DECISIONS"
With the strikes about the ‘hardworking men so tired after a long days work’ I always think about the wife that swapped the chores for 2 weeks with her husband. He did not last more than a few days 😂
Srikes => stories
around 3:18:00 😂😂😂 good one haha
🚩 🚩 🚩 galore! 😮
Starting with him saying "let's get married" via cellphone!
Oh Natalie your baby ain"t little baby Jesus....chill will ya...
"Customer always right"? What century are they in?
10K in 7 years, must be nice. Well, his salary is almost twice mine but still, 30 years later and I only have a few thousand as well, not through frivolousness at all. Payday to payday, no new car, no new clothes, simple lifestyle, no jewelry or watches or iphones, no fancy schnazzy computer, etc etc... a very basic lifestyle and still only a few thousand dollars after 30 years of working and they claim 10k in 7 years is only a little. Yikes.
I kept yelling "NO" into the screen!
John is so dumb. IF he'd paid for the dinner he could have strung her along longer and gotten more money out of his mark.
Marriage is 2 way street
Usually 11 partner accuses the other partner of cheating. They are the ones who are cheating.
If he accuses you he is doing it
“I told you the other day I wanted to eat lobster.” Well go and buy yourself lobster. Bye
3:31:11 anytime the husband berates his wife who also works outside the house for not upholding her ‘wifely’ duties to keep the house I’d snap back that if she has to work outside the house to supplement their income he’s not upholding his husbandly duties.
Helen’s voice is like nails on a chalkboard
Why is her friend being so condescending? She is being overly forceful, pushing for an expensive gift, talking down to her. Why would she have to be so bossy
"Just 10K?"
That's a lot of money 🤯
Online money transfer limit LMAO
You are bloody narcissist Jackson.
She's so dumb he needs to remind her to breathe? Well, that explains why she's with him.😂 How dense is he to think his ex still needs to listen to and help him?
If I had to go around in circles with Tom that much I’d feel like I was in a nascar race. No wait I’d have walked long before when this crap first started
Getting married only cost court fees $60-100 the ceremony and honeymoon fot $5500
What was the point of the first story?
You don’t make a check book.
Call the police if the laws from animal cruelty
Brett is the most ridiculous ex-husband ever. What exactly would keep calling his ex-wife for conversation or advice so long after the divorce was final? If they had remained friends it would be understandable, but geez.
You can't get a pension unless you have worked.
Idk who is more gullible; the mother or daughter. He is NOT your SIL yet, don't be so hasty. The daughter, SMH, the signs circling 😅. Sheesh
So Aaron is dating his mommy? Sick!
Wow son needs a real wake up
Story one has me cringing, he doesn’t seem to wanna getting married and the girl seems airheaded and easily influenced by her mother in law to be , seems like the girls mum is clueless too and an enabler
Doing that to a poor cat, Jackson is a total dickweed!!!
Video was extremely long
Dont marry john at all not wort it
Story #1 is recycled and just as annoying as the first time I heard it. Story #2: Jackson's voice is grating and makes me not want to listen to it.
The stories are entertaining but I hate that they use women voices as the men characters. It’s a bit cringeworthy.
Serve you right you were blind after he took money from your mother you should've seen the red flag he is a scammer