PSYCHIATRIST IS LEFT SPEECHLESS DURING OUR CONVERSATION | Doaenel
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Outro: • [FREE] SUICIDEBOYS TYP... - เกม
Dantes: *genuinely talking about himself without being mental*
Chat: IT’S TERMINAL
you sir made me laugh. well done
DOCTOR
'Doctor Tarzaned' IT'S TERMINAL
this is the funniest thing ive ever read
*"AH SHIT WE AIN'T GOT NO CURE FOR THIS ONE YET BOIS"*
The genuineness in this video is insane. Can’t believe bro didn’t hold back about the yordles
bro u copied my pfp
bruh cant believe you ran it down on attack speed shyvana the other day smh
@@Sean-pv1nwthats Gryffinn bro He is one of the best Junglers In League wtf are u on he doesnt take shit from u
What part??
@@zerogts5434you clearly aren’t in the loop bro 😂
Seeing this man being a genuinely grounded and well adjusted individual is scary.
@@oabh1808 easy to judge being a nobody
@@Melindroyou have a point but do you get what Ole is trying to say?
@olehalvorsen it is no measure of Health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick Society.
@@chaoskiller1758 most illnesses are a manifestation of the mind, of trauma.
@@Melindro ironic, you literally told that person is a "nobody". Making a ad-hominem because can't attack the arguement so diminishing their self-image is your only coping strategy.
"If I die tomorrow, I won't be conscious of the fact that I'm dead, therefore for every second that I'm alive, I am immortal in my consciousness."
That's so cold-
Its an old idea invented by some philosopher. I honestly don’t remember who. The original quote says something like: “where we are, death is not. And where death is, we are not.”
I can’t believe Dantes came up with that on his own.
@@elliottandreasen4148 It's from Epicurus.
@@wlink639 oh right!👌🏼
Colder than Lissandra R
@@elliottandreasen4148 It seems like I’ve never had an original thought, I was on the same thought process 🤣
Psychiatrist- "What game do you play ?"
Dantes-"League of Legends"
Psychiatrist- "Okay buddy, it's over you are doomed"
xDDD
*starts lenghtily and intensily writing in his notebook*
@@deva7979Dante’s: says one sentence
Dr: *INTENSIVE NOTEBOOKING*
@@deva7979Dante’s: says one sentence
Dr: *INTENSIVE NOTEBOOKING*
XDdDDDDDDd
ITS TERMINAL
dantes telling dr k about his experience banging yordles was truly one of the moments of all time
timestamp pls lol
@@SurfingJakeOwns 24:40
Regardless of how serious the video was, i can't get over chat saying "it's terminal" "doc he needs help"
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HAHAAHHAAHA
It's crazy how smart Dantes actually is
And has a surprisingly good memory
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He’s a challenger league player and top streamer, I wouldn’t expect anything else. Bros killing it
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I’ve only seen him in clips and short form content. I believed he was permanently unhinged but this was actually a very good conversation, changed my view of him for sure.
@@pregnanttomato9576 He does come off that way. It's kinda just how shorts work. Most would opt to watch a guy say some out of pocket shit over a guy having a genuine conversation.
I used to study psychology and whenever we say "i'll not diagnose you" thats a lie, we always do that shit LMAO
...Yeah, but *_in game_*_ only_
I probably will do this too if I go for my psychology degree
you do realize then he has to say that to avoid potential legal repercussions right? He's an MD in a nonprofessional setting. He can be held responsible for people interpreting his words as official medical advice if he doesn't stare that upfront
@@matsiv5707 while thats true, im fairly sure they just mean they do it in their heads just cause they know about the symptoms and whatnot.
@@chronically_insane_crowno shit
Imagine you're a psychiatrist and having to hear your patient speaking about fucking yordles and shit, ingame ofc
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As long as they pay me, if the card declines im selling them out to cops 💀
timestamp for the yordles...?
lol I’m definitely sure they’ve heard way worse tbh lol
he's a psychiatrist. he has seen and heard way worse than some guy making a weird joke with no actual consequences
Looking back at your old clips with the stuffed animals, excalibur, and MOM, it's crazy how far your content has come.
excalibur LOL? i need context on the dantes lore
@@Kaklueimagine not being here since 20k subs lol it was only like 1 summer ago his growth has been so insane
@@prodigygetgud7921 the real fans were here since the beginning
@@prodigygetgud7921 literally nobody cares lmao
@@kumadori9627 youre not real
Dr. K has the best approach ive seen in asking the correct questions at the right time. I wish all psychiatrists was like him.
yea its talent i guess you cant learn it, really gift from god and Dantes is very genuine smart guy and of course good guy i wish him awesome life which he deserves, tonight i will pray for him
Hes topnotch for sure but its just called 'caring' which none of us do like he does
@@DantesFromHospital you can learn it but just because it good to watch doesnt mean it good for therapy. it really depends on the type of person.
The sad reality is there is literally always only going to be 1 dr K. There might be others like him but we actually need others willing to be as authentically THEMSELVES as he is.
I think thats just general thing they have to get to know you of course and usually everyone has their different approach but they will let you open yourself up as long as you are comfortable to the way Dantes was able to communicate made it much better able to get himself across more it's something we can all learn I mean I am still pretty young and I try to do my best to..even if I struggle myself in some ways too but trying to learn is a good step
Props for being open, actually really cool that you're open about it. Being realistic and open abt mental issues helps a lot of kids who see social media and think everyone else is perfect, being open helps those kids develop healthy relationships with themselves
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I definitely know it's helped me at 16.
Seriously that’s exactly why I watch him, he says real shit ppl are too afraid to admit
Honestly this was the most entertaining and interesting content I've seen in a while and I hope Dantes takes those steps when he is ready because he seems like such a genuinely good guy
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Wow he looks like really wise and smart when he doesn't act like a schizo and starts being more serious, I like it! I wish he posted more content like that in the future.
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Hes not really that wise, smart yes
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@@lasis5496he is very wise
@@lasis5496 this whole talk describes him as wise not smart if anything lol
Watching this conversation has helped me recognize things about me that I haven't recognized. Dantes relatibility is out of the roof with this video and I feel like this kind of format with this kind of talk is truly what the internet needs more.
This video really helped me look at my self and its almost scary how much I relate to Dante
I also can relate to dantes and i feel like this was a eye opener for me..
Yes also for me, especially when he said "I can notice redflag in a person"
I was asking myself if do that was a mistake, but its not
At a certain point (~16 minutes) Dantes acknowledges that his attempts at self-actualisation are futile (its a never-ending pursuit of improvement, you can never actually be the best), and refers to this as an "issue" in terms of reaching his end goals. He mentions this directly after talking about how everything is temporary and constantly changing, which is a motivation to keep improving because otherwise the world would change around him while he would "stay the same". But then, he doesn't seem to acknowledge that his own performance gains are equally temporary and will inevitably decline. Probably more concerningly, He doesn't seem to recognize that not only is this constant pursuit unnecessary to achieve his true end-goals (kids, family, friends - the things that would ideally make him happy), but actually harmful to it - because he feels it's necessary to alienate himself from others (family, relationships, even interactions with those wanting his interactions) in order to succeed in his endless "progression". It's all stemming from a deeply ingrained insecurity that he has at this point far surpassed, but the residual anxiety it left behind still festers enough to produce this worldview of constantly needing to know that IF he were being judged, hes already likely to be his own worst critic.
The basal question - If you can never be the best, and if you have to constantly improve to be the best or else the world will surpass you, when will you ever reach the point that you say "okay, thats enough, now I can stop sacrificing my opportunities for happiness"?
damn.
that was helpful boss, god bless
In this case yes, most people wouldn't be on league for 10 hours per day. Lifting is a great way to meet people, same with literally anything other than being on your PC. Secular to hardcore gamers, I agree. But, I ask what is the purpose of self actualization? Where is the benefit if not in the journey itself? If one desires self actualization, yet forgoes everything immediate for these goals, is he truly on the path to self actualization?
Food for thought, extended beyond current context
He seems to have a timeline and goals set up. Hes in his twenties and wants to be in a exteemly convenient position in his early thirties it doesnt matter if hes already surpassed his financial goals at this point its more about starting his other goals when he feels more confortable to do so? Why rush a young man best do things at your own pace and take your goals seriously while youre at it. What do you mean by self-actualizing and what does it have to do with forgoing happiness?
Dr K and Dantes,probably my 2 favorite people in the online community right now,amazing!! I AM HYPED AS FUCK GENTS LETSGOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
Dr K killed reckful
he made reckful end his life
@@feelsbadman1833deserved 😂
@@feelsbadman1833there’s no way you genuinely believe that
@@hata6290 okay
Dante's mom giving the advice to ask any question is such a great outlook. It's always important to ask questions, even if they seem odd. Being inquisitive and asking dumb questions is 1000x better than being confused and not putting your hand up. Teachers need to get better at dealing with the odd questions. I wish I had a teacher who would research my odd question and give me an answer, and inspire inquisitiveness. That's how you instill passion and interest in students, and how some of the greatest minds are formed. Nobody is born knowing everything!
Don't be afraid to ask questions if you're genuinely curious.
The only teacher who would do this was my physics teacher who I still regard as one of my favorite and best teachers. He knew I did jackshit in school and still passed, so he answered my questions and kept me engaged with more challenging work. If it took a long time explaining he told me to stay after the lesson so others would still get the lesson they needed. He made me want to study physics sadly I had to dropout due to crippling disease.
Teacher dont differ from any other job and thus everybody one of them has a lot of chance to be insecure about smth in their lives thus odd question for them is just like trigger to down smn to feel better of their insecurities.
So only healthy mental and confident in themselves as human being teachers can ever accept any kind of questions, even if it is the odd one they just dont feel need to laugh at you cause they are self-sufficient
My mother taught me this, and I would talk her head off asking about things all the time. It's definitely important to ask questions, not enough people do anymore.
While I do agree, you also need to understand and experiment by your own. You wont train your adaptability if you always try to rely on someone to get answers. It needs a balance. Throwing too many questions can be as troublesome as being quiet
The way the physiatrist reacts when league is said, really shows this isn’t his first patient to play it.😅
He’s a gamer himself
Dr. K plays lol as well
I never would have thought me and Dantes would be so much alike, same struggles and backstory , it was actually kind of cathartic almost like watching a video of myself go to therapy.
Damn you grew up on a boat
I've spent the last few hours listening to this and I'm honestly impressed with your willingness to have a discussion with this level of intimacy publically and by the amount of growth shown over the course of the discussion. Rooting for you too :)
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The most sanest person on earth trying to get his mental health under control. Learn people LEARN!!
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You can learn but you can only earn peak mental
That last 30 to 45 minutes of him just sitting back and absorbing everything must have been harrowing. Love dantes.
dantes is like the most genuinely mentally healthy schizo poster ever
He isn t a schizo, he does it for content
i love how the chat literally references every story, every detail of the stories like it's jojo or something
Bro is actually so well spoken wtf. He doesn't fumble his words at all and explains some of his complex thoughts so well
The ending was so wholesome, man. I can agree with Dantes over and over again in this video and relate. I have the same problem with avoiding hurt, pain, and rejection by not letting it effect me. I genuinely hope your mental arrives in a good place soon.
I really hated the ending, Dr k just tried to rush it and didnt rlly care anymore
Its a "self defense" mechanism (overthinking and self reflecting) to make it so no one can ever hurt you and you can never hurt yourself because your beliefs are just and and you're being the best person you can possibly be. To be prepared for absolutely anything that comes your way. Its like Ive also spent hours thinking not being able to sleep because I haven't thought through every step I took that day and if it was the right thing and what I can do better to work on myself. Its like after winning any argument or anything going wrong in my life was in some way my fault even if "it wasnt" because I could see the fault in myself and around the situation itself. Its like building new relationships with people on the regular growing up because my family was constantly moving made it possible to see certain parts of other people and myself that in turn made me in to the kind of person who is never perfect because I can see the flaws in myself as-well. Its like a day not working on myself is seeing a loss in myself reminding myself that everything can be lost in a moment and will be lost in a moment if I don't change just like everything in the past was lost in an instant. Its like any version of myself in the past is someone that I hate and every version of me in the future will never be enough and Its like I know exactly how it feels.
(Edit: Its like im not even 20 minutes in but I have to stop watching before I start thinking)
(Discord: elemiger) -
It's not just a self defense mechanism, he seems to have OCD.
1) Need for control
2) Ruminating over thoughts (compulsion)
3) Violent/degenerate intrusive thoughts (obsession)
4) Need to get up and walk to talk about certain things (compulsion)
I say this because I have OCD myself. And I'm not just trying to be "just like him fr", as a matter of fact I was convinced he didn't have OCD until he mentioned the rumination and needing to stand up to talk. That's when things clicked.
Damn I think you just became the reason I'm seriously considering finally getting me a therapist. I know it's been due for years now...
Do it
do it bro !! 😊
dont be afraid to go next if you dont think you get a GG match, all psychiatrists work differently and you may not mesh well with the first one you come in cotact with but theres a few that absolutely smurf it, probably dont need a wizard but dont let a bad first experience discourage you brother.
@@EverIess but how do I know he or she is smurfing? How do I measure their competence without seeing their movement and Makro. I don't know the meta of therapists. Dr. K seems cool and I haven't finished the videos yet. Is it only about feeling secure and good with the therapist? Is that how I measure their competence? I guess I just don't know what to expect. I guess I just have to do it for curiosity. For the experience.
@@nishinoja3775 I think you need to feel like they understand you, which might naturally form a connection. And they bring some practical or emotional value. However, neither of these things might happen in the first session, so maybe don't give up straight away if it looks like it's getting somewhere.
I'm relatively new to the channel and I must say I really love how Dantes on first impression seems to be a completely unhinged insane person but when he gets to realtalk you can just see what a genuine, charismatic and insightful person he is. He is truly one of the people of all time
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Genuinely eye opening. Makes me think about multiple things in my life. Love the way you speak never realized how well spoken you are. Much love dante!
Bro legit helping me rediscover myself, bless your realness man.. need more like you out here.
Bro no lie it would be so goddamn fun to have a real, genuine conversation spanning hours with you. Seeing so many parallels just makes me interested
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we're young men watching twitch! lots of intersectionality for sure
The stream really taught me a lot of important things in life, such as avoiding online relationships and drugs/alcohol. Thank you Dantes for inspiring me to improve myself, you truly are a legend!
Drugs and alcohol are fine in moderation, depending on the drug obviously. Don't take Dante's fear of loss of control as a moral lesson, he doesn't do it because it's right or proper, but because they scare him.
If avoiding drugs and alcohol is what is best for you, that's cool, but it should be an active choice made in the pursuit of something, be it your health or something else, not because you're avoiding something.
@@Nebukanezzer Well I do fear of not having control as far as Im concerned. Thing is, Ive been out of control for nearly 10 years and that really deteriorates my mental and physical health. Ive been living as an alcoholic and a junkie, and I really hate myself for that but I just couldnt stop.
About online dating, I feel like u gotta notice the red flags because there r definetly some good girls/guys out there,I have a friend of mine who's been dating a girl for half an year at this point and it's goin well, plus been seeing ppl who online dated before actually marrying eachother so it definitely can work, it's just you gotta be more cautious about it
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@@Nebukanezzer perhaps, but I can't really think of a good thing that comes from drinking more than one shot
I came in and didn't expect to sit and relate to someone for 2 hours today. Especially a league player... this was really helpful
Wow you're young but so wise, I always felt alone in the sense of questioning everything. Or imagining scenarios in my head to the enth degree from a young age, you a good soul Dantes. Never watched one of your streams before but you chill asf! Hope everything going good man! I started the stream grind in february & aint looked back since!
This is definitely one of the streams of all time
TH-cam comments are so braindead. Sadge
@@WhiskeyNeaty This is definitely one of the comments of all time
This is definitely one of the streams of all time
@@noahnaterrr113 ^
@@noahnaterrr113 legalize nuclear bombs
Damn that upload schedule is fire dantes keep this up
he does his own youtube?
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i watched thrue this entire video in one sitting and i just want to say is it is incredable how open you are willing to be online and show your vunerable side, even tho you might not feel like being vunerable, it has learned me very much because in some ways i feel simmaler to how you tend to put it. so thank you and dr K for putting so much into perspective for me, i really think it will help me grow
I don’t really watch your streams because you’re a little high energy for me but this was so fascinating! One of the best collabs I’ve seen in a while
Thought Dantes was psychopathic but the more I listened to his rationale, thought process and experiences the more I realized he has a scarily similar thought process to me and now I don't know what to think
You really shouldn't be THAT surprised. We're all human beings. We're more than likely living the same life without even realizing it
ye, watching the vid i thought he legit displayed symptoms/tendencies of pure psychopathy
@@potatostarch9363His fear of losing control has nothing to do with psychopathy, It's to do with being wise enough to realize that uncertainty and the unknown should be feared. He doesn't want control because of domination, he wants it because it makes him feel safe. Also, Dr K would've brought it up and he's a Harvard trained psychiatrist. You're not nearly as qualified.
@@potatostarch9363 bruh he wanted control over himself not others.
hes healthy ???
People are going to laugh at this, specially since I'm older than Dantes. But seeing you overcome your challenges, get better. And the couple of serious videos you have posted giving an inside of what has been on your mind this last year, has taught me so much about not only my life, but life in general.
It may seem stupid to say this, but I'm proud to said that watching Dantes Doanel has legitimaly changed my life for better.
:)
Considering something: Everybody is stupid aka ignorant of it until they learned more than the one they are comparing themselves to. People who laugh at ignorance are themselves ignorant - they do not understand what the process of learning means. Being ignorant of matters is only natural independent of age. Even if you experience every day more than anybody else, you will still be ignorant of something. I am happy you managed to improve your life; Keep going!
Cool name
you watched Dantes... Doanal? wew
No matter where you find the knowledge that helps you go through life as long as it truly makes a difference
in game ?
I did not expect to watch this for more than 10 mins and I ended up watching it’s entirety. Cheers to your health and untapped potential!
hey man ive been in a weird and bad emotional place in my life for a bit now and i havent known how to approach it. but i always got joy from your clips and personality and seeing this really helped, because i wouldnt usually click on a video like this but seeing you two together felt like it was something i could understand
Loved hearing this and reflecting on myself as well throughout my life. I'm 7 years older than you @Doaenel but I've gotten through the trauma of my early 20's thankfully at this point. One very important thing I'd like to suggest (and this is coming from a nobody, probably much less successful and less controlled stranger on the internet who couldn't even dream of having a conversation with a semi-celebrity) is it's very good to give yourself more experiences. It's kinda like, if the square block doesn't fit in the circle hole then find a block that does you know? Maybe you've never even seen the circle block though. Are you gonna wear a blindfold and not look for it? Or maybe force that square block into the hole till its mangled up enough to go? You can't know what you don't know basically and the only way you will learn is when you place yourself in a different place. I've learned it doesn't even have to be an uncomfortable place either, just something different or new, cuz that brings on more new things and new reflections. It also brings on different drives and excitement and that can change you or make you feel different as well. It can even bring you down a path that becomes the right one to get through the road that we don't want to travel on. For relationships, I think this was what finally got me success there. I marry in February next year and life is now nothing like I thought I'd ever achieve. Also patience is a good thing to have, but infinite patience is not. I honestly think as long as you are comfortable with finances the way they are, or aren't aiming to quit entirely by a set date or set amount of money, then streaming less and shrinking those numbers a bit would do you no harm so that you can take time to feel better and fulfill your own dreams. Don't be a thing for people on the internet, because 99% of us do not matter at the end of the day, and you do. I think you agree that none of us are really the end goal. Everyone has to have some amount of self-importance so that they are able to help others. It doesn't work the other way around unfortunately. Thanks for sharing, I think you've got a lot of guts to be open like that. I've got a completely different perspective on who you are now compared to the online façade that people portray you as. I look forward to watching you some more and even continuing to work on myself vicariously through you.
I usually don’t comment on youtube videos but I just want to say that I watched through the entire video and learned a lot just from listening to the back and forth between you two. I found it extremely inspiring that you were able to speak your truth not only in front of Dr. K but also your whole stream who are not exactly the most mature. I really do hope you find happiness through your successes and failures.
Thank you so much for speaking up about this. I also struggle with valuing my self worth off my success. Being the most attractive and interesting and fun and successful and talented has become things i need to have self worth. Your self awareness and insight is really inspiring. Thank you
It's so interesting to me to hear Dantes pov on so many things considering he's only 9 months older than me, we have had such different experiences even growing up in the same country, I had similar experiences in high-school and elementary school, it's nice to see how others deal with things
This video actually worked as therapy for me and i understood so mich more about myself. Love the geniunity of both in the stream.
Love this crossover. Can’t wait to see where this goes.
In a lot of ways i really can relate to what you and Dr K. were talking about. I have simular issue with my life right now. I don't wanna go to much in detail, but just leave a quick thank you! I belive that I was able to take a glimpse at what inner peace could look like for me and I really needed that. I had a mental image form and it felt good and relaxed the tension i constantly feel myself beeing in.
Thank you for sharing this on YT. It actually helped me a bit as well.
Dante is fascinating. He seems so comfortable with himself and is so real and grounded. What a truly beautiful exchange. I really enjoyed this.
People tend to do things when they see popular figures do them. I don't know if you realize but you are genuinely going to be convincing people to go get help understanding themselves on a deeper level. And im only 5 minutes into the video, I never thought id be sitting on youtube listening to a person talk to a psychiatrist casually. This is super cool
theres so many things in here ive thought about a lot, and its given me a good insight on some mental hurdles ive been stuck with. so first and foremost, thanks :) great discussion
1:11:11 this in perticular is something i find hard to explain to people, and they never truely understand what i mean, because they are too afraid of opening that "pandoras box". but i find authenticity and honesty more valuable than shallow compliments and kind words, in deeper friendships
love dr. k, him having a deeper conversation with someone self-reflected as dantes is a treat for psychological analysis and discussion. great video!
This is actually fascinating. I haven't seen anything from doanel before but this was such an amazing insight into a genuinely unique mind for better or worse.
Just extremely interesting from a people watching perspective
1:45:15 This part and onward is the most eye-opening stuff I've seen in a long time. It's one of those things (see what I did there) you need it spoonfed (animation++) to actually understand it, even though you've grasped it all along. This was magical!
This made me so happy to watch. I feel like Dantes got what he needed to hear and also wanted to hear. Keep up the good work man and I appreciate the pure honesty
You're amazing, I see a lot of parts of myself in you and this talked helped me so much. Thank you for being your honest self.
Dr K. always brings out the most interesting sides of people. Dantes seems like a cool guy even outside of streaming from what ive seen on tik tok and in this video. Hope for more stuff like this.
This is by far my favorite Dr. K episode , glad to see this side of my favorite streamer
I’ve been a fan of yours Dantes for what seems like forever now, I’m rooting for you man. You remind me so much of myself when I was your age. I hope you find peace and happiness brother. Much love always and forever.
Dantes. Ive watched you and followed you through your shorts. Your story really resonated with me. Although personally i dont know if Dr K really got through to you, he really got through to me through your story. Just like he said, I am really excited to see how the next 10 years progress for you. I wish the best for you and i wish the best for me haha
This was amazing man. Thank you for stepping up and being genuinely you in the public eye. It might be nothing to you, but for some it's impossible to risk being emotionally vulnerable like this. Seeing you talking like this could be the push for people to seek help they need.
Funny thing about me watching this VOD of Dantes talking to Dr. K is that I only knew Dantes from popular memes off the internet.
Now after watching some compilation clips, jumping into a live one night and now watching this. I can confidently say I am a supporter of Dantes and I think he is probably one of the most down to earth people I have came across on the internet.
This whole VOD of him talking about his life and then Dr. K giving him some solutions to his current problems helped me to be more introspective of my own life. And whilst we are not the same person (obviously) and we didn't have similar up bringing and family relationships. I can still relate in some certain aspects. Also on top of that, I have learnt and again allowed myself to be introspective of my own life and take away things from this VOD and overall remined me of this life that I live in and reinforced the "It what it is" mentality to keep carrying on and to learn from past mistakes and improve and to become better overall as a person.
TLDR: Didn't know much about Dantes now I do. Learned a lot from VOD. Great stream of Dantes and Dr. K.
@dantes being all's shy and bashful after receiving a compliment literally gave me hope in humanity 😭😭🥺 like seriously that was so wholesome and adorable I nearly cried from adorableness
I find it amazing how genuine he remains during the talk. He seems like a very introspective, thoughtful, and caring person
I loved seeing both you and Dr. K break down your thought process and your view on life. Types of videos like this and the one with your dad are really cool and interesting. Take care Dantes :)
Coaching in game and in real life our boy is growing great job dantes!
Dantes you’re such an incredibly genuine person. It’s great to see you constantly grinding & trying to improve yourself. Keep at it man, you’ll get rank 1 in League & in the world in no time. ❤
I've been following both Dr.K's and Dantes' content for so long so this video was such a blessing! I really resonate with Dantes and it makes me so happy that it's him sitting there and talking with Dr.K, I don't think there's many other streamer who would've had such interesting thoughts and insight
It feels so weird listening to this because even though my life has been incredibly different to yours, there's the same thought process, the same endless spiral of introspection (?), the same way of viewing things and progress, to a point where everything Dr.K mentioned I can apply to myself. And yet I wonder if I'm not just a little ahead, since I expect what's coming from Dr.K seeing those spirals I do in your words, but I think that's due to being a spectator of the moment.
I wonder if all this is due to the, scratch that, I'm convinced all this is due to us growing surrounded by internet, social media, etcetera, combined to a specific percentage of people. But it might just be everyone, and that's a whole lot scarier and yet... hopeful.
In any case it was incredibly informative, thx for posting the video man.
I've watched this over a couple days as someone who only watched Dantes clips and part of the Jaymo arc. I can say this was insanely interesting to watch. I do know there is more to Dantes than the chaotic schizo but it's so so interesting to see what that "more" is.
The ultimate control technique is having no control whatsoever and letting whatever happen, knowing that whatever happens…. You will be fine. Damn man thats staying on me… sounds like pure acceptance
loved that i get to see this side of you dantes, and i truly expect the best for you, good luck on whatever chapter of your life you decide to enter
what a great conversation! i just love when dr. k smiles and says "he needs to think for a second" also Dantes reflected af guy is growing on me big times
This man is truly inspiring and very impressive,he honestly deserves the best, so much so that i wish he would be reincarnated as THE main character in a better world
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Are you train to Isekai him?
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Damn i just started laughing when he was talking about his childhood and chat said AUTISM DIAGNOSED
Thanks for uploading this. Learned a lot about myself cause I have similar issues. Will still always be a fan. One love
this is genuienly amazing to watch.. have a very similar midset and tbh. didnt really know you thought like me wish i could get to know more people like that! solid ass video
I've known dantes only from a few shorts or clips on youtube. Having watched this "interview" in full, I have to say you are a super cool and intelligent guy! Keep up the good content.
15 minutes in and damn, this is fascinating to listen to. Didn't expect this crazy insight and profoundness from Dantes.
Very interesting and eye opening.
I've been in the league scene ever since 2012 and had no idea who you were before this video and looks aside, what you said and responded to dr.K was just, let's say very different! and I felt you dearly.
The amount of self reflection is something very precious and ever since the first minutes I realized you were kinda like me, reflective af but lost in figuring out the true identity and what drives you forward aka your core value.
I felt like this was the best interview Dr.K had but then I realized it's because I've grown a lot and I can see many things about myself in you. then I realized all of his interviews were brilliant simply because of the individual factors that play such huge roles in our lifes that we tend to forget, our upbringings and things we've experienced influence lots of our decisions later in life even though we might think we're in full control, we'll always get surprised how much we actually aren't and how much we can work towards it.
At 01:41:14 someone in chat mentions: "This doctor acts like he knows what he's talking about hwen in reality it's all opinion based"
I'd say no shit? but in all seriousness it's what they ACTUALLY do... they do like few percentage of the work and the rest is on us! Last appointment with my doc after I talked about my beliefs he mentioned this:
"what do you think we do here? nothing really! only to make you believe and continue while learning few lessons here and there, that's all"
Dr.K and other docs don't do magic, here he didn't do anything particularily amazing just stated the facts and emphasized on things that were there and were obvious to the person but the key word here is emphasizing and making it bold.
For example how often were we all told all these stuff? nothing new right? but it surely hits differently when you're ready and in that position! and how much it changes you whenever you'Re there in the right time and the right order!
Thanks a lot and I mean it, from both perspectives and seeing my older self there is something I wouldn't think would've happened at least not this soon.
Wishing you all who's reading this, all the healthiness and success ♥
this is probably the most i've related to someone who's talked with dr. k this was great thank you for having this talk
watched the whole conversation and I can relate a ton with what you have said and what Dr K. did say as well, I know the session wasn't directly done for me but I did take it very personal, thanks.
Same
takes huge courage to post this man and it is very insightful. not many streamers are very intimate with their audience. it's sweet to know you are.
I think he was just being intimate with himself and Dr. K. His viewers are just his viewers. Not saying he doesnt care what others might think but I dont think he did this for us lmao.
dude is having a arc of the ages, its been a joy following dantes as hes become bigger and bigger :)
Loved this! Thank you for this content❤
Dantes being the most sane lol player and also actually being sane is hilarious
To avoid doing something, all I have to do is ignore the possibility of future regret. On the other hand, doing something requires overcoming an activation energy, which is usually my fear of failure or judgement. Upon reflection, I realize that overcoming fear is really about accepting the possibility of future regret. It follows then that once I have identified something I want to do, I simply need to accept the possibility of regretting my actions instead of ignoring the regret of inaction. It's easier to follow through when viewed in this way because of the realization that the possibility of regret will be there either way. I've allowed avoiding actions to provide the illusion of control in the past. I need to accept that I don't always have control and that's okay. I should ground my identity in the direction I choose to go rather than attaching myself to my starting point.
To continue to do something, discipline and motivation are required. Discipline and motivation are big words, but they're just that: words. Discipline and motivation will come naturally when you reflect on your actions properly. Take drinking alcohol for example. In the moment, what are the benefits? I would say the primary one is reduced awareness of your fears, resulting in a lower activation energy to partake in group actions, which in turn results in short-term fun and easier social acceptance from fellow drinkers. How about the negatives? Well, you're poisoning your body and damaging your liver. Additionally, the positive I mentioned above becomes a negative in the long-term. You learn to ignore your fears and medicate them with alcohol instead of coming to terms with them... it's just another form of avoidance. It's harder, but you can achieve the same social acceptance without alcohol. I should know... I've been sober for 7 months and lost 60 lbs without changing anything else about my social life.
Creating change is hard, and it's scary because choosing to create change in a bad or unoptimized direction is entirely possible. However, nature demonstrates that change is inevitable, so we must adapt or be left behind. In other words, standing still may provide the illusion of safety, but really it just guarantees that life will run you over. Since inaction cannot give you control over your life, the most important thing is to identify which direction you want to move in. I'm still working out the best way to do that, but I believe that trial and error is a good place to start. It's important to remember that just because you've been going one way, it doesn't prevent you from turning around. Additionally, while there might be bad ways to approach life - like inaction or allowing others to manipulate your path for their own benefit - there also may not be a single best path. Nobody has all the answers; we should appreciate diversity, for we paint the picture of human existence together.
WOW that was interesting. I am excited to see your growth Dantes and am also interested in seeing more of your content cuz of this.
I cant believe the fact that I actually went through the whole video without skipping a single bit it was kinda interesting to hear things about both of them and their views or certain things.
watched this thing like 53 times already, truly a conversation. Thank you!
53x2 hours = 106 hours.
The video was uploaded 14 hours ago. Sir, I must inform you that you‘ve just been caught lying to Dantes.
@@shojinsenseiim sorry don't make 18 pages pls
@@nonsencephilosophy i'll make 90 just for you if you ever lie to dantes again
@@nonsencephilosophy you bad boiii >:(
@@shojinsensei fire
when he gets up to walk around to speak, you already know hes about to cook
insane video! made me understand something about me aswell.good luck 2 you Dantes. much love.
This helped me a lot. I feel called out but I know I have to find value in myself other than just my gains.
now this psychiatrist will need a psychiatrist 😭😭
wait is he not one
@@hegemon3883 he said it at the start of the video
@@hegemon3883he says on the beginning he isn't "his psychiatrist", idk if that means he isn't one or just means he is one but not "his" just to open him up
@@narcissus4852he is one he just isn't diagnosing Dantes with anything. Just talking
@@narcissus4852he is a Harvard certified psychiatrist, it’s just a disclaimer he has to say for legal reasons
I related so much to the sentiment of "you are a slave to being in control". I tried so hard to trim down the high and lows in my life that I basically flatlined. I was a "stoic", just letting everything phase by, but I got so much happier when I told people that I love them, that they hurt me, that I felt vulnerable. I let people come into my life even if they were uncertain variables and I let them change me, even if they hurt me.
This video actually made me a fan of yours. I always glanced a bit on your content, because you are a young, energetic high elo player of my most loved game. But in the end I thought you are only a rage kid and didnt like this a lot.
Now I see a whole different person and can only say, I appreciate your openness and genuine honest talk with Healthy Gamer. Big Love ❤
Im happy for you man! Ive learned so much from this video, Thanks.