How to Shut Up
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2024
- Joshua & Ryan discuss listening more and talking less. Watch “Maximal” episodes of The Minimalists Private Podcast exclusively at / theminimalists
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The Science of Why We Talk Too Much: mnml.st/2vPdqpi
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I do this so bad. I have trouble stopping. And I go into way to much detail and nobody cares! Lol thank you for this video. I really want to try to be silent more and listen more and talk way way less. It’s a nervous thing I do too. Sometimes the more awkward I am the more I talk. So it’s hard.
I’m the same!
Tq for this cmnt
I always felt like iam the only one this way n wants to talk less
This made me feel positive about changing myself
I need to just shut up for good wish I was mute
Yeah my mom says I have a dherria mouth
Same bruh
Me too ugh
Same
same
I agree people try to connect by relating a personal, similar, story. I need to work on listening, as the form of connection, instead. Great points!
I find that when I don't share and "over listen" people think I am withdrawn or cold, uninterested. I love listening to great story tellers. I automatically shut up and listen to other people's interesting lives. My life isn't exciting and I can't juice up a retell of even a funny interaction I experienced.
Great topic. As an introvert, I tend to listen way more than talk... especially with people I don't know well. And the not talking seems to bore people so then I start talking about myself (too much at times) which also ends up being a turn-off. I feel that striking a balance is kind of hard. With good friend,s I have to remind myself to shut up (lol) and really listen to what they have to say.
Be quick to listen and slow to speak
Good
ok
*1,75x activate*
Good message
I struggle with listening and even though I don’t talk much I have been guilty of interrupting in the past. This was a great topic and good things to think about going forward.
Top tips: listen, ask questions, don't give advice :)
I definitely need to do this
Good practice for me is to listen to myself through meditation. What I find is that it clears out my box of thoughts a little, because I allow myself to think about something and then I let it go. Valuable thoughts may come back more often and may need to be talked about with someone else, but impulse thoughts and other clutter tend to be less over time. I guess you could call it minimalism for the mind haha.
I don't really care about listening more 😂 I just need to decrease my level of talking because I do get the occasional needling over it. In the past, whenever I've cut back (especially at work), it immediately causes people to think I'm pissed off or withdrawn.
In short, a technique that's worked for me is thinking, "I've said everything I need to say. I don't owe these people anything. I am my own best audience." ✌️
💯
thnx
Incredible the video!! I was really needing this to learn how to listen and not actually to shut up.
So weird, as an introvert, I hate talking about myself or talking too much... so much to a fault.
Then this comment is pretty hypocritical and irronic
i know what you mean when people don't listen to your story! Thats the worst! x
I stopped at 9:30 (This is a way of coming back to it)
Speak intentionally👊
I'm so guilty of this, I have asked a question and answered it. Ugh , help, 😑
Good advice “ green light, yellow light….
I'm a blogger and I HATE it when a post or video always starts with "HEY GUYSl! Let me start by saying I'M SO SORRY for not posting in a few days!".....
Nobody cares. We're fine. You're fine.
Anyway, the Minimalists rock.
hahaha I thought I was the only one I hated this!!!
@@carminaandra3964 haha No you're not! If you're a blogger send me a link :)
Hahahaa so true
dont mind me, just showing this to my sister
Digital soap box ! Haha I love that cuz I cant stand FB.
I like these briefer podcasts on TH-cam. Your Minimalist podcasts, lasting 60 minutes and much more are simply too much yak-yak for me. Regardless, I love you guys and most of your ideas.
I’m only here to learn how to “ *Shut Up* “
Inspired mee to become minimalism.in evry part of my life.
Exactly! The price we pay is the social media
very helpful thank
thank you
Sometimes i just met someone likable and having a conversation. All of a sudden they stop and ask: where are you from? I say, why? They respond: oh, i hear an accent... OMG, I just wanna run away from that person. Dude, you JUST met me and we were having a nice exchange about whatever unrelated. WHY are you being intrusive and wish to box me into a category right off the bat?
Oh Ryan!! It’s so humiliating when someone does that to me! But I’m so bad I may just continue my story🤣
I don't want to communicate anymore, i have nothing of worth to say, I just want to become mute
🍄 Thanks for my new Word of the Day: "Droning on" about something! 👍😃
These covid times have been hard though, only talking on the phone to friends far away
Instructions unclear. Accidentally shut off all access to the concept of up. Reported 😕
Pontificate does that mean when you're listening to someone talk you're thinking I got to get away cuz like the information they're giving you isn't worth a damn
Now I wouldn't talk so much if I hadn't excluded myself I have no neighbors I live in the sticks so when I get to talking you better bring the earmuffs.
I just think I’m annoying lmfao
Thank u!
I'm here for me
I really struggle with having enough to say, not sure if it’s because I’m introverted but talking too much/talking too much about myself has never been an issue for me!
Oh boy, I know some people who really should listen to this!
We all have that one child in class who slows the whole lesson down because of their talking. They should all be given this
Well the reason why people dwell on themselves is because if they weren't they'd probably be talking s*** about somebody else
Now wouldn't it be funny if Marty Nemko had said "Practice what you preach" after only listening to the guy for 8 seconds?
Seriously, this is another great lesson . Thanks.
You do have good point though;-)
Yes Josh “just shut up” (me)
0:13
Pls use subtitles.
The moment you realize I statements have gone way to far.
There is a middle ground to everything
be consice
Interesting and timely - a couple of my favorite podcast hosts who used to have hour long talks now go on and on 2-3 hours. It’s unfortunate because it just can’t sustain my attention but maybe also they just talk too much. Love Rich Roll but man, he’s lost me now - too much talking. Bums me out.
thank you i lost friends
LOL
I showd this w2 m ybrither'
weird echo
The lines weird bc therapy is talking about yourself
Thats different xD
WOW DA B ABY
Wtf
Y'all talk too much:-)
@av24