I appreciate the lessons cause love is truly a game and you either learn the rules and play well or get played. These men are manipulating the law of attraction to get what they want and we need to know how to respond against that strategy so thank you!
@@AdrienneEverheart I’m an so enjoying boundaries! Listening to women like you who share how to create them and enforce them and can actually show how it’s working for you in your life is really encouraging! And I find It’s drives them wild and curious! Idk why I wasn’t doing this sooner! 🥰🥰🥰
speaker. 2:16 What is bread crumbing and piggy banking? 3:48 Why do guys piggybank and breadcrumb? 6:05 How do i stop to stop the piggy banking bread crumbing cycle? 7:52 What are some ways to interrupt my thought cycle or to change my routine? 10:05 How do we get from piggy banking and bread crumbing to the relationship I want? 11:08 What am I really feeling when I want a man’s attention? 12:17 What do I do to stop obsessing over a man? 13:16 How do I establish a strong connection with a man? 16:00 how do I raise my quality in a man’s eyes? 16:18 What is a preference versus a boundary? 17:30 What is the best way for me to reinforce a boundary 18:30 what are some good examples of preferences versus boundaries? 21:48 How do I wrap my man’s heart up? 22:00 What do I really want and need from a man? 24:50 how do I get a man to share what he thinks with me? 26:50 how do I really accept my mans no? 30:50 how do I get my man’s love and affection back especially if I live with him 33:50 what to do if I am trying to get back together yet it’s not as often as I want 35:00 Why will walking away from a man work with a man? 36:20 What is a good example of a boundary? 37:20 What do I do if my boyfriend’s family doesn’t want him to marry me? 39:20 What if I like a guy who is unemployed or has no car: can we have the connection I want: 40:50 What is a good book on law of attraction? 43:00 What do I do if I want more one-on-one time with my boyfriend while I’m pregnant? 45:05 should I try to lose weight before looking for another relationship?
Please look into the terms and conditions in my videos. Of course you feel insecure. He is cutting you off from the relationship on his terms while you wait. This feels so bad because it is not mutual. You cannot sit idle while he figures his life out. It;s just not fair. "I feel so sad that you're experiencing depression, yet I trust you'll figure it out. As for our relationship, I enjoy being together yet have gone one month without seeing you and in order for me to be in a relationship this means dating x days per week. I'd like to still see you, but I am keeping my options open." Read "500 Ways" and Get FEMM Tools for Dating to learn more.
To be honest the bread crummers ( piggy bankers) don’t deserve me to even draw on my feminine and send him a very feeling statement. To me I reserve that for someone who is sincere.
Please make a video about actually being in a relationship or marriage with a man. Keeping things passionate and happy and staying in your feminine energy while you’re together, living daily life. Especially with kids, chores and the challenges life brings once you’re actually spending every day together and all that. Thank you for all your wisdom Adrienne you are such a blessing 💕
When I ask guys about giving me a phone call, using Adrienne’s script, and they don’t set a time to call and keep wanting to message on the dating app, I ask “when we’re you thinking to call?” When they reply back, right now. I say, usually again, “I keep a busy schedule. I prefer to set a time for us to talk. When were you thinking to call?” Then when we do talk, I try to keep it to 10 minutes. I just want to hear they’re normal on phone, that they can speak and carry a conversation, then I want them to take me on a date. I do not waste time on phone or texting with men who have not started investing into me by taking me out on a date. My time is valuable.
We have 3 toddlers together, he shows up, he does so many things to show his love for me such as tasks, vehicle maintenance, errands, etc. but will not tell me he loves me, misses me, and will not recommit. We behave like a couple though. I'm going to start focusing on me, and make me and my children my priority, and change up my routine. I'm going to use your techniques. I'm tired of his reluctance, so I'm going to be my new focus.
This must feel so confusing. Ultimately if you want love from a man, the way you describe it, which includes intimacy, this will need to be with a new man. You’d do well to explore new man Manifesto program. Either attract in him What you desire or call for those qualities in a new man. I suggest New Man Manifesto to learn more. bit.ly/newmanmanifesto
Have you ever asked him to express his love with words also? Maybe he never learnt it at home or maybe doing things for you is his love language - because, as you say, he does these things to show you his love. But this is just a thought that popped into my head and it depends on many other circumstances that may play into his behaviour.
The guys LOVE the feeling statements. IVE heard many say that I sound like a poet. It also gets the conversation rolling more than responding good or well to there dead end questions. This technique is so brilliant - we’re bejng feminine, we’re leaning back and not leading the conversation, but we are getting the ball rolling discretely. The man still feels like he is controlling the conversation
You are the best. NEVER apologize or change because people say your videos are too long. For those of us who value you and know your advice is GOLD, your videos aren’t long enough! You’re the best on TH-cam by far, Adrienne!
At the end of this video, I realised I had a smile on my face. I know what I'm gonna do from now. Wonderful you are, thank you Adrienne and love X from London
I feel so relieved every time i watch your videos! You give me hope! I have been with my boyfriend 8 years and no proposal (we are 28) which is the only thing the bothers me about our connection. He chased me and acts like a masculine man before i started your programs but hasn't claimed me as a wife yet, which is my ultimate desire so thats why i looked to you for help. I have been following your programs for a month now and marriage is now something we talk about regularly and he said its coming, now just waiting for the ring! 3 month time is in my calendar so lets see what happens! Thank you for giving me courage.
8 years is a long time but you’ve got a good plan. Read this: everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/
you have helped me so much. After listening to you for over a year and purchasing femm tools for dating and 500 ways and doing exactly what you suggest. Leveling up, doing uncomfortable feminine energy work, placing my hand on my heart and sending (the guy i thought i loved who wanted nothing to do with me and leaving me single for over a decade) him love, but also saying what i want in a man that that man didn't do. The first time i did that exercise it broke me of my soul tie or whatever to the man i thought i wanted. After going on many dates, practicing feminine energy, learning to love all parts of myself and manifesting the man i wanted. i actually found him. 8 months ago. I will forever listen to your videos because in this world it is so easy to want to be in your masculine energy. He started a savings account to buy me a ring and I'm actually moving in with him and after ten years of living by myself i have so many emotions! I can't even identify them all. Mostly excitement but also worry. Anyway, if you have read this far I would like to ask you a question, We are moving my house into his and there is a lot of work to be done. He doesn't seem that concerned whereas I am freaking out. I told him how amazing it feels to have a beautiful house to feel proud of and i've told him i'm a little scared about all of the work we have to do. Do you suggest that if he doesn't take the reigns on this one that I just go do what I need to do to be moved? Like without hassling him at all? Im confused because it is my house into his so do I take the lead? I hope you can answer it's been bugging me because i want to be in my fem energy but it's almost impossible not to at this point. Thank you so much for sharing all of this valuable, golden information with everyone....p.s. my boyfriend also watches and loves you :)
I use your technique of saying texting has been fun, my eyes get tired with all this screen time, a phone call would feel nice, what do you think ALL the time. It works and quickly gets me out of the endless, going nowhere messaging back and forth on dating sites BS
I was involved with a man and fell in love. He said he wanted a future with me and then I got a call from his wife. Shocking and painful. I’m ready to date someone that is available and actually single.
sorry about that, people should be honest in their dealings with other people's heart, some hearts are so fragile and may end up hurting themselves. Sheera, if its fine, i will like to know you more
This video is not for you! :-) But please don't judge the ladies who are interested in rebuilding with their man whatever state the relationship is in. I’m happily married to a man who at one time would only see me tue and Thur afternoons. Read this blog: everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/
I think this is so toxic, why? Cos an empowered woman wouldn't even be attracted or even be interested in men that breadcrumbs. There's a reason why he is doing it....his just not that into you! Move on, empower yourselves ladies and get a man on YOUR level. We not here to build-a-man.
I don't think I've ever commented, Adrienne. Because I'm listening to you so deeply! Everything you say is SO helpful and I wanted you to know that. I honestly use your strategies ALL the time whether its with my work relationships, my kids, or my dating relationship. So I just wanted to say thank you so much for gong so in depth in these videos. They are INCREDIBLY helpful and you've not only helped me, but those around me who feel happiness from using these strategies, because being warm, positive and feminine not only helps me, but it makes others feel good. Xox
I’ve been able to pick up very quickly when someone is trying to breadcrumb me or when someone else is getting breadcrumbed watching these videos over the years.
And why would you want a breadcrumb guy to chase you...? He'll act correctly for a while and then slip again into old behavior. Get someone whose basic setting is generous: generous with time, generous with focus, generous with kindness, etc.
If a man breadcrumbs me, I move on. Especially if I’ve invested in him and he doesn’t return it. I respect myself way too much to tolerate half hearted men
Thank you Adrienne, I am learning so much about the feminine energy we all have but suppress. I know I have so much of the masculine energy about me, but I love and wish I was more feminine. Watching your videos to make the thought and energy shift is so helpful. From a sub in Québec Canada 🇨🇦
🌷ADRIENNE~ HUH? UM IM RIGHT ON TRACK! I ACCIDENTALLY DELETED ALL HIS MSSG TWO DAYS AGO! TAG HE’S IT... SINCE I FOUND YOU HE’S SEEN THE CHANGE IN ME. I LEFT HIM SCRATCHING HIS HEAD!! HAHAHA. I DONT THINK HE KNEW THAT... “I AM A GODDESS ON A PEDESTAL” YES! TEACHER🙏🏼
Thank you for sharing your health issues… I’ve had the exact same thing (moon face) in the past from medical steroid treatment… it left me with the awareness of how superficial most of the world is… it’s a beautiful thing your high school boyfriend stuck with you through thick and thin ❤️ he’ was one of the rare birds who can see deeper
Speaking on what you said around 38 minutes in, I can’t understand why a grown man allows his parents and/or family of origin to boss him around and tell him who he can or can’t marry or anything else. The same man would most likely never allow his woman to boss him and tell him what he can or can’t do. He’d stand his ground with her yet he crumbles with the pressure of his parents. My mindset is that if he’s a grown adult, his parents no longer have any say about anything. They can offer their opinion, but that’s about it. I can’t be with a man that still acts like he’s a child that is obedient to his parents and allows them to call the shots. I left a man I was in a 3 1/2 year relationship with because he respected his mother’s wishes over my own. He even put a male friend’s needs and wants over mine and he had just met that man. That showed me that he didn’t see me as his future wife and I wasn’t a priority to him
So ironic, the statement you just made about how we should concentrate on what’s going right. I had just told myself this exact thing in the past few days during “ my time of thoughts”. I’m so glad you said this bc I thought maybe, for just a split second, when this thought came to me, “you are only telling yourself this bc you WANT IT TO WORK”!! But to hear this from you just really was awesome!! Confirming and well appreciated!! Again thank you Ms A. And let me say- ever since I began doing this- accepting what’s right instead of what’s not or how it could or should be- I can see a difference from him toward our relationship. He seems to be much more relaxed. Obviously, I think, bc he can see and feel, I am relaxed more than ever. I’m not TRYING TO MAKE IT HAPPEN!!! I am just accepting and letting it be what it already is. If this turns out to not be “right” for me( or him)- then he’s not my guy. (I don’t want that to be the case though). Still. I choose to be in our “present”. Taking both of what we have to offer as it is. Right now!!! Thanks again.
TY TY More than u understand for every & All ur incredible, factual etc. videos. I truly appreciate U I appreciate U, The fact that you sacrifice UR Time to care for us females! I 💖💖💖 ALL U DO😍 length of time on videos doesn’t matter when we R given vital, impactful, helpful info, too restore, transform us.Keep em all comin Awesome lady🙏🏾🔥🥰
Even though I’m no longer in a relationship and loving my life right now, I love watching these videos still, as we learn so much from you to help us grow in life in general! 💗 I struggled to let go of my ex man, who was a masculine energy man but wasn’t physically or emotionally available, but you have helped me so much. If it’s meant to be, he will come get me and I trust myself and the Universe on what’s best for me! ☺️ I hear your voice sometimes nudging me and I absolutely love it! 🤣 Thank you for giving us real tools of how to tackle our thoughts, it’s helped me so much in settling in my feminine energy. I can’t wait to purchase your books… Could you give us a few tools of how not to have expectations too please… Like I know we need to let go of expectations, but how do you do that?
Hi Adrienne! I would really really appreciate a long video like this about dating men when we are virgins and believe in no sex before marriage 😭 I've been reading some articles online and it seems like something impossible like sci-fi. My problem is that I'm virgin for religious reasons, but I'm not the conventional "religious" person either, I deeply "dislike/despise" the religious communities (from personal experiences) and I'd rather die or shoot myself than marry someone from such communities. (Please understand this is just how I personally feel, I have tons of friends and family from these communities and they're nice, I just CANNOT marry someone in it) So basically I'm left looking for someone who's not necessarily religious but who's okay with waiting until marriage for sex 😅
wow same, i feel like we've had same experience regarding church. but as much as we dislike it, the truth is huge percentage of men who understands/believes about no premarital sex are those who goes to church. there are other church groups that are not into very traditional. the praise and worship type of church those has good men, especially they have accountability group, etc
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
Minute 28:29 is tooo funny lol but we all do that! This is my dream guy who’s never here, pushed me, tells me he’d never marry a woman who does xy and z thing that I do BUT he’s my dream guy 😜 I agree you’re also putting that energy out there to god that that is good enough so you’ll keep getting more of the same
Hi Adrienne, this was a great video ! I’ve learned so much from you and my life is getting better and better from it! I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart ♥️ Also, I’m guessing you’re already aware of the link between Vitamin D and thyroid/ Graves’ disease .. my daughter started having issues with her eyes at around age 14 and her doctor got her on a regimen of Vitamin D3 and it has helped her a lot .. her levels were extremely deficient before and now are at an optimal level (he said that is key, to keep them at optimal levels !:) just wanted to make sure you were aware in case you weren’t ♥️
I also call that fishing, as in fishing to see by throwing a hook like a or P sign, to see what he can get from you buy those little purple or Emoji hooks
I went from dating this guy for four months and him pursuing, giving and helping to him not showing up for things last min, and using his insane work schedule he had in the beginning as his excuse to making excuses. We never officially broke up but his actions have said enough. He has told me like five times we would talk but of course never do. He text me once to a couple times a week things like, how r u, whats up, you doing ok….ect. He lives 3 hours away but has not once asked to hangout. I am done texting and he has kept some of my things even though i sent money for him to send it back soooo I know i will not be getting them back sadly. I cant mentally do this anymore for my mental health.
I was worried about you and why you’ve made less videos lately ❤️❤️❤️ I’m glad the surgery went well ❤️❤️❤️ We think you’re beautiful in every video. You definitely did grow through that unique feature. You are just the best!!
@@bridgetulrich1711 apologies Bridget, but im not spamming, sometimes loneliness can drive you crazy, i read comments and then respond to it hoping i can strike a conversation with someone, people hardly respond to comments so i try to comment on a few people and hope one responds. Im sorry again if you feel offended by it, but I come in peace
What to do when you say “when we’re you thinking to call or go out” and they respond right now or when do you have time back? It’s not clear how to femininely respond without sounding like over coy repeating the same question again and again
Well I’m surly fed up with my man. I think he has gone coo coo! He seems confused and has rejected me again, time to move on! Thanks for your video anyway. But I don’t believe I’ll be needing it this time.......,,
Thank you for your wisdom. I am having trouble hearing your recording over my AC. Any way that you can record your videos just a bit louder? Thank you and blessings to you!
As a single parent of a 4 year old daughter I have set the boundary of no moving in with my guy until engagement. We have been together for almost a year. I feel like the relationship has gone a bit stagnant but we both discussed this early on and agreed that we'd like to het married one day. He pulled away 3 months ago because of depression and life stress but is still engaged. The distance made me feel insecure and I am trying to get back to my fem energy I've been practicing. I feel like I have vocalized to him my feelings about things. Any advice?
Have you mirrored his energy? Like he's pulled back a bit so you do too. Not faking it though. Just be busy taking care of yourself and daughter. That might make him start being more attentive, if it doesnt then at least you'll know.
Can you do something on how men do not like hearing that you can be interested in marrying more than 1 man and not believing there is only one person out there to marry? I have chased marriage my whole life and left every relationship when they didn’t want to marry. My last relationship he, claimed, I was the only woman he’d ever wanted to marry and he’d never found someone before me he’d wanted to marry. We still broke up because, supposedly, he couldn’t get over me being a single mom to a beautiful 4 year old. I’m 35 and successful.
Anyone who wants to control you or outcomes is living in fear. Control is an illusion to create the feeling of safety. “I’m free to feel anyway I feel. You don’t have to listen to my feelings that is your choice.” “It feels good to have things perfect but doing them an exact way is something I cannot do.” Go deeper with “500 Ways,” ebook and 2 day video classes. bit.ly/500waysbook
No one can control our emotions, even if it appears some sure do try to ! ... I’ve found a lot of healing in watching Adriennes videos on healing my inner girl.. also, learning to “riff” as she calls it, really has helped me settle down into my feelings deeper and deeper so they feel much more grounded . It’s really all about you and what feels good to you, so starting by going within to heal and love yourself first is a great place to start ! ♥️
@@AdrienneEverheart how do you know then that it’s time to leave him? I understand your point of working on yourself and the relationship, but there’s a thin line between that and accepting abusive behaviour. Curious to hear :)
id rather be with someone who is a pure gentleman and that is very talented that is the right guy for me that is the one and that wants to set sail away with me at sunrise like very seriously and more though so
I was in a relationship with my man, after 8 months he wanted a break! after 1 month of a break he text me and broke it off. After 1month of no contact he starts text me one night to pick him up …. That night he told me he loved me for the first time…Now I get bread crumb text….and then went. Out on a date with a friend and the next night I get a text….why be so silly ???
This is about how you feel not his psychology of knowing “why”. Get clear on what you feel and what you desire. I suggest New Man Manifesto to learn more. bit.ly/newmanmanifesto
Love all your videos. The suggested long reply about butterflies in the workplace seems like a big turn off for any man, and myself. Maybe a short and sweet reply “feeling great about this sunshine”. Are you supposed to ask how his day is? These online dater men are very tough to communicate with if you don’t keep the conversation going
Dated a very loving attentive man for 3 years but he died. My current bf's breadcrumbing is appalling. Waiting for 1st yr anniversary to see if anything changes or just leave. Better is out there.
Be careful w the law of attraction. It could get you really in your head and harden your heart. I suggest you to pray to help you understand yourself and God... and men.
Thank you for your wisdom ❤️ I accually shifted to my feminine energy do successfully that he just proposed to me, but I encoutered a problem. So many difficult things happen between us that despite the fact that he's most commited and loving man, I feel resentment and pain. I agreed to marriage but I'm not sure it's fair.. How to heal and let yourself love him again? After all this pain?
I’d try to get spiritual guidance on that… this warning feeling in your gut may be intuition or just not being able to let go of things he’s now sincerely corrected 💜 lots of prayer, ask Creator for discernment and listen to the whispers of intuition
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
@@carissakelly1058 you are welcome dear. please is there any chance we can get to know and be friends? Im single and looking for something serious with the right woman. do write back soon.
My guy keeps promising he will propose at some point. But it has been almost 4 years and still no sign of him getting to that point. He isn't saying "no" but he isn't taking action. Do I still have to walk away? Idk what my point is of essentially giving up...
Thank you for sharing about your eye, I also have had scar tissue on an eyelid for the last five years and my eyelid is also asymmetric and it’s definitely made me grow ... how did you get to a place of self acceptance ?
Hi Adrienne! I have been a fan of your videos for years now. You’re the best! Do you have recommendations on where to buy cute feminine clothes? You have the best feminine style and I’m having a hard time finding clothes like you wear ❤️
Thank you! Of course I can offer help. For one: go with dresses as much as you can. Next choose fabrics or colors that you like or they speak to your heart. I can go for sporty looks but pair them with girly feminine feeling jewelry for example. I may wear black yoga pants and a t shirt but I wear a pink neon hair tie. I feel very girly in that outfit. I really like anthropology, Rachel pally and wild fox. 🥰🥰
@@AdrienneEverheart love it! Thank you for the suggestions ❤️ I bought your 500 ways and FEMM class... learning so much. It was sweet of you to respond.. 🌸
Hi Adrienne, I have ABC's & 500 ways. Walking through a shopping centre with my man, we go past a jewellery store, he says "don't even think about it" meaning a ring... it hurts like a kick in the guts, but it also pisses me that he thinks it's some grand prize to get a ring from him. I'm really at a loss as to a response. I've never pressured him, he's always brought up the topic if anything. Thoughts? Tips for response? Regards from Australia xx
I’m not expert but you could have responded how you felt in that moment like “I feel really confused” or “I feel like I’ve been kicked in the guts,” just like you said to us. I know I’d feel nervous saying that to a man BUT notice how he didn’t even mind saying something insensitive to you and all you’re doing is saying something about how his insensitivity hurts you WITHOUT being rude or accusatory back.
@@bridgetulrich1711 I love this response. I’d agree, and I think Adrienne would advise the same. Share how you feel; be vulnerable, warm and honest with what you’re feeling in your body.
I certainly did. I loved Jeff very much but he laughed at me when I said I wanted to be a wife. Me walking away changed everything. 👉🏼everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/
@@AdrienneEverheart I watched the video. It makes sense. I am probably already on the same track I am just not focused on outcomes at all. I think you are right. If it was an appropriate relationship then he would be physically present irl. He has stated several times that I should just ask him for help but there is no basis or justification to do that if he is not present and showing me that he can be relied upon. He doesn't see it that way and he has a bunch of other male "dating experts" feeding him garbage and he acts upon it. Its pretty crappy and I am really tired and sad.
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
It’s been 1 and half year, still only meet 1-2 times a week, mainly dinner and sleep over, not doing things together. Feel like we much more than friends, I believe he cares about me, and he said he loves me as well. But he is not around, lots of time, he loves spending time with boys and families. I feel I love his potential as well. He is a nice person, a good man. But I feel like I have to prove myself to him, l am not sure where I stand with him. I believe he sees me as girlfriend, we are exclusive to each other. But I need more. 2 times a week is not enough, especially I don’t feel he wants to meet me as much as I want to meet him. He is absolutely my priority, but I am just one of his choices, competing his time with his mates. Is walking away the only choice I have to change my situation?
The only way to end the confusion is have that conversation with him. Do not live in confusion, it only gets worse. Your instinct is more than probably right if you say you feel he wants to meet you less than you want to meet him. Express how you feel and what you need, see what he responds. If he cannot commit to giving you more time and you simply cannot be happy with what he's giving you, then indeed, walk away. But, from experience, confusion does not exist, a man's actions always show what he can and cannot give. Sometimes, he is just not aware you have bigger needs than what it is offered, and when he acknowledges them, he may make some changes. Have that talk for yourself, best of luck and I hope things go great for you either way. Remember, he is not confused, you are.
My guy mark, was constantly blowing me off, so he could be with other women, every time he would get interested in me. It was all about the purpose of having sex, I felt that he manipulated me in every way he could. and I got played by him as well and ended up getting hurt, but standing up to sexual pressure, is really hard for me. It would be great if you could do a video on how women can stand up to sexual pressure, and stop being played by men. If women really have all the power, over a guy why would they have to take a back seat, when your guy blows you off to be with other women. Or can we just brake up with them and tell them that it is all over between the two of us.
That’s the problem we hold on too long when hurting when we should be running away! If he keep blowing you off for other sexual partners your relationship is meaningless Sex is not the cure! Would he deal with you if you were blowing him off? You have the wrong empathy for him and he has no integrity
It was really a struggle in getting close to him, I don't think he has any integrity what so ever. because every time I try to even get close, or mention about us being a couple he pulls away he just does not take commitment seriously.
@@hananibrahim9692 you are welcome dear. Now is intended to be more than just a compliment, but i think you look amazing, any chance of we getting to be friends? I am single and searching for a serious relationship with the right woman
I hope the video was helpful. Balancing feminine and masculine energy is understanding the man doesn’t arrive ‘perfect’ but often with habits or ways of doing things that don’t support a LTR. Your best chances to turn it around (or anything) is by using the tips in my video, which are all about YOU & your personal power as a woman. 💪🏼❤️
Hi Adrienne, you’ve mentioned in the past that if you’re in a committed relationship, and things aren’t working, that it’s better to walk away than to start dating others while staying together (that it can have a bad effect on the man if he is committed and showing up). But what if he is already dating someone else? We were together 5 years, took a break, now he wants to be committed, but nonmonogamous. He is showing up like a partner, but he is dating others. We aren’t having sex because he has stopped being attracted to me that way, but wants to see if being nonmonogamous will reignite the passion-that maybe his nature has been nonmonogamous the whole time. I know that my job is to lean back and be in my feminine energy, which would have a better chance of reigniting the sexual flame between us. However, I’m not sure if I should also date other people, or if that would just build resentment in him and push him away.
Leave him. If he's saying no monogamy, he wants to taste the variety first. It's highly unlikely he'd willing marry into a monogamous long term relationship soon or at this stage in life. May be 5-6 years down the line or 10 years down the line he may change his mind. Or maybe he will never change his mind. I was in same situation once and I left. Need to connect to guys who are sure of what they desire in life, atleast in terms of sexuality. It's one thing to date multiple people because you want to connect and find that someone, one particular person who makes your life better. It's whole another to date multiple people with no objective to single down on one or make a choice. By leaving I made his choice easier for him.
I appreciate the lessons cause love is truly a game and you either learn the rules and play well or get played. These men are manipulating the law of attraction to get what they want and we need to know how to respond against that strategy so thank you!
Well said. Yes you have power too! #feminineenergy Not to control but enforce your boundaries. 🥰
@@AdrienneEverheart I’m an so enjoying boundaries! Listening to women like you who share how to create them and enforce them and can actually show how it’s working for you in your life is really encouraging! And I find It’s drives them wild and curious! Idk why I wasn’t doing this sooner! 🥰🥰🥰
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2:16 What is bread crumbing and piggy banking?
3:48 Why do guys piggybank and breadcrumb?
6:05 How do i stop to stop the piggy banking bread crumbing cycle?
7:52 What are some ways to interrupt my thought cycle or to change my routine?
10:05 How do we get from piggy banking and bread crumbing to the relationship I want?
11:08 What am I really feeling when I want a man’s attention?
12:17 What do I do to stop obsessing over a man?
13:16 How do I establish a strong connection with a man?
16:00 how do I raise my quality in a man’s eyes?
16:18 What is a preference versus a boundary?
17:30 What is the best way for me to reinforce a boundary
18:30 what are some good examples of preferences versus boundaries?
21:48 How do I wrap my man’s heart up?
22:00 What do I really want and need from a man?
24:50 how do I get a man to share what he thinks with me?
26:50 how do I really accept my mans no?
30:50 how do I get my man’s love and affection back especially if I live with him
33:50 what to do if I am trying to get back together yet it’s not as often as I want
35:00 Why will walking away from a man work with a man?
36:20 What is a good example of a boundary?
37:20 What do I do if my boyfriend’s family doesn’t want him to marry me?
39:20 What if I like a guy who is unemployed or has no car: can we have the connection I want:
40:50 What is a good book on law of attraction?
43:00 What do I do if I want more one-on-one time with my boyfriend while I’m pregnant?
45:05 should I try to lose weight before looking for another relationship?
Please look into the terms and conditions in my videos. Of course you feel insecure. He is cutting you off from the relationship on his terms while you wait. This feels so bad because it is not mutual. You cannot sit idle while he figures his life out. It;s just not fair. "I feel so sad that you're experiencing depression, yet I trust you'll figure it out. As for our relationship, I enjoy being together yet have gone one month without seeing you and in order for me to be in a relationship this means dating x days per week. I'd like to still see you, but I am keeping my options open." Read "500 Ways" and Get FEMM Tools for Dating to learn more.
Please, can you pin this message on top, so that it doesn't get lost? 🙏
Adrienne, your videos inspire! You are the epitome of femininity!
To be honest the bread crummers ( piggy bankers) don’t deserve me to even draw on my feminine and send him a very feeling statement. To me I reserve that for someone who is sincere.
i admire your confidence. how are you today, Im Jeffery
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Please make a video about actually being in a relationship or marriage with a man. Keeping things passionate and happy and staying in your feminine energy while you’re together, living daily life. Especially with kids, chores and the challenges life brings once you’re actually spending every day together and all that. Thank you for all your wisdom Adrienne you are such a blessing 💕
Actions speak louder than words and bl-j-bs. Get so good at them that he will walk on hot coals for one 😉
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If a man breadcrumbs me I’m out. I want someone who willingly gives 💖
Yea I don't understand this how to win him back. Why would we want to
That part
You got that right.Why wish things when you can have a giving man .
Why in the world would anyone with any self-respect want to marry a man
that would breadcrumb her at all?
Only desperate women would stick around for that nonsense
When I ask guys about giving me a phone call, using Adrienne’s script, and they don’t set a time to call and keep wanting to message on the dating app, I ask “when we’re you thinking to call?” When they reply back, right now. I say, usually again, “I keep a busy schedule. I prefer to set a time for us to talk. When were you thinking to call?” Then when we do talk, I try to keep it to 10 minutes. I just want to hear they’re normal on phone, that they can speak and carry a conversation, then I want them to take me on a date. I do not waste time on phone or texting with men who have not started investing into me by taking me out on a date. My time is valuable.
We have 3 toddlers together, he shows up, he does so many things to show his love for me such as tasks, vehicle maintenance, errands, etc. but will not tell me he loves me, misses me, and will not recommit. We behave like a couple though. I'm going to start focusing on me, and make me and my children my priority, and change up my routine. I'm going to use your techniques. I'm tired of his reluctance, so I'm going to be my new focus.
This must feel so confusing. Ultimately if you want love from a man, the way you describe it, which includes intimacy, this will need to be with a new man. You’d do well to explore new man Manifesto program. Either attract in him
What you desire or call for those qualities in a new man. I suggest New Man Manifesto to learn more. bit.ly/newmanmanifesto
Have you ever asked him to express his love with words also? Maybe he never learnt it at home or maybe doing things for you is his love language - because, as you say, he does these things to show you his love. But this is just a thought that popped into my head and it depends on many other circumstances that may play into his behaviour.
The guys LOVE the feeling statements. IVE heard many say that I sound like a poet. It also gets the conversation rolling more than responding good or well to there dead end questions. This technique is so brilliant - we’re bejng feminine, we’re leaning back and not leading the conversation, but we are getting the ball rolling discretely. The man still feels like he is controlling the conversation
Can u give a example of feeling statements☺
You are the best. NEVER apologize or change because people say your videos are too long. For those of us who value you and know your advice is GOLD, your videos aren’t long enough! You’re the best on TH-cam by far, Adrienne!
At the end of this video, I realised I had a smile on my face. I know what I'm gonna do from now. Wonderful you are, thank you Adrienne and love X from London
You are so welcome!
I like u I m single
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I feel so relieved every time i watch your videos! You give me hope! I have been with my boyfriend 8 years and no proposal (we are 28) which is the only thing the bothers me about our connection.
He chased me and acts like a masculine man before i started your programs but hasn't claimed me as a wife yet, which is my ultimate desire so thats why i looked to you for help.
I have been following your programs for a month now and marriage is now something we talk about regularly and he said its coming, now just waiting for the ring! 3 month time is in my calendar so lets see what happens! Thank you for giving me courage.
8 years is a long time but you’ve got a good plan. Read this: everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/
Don't be afraid to lose him... if you don't have kids together even better.
Dream walk into his dreams as his wife; he'll have a dream of you in this way and it'll speed it up lmao
Update?
Did you get the ring?
you have helped me so much. After listening to you for over a year and purchasing femm tools for dating and 500 ways and doing exactly what you suggest. Leveling up, doing uncomfortable feminine energy work, placing my hand on my heart and sending (the guy i thought i loved who wanted nothing to do with me and leaving me single for over a decade) him love, but also saying what i want in a man that that man didn't do. The first time i did that exercise it broke me of my soul tie or whatever to the man i thought i wanted. After going on many dates, practicing feminine energy, learning to love all parts of myself and manifesting the man i wanted. i actually found him. 8 months ago. I will forever listen to your videos because in this world it is so easy to want to be in your masculine energy. He started a savings account to buy me a ring and I'm actually moving in with him and after ten years of living by myself i have so many emotions! I can't even identify them all. Mostly excitement but also worry. Anyway, if you have read this far I would like to ask you a question, We are moving my house into his and there is a lot of work to be done. He doesn't seem that concerned whereas I am freaking out. I told him how amazing it feels to have a beautiful house to feel proud of and i've told him i'm a little scared about all of the work we have to do. Do you suggest that if he doesn't take the reigns on this one that I just go do what I need to do to be moved? Like without hassling him at all? Im confused because it is my house into his so do I take the lead? I hope you can answer it's been bugging me because i want to be in my fem energy but it's almost impossible not to at this point. Thank you so much for sharing all of this valuable, golden information with everyone....p.s. my boyfriend also watches and loves you :)
I use your technique of saying texting has been fun, my eyes get tired with all this screen time, a phone call would feel nice, what do you think ALL the time. It works and quickly gets me out of the endless, going nowhere messaging back and forth on dating sites BS
i like to meet up to check for chemistry and the real stuff...
I was involved with a man and fell in love. He said he wanted a future with me and then I got a call from his wife. Shocking and painful.
I’m ready to date someone that is available and actually single.
sorry about that, people should be honest in their dealings with other people's heart, some hearts are so fragile and may end up hurting themselves. Sheera, if its fine, i will like to know you more
My first thought: why would I want a breadcrumbing guy to marry me? Eww! 😄
This video is not for you! :-) But please don't judge the ladies who are interested in rebuilding with their man whatever state the relationship is in. I’m happily married to a man who at one time would only see me tue and Thur afternoons. Read this blog: everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/
Same! Its more an observation than a judgement
@@beatlessbeauty1106 yep same here. Absolutely no judgement, I'm a subbie for a reason! 🤷♀️
Exactly lol
I think this is so toxic, why? Cos an empowered woman wouldn't even be attracted or even be interested in men that breadcrumbs. There's a reason why he is doing it....his just not that into you! Move on, empower yourselves ladies and get a man on YOUR level. We not here to build-a-man.
I don't think I've ever commented, Adrienne. Because I'm listening to you so deeply! Everything you say is SO helpful and I wanted you to know that. I honestly use your strategies ALL the time whether its with my work relationships, my kids, or my dating relationship. So I just wanted to say thank you so much for gong so in depth in these videos. They are INCREDIBLY helpful and you've not only helped me, but those around me who feel happiness from using these strategies, because being warm, positive and feminine not only helps me, but it makes others feel good. Xox
Keep up the good work! Thank you for commenting. 🥰
I’ve been able to pick up very quickly when someone is trying to breadcrumb me or when someone else is getting breadcrumbed watching these videos over the years.
Keep up the good work! 🥰 💋💋
I get comfort from my lifestyle which includes many feminine things and count man after man
I’m sure one month from now I’m going to write you saying that I’m with my man of my dreams
And why would you want a breadcrumb guy to chase you...? He'll act correctly for a while and then slip again into old behavior. Get someone whose basic setting is generous: generous with time, generous with focus, generous with kindness, etc.
If a man breadcrumbs me, I move on. Especially if I’ve invested in him and he doesn’t return it. I respect myself way too much to tolerate half hearted men
Thank you Adrienne, I am learning so much about the feminine energy we all have but suppress. I know I have so much of the masculine energy about me, but I love and wish I was more feminine. Watching your videos to make the thought and energy shift is so helpful. From a sub in Québec Canada 🇨🇦
Thank you Adrienne so much! You have completely changed my mindset and I am so much happier! 💕
🌷ADRIENNE~
HUH? UM IM RIGHT ON TRACK! I ACCIDENTALLY DELETED ALL HIS MSSG TWO DAYS AGO!
TAG HE’S IT...
SINCE I FOUND YOU HE’S SEEN THE CHANGE IN ME.
I LEFT HIM SCRATCHING HIS HEAD!! HAHAHA.
I DONT THINK HE KNEW THAT...
“I AM A GODDESS ON A PEDESTAL”
YES! TEACHER🙏🏼
Much love. Keep up the good work! 🥰
Thank you for sharing your health issues… I’ve had the exact same thing (moon face) in the past from medical steroid treatment… it left me with the awareness of how superficial most of the world is… it’s a beautiful thing your high school boyfriend stuck with you through thick and thin ❤️ he’ was one of the rare birds who can see deeper
Speaking on what you said around 38 minutes in, I can’t understand why a grown man allows his parents and/or family of origin to boss him around and tell him who he can or can’t marry or anything else. The same man would most likely never allow his woman to boss him and tell him what he can or can’t do. He’d stand his ground with her yet he crumbles with the pressure of his parents. My mindset is that if he’s a grown adult, his parents no longer have any say about anything. They can offer their opinion, but that’s about it. I can’t be with a man that still acts like he’s a child that is obedient to his parents and allows them to call the shots. I left a man I was in a 3 1/2 year relationship with because he respected his mother’s wishes over my own. He even put a male friend’s needs and wants over mine and he had just met that man. That showed me that he didn’t see me as his future wife and I wasn’t a priority to him
So ironic, the statement you just made about how we should concentrate on what’s going right. I had just told myself this exact thing in the past few days during “ my time of thoughts”. I’m so glad you said this bc I thought maybe, for just a split second, when this thought came to me, “you are only telling yourself this bc you WANT IT TO WORK”!! But to hear this from you just really was awesome!! Confirming and well appreciated!! Again thank you Ms A. And let me say- ever since I began doing this- accepting what’s right instead of what’s not or how it could or should be- I can see a difference from him toward our relationship. He seems to be much more relaxed. Obviously, I think, bc he can see and feel, I am relaxed more than ever. I’m not TRYING TO MAKE IT HAPPEN!!! I am just accepting and letting it be what it already is. If this turns out to not be “right” for me( or him)- then he’s not my guy. (I don’t want that to be the case though). Still. I choose to be in our “present”. Taking both of what we have to offer as it is. Right now!!! Thanks again.
TY TY More than u understand for every & All ur incredible, factual etc. videos. I truly appreciate U I appreciate U, The fact that you sacrifice UR Time to care for us females! I 💖💖💖 ALL U DO😍 length of time on videos doesn’t matter when we R given vital, impactful, helpful info, too restore, transform us.Keep em all comin Awesome lady🙏🏾🔥🥰
Revisiting my new man manifesto so I can manifest the kind of man I do want in front of me.
Even though I’m no longer in a relationship and loving my life right now, I love watching these videos still, as we learn so much from you to help us grow in life in general! 💗 I struggled to let go of my ex man, who was a masculine energy man but wasn’t physically or emotionally available, but you have helped me so much. If it’s meant to be, he will come get me and I trust myself and the Universe on what’s best for me! ☺️ I hear your voice sometimes nudging me and I absolutely love it! 🤣 Thank you for giving us real tools of how to tackle our thoughts, it’s helped me so much in settling in my feminine energy. I can’t wait to purchase your books… Could you give us a few tools of how not to have expectations too please… Like I know we need to let go of expectations, but how do you do that?
Oh I wish I had not missed this one ..... I feel like a fool. I learn and grow...become stagnant and then learn and grow.
Don’t you dare criticize your progress! If we always did everything perfectly we would not evolve. Keep up the good work! 🥰
Hi Adrienne! I would really really appreciate a long video like this about dating men when we are virgins and believe in no sex before marriage 😭 I've been reading some articles online and it seems like something impossible like sci-fi.
My problem is that I'm virgin for religious reasons, but I'm not the conventional "religious" person either, I deeply "dislike/despise" the religious communities (from personal experiences) and I'd rather die or shoot myself than marry someone from such communities.
(Please understand this is just how I personally feel, I have tons of friends and family from these communities and they're nice, I just CANNOT marry someone in it)
So basically I'm left looking for someone who's not necessarily religious but who's okay with waiting until marriage for sex 😅
I am almost in the same boat with you
wow same, i feel like we've had same experience regarding church. but as much as we dislike it, the truth is huge percentage of men who understands/believes about no premarital sex are those who goes to church. there are other church groups that are not into very traditional. the praise and worship type of church those has good men, especially they have accountability group, etc
I love the sentiment, but if he’s breadcrumbing me, I def don’t want to marry that man.
Thankyou! This made my night ❤️
Girl your touching on the very fabric of changing a mans dominance and directing to his heart!! Thank you
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
Whstapp me
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Minute 28:29 is tooo funny lol but we all do that! This is my dream guy who’s never here, pushed me, tells me he’d never marry a woman who does xy and z thing that I do BUT he’s my dream guy 😜 I agree you’re also putting that energy out there to god that that is good enough so you’ll keep getting more of the same
Adrienne, you are amazing. Thank you for sharing your wisdom
Hi Adrienne, this was a great video ! I’ve learned so much from you and my life is getting better and better from it! I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart ♥️
Also, I’m guessing you’re already aware of the link between Vitamin D and thyroid/ Graves’ disease .. my daughter started having issues with her eyes at around age 14 and her doctor got her on a regimen of Vitamin D3 and it has helped her a lot .. her levels were extremely deficient before and now are at an optimal level (he said that is key, to keep them at optimal levels !:) just wanted to make sure you were aware in case you weren’t ♥️
I also call that fishing, as in fishing to see by throwing a hook like a or P sign, to see what he can get from you buy those little purple or Emoji hooks
I like your long videos. I appreciate you explaining. Giving examples. Etc. going into depth. Thks.
I m here
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I went from dating this guy for four months and him pursuing, giving and helping to him not showing up for things last min, and using his insane work schedule he had in the beginning as his excuse to making excuses. We never officially broke up but his actions have said enough. He has told me like five times we would talk but of course never do. He text me once to a couple times a week things like, how r u, whats up, you doing ok….ect. He lives 3 hours away but has not once asked to hangout. I am done texting and he has kept some of my things even though i sent money for him to send it back soooo I know i will not be getting them back sadly. I cant mentally do this anymore for my mental health.
I was worried about you and why you’ve made less videos lately ❤️❤️❤️ I’m glad the surgery went well ❤️❤️❤️ We think you’re beautiful in every video. You definitely did grow through that unique feature. You are just the best!!
hey Bridget, how are you doing today, Im Jeffery
@@colainebradly786 Why are you spamming all the women on this thread?
@@bridgetulrich1711 apologies Bridget, but im not spamming, sometimes loneliness can drive you crazy, i read comments and then respond to it hoping i can strike a conversation with someone, people hardly respond to comments so i try to comment on a few people and hope one responds. Im sorry again if you feel offended by it, but I come in peace
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Thank you for sharing all this feminine wisdom 🙏 Loving all your videos ❤️💜💚
Thank you so much. Your lesson is truly amazing.
What to do when you say “when we’re you thinking to call or go out” and they respond right now or when do you have time back? It’s not clear how to femininely respond without sounding like over coy repeating the same question again and again
A Divine Feminine energy would not accept breadcrumbing under any circumstance. 🖤
That is the ultimate goal here. Not to accept it but to transform your life.
TH-cam hast been sending your videos. I noticed how many I haven’t seen when I looked at your list.
Oh no! Are you signed up for notifications?
One of your best videos 😍
Well I’m surly fed up with my man. I think he has gone coo coo! He seems confused and has rejected me again, time to move on! Thanks for your video anyway. But I don’t believe I’ll be needing it this time.......,,
If a man really loves me . He will be here . Curious about the feeling
Thank you for your wisdom. I am having trouble hearing your recording over my AC. Any way that you can record your videos just a bit louder? Thank you and blessings to you!
As a single parent of a 4 year old daughter I have set the boundary of no moving in with my guy until engagement. We have been together for almost a year. I feel like the relationship has gone a bit stagnant but we both discussed this early on and agreed that we'd like to het married one day. He pulled away 3 months ago because of depression and life stress but is still engaged. The distance made me feel insecure and I am trying to get back to my fem energy I've been practicing. I feel like I have vocalized to him my feelings about things. Any advice?
Have you mirrored his energy? Like he's pulled back a bit so you do too. Not faking it though. Just be busy taking care of yourself and daughter. That might make him start being more attentive, if it doesnt then at least you'll know.
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Can you do something on how men do not like hearing that you can be interested in marrying more than 1 man and not believing there is only one person out there to marry? I have chased marriage my whole life and left every relationship when they didn’t want to marry. My last relationship he, claimed, I was the only woman he’d ever wanted to marry and he’d never found someone before me he’d wanted to marry. We still broke up because, supposedly, he couldn’t get over me being a single mom to a beautiful 4 year old. I’m 35 and successful.
Great video to post on my Birthday💝 thank you Adrienne !
Happy belated birthday Christina, hope you had fun
How do you deal with a man who likes to control your emotions, And wants everything his way . How do I stay in my feminine.
Leave him
Anyone who wants to control you or outcomes is living in fear. Control is an illusion to create the feeling of safety. “I’m free to feel anyway I feel. You don’t have to listen to my feelings that is your choice.” “It feels good to have things perfect but doing them an exact way is something I cannot do.” Go deeper with “500 Ways,” ebook and 2 day video classes. bit.ly/500waysbook
I do not support “leave him” comments. These are simplistic and no more honoring her feelings than what her man is doing.
No one can control our emotions, even if it appears some sure do try to ! ... I’ve found a lot of healing in watching Adriennes videos on healing my inner girl.. also, learning to “riff” as she calls it, really has helped me settle down into my feelings deeper and deeper so they feel much more grounded . It’s really all about you and what feels good to you, so starting by going within to heal and love yourself first is a great place to start ! ♥️
@@AdrienneEverheart how do you know then that it’s time to leave him? I understand your point of working on yourself and the relationship, but there’s a thin line between that and accepting abusive behaviour. Curious to hear :)
id rather be with someone who is a pure gentleman and that is very talented that is the right guy for me that is the one and that wants to set sail away with me at sunrise like very seriously and more though so
I was in a relationship with my man, after 8 months he wanted a break! after 1 month of a break he text me and broke it off. After 1month of no contact he starts text me one night to pick him up …. That night he told me he loved me for the first time…Now I get bread crumb text….and then went. Out on a date with a friend and the next night I get a text….why be so silly ???
Hmm...very unpredictable. How do you feel about that?
I’m in love with this man and would do just about anything to be back with him ❤️🙄
This is about how you feel not his psychology of knowing “why”. Get clear on what you feel and what you desire. I suggest New Man Manifesto to learn more. bit.ly/newmanmanifesto
His not into you sis
@@richrich2862 I don’t think you need to comment thanks
So helpful thank you!!!!
Hey Adrienne from Trinidad
Love you Adrienne !! 💕
Love all your videos. The suggested long reply about butterflies in the workplace seems like a big turn off for any man, and myself. Maybe a short and sweet reply “feeling great about this sunshine”. Are you supposed to ask how his day is? These online dater men are very tough to communicate with if you don’t keep the conversation going
Dated a very loving attentive man for 3 years but he died. My current bf's breadcrumbing is appalling. Waiting for 1st yr anniversary to see if anything changes or just leave. Better is out there.
I get it, but no thanks. I can't survive off of crumbs, nor is it what I deserve if I bring a full course meal.
Time to make cuts to the social life!
Can you please turn up your volume? Thanks so much
He start asking me how do u feel instead how was ur day
Awe that’s so good ! ❤️❤️
Be careful w the law of attraction. It could get you really in your head and harden your heart. I suggest you to pray to help you understand yourself and God... and men.
Thank you Adrienne!
I don’t want a breadcrumbs guys back!
Thank you for your wisdom ❤️ I accually shifted to my feminine energy do successfully that he just proposed to me, but I encoutered a problem. So many difficult things happen between us that despite the fact that he's most commited and loving man, I feel resentment and pain. I agreed to marriage but I'm not sure it's fair.. How to heal and let yourself love him again? After all this pain?
I’d try to get spiritual guidance on that… this warning feeling in your gut may be intuition or just not being able to let go of things he’s now sincerely corrected 💜 lots of prayer, ask Creator for discernment and listen to the whispers of intuition
Thank you so much Adrienne !
Thank you. Helpful to work on myself for sure!!!
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I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
Whstapp me
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So beautiful Adrienne 💗🙏🏻
so are you Carissa :) how are you doing today, Im Jeffery
@@colainebradly786 thank you feeling very happy.
@@carissakelly1058 you are welcome dear. please is there any chance we can get to know and be friends? Im single and looking for something serious with the right woman. do write back soon.
If someone complains your videos are too long, they definitely are not ready for this work 🙄
My guy keeps promising he will propose at some point. But it has been almost 4 years and still no sign of him getting to that point. He isn't saying "no" but he isn't taking action. Do I still have to walk away? Idk what my point is of essentially giving up...
Read this Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
In one form or the other, yes.
Thank you for sharing about your eye, I also have had scar tissue on an eyelid for the last five years and my eyelid is also asymmetric and it’s definitely made me grow ... how did you get to a place of self acceptance ?
@Isabella James i meant about her eye lol
He want me but don't want get married in future but don't want to lose me what can I do
Hi Adrienne! I have been a fan of your videos for years now. You’re the best! Do you have recommendations on where to buy cute feminine clothes? You have the best feminine style and I’m having a hard time finding clothes like you wear ❤️
Thank you! Of course I can offer help. For one: go with dresses as much as you can. Next choose fabrics or colors that you like or they speak to your heart. I can go for sporty looks but pair them with girly feminine feeling jewelry for example. I may wear black yoga pants and a t shirt but I wear a pink neon hair tie. I feel very girly in that outfit. I really like anthropology, Rachel pally and wild fox. 🥰🥰
@@AdrienneEverheart love it! Thank you for the suggestions ❤️ I bought your 500 ways and FEMM class... learning so much. It was sweet of you to respond.. 🌸
Why would you want to win over a guy that breadcrumbs?
How am i 🤠 suppose to chase you 💁🏼♀️ when grandama everhearts is always fallin and can't get up 👍🏼
Hi Adrienne, I have ABC's & 500 ways.
Walking through a shopping centre with my man, we go past a jewellery store, he says "don't even think about it" meaning a ring... it hurts like a kick in the guts, but it also pisses me that he thinks it's some grand prize to get a ring from him. I'm really at a loss as to a response. I've never pressured him, he's always brought up the topic if anything. Thoughts? Tips for response?
Regards from Australia xx
I’m not expert but you could have responded how you felt in that moment like “I feel really confused” or “I feel like I’ve been kicked in the guts,” just like you said to us. I know I’d feel nervous saying that to a man BUT notice how he didn’t even mind saying something insensitive to you and all you’re doing is saying something about how his insensitivity hurts you WITHOUT being rude or accusatory back.
@@bridgetulrich1711 I love this response. I’d agree, and I think Adrienne would advise the same. Share how you feel; be vulnerable, warm and honest with what you’re feeling in your body.
wow, I would be getting rid of him immediately!!
Beautiful, black kitty!!!
Why would anyone want to get a man who doesn't want you to marry you?
I certainly did. I loved Jeff very much but he laughed at me when I said I wanted to be a wife. Me walking away changed everything. 👉🏼everheartcoaching.com/blog/why-walking-away-works-attract-and-keep-your-man-in-one-confident-step/
The link above is to my blog about the topic! 🥰
@@AdrienneEverheart I watched the video. It makes sense. I am probably already on the same track I am just not focused on outcomes at all. I think you are right. If it was an appropriate relationship then he would be physically present irl. He has stated several times that I should just ask him for help but there is no basis or justification to do that if he is not present and showing me that he can be relied upon. He doesn't see it that way and he has a bunch of other male "dating experts" feeding him garbage and he acts upon it. Its pretty crappy and I am really tired and sad.
I want me back.... i miss my free minded happy me
I understand what you are saying but you can set up boundaries with silence too, ignoring, because he will work it out or he will dissappear.
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
Whstapp me
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Walked away in mind yet my heart isn't ready to walk away . What to do?
Take time to build yourself up. Focus on self.
Read my blog on walking away!
It’s been 1 and half year, still only meet 1-2 times a week, mainly dinner and sleep over, not doing things together. Feel like we much more than friends, I believe he cares about me, and he said he loves me as well. But he is not around, lots of time, he loves spending time with boys and families. I feel I love his potential as well. He is a nice person, a good man. But I feel like I have to prove myself to him, l am not sure where I stand with him. I believe he sees me as girlfriend, we are exclusive to each other. But I need more. 2 times a week is not enough, especially I don’t feel he wants to meet me as much as I want to meet him. He is absolutely my priority, but I am just one of his choices, competing his time with his mates. Is walking away the only choice I have to change my situation?
The only way to end the confusion is have that conversation with him. Do not live in confusion, it only gets worse. Your instinct is more than probably right if you say you feel he wants to meet you less than you want to meet him. Express how you feel and what you need, see what he responds. If he cannot commit to giving you more time and you simply cannot be happy with what he's giving you, then indeed, walk away. But, from experience, confusion does not exist, a man's actions always show what he can and cannot give. Sometimes, he is just not aware you have bigger needs than what it is offered, and when he acknowledges them, he may make some changes. Have that talk for yourself, best of luck and I hope things go great for you either way. Remember, he is not confused, you are.
@@mirand0la it’s my own problem, I couldn’t end, I don’t want to be alone
@@刘婷-f3z I hope you can find peace and balance, no matter the situation, and be happy with your choice.
My guy mark, was constantly blowing me off, so he could be with other women, every time he would get interested in me. It was all about the purpose of having sex, I felt that he manipulated me in every way he could. and I got played by him as well and ended up getting hurt, but standing up to sexual pressure, is really hard for me. It would be great if you could do a video on how women can stand up to sexual pressure, and stop being played by men. If women really have all the power, over a guy why would they have to take a back seat, when your guy blows you off to be with other women. Or can we just brake up with them and tell them that it is all over between the two of us.
That’s the problem we hold on too long when hurting when we should be running away! If he keep blowing you off for other sexual partners your relationship is meaningless Sex is not the cure! Would he deal with you if you were blowing him off? You have the wrong empathy for him and he has no integrity
It was really a struggle in getting close to him, I don't think he has any integrity what so ever. because every time I try to even get close, or mention about us being a couple he pulls away he just does not take commitment seriously.
I can never hear your Videos. The Audio is SO low...
17:22 im dead
So ready ❤️
Many thanks for your help 👏😊❤️😘
Hanan, how are you doing today, i will love to know more about you
@@colainebradly786 doing very well, thanks for asking 🙏
@@hananibrahim9692 you are welcome dear. Now is intended to be more than just a compliment, but i think you look amazing, any chance of we getting to be friends? I am single and searching for a serious relationship with the right woman
We've been together for 6-7 years and we have a son as well
What does it mean when a guy thinks u r to good for them
He’s a loser
It means he is a yellow-bellied liar whom hasn’t the guts to tell you he’s not into monogamy🤷🏻♀️
when you make someone to do different then they feel its calling out for a chris watts to marry you
Okay idk how I feel about getting a breadcrumber butttt here I am. Like, I just wanna see how this works...
I hope the video was helpful. Balancing feminine and masculine energy is understanding the man doesn’t arrive ‘perfect’ but often with habits or ways of doing things that don’t support a LTR. Your best chances to turn it around (or anything) is by using the tips in my video, which are all about YOU & your personal power as a woman. 💪🏼❤️
Omg I see what you did here. Subscribed. To respect the no is to be in the ultimate feminine.
Hi Adrienne, you’ve mentioned in the past that if you’re in a committed relationship, and things aren’t working, that it’s better to walk away than to start dating others while staying together (that it can have a bad effect on the man if he is committed and showing up). But what if he is already dating someone else? We were together 5 years, took a break, now he wants to be committed, but nonmonogamous. He is showing up like a partner, but he is dating others. We aren’t having sex because he has stopped being attracted to me that way, but wants to see if being nonmonogamous will reignite the passion-that maybe his nature has been nonmonogamous the whole time. I know that my job is to lean back and be in my feminine energy, which would have a better chance of reigniting the sexual flame between us. However, I’m not sure if I should also date other people, or if that would just build resentment in him and push him away.
Leave him. If he's saying no monogamy, he wants to taste the variety first. It's highly unlikely he'd willing marry into a monogamous long term relationship soon or at this stage in life. May be 5-6 years down the line or 10 years down the line he may change his mind. Or maybe he will never change his mind. I was in same situation once and I left. Need to connect to guys who are sure of what they desire in life, atleast in terms of sexuality. It's one thing to date multiple people because you want to connect and find that someone, one particular person who makes your life better. It's whole another to date multiple people with no objective to single down on one or make a choice. By leaving I made his choice easier for him.
Thank you
Love this hair color on u Adrienne!!
How long have you and Jeff been married? How did you guys meet?