Tapping To Break Compliance Patterns In Codependency | Tapping With Renee

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  • Tapping can help break compliance patterns in codependency. Compliance is one of the hallmarks of codependency, as well as having boundaries that are too open or no boundaries at all. It is what was learned to survive in a dysfunctional home and is something that can be healed and unlearned.
    Tap along with me to bring these feelings and behaviors to the surface. Tapping allows you to acknowledge, feel and release the feelings and then choose what you want to replace it with. In this tapping session we will also address healing the inner child, giving too much even when you don't want to, feeling resentful of the other person and of yourself, setting healthy boundaries and unhealthy caretaking.
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  • @sierrarowe4254
    @sierrarowe4254 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    i’ve tapped on this before but last night i tried it again & i had a huge emotional release, i was not raised or surrounded by loving supportive people, every time i try to express goodness & feel love towards things there’s a block telling me it’s not safe & “im making it up” & it’s not real & authentic & i will be oppressed, hopefully this can really clear that out for me

  • @tahneeskylar8954
    @tahneeskylar8954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’ve been doing this for 5 days straight now and it has already made auch a difference!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️ I can’t even begin to thank you for this, Renée, I am beyond grateful!! What a lifesaver for me, literally! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @tahneeskylar8954
    @tahneeskylar8954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Omg thank you 🙏🏻🥺❤️❤️❤️ This is just what I have been searching for!!! I’m so sick of being codependent and a people pleaser and I am totally determined to finally shift this! So this is invaluable, I am so so grateful I found you right now 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

  • @haswa48
    @haswa48 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you. I’ve just found your channel and I love your content. Grateful for you ✨🤍

  • @shanellesanson6028
    @shanellesanson6028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Renee, thank you! I came across this video today. I have been struggling to articulate this exact pattern of mine for years. I used to wonder when I would ‘feel’ grown up and not like a kid seeking permission all the time. I had no idea what this pattern was and why I would end up being such a subservient doormat in every relationship in my life (personal and professional). I hope this is the start to my healing and taking my power back. Much love ❤️

  • @Grungefan2018
    @Grungefan2018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow all of your statements resonated. I always wondered wth I couldn't keep personal info to myself. I thought I was a sensitive open person. Which I am but man codependency has wreaked havoc on my life. 60 years. I feel like I've been waiting for my life to start all these years. I hope I can make some progress soon cause 60 years is a looong time . Can you imagine the dysfunction? The bear complete isolation, unable to self care, indecision, no support system, no kids, never married , it goes on and on

  • @FireSilver25
    @FireSilver25 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I soooo needed this!!!! I still automatically comply/fawn/people please/stuff my feelings/etc.

  • @GaryG-e2f
    @GaryG-e2f 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤wow showed up like 👍 magic thanks 🎉

  • @therealbobbyb
    @therealbobbyb หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is fantastic! Love the methodology

  • @silviamadau2013
    @silviamadau2013 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Perfect in every word! Thank you. Lot of love 💖🙏🌹🌟

  • @WezaMind
    @WezaMind ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the most important taps anywhere, and unique. Thank you so much

  • @joannec8717
    @joannec8717 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much Renee, this video is wonderful. The tapping statements are spot on. ....Just what I needed to express. Blessings ♥♥

  • @Dame333
    @Dame333 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:30
    Commenting this for my playlist. Thank you so much ❤

  • @cherylm5002
    @cherylm5002 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best, came here after sor time, needed a booster to maintaining my boundaries, worked like magic, thanks🙏

  • @satyasunshine9737
    @satyasunshine9737 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much,sister!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @maxd5373
    @maxd5373 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for putting this together. It really got to me. So we’ll put together. It hit all the right buttons for me.

  • @clumsykhaya
    @clumsykhaya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You make me feel so strong! Thank you for this Renee I am watching my life shift and change through your videos

  • @priyacanoosamy1639
    @priyacanoosamy1639 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Renee. You are doing an excellent job.

  • @sarahlouisetyler1
    @sarahlouisetyler1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a great tap-thank you so much!!

  • @Stardust-xl8nn
    @Stardust-xl8nn ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this tapping

  • @hanakrahulcova6248
    @hanakrahulcova6248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, you are simply amazing Renee🙏.. It's clearing the old stuff very much 😘❤️❤️❤️ Thank you 🦄🦋 😘😘😘

  • @Ngalaina
    @Ngalaina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you thank you thank you !!!!!

  • @swathieprabhakara2539
    @swathieprabhakara2539 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I felt it deeply and tears came out with memory, thank you

  • @v5Clone
    @v5Clone ปีที่แล้ว

    Renee you're so pretty, thank you for this video

  • @faithrogers4787
    @faithrogers4787 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much!

  • @melaniedibenedetto3936
    @melaniedibenedetto3936 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW this is AMAZING!! I never knew I needed this!! I know that sounds maybe strange but I knew I had these behaviours and I've been working on myself for years with some success but THIS, I cried the whole first time I listened and everything you said resonated and I listened again without crying 😮 OMG seriously POWERFUL! I feel so empowered!! Thank you Renée, what an absolute treasure you are❤ Truly Thank you xx

  • @quikrox16
    @quikrox16 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t think I’ve ever yawned more before in my life…😂🥹🙏. Shedding these old limiting beliefs right now and feeling SO much better for it. I’m worthy of feeling good. My wants & needs matter. My feelings matter. All of me has great value. It’s safe to let go, it’s safe to speak up. I am powerful. I am good. I am loved. I am safe. I am secure. I am appreciated. 🙏 And, so it is. 💖

  • @bluntedbb1018
    @bluntedbb1018 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ughhhh. I’m literally a Compliance Consultant for work. Didn’t realize how far this mindset was affecting me.

  • @veronicaj.fabianmswrsw1327
    @veronicaj.fabianmswrsw1327 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU !!! 😊

  • @erikafrank7246
    @erikafrank7246 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Reallllly needed this. Thank you!

  • @xorqwerty8276
    @xorqwerty8276 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing!! 🙏

  • @cherylm5002
    @cherylm5002 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The tapping addressed directly to my inner turmoil. Thanks

  • @astriutari
    @astriutari 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Renee. Sending love to you 🤗

  • @Alessandra.Rezende
    @Alessandra.Rezende 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thsnk you, powerful tapping right for me . Blessings , much love and light

  • @criscir
    @criscir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU ❤️

  • @michelewellington
    @michelewellington 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely beautiful❤️❤️ so well held and the script was perfect. Thank you!

  • @coven5803
    @coven5803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! Thank you 🙏🏽 Thank you 🤗

  • @craigdunning5123
    @craigdunning5123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was Powerful! Thank you so much

  • @dawnacoxon3111
    @dawnacoxon3111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! So grateful I found your channel!

  • @AH-hc6xb
    @AH-hc6xb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so good, thank you so much! I'll be sharing this

  • @mandaloolux9216
    @mandaloolux9216 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so good and exactly what I needed thank you❤❤❤

  • @meesbijpost4119
    @meesbijpost4119 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot, this is so empowering 💖

  • @honeymoney23
    @honeymoney23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i just want to say WOOOOOW!!!!! i choked up repeating several of these phrases to myself. I feel like if I tap to this every day for teh rest of the year, i will truly be a different person. THANK YOU SO MUCH for this

    • @laylis12
      @laylis12 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you still tapping to this?? What has changed? Update us, please 🥰😍

    • @honeymoney23
      @honeymoney23 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Layla Lay I definitely haven't done it in a while but maybe I'll pick it back up again

    • @laylis12
      @laylis12 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@honeymoney23 thanks! :)

  • @marleenjohannes4261
    @marleenjohannes4261 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    U are so amazing woman 🧡🦋🌾💗🌼💗🌾

  • @nasimaesmaeli
    @nasimaesmaeli 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🌻🌻🥰😘😘

  • @evamarie5834
    @evamarie5834 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ,it is my problem.

  • @shesanerinafan
    @shesanerinafan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @typical_crunch2484
    @typical_crunch2484 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not me double tapping on TH-cam 😩

  • @jaemaxx
    @jaemaxx ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @sonaliparida1044
    @sonaliparida1044 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🙏🙏❤️👍

  • @emmawatson9593
    @emmawatson9593 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lots of yawning. Thank you 😊

  • @quikrox16
    @quikrox16 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So spot on! You described things that have been in me, but I couldn’t put words to, like I’ve repressed it. This brought it to the Surface, to move through it! 🥹🙏❤️‍🩹

  • @clumsykhaya
    @clumsykhaya 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow thank you so much.