I was smiling from ear to ear for OP by the end, her siblings think so highly of themselves that think NC is a punishment and she couldn't be any more delighted. Beautiful
The sentence "Blessings left and right" was a brilliant and hilarious quip for these kinds of family drama situations and i will be stealing it for future use.
Reverse psychology for the win! Letting them think they are punishing her, when they're just doing her a favor. Nice! Maybe she should tell them exactly how much they saved her from a headache by not attending. Honestly, I'd tell them to grow the fuck up, and if they don't start treating me better, they can expect a restraining order to be delivered to them.
Hopefully, they don't figure it out that the NC is what op wanted to do because I got a gut feeling once they figure it out...they'll start doing the opposite. I say still block em juuuuust incase they figure it out.
Best revenge is living happily. OP's sister is a bully and a pick me girl for sure. Acting as the victim when she isnt. Just because she's the oldest sibling doesn't mean things come first for her. The sister is entitled, self-absorbed, Narcissistic and very toxic. She wanted to humiliate OP like she is in high school again. The sister was 34 years old and acting like the brat in this scenario 🙄 while the brothers attacked OP over a speech and dismissed her feelings when she was outcast like trash. Her sister gives off the vibe of "Oh, you went against my wishes, this is what you get for being disobedient and not worship the ground i walk on." Unacceptable behaviour from the siblings also. Glad OP's parents came through for her. If people dont like the union between OP and her husband, its none of their business. OP go live your life with those who care about you.
As a Filipina, heck yes go to Boracay! Island hopping, halo halo, good food, good people. Lol I bet my people treated her more like family than her siblings.
That’s so frustrating! Planning a wedding is stressful enough without being berated for things beyond your control. Your sister should be grateful for your effort, not criticizing you. Hopefully, she realizes how much you tried to help and apologizes.
Kinda depends on your definition I think? If it is acting as if your planning a wedding, running away and getting married there to surprise everyone, then they eloped?
@@tamoeri A surprise wedding is still a wedding. Also in my country witnesses are optional and not required. In half of the US-States witnesses are also only optional. May you should just search for an answer yourself instead of asking.
My older sister didn’t even get an invite to my wedding not that she could even cross the boarder. And if she had shown up, with HER husband, there would have been people in jail on my wedding day. Best she just stay in Canada.
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I was smiling from ear to ear for OP by the end, her siblings think so highly of themselves that think NC is a punishment and she couldn't be any more delighted. Beautiful
"We're cutting you off, see how you like being ignored."
Weeks later, when someone delivers the message "Oh? Well now I can ignore them even better."
I’m guessing the other 4 siblings felt like OP was the golden child. The wedding sounded cool.
The sentence "Blessings left and right" was a brilliant and hilarious quip for these kinds of family drama situations and i will be stealing it for future use.
I‘m so happy to hear that there is an OP with a backbone! Love the wedding… sounds so beautiful!
Reverse psychology for the win! Letting them think they are punishing her, when they're just doing her a favor. Nice! Maybe she should tell them exactly how much they saved her from a headache by not attending. Honestly, I'd tell them to grow the fuck up, and if they don't start treating me better, they can expect a restraining order to be delivered to them.
Hopefully, they don't figure it out that the NC is what op wanted to do because I got a gut feeling once they figure it out...they'll start doing the opposite. I say still block em juuuuust incase they figure it out.
I wouldn’t tell them anything, they’re not worth another breath from your lungs
Best revenge is living happily.
OP's sister is a bully and a pick me girl for sure. Acting as the victim when she isnt. Just because she's the oldest sibling doesn't mean things come first for her. The sister is entitled, self-absorbed, Narcissistic and very toxic. She wanted to humiliate OP like she is in high school again. The sister was 34 years old and acting like the brat in this scenario 🙄 while the brothers attacked OP over a speech and dismissed her feelings when she was outcast like trash. Her sister gives off the vibe of "Oh, you went against my wishes, this is what you get for being disobedient and not worship the ground i walk on." Unacceptable behaviour from the siblings also.
Glad OP's parents came through for her. If people dont like the union between OP and her husband, its none of their business.
OP go live your life with those who care about you.
"We're going NC with you."
Cool! Saved me a job 😁
mini update from op: she’s currently pregnant and is expecting 2 baby girls 👶👶
And then she gets twins 😂. The sister is going to be livid, muwhaha
Oh that's wonderful to hear! Thanks for sharing with us
op and her husband seem like really cool people, the elopement and luncheon sound rlly. fun!!
That first part of the title 🤣🤣
sober me is shook at what edible me comes up with lmao
Edible you always has the wildest titles to Reddit stories 😂
As a Filipina, heck yes go to Boracay! Island hopping, halo halo, good food, good people. Lol I bet my people treated her more like family than her siblings.
That’s so frustrating! Planning a wedding is stressful enough without being berated for things beyond your control. Your sister should be grateful for your effort, not criticizing you. Hopefully, she realizes how much you tried to help and apologizes.
That sounds like 1 friggin cool wedding! 👏👏👏👏
While I wish OP the best, I think that is not called "to elope" it is just a small wedding.
Kinda depends on your definition I think? If it is acting as if your planning a wedding, running away and getting married there to surprise everyone, then they eloped?
@@tamoeri But they didn't run away. Their closest family and friends where there. That is why I call it a small intimate wedding and not an elopement.
@@uwetheiss970 but no-one knew that it was a wedding and even an elopement needs witnesses?
@@tamoeri A surprise wedding is still a wedding. Also in my country witnesses are optional and not required. In half of the US-States witnesses are also only optional. May you should just search for an answer yourself instead of asking.
@@tamoeri Oh, and you are wrong with "noone knew". Someone did know. Or else there would have been no wedding. Only most didn't know.
I’m not listening to this, but that title is something else. 😂😂😂
Gray-rocking is awesome.
please take me with you you said pizza ill be your best sister ill stand by your side i promise
My older sister didn’t even get an invite to my wedding not that she could even cross the boarder. And if she had shown up, with HER husband, there would have been people in jail on my wedding day. Best she just stay in Canada.
I think it's pretty clear all the siblings were jealous of OP
I NEED A WEDDING LIKE THAT
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Letting 8 year old skibidi toilet boys write titles is never a good decision
I’m surprised you took this long to do this story.
Yup thats it.
for some reason i dont like the siblings but i also dont like op as well
OP go get have a better wedding and a baby before she does. Don’t post about pregnancy just post the baby a few mo the after birth
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First pin pls ❤