Wow, this is amazing Brad - just what I "needed" (lol!). I recently got back with my ex following a very emotional breakup. I'd done a lot of tapping to get over him and was feeling strong and indifferent towards him. He got back in touch and we started dating again and decided to get back together. Then I started to get all emotional, fearful and worried. I was worried I would push him away again like I did before. The more I worried, the more "needy" I felt. Tapping through this video made me smile because I realised I DON'T NEED him or the relationship to be happy. I was happy before I met him and I can be happy with or without him. I now feel free to be in the relationship! Thank you
Great! We are now engaged. We are stronger as a couple and as individuals. It has not been easy, there have been bumps in the road but we are both self-aware and willing to work on it and ourselves. I still use tapping to deal with my issues. Overall, the relationship is wonderful.
I too am struggling through my own issues as I approach something I see as having substance - a relationship. Most of the time I'm in my own way. And in the way of it growing naturally as I am trying to get what I "need" to be able to - ... feel safe, wanted, secure. Learning to be patient With Myself - is the key. I'm trying too hard to make it solid right now! Its just been a few months and what I loved the most was here we are now in a pandemic and while everything was closed and shut down we zoomed, and talked on the phone for hours and hours for 2 months straight. I want to be assured right now - that I'm wanted, needed(!), so I can feel safe allowing myself to be open and vulnerable to the relationship. and I'm scared. What I really "need" to do is step back and breathe. Let it evolve. and breathe some more. Its the one of the hardest things I've had to do in my life. He's worth the effort it takes to change my need to control the outcome for my safety. He, is my teacher. As am I.
I found my way to this video after waking up with this amazing message in my head: “Letting go of everything I think I need in order to receive everything I desire and want” Unbelievably powerful and miraculously synchronous for my current circumstances 🥰
This is literally the only meditation you ever need because most of our challenges spring from a sense of need (aka lack mindset). When we can release our attachment to whatever it is that we feel we need (control, money, love, etc.) we are then free...we are safe...we are at peace with whatever IS. We can then just BE. ❤🙏🏼💖
I’m letting go of the need for my family to love and accept me. I have decided that i do not need them or their approval to be happy. Thank you so much❤️🙏 I live with a very manipulative,narcissistic and in all kinds of ways abusive family, i want to be happy and completely detached from their ways and energy. I am grateful for finding your channel❤️
Well.. I was tapping to get rid of the attachment and neediness for the presence of someone in my life and I decided while tapping to let go of the need for a major goal that can change my whole life, a month ago there was a big challenge that stopped me from going for it and today it’s gone!! ✨ This is so powerful and Brad you’re already changing our lives in a way you might never know.. love and gratitude from Bahrain ♥️
I have gone through a very traumatic situation in my life lately and you have been the one to completely shift everything! I went from not being able to eat to feeling normal again. I will never thank you enough. Please know you have made such a difference in my life! Thank you!
Thank you , thank you Bead for this video. I develop attachments to the people that I love the most and when it feels like they are pushing me away, it hurts. This is just what I need to help me let go of my attachment and love freely. 🙏❤🙏
The 1st round I cried the whole way through. The 2nd round I didn’t cry at all but noticed a headache; however I felt more free and grounded in my body. Amazing.
I sometimes think this really is the biggest hitch to our freedom! Such a subtle yet strong program we all have running through our lives, and what beautiful Joy it is when we simply let go the need to control the outcome in order to be happy. When all the while it's the other way round!!! Thank you Brad 😊
i thought i "needed" him to feel ( loved / accepted / nurtured / satisfied ) i simply couldn't imagine having those feelings with anyone else , or by myself because ive lived a difficult life so far so his ( very little ) love was the best ive ever had .. but i know i deserve way better . & i can find better . if not in others than in myself . and i allow myself to finally release him & let go of this perceived need towards him . so i can be free and find ppl ( including me ) that truly make me feel loved and satisfied . :b
So enlightening and freeing session, thank you! I feel so detached for the outcome and the specific person that came up during it. I feel so joyful and excited of what Life is unfolding for me 🥰 thanks Brad, will keep doing this one for a couple more days
I’ve been a long time follower of your videos & content brad. You’ve helped so many of us & am so very grateful. Can you please do an eft session for codependency?
Brad I am a goung 20yr girl, I have just started watching your videos and tapping.. They are amazing!Changed my whole out look on life.. I feel much lighter.. I can tell when I forget to tell myself how great I am.. Keep em up!!
I used this and thought of my current placement and the feeling of need in me, that voice that say 'I need people to be happier and more supportive in order for me to learn" I'm clearing that need and find other ways around fulfilling my learning requirements ❤️
I was giddy and smiling throughout this because for the longest time I’ve been trying to detach without actually acknowledging that I’ve been attached to this person and needy for a long time haha, this was such a read and so enormously effective, I feel so free! I feel so happy. Thank you as always king ❤❤❤
This was a great realisation today .. this neediness and this tooo much attachment!! Though I exactly I Cudnt pin point the need .. I saw the neediness and that I have been living from this in last two years and it has messed up my life . Thank you brad . This showed up in my saved playlist and I just tapped . You were a saviour again .
I appreciate these sessions so much Brad. Sometimes I'll find myself asking - "what do I really need to tap on today" and by golly does the algorithm always help with the selection! Thank you so much for all you do!
Just amazing did two rounds went from A 9 to a 4 then second round completely cleared. Thank you so much for your work! Your videos are short , enjoyable , direct and effective . Thank you!
I "need" an emotionally abusive relationship that I am allowing to destroy me , and although I am intelligent and successful I am not ready to let it go, even though it is causing me so much pain and distress. I am hoping EFT will help me.
@@going-easy you are right in a way... i suggest looking up Lisa A Romano, Melanie Tonia Evans, Ross Rossenberg, Abdul Saad, Jerry Wise but there is also one person offering an eft based approach by this one eft practitioner Niko Ana Jeanne. Havent tried it but know it is an eft based approach.
I am tapping to release the need for a man who I adore but relating with him is too painful. He has NPD. I am an empath and have PTSD from events from my earliest years that lasted around 19 years. This EFT focus is helpful. I'm wondering how you have got on Sharon. kxx
Oh my god!! I just realized I’d been resisting this video, and then thought about how I was just telling a friend on the weekend that your ‘want vs need’ concept is something I still have resistance to..... Then BAM, the money scam happened Monday!.....umm holy crap 🤯
Hi Brad. A video on Needs not being met by the others would be sooo great :) . Thank you so much for what you do. Your videos really helped me over the years. Bless you!
As I tapped on a certain outcome I was holding the tension of need with, I realized I was holding this tension not for the fear of what the outcome meant about me, but for the fear of how a certain outcome may change my view of this person. Then I tapped on my fear of needing to view this person that way....very helpful 👍💜 AND that letting go of the need for something is not the same as letting go of hope for it.....there’s more to uncover there I sense 😁
I kept thinking what if I need a hug? I need a hug to be comforted, to feel loved. Is that wrong?? Then I understood, for the first time in my life, ( coz I trust you Brad and trust what you say) that the hug is not bad. It's the sense of need of the hug to be comforted that's killing my joy. I can still want hugs. And go for them with joy in my heart. People will probably be more willing to hug and I'll probably enjoy them more. Thank you Brad ❤️
@@tapwithbrad It made my day to see your hearts and comment this morning as I open TH-cam for my morning EFT. I'm grateful for technology allowing us to connect despite the oceans between us. Have a great day... I should say 'night' I guess.
I have just found your video, this is what I need right now on my road to recovery.. Love it!! and will be looking at some of your other videos.. thank you so much Namaste xxx
Hi Brad, so grateful for you! Thank you. I suffer from preoccupied Anxious attachment style of relationship. Would you please be kind enough to make a video on relief from the crazy obsessive thoughts and fears? It's ruining my life.
I can add it to the list. In the meantime, you can search my videos by subject, and maybe start here: th-cam.com/play/PLiRGbxLS41RYxWLGSUgDGWKTIfQB1xItC.html
Thank you Brad, as always. The cycle of feeling a need for something or someone in order to.. whilst still feeling a need, is what maintains the cycle (and results) we don't want. I'll keep tapping a few times more! 😏
I came to this one today after a heightened awareness of a need of mine that arose after a long discussion with my Mum last night. Brad, during your transformation, your shift away from acting and through your path to find what your soul was meant to do, did you ever feel like you were missing celebrating your excitement and wins and unfolding inspiration with the people dearest to your heart? Did your parents and close friends get excited for you and give their feedback and celebrate with you? I am so aware this morning and over the last couple months of the lack of this in my journey at the moment (and lack of it for my life from my parents). I have shared vulnerably, wholeheartedly and excitedly with the people I love the most, but I see their limitations in their ability to get excited and celebrate with me, and their lack of even watching my videos to share what moved them, their feedback etc. I know that approval and validation is wrapped up in it, there is no way it cannot be if my first lack was with my parents. But a big part is also the wanting to celebrate my life with the people I love, and for it to not be a one-sided celebration. I would love to hear your thoughts and experience with this, thanks my friend :)
Wow, this is amazing Brad - just what I "needed" (lol!). I recently got back with my ex following a very emotional breakup. I'd done a lot of tapping to get over him and was feeling strong and indifferent towards him. He got back in touch and we started dating again and decided to get back together. Then I started to get all emotional, fearful and worried. I was worried I would push him away again like I did before. The more I worried, the more "needy" I felt. Tapping through this video made me smile because I realised I DON'T NEED him or the relationship to be happy. I was happy before I met him and I can be happy with or without him. I now feel free to be in the relationship! Thank you
You are very right!!
Love this story Alison. How is the r'ship going now? 3/7/17
Great! We are now engaged. We are stronger as a couple and as individuals. It has not been easy, there have been bumps in the road but we are both self-aware and willing to work on it and ourselves. I still use tapping to deal with my issues. Overall, the relationship is wonderful.
Alison Pittaway Your story is so inspiring! I wish you all the best in life! 👍😊
I too am struggling through my own issues as I approach something I see as having substance - a relationship. Most of the time I'm in my own way. And in the way of it growing naturally as I am trying to get what I "need" to be able to - ... feel safe, wanted, secure. Learning to be patient With Myself - is the key. I'm trying too hard to make it solid right now! Its just been a few months and what I loved the most was here we are now in a pandemic and while everything was closed and shut down we zoomed, and talked on the phone for hours and hours for 2 months straight. I want to be assured right now - that I'm wanted, needed(!), so I can feel safe allowing myself to be open and vulnerable to the relationship. and I'm scared. What I really "need" to do is step back and breathe. Let it evolve. and breathe some more. Its the one of the hardest things I've had to do in my life. He's worth the effort it takes to change my need to control the outcome for my safety. He, is my teacher. As am I.
I found my way to this video after waking up with this amazing message in my head: “Letting go of everything I think I need in order to receive everything I desire and want” Unbelievably powerful and miraculously synchronous for my current circumstances 🥰
12 years ago you made this video and it shows up today for me exactly when I "needed" it. 😮 Thank you Brad.
This is literally the only meditation you ever need because most of our challenges spring from a sense of need (aka lack mindset). When we can release our attachment to whatever it is that we feel we need (control, money, love, etc.) we are then free...we are safe...we are at peace with whatever IS. We can then just BE. ❤🙏🏼💖
I’m letting go of the need for my family to love and accept me. I have decided that i do not need them or their approval to be happy.
Thank you so much❤️🙏
I live with a very manipulative,narcissistic and in all kinds of ways abusive family, i want to be happy and completely detached from their ways and energy. I am grateful for finding your channel❤️
Wow…. That’s amazing…. Well done!
Well.. I was tapping to get rid of the attachment and neediness for the presence of someone in my life and I decided while tapping to let go of the need for a major goal that can change my whole life, a month ago there was a big challenge that stopped me from going for it and today it’s gone!! ✨
This is so powerful and Brad you’re already changing our lives in a way you might never know.. love and gratitude from Bahrain ♥️
I have gone through a very traumatic situation in my life lately and you have been the one to completely shift everything! I went from not being able to eat to feeling normal again. I will never thank you enough. Please know you have made such a difference in my life! Thank you!
This is The most effective thing I'e ever experienced. Thank you
Thank you , thank you Bead for this video. I develop attachments to the people that I love the most and when it feels like they are pushing me away, it hurts. This is just what I need to help me let go of my attachment and love freely. 🙏❤🙏
The 1st round I cried the whole way through. The 2nd round I didn’t cry at all but noticed a headache; however I felt more free and grounded in my body. Amazing.
I sometimes think this really is the biggest hitch to our freedom! Such a subtle yet strong program we all have running through our lives, and what beautiful Joy it is when we simply let go the need to control the outcome in order to be happy. When all the while it's the other way round!!! Thank you Brad 😊
i thought i "needed" him to feel
( loved / accepted / nurtured / satisfied )
i simply couldn't imagine having those
feelings with anyone else , or by myself
because ive lived a difficult life so far
so his ( very little ) love was the best
ive ever had ..
but i know i deserve way better . & i
can find better . if not in others than in
myself . and i allow myself to finally
release him & let go of this perceived
need towards him . so i can be free and
find ppl ( including me ) that truly make
me feel loved and satisfied . :b
So enlightening and freeing session, thank you! I feel so detached for the outcome and the specific person that came up during it. I feel so joyful and excited of what Life is unfolding for me 🥰 thanks Brad, will keep doing this one for a couple more days
Brad, eventhough this is a very old video, this is so much useful. Really a big relief. Thank you.
I’ve been a long time follower of your videos & content brad. You’ve helped so many of us & am so very grateful. Can you please do an eft session for codependency?
Still returning to your tapping scripts after years Brad. Thankyou. You give me hope snd I know it works every time. So very grateful 🙏
Brad I am a goung 20yr girl, I have just started watching your videos and tapping.. They are amazing!Changed my whole out look on life.. I feel much lighter.. I can tell when I forget to tell myself how great I am.. Keep em up!!
Instantly soothing. Wow I am doing this daily until I’ve got this completely under control.
Ahhhhh the relief! Thanks Brad you're the best! I don't NEED you though...
😉
Holy shit this one was amazing. So much yawning! Will be repeating this one more often
Thank you brad! I really appreciate all of your videos. You have truly helped me. bless you
Need for money. I tapped for that and released my deepest fear. Thank you Brad
I resist this but I chose to do it anyway and feel lighter. Love your videos Brad - great to see your look change over the years :)
Wow, thank you! Sending infinite blessings your way.
It feels good to detach from the outcome, every time i feel clingi or insecure i always comeback to this tapping... thnx brad
I used this and thought of my current placement and the feeling of need in me, that voice that say 'I need people to be happier and more supportive in order for me to learn" I'm clearing that need and find other ways around fulfilling my learning requirements ❤️
I really "needed" this...thanks :)
I appreciate you and the work you do So SO much! Thank you, Thank YOU!
I use this for my need to relive past trauma and this is HELPING ME SO MUCH! I just change the wordings a bit but I adore this structure
Thanks so much Brad. Most appreciated. Hope you have the best day!
I love how you mention the Bhagavad Ghita
You're a blessing Brad, thank you!
This is so very powerful. Thanks Brad 🙏💜
Thank you so much, Brad. You seem to make exactly the videos that I need. I so appreciate your work and that you offer your gifts for free. Thanks!
I was giddy and smiling throughout this because for the longest time I’ve been trying to detach without actually acknowledging that I’ve been attached to this person and needy for a long time haha, this was such a read and so enormously effective, I feel so free! I feel so happy. Thank you as always king ❤❤❤
Wow! This one hit it right out the park! So excellent. Thank you! 🌼
This was a great realisation today .. this neediness and this tooo much attachment!!
Though I exactly I Cudnt pin point the need .. I saw the neediness and that I have been living from this in last two years and it has messed up my life .
Thank you brad . This showed up in my saved playlist and I just tapped . You were a saviour again .
ThNx Brad, this resonate deeply with me, effective outcome!
I appreciate these sessions so much Brad. Sometimes I'll find myself asking - "what do I really need to tap on today" and by golly does the algorithm always help with the selection! Thank you so much for all you do!
Just amazing did two rounds went from
A 9 to a 4 then second round completely cleared.
Thank you so much for your work! Your videos are short , enjoyable , direct and effective .
Thank you!
I "need" an emotionally abusive relationship that I am allowing to destroy me , and although I am intelligent and successful I am not ready to let it go, even though it is causing me so much pain and distress. I am hoping EFT will help me.
Sharon Thompson i feel your pain as I’m going through the same thing. Keep tapping, we’ll get there.
I have those needs, too. EFT is a wonderful tool, but dealing with toxic relationships I found I need more than tapping.
@@going-easy you are right in a way... i suggest looking up Lisa A Romano, Melanie Tonia Evans, Ross Rossenberg, Abdul Saad, Jerry Wise but there is also one person offering an eft based approach by this one eft practitioner Niko Ana Jeanne. Havent tried it but know it is an eft based approach.
I am tapping to release the need for a man who I adore but relating with him is too painful. He has NPD. I am an empath and have PTSD from events from my earliest years that lasted around 19 years. This EFT focus is helpful. I'm wondering how you have got on Sharon. kxx
Fantastic video, this one has helped me so much to just let go and let the best come to me instead of chasing after it. Thank you!
This is one of the most amazing, beneficial and beautiful thing I have ever seen! Thank you!
Out of the park! Law of attraction- your wonderful videos-each come to me as I need them-🎯🎯🎯 THANK YOU!!!
Feeling so peaceful after doing this. Thank you
Oh my god!! I just realized I’d been resisting this video, and then thought about how I was just telling a friend on the weekend that your ‘want vs need’ concept is something I still have resistance to.....
Then BAM, the money scam happened Monday!.....umm holy crap 🤯
I was yawning at the middle of the session. Then I felt lighter at the end of the session. Amazing! Thank you.
Thank you, thank you, thank you, Brad. You are awesome!
Hi Brad. A video on Needs not being met by the others would be sooo great :) . Thank you so much for what you do. Your videos really helped me over the years. Bless you!
Maybe try this - change "apology" to whatever else you want. I hope that helps.
th-cam.com/video/LS8CACc88CI/w-d-xo.html
@@tapwithbrad thank you 🙏
Wow this is amazing gonna. Do that for needing to change people to become happy.
As I tapped on a certain outcome I was holding the tension of need with, I realized I was holding this tension not for the fear of what the outcome meant about me, but for the fear of how a certain outcome may change my view of this person. Then I tapped on my fear of needing to view this person that way....very helpful 👍💜 AND that letting go of the need for something is not the same as letting go of hope for it.....there’s more to uncover there I sense 😁
@MissArias awe how fabulous to hear this, and you’re welcome! Thank you for sharing how your heart was shifted by it ❤️
Thank you Brad!! Again. You are amazing and so are your videos. They have helped me a lot with multiple things. Much love
Thanks for all the videos on different tapping ❤
Thank you ❤️🙏🏻
This one hit home, thanks Brad.
I really need this one again, so glad it's still there, thank you Brad 😘
I kept thinking what if I need a hug?
I need a hug to be comforted, to feel loved. Is that wrong??
Then I understood, for the first time in my life, ( coz I trust you Brad and trust what you say) that the hug is not bad. It's the sense of need of the hug to be comforted that's killing my joy.
I can still want hugs. And go for them with joy in my heart. People will probably be more willing to hug and I'll probably enjoy them more.
Thank you Brad ❤️
Exactly! :)
@@tapwithbrad It made my day to see your hearts and comment this morning as I open TH-cam for my morning EFT.
I'm grateful for technology allowing us to connect despite the oceans between us.
Have a great day... I should say 'night' I guess.
I felt so much peace after that. Thank You.
I have just found your video, this is what I need right now on my road to recovery.. Love it!! and will be looking at some of your other videos.. thank you so much Namaste xxx
Outstanding Bradley. Thank you so much for this.
I love your EFT videos but this is one of the best for me! Tk you!!
Hi Brad, so grateful for you! Thank you. I suffer from preoccupied Anxious attachment style of relationship. Would you please be kind enough to make a video on relief from the crazy obsessive thoughts and fears? It's ruining my life.
I can add it to the list. In the meantime, you can search my videos by subject, and maybe start here: th-cam.com/play/PLiRGbxLS41RYxWLGSUgDGWKTIfQB1xItC.html
@@tapwithbrad Hi Brad. Did you get a chance to make video about this topic?
+Brad yates Thank you!! I felt relieved after this and it was well aligned!! 👏🏽
This helped me INSTANTLY! Thank you, Brad!❤
Thank you Brad. I had a real 'aha moment' when you said "in order to"...things are unravelling now. Brilliant stuff, Lisa.
I can’t thank you enough Brad!! ❤️
Oh wow!! Thank you Brad
This video was exactly what I needed!! hahaha.
You're amazing, Brad. Thank you very much for that video!
Sending love and gratitude for your videos!!
❤❤❤
I love you, Brad
Beautiful words ! They save! Thanks Brad!!!
Omg I love your videos! In a day, you have already helped me so much. Thank you thank you!!
Thank you xx
Awesome video!! Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for sharing your gifts!
I didn't know I 'needed' this until today. 😂 Thank you! ❤
so powerful thank you.
You are simply the best Brad!
Thank you Brad, as always. The cycle of feeling a need for something or someone in order to.. whilst still feeling a need, is what maintains the cycle (and results) we don't want. I'll keep tapping a few times more! 😏
Was looking for something just like this. Thank you. 😊
I clear my sense of need for love thanks brad
I clear my sense of need for twitter and having attention from people ..
I clear my sense of need for appreciation , thanks i hope my reply is source of inspire for others to use this video ..
Thank you @00:45 🌹
I started tapping my 3rd eye at the same time as the other points and I gotta say, the yawns are even more-so with this method!!
Thank you so much Brad!! My partner and I love you so much.
An ultimate loovve for this video, thank i appreciate it so much 💚
This one hit home thanks!
Wow this is powerful ❤thank you
This works like magic
thank you, I will go see the You're Okay' video I also visualise too.
Thanks so much Brad!
I came to this one today after a heightened awareness of a need of mine that arose after a long discussion with my Mum last night.
Brad, during your transformation, your shift away from acting and through your path to find what your soul was meant to do, did you ever feel like you were missing celebrating your excitement and wins and unfolding inspiration with the people dearest to your heart? Did your parents and close friends get excited for you and give their feedback and celebrate with you? I am so aware this morning and over the last couple months of the lack of this in my journey at the moment (and lack of it for my life from my parents). I have shared vulnerably, wholeheartedly and excitedly with the people I love the most, but I see their limitations in their ability to get excited and celebrate with me, and their lack of even watching my videos to share what moved them, their feedback etc. I know that approval and validation is wrapped up in it, there is no way it cannot be if my first lack was with my parents. But a big part is also the wanting to celebrate my life with the people I love, and for it to not be a one-sided celebration. I would love to hear your thoughts and experience with this, thanks my friend :)
Wow, this one was so good! Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you, really helped
Fantastic!!! Thank you!!🙏🎯
Thank you Brad!
Thank you 😌❤️️
Thank You Brad 🙏🏼
It feels soo gooooooooood
Thank you thank you thank you
Best one yet!