And you know Johnathan is probably telling EVERYBODY he knows about his crazy ex and her parents and how they abused Op, and how lucky he was not to marry into that.
Finally, a story that actually sounds real instead of the novel-like stories. Happy for Michelle. And happy for the guy who cancelled the wedding, he's a good guy.
“Emily’s always lived in her own world.” Exactly. She couldn’t understand the fact that she wasn’t the center of the universe for someone that she really cared about. Children can never truly have an equal relationship with their parents, and she alienated and abused the one person who could have been her equal. Her fiancee evidently DID NOT want a piece of that action.
Absolutely! Emily’s world seemed to revolve around herself, and it’s wild how that mindset ended up costing her so much. Jonathan probably saw those red flags and ran for the hills - who could blame him? It’s amazing how Michelle stood her ground through it all. Do you think Emily will ever wake up to the reality she created, or is she too far gone in her “me-first” mentality?
@@RedditFamilyTales She’ll probably move past it eventually. But she’ll have to have a bigger wake-up call. Like not having anyone outside of her parents or getting in serious trouble with the law. Something tells me there’s more to her behavior than what Michele sees.
The parents are bullies, who raised a bully like them. OP should be happy she's not like them. Being the scapegoat atleast has some advantage in that regard. You atleast get to be recognize their awful behaviour and be a good person.
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This is so beyond fucked up. They will call her on the night of the rehearsal wedding when they know full well that she's not there, not coming to the wedding because they all agreed not to invite her. But yet they're still close enough to call her. These people don't understand no contact
So this might be one of the only times that the background video took my totally out of the story but that pink frosting cake just looked disgusting and hurt my teeth to watch...
“You must visit The Location, immediately”. I know it’s probably redacted to remain anonymous; but it sounds like OP is a sleeper agent and the Dad is actually their handler and is trying to activate them to carry out the mission.
I see how Emily can think op is trying to take her man but on the other hand op is not trying to do that and Emily’s man could just be a good person and might want to just include op because her actually sees how abused she is😢
My broyher and I are not close, but he would very likely stop a wedding if he felt me disrespected and targeted, as well as break up woth someone who treats their sibling like that for no good reason. If you cant treat others with basic human decency, thats a huge red flag and is absolutely a reason to not marry you
Is it just me, or are do all of the Reddit stories in these videos just sound so formal and novel-like compared to other Reddit stories that I don’t believe they’re real?
the original dialogue probably said "You must visit (the location) immediately" as if OP redacted the real venue's name to keep anonymity but the AI voice and text ruined it
So I was initially on her sisters side. I’m the youngest too and I was think the misunderstanding was from the fact that she is younger and they older family members are not very understanding when you are going through things that they’ve already experienced. I also thought it was crazy that the boyfriend called off the wedding, because of her sister how was he with her all that time without any problems. However her family not taking her diagnosis seriously was the worse and the vandalism was wild
It makes sense that an "outsider" like Johnathan would see how OP was treated and reconsider being a part of the family. Most people wouldn't want to marry someone who mistreats a sibling or family member for no reason. It's just a shame anyone would listen to this story and either victim blame OP or side with Emily for just having a conversation with Johnathan 🤦🏽♂️ (also the theory that Johnathan loved OP: if that was true he would've reconnected with OP after breaking off the engagement). Also the social anxiety and OP's behavior makes sense since the family have always been bullies. If you have negative experiences with your own family, the first people who are supposed to love you, then how can you handle interactions with others?
This girl's life literally could have been mine! The only time that I felt truly free of my biological mother was when I found out she was dead! Her last screw you to me was putting in her will that she only had one daughter, my half-sister! And ironically enough my name is Michelle as well! But my screw you to all of them, no matter how much money they had No matter what things they ended up with, I am much happier without them living a very happy fruitful and financially secure life and never have to deal with them and their Drama and condescending attitudes ever again! The frosting on the cake, my half-sister is well let's just say, not doing so well LOL and I love it
Why not just have a "short stories" TH-cam page? Why try to pass this off as real? The story may be realistic, but the way it's written makes it clear that it is fiction.
being kind to people means they have a feelings for them? as if he didn't see it as "oh she's going to be my family one day so I'll treat her like a sister too"? or did you not think that perhaps he just wanted nothing to do with someone who is capable of hurting and abusing her own family?
this video was really well done and I appreciate the way you approached such a sensitive topic. but honestly, it's hard not to think that there's more to the story here. maybe the sister is just overreacting, or could it be that she knows something we don't? relationships can be complicated, and sometimes it feels like people jump to conclusions too quickly. curious to hear what others think!
great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! however, i can't help but wonder if the sister's reaction is a bit extreme. like, isn't it possible to have a close relationship with a sibling without it being romantic? seems a bit over the top to ban someone from a wedding based on assumptions.
My thought too, how she describes the disconnect with her family, the anxiety and all, sounds very much like an autistic kid in a neurotypical family that choses to alienate them.
Emily likely thought the OP was trying steal her boyfriend because the anti-social, never leaves her room or talks to people, OP was happily chatting and eagerly interacting with Jonathan, when she has never behaved that way with any other guest, ever, and usually avoids guests like the plague. OP's responses to her sister's accusations are weird and dismissive, and likely escalated everything. Like claiming that this dude she ONE TIME "trusts her" more than his girlfriend/fiancee? Finally, what sort of medication is she on that someone with severe, diagnosed, social anxiety is totally fine and calm after her entire social network of extended family and acquaintances turns on her? And then she starts getting stalked/ harassed? And then has to go through an entire lawsuit, against her family, all while losing freelance jobs? That has got to be some seriously strong stuff. I get that she feels bullied and, yes, Emily definitely went too far in the end, but the OP honestly sounds like a bit of an insufferable twit.
They no doubt are an attention seeking narcissists and another golden child who can only see the world through their perspective. No ability to feel empathy.
.... Op did not sound anti social though, she sounded like she gave up after getting pushed away all the time and he just happened to be the only decent person in their vecinity inyeracting normal with her. Yeah, I would also be desmissiv and find the acusation hilarious that talking like normal people made that sister insanly and irrationally jalouse.... Like my brother likes when I and his girlfriends get along, even through he and I are not close... What was she supposed to do? Cover and appologise cause she did polite conversation with the only person not scapegoating her? There is no reason to play into her sisters paranoia
I don’t understand these stories. They start with, there was nothing wrong we were not just close. We had different interests and blah blah blah. Then after telling the drama, they start with the whole shitload of bullying n basically neglect by their parents. Like what the hell happened to there was nothing wrong between us.
It is a diagnosis if the level is off the charts. Majority of people do have low level of anxiety and can navigate life without therapy and/or treatment; but not everyone is like that. Like Op described her presentation day at school, her high level of anxiety caused her physical pain so it can be treated like a disease.
Remember when people treated everything with cocain or opium? Not every little bit of worrying is an anxiety disorder, but that does not make them less real
And you know Johnathan is probably telling EVERYBODY he knows about his crazy ex and her parents and how they abused Op, and how lucky he was not to marry into that.
Finally, a story that actually sounds real instead of the novel-like stories.
Happy for Michelle. And happy for the guy who cancelled the wedding, he's a good guy.
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I was thinking the same thing
it is fake though
@@zeinqyn it could be. But it sounds more real than the other stories on here 🤷♀️
Maybe the storyline but not the writing. Nobody talks like this.
“Emily’s always lived in her own world.”
Exactly. She couldn’t understand the fact that she wasn’t the center of the universe for someone that she really cared about. Children can never truly have an equal relationship with their parents, and she alienated and abused the one person who could have been her equal. Her fiancee evidently DID NOT want a piece of that action.
Absolutely! Emily’s world seemed to revolve around herself, and it’s wild how that mindset ended up costing her so much. Jonathan probably saw those red flags and ran for the hills - who could blame him? It’s amazing how Michelle stood her ground through it all. Do you think Emily will ever wake up to the reality she created, or is she too far gone in her “me-first” mentality?
@@RedditFamilyTales She’ll probably move past it eventually. But she’ll have to have a bigger wake-up call. Like not having anyone outside of her parents or getting in serious trouble with the law. Something tells me there’s more to her behavior than what Michele sees.
The parents are bullies, who raised a bully like them. OP should be happy she's not like them. Being the scapegoat atleast has some advantage in that regard. You atleast get to be recognize their awful behaviour and be a good person.
Spoiler alert: the sister is enacting narcissistic abuse and the parents are enabling/participants it 💀
The parents probably startet it too
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This is so beyond fucked up. They will call her on the night of the rehearsal wedding when they know full well that she's not there, not coming to the wedding because they all agreed not to invite her. But yet they're still close enough to call her. These people don't understand no contact
So this might be one of the only times that the background video took my totally out of the story but that pink frosting cake just looked disgusting and hurt my teeth to watch...
oh I would've totally eaten that
The snake, just the look of it made it not appetizing to me. Cool looking as an art piece not so much a cake.
Most of the artsy ones will be horrible
These videos help me stick to my diet.
Lol yeah those cakes always make me shudder 😂😂 they look pretty but I'd never eat that kind of pastries 😂😂
Why would she even wanna marry a guy she THINKS has feelings for her sister? Weirdo
Were I OP: When Emily said "I'm not inviting you to the wedding". I'd have said "OK, bye." and hung up.
Wouldn't it be funny if the OP was actually a lesbian this whole time 😂
That would probably make them hate her more
Nah, I think her ending up with Johnathan would be the funniest ending 😂
I think the only thing better is another day in the future that her and Jonathan get together and get married LOL😂😅
@@emsley6840 Yes Yes Yes...love this!!
@@emsley6840 eh not really because then the sister would have legitimate proof that OP was trying to steal her ex-boyfriend
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“You must visit The Location, immediately”. I know it’s probably redacted to remain anonymous; but it sounds like OP is a sleeper agent and the Dad is actually their handler and is trying to activate them to carry out the mission.
I see how Emily can think op is trying to take her man but on the other hand op is not trying to do that and Emily’s man could just be a good person and might want to just include op because her actually sees how abused she is😢
My broyher and I are not close, but he would very likely stop a wedding if he felt me disrespected and targeted, as well as break up woth someone who treats their sibling like that for no good reason.
If you cant treat others with basic human decency, thats a huge red flag and is absolutely a reason to not marry you
The fact op didn’t cut contacts yet is a miracle im rn at 4:59
Is it just me, or are do all of the Reddit stories in these videos just sound so formal and novel-like compared to other Reddit stories that I don’t believe they’re real?
You must visit the location immediately??? LOL!! Who makes up this stuff?
It's to keep anonymity, as not to say, the actual location
Probably someone who’s first language is not English
the original dialogue probably said "You must visit (the location) immediately" as if OP redacted the real venue's name to keep anonymity but the AI voice and text ruined it
12:57 I did laugh a bit for the part of not cleaning other people's crap while the cake in the background looks like one lol.
So I was initially on her sisters side. I’m the youngest too and I was think the misunderstanding was from the fact that she is younger and they older family members are not very understanding when you are going through things that they’ve already experienced. I also thought it was crazy that the boyfriend called off the wedding, because of her sister how was he with her all that time without any problems. However her family not taking her diagnosis seriously was the worse and the vandalism was wild
It makes sense that an "outsider" like Johnathan would see how OP was treated and reconsider being a part of the family. Most people wouldn't want to marry someone who mistreats a sibling or family member for no reason. It's just a shame anyone would listen to this story and either victim blame OP or side with Emily for just having a conversation with Johnathan 🤦🏽♂️ (also the theory that Johnathan loved OP: if that was true he would've reconnected with OP after breaking off the engagement).
Also the social anxiety and OP's behavior makes sense since the family have always been bullies. If you have negative experiences with your own family, the first people who are supposed to love you, then how can you handle interactions with others?
This girl's life literally could have been mine! The only time that I felt truly free of my biological mother was when I found out she was dead! Her last screw you to me was putting in her will that she only had one daughter, my half-sister! And ironically enough my name is Michelle as well! But my screw you to all of them, no matter how much money they had No matter what things they ended up with, I am much happier without them living a very happy fruitful and financially secure life and never have to deal with them and their Drama and condescending attitudes ever again! The frosting on the cake, my half-sister is well let's just say, not doing so well LOL and I love it
My face during this: 👁👄👁
Who else is obsessed with the snake cake?
Me: *listens stone faced*
Me at 10:32-10:49: is that a Stitch Cake?!
I hope you sue the family
Stop how dare you 😭 that’s not fair. I’m trying to lose weight. Swear I just gained 20 pounds watching this 😭
I really want some cake!!😂
LOL :D Ahaha
Why not just have a "short stories" TH-cam page? Why try to pass this off as real?
The story may be realistic, but the way it's written makes it clear that it is fiction.
Yeah he definitely has a thing for op
For talking to her politely?? Or for calling off the wedding once he realized that his fiance was an abuser??
being kind to people means they have a feelings for them? as if he didn't see it as "oh she's going to be my family one day so I'll treat her like a sister too"? or did you not think that perhaps he just wanted nothing to do with someone who is capable of hurting and abusing her own family?
@@RavenSutcliffe the word abuser has lost all meaning at this stage lol
@@tifadreamers the word lost all meaning
@@anymous8407aight I'm literally just not going to have a conversation with someone who apparently thinks emotional abuse is not a thing
this video was really well done and I appreciate the way you approached such a sensitive topic. but honestly, it's hard not to think that there's more to the story here. maybe the sister is just overreacting, or could it be that she knows something we don't? relationships can be complicated, and sometimes it feels like people jump to conclusions too quickly. curious to hear what others think!
My wife wouldn’t let me come to OUR wedding 😭😭😭
This all sounds like a lie
great video, really enjoyed the storytelling! however, i can't help but wonder if the sister's reaction is a bit extreme. like, isn't it possible to have a close relationship with a sibling without it being romantic? seems a bit over the top to ban someone from a wedding based on assumptions.
12:57 12:58 the video's timing ....LOL-
I want cake!!!
Anyone else get a headache from the background cakes?
Ether, tell the back story first or not at all. I don't care what the back story is halfway through the post.
Autism.
Real
me fr
Ableism and scapegoating too
My thought too, how she describes the disconnect with her family, the anxiety and all, sounds very much like an autistic kid in a neurotypical family that choses to alienate them.
12:46
Emily likely thought the OP was trying steal her boyfriend because the anti-social, never leaves her room or talks to people, OP was happily chatting and eagerly interacting with Jonathan, when she has never behaved that way with any other guest, ever, and usually avoids guests like the plague. OP's responses to her sister's accusations are weird and dismissive, and likely escalated everything. Like claiming that this dude she ONE TIME "trusts her" more than his girlfriend/fiancee? Finally, what sort of medication is she on that someone with severe, diagnosed, social anxiety is totally fine and calm after her entire social network of extended family and acquaintances turns on her? And then she starts getting stalked/ harassed? And then has to go through an entire lawsuit, against her family, all while losing freelance jobs? That has got to be some seriously strong stuff. I get that she feels bullied and, yes, Emily definitely went too far in the end, but the OP honestly sounds like a bit of an insufferable twit.
🤷🏼
Way to victim blame.
They no doubt are an attention seeking narcissists and another golden child who can only see the world through their perspective. No ability to feel empathy.
Wow, okay
.... Op did not sound anti social though, she sounded like she gave up after getting pushed away all the time and he just happened to be the only decent person in their vecinity inyeracting normal with her.
Yeah, I would also be desmissiv and find the acusation hilarious that talking like normal people made that sister insanly and irrationally jalouse.... Like my brother likes when I and his girlfriends get along, even through he and I are not close...
What was she supposed to do? Cover and appologise cause she did polite conversation with the only person not scapegoating her?
There is no reason to play into her sisters paranoia
AI story.
I don’t understand these stories. They start with, there was nothing wrong we were not just close. We had different interests and blah blah blah. Then after telling the drama, they start with the whole shitload of bullying n basically neglect by their parents. Like what the hell happened to there was nothing wrong between us.
Remember when anxiety was just a regular emotion and not a diagnosis every time
It is a diagnosis if the level is off the charts. Majority of people do have low level of anxiety and can navigate life without therapy and/or treatment; but not everyone is like that. Like Op described her presentation day at school, her high level of anxiety caused her physical pain so it can be treated like a disease.
Remember when people treated everything with cocain or opium?
Not every little bit of worrying is an anxiety disorder, but that does not make them less real
Wtf are you! You said bless her heart, which is southern, but said flat, which is british
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