9 Simple Self Improvement Principles 1. Drink more water 2. Eat whole foods 3. Practice daily gratitude 4. Pick up a book 5. Listen to a TED Talk 6. Forgive someone 7. Join a group of supportive individuals 8. STOP nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good 9. Congratulate yourself for this growth For those who are in the rush of changing their lives :-)
If you can stop nail-biting on just the decision/wish to do so, you don't really have a problem with it. it is the expression of deeper health problems, a symptom, not just a bad habit. Your list is good, but what when people don't like and want you anyway? (all except 8)
But what if the person they’re hanging out with is a bad influence and causing problems in the relationship, is an ultimatum still emotional blackmail? What if I’m the blackmailer, but didn’t realize it... but I feel like she has left me no choice... I answered yes to a couple of the questions, but from the other side of the coin. 😔
Stage 3 feels like you'd be also experiencing things that are more subtle. They would simply insert the slight feeling of judgment instead of something that direct. Usually has the energy of "It's nice, but..."
Personally, I wouldn't bother having an empathic discussion and exposing how you feel as a result of that blackmailer's behaviour. You're only giving them more info on how their tactics are working. Once you know they're a blackmailer hopefully you've cut them out of your life by that point. This type of person never changes. Most people are like this so be prepared for a lonely life!
Could you please do a video focusing on toxic friends and family I feel there's a lot of "best friend" and toxic family situations that didn't make the video
I have a question; do the person who is executing the emotional blackmail aware of doing so, or is it most common for the person doing it to be unaware of their actions. Thank you for making these awsome videos!
@@ghosthusler I called someone out recently and she denied it vehemently, and even tried to make me feel guilty for knowing the meaning of emotional blackmail before calling her via text message.
I'm going to say it now because I'll probably forget by the end, and so I'm sorry if I'm repeating what you already say, but it's important for people to know that so often this is done unintentionally. I know because I've done it. We've all done it if we look hard enough. I'm not talking about the obvious cases of people who are clearly douchebags, but if you think about it, you've done this and you didn't mean to. So, trying to point it out to somebody can be really helpful, and like me, they might be really grateful that you did.
I wonder why the views diminished in your TH-cam channel, I believe that the content you make now, and the subjects that you cover are far more interesting than before, but yet the views are lower, this is unfortunate :/
emotional blackmail involves someone trying to get what they want from you. But instead of holding secrets against you, they manipulate you with your emotions
You don't know how important learning basic psychology is until you get to deal with a lot of people. Thankyou practical psychology.
1. Demand
2. Resistance
3. Pressure- fear , obligation, guilt (afraid to defy them )
4. Threat
5.compliance
6. Repetitions- do cycle again
Emotional blackmail is SO real, even at work!
The worst kind of guilt is when you accept an undeserved guilt.
haha is this about politics again?
i guess ... :]
@@adecakasio6482 No, it's not.
@@solomonasine thought so because politics is brimming over with people being put into "but that's just how you people are" boxes.
@@adecakasio6482 True!
@@LowdownBoy refreshing! I see my comrad there is coming from the same background as I am ^^.
Have fun cleaning! :D
“If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can’t hear them anymore.” Anything is possible
9 Simple Self Improvement Principles
1. Drink more water
2. Eat whole foods
3. Practice daily gratitude
4. Pick up a book
5. Listen to a TED Talk
6. Forgive someone
7. Join a group of supportive individuals
8. STOP nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good
9. Congratulate yourself for this growth
For those who are in the rush of changing their lives :-)
If you can stop nail-biting on just the decision/wish to do so, you don't really have a problem with it. it is the expression of deeper health problems, a symptom, not just a bad habit.
Your list is good, but what when people don't like and want you anyway? (all except 8)
But what if the person they’re hanging out with is a bad influence and causing problems in the relationship, is an ultimatum still emotional blackmail?
What if I’m the blackmailer, but didn’t realize it... but I feel like she has left me no choice... I answered yes to a couple of the questions, but from the other side of the coin. 😔
Just visited after ending that cycle, thanks it helps me understand this more, love to ur channel, pls make more of such videos
Thank you so much for this information!
Someone blackmailed me with suicide.
Worst experience ever.
Same
Same
Stage 3 feels like you'd be also experiencing things that are more subtle. They would simply insert the slight feeling of judgment instead of something that direct. Usually has the energy of "It's nice, but..."
Whenever I hear that guilt pressure I throw up the walls. It's so obviously selfish behaviour that you should immediately punish it.
Personally, I wouldn't bother having an empathic discussion and exposing how you feel as a result of that blackmailer's behaviour. You're only giving them more info on how their tactics are working. Once you know they're a blackmailer hopefully you've cut them out of your life by that point. This type of person never changes. Most people are like this so be prepared for a lonely life!
A great self-reflecting video💛
That is so cool! Thanks 😊 ❤
Could you please do a video focusing on toxic friends and family I feel there's a lot of "best friend" and toxic family situations that didn't make the video
Great 👍🩺❤️
I have a question; do the person who is executing the emotional blackmail aware of doing so, or is it most common for the person doing it to be unaware of their actions. Thank you for making these awsome videos!
Both. But probably more unaware on a deeper level because of their insecurity. And I can garantee you that if u you tell them, they will deny it
@@ghosthusler true
Yes, they are aware. They just don't bother.
@@ghosthusler I called someone out recently and she denied it vehemently, and even tried to make me feel guilty for knowing the meaning of emotional blackmail before calling her via text message.
Wow I love this channel
Wonderful
For practicing phychology you have to become an extrovert and try to socialize with more people to experience these...😵
This is correct.
I'm going to say it now because I'll probably forget by the end, and so I'm sorry if I'm repeating what you already say, but it's important for people to know that so often this is done unintentionally. I know because I've done it. We've all done it if we look hard enough. I'm not talking about the obvious cases of people who are clearly douchebags, but if you think about it, you've done this and you didn't mean to. So, trying to point it out to somebody can be really helpful, and like me, they might be really grateful that you did.
thankyou
Right on cue!
isn't it just gaslighting
Other threats:Threats to harm or kidnap pets.
I wonder why the views diminished in your TH-cam channel, I believe that the content you make now, and the subjects that you cover are far more interesting than before, but yet the views are lower, this is unfortunate :/
Could u suggest me better in handling emotional blackmail if tomorrow my son does it me.
What should a father react
Hello, how can we close a partnership with you, having the same channel here in Brazil?
My parents
Thought it was Dr. Susan FOREWORD
Get it? Because she's an author..
emotional blackmail involves someone trying to get what they want from you. But instead of holding secrets against you, they manipulate you with your emotions
😊😊
Hey are you same guy who is on whiteboard crypto?
I feel like everyone watching this is gonna use this to make themselves a victim
Or feels like they are the blackmailer :s
Guys I really don't think it's right to talk like this about black males... like I think they're just the same as everyone else, don't be so mean
I find it hard to take him in because his delivery sounds to quirky and has no depth of field.
Came from whiteboard crypto 😎
Bhala hai bura hai jaisa bhi hai...mera pati mera.devta hai😂😂😂😂😂🍗🍗
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