Keep your mouth shut!! - Good Talk about life

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ต.ค. 2017
  • First episode of Good Talk. By keeping your mouth shut, you can actually start to listen. By keeping your mouth shut, you can begin to understand what the other person is thinking, or going through. This is the first episode in a new series here on the channel.
    Good Talk is an ongoing series where I talk about my own experiences with different feelings, thoughts and dreams. Good Talk is meant to be a conversation about life where I just open up for discussion in the comments, and where you, the viewer gets to share you thoughts on the topic of the video. Feel free to post long comments, and even better, respond to other people. That way it becomes a two-way communication where we can all learn from each other's experiences, regardless of where in the world we live. Thank you all for being a part of something that is very special to me.
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    Music used with permission from Epidemic Sound.
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    -Martin in Sweden
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  • @TheSwedishLad
    @TheSwedishLad  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Good Talk series has moved to a new channel. Please subscribe to it here: th-cam.com/channels/m7DN-eTxYhi9FpSaPu9nDQ.html

    • @SUPERGAMER-qi5fv
      @SUPERGAMER-qi5fv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks man u actually changed my life. U know I was always the king where u don't shut up but even if I do they still get mad at me soo I just wanna thank u for this video. My life is a mess but u thought me how to shut up soo yup I am now gonna suicide as my LIFE HAS TURNED UPSIDE DOWN NEVERMIND ABOUT ME CAUSE I WILL SUICIDE IN A PLACE WHERE NOBODY AND I MEANT NOBODY CAN FIND ME SOO THANKS FOR THIS MOTIVATION I WILL NOW SHIT UP AND SUICIDE. oh yeah I am 14 every single time I was right people and my family sayed I am wrong so I just wanna say thank you. Bye maybe u will meet me on television next week

    • @Faithistheanswer
      @Faithistheanswer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SUPERGAMER-qi5fv a year later I pray you are ok and you didn’t make that choice. We all have good days and BAD. IT always gets better if you press through. People will grieve over a person when it happens but life has to move Forward so, it’s not an look what you did I got you or your family ultimately, death is final and you’re only hurting yourself by taking yourself away to soon. God bless you .

    • @SUPERGAMER-qi5fv
      @SUPERGAMER-qi5fv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Faithistheanswer tks man I am much better right now tks for all the motivation that u guys gave me... I am well right now and hope to never think of suicide again... Again tks for all support u fellas gave me 😁

    • @Katiehughes-jd3vp
      @Katiehughes-jd3vp ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you help me not to it say

  • @malcolmwhite72
    @malcolmwhite72 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Keeping your mouth shut is one of the most underrated life skill that some people fail to do because the more they talk, the less they think. Thank you for bringing this up, The Swedish Lad.

    • @JelloJio
      @JelloJio หลายเดือนก่อน

      👍

  • @eck2x
    @eck2x 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.
    Stephen R. Covey

  • @emilharam7006
    @emilharam7006 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is exactly what I think about all the time.

  • @isaiahsturgis5037
    @isaiahsturgis5037 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In the past I had problems keeping my mouth shut and I had problems being nosy without annoying and offending other people. I didn’t know exactly why some of my classmates didn’t respect me that much until some years went by later I soon realized I may possibly have adhd. I just wanted to feel accepted and show people I’m a fun person deep down

  • @lovisawahlfried2514
    @lovisawahlfried2514 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are so amazing, we need more persos like you in this world

  • @nikitagorkha1166
    @nikitagorkha1166 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the way you express your thoughts ...

  • @MegaSaeedi
    @MegaSaeedi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    🤐, ok buddy, nice one. Really!

  • @lyndagragg7910
    @lyndagragg7910 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Excellent advice!

  • @minzerellaminzi2651
    @minzerellaminzi2651 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing Video! Thank You ♥️

  • @nenalyzed
    @nenalyzed 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes! Great idea!

  • @mustafasadir3017
    @mustafasadir3017 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thats the best thing ive heard man

  • @gainnorlaney
    @gainnorlaney 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you! And I listened to every word...peace and love to you

  • @CoachDomCosta
    @CoachDomCosta 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spot on!! Thanks for this!!!

    • @CoachDomCosta
      @CoachDomCosta 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm still learning this at 60 lol!!!! Thank you- th-cam.com/video/S85D4cZjbsg/w-d-xo.html

  • @Faithistheanswer
    @Faithistheanswer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said.

  • @YoungJ848
    @YoungJ848 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @ricknsam1861
    @ricknsam1861 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    takk Martin

  • @sidharthballavmohanty3340
    @sidharthballavmohanty3340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Simple as that. Thanks.

  • @basimwarrior5079
    @basimwarrior5079 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir, it was really great words of you ^^

  • @thomasbayer2429
    @thomasbayer2429 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Guess what? At 66 years old ( today's my birthday) you said a mouthful, and that's some great advice....thanks

  • @tonyaharris6593
    @tonyaharris6593 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good talk👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾💙

  • @thesagewarrior
    @thesagewarrior 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good talk👍

  • @cherchezlavache5183
    @cherchezlavache5183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The best thing is never to speak... even when asked. In fact, turn your phone off, & make it a practice NEVER to verbally respond to anyone. Because the truth, in this 8-second tolerant world of today, is that no one really wants to hear anything. They are busy talking in their own heads, & that is more than enough for them.

  • @ardentechoes6451
    @ardentechoes6451 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sage advice

  • @titangarg44
    @titangarg44 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot man

  • @yomomma7205
    @yomomma7205 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is true.

  • @philosophicalgamer2564
    @philosophicalgamer2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very good advice I'm crying 😥. Words create reality is a shame of how words are wasted every day instead of being used to make the world better

  • @at68250
    @at68250 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's so True What This Guy is Talking About it's Not hard at all to Just Don't Speak and Just Listen to Someone When you Need too I don't Understand why Some People are Like That

  • @incognitoman9029
    @incognitoman9029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im a trash mouth and cant resist the time were i well talk trash :(

  • @jennycrisostomo4597
    @jennycrisostomo4597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is my problem in my relationship. I am a mouthy person and I do not know when to shut my mouth. Thank you for this.

    • @TheSwedishLad
      @TheSwedishLad  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck going forward with this newfound information ;)

  • @yorkhunt1251
    @yorkhunt1251 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I wonder where this came from?

    • @TheSwedishLad
      @TheSwedishLad  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      From the need to talk about things that matter to me :)

  • @emssmith5573
    @emssmith5573 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Martin …. Your the only one who needs to keep your mouth shut … good boy !!!

  • @funguy4utube
    @funguy4utube 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I try to be a man of few words…. Be wary of people who talk too much n fill the air with their opinions and noise!
    Speak only when it is an improvement on silence

  • @Katiehughes-jd3vp
    @Katiehughes-jd3vp ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't want to lose him

  • @johncrosby8054
    @johncrosby8054 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hear you my friend TH-cam has gotten back to me saying my voice was inappropriate even though there's so much crap on the media

  • @wik9304
    @wik9304 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

  • @faithmcwest2940
    @faithmcwest2940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ahhh I wish I could keep my mouth shut! I’m 25 years old and I’m so annoyed. Sometimes I have to put duck tape on my mouth😂

  • @Katiehughes-jd3vp
    @Katiehughes-jd3vp ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok

  • @Sharxyboiz
    @Sharxyboiz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you

  • @emmanuelmoore5589
    @emmanuelmoore5589 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ssssh stop commenting.....listen first

  • @evancheese4898
    @evancheese4898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I gotta joke? 29 people didn’t keep there mouth shut 🤪

  • @fortniteisthelife9259
    @fortniteisthelife9259 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1

  • @davidtodorovic142
    @davidtodorovic142 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    2

  • @hpatel1748
    @hpatel1748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Easy to say but really hard to follow. I will try though.

  • @Katiehughes-jd3vp
    @Katiehughes-jd3vp ปีที่แล้ว

    I really want to stop saying what I said my new boyfriend said that Nan doesn't like her but she didn't say that and he said and make it worse for myself

  • @jackfresh1651
    @jackfresh1651 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's color tv no more black and white

  • @Forrestseth1
    @Forrestseth1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s the background song called?

  • @tinkerbell5134
    @tinkerbell5134 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Today i found you in this crazy world :( I need to stop talking .. I will try to shut up i need to :(

  • @michaelwerth
    @michaelwerth 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    listen to other is always good, and keep your mouth shut is quite simple to follow, but I wonder if could come up with an good talk about how to not open TH-cam, Intagram, Twitter etc everday and follow others by doing something else and concentrate more on yourself. Didn't you recognise how often you need to take a look into the internet to be up to date? ...

  • @RandoMationsWasTaken
    @RandoMationsWasTaken 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was rude to say shut up

  • @sterlingpless9280
    @sterlingpless9280 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some of the people who run their mouth are some of the weakest people

  • @emssmith5573
    @emssmith5573 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God never wants me his wife to keep my mouth shut ever … on earth or in heaven or to him !!!!
    He wants me to be heard with my mouth open to the humans on earth … not shut at all !! Maybe I need to do just that and open my mouth more and speak what he wants me to say and speak to all and why ?! The rest of you shut your mouths and listen to Gods Queen … me

  • @jayjay-gl4fj
    @jayjay-gl4fj ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video!

  • @zenodot458
    @zenodot458 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you