My moods change a lot because im not happy with our marriage, him, and how our life together ended up after 9 years. Im not attracted to him and its constant stress about money, my future, and professional life and he dont get it. He want to rely on me, i need him to give me something to rely on.
I’m a newly wed, can you please do a video on finding a balance as a wife between taking care of yourself, him and the home ?.. Essentially tips on becoming organized as a feminine woman. This is something that kind of worries me because I’m not as organized as I would like to be. I LOVE your videos btw ! Thank you for EVERYTHING 🤍
I remember when I use to doll myself up, clean the house, cook before my man got home. And soon as he came through the door. I would greet him with love and kisses. Until one day he came home and literally push me out the way and said I need to start letting him relax first before I start doing all that. Now I don’t even come to the door are care. I still doll myself and clean cause that’s what I love to do. But I can careless about what he think. These are great things for healthy, loving man, but most man or not that.
I really love this, we really need more of this. I am not married yet but my bf says he sees the changes. Cheers to happy marriages and working to become better.
THANK YOU Dr Daf for the Vidoe. This is defiantly something I have only recently learned and it feels soooooooooo good to be cherished, given princess treatment and taken care of. I used to look at other women who's men went over and above for them and thought "how do they do it "? But its all in the art of receiving . I am an excellent receiver , when ever my boyfriend gifts me with something or treats me to something, I make sure he knows and feels that I am very very grateful and he always just wants to do more and more. TIP FOR THE LADIES...if your significant other buys you something , make sure he sees you using / wearing it as often as possible, brag to others about it if you can. Thank me later
I needed this…. I found myself getting really frustrated and stressed about now thing going in my marriage and I been having all the attitude and emotions lately. I just took a deep breath..
Oh my God in the Freedom part when she said us women have a reputation to preserve!!!. It hits me hard. I may not be the “controlling type “ but I considerably dislike when my husband says or does something that might be perceived “disrespectful “ in front of people.
Michelle this was so timely, I have read books, listened to messages, watched videos...but it always makes me feel like they don't get it and are always in favour of the man. But this video really captured this issue and gave me perspective and I am inspired to inspire my husband to cherish me. That is truly all I want, to be seen, loved and cherished and it has been a battle for years. So thank you so much. I would appreciate a video on practical ways to be a finer wife without loosing yourself.😊
This was SO convicting! Can you do one on resentment in marriage? Like maybe you’ve been married a long time and have always been in the supporting role, when you were younger it was fulfilling and great, but now it feels hard and unfulfilling etc… but you can’t change the current circumstances b/c you have a child w/ special needs etc…
This is just beautiful! I definitely did the opposite of these things in the early 5 years of our relationship. I had to learn this on my own and very happy I was open to seeing his needs. Once we got married and found Christ everything changed! All of this began to happen times 10. He calls me and we do Bible study. We both show interest in what our hobbies are. Submission is so very beautiful and beneficial. It feels so good to not be in control. To be feminine and allow him to be masculine. I feel safer.😊
Hello gorgeous Dr Michelle!!! 💓💕 This broadcast was Amazing!!!!!! I’m in my singleness season and I learn so much and will apply those suggestions 🔥🔥💜💓💜🔥🔥
Hello Dr. Michelle. Can you share on how to balance giving time to your husband and him giving time to the children when he comes home from work each day, so that everyone benefits?
Great video. The hardest point for me is keeping a cheerful mood. I have two young children and am often sleep deprived which destroys my mood and leads me to pick fights with my husband 😔
Hello Dr. Michelle this is my first time coming upon your channel tonight and it was such a wonderful pleasure listening to you especially on this topic. I didn't even knew you were on the internet. I am not married at this time but these insights are so helpful for my preparation of marriage in the future. As I listened intently, I was thanking God for allowing me to hear the truths you are sharing to help with a happy home and marriage. Thank you so much for the beautiful way in which you presented these very important topics to help us build our marriage relationships. God bless you.
Gooooood evening gorgeous 🙂 Although I’m not married but in my relationship I have come to a point of evolving, but my other half is stagnant. I start to feel drained and angry because he didn’t notice how I put so much energy into motivating him to change, after realizing that just asking him was not working. Now I feel like I’m in a better mindset and things are flowing for me in my feminine energy, he wants to be apart of my experience, but I feel like I put so much time, energy, and love into myself by my self. So when I look at him he’s the same and I don’t feel in love with him any more. I also don’t want to allow him to take advantage of the discipline I trained myself to respect. I honestly thing I have a person that just wants from the relationship but doesn’t want to make necessary changes to keep a healthy and loving relationship to last
I loved this video and your content. Thank you for sharing what you have learned about being a wife. Excited to continue to learning more about this topic of being a wife.
Thank you you have a very beautiful soul very humble, happy, Loving, and intelligent so much that you glow with beauty thank you I love this message God bless you and yours😇
Please, please, turn down the piano a little bit...the content is so nice and interesting, your voice is so nice to listen to, but the piano grabs the sound too much. Thank You! And warmest greetings from Prague...yes even here your video is making someones day a bit shinier! Love and respect!
OMG I was looking for your videos! I watched you a couple times then I stopped watching these videos. I watched so many videos but nothing like yours! Just your voice is already so soothing! Thank you!
Hi I love your content ❤ my hubby and I aren't experiencing any passion we been together for 6 years! He tells me I'm beautiful every day but no excitement. HELP lol please. God bless 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
ok so... I am not a married woman, I don't even have a man, cuz I'm 20. I still watched this video and I've been watching your videos for a while. When it comes to appearence, which is something very important and impactful in general, not only in relationships, I have a huge issue: scoliosis. I've been taking really good care of myself and I look decent and all, but deep down I am aware of my deformity. It's not the kind of back problem that can't be seen cuz it's slight, it's pretty bad (as in I should've gotten a surgery kind of bad) and it's visible. Do you have any tips on how to feel more attractive and confident in our bodies even if they're deformed? Will a high quality man even look at me, knowing what I hide under my flowy shirts? I'd love to hear your thoughts and tips on this!
Your body might be deformed but your spirit doesn’t have to be. Man are looking for someone to connect with in deep level and most the time they don’t take the look as primary element. If you take a minute to look around you noticed there’s a lot woman and men with physical limitations and defamation who are happily married , so you can find a good man as well who will love you as whole. Love and accept yourself as you are and the world will embrace you ❤❤
As I am ‘darker’ black woman, how were you able to overcome the thoughts or challenges around darker women ‘can’t be’ or aren’t seen to be feminine? What tools or resources did you use?
I am dark skin. I think that we have to not allow stereotypes to define us. I have always been a girly girl and I grew up in a very traditional household so for me these stereotypes never made me question my femininity. It sounds like you might be scared to showcase your femininity and you just have to let go of the fear ❤
@@jemimajanvier4706 thank you so much for your help! I think you are right and God does give us the spirit of fear. Renewing my mind around this. Thank you again for your input !! 💕💕
Make sure your hair looks beautiful, that you smell delicious, & utilize natural things, like homemade lip gloss made from vaseline or a nice chapstick. & exercise to have a beautiful body.
I’m married and I don’t like having sex with my husband and he is such a good provider and loving husband but I’m not sexually attracted to him and we only used to have sex when I smoke or drink and now that I gave my life back to God I no longer smoke and drink so we are not having sex and he is getting frustrated and didn’ Doesn’t feel appreciated and I don’t want him to cheat I being praying and I know God will help but do you have any advice
Talk to him and tell him what you like and vice versa. If its a mood or hormonal imbalance why you're not enjoying it after making changes, then go see a doc!
Naaaah he still talk to ex n when his out public cannot let go of looking sexy beautiful women😂😂😂😂. Wife have to assit husband financially, need to do budgeting while most husband dont soentnon cigarettes, alchohol, gambling, weed, buy his hobbies item redicolous toy hobbies, vinyl hobbies etc n not for wifes needs. Could not even spent romantic dinner for wife. How can wife buy sexy nice clothes when wife have to give most on finance for family 😢😢😢. Anyway men cime back home drunk n smelly drinking wif friend n come home late jus want f.
That hair is beautiful on you!
Thank you honey! 💕🎀✨✨
Yes the hair is beautiful on her
Yes, I like everything about her. 🇪🇹
True, beautiful ❤❤❤
Totally agree! 😍✨
My moods change a lot because im not happy with our marriage, him, and how our life together ended up after 9 years. Im not attracted to him and its constant stress about money, my future, and professional life and he dont get it. He want to rely on me, i need him to give me something to rely on.
I’m a newly wed, can you please do a video on finding a balance as a wife between taking care of yourself, him and the home ?.. Essentially tips on becoming organized as a feminine woman. This is something that kind of worries me because I’m not as organized as I would like to be. I LOVE your videos btw ! Thank you for EVERYTHING 🤍
Congratulations! 🥳 whoooo this is a tough one. I will try to create something. Thank you for watching love!
The masculine has to be a healthy container for feminine to flow!
Yes!!
I remember when I use to doll myself up, clean the house, cook before my man got home. And soon as he came through the door. I would greet him with love and kisses. Until one day he came home and literally push me out the way and said I need to start letting him relax first before I start doing all that. Now I don’t even come to the door are care. I still doll myself and clean cause that’s what I love to do. But I can careless about what he think. These are great things for healthy, loving man, but most man or not that.
I’m sorry.
Start praying for him
how is it going now? i hope u didnt accept this behviour because we are all humans and there is no right to treat ur wife like that!!
"every marriage has a culture" thats great insight.
When I get a husband I'll let you know I appreciate you paying attention to my singleness.
I really love this, we really need more of this. I am not married yet but my bf says he sees the changes. Cheers to happy marriages and working to become better.
That is wonderful! 💕
THANK YOU Dr Daf for the Vidoe. This is defiantly something I have only recently learned and it feels soooooooooo good to be cherished, given princess treatment and taken care of. I used to look at other women who's men went over and above for them and thought "how do they do it "? But its all in the art of receiving . I am an excellent receiver , when ever my boyfriend gifts me with something or treats me to something, I make sure he knows and feels that I am very very grateful and he always just wants to do more and more. TIP FOR THE LADIES...if your significant other buys you something , make sure he sees you using / wearing it as often as possible, brag to others about it if you can. Thank me later
I needed this…. I found myself getting really frustrated and stressed about now thing going in my marriage and I been having all the attitude and emotions lately. I just took a deep breath..
Great reminder that I needed during a difficult time in my marriage 🙏🏾💜
Praying for full restoration for you love. Things will get better. Thank you for watching
@@drmichelledaf Thank You 🙏🏾
Yes! Your mood and being warm and inviting is so important. A consistent good attitude is so beautiful in a woman.
Oh my God in the Freedom part when she said us women have a reputation to preserve!!!. It hits me hard. I may not be the “controlling type “ but I considerably dislike when my husband says or does something that might be perceived “disrespectful “ in front of people.
Michelle this was so timely, I have read books, listened to messages, watched videos...but it always makes me feel like they don't get it and are always in favour of the man. But this video really captured this issue and gave me perspective and I am inspired to inspire my husband to cherish me. That is truly all I want, to be seen, loved and cherished and it has been a battle for years. So thank you so much. I would appreciate a video on practical ways to be a finer wife without loosing yourself.😊
This was SO convicting! Can you do one on resentment in marriage? Like maybe you’ve been married a long time and have always been in the supporting role, when you were younger it was fulfilling and great, but now it feels hard and unfulfilling etc… but you can’t change the current circumstances b/c you have a child w/ special needs etc…
Dr.Michelle thank you for your wisdom. You are the big sister I have always wanted . I am newly engaged and taking lots of notes 📝.
This video has helped me to recognise my worth in my relationship ❤️❤️❤️ thanks m looking forward to a video talking about what to wear at home ☺️
You provide the most trusted content on how to be a cherished wife. Thank you so much 💗
That hair is everythaang🔥
Thank you babe 💕💕
@@drmichelledaf 🤗
I literally had to pause and take a break because I was so overwhelmed by how beautiful you are. 😅
Oooh, this hairstyle looks soooo gorgeous on you. Wow! ❤
This is just beautiful! I definitely did the opposite of these things in the early 5 years of our relationship. I had to learn this on my own and very happy I was open to seeing his needs. Once we got married and found Christ everything changed! All of this began to happen times 10. He calls me and we do Bible study. We both show interest in what our hobbies are. Submission is so very beautiful and beneficial. It feels so good to not be in control. To be feminine and allow him to be masculine. I feel safer.😊
That is so beautiful! What a great testimony. Thank you for sharing love!
Hello gorgeous Dr Michelle!!! 💓💕
This broadcast was Amazing!!!!!! I’m in my singleness season and I learn so much and will apply those suggestions 🔥🔥💜💓💜🔥🔥
Same!!
I love your content so much, it has helped me in ways I can’t even fathom❤
Hello Dr. Michelle. Can you share on how to balance giving time to your husband and him giving time to the children when he comes home from work each day, so that everyone benefits?
Beautiful inside out 💖
Awww thank you honey 💋💋
god is the greatest healer for real
You look stunning 😊
Thank you so much love!
Literally exactly what I needed! I was going to message you on IG but then saw this. GOD SENT! THANK YOU!
You mentioned not even mentioning things out saying anything, I’d love to hear more about that. ❤
Thank you for been that sister looking out for us❤❤❤❤
So much love to you!💕
Great video. The hardest point for me is keeping a cheerful mood. I have two young children and am often sleep deprived which destroys my mood and leads me to pick fights with my husband 😔
Thank you!! I am in entering a new committed relationship and all these tips are so useful to building a healthy happy loving relationship ❤
Hello Dr. Michelle this is my first time coming upon your channel tonight and it was such a wonderful pleasure listening to you especially on this topic. I didn't even knew you were on the internet. I am not married at this time but these insights are so helpful for my preparation of marriage in the future. As I listened intently, I was thanking God for allowing me to hear the truths you are sharing to help with a happy home and marriage. Thank you so much for the beautiful way in which you presented these very important topics to help us build our marriage relationships. God bless you.
Thank you so much! Please do I video on respecting your husband and our roles as wives.
Loved this video! And I also love your hairstyle. It suits you very well.
Thank you so much honey!
I love your hair ❤️❤️❤️❤️😍
So good i will Listen to this more often because it is so good to remember those things! Thank you ❤ + love the music in the background
Good morning❤ you look stunning as usual. Love pink on you 😇
Thank you so much sweetie 💕
Gooooood evening gorgeous 🙂
Although I’m not married but in my relationship I have come to a point of evolving, but my other half is stagnant. I start to feel drained and angry because he didn’t notice how I put so much energy into motivating him to change, after realizing that just asking him was not working.
Now I feel like I’m in a better mindset and things are flowing for me in my feminine energy, he wants to be apart of my experience, but I feel like I put so much time, energy, and love into
myself by my self. So when I look at him he’s the same and I don’t feel in love with him any more. I also don’t want to allow him to take advantage of the discipline I trained myself to respect.
I honestly thing I have a person that just wants from the relationship but doesn’t want to make necessary changes to keep a healthy and loving relationship to last
I like your new hairstyle,it looks good on you!! 😍👌🏾
I loved this video and your content. Thank you for sharing what you have learned about being a wife. Excited to continue to learning more about this topic of being a wife.
This video's timing/topic couldn't be better. Continued Blessings🙏🏽🤎✨️☦️
Perfect! Thank you for watching love 🎀
Girl, that hair looks amazing on you! I love the whole look by the way❤.
Thank you you have a very beautiful soul very humble, happy, Loving, and intelligent so much that you glow with beauty thank you I love this message
God bless you and yours😇
Wow those are such kind words! Thank you so much sweetie 🩷 God bless you too ✨✨✨
Please, please, turn down the piano a little bit...the content is so nice and interesting, your voice is so nice to listen to, but the piano grabs the sound too much. Thank You! And warmest greetings from Prague...yes even here your video is making someones day a bit shinier! Love and respect!
Thank you! You look gorgeous!
Aww thank you honey 🎀
You look phenomenal sweetie 💖💜💖💜
OMG I was looking for your videos! I watched you a couple times then I stopped watching these videos. I watched so many videos but nothing like yours! Just your voice is already so soothing! Thank you!
Hi Michelle, thank you for this wonderful Information!
A idea for a new video: modesty (as a single but also as a wife)
This was truly a great video & topic. All of your points really resonated. You look so beautiful as always here
Thank you so much honey!
This was so helpful Dr. Daf! God bless you. ❤
I am thankful to hear that honey. God bless you too babe
This is beautiful Dr. Daf 🙌🏾
Thanks for listening love
This was sooooooo good!!!!!!
Thank you honey 💕 I'm glad it was helpful 🌸
I LOVE all your videos! Thank you for taking the time to make them❤
Thank you for your kind words and for your support honey!
Thank you so much❤ all the way from South Africa 🌍
Your so georgous please do a video for feminine colours
Thank you!!🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 you look so beautiful! Thank you for the tips!
Thank you for watching sweetie 💕💕
Totally random but your thumbnails !! They are looking so good !
You are looking so gorgeous Dr. Daf❤you have taught me so much... Very grateful..❤
May I ask where your top is from?
This is literally my favorite color!
XOXOXO
It's actually a dress! 💕It's from ShowMeYourMumu. I'll link it when I get a chance 💕
@@drmichelledaf thank you so much!!
Have a blessed evening ✨️
Girl! What are the deets of this haaaaaiiiirrr❤❤❤
So beautiful inside and out!!
Thank you for this video. BTW where is your dress from? It's a beautiful color.
Thank you it's from showmeyourmumu
Love this video. You gave out some gems 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you so much for watching babe 💕
Hi I love your content ❤ my hubby and I aren't experiencing any passion we been together for 6 years! He tells me I'm beautiful every day but no excitement. HELP lol please. God bless 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you honey. I prayed for you and will make more content to hopefully help you. Have you tried going on vacation together or a couples retreat?
No he doesn't want to do anything but work honestly thanks so much God bless 🙏🏼🙏🏼
You’re awesome! Just found your channel
I love this type of content! 💗😊
Thank you Doc, i am learning so much. God bless
Thank you 🫂
Thanks.❤
Thank you so much for this video ❤🙌🏾🙏🏾
You're so welcome love!
I loved this so much! Thank you!
Yes.
Thank you. ❤🌹
I needed this
I'm glad it was helpful love
ok so... I am not a married woman, I don't even have a man, cuz I'm 20. I still watched this video and I've been watching your videos for a while. When it comes to appearence, which is something very important and impactful in general, not only in relationships, I have a huge issue: scoliosis. I've been taking really good care of myself and I look decent and all, but deep down I am aware of my deformity. It's not the kind of back problem that can't be seen cuz it's slight, it's pretty bad (as in I should've gotten a surgery kind of bad) and it's visible. Do you have any tips on how to feel more attractive and confident in our bodies even if they're deformed? Will a high quality man even look at me, knowing what I hide under my flowy shirts? I'd love to hear your thoughts and tips on this!
You are loved darling
@@healthandlyfstyle thank you, my dear ✨
I love and cherish you honey
Your body might be deformed but your spirit doesn’t have to be. Man are looking for someone to connect with in deep level and most the time they don’t take the look as primary element. If you take a minute to look around you noticed there’s a lot woman and men with physical limitations and defamation who are happily married , so you can find a good man as well who will love you as whole. Love and accept yourself as you are and the world will embrace you ❤❤
@@olaitanolajide5619 🥹 thank you
Thank you
Simply beautiful ❤
Thank you♥️
You're welcome babe 🌸
Woow so beautiful with this pink top 😍
Thank you darling!
As I am ‘darker’ black woman, how were you able to overcome the thoughts or challenges around darker women ‘can’t be’ or aren’t seen to be feminine? What tools or resources did you use?
I am dark skin. I think that we have to not allow stereotypes to define us. I have always been a girly girl and I grew up in a very traditional household so for me these stereotypes never made me question my femininity. It sounds like you might be scared to showcase your femininity and you just have to let go of the fear ❤
@@jemimajanvier4706 thank you so much for your help! I think you are right and God does give us the spirit of fear. Renewing my mind around this. Thank you again for your input !! 💕💕
Thanks for sharing this.
You're welcome love 🌸 thank you for watching ✨
❤thank you SO much ❤
you are a really beautiful soul 🤍
Good morning ❤❤❤❤
Do you do one on ones
How does a wife look extra special for husband when makeup, jewelry and revealing clothes are not an option.
Make sure your hair looks beautiful, that you smell delicious, & utilize natural things, like homemade lip gloss made from vaseline or a nice chapstick. & exercise to have a beautiful body.
They're lots of cute skirts/dresses out there, which aren't too revealing, or reveal just enough
Prefer your orgin content , outside of interviews
I’m married and I don’t like having sex with my husband and he is such a good provider and loving husband but I’m not sexually attracted to him and we only used to have sex when I smoke or drink and now that I gave my life back to God I no longer smoke and drink so we are not having sex and he is getting frustrated and didn’ Doesn’t feel appreciated and I don’t want him to cheat I being praying and I know God will help but do you have any advice
Talk to him and tell him what you like and vice versa. If its a mood or hormonal imbalance why you're not enjoying it after making changes, then go see a doc!
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Naaaah he still talk to ex n when his out public cannot let go of looking sexy beautiful women😂😂😂😂.
Wife have to assit husband financially, need to do budgeting while most husband dont soentnon cigarettes, alchohol, gambling, weed, buy his hobbies item redicolous toy hobbies, vinyl hobbies etc n not for wifes needs. Could not even spent romantic dinner for wife. How can wife buy sexy nice clothes when wife have to give most on finance for family 😢😢😢.
Anyway men cime back home drunk n smelly drinking wif friend n come home late jus want f.
I needed this thank you so much for posting this video😭🫶🏼