There are some people who don't want to have sex with their girls because they are religious. When you are young you should focus on your physique, health and wealth. If you want a girlfriend while you are young, find one that will help you achieve your goals. Also, what's the point to date a lot of women that you found in a club? A girlfriend that's wifey material is much different from most women, so the "experience" won't be that useful
Did you watch the video? The point is to have experience with women. How do you know how to find a woman who is “wifey material” with no experience? Lack of experience is exactly why most men get finessed in relationships
@@user-ze4cx5sn5c bro don't cope. You know how a wifey material girl is. She doesn't go to a party every weekend, she doesn't get drunk, she doesn't have an OF, she does not want the latest iphone or a new purse every month, she cares about you, she is healthy, she goes to the gym, she is not degenerate
Besides religion, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth differently. There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be. Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.” No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way. You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have… Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately. A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes. So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, it’s honestly whatever… It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young. And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.” Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.” Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.” “I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.” “I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.” So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others. And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)… Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth. The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
Besides religion, which a lot of people seem to be quoting here, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth living differently. “Heaven” and “hell” are places on earth, in our lives. It represents how we will live and feel and be psychologically and physically and everything… for the 2nd half of our life, past 40~45. If, in our youth (after 23~25, one can fool around and afford to make more mistakes before that), one lived in a way that made no sense and didn’t value what mattered, nor pursued and put time and effort into what truly matters in the long run… one can easily spend the 2nd half of life in a living hell of our own making as we rapidly age and suffer from lack of mastery or expertise, lack of meaningful and deeper relationships that stood the test of time, lack of meaning and lack of long term happiness. There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be. Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.” No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way. You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have… Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately. A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Same for a lot of “hows” or random flings we might have met in our youth: 99.999999% of them won’t remember your name or face after a short while. And none of these people will be there for you later in your life in a time of need, if you fall sick or have a difficult period, nor will they care about you or be present for you as you age past 35~45. Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes. So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, as long as it isn’t a pattern that lasts too long after 25 years old. It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience, and maybe it can bring forth better confidence in oneself during our youth. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young. But it depends a lot on age. After 25~27 years old, if one stays stuck in that mentality and pursuing solely pleasures of the flesh and instant gratification constantly… what awaits that kind of person can be a lot of suffering and pain for the remainder 2/3rds of their life, unless they wake the f*ck up and realize you need to build and cultivate more important and long lasting meaningful things as soon as possible, starting in our mid 20s at the latest: mastery (developing an expertise, 10 000 devoted to some meaningful or skillful field of study or sport/musical/etc practice you can become an expert at), as well as spending quality time with the people who truly matter and be there for you as you age past 35~40. Maintaining and investing time and effort into those precious and valuable, few relationships that stand the test of time. And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.” Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.” Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.” “I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.” “I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.” So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others. And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)… Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth. The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
Need to prioritise this and say that it's not the be all and end all if you just go round having s*x with women when you are in your 20s. But you should definitely PRIORITIZE dating, take them on dates, learn their body language, treat them with respect. Doing these things alongside the s*x is better for experience instead of just having s*x all the time. Also, if you struggle in the west then you aren't alone. Go to south east asia and let your dreams run wild!
I'm 19 and not too experienced with women, thinking of going to Thailand this year for a month and probably gonna go on some dates. From what I've seen and heard, Thai women should be pretty easy there as a young white western guy😂
Bros coping hard. Having one girl for all your life that you stick with is the most ideal situation. It’s hard to do though, that’s why most men will never have it
How can you differentiate between what a good and a bad quality woman is without experience? Like saying you can tell a good from a bad wine only ever having tasted one.
Great Video Jack, I think an important mention is that woman come as an accessory to a successful lifestyle. The focus should never be on the woman but on yourself and that in turn is attractive
Mr testosterone. i'm very grateful for the inforation you gave us throughout your journey on youtube and im not here to at all challenge your points on how to attract women. But stepping away from being a playboy should not be for women but for god, just as everything should be. To whoever reads this i pray god guides us both. WOO.
I agree with a lot of these points except the fornication. Look your best, and you’ll feel your best. Be strong, Save money, be disciplined, Set boundaries with people, especially women, and don’t be a needy, desperate pushover. You’ll be respected that way. All that’s missing is prioritizing The Lord Jesus Christ above all.
I’m trying to have a relationship like how God wants but it’s hard to in this generation. The times are different and this is what you need nowadays I guess. Let me know you thoughts because I want to know more
Tate actually says how having women around you helps you to get even more women in a club atmosphere, for example. He says this in his PHD course, also tristan has said this multiple times in his God Mode course
What a miserable mindset. I was a player for a good decade. Left me empty and ego driven. Now i share my life with with a (virgin) woman with high morals and a good heart and feel so much better. Young men, dont indulge in mindless sex or chase after woman only because they look hot or your ego wants you to.
But we will hold the past of women accountable, so would you want your future wife to be used by a playboy? Would you want your daughter to also? I sleep around but we’ve gotta ask these questions.
There is nothing in the world you have to offer if you think sticking a thumb nail of you sticking your tongue out mid greeting is cool. Very childlike and immature. Weak oversight.
All young guys should have fun and meet lots of different women. You learn what you like and don't like for sure. Plus you need to get it out your system otherwise you'll just fuck up later on when you actually care for someone
“Getting it out of your system” is taking crack to get it out of your system. You don’t. The thrill of what could be always stays with you until you give in and can’t stop.
Made by an AI btw. dont be fooled by others lol 00:01 Advice on not being a Playboy is absurd. 01:16 Become a man that can protect and provide. 02:27 Set boundaries and be willing to walk away in relationships. 03:44 Keep control of your life and space in relationships. 04:57 Women look for strength and dominance in a man. 06:11 Women prefer confidence and roughness in bed, not delicate treatment 07:29 Understanding the fundamentals of being good in the bedroom 08:46 Pre-selection is important to attract women.
bro running multiple girls is a time suck. I tried talking to two girls at once it was a headache. I naturally know which girls are girlfriend material. If she is partying at the club or goes out to bars all the time I am not wifing her. If she is really nice and empathic and has only been in long-term relationships then she is wifey material.
Dealing with retroactive jealousy every time I fall in love with a girl. They say I’m the best but always make me sick with some story of their ex. Do I need to grow up or look for a good girl with less of a past
What does protecting and providing have to do with sleeping around? Your explanation makes no sense 😂 Also, men don’t have to sleep around to know that they want a sweet, kind and caring woman who will be a loyal wife and a devoted mother. This video just makes you look like you’re coping for your sad life.
Besides religion, which a lot of people seem to be quoting here, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth living differently. “Heaven” and “hell” are places on earth, in our lives. It represents how we will live and feel and be psychologically and physically and everything… for the 2nd half of our life, past 40~45. If, in our youth (after 23~25, one can fool around and afford to make more mistakes before that), one lived in a way that made no sense and didn’t value what mattered, nor pursued and put time and effort into what truly matters in the long run… one can easily spend the 2nd half of life in a living hell of our own making as we rapidly age and suffer from lack of mastery or expertise, lack of meaningful and deeper relationships that stood the test of time, lack of meaning and lack of long term happiness. There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be. Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.” No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way. You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have… Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately. A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Same for a lot of “hows” or random flings we might have met in our youth: 99.999999% of them won’t remember your name or face after a short while. And none of these people will be there for you later in your life in a time of need, if you fall sick or have a difficult period, nor will they care about you or be present for you as you age past 35~45. Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes. So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, as long as it isn’t a pattern that lasts too long after 25 years old. It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience, and maybe it can bring forth better confidence in oneself during our youth. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young. But it depends a lot on age. After 25~27 years old, if one stays stuck in that mentality and pursuing solely pleasures of the flesh and instant gratification constantly… what awaits that kind of person can be a lot of suffering and pain for the remainder 2/3rds of their life, unless they wake the f*ck up and realize you need to build and cultivate more important and long lasting meaningful things as soon as possible, starting in our mid 20s at the latest: mastery (developing an expertise, 10 000 devoted to some meaningful or skillful field of study or sport/musical/etc practice you can become an expert at), as well as spending quality time with the people who truly matter and be there for you as you age past 35~40. Maintaining and investing time and effort into those precious and valuable, few relationships that stand the test of time. And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.” Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.” Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.” “I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.” “I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.” So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others. And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)… Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth. The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
Nah I wanna be happy and if I was truly attractive that would be possible. It's the only thing thats missing in my life plus the height which I need as well. All my friends have gfs/ are married and I'm tired of being told it's because of my personality when these guys just smoke weed all day.@@zkcrisyee
Everything here is definitely true. I think it's the order is a little off. You will NEVER be that good with women if you don't have game You can have all the looks and masculine traits you want but if you're not fun and charismatic women won't stick around. That's definitely something you should work on WHILE you're grinding on your purpose, fitness etc
This is true, I’m young but recently started taking better care of myself. Lost 40 lbs, got style on point, skin care down. Used to be a 5 now i’m a solid 7.5-8 (could get to a 8.5-9 if I cut down to see abs). After I glowed up I attracted 2 gf’s but they didn’t stick around for long. First one was 5 months and the 2nd was 3 months. Time to work on game and the internal confidence. Since i’ve always been ignored by girls when I was in school I find the attention from them so weird, people just treat me better just because of looks. So I didn’t know how to act with the girls because I literally had 0 experience and they could tell after a couple months. Last relationship hurt the most because she never gave me a reason but I know why… biggest lesson for me is to take initiative and be unapologetic.
Stay strong, brother. This is absolutely disgusting, but the majority of people think like this. Unfortunately, don't fall for these bullshit. Not a single high-quality woman would want a playboy as her husband. These guys think just because they attract good looking woman, then thats the way.
Besides religion, which a lot of people seem to be quoting here, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth living differently. “Heaven” and “hell” are places on earth, in our lives. It represents how we will live and feel and be psychologically and physically and everything… for the 2nd half of our life, past 40~45. If, in our youth (after 23~25, one can fool around and afford to make more mistakes before that), one lived in a way that made no sense and didn’t value what mattered, nor pursued and put time and effort into what truly matters in the long run… one can easily spend the 2nd half of life in a living hell of our own making as we rapidly age and suffer from lack of mastery or expertise, lack of meaningful and deeper relationships that stood the test of time, lack of meaning and lack of long term happiness. There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be. Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.” No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way. You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have… Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately. A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Same for a lot of “hows” or random flings we might have met in our youth: 99.999999% of them won’t remember your name or face after a short while. And none of these people will be there for you later in your life in a time of need, if you fall sick or have a difficult period, nor will they care about you or be present for you as you age past 35~45. Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes. So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, as long as it isn’t a pattern that lasts too long after 25 years old. It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience, and maybe it can bring forth better confidence in oneself during our youth. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young. But it depends a lot on age. After 25~27 years old, if one stays stuck in that mentality and pursuing solely pleasures of the flesh and instant gratification constantly… what awaits that kind of person can be a lot of suffering and pain for the remainder 2/3rds of their life, unless they wake the f*ck up and realize you need to build and cultivate more important and long lasting meaningful things as soon as possible, starting in our mid 20s at the latest: mastery (developing an expertise, 10 000 devoted to some meaningful or skillful field of study or sport/musical/etc practice you can become an expert at), as well as spending quality time with the people who truly matter and be there for you as you age past 35~40. Maintaining and investing time and effort into those precious and valuable, few relationships that stand the test of time. And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.” Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.” Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.” “I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.” “I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.” So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others. And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)… Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth. The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
Going through my fboy ere rn after getting my heart broken about 6 month ago and other than the fun, I've learnt and still are learning a lot about females and i fully understand now that its mandatory every guy goes through one of these eras as to know a good apple from a bad apple you need to go through a lot of apples. Sick video as always🔥
Bros a flop. How can he be giving advice he’s not even experienced enough. You should be the age close near David attenborough to give solid, family worthy, woman magnetising, advice.
can you do a video on how to leave the friendzone? there is this girl i know that likes me and thinks im very attractive, but my nice behavior and lack of rizz got myself friendzoned
brutal blackpill here, you got friendzoned because shes not attracted to you. attraction is a universal unspoken language. womens behavior ALWAYS changes around men they want to "mate" with. dont trust their words trust their actions. if shes all over you, touchy, playing with her hair, always looks you in the eyes smoldering, always wants to be around you or have your attention, looks her best when shes around you, those are good tell tales thats shes into you physically. even if you're a assh*le of a guy, she would look past that because you are inately attractive
@@localdenjifan bro every person i ask about my looks says i could be a male model lol, i got a nice physique too, and when she said i was handsome she spammed compliments it wasnt just a "you are handsome" and leave it there, said "if you were here so many girls would throw themselves at you, you are tall, you could literally be a male model", she is a model herself so she knows what she is talking about i really think is lack of rizz, women get turned off by certain men behaviors if you deny that is ridiculous, and an average looking man can rizz up a baddie if he knows how to, look up madisson beer ex boyfriend he was hella ugly compared to her, many cases
Honestly if you want to just do a shortcut if I was a man just work out and higher models Honestly I’d like a wholesome little virgin girl that doesn’t date So do I like this Adice no . I feel like a fraud if I followed it and if people found out but I’m pretty sure that’s even with celebrities are doing and buying followers it’s just how it is😭
Besides religion, which a lot of people seem to be quoting here, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth living differently. “Heaven” and “hell” are places on earth, in our lives. It represents how we will live and feel and be psychologically and physically and everything… for the 2nd half of our life, past 40~45. If, in our youth (after 23~25, one can fool around and afford to make more mistakes before that), one lived in a way that made no sense and didn’t value what mattered, nor pursued and put time and effort into what truly matters in the long run… one can easily spend the 2nd half of life in a living hell of our own making as we rapidly age and suffer from lack of mastery or expertise, lack of meaningful and deeper relationships that stood the test of time, lack of meaning and lack of long term happiness. There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be. Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.” No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way. You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have… Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately. A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Same for a lot of “hows” or random flings we might have met in our youth: 99.999999% of them won’t remember your name or face after a short while. And none of these people will be there for you later in your life in a time of need, if you fall sick or have a difficult period, nor will they care about you or be present for you as you age past 35~45. Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes. So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, as long as it isn’t a pattern that lasts too long after 25 years old. It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience, and maybe it can bring forth better confidence in oneself during our youth. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young. But it depends a lot on age. After 25~27 years old, if one stays stuck in that mentality and pursuing solely pleasures of the flesh and instant gratification constantly… what awaits that kind of person can be a lot of suffering and pain for the remainder 2/3rds of their life, unless they wake the f*ck up and realize you need to build and cultivate more important and long lasting meaningful things as soon as possible, starting in our mid 20s at the latest: mastery (developing an expertise, 10 000 devoted to some meaningful or skillful field of study or sport/musical/etc practice you can become an expert at), as well as spending quality time with the people who truly matter and be there for you as you age past 35~40. Maintaining and investing time and effort into those precious and valuable, few relationships that stand the test of time. And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.” Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.” Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.” “I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.” “I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.” So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others. And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)… Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth. The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
I actually disagree with part of the first point. You don't necessarily need to have sex to know if a woman is good for you. If your religious do not go agaisnt your beliefs to get "experience". You can still date women figure out if personalities match and stuff. But in the end what makes you know what you want from a woman is knowing what you want from life and being unbending on that. Ive dated women that didnt fit what i wanted for my life just because they were fine or our personalities matched quite well. But in the end what matters is does shit fit your life. Do you want to be a family man? Then dont get a girl who liked to party a lot and says she doesnt like kids. Want to live in a rural area then dont date someone who loves to live in the city. These are the things that make you know what you want from women. You dont need sex for it.
There are some people who don't want to have sex with their girls because they are religious. When you are young you should focus on your physique, health and wealth. If you want a girlfriend while you are young, find one that will help you achieve your goals. Also, what's the point to date a lot of women that you found in a club? A girlfriend that's wifey material is much different from most women, so the "experience" won't be that useful
good point
Did you watch the video? The point is to have experience with women. How do you know how to find a woman who is “wifey material” with no experience? Lack of experience is exactly why most men get finessed in relationships
@@user-ze4cx5sn5c bro don't cope. You know how a wifey material girl is. She doesn't go to a party every weekend, she doesn't get drunk, she doesn't have an OF, she does not want the latest iphone or a new purse every month, she cares about you, she is healthy, she goes to the gym, she is not degenerate
@user-ze4cx5sn5c nobody ever said I lack experience so I don't know what I want in my wife
@@mrfir3734you are confusing what constitutes a “wifey material” girl with how to get her interested and invested in you.
Another vid already?! Man’s discipline is crazier than ever.. Thank you for the inspiration as always, G🔥
This is crazy, this is guy is going in the wrong direction of life, fucking around is never a good thing, and you can't convince me otherwise
Finally i thought everyone was crazy here
Its fine just not for guys like you.
Besides religion, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth differently.
There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be.
Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.”
No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way.
You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have…
Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately.
A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes.
So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, it’s honestly whatever… It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young.
And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.”
Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.”
Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.”
“I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.”
“I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.”
So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others.
And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)…
Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth.
The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
Besides religion, which a lot of people seem to be quoting here, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth living differently. “Heaven” and “hell” are places on earth, in our lives. It represents how we will live and feel and be psychologically and physically and everything… for the 2nd half of our life, past 40~45. If, in our youth (after 23~25, one can fool around and afford to make more mistakes before that), one lived in a way that made no sense and didn’t value what mattered, nor pursued and put time and effort into what truly matters in the long run… one can easily spend the 2nd half of life in a living hell of our own making as we rapidly age and suffer from lack of mastery or expertise, lack of meaningful and deeper relationships that stood the test of time, lack of meaning and lack of long term happiness.
There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be.
Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.”
No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way.
You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have…
Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately.
A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Same for a lot of “hows” or random flings we might have met in our youth: 99.999999% of them won’t remember your name or face after a short while. And none of these people will be there for you later in your life in a time of need, if you fall sick or have a difficult period, nor will they care about you or be present for you as you age past 35~45.
Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes.
So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, as long as it isn’t a pattern that lasts too long after 25 years old. It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience, and maybe it can bring forth better confidence in oneself during our youth. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young. But it depends a lot on age. After 25~27 years old, if one stays stuck in that mentality and pursuing solely pleasures of the flesh and instant gratification constantly… what awaits that kind of person can be a lot of suffering and pain for the remainder 2/3rds of their life, unless they wake the f*ck up and realize you need to build and cultivate more important and long lasting meaningful things as soon as possible, starting in our mid 20s at the latest: mastery (developing an expertise, 10 000 devoted to some meaningful or skillful field of study or sport/musical/etc practice you can become an expert at), as well as spending quality time with the people who truly matter and be there for you as you age past 35~40. Maintaining and investing time and effort into those precious and valuable, few relationships that stand the test of time.
And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.”
Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.”
Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.”
“I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.”
“I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.”
So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others.
And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)…
Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth.
The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
@@MikeJensen-w2vyou’ll find that STD is gonna be just for you if you ain’t careful tho.
Jack you did it again! The last 3 videos been crazy good. This channel gonna explode this year 📈📈📈
Women are not the focus. They’re the bonus. 😎
Need to prioritise this and say that it's not the be all and end all if you just go round having s*x with women when you are in your 20s. But you should definitely PRIORITIZE dating, take them on dates, learn their body language, treat them with respect. Doing these things alongside the s*x is better for experience instead of just having s*x all the time. Also, if you struggle in the west then you aren't alone. Go to south east asia and let your dreams run wild!
I'm 19 and not too experienced with women, thinking of going to Thailand this year for a month and probably gonna go on some dates. From what I've seen and heard, Thai women should be pretty easy there as a young white western guy😂
Good advice
stop race mixing. @@the-real-world
have fun with a 5"4 mixed race offspring i guess@@the-real-world
get yourself a aryan wifey, only if youre husband material though. until then, have fun with the easy subhumans@@the-real-world
Bros coping hard. Having one girl for all your life that you stick with is the most ideal situation. It’s hard to do though, that’s why most men will never have it
Ur coping, how can you get women without experience. It’s like saying ur going to the nba without touching a ball.
How can you differentiate between what a good and a bad quality woman is without experience?
Like saying you can tell a good from a bad wine only ever having tasted one.
Great Video Jack, I think an important mention is that woman come as an accessory to a successful lifestyle. The focus should never be on the woman but on yourself and that in turn is attractive
if you're worried about "showing your emotions" to a girl that is a massive red flag of insecurity on your part
Yea ok 😂
Love and respect for the daily vids. Appreciate that.
Love the daily uploads bro. Keep up the hustling G.
Some excellent points in this video
Mr testosterone. i'm very grateful for the inforation you gave us throughout your journey on youtube and im not here to at all challenge your points on how to attract women. But stepping away from being a playboy should not be for women but for god, just as everything should be. To whoever reads this i pray god guides us both. WOO.
Mr testosterone😆
Agreed 🤝☦️
The man himself Jack Hopkins! Great video. Onwards and upwards to you brother as always!
The CEO is on fire in 2024 🔥
Bro, if you could create playlists for your different video types, it would be great for your channel.
Thought this would be another pick-up artist, avoidant attachment issue video, but you pleasantly surprised me. Very reasonable takes.
I needed to see this so badly.
Great words my friend, you nailed it on point
Nothing but facts here.
You're that clickbait guy right?
I feel bad for all the young lads following his advice. May the Lord God bless you all and guide you onto better paths brothers!
amen brother
Legit
I agree with you, but not all of it is wrong. Look for the nuggets of truth that the Lord would agree with.
I agree with a lot of these points except the fornication.
Look your best, and you’ll feel your best. Be strong, Save money, be disciplined, Set boundaries with people, especially women, and don’t be a needy, desperate pushover. You’ll be respected that way.
All that’s missing is prioritizing The Lord Jesus Christ above all.
I’m trying to have a relationship like how God wants but it’s hard to in this generation. The times are different and this is what you need nowadays I guess. Let me know you thoughts because I want to know more
Tate actually says how having women around you helps you to get even more women in a club atmosphere, for example. He says this in his PHD course, also tristan has said this multiple times in his God Mode course
What a miserable mindset. I was a player for a good decade. Left me empty and ego driven. Now i share my life with with a (virgin) woman with high morals and a good heart and feel so much better. Young men, dont indulge in mindless sex or chase after woman only because they look hot or your ego wants you to.
But we will hold the past of women accountable, so would you want your future wife to be used by a playboy? Would you want your daughter to also?
I sleep around but we’ve gotta ask these questions.
Of course we keep them accountable. Men and women are opposites. They look for experience we don't
holy shit,priceless tips,love you bro❤
There is nothing in the world you have to offer if you think sticking a thumb nail of you sticking your tongue out mid greeting is cool. Very childlike and immature. Weak oversight.
fr
Cope. you ain’t gunna find a woman worth keeping if you aren’t someone who deserves that woman
Real.
All young guys should have fun and meet lots of different women. You learn what you like and don't like for sure. Plus you need to get it out your system otherwise you'll just fuck up later on when you actually care for someone
If you can’t control your urges you’re not a man
“Getting it out of your system” is taking crack to get it out of your system. You don’t. The thrill of what could be always stays with you until you give in and can’t stop.
Its your choice is you want to sleep around or not, but you need to know you can.
Made by an AI btw. dont be fooled by others lol
00:01 Advice on not being a Playboy is absurd.
01:16 Become a man that can protect and provide.
02:27 Set boundaries and be willing to walk away in relationships.
03:44 Keep control of your life and space in relationships.
04:57 Women look for strength and dominance in a man.
06:11 Women prefer confidence and roughness in bed, not delicate treatment
07:29 Understanding the fundamentals of being good in the bedroom
08:46 Pre-selection is important to attract women.
What ai
@@scumbagdad2761 merlin
I’m french but still listen and like the mood here 💪🏼🤝
I love you british "character" accent :D
bro running multiple girls is a time suck. I tried talking to two girls at once it was a headache. I naturally know which girls are girlfriend material. If she is partying at the club or goes out to bars all the time I am not wifing her. If she is really nice and empathic and has only been in long-term relationships then she is wifey material.
Amazing advice man,
Dealing with retroactive jealousy every time I fall in love with a girl. They say I’m the best but always make me sick with some story of their ex. Do I need to grow up or look for a good girl with less of a past
Good girl with less of a past
Good stuff!
Nice video quality bro!
Bro your shirt is amazing where is it from
Consistency king>❤
What does protecting and providing have to do with sleeping around? Your explanation makes no sense 😂
Also, men don’t have to sleep around to know that they want a sweet, kind and caring woman who will be a loyal wife and a devoted mother.
This video just makes you look like you’re coping for your sad life.
Of course he makes no sense.
He charges 3 thousand for his dating course.
Besides religion, which a lot of people seem to be quoting here, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth living differently. “Heaven” and “hell” are places on earth, in our lives. It represents how we will live and feel and be psychologically and physically and everything… for the 2nd half of our life, past 40~45. If, in our youth (after 23~25, one can fool around and afford to make more mistakes before that), one lived in a way that made no sense and didn’t value what mattered, nor pursued and put time and effort into what truly matters in the long run… one can easily spend the 2nd half of life in a living hell of our own making as we rapidly age and suffer from lack of mastery or expertise, lack of meaningful and deeper relationships that stood the test of time, lack of meaning and lack of long term happiness.
There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be.
Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.”
No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way.
You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have…
Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately.
A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Same for a lot of “hows” or random flings we might have met in our youth: 99.999999% of them won’t remember your name or face after a short while. And none of these people will be there for you later in your life in a time of need, if you fall sick or have a difficult period, nor will they care about you or be present for you as you age past 35~45.
Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes.
So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, as long as it isn’t a pattern that lasts too long after 25 years old. It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience, and maybe it can bring forth better confidence in oneself during our youth. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young. But it depends a lot on age. After 25~27 years old, if one stays stuck in that mentality and pursuing solely pleasures of the flesh and instant gratification constantly… what awaits that kind of person can be a lot of suffering and pain for the remainder 2/3rds of their life, unless they wake the f*ck up and realize you need to build and cultivate more important and long lasting meaningful things as soon as possible, starting in our mid 20s at the latest: mastery (developing an expertise, 10 000 devoted to some meaningful or skillful field of study or sport/musical/etc practice you can become an expert at), as well as spending quality time with the people who truly matter and be there for you as you age past 35~40. Maintaining and investing time and effort into those precious and valuable, few relationships that stand the test of time.
And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.”
Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.”
Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.”
“I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.”
“I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.”
So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others.
And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)…
Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth.
The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
Nah I wanna be happy and if I was truly attractive that would be possible.
It's the only thing thats missing in my life plus the height which I need as well.
All my friends have gfs/ are married and I'm tired of being told it's because of my personality when these guys just smoke weed all day.@@zkcrisyee
Broo thank you , facts
They keep saying some bs
Could use another breakup guide video G. Keep up the good work
guys nobody need a guide for asian woman 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He's playing on easy mode. White, tall, good looking dude in Asia. U can't do the same in the West, especially if ur short and ugly 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Great video spot on
Where do STIs fit into this? These guys always leave this out of the story.
I’m a women that doesn’t like rules
Also a financially abundant women
Eww do some looksmaxxing aunty
Everything here is definitely true. I think it's the order is a little off. You will NEVER be that good with women if you don't have game
You can have all the looks and masculine traits you want but if you're not fun and charismatic women won't stick around. That's definitely something you should work on WHILE you're grinding on your purpose, fitness etc
This is true, I’m young but recently started taking better care of myself. Lost 40 lbs, got style on point, skin care down. Used to be a 5 now i’m a solid 7.5-8 (could get to a 8.5-9 if I cut down to see abs). After I glowed up I attracted 2 gf’s but they didn’t stick around for long. First one was 5 months and the 2nd was 3 months. Time to work on game and the internal confidence. Since i’ve always been ignored by girls when I was in school I find the attention from them so weird, people just treat me better just because of looks. So I didn’t know how to act with the girls because I literally had 0 experience and they could tell after a couple months. Last relationship hurt the most because she never gave me a reason but I know why… biggest lesson for me is to take initiative and be unapologetic.
Game is just being comfortable with yourself not a bunch of regurgitated BS.
@@ragebait988 agreed, What guys call game isi really just being a man
Need more of ur experience
Spot on video
Where does the shirt comes from my G ? Would appreciate thanks
Your impressions of a wankerboy are too good 🤣😂
What’s the G’s guide to dealing with rejection from women?
I think everyone should just do Monk mode because being a playboy get to Saltyz because you addicted to sex really scary
Advice on not being a playboy is absurd. Now go and buy my overpriced course on how to be a playboy :D
Shout out fam
How do u get hot girls if the guy ain't good looking or tall...
Be funny that’s way more important then looks and money
usually you don't, unless you have a shit ton of other attributes.
Yep nothing but cope here.
I'll be on my way back to rotting.@BagietkaYTofficall
That was great
I can’t say this enough this man never misses, “the girl is the reflection of the man” I was lazy never again!! a broken heart is the best preworkout😤
Fucking amazing video Jack
he has a lot of wisdom
@BagietkaYTofficall at least i am better than you
@BagietkaYTofficall but i feel better so it does
@@fitmind231bro u a clown , you even like your own comments
I see everyone with a different woman everyday. Is this the way God intended?
Stay strong, brother. This is absolutely disgusting, but the majority of people think like this. Unfortunately, don't fall for these bullshit. Not a single high-quality woman would want a playboy as her husband. These guys think just because they attract good looking woman, then thats the way.
All women are poly imo.
@@iOmegaToxic
@@iOmegaToxic you’re right brother
Besides religion, which a lot of people seem to be quoting here, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth living differently. “Heaven” and “hell” are places on earth, in our lives. It represents how we will live and feel and be psychologically and physically and everything… for the 2nd half of our life, past 40~45. If, in our youth (after 23~25, one can fool around and afford to make more mistakes before that), one lived in a way that made no sense and didn’t value what mattered, nor pursued and put time and effort into what truly matters in the long run… one can easily spend the 2nd half of life in a living hell of our own making as we rapidly age and suffer from lack of mastery or expertise, lack of meaningful and deeper relationships that stood the test of time, lack of meaning and lack of long term happiness.
There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be.
Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.”
No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way.
You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have…
Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately.
A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Same for a lot of “hows” or random flings we might have met in our youth: 99.999999% of them won’t remember your name or face after a short while. And none of these people will be there for you later in your life in a time of need, if you fall sick or have a difficult period, nor will they care about you or be present for you as you age past 35~45.
Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes.
So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, as long as it isn’t a pattern that lasts too long after 25 years old. It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience, and maybe it can bring forth better confidence in oneself during our youth. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young. But it depends a lot on age. After 25~27 years old, if one stays stuck in that mentality and pursuing solely pleasures of the flesh and instant gratification constantly… what awaits that kind of person can be a lot of suffering and pain for the remainder 2/3rds of their life, unless they wake the f*ck up and realize you need to build and cultivate more important and long lasting meaningful things as soon as possible, starting in our mid 20s at the latest: mastery (developing an expertise, 10 000 devoted to some meaningful or skillful field of study or sport/musical/etc practice you can become an expert at), as well as spending quality time with the people who truly matter and be there for you as you age past 35~40. Maintaining and investing time and effort into those precious and valuable, few relationships that stand the test of time.
And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.”
Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.”
Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.”
“I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.”
“I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.”
So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others.
And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)…
Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth.
The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
Great video
Going through my fboy ere rn after getting my heart broken about 6 month ago and other than the fun, I've learnt and still are learning a lot about females and i fully understand now that its mandatory every guy goes through one of these eras as to know a good apple from a bad apple you need to go through a lot of apples. Sick video as always🔥
May the Lord Jesus Christ bless you and guide you on better paths brother! ❤
Fair play mate
@@drenkix3311 🥸
I look up to you like a god. My life sucks i am nothing like you.
W CONTENT!
💯 true 🙌
The 3 P's of Men:
Protect
Provide
Procreate
Bros a flop. How can he be giving advice he’s not even experienced enough. You should be the age close near David attenborough to give solid, family worthy, woman magnetising, advice.
9:30 also a lot of men making good money are working too long to get a gf
my question is like who are you
What u said is a good point no doubt, but when u become a sex addict, it becomes hard to get married 😂. N ur doing this with good intentions. ❤
Thanks
can you do a video on how to leave the friendzone? there is this girl i know that likes me and thinks im very attractive, but my nice behavior and lack of rizz got myself friendzoned
brutal blackpill here, you got friendzoned because shes not attracted to you. attraction is a universal unspoken language. womens behavior ALWAYS changes around men they want to "mate" with. dont trust their words trust their actions. if shes all over you, touchy, playing with her hair, always looks you in the eyes smoldering, always wants to be around you or have your attention, looks her best when shes around you, those are good tell tales thats shes into you physically. even if you're a assh*le of a guy, she would look past that because you are inately attractive
if she was honest about being attracted to you, then her actions would show it. you got friendzoned because she lied to boost your ego, sorry bud
@@localdenjifan bro every person i ask about my looks says i could be a male model lol, i got a nice physique too, and when she said i was handsome she spammed compliments it wasnt just a "you are handsome" and leave it there, said "if you were here so many girls would throw themselves at you, you are tall, you could literally be a male model", she is a model herself so she knows what she is talking about
i really think is lack of rizz, women get turned off by certain men behaviors if you deny that is ridiculous, and an average looking man can rizz up a baddie if he knows how to, look up madisson beer ex boyfriend he was hella ugly compared to her, many cases
@@localdenjifan women like assholes and hate overly nice guys, you just confirmed is about rizz dude
Stop saying 'rizz' for starters
You got it all wrong. Saving yourself for marriage is to honour God
Your friend Hamza is the main pusher of anti playboy propaganda
fire
Letsgoooo
Honestly if you want to just do a shortcut if I was a man just work out and higher models Honestly I’d like a wholesome little virgin girl that doesn’t date So do I like this Adice no . I feel like a fraud if I followed it and if people found out but I’m pretty sure that’s even with celebrities are doing and buying followers it’s just how it is😭
i hope you take as much money as u can from this weird virgin guys champ, good luck 🙏🏻
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you look like that guy in Boys in a Boat
Are you blonde or ginger?
He looks dirty blonde
Well I am not A G so probably useless for me just like how i am
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Love a lot of your content but, as a Muslim here I Have to disagree Jack
As an Orthodox, I have to agree with you brother 🤝
Besides religion, which a lot of people seem to be quoting here, there is also philosophical differences in how some choose to people live their lives and find fulfillment. It isn’t as much about “morality” or some form of conditioning around fear of “heaven or hell” we should be looking at this, but more as acknowledging the inevitability of aging and, of course, death. The time we have on this earth is very limited, it isn’t as long as we think. And it is extremely easy not to realize it until we’re past 40 years old and it starts becoming too late to go back in time and change things, or spend our short life on this earth living differently. “Heaven” and “hell” are places on earth, in our lives. It represents how we will live and feel and be psychologically and physically and everything… for the 2nd half of our life, past 40~45. If, in our youth (after 23~25, one can fool around and afford to make more mistakes before that), one lived in a way that made no sense and didn’t value what mattered, nor pursued and put time and effort into what truly matters in the long run… one can easily spend the 2nd half of life in a living hell of our own making as we rapidly age and suffer from lack of mastery or expertise, lack of meaningful and deeper relationships that stood the test of time, lack of meaning and lack of long term happiness.
There is something more though. Your tombstone and what you leave behind as HERITAGE, posterity, infinity, after your death. Past 35~45 years old, meaning comes more and more from heritage, generativity, what we leave behind for the world and others. What our legacy will be.
Do you want your tombstone to say: “[insert name here] banged X number of random women he never truly knew nor remained in contact with during the last half of his life. That was his biggest accomplishment towards humanity.”
No. Nobody who becomes psychologically and philosophically mature enough thinks that way, nor do 99% of people over the age of ~45 generally think that way.
You have to become aware of your own mortality in order to accomplish something meaningful with your life. Nobody lives forever, nobody is immortal, no matter if you feel the illusion of invincibility and the illusion of immortality when you are young. As we age, what begins to matter most for 99% of people is the deeper, more meaningful relationships we managed to build and have…
Our parents, uncles and aunts will all die when we enter our 40s and 50s. Our children will gradually distance themselves from us as they enter 15~25 years old, to spend time building their own lives and families. Only our siblings and our spouse will remain very present for a big chunk of our lives with us. And even then, it’s not in all families that our siblings are in good terms, unfortunately.
A lot of “friends” or “bros” or “mates”, we thought mattered when we were younger, will be gone and not around. Same for a lot of “hows” or random flings we might have met in our youth: 99.999999% of them won’t remember your name or face after a short while. And none of these people will be there for you later in your life in a time of need, if you fall sick or have a difficult period, nor will they care about you or be present for you as you age past 35~45.
Yet most important studies have shown that besides siblings and our spouse… deeper, meaningful, real, true, reliable, present and trustworthy friendships that stand the test of time is the #1 factor that is linked to greater happiness in the second half of life, from 40 years old until death. And it becomes more and more of an important factor in our overall happiness, psychological well being and even our physical health, as time passes.
So… I’m not saying what this guy is doing and how he is living his life is not necessarily such a bad thing, as long as it isn’t a pattern that lasts too long after 25 years old. It’s fine to have fun, party and be extroverted when we’re young, if that’s what one wants to experience, and maybe it can bring forth better confidence in oneself during our youth. But one must remain vigilant: TIME is extremely precious, the most valuable resource there is. And time passes fast. Life is shorter than we tend to believe when we’re young. But it depends a lot on age. After 25~27 years old, if one stays stuck in that mentality and pursuing solely pleasures of the flesh and instant gratification constantly… what awaits that kind of person can be a lot of suffering and pain for the remainder 2/3rds of their life, unless they wake the f*ck up and realize you need to build and cultivate more important and long lasting meaningful things as soon as possible, starting in our mid 20s at the latest: mastery (developing an expertise, 10 000 devoted to some meaningful or skillful field of study or sport/musical/etc practice you can become an expert at), as well as spending quality time with the people who truly matter and be there for you as you age past 35~40. Maintaining and investing time and effort into those precious and valuable, few relationships that stand the test of time.
And when we’re in our mid life and we start getting older, we all look back and can have major regrets. “I wish I spent more time with my father/mother before they unexpectedly passed away from [X] medical issue.”. Or: “I wish I had spent less time f*cking random people I never knew more deeply and that probably don’t remember I exist now… and I wish I had cultivated more meaningful relationships with a few loyal and meaningful friends instead.”
Or, when we’re even older: “I wish I had pursued my passion of doing [X] and achieved mastery in it, instead of wasting my time living on the basis of appearances and pursuing shallow goals.”
Lots of old people I’ve worked with had similar thoughts. “I wish I had learnt guitar or an instrument instead of acting a fool and pursuing fleeting, ephemeral instant gratification, through sex, drugs, gambling, partying too much, other meaningless endeavours.”
“I wish I had spent more time with loved ones. I wish I had taken the time to develop a deeper relationship with my spouse, that I had paid more attention to her/him instead of chasing so much illusions of grandiosity and attention over strangers I didn’t even know personally or deeply.”
“I wish I had a meaningful life, and that the legacy I left behind was more meaningful.”
So… do with that what you will, whoever is reading this. And read “Mastery” by Robert Greene. It takes 10 000 hours and around 10 years of practice to become an expert at something… potentially leaving behind a more meaningful legacy if you do so. No amount of marketing or showing off or being too shallow or narcissistic in our younger years will make up for the lack of dedication to something that is meaningful and passionates us, something that will have an impact on the world and others.
And besides that mastery goal, taking care of spending sufficient time building long term, durable, meaningful relationships that will stand the test of time and be there even as we get older… with the few people that matter (siblings, spouse, TRUE friends which are hard to come by, are precious are can only be counter of the fingers of one or two hands at most, over the course of a lifetime)…
Well that is all that will matter for the 1/2 of the time of your life on this earth or more, past 35~40. And if you didn’t spend enough time cultivating and building and growing those things… You will suffer immensely for decades on end, since the random people you spent time f*cking around with and having ephemeral pleasure and gratification with… won’t be around with you as you age, they won’t even remember your name or your face or who you are. None of that will even matter. All great men in history who wrote about this realized it. Our goals and idea of “success” and “greatness” tends to change immensely a week quickly age during and past 30~40. What will matter is the real value of our legacy and heritage in the world, not the egocentric and ephemeral illusions we obsessed about during some of our immature youth.
The younger we realize this, the most we will achieve a meaningful life and the more we will spare ourselves immense suffering for all the years we live between 35 and 88 years old, or however long we will live the last 2/3rds of our lives. Be mindful if that, not out of any sort of “morality” or conditioning about “heaven and hell”, but because you can guarantee yourself and your loved ones happiness, as well as have more meaning to your life for the last 2/3rds of it. Else you will regret it immensely when you’re past that point in life, and life can easily become hell on earth if you didn’t spent enough time truly building and cultivating valuable and meaningful things that outlast your short youth: meaningful relationships, mastery, learning, being able to leave behind a meaningful and impactful legacy.
do a new vid about your new sex skills
Hey it was great and we are really looking forward to the new sex tips video 😁😁
ur kind of a nerd bro
I actually disagree with part of the first point. You don't necessarily need to have sex to know if a woman is good for you. If your religious do not go agaisnt your beliefs to get "experience". You can still date women figure out if personalities match and stuff. But in the end what makes you know what you want from a woman is knowing what you want from life and being unbending on that. Ive dated women that didnt fit what i wanted for my life just because they were fine or our personalities matched quite well. But in the end what matters is does shit fit your life. Do you want to be a family man? Then dont get a girl who liked to party a lot and says she doesnt like kids. Want to live in a rural area then dont date someone who loves to live in the city. These are the things that make you know what you want from women. You dont need sex for it.
Love the point of not letting women move in for no reason. And that women arent your emotional support. That is the truest thing!!
Whatever about what is coming outta your mouth sir, THAT/the visual is not a good look fella
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Has this guy shown any receipts?
Seems like a grafter who rubs one out to Tate on the regular