Thanks again for the editors notes Scalling, all in a hard day's work. I'm sure one day you'll be able to support yourself off this, effort will pay off.
8 months of relationship and they are talking about engagement? Also, boyfriend asking her to come to events knowing about all the abuse? Multiple verbal attacks and she still tried to talk with her inside? Trying to amend things with this shitty boyfriend just because of she was pregnant and avoiding termination? I expect this to be fake for OP sake
What's wrong with proposing after 8 months ? I'm sorry but if they're financially and mentally stable and it still takes them years to propose then they're just settling
Two violent assaults and once when she knew the OP was pregnant? I sure hope that mother-in-law served time in prison. He’s not much of a boyfriend or Fiancé if he won’t defend his partner.
If this is the same post I'm thinking about, then the op was right and the mom did hide the ring (iirc, another relative got info from her but still refused to give the ring back)
When ops like this have a moment of "I want these people out of my life!" and "I want to keep the baby that will forever tie me to them!" I can't help but laugh... Like you are dumb for real
She's so brainless it's literally appaling. Like what?? Why tf would you keep the baby? To give her another poor soul to traumatize???💀💀 Some people really shouldn't have any children.
Wow, this is a deeply unsettling situation. Respecting boundaries is crucial in any relationship, and what your boyfriend's mother did seems like a significant breach of trust and privacy. While it's natural for parents to want the best for their children, running a background check without consent crosses a line. I hope you can have an honest conversation with your boyfriend about how this made you feel and establish clear boundaries moving forward. Wishing you strength and clarity in resolving this!
I wouldnt normally push for abortion but i mean setting up a child to be tied to this family and all this pure toxic drama for the rest of its life is cruel. I can only hope that the bf/grandmother never ever got anywhere near the child
hard to believe OP is a 30yo who almost didn't stand for herself during most of this shit storm all of this is pure red flags, hope OP is better nowadays
Idk why reddit cares so much about what the neighbors see when people are banging on their door. They would've stayed there and met the police then and there
I'd love to enjoy the story, but being hearing-impaired I have to read along. Your awful graphics prohibit reading and are migraine-inducing. Please make them stop.😊
Yeah, when he kept begging OP to visit family events with him, despite his mom being there, I knew he wasn't going to change anything to keep OP safe.
knew all i needed to know about the mom when the boyfriends little sister said her getting cussed out was epic
Yeah I also loved that bit
OP’s mom is a G for the memory box ALONE
@@stacymaylove Is that a piece of scalp in there?
That's a piece of scalp in there 😆 and that's why they say that they're "mama bears" because they will tear anyone up who hurts their baby.
😭😭 See reddit single handedly taught me that me not getting along with my partner's family is a deal breaker
"She can be certain she'd never neat them because hell is too far to travel to" JAW DROPPED. I had to play that part back 😭👏👏
"He is so sweet and kind" seems like a flag of "his mother is a nightmare"
that mom is the kind of person who never got their ass kicked growing up
He wanted you to drop the charges? GIRL, DROP HIM.
should have just filed a second assault charge and kept it, see how the ex can live with mommy dearest being in prison
OP's mom is a badass
OP didn’t deserve any of this obviously but she did so many things wrong along the way.
Agreed
Thanks again for the editors notes Scalling, all in a hard day's work. I'm sure one day you'll be able to support yourself off this, effort will pay off.
8 months of relationship and they are talking about engagement?
Also, boyfriend asking her to come to events knowing about all the abuse?
Multiple verbal attacks and she still tried to talk with her inside?
Trying to amend things with this shitty boyfriend just because of she was pregnant and avoiding termination?
I expect this to be fake for OP sake
What's wrong with proposing after 8 months ? I'm sorry but if they're financially and mentally stable and it still takes them years to propose then they're just settling
Frankly, 8 months in a relationship (you are not even living 8 months with the person) you still know nothing about each other
wtf is wrong with her ex?! Like... how th does he side with THAT?!
Being Mommy's number 1 baby boy is WHY
It's disturbing just how often people turn their common sense off under the guise of "love."
DAMN. Op's mom is amazing
So many red flags and she just breezed through them
Two violent assaults and once when she knew the OP was pregnant? I sure hope that mother-in-law served time in prison. He’s not much of a boyfriend or Fiancé if he won’t defend his partner.
I was about to say, why tf would she drop the restraining order
That ex is pretty deplorable
holy shit OPs mom is a BADASS
If this is the same post I'm thinking about, then the op was right and the mom did hide the ring (iirc, another relative got info from her but still refused to give the ring back)
This is an old story.
When ops like this have a moment of "I want these people out of my life!" and "I want to keep the baby that will forever tie me to them!" I can't help but laugh... Like you are dumb for real
She's so brainless it's literally appaling. Like what?? Why tf would you keep the baby? To give her another poor soul to traumatize???💀💀
Some people really shouldn't have any children.
She was love bombed by him
What's the female version of Gigachad? Because that's what OP's mom is
Gigastacy.
Wow, this is a deeply unsettling situation. Respecting boundaries is crucial in any relationship, and what your boyfriend's mother did seems like a significant breach of trust and privacy. While it's natural for parents to want the best for their children, running a background check without consent crosses a line. I hope you can have an honest conversation with your boyfriend about how this made you feel and establish clear boundaries moving forward. Wishing you strength and clarity in resolving this!
I wouldnt normally push for abortion but i mean setting up a child to be tied to this family and all this pure toxic drama for the rest of its life is cruel. I can only hope that the bf/grandmother never ever got anywhere near the child
I WISH my mom was protective like that, holy shit. W mom
hard to believe OP is a 30yo who almost didn't stand for herself during most of this shit storm
all of this is pure red flags, hope OP is better nowadays
Ops mom is og
Boyfriend did NOT stop his mother at the beginning. WTF
So I knew this would end badly.
Poor OP. They will definitely try to take her child away in future
That last part feels...definitely fake.
NC after the purse stealing
Idk why reddit cares so much about what the neighbors see when people are banging on their door. They would've stayed there and met the police then and there
I call cap on this story
so early i gotta form my own opinion
most tolerant jew:
Excuse you?
Very old story.
Your not 7th
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I'd love to enjoy the story, but being hearing-impaired I have to read along. Your awful graphics prohibit reading and are migraine-inducing. Please make them stop.😊