Don't stress about looking like a "cool" influencer who ignores all comments, doesn't talk to any of their "fans", etc. Those people always look SO ungrateful for the people who got them where they are. I'm not saying someone with 30,000 comments needs to respond to or like every single one, but replying to some for a while is appreciated and it looks like you care! You're not extra, you just appreciate that someone cares about what you have to say, which I think we all want.
aw i so appreciate this! i know i am overthinking it. it is so helpful to read these comments and see that people get what i am trying to say. it means a lot. thank you! i am going to embrace my extra-ness LOL!
Mandy, I just discovered your TH-cam page no later than an hour ago, this is my third video. You’re so relatable and you give great advice! I hope you never stop these!
Mandy, you have no idea how much I needed your voice. I discovered you last night and been bingeing and giggling at your videos. I need friends like you😂
Mandy, your authenticity is so real - I absolutely love it! Found your channel yesterday and have been binging hard. lol. I've been so inconsistent creating youtube videos, trying to express myself without feeling like it drains me. You've inspired me to just do it, and to be myself without the performance and mask. THANK YOU!!🙏
I'm 19 years old and also the 19th like on this video, I've watched your video about creating Art, even when nobody cares, I care. It gave me quite a slap on the face because I like drawing, making stories and I've tried and bailed, I want to start again and be consistent. Even though there will always be doubts and challenges. Listening to your story, shifted my point of view. You know how the world is all about popularity and materialism, it's so engraved in society and I'm not a survivor either. Yet to be different is doing the things not most people are willing to do and I do think being delusional is the key to that. Today's moral values are also scarce in people or rather disappearing. I admire the value of your videos and how you genuinely giving an eye opening perspective in content creation. Thank you so much Mandy! 💖
19 x 19?! love this for you!!! just keep getting back at it. keep trying and keep trying, it is a journey into oneself. who cares if it's bad or if no one notices. you're sending a message to yourself that it matters. xo
This captures just about everything I've been feeling as a teacher and coach for the past 5 years. Each year I think I'm making moves in the right direction, but end up feeling a bit more trapped. Craving time to step away, brainstorm and ideate, but having so little resources, time, or energy to do those things. Thank you for sharing your perspective with us!
This is my first time to make a comment on TH-cam! Just wanted to say thank you for sharing something honest and real! Keep doing what you’ve been doing! ❤
I don’t know how this video appeared in my algorithm but I enjoyed listening to this! It’s nice to hear your thoughts and some of your creative process advice was really motivating
I found your video about having to lean into being delusional first and then immediately watched this one and they helped me so much! It’s so comforting to like hear someone else be so candid about the struggles and feelings that come with creating things online! ❤
i feel like people don't talk about it enough? or they do, but it's drowned out by all of the success stories so i'm just trying to keep it real. thank you so much for watching multiple videos!
@@careercoachmandy they really don’t! I def feel that I’ve seen this pressure among some peer creators to only project the success at the end and not share the struggles and insecurities unless they’ve been magically overcome never to appear again 😅 I appreciate you!! And your voice is so easy to listen to!
Somehow these rambling type of videos are perfect for me to put on in the background while I work. I like your personality! It's fun and human. You remind me that we've all got our struggles, we can all be a little dorky/uncool, but ultimately we're all learning and going through this together. I like your insights and bits of advice sprinkled between personal experience. Don't give up!
aw thank you so much! i love rambly videos too, to keep me company and just be normal and not weird and preachy. so i really appreciate you!!! yes to dorky/uncool bahahah
When you think of creating a brand there will be resistance. Mental tricks are good tools against that resistance. I tell myself I am writing a fantastical fiction novel. Soooooo, I begin to think of one brand but in my fictional imaginary universe called the mind. Then sparks.....one thought begets another and so I imagine several brands .....juicy and exiting.
This is a rhetorical question for all: What are you words? Think about it. What actions are you taking to embody those words? Just a humble seed from a person that resonates with this video.
i tend to have things on my to do lists for months before starting, and sometimes its good to procrastonate until i feel motivated. sometimes better to just start but i do like to mentally prepare for a few months!
The themes of this video are so important. I feel like I never know enough of what I’m doing but then I realize, do even the biggest creators know what they’re doing? Sometimes u just gotta plunge urself into the deep end and hope for the best, aka just don’t be afraid to fail. It’s hard but I’m grateful for the journey bc it’s what I wanted in my heart all along❤️
Don't stress about looking like a "cool" influencer who ignores all comments, doesn't talk to any of their "fans", etc. Those people always look SO ungrateful for the people who got them where they are. I'm not saying someone with 30,000 comments needs to respond to or like every single one, but replying to some for a while is appreciated and it looks like you care! You're not extra, you just appreciate that someone cares about what you have to say, which I think we all want.
aw i so appreciate this! i know i am overthinking it. it is so helpful to read these comments and see that people get what i am trying to say. it means a lot. thank you! i am going to embrace my extra-ness LOL!
Mandy, I just discovered your TH-cam page no later than an hour ago, this is my third video. You’re so relatable and you give great advice! I hope you never stop these!
Mandy, you have no idea how much I needed your voice. I discovered you last night and been bingeing and giggling at your videos. I need friends like you😂
Thank you for your inspiration. I couldn’t go back into sitting for my MA without you. You are awesome and very real.
Mandy, your authenticity is so real - I absolutely love it! Found your channel yesterday and have been binging hard. lol.
I've been so inconsistent creating youtube videos, trying to express myself without feeling like it drains me. You've inspired me to just do it, and to be myself without the performance and mask. THANK YOU!!🙏
I actually love listening to you talk about creativity like a podcast while doing some art myself ❤
same! I do my art too while listening and it's getting me HYPED
OMG GUYS i love this!!! yes! just put it on the background and get HYPED is my dream!
I needed this. I'm gettin major imposter syndrome right now. I'm exhausted. I want to take a break. But maybe I'll just slow down for a minute 😩
i think take a break!!! and then come back to it! a well rested version of you is the best version of you.
I'm 19 years old and also the 19th like on this video, I've watched your video about creating Art, even when nobody cares, I care. It gave me quite a slap on the face because I like drawing, making stories and I've tried and bailed, I want to start again and be consistent. Even though there will always be doubts and challenges. Listening to your story, shifted my point of view. You know how the world is all about popularity and materialism, it's so engraved in society and I'm not a survivor either. Yet to be different is doing the things not most people are willing to do and I do think being delusional is the key to that. Today's moral values are also scarce in people or rather disappearing. I admire the value of your videos and how you genuinely giving an eye opening perspective in content creation. Thank you so much Mandy! 💖
19 x 19?! love this for you!!! just keep getting back at it. keep trying and keep trying, it is a journey into oneself. who cares if it's bad or if no one notices. you're sending a message to yourself that it matters. xo
@@careercoachmandy Thank you sm T-T I'll def try my best and update here 🔥🔥
This captures just about everything I've been feeling as a teacher and coach for the past 5 years. Each year I think I'm making moves in the right direction, but end up feeling a bit more trapped. Craving time to step away, brainstorm and ideate, but having so little resources, time, or energy to do those things. Thank you for sharing your perspective with us!
I feel this so much! I feel this way too. Why is it so hard to step away and ideate and plan our future? Thank you for sharing ❤
We needed you, thank you for thinking about us (the ones that are lost, with finding a job, a career, being confident, etc).
i'm here babes, thank you.
This is my first time to make a comment on TH-cam! Just wanted to say thank you for sharing something honest and real! Keep doing what you’ve been doing! ❤
wowww thank you so much!!
You have to keep posting because these videos are becoming my everyday comfort!!!
bahahahaha i love this. thank you!!! this is motivation for me to keep going!!
I really like your videos. I feel like we are just chatting, but with a purpose. Thank you
Thats an amazing bookshelf btw!
I don’t know how this video appeared in my algorithm but I enjoyed listening to this! It’s nice to hear your thoughts and some of your creative process advice was really motivating
i'm so glad it was motivating, that's all i want!! thank you for watching :)
I found your video about having to lean into being delusional first and then immediately watched this one and they helped me so much! It’s so comforting to like hear someone else be so candid about the struggles and feelings that come with creating things online! ❤
i feel like people don't talk about it enough? or they do, but it's drowned out by all of the success stories so i'm just trying to keep it real. thank you so much for watching multiple videos!
@@careercoachmandy they really don’t! I def feel that I’ve seen this pressure among some peer creators to only project the success at the end and not share the struggles and insecurities unless they’ve been magically overcome never to appear again 😅 I appreciate you!! And your voice is so easy to listen to!
LOVE YOUR CHANNEL AND LOVE SCANDISH HOME ❤ keep doing your thing girl!!!
aw thank you sooo much. omgosh scandish home is the bestttttt
Somehow these rambling type of videos are perfect for me to put on in the background while I work. I like your personality! It's fun and human. You remind me that we've all got our struggles, we can all be a little dorky/uncool, but ultimately we're all learning and going through this together. I like your insights and bits of advice sprinkled between personal experience. Don't give up!
aw thank you so much! i love rambly videos too, to keep me company and just be normal and not weird and preachy. so i really appreciate you!!! yes to dorky/uncool bahahah
I love this channel I am actually applying things!
When you think of creating a brand there will be resistance. Mental tricks are good tools against that resistance. I tell myself I am writing a fantastical fiction novel. Soooooo, I begin to think of one brand but in my fictional imaginary universe called the mind. Then sparks.....one thought begets another and so I imagine several brands .....juicy and exiting.
This is a rhetorical question for all: What are you words? Think about it. What actions are you taking to embody those words? Just a humble seed from a person that resonates with this video.
again thank you!
you are so awesome and INSPIRATIONAL love this 😍
thank you sooo much!! :)
Loving your videos!! Keep going, we're rooting you on
i feel so supported!!! thank you!
i tend to have things on my to do lists for months before starting, and sometimes its good to procrastonate until i feel motivated. sometimes better to just start but i do like to mentally prepare for a few months!
i feel this!
Please keep making these! Also very nice voice to listen to, love the yapping.
aw yay thank you! duly noted. will continue the yapping, lol.
Just found your channel! Absolutely love your content. 👏
The themes of this video are so important. I feel like I never know enough of what I’m doing but then I realize, do even the biggest creators know what they’re doing? Sometimes u just gotta plunge urself into the deep end and hope for the best, aka just don’t be afraid to fail. It’s hard but I’m grateful for the journey bc it’s what I wanted in my heart all along❤️
I agree it's all about what is in our hearts and there's so much love and my juice in there, we just have to dive in!😊
U get recommendation on my youtube everyday 😮❤
You make me happy 😊❤
Reply girl, reply 😂 👏🏽 love this for you and us 🤭 33:46
GIRLLLLL hahahahahha i love this for all of us. thank you. continuing to be a reply soldier!!!
I can not see all the fake profiles and stay public. Reason til tok nor insta will work for me. Lol
I’m so glad that your video made it into my recommendations and i was able to find your channel !! 🫶
I'm so glad too!! Welcome! ❤