No kidding especially if they only based it one person’s hearsay. Very illegal. BUT suing former employers could make you seem like a liability to future employers no matter how in the wrong the other company was. Shitty catch 22.
@@Tzaddi15 In what way is OP slow? That was an absolutely insane situation to be in and even if her common sense didn't kick in right away to have her recording everything the first time around (because she was in literal shock it was even happening), she clearly had the common sense to go to work prepared with the correct and necessary documentation and recordings to prove it literally was hearsay. So no, OP isn't slow, she's coming to terms with having been severely emotionally and verbally abused, manipulated, gaslit and shamed for the majority of her life. Look up literally any study on the lasting effects that has into adulthood. Shame and fear are incredibly powerful emotions to overcome, but she did and she won, every time. Go troll somewhere else.
You can really see the years of abuse on op's decision she has become such a pushover because of it, but im glad she found her spine and fought for her nephew.
So many people are mad at her for not recording or calling her job from the first threat, but this is exactly why she didn't! From her most formative years, she's effectively been trained to "cower before the authority, or suffer the consequences" That's probably also why she never bothered with her social life while at home and chose to study instead, since people can be lied to and manipulated, but books can't.
@bonnietelocole6777 then why laugh at her sister instead of let her believe she was fired? Also this is AI written I think. Or fiction. OK story though.
@@mary-janereallynotsarah684 Because she finally defeated the undefeatable She won, after a lifetime of being told she never could. I can't ever imagine the euphoria she felt in that moment. That euphoria made her want to brag about finally winning against her golden child sister, proving to her that she can't have everything. She had no clue just how badly this decision could turn out until it was too late. We've already established here that victims of abuse are incapable of thinking clearly. Asking them to do so before any amount of therapy is asking a pig to fly. Also, I don't care whether or not this was written by AI. Real situations like this _do_ happen, and I'm actively choosing to believe this is a real story. Do not try to convince me otherwise, I will actively continue to choose to _not_ believe you.
To anyone else who is undergoing similar situations NEVER let a person know what you plan on doing,or who your calling. This person could have avoided a lot if she hadn't told them that she was calling CPS & filing charges with the police.
Yep, I agree, I said the same thing. With people like that it is best to have as little interaction as possible, and in a situation like that definitely don't tell them of plans, or the next move, or what you've already done, or the effects that their actions have had. That could have spared her a lot of problems. Of course in the end the way that they behaved did end up hurting them, and benefiting her, so in this case at least everything worked out for the best.
@@NikkiC777 that's something that upsets me, I have known women who have been severely beaten and one killed for telling their abusive partner they were working on leaving. Whatever you tell them they will go on the attack, it doesn't scare them, it pisses them off.
The only good thing sister did in her entire life was giving birth to those boys, they sound so innocent and good , honestly a surprise that they grew up to be so good with that 304 mother .
7:15 okay, to stop all of this from happening op shouldve just fucking called her hr rep, managers, supervisors, etc, and said everything that was happening, and detail the sister's threat with the assurance it was completely false (obviously with documentation). The company would defend op's career and op could call CPS without fear... then the entire assault, charges against mom and sis, all of it wouldve been dodged and things wouldve skipped right to the custody battle
Ik she didn’t do the best things, but you have to understand this woman is already bipolar and has to take meds for it, so she was definitely not in the right state of mind to be making these logical decisions especially because she was having a breakdown.
She was a severely abused, neglected, and mentally unwell individual. She was in no place to be making these logical decisions against people who, for her entire life (especially her most formative years), taught her that she was _powerless_ against them. It was only _after_ that meeting with her bosses that her mind fully began to grasp that these demons were, in fact, defeatable, and that she had more than one good reason to fight. Victims don't make logical decisions. They're trained not to for fear of their _lives._
@@What_a_coincidence Taking meds can help stabilize your moods but it doesn't automatically erase years of abuse equivelant to brainwashing. Her Bipolar diagnosis wasn't what affected her decision making.
Same thoughts. I'm only 13 mins in and I've thought twice now, just email direct manager and HR and let them know she's got a crazy sister who is threatening to make false claims if she doesn't watch her children. If her company doesn't believe her, or fires her for the bs, then that's not a company she should be working for anyway.
So is the OP. Wow, way to be a doormat. Spineless. You can press charges for assault, blackmail, threats, child abandoment if you bother to use your brain. Simply move convo to text messages by not picking up. Or record your conversations. Set up video cameras. And call the police. Your hands are washed. OP is simply a moron with that fancy degree of hers. Use your brain. Your family is stupid in how blatant they are. Take advantage.
Exactly.. I was the first born of 3 and my mom giving birth to me and as I was born the nurse went to place me on my mom's chest and my mom said "Get this thing off me" ( talking about me) and then when I was 6 she tried to kill me with a .38 special gun she had it to the back of my head and she pulled the trigger but the gun jammed. She would always say this phrase " I WISH I NEVER HAD YOU"
Shes a victim of @buse, and has been since her most formative years. Being a victim myself, you don't tend to make the most rational or logical decisions, especially against people who have _trained_ you to "cower, or suffer." That's why for victims to escape, they often need help from more level headed and logical people (The BF in this case, who gave her the idea to record the threats), so that they have fog free minds and can see the bigger picture, sometimes long before the victim can.
The OP is finally free from her sister's toxic negativity and manipulation and is reunited with her nephews plus be there for them when they need her the most and the OP can walk away from her family and be done with it.
… my “dad told me he was happy for me and that’s as the nicest thing that my parents had every told me” um I’m sorry whoever this is you deserve better
I’m not the golden child my older sister gets this to but I once did all the types of energy I told him (my dad and mom) they were SOOOOO happy that I did it lolz they love me and my sis I asked my mom who is ur fav daughter she said both!! I love my mom and dad❤❤❤❤❤
oh man,, that ending,, 😢😢😢 im honestly speechless,, i knew you'd come back for us one day,, 😢😢😢 im gonna cry for days about this,, no child should ever experience the cruelties they did and im glad you used your similar experience for good instead of revenge,, thank you for that😢😢😢❤❤❤
To be honest, some front doors don't have those peepholes, nor a window next or in the door. Her home might have one of those fully wooden doors. With no windows near it. As windows obviously have blind spots, too.
Fr i know only one person who doesn't look whos in the peephole or window and its just cause he doesn't answer the door. So either op is just dumb or the stress/lack of sleep
The hero of this story who suffered for so long she is absolutely clueless about how things work and how to protect herself. She cant help but call her mother and tell her stuff she shouldn't. She even opens the door when she should have been calling the cops. She is so clueless at times. She has a kind loving heart and is so surprised when her family is so evil to her. She is so frustrating watching her make so many mistakes in handling her sister and mother.
I don't get why she's worried about the boyfriend thing I'm pretty sure if you just get on the phone and say' yeah my sister went nuts and I have to take my nephew's from CPS right now it might be a little bit before I can meet you guys' they would be fine with it, normal people understand things happen
Yeah, but it's probably also a symptom of the @buse she's suffered. She's been taught to kneel and cower, or suffer the wrath of the authority. With these being parental figures she's never met, it stands to reason she felt they would be at all similar to her parents. It could also be that the court date allowed her to visit her BF for a few days, then fly right back for it, and CPS was either investigating during that trip, or waiting for the case results to conclude their investigation. Either way, there's a lot of factors to consider. The elephant in the room being a lot of @buse and n3glect from her most formative years to now. Victims do not think clearly or logically during their @buse. Asking them to is essentially the same as asking a pig to fly.
@@BluffMello I'm glad I was able to help you! I love psychology, it's one of my obsessions, and I'm always happy to help someone understand odd behaviors/decisions and their psychological motivations -(Sorry if this sounds off or rude, I have autism and can't word things well)-
Yeah you don't tell me you're having an emergency and you can't come on time it's not disrespectful to have other things in your life like what if someone Plows in your car while you're at a stoplight you can't travel that disrespectful this lady needs serious therapy
Ai generated story, whoever wrote this story doesn't know how the law works. As soon as she spit on her sister the bailiff would've restrained her and possibly have charges of assault brought on her. Also, urban legend about having only one phone call, you can call as much as you want if someone pays for the collect call or sometimes they let you text and call from your phone in holding cell. That's the biggest giveaway that this BS is Fanfiction.
Ur under arrest for *inhale Child abandonment Coercion Blackmail Kidnapping Assault x2 Child abuse Child neglect Trespassing Public intoxication (maybe if she is on drugs) And assault of a police officer Breaking and entering Defamation *exhale Mother: Police: ur under arrest for Child neglect Helping a fugitive Kidnapping Assault Trespassing Breaking and entering Extra:favoritism Being a big betch Damn that’s a lot of crimes😂
She went from "I hate my sister, why does she dump her kids with me?" to "I love my sisters kids and I would literally fight my sis in a Wendy's parking lot if I can" 😂❤
OP has extreme patience, kindness and self-discipline. It takes a LOT to not call them every name in the book and not crash out on the kids and tell them to hate their mom. That’s some insane respect and stuff. ✊ 🧑
I can’t believe that there was a whole ass Hero’s Journey in this story. Man that was satisfying but I also wish for the best for the 2 nephews and op in this story.
I don’t understand why OP didn’t just call the HR department at work and explain the situation to them. Tell them she wanted to call CPS and she was being threatened. Then the sister would have nothing to blackmail her with.
Way to go OP for hanging in there through a lifetime of pain and heart aches to make something of yourself and to fight for your nephews. Young kids who deserved much more than the awful hand they were dealt. Thank you for being their hope.
I set here and picture my brother and I , he was taken first and when my neighbor Rosie came by to see how things were she found me backed in a corner my mother with a knife 🔪 in hand and was going to take my life she stopped her and needless to say spent from age 4 until I was eighteen in foster care . I got with a retired man and women who where only supported to have me for a short time and ended up with me till I turned 14 and then my mother had passed the requirements to get us back . I would go to my foster parents house for holidays which pissed my mother off but they where my true parents even if they hadn't had me and momma said they picked me to be there little boy . Love and kisses to William and Geneva Lawrence. I will love you forever. ❤❤❤
Yeah, and the buff Russian guy is unscathed as usual smh. He should sentenced to a life time in prison too for literally throwing a human being into the air.
I had a similar experience with custody back in the 1990s, but I was the child. 38:34 When I was around 5, I was S/A by my estranged mom's BF. We lived in a horrible apartment. Cockroaches on the walls, the overpowering smell of cheap cat litter, so unsurprisingly, she lost custody of us. She was giving the decision to side with her BF or stay with us (I don't know if they do this anymore), and she, like the horrible human being she was and still is, sided with her BF instead of her two children, 5 and 8. We were put into care of our grandma, and it took 8 whole years for her to adopt us and gain full custody because she kept appealing. I haven't spoken to her in 9 years and I don't plan to anytime soon.
The mother blatantly bought whole-heartedly into the lie that "good looking people should have life on easy mode" and this entire story shows that. The fact that the sister really thought that she would get away with what she did. The worst part is that the mother really thinks that her eldest daughter being a "sugar daddy's 304" is better than a daughter who did so much and made so much of her life. Also, the fact that the nephews actually are being neglected/abused proves a lot. Her having others assault the OP absolutely proof that both the eldest daughter and the mother should be locked up for the rest of their lives. The "sugar daddy" also will be tainted forever, because the last thing a man like that wants is to be linked to a sociopath. *_It was a HUGE mistake her kidnapping her own kids, as it completely going to destroy the illusion of her "hot mess status" and that is a good thing!_* Resisting the arrest and assaulting cops just made it worse. What amazes me is that any CPS investigation would be that "unresolved", and with all of that evidence it never should have. I am glad the OP went to the lengths she could. The fact the mother turned on her "favorite daughter" just to stay out of prison is really the cherry on the top of the cake. The shame of it is that she (the OP) was _the only person in that entire "family" fit to have custody!!!_ I am very happy for her and the two boys.. but that is a testament to how toxic entitled females can get. But then.. what a poetic fate for the "golden child".. from a Sugar Daddy's 304 to life in prison. It doesn't get better than that.
@@liwiathan 304 typed in a calculator then turned upside down is the actual word. "Sugar babies" are no different than call girls.. and usually have multiple "Sugar Daddies".
@@liwiathan , how is explaining facts "getting weirdly defensive"??? Are you a "Sugar baby" or a call girl.. or are those the only people you can "get it up" for?
I just watched the entire 40 minutes 💀 Essentially OPs sister went to a different country to visit a sugar daddy, OPs bf said to record the call of OPs sister threatening them with their job bc of false bipolar medication neglect claims, the sister went off on one on OP, proving that she's insane. OP said they had called CPS and the sister went crazy, saying she was going to get on the first flight back and that op would regret it. Next day, sister was at ops door with her sugar daddy (op said he was like 6'5 300lbs) their mother being behind the SD. The SD assaulted op, taking the nephews in a car and driving off after the sister spat in ops face. Op called the police afterwards, telling them everything what happened and a case was already open on their sister for previous charges against her. Op took the sister to court and the sister attacked them after learning that they wanted to get custody of the nephews, providing she was unfit to be a parent towards them. She won the case, and OPs mother managed to get out of going to prison by putting the sister under the bus. (The sister got life in prison)
Right? No doubt about it... It's 100% based on real events. Also the tooth fairy is real, Santa is up at the North Pole, and definitely need to always have the Christmas spirit so Krampus doesn't come and take ya! 😂
Threatening my job?? I'd have gone straight to my job and talked to my boss about the situation. Show proof with toxic messages or whatever. 27:46 why in the hell didn't OP get cameras in her home and some type of firearm???? Especially when she said she was scared for her life
That is ... The most ..... F*cking BEST STORY I EVER HEARD. IT brought me to tears and happiness knowing the nephews are safe and you won the court case. Yahoo!!!! 🎉
Knowing that your sister has it out for you and then actually opening the door is the stupidest thing I've ever heard of. Like, yeah, it's completely unhinged sisters fault, but come on.
When the mother is mouthing off about changing the subject, you should just turn looking her right in the face and say "you can sit there and be quiet or you can go in the other room. The ADULTS are speaking." And then ignore her from there on.
An abusive ex has called/spammed my work before. People pull crap like that to keep their target under control. While I didn't get fired I got called in for a meeting and had to produce documents from the police (restraining order, copies of court documents) to demonstrate that this in fact a whackjob trying to hurt me and not a community member with a legitimate concern. While this may be an AI story this kind of thing happens.
It can be done. People like this can accomplish crap like that and most of the time, jobs WILL let you go because they don't want to get in the middle of domestic squabbles.
It’s called “emotional manipulation “; this is when people treat differently vs how they view you. Strangers appreciate the rejected sister’s genuine and kind nature while her family abused and manipulated it for their needs. It’s hard to see because they say “Family” over anything but I need people to know family can be your first betrayal, heartbreak, abandonment, alienation, bullying, narcissistic parent etc! She didn’t betray her golden child she saved her independent narrative!
It doesn’t matter what happened, at least the Pile of Trash (The Sister) got a life sentence in jail and the person writing the story got custody of the two children
What isn't great is the AI giving unnecessary b plot storyline... "She hadn't even let them take any of their stuff. They left without any of their clothes, their Switches, and no breakfast" Like yes, we got that from "she took the kids & left" whatever, what happens next!?
The mother's issue is that in her mind a woman's success is nased on her beauty. Sje probably gave up her future in pursuit of beauty. Seeing her "ugly" daugther become successful shows her how wrong she is and it aggravated her sense of self.
This is a good example of "Every kid deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a kid" but the mother did one thing wrong over and over until it leaked onto the oldest and then butterflied effected itself on to the future and made problems forward and forward worse and worse.
Call the police. Tell LE what she threatened to do. Call 911 now or you are complicit to child abandonment. Stop expecting anything from mom & sis. They need the reality of LAW. Grow a spine. You are a push over.😮
This story made me cry. All the abuse and pain. Kids have to go through so much. If you don't want to treat your kids right don't have them or just give them to someone who would provide and show them love.
I’m crying so hard it’s not even funny because it’s not even just a story, it’s something that could 100% happen in real life. I’m glad that OP’s nephews got to stay with OP.
Yeah she should have been in the position of recording all calls from this enemy automatically. Then call the police if she threatened you with assault in your own home so the police could call the airline and have her held while you called child protective services. And through at her for good measure and restraining order. Your family doesn't matter at that point not unless there's some cultural situation envloved but nothing from your amidit family warrants what you've already been through
Any employee in the United States it was fired like this based on a phone call would get a lawyer and would win $2 million in the lawsuit. Once they made it plain they wanted all your medical records or medical information get a lawyer start suing
This could’ve all been avoided if OP recorded the second call with the sister, called CPS and the police as soon as possible and it would’ve all skipped right to the legal battle
ive been staring at this video for a good 10 minutes forgetting i was on call w/ my friend and playing a horror game with her, why are these so addicting
You know what makes me mad op knows the sistet and mom are toxic yet she stays in contact with them i mean how long do u have to be put down as a adult that u decide to cut those people off i mean seriously stop being a doormat
i feel that the boyfriend from australia just sugar coated you! if i was him i would have told you dont worry im on going there! and take the first plane to were ever you are
This can’t be done all the time, job responsibilities and as long as he was there to support her emotionally showed a lot being away from her. You only know one or two lines of him not his whole. N if he was a monster he wouldn’t have supported during the custody battle since he got with someone who don’t have kids and he may not be ready to help or even help the kids
Those kids should’ve been placed when her household. I don’t understand why she wouldn’t of. Got temporary custody. Even my sister got a piece of mail about my deceased cousins kid who is now in foster care about visiting or taking him, etc., so it makes no sense that she wouldn’t have had them in her house while fighting for custody
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If OP lost her job because somebody made a claim about her medical history, she would’ve had one hell of a lawsuit.
No kidding especially if they only based it one person’s hearsay. Very illegal. BUT suing former employers could make you seem like a liability to future employers no matter how in the wrong the other company was. Shitty catch 22.
@@remylewis8721na you can put it in the writing of the settlement that they can't talk about it and have to be honest about how good you are.
@@remylewis8721Can't just let people get away with stuff like that. Use part of the money to start a business and/or invest.
But OP was too slow to realize that. Common sense isn't common.
@@Tzaddi15 In what way is OP slow? That was an absolutely insane situation to be in and even if her common sense didn't kick in right away to have her recording everything the first time around (because she was in literal shock it was even happening), she clearly had the common sense to go to work prepared with the correct and necessary documentation and recordings to prove it literally was hearsay. So no, OP isn't slow, she's coming to terms with having been severely emotionally and verbally abused, manipulated, gaslit and shamed for the majority of her life. Look up literally any study on the lasting effects that has into adulthood. Shame and fear are incredibly powerful emotions to overcome, but she did and she won, every time. Go troll somewhere else.
You can really see the years of abuse on op's decision she has become such a pushover because of it, but im glad she found her spine and fought for her nephew.
So many people are mad at her for not recording or calling her job from the first threat, but this is exactly why she didn't! From her most formative years, she's effectively been trained to "cower before the authority, or suffer the consequences"
That's probably also why she never bothered with her social life while at home and chose to study instead, since people can be lied to and manipulated, but books can't.
@bonnietelocole6777 then why laugh at her sister instead of let her believe she was fired? Also this is AI written I think. Or fiction. OK story though.
@@mary-janereallynotsarah684 Because she finally defeated the undefeatable
She won, after a lifetime of being told she never could.
I can't ever imagine the euphoria she felt in that moment.
That euphoria made her want to brag about finally winning against her golden child sister, proving to her that she can't have everything.
She had no clue just how badly this decision could turn out until it was too late.
We've already established here that victims of abuse are incapable of thinking clearly.
Asking them to do so before any amount of therapy is asking a pig to fly.
Also, I don't care whether or not this was written by AI. Real situations like this _do_ happen, and I'm actively choosing to believe this is a real story. Do not try to convince me otherwise, I will actively continue to choose to _not_ believe you.
It’s great to see her finally standing up for herself and her family!
Why does she not break all contacts with the family?
Leaving her kids for 8 weeks? That’s not babysitting, that’s abandonment! 😳
Especially if you don't ask first
Invest in peepholes ... minimal investment huge return.
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Absolutely! That’s a serious neglect issue.
To anyone else who is undergoing similar situations NEVER let a person know what you plan on doing,or who your calling. This person could have avoided a lot if she hadn't told them that she was calling CPS & filing charges with the police.
Yep, I agree, I said the same thing. With people like that it is best to have as little interaction as possible, and in a situation like that definitely don't tell them of plans, or the next move, or what you've already done, or the effects that their actions have had. That could have spared her a lot of problems. Of course in the end the way that they behaved did end up hurting them, and benefiting her, so in this case at least everything worked out for the best.
@@NikkiC777 that's something that upsets me, I have known women who have been severely beaten and one killed for telling their abusive partner they were working on leaving. Whatever you tell them they will go on the attack, it doesn't scare them, it pisses them off.
Yes, work in the shadows. Save money. Plan carefully. Keep up the facade until it's time.
Yep. OP added a lot of unnecessary issues into this situation. That's before opening the door without looking through the windows or peep hole.
The only good thing sister did in her entire life was giving birth to those boys, they sound so innocent and good , honestly a surprise that they grew up to be so good with that 304 mother .
what do you mean by "304 mother"?
@@TabbedOutLOLhe prolly meant 403 or hoe
@@TabbedOutLOL put "304" on a calculator and flip it upside down
@@Ninjameowsandcats I didn't even need a cockulator
@@Ninjameowsandcatsstill confused lol
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I guess we wouldn’t really know if we meet in person, but thanks anyways! I wish the same for you😂🤷🏾♀️❤
Thanks bro,It means a lot to me.❤
Thanks bro, also great effort on commenting on all of requestedreads videos
You again? I swear I saw you on the last requested reads video 😅
You mean her sons
Mad respect for the judge who had to witness that and mad respect for CPS for being actually helpful
Mad respect for them doing their job?
@@Belleluvsu2 You clearly have not heard / seen the horror stories of cps doing nothing, even in severe ab*se situations.
7:15 okay, to stop all of this from happening op shouldve just fucking called her hr rep, managers, supervisors, etc, and said everything that was happening, and detail the sister's threat with the assurance it was completely false (obviously with documentation). The company would defend op's career and op could call CPS without fear... then the entire assault, charges against mom and sis, all of it wouldve been dodged and things wouldve skipped right to the custody battle
Ik she didn’t do the best things, but you have to understand this woman is already bipolar and has to take meds for it, so she was definitely not in the right state of mind to be making these logical decisions especially because she was having a breakdown.
She was a severely abused, neglected, and mentally unwell individual. She was in no place to be making these logical decisions against people who, for her entire life (especially her most formative years), taught her that she was _powerless_ against them. It was only _after_ that meeting with her bosses that her mind fully began to grasp that these demons were, in fact, defeatable, and that she had more than one good reason to fight.
Victims don't make logical decisions. They're trained not to for fear of their _lives._
@@hydrotherat5181yeah but she was taking meds so she WAS mentally well
video awesome, i'm also working on reddit for sleep hope everyone supports
@@What_a_coincidence Taking meds can help stabilize your moods but it doesn't automatically erase years of abuse equivelant to brainwashing. Her Bipolar diagnosis wasn't what affected her decision making.
I dont understand why she doesn't inform her job that her sister is crazy
Same thoughts. I'm only 13 mins in and I've thought twice now, just email direct manager and HR and let them know she's got a crazy sister who is threatening to make false claims if she doesn't watch her children. If her company doesn't believe her, or fires her for the bs, then that's not a company she should be working for anyway.
@@2010aj707 also, her mistake to keep contact despite the obvious abuse is mind boggling.
Same
Bro do u even think that spoild brat ever had a job all she was hang out with sugar daddy 😔😔😔
@@2010aj707she kinda needed proof
Dad is definetely a coward
Edit: I acknowledge that dad has been threatened into submission
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So is the OP. Wow, way to be a doormat. Spineless. You can press charges for assault, blackmail, threats, child abandoment if you bother to use your brain. Simply move convo to text messages by not picking up. Or record your conversations. Set up video cameras. And call the police. Your hands are washed. OP is simply a moron with that fancy degree of hers. Use your brain. Your family is stupid in how blatant they are. Take advantage.
I mean he was a little bit nice I guess but for some reason ignored every word the mom said
The dad may have been abused by the OP's mom tbh
I don't get why people have children if they aren't going to love them/don't want them
they just didn’t pull out in time or wanted to get paid
Narcissists have children to use them. They see them as objects not people. I know this because I was raised by one. Therapy has been very helpful.
@@Authenticallyathena Oh no! I hope you got better! And thank you for letting me know. I hope you have a good life now.
@@AuthenticallyathenaI'm so so sorry you had to go through that. I'll be praying for you and your healing
Exactly.. I was the first born of 3 and my mom giving birth to me and as I was born the nurse went to place me on my mom's chest and my mom said "Get this thing off me" ( talking about me) and then when I was 6 she tried to kill me with a .38 special gun she had it to the back of my head and she pulled the trigger but the gun jammed. She would always say this phrase " I WISH I NEVER HAD YOU"
And she couldn’t contact her work and explain that her sister would falsely accuse her of not taking her meds because??
Wait nvm she did but idk why she’d be so worried.
Shes a victim of @buse, and has been since her most formative years.
Being a victim myself, you don't tend to make the most rational or logical decisions, especially against people who have _trained_ you to "cower, or suffer."
That's why for victims to escape, they often need help from more level headed and logical people (The BF in this case, who gave her the idea to record the threats), so that they have fog free minds and can see the bigger picture, sometimes long before the victim can.
@@bonnietelocole6777also she didn’t have much proof at that point until she got the recording
Op was a punching bag so expect that
Stress and years of abuse can really f*ck up someone
Yes. Her boyfriend was a genius. She did the right thing. I’m so glad she bought her nephews new clothes and made them happy.
The OP is finally free from her sister's toxic negativity and manipulation and is reunited with her nephews plus be there for them when they need her the most and the OP can walk away from her family and be done with it.
… my “dad told me he was happy for me and that’s as the nicest thing that my parents had every told me” um I’m sorry whoever this is you deserve better
It's an AI story
@@sweeety969still people go through it
My parents have never even said that to me
I’m not the golden child my older sister gets this to but I once did all the types of energy I told him (my dad and mom) they were SOOOOO happy that I did it lolz they love me and my sis I asked my mom who is ur fav daughter she said both!! I love my mom and dad❤❤❤❤❤
@@sweeety969 No it’s a story from reddit, this is just a content farm farming off of r/AmIthea*shole
oh man,, that ending,, 😢😢😢 im honestly speechless,, i knew you'd come back for us one day,, 😢😢😢 im gonna cry for days about this,, no child should ever experience the cruelties they did and im glad you used your similar experience for good instead of revenge,, thank you for that😢😢😢❤❤❤
Very bueno
It’s a story for reddit
Who tf opens the door without checking who's behind it???
OP apparently…
ALSO SAMPO PFP???
Maybe she doesn't have a peephole I have to edit my comment so it stays
Anyone who's stupid
Fr like that's just dumb
To be honest, some front doors don't have those peepholes, nor a window next or in the door. Her home might have one of those fully wooden doors. With no windows near it. As windows obviously have blind spots, too.
When the door knocked i whould had called the police asap
Same
Or at least look who the hell is behind it
Fr i know only one person who doesn't look whos in the peephole or window and its just cause he doesn't answer the door. So either op is just dumb or the stress/lack of sleep
"Whould"
@@Cheetostastecool681 man if I make a typo is it that bad? Chillax
The hero of this story who suffered for so long she is absolutely clueless about how things work and how to protect herself. She cant help but call her mother and tell her stuff she shouldn't. She even opens the door when she should have been calling the cops. She is so clueless at times. She has a kind loving heart and is so surprised when her family is so evil to her. She is so frustrating watching her make so many mistakes in handling her sister and mother.
I firmly believe this story is not real but was a great one, very well written
Entitlement can be surprising and even shocking at times.
I don't get why she's worried about the boyfriend thing I'm pretty sure if you just get on the phone and say' yeah my sister went nuts and I have to take my nephew's from CPS right now it might be a little bit before I can meet you guys' they would be fine with it, normal people understand things happen
Yeah, but it's probably also a symptom of the @buse she's suffered. She's been taught to kneel and cower, or suffer the wrath of the authority. With these being parental figures she's never met, it stands to reason she felt they would be at all similar to her parents.
It could also be that the court date allowed her to visit her BF for a few days, then fly right back for it, and CPS was either investigating during that trip, or waiting for the case results to conclude their investigation.
Either way, there's a lot of factors to consider. The elephant in the room being a lot of @buse and n3glect from her most formative years to now.
Victims do not think clearly or logically during their @buse. Asking them to is essentially the same as asking a pig to fly.
@@bonnietelocole6777 you know what, fair, she was very timid at first, your point makes a lot of sense.
@@BluffMello I'm glad I was able to help you! I love psychology, it's one of my obsessions, and I'm always happy to help someone understand odd behaviors/decisions and their psychological motivations -(Sorry if this sounds off or rude, I have autism and can't word things well)-
Yeah you don't tell me you're having an emergency and you can't come on time it's not disrespectful to have other things in your life like what if someone Plows in your car while you're at a stoplight you can't travel that disrespectful this lady needs serious therapy
Ai generated story, whoever wrote this story doesn't know how the law works. As soon as she spit on her sister the bailiff would've restrained her and possibly have charges of assault brought on her. Also, urban legend about having only one phone call, you can call as much as you want if someone pays for the collect call or sometimes they let you text and call from your phone in holding cell. That's the biggest giveaway that this BS is Fanfiction.
Ur under arrest for *inhale
Child abandonment
Coercion
Blackmail
Kidnapping
Assault x2
Child abuse
Child neglect
Trespassing
Public intoxication (maybe if she is on drugs)
And assault of a police officer
Breaking and entering
Defamation
*exhale
Mother:
Police: ur under arrest for
Child neglect
Helping a fugitive
Kidnapping
Assault
Trespassing
Breaking and entering
Extra:favoritism
Being a big betch
Damn that’s a lot of crimes😂
No reply? Let me fix that...
Mother: 16.5 years + $20,000 fine
@@Players_1500 bet what about entitled sis
@@Cbearisking 39.15years + 9000fine
@@ArchieStephenson-jz5ju bet
You can easily disprove “not taking your meds” with a simple blood test, even if they didn’t accept the paperwork she came prepared with.
She went from "I hate my sister, why does she dump her kids with me?" to "I love my sisters kids and I would literally fight my sis in a Wendy's parking lot if I can" 😂❤
From a random mother I'm proud of you. Don't ever settle for the abuse they throw at you. Nothing wrong with giving him a little heck back ya
OP has extreme patience, kindness and self-discipline. It takes a LOT to not call them every name in the book and not crash out on the kids and tell them to hate their mom. That’s some insane respect and stuff. ✊
🧑
I can’t believe that there was a whole ass Hero’s Journey in this story. Man that was satisfying but I also wish for the best for the 2 nephews and op in this story.
*Heroes
I don’t understand why OP didn’t just call the HR department at work and explain the situation to them. Tell them she wanted to call CPS and she was being threatened. Then the sister would have nothing to blackmail her with.
Way to go OP for hanging in there through a lifetime of pain and heart aches to make something of yourself and to fight for your nephews. Young kids who deserved much more than the awful hand they were dealt. Thank you for being their hope.
16:15 “they were my boys too” 😭😭💘💘
Can't believe the OPs head was slammed against the wall. Crazy.
And that can cause some problems like head trauma and that is no joke
@@gloomy-waterflower926 ikr
23 minutes in damn this is a long story got a whole plot
Just think that there would be a tv show or anime based on this😂
@@advaitpandey7166 yeah
It’s def ai generated, no shot someone wrote something this detailed on Reddit
@@rayhanrizvi334if it has THIS many details it is NOT AI generated, AI could never generate such details.
@@TheAdministratorSCPF
But a 10 y.o. missing some teeth? The sister in prison FOR LIFE? ...
Thats some bs tbh🤦 favoritism is REALLL!!
Btw thanks for 100 likes yall😃
How does this not have no replies also favouritsim is actually so stupid
@@guyyoung2355 unfortunately it either got deleted by them or idk cus it was here days ago:(
I set here and picture my brother and I , he was taken first and when my neighbor Rosie came by to see how things were she found me backed in a corner my mother with a knife 🔪 in hand and was going to take my life she stopped her and needless to say spent from age 4 until I was eighteen in foster care . I got with a retired man and women who where only supported to have me for a short time and ended up with me till I turned 14 and then my mother had passed the requirements to get us back . I would go to my foster parents house for holidays which pissed my mother off but they where my true parents even if they hadn't had me and momma said they picked me to be there little boy . Love and kisses to William and Geneva Lawrence. I will love you forever. ❤❤❤
Fist fighting her at the wendys has me rolling 😂😂😂
I'd pay good money to see that.💵
STOP THE ENDING JS SO GOOD
Yeah, and the buff Russian guy is unscathed as usual smh. He should sentenced to a life time in prison too for literally throwing a human being into the air.
Even if he didn't serve time in the country he committed the crime, the embassy on OP's side can contact Russia's embassy and have him serve there.
U let your sister walk all ova u wow
@@LunaP1i heard russian prisons are brutal. He belongs there
It was never said if the guy got arrested or not, op probably didn’t care enough to find out
even if this isn't real. it is heartwarming. And if there just stories you could make a book with them. You earned a sub!
I had a similar experience with custody back in the 1990s, but I was the child. 38:34
When I was around 5, I was S/A by my estranged mom's BF. We lived in a horrible apartment. Cockroaches on the walls, the overpowering smell of cheap cat litter, so unsurprisingly, she lost custody of us. She was giving the decision to side with her BF or stay with us (I don't know if they do this anymore), and she, like the horrible human being she was and still is, sided with her BF instead of her two children, 5 and 8. We were put into care of our grandma, and it took 8 whole years for her to adopt us and gain full custody because she kept appealing. I haven't spoken to her in 9 years and I don't plan to anytime soon.
The mother blatantly bought whole-heartedly into the lie that "good looking people should have life on easy mode" and this entire story shows that. The fact that the sister really thought that she would get away with what she did. The worst part is that the mother really thinks that her eldest daughter being a "sugar daddy's 304" is better than a daughter who did so much and made so much of her life.
Also, the fact that the nephews actually are being neglected/abused proves a lot. Her having others assault the OP absolutely proof that both the eldest daughter and the mother should be locked up for the rest of their lives. The "sugar daddy" also will be tainted forever, because the last thing a man like that wants is to be linked to a sociopath. *_It was a HUGE mistake her kidnapping her own kids, as it completely going to destroy the illusion of her "hot mess status" and that is a good thing!_* Resisting the arrest and assaulting cops just made it worse.
What amazes me is that any CPS investigation would be that "unresolved", and with all of that evidence it never should have. I am glad the OP went to the lengths she could. The fact the mother turned on her "favorite daughter" just to stay out of prison is really the cherry on the top of the cake. The shame of it is that she (the OP) was _the only person in that entire "family" fit to have custody!!!_ I am very happy for her and the two boys.. but that is a testament to how toxic entitled females can get.
But then.. what a poetic fate for the "golden child".. from a Sugar Daddy's 304 to life in prison. It doesn't get better than that.
What is 304 mean the term you're looking for a sugar baby
@@liwiathan 304 typed in a calculator then turned upside down is the actual word. "Sugar babies" are no different than call girls.. and usually have multiple "Sugar Daddies".
@@Panwere36 you are getting weirdly defensive Cupquake
@@liwiathan , how is explaining facts "getting weirdly defensive"??? Are you a "Sugar baby" or a call girl.. or are those the only people you can "get it up" for?
@@Panwere36 see there you go again
….i don’t know why….but I LITRALLY couldn’t stop WATCHING this, I LITRALLY went into the bathroom with a charger
Foxy_Sis65 FR
Same here😂😂
These stories make me realize how lucky I am for my parents and appreciate how much they do for me especially my mom
I just watched the entire 40 minutes 💀
Essentially OPs sister went to a different country to visit a sugar daddy, OPs bf said to record the call of OPs sister threatening them with their job bc of false bipolar medication neglect claims, the sister went off on one on OP, proving that she's insane.
OP said they had called CPS and the sister went crazy, saying she was going to get on the first flight back and that op would regret it. Next day, sister was at ops door with her sugar daddy (op said he was like 6'5 300lbs) their mother being behind the SD. The SD assaulted op, taking the nephews in a car and driving off after the sister spat in ops face.
Op called the police afterwards, telling them everything what happened and a case was already open on their sister for previous charges against her.
Op took the sister to court and the sister attacked them after learning that they wanted to get custody of the nephews, providing she was unfit to be a parent towards them. She won the case, and OPs mother managed to get out of going to prison by putting the sister under the bus. (The sister got life in prison)
The simple solution was to call her job and tell them that her sister was crazy and would try and get her fired
Sister was serving a life sentence? This story Is clearly real
With the litany of crimes she committed, I'm betting the judge was merciless.
Her super memory on his license plate after being beaten up? Clearly a real story, no doubt.
@@VinnieMFprob saying the numbers over and over under her breath
She called CPS and told them there were two abandoned children on her property and they just didn't do anything so... Shows you how real it is.
Right? No doubt about it... It's 100% based on real events. Also the tooth fairy is real, Santa is up at the North Pole, and definitely need to always have the Christmas spirit so Krampus doesn't come and take ya! 😂
Threatening my job?? I'd have gone straight to my job and talked to my boss about the situation. Show proof with toxic messages or whatever.
27:46 why in the hell didn't OP get cameras in her home and some type of firearm???? Especially when she said she was scared for her life
Anybody else stayed for the entire half an hour man this is way better than netflix
Bro, that might’ve been the best story I’ve ever seen in my life
this is prolly the most wholesome yet sad reddit story i have ever heard
I don’t understand why you still have a relationship with these people. I don’t allow nobody to treat me that way especially Family.
The person who made this video didn’t experience this, it’s a story from reddit
That is ... The most ..... F*cking BEST STORY I EVER HEARD. IT brought me to tears and happiness knowing the nephews are safe and you won the court case. Yahoo!!!! 🎉
This is a story from reddit, the person who made this didn’t experience it
These AI & wattpad stories are do over the top.
Knowing that your sister has it out for you and then actually opening the door is the stupidest thing I've ever heard of.
Like, yeah, it's completely unhinged sisters fault, but come on.
It’s a reddit story, the person who made this video didn’t actually experience it, take a look at their videos
So a job cannot legally fire someone because of their medical diagnosis. They can let you go of you are shown to be aggressive in the workplace.
If its a right to work state they don't have to give a reason. It's a way to skirt disability/family medical leave act law.
Not every where has the same laws
This is a story from reddit, the person who made this didn’t experience it
When the mother is mouthing off about changing the subject, you should just turn looking her right in the face and say "you can sit there and be quiet or you can go in the other room. The ADULTS are speaking." And then ignore her from there on.
How in the world can her physcho sister make her lose her job with a phone call? This is so stupid. I beg of you make the story believable.
If this ever happens lawyer up!
@@extremenugget1346 true that.
An abusive ex has called/spammed my work before. People pull crap like that to keep their target under control. While I didn't get fired I got called in for a meeting and had to produce documents from the police (restraining order, copies of court documents) to demonstrate that this in fact a whackjob trying to hurt me and not a community member with a legitimate concern. While this may be an AI story this kind of thing happens.
It can be done. People like this can accomplish crap like that and most of the time, jobs WILL let you go because they don't want to get in the middle of domestic squabbles.
*psycho
No owner OP has mental health issues. I would too if I had a family half as crazy as this
I did not expect to stay up till midnight and almost cry. I really hope they are living a happy life with their nephews.
It’s called “emotional manipulation “; this is when people treat differently vs how they view you. Strangers appreciate the rejected sister’s genuine and kind nature while her family abused and manipulated it for their needs. It’s hard to see because they say “Family” over anything but I need people to know family can be your first betrayal, heartbreak, abandonment, alienation, bullying, narcissistic parent etc! She didn’t betray her golden child she saved her independent narrative!
“Fist fight in a Wendy’s parking lot”. Holy $hit that was funny!!!
It doesn’t matter what happened, at least the Pile of Trash (The Sister) got a life sentence in jail and the person writing the story got custody of the two children
Op bragging about her sister's plan failed to destroy op's life wasn't a great idea.
What isn't great is the AI giving unnecessary b plot storyline...
"She hadn't even let them take any of their stuff. They left without any of their clothes, their Switches, and no breakfast"
Like yes, we got that from "she took the kids & left" whatever, what happens next!?
Ah yes, stay in your home when you clearly know your crazy sister just threatened you.
Oof, those parents are horrible people. How can you treat two siblings like that 😢 breaks my heart.
This is a story from reddit, the person who made this didn’t experience it
I love how she makes 6 figures at her job, her job requiring the ability to pick up on small things and details very quick
The job: kindergarten …
Yeah, this seems like it's written by AI or was fully fibbed
@@11inchharbingerits definitely ai
That final line hit different! That birth mother was definitely a mean girl!
I wonder why Op didn’t use the recordings to prove it was her sister that was making these false allegations.
Im glad the boyfriend turned out to be such a prince. Not Charles of course.
The mother's issue is that in her mind a woman's success is nased on her beauty. Sje probably gave up her future in pursuit of beauty. Seeing her "ugly" daugther become successful shows her how wrong she is and it aggravated her sense of self.
This is a good example of "Every kid deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a kid" but the mother did one thing wrong over and over until it leaked onto the oldest and then butterflied effected itself on to the future and made problems forward and forward worse and worse.
Thank you for rescuing those poor sweet, innocent boys all the best 5:35
Don’t even think about Calling your nephews
Call them your sons because because you’ve been more of a parent to them than their actual ones
👍🏻
I was so angry but when the poor child said he knew op would come back for them... i began to cry
Same with me 😭😭😭
This lady is the sweetest person ever
Call the police. Tell LE what she threatened to do. Call 911 now or you are complicit to child abandonment. Stop expecting anything from mom & sis. They need the reality of LAW. Grow a spine. You are a push over.😮
This story made me cry. All the abuse and pain. Kids have to go through so much. If you don't want to treat your kids right don't have them or just give them to someone who would provide and show them love.
This is a story from reddit, the person who made this didn’t experience it
Let bygones be bygones? More like let bops be bops
bro i like how she thinks she would be juded for taking her violent mental sister to court. Girl i will be your lawyer
This is a story from reddit, the person who made this didn’t experience it
I’m crying so hard it’s not even funny because it’s not even just a story, it’s something that could 100% happen in real life. I’m glad that OP’s nephews got to stay with OP.
Medical blackmail should be illegal. If the Op is calm and put together at work, it doesn't matter if the Op is on her meds or not
I think it is
Yeah she should have been in the position of recording all calls from this enemy automatically. Then call the police if she threatened you with assault in your own home so the police could call the airline and have her held while you called child protective services. And through at her for good measure and restraining order. Your family doesn't matter at that point not unless there's some cultural situation envloved but nothing from your amidit family warrants what you've already been through
The fact that she has to have a man to make money is so pathetic.
18:58 OP is such a strong person, shout out to her truly
Any employee in the United States it was fired like this based on a phone call would get a lawyer and would win $2 million in the lawsuit. Once they made it plain they wanted all your medical records or medical information get a lawyer start suing
“your nothing without your job”
“your nothing without your sugar daddy”
something i would’ve 100% said-2024
This could’ve all been avoided if OP recorded the second call with the sister, called CPS and the police as soon as possible and it would’ve all skipped right to the legal battle
You forgot. If OP had not answered the door that morning and called the cops instead.
bro this isnt a story this a whole generational tale. tell it to your kids and youre still speaking when they have their kids.
I don’t know how many people i’ve had to tell this, BUT THIS IS A REDDIT STORY
if the mom was going to jail this might have been understandable....
37:58 life sentence? I guess this was a phony story.
Yup lol
Depends on how many crimes she did. It is possible.
OP is book smart. Life smart, no.
i rlly love the mc for taking care for her nephews and doing everything for them it just gives me a loving feeling
You sound like a great aunt, and an amazing human being
This is a story from reddit, the person who made this didn’t experience it
@ Ik, I just didn’t feel like changing the “you” to “OP”
ive been staring at this video for a good 10 minutes forgetting i was on call w/ my friend and playing a horror game with her, why are these so addicting
The sister is bad, like who will do that to there sis
Even thou the sister did bad stof the story still had a happy ending😊
Bad is an understatement
You misspelled psychopath, gaslighter, manipulative, etc.
@@Kai6792-Tou misppeld etc
@@kkanuhaa And somehow you misspelled everything except "etc."?
The sad thing is, there is 100,000 people dealing with this exact situation and some have to watch the kids put back into the toxic home.😭😭
You know what makes me mad op knows the sistet and mom are toxic yet she stays in contact with them i mean how long do u have to be put down as a adult that u decide to cut those people off i mean seriously stop being a doormat
They can depend on their golden child for their retirement. 😂
You're mom is a see you next Tuesday. Go low to no contact. Stay away from sis & brats. She will expect money.
i feel that the boyfriend from australia just sugar coated you! if i was him i would have told you dont worry im on going there! and take the first plane to were ever you are
This can’t be done all the time, job responsibilities and as long as he was there to support her emotionally showed a lot being away from her. You only know one or two lines of him not his whole.
N if he was a monster he wouldn’t have supported during the custody battle since he got with someone who don’t have kids and he may not be ready to help or even help the kids
Those kids should’ve been placed when her household. I don’t understand why she wouldn’t of. Got temporary custody. Even my sister got a piece of mail about my deceased cousins kid who is now in foster care about visiting or taking him, etc., so it makes no sense that she wouldn’t have had them in her house while fighting for custody
I just felt my entire world tip over as soon as I heard what that Russian guy did....