Such a bittersweet ending. On the one hand, the sister did SO MUCH maturing and I'm always glad to see this kind of reconciliation, not forced but genuine. a genuine apology with no strings attached and the proper headspace to forgive. On the other hand, the parents have obviously not matured at the same rate as the sister. They don't even have the presence of mind to realize that THEY were the reason for the slap to their reputation. THEY attempted to deceive both daughters and if the sister hadn't done the introspection that she did this could have gotten even nastier.
The parents were a major red flag from the start with the whole "they even egged us on in our sibling rivalry" wouldnt surprise me one bit if the parents worked behind the scenes, going to each sister seperately with the whole "why can't you be more like 'other sister'" absolutely evil.
_Spoiler_ The only outcome the parents would have accepted is OP taking the blame for the situation. The sister apologizing unconditionally completely threw off their power grab, and now they're sulking.
Yup. Trying to broker a peace between feuding siblings is noble. Doing this by surprising both siblings during a public meaningful event is beyond sh*tty. Not taking "no" for an answer just makes a terrible situation even worse.
I was going to make a similar comment. The parents were trying so hard for so long to make OP the bad guy. The sister took the wind out of their sails with the apology. Now they can't victim blame and have turned to blame shifting.
Kindoff a bizzarely wholesome ending. Op and her sister realized that their awful parents had pitted them against each other for so long that they never had a chance to actually act like sisters. Parents are the real villains here
I remember a similar post where OP's father tried to force her and her mother to make up, her mother had kicked her out at 19 because she chose a different career path(CS), and 5 years had passed since then. OP's father said something along the lines of "you both need to stop being childish and make up" no apology, no talking it out, he literally just thought the whole thing could be fixed by them just "burying the hatchet" OP had a meltdown and cut ties to both her father and mother and moved away somewhere.
I could tell as soon as the sister walked out of the bridal shower without a word that she was on the road to recovery. If she had still been contentious and bitter toward OP, she could have gotten defensive, made a scene, and painted OP as the villain for instigating. She had the perfect captive audience, and a chance to really hurt by ruining an important day if she wanted to. Even apologizing in that instance would have felt forced and insincere given the situation. There was no good outcome for the sister or OP no matter how the sister responded. Walking out was the best thing she could have done for the both of them in that moment. If I'd seen the post before the update, I would have said she was NTA, but to try to give her sister some grace for that situation in particular, as it was clear even then that the parents were instigating by choosing such an important time and place to bring potential hostility back into your life. Parents were the real villains from day 1, and I'm so glad OP and her sister figured it out before it was too late.
Nothing can unite people more than a shared enemy. In this case, the sisters finally figured out that the real enemy wasn't each other. It was their parents.
It sucks because the original story this was ripped from had a crazier ending. The parents acknowledged that they messed up by putting the sisters against eachother but the sister was too far gone at that point and caused a scene at the wedding which ends with her getting arrested
The plot twist at the end was unexpected, but unfortunately, this cutthroat sibling rivalry is exactly the kind of thing narcissistic parents not only foster, but actively encourage, since control is the one thing narcissists thrive on. Post-updates, while I am happy OP can rebuild her relationship with her sister, I still advise caution, cause I am very certain those parents must be seething internally cause their puppeteer strings have been cut. Knowing the psyche of narcissists, they will return to try and assert control again, and judging by how long they have let their daughters get at each other's throats, I doubt anything beyond an "act of God" would change their ways. Best advice for OP: stay away from them.
It's crazy how most of this stuff happened because the 'parents' weren't good at being parents and decided that instead of stopping a toxic sibling rivalry, that they were going to encourage it. Then they wonder why their kids don't speak anymore 🙄
I’m so happy to hear you’re rebuilding your relationship with your sister and that your wedding was beautiful! It’s inspiring to see how you handled everything with such grace. Wishing you both all the joy and love as you move forward together. Enjoy your honeymoon!
Wow what an intense journey you’ve been on I can’t believe your sister finally apologized after all these years That must have been such a huge moment for you both I’m so glad to hear your wedding was beautiful and that you’re rebuilding your relationship
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
😂😂😂😂😂Cora and Michael must be bots for the spiritual counselor , posting the same stuff over and over talking to each other... Botted content, botted comments, youtube, you're starting to disappoint
Yes! I'm going to blindside op with the golden child that assaulted op (because her feelings got hurt) that is trying to get a high position job via nepotism in a party where the aunt is invited. GREAT IDEA PARENTS.
It was a mixed ending. I was glad that the younger sister had matured so much, and it was great to see a reconciliation that was not forced but sincere. A sincere apology, no strings attached, and both were in a good state of mind to forgive each other. But on the other hand, the parents could not mature as quickly as their daughter. They did not even realize that they were the ones who had damaged their reputations. They were the ones who tried to deceive both their daughters, and if the younger sister did not look at herself, things would have been worse.
Although we may not have the opportunity to meet, I extend my best wishes to all who are reading this. May your existence be full of infinite blessings, good fortune, and pleasure.
I think the funny thing is opigo is my sister hasn't even apologized in 6 years. But at the same time has are blocked and tries to actively avoid her. 😂 And yes I know the sister wouldn't have done it anyways but I just think it's funny
The parents didn't like not controlling their daughters beyond what was acceptable. The sister had to go through the six years to deal with herself, and the aunt saying what she said was a necessary addition to everything. The entire need to "keep things secret" really is proof that the sisters were made to feel "they were in competition" and even though the "sister" has changed, the parents (especially the "mother") need to change as well. The attempt to stall her from her dress alterations/fitting for something that the OP had no real control over, though, made the sister realize she had to really apologize. But the "shock" the "parents" had then shows precisely who the real problem is. There is very palpable signs the "parents" gas lit both sisters into that posture. I am glad that the OP realizes that her "parents" were the ones who really were responsible for all of what happened, including that big fight and the "six years of silence". They even went all out to continue the gaslighting because both their daughters no longer let them control their lives.
It's not your fault it's your sister's fault because she hit her and she tried to steal her boyfriend and their parents to encourage the civil rivalry with her sister and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for tried to steal her boyfriend and she hit her and their parents to encourage the civil rivalry and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
Those parents are god damn idiots for encouraging the fighting. But then deciding to take it upon themselves and invite that sister? To an event they have no word on? Truly the most idiotic parents iv read about.
Parents after the apology from the sister: "How the hell do we force our other daughter to do things NOW, since our favorite just took away all our ammo? And now that the favorite realized things, we have to get rid of her as well." They'll show back up at some point when the money gets tight or something, and do the old "That was in the past" that they tried before. "I always want to see someone respond with "Yes, it was in the past, but I need to see that you've changed and learned from it before I can agree to help you."
THAT whole wedding party thing was the parents fault and it would have never happened if they didn't drag sister to that occasion where it wasn't the time or place to deal with past issues. Furthermore I would have had words about them bringing this mess back up during my bridal shower, they just show up when THEY want too. Then they blame Op for crap the nurtured and grew between their daughters. ID leave the parents alone for a while, because after everything they haven't admitted the part they played in everything.
I'd have asked the father if he had gone through the same thing with a sibling who had not yet apologized for what they'd done would he be able to forgive them when someone tried to force a reconciliation
I understand if parents brought her sister to party and she is angry. But atleast they are trying to resolve the issue between sisters and its long overdue. If the parents had heart to heart talk with children the issue will resolve. Instead of going away and daughters are at fault too. They should underatand and live the lives but not regreting their parents for evrything . The kids fought but its not the parents who thrown them into fights
To forgive is divine. Amen. But I still wouldn't trust the sister with the boyfriend/fiancé/husband. Shamelessly flirting with the boyfriend right in front of the sister is a complete red flag. And that happened when they were younger, not children. It simply means she's capable, can and will do it given the right conditions. What if a desirable situation for her to do such things present itself again?
Family is so irksome. You should just ignore all familial bonds and learn to enjoy solitude. Except for family members you happen to be friends 🤝 with as well.
parents were wrong for bringing the estranged sister to that bridal shower. I get wanting your kids to love each other and make up, but that was seriously wrong place and time. And not to mention, they never held younger sister accountable for her actions. They kept really putting that blame on the big sister. They kept telling her it's six years later let it go completely ignoring the fact of the man she's about to marry is the same man that her sister was hitting on in front of everybody. This Wasn't even picking a man over your sister it was the fact that she was just rude and didn't care
I would have enjoyed it MUCH more, if the backgrounds would stop speeding by and bouncing up and down so much, AND the text wasn't so fast, ALL AT THE SAME TIME! For those of us who READ these stories (NOT listen), it is MIGRAINE INDUCING! UGH! (BTW...can they go any faster than 2.0?)
Narcissists don't really make real apologies. Even if they have to, they blame other people for their actions. And think it is other people's problem to solve their issues. Though still don't contact her. She is a troubled person so is unfun to be around.
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Such a bittersweet ending. On the one hand, the sister did SO MUCH maturing and I'm always glad to see this kind of reconciliation, not forced but genuine. a genuine apology with no strings attached and the proper headspace to forgive. On the other hand, the parents have obviously not matured at the same rate as the sister. They don't even have the presence of mind to realize that THEY were the reason for the slap to their reputation. THEY attempted to deceive both daughters and if the sister hadn't done the introspection that she did this could have gotten even nastier.
The parents were a major red flag from the start with the whole "they even egged us on in our sibling rivalry" wouldnt surprise me one bit if the parents worked behind the scenes, going to each sister seperately with the whole "why can't you be more like 'other sister'" absolutely evil.
_Spoiler_
The only outcome the parents would have accepted is OP taking the blame for the situation.
The sister apologizing unconditionally completely threw off their power grab, and now they're sulking.
Yup. Trying to broker a peace between feuding siblings is noble. Doing this by surprising both siblings during a public meaningful event is beyond sh*tty. Not taking "no" for an answer just makes a terrible situation even worse.
I was going to make a similar comment. The parents were trying so hard for so long to make OP the bad guy. The sister took the wind out of their sails with the apology. Now they can't victim blame and have turned to blame shifting.
💯👍🏿
Parents: "IT'S EVERYBODY'S FAULT BUT OURS!!!"
I see you on all these videos help 😭💀
Kindoff a bizzarely wholesome ending.
Op and her sister realized that their awful parents had pitted them against each other for so long that they never had a chance to actually act like sisters.
Parents are the real villains here
Couldn't have said it better myself. The parents suck.
For real. The parents are the true culprits.
I remember a similar post where OP's father tried to force her and her mother to make up, her mother had kicked her out at 19 because she chose a different career path(CS), and 5 years had passed since then.
OP's father said something along the lines of "you both need to stop being childish and make up" no apology, no talking it out, he literally just thought the whole thing could be fixed by them just "burying the hatchet"
OP had a meltdown and cut ties to both her father and mother and moved away somewhere.
Good on op those "parents" sound horrible.
Wasn't there one where both mom and sister tried to get OP back with her ex by forcing an intervention?
You can forgive someone but still not want them in your life.
The parents pitted the sisters against each other. Sick.
Like the sister and OP stated they could've had more of an sisterly bond.
"only 6 years have passed, time to make-up" .... LOL, there's family I haven't spoken to in literally decades, 6 years is a cake-walk!
The biggest glow up in stories i have ever heard, W Sister
I could tell as soon as the sister walked out of the bridal shower without a word that she was on the road to recovery. If she had still been contentious and bitter toward OP, she could have gotten defensive, made a scene, and painted OP as the villain for instigating. She had the perfect captive audience, and a chance to really hurt by ruining an important day if she wanted to. Even apologizing in that instance would have felt forced and insincere given the situation. There was no good outcome for the sister or OP no matter how the sister responded. Walking out was the best thing she could have done for the both of them in that moment. If I'd seen the post before the update, I would have said she was NTA, but to try to give her sister some grace for that situation in particular, as it was clear even then that the parents were instigating by choosing such an important time and place to bring potential hostility back into your life. Parents were the real villains from day 1, and I'm so glad OP and her sister figured it out before it was too late.
Nothing can unite people more than a shared enemy.
In this case, the sisters finally figured out that the real enemy wasn't each other.
It was their parents.
Wow an example of nepotism hiring actually being rescinded we need more stories like this
Well, we're in another "we only care about our feelings/reputation" situation again.
It sucks because the original story this was ripped from had a crazier ending. The parents acknowledged that they messed up by putting the sisters against eachother but the sister was too far gone at that point and caused a scene at the wedding which ends with her getting arrested
I know this is WILDLY inappropriate, but I burst out laughing at the cat fight. Yeah, I know something is wrong with me.
It's a little funny that she blew up like that about being called out on her behavior, but yeah, little inappropriate on both our parts.
The plot twist at the end was unexpected, but unfortunately, this cutthroat sibling rivalry is exactly the kind of thing narcissistic parents not only foster, but actively encourage, since control is the one thing narcissists thrive on. Post-updates, while I am happy OP can rebuild her relationship with her sister, I still advise caution, cause I am very certain those parents must be seething internally cause their puppeteer strings have been cut. Knowing the psyche of narcissists, they will return to try and assert control again, and judging by how long they have let their daughters get at each other's throats, I doubt anything beyond an "act of God" would change their ways. Best advice for OP: stay away from them.
It's crazy how most of this stuff happened because the 'parents' weren't good at being parents and decided that instead of stopping a toxic sibling rivalry, that they were going to encourage it. Then they wonder why their kids don't speak anymore 🙄
The biggest problem with families and life in general is the lack of communication.
my emotional a$$ cried when she invited her sister aaaaa
I’m so happy to hear you’re rebuilding your relationship with your sister and that your wedding was beautiful! It’s inspiring to see how you handled everything with such grace. Wishing you both all the joy and love as you move forward together. Enjoy your honeymoon!
Wow what an intense journey you’ve been on I can’t believe your sister finally apologized after all these years That must have been such a huge moment for you both I’m so glad to hear your wedding was beautiful and that you’re rebuilding your relationship
Forgive. Forgiveness isn’t for the other person it’s for yourself. Your sister is at peace and yall need to mend that broken relationship.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is dr apala omofulma, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
😂😂😂😂😂Cora and Michael must be bots for the spiritual counselor , posting the same stuff over and over talking to each other...
Botted content, botted comments, youtube, you're starting to disappoint
Yes! I'm going to blindside op with the golden child that assaulted op (because her feelings got hurt) that is trying to get a high position job via nepotism in a party where the aunt is invited.
GREAT IDEA PARENTS.
Nepotism is illegal. It would’ve gotten them arrested
It was a mixed ending. I was glad that the younger sister had matured so much, and it was great to see a reconciliation that was not forced but sincere. A sincere apology, no strings attached, and both were in a good state of mind to forgive each other. But on the other hand, the parents could not mature as quickly as their daughter. They did not even realize that they were the ones who had damaged their reputations. They were the ones who tried to deceive both their daughters, and if the younger sister did not look at herself, things would have been worse.
Although we may not have the opportunity to meet, I extend my best wishes to all who are reading this. May your existence be full of infinite blessings, good fortune, and pleasure.
God bless you
Well I'm glad OP and sis worked it out and can both move forward ❤.
Kinda happy for OP
I think the funny thing is opigo is my sister hasn't even apologized in 6 years. But at the same time has are blocked and tries to actively avoid her. 😂 And yes I know the sister wouldn't have done it anyways but I just think it's funny
I thought the same thing lol
The note from the parents was 100% an attempyat guilt tripping.
Can you believe it? For the first time the sister actually matures!
The parents didn't like not controlling their daughters beyond what was acceptable. The sister had to go through the six years to deal with herself, and the aunt saying what she said was a necessary addition to everything. The entire need to "keep things secret" really is proof that the sisters were made to feel "they were in competition" and even though the "sister" has changed, the parents (especially the "mother") need to change as well. The attempt to stall her from her dress alterations/fitting for something that the OP had no real control over, though, made the sister realize she had to really apologize. But the "shock" the "parents" had then shows precisely who the real problem is. There is very palpable signs the "parents" gas lit both sisters into that posture. I am glad that the OP realizes that her "parents" were the ones who really were responsible for all of what happened, including that big fight and the "six years of silence". They even went all out to continue the gaslighting because both their daughters no longer let them control their lives.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Keep a watchful eye out for the sister
I will never understand family that force siblings families back together.
Back up back up, she instigated the fight??? Ya she just randomly called her a loser out of the blue for no reason
It's not your fault it's your sister's fault because she hit her and she tried to steal her boyfriend and their parents to encourage the civil rivalry with her sister and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for tried to steal her boyfriend and she hit her and their parents to encourage the civil rivalry and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
Those parents are god damn idiots for encouraging the fighting. But then deciding to take it upon themselves and invite that sister? To an event they have no word on? Truly the most idiotic parents iv read about.
I'm not optimistic on the parents apologizing as they appear to be at least moderately covertly narcissistic.
If the truth makes you look bad, that's no one's fault but yours.
who ever did this map is evil
Parents after the apology from the sister: "How the hell do we force our other daughter to do things NOW, since our favorite just took away all our ammo? And now that the favorite realized things, we have to get rid of her as well." They'll show back up at some point when the money gets tight or something, and do the old "That was in the past" that they tried before. "I always want to see someone respond with "Yes, it was in the past, but I need to see that you've changed and learned from it before I can agree to help you."
THAT whole wedding party thing was the parents fault and it would have never happened if they didn't drag sister to that occasion where it wasn't the time or place to deal with past issues. Furthermore I would have had words about them bringing this mess back up during my bridal shower, they just show up when THEY want too. Then they blame Op for crap the nurtured and grew between their daughters. ID leave the parents alone for a while, because after everything they haven't admitted the part they played in everything.
I'd have asked the father if he had gone through the same thing with a sibling who had not yet apologized for what they'd done would he be able to forgive them when someone tried to force a reconciliation
I understand if parents brought her sister to party and she is angry. But atleast they are trying to resolve the issue between sisters and its long overdue. If the parents had heart to heart talk with children the issue will resolve. Instead of going away and daughters are at fault too. They should underatand and live the lives but not regreting their parents for evrything . The kids fought but its not the parents who thrown them into fights
💯 agree with you on this Matt thanks for sharing this
Aaaand? Did they bring sister along so she can have another go at taking away OP's now fiance, thus solving her no money, no job problem?
If the first thing out of her mouth wasn't that long overdue apology for what she did then no she is not a changed person
To forgive is divine. Amen. But I still wouldn't trust the sister with the boyfriend/fiancé/husband. Shamelessly flirting with the boyfriend right in front of the sister is a complete red flag. And that happened when they were younger, not children. It simply means she's capable, can and will do it given the right conditions. What if a desirable situation for her to do such things present itself again?
Parents are pretty 'airheaded'.
Family is so irksome.
You should just ignore all familial bonds and learn to enjoy solitude. Except for family members you happen to be friends 🤝 with as well.
When the kids are more mature than the parents 🙄
Op, you had more grace than me, let’s just say that
parents were wrong for bringing the estranged sister to that bridal shower. I get wanting your kids to love each other and make up, but that was seriously wrong place and time. And not to mention, they never held younger sister accountable for her actions. They kept really putting that blame on the big sister. They kept telling her it's six years later let it go completely ignoring the fact of the man she's about to marry is the same man that her sister was hitting on in front of everybody. This Wasn't even picking a man over your sister it was the fact that she was just rude and didn't care
Raised by narcissist.
My BROTHER"S shower?
The best ending
idk, after all what the sister had done to OP, she could still forgive her. I mean if its sincere, its good but... its kinda give me mix feelings
You said it your brother's shower what brother why would your brother be having a wedding shower
I think they meant bridal shower not brother's shower
Both are at fault…
Is anyone finding the full video as a short?
Aquarium Park?
I would have enjoyed it MUCH more, if the backgrounds would stop speeding by and bouncing up and down so much, AND the text wasn't so fast, ALL AT THE SAME TIME! For those of us who READ these stories (NOT listen), it is MIGRAINE INDUCING! UGH! (BTW...can they go any faster than 2.0?)
I LIKE VIDEO
Ur parents are jerks for egging you both on.
Fake story ahe says brother's shower
The sister is still as manipulative as ever. Did anyone seriously bought that “apology”? It’s known as “Advance By Retreat” in the Art of War.
Narcissists don't really make real apologies.
Even if they have to, they blame other people for their actions. And think it is other people's problem to solve their issues.
Though still don't contact her. She is a troubled person so is unfun to be around.
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Damn I'm early
Yo i am the first
No
I was forst
I got here when yall had just commented. @rayansharora1419 was the first. They had a good 20 seconds on ya'll. There we go, problem solved
We do not care
@@Goku_black_zamasu_zyou clearly do though 😂
First
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YTA