Cool points, Just remember we have all been at points in life where we think we are spitting truth, a few years later you often realise you were mistaken
Great video but the way I roll is I look for a girl that already acts this way. Big difference to find a girl that never posts half naked pics and has a private ig already vs “training” her to not post those pics. Those 2 mentality’s are completely different
Top marks on your five points. It bears repeating men sets and enforces the boundaries/ expectations in a serious relationship with a woman, exceptionally attractive or not. One other boundary I would strongly recommend, setting a monetary budget for the relationship. Letting a woman know you EARNED your financial stability and it isn't from some professional contract is probably the best tests you can give to a woman to determine if she respects YOU and not a "lifestyle".
I’m a 58 year old man who doesn’t drink smoke or does drugs I’m divorced and have relationships with lots of women some beautiful and some not so But I have to say this whole thing makes you sound very controlling I wouldn’t dream of telling a girl she HAS to train and CANNOT drink any alcohol I don’t want a woman who’s a drinker or a lazy out of shape Heffa but steady on with the demands Guys
Nice one Jack. As a Muslim a lot of these points are common practice. I like how you emphasize that it is up to themselves and they are not forced. I just turned 40. Divorced four boys and building up for the next relationship. Take care 💪 👊
Could you please share some books that you give your girlfriend? Perhaps something that helps her stay in a feminine frame or how she should conduct herself as a woman in a relationship and treat her man... Also - here's a VIDEO IDEA :could you please make a video about how to act in social situations with your girl and how your girl should treat you in social situations? (For example when going out to a club) Which boundaries do you have for her when going out? Such as not talking over you etc.
This could be way more simple of a process if you just show up as you are and build a connection. If there's something you like to do, just invite them to do it with you. If whatever you like is unreasonably a deal breaker to them, move on. Otherwise change, and make it work. People don't have to be exactly like you for a relationship to work. Instead of trying to change others, just find someone who actually has common values and matches your lifestyle.
No disrespect, but I have a different take. She shouldn`t feel pressured to behave a certain way. If her behaviour doesn`t agree with you inform her, but don`t be demanding. Also, don`t make demands on her that you don`t make on yourself. Be humble and honest. Perhaps the most important ingredient in a successful relationship is mutual respect. That includes self respect. It also includes seeing something in your partner that you yourself lack but respect. This does not mean unconditional adoration or that you put yourself below your partner, again you must have core self respect. This deep respect however I find is an important factor that helps to prevent one, when arguing, to be disrespectful and take harmful action towards your partner. This in turn gives yourself more self respect, and boosts your sense of selfworth, which makes you more attractive, and so it goes on. This is the way both you and your partnership keeps growing stronger and healthier as time goes by. Respect yourself, and your partner. If you or your partner cannot meet these standards in your behaviour towards each other, then you are probably not right for each other.
We have very similar philosophies on the positive, note the juxtposition tends somewhat thwarting albeit organic sounding, resonating less pedantic in frame and frustration banal.
What do you define as PARTYING? Because going dancing to good music is very healthy and nourishing for the mind body and soul. Plus it does not need to include drugs or alcohol.
Number 5 is a big one. Theres bare man out there who's bird has 1 photo of them on insta and the rest are bikini or dress photos. Brother she advertising herself to find a better man and replace you. You just temporary.
@@enz0zz702 i totally agree. when i got into the relationship i didnt really knew her character plus the important of it. now im facing a lot of trouble on a daily basis...
I will give you some non-bullshit advice that you may not want to hear. It’s NEVER too late to try and implement things you want in a relationship. And your woman will probably accept quite a lot more guidance than you expect. However that being said there is such thing as a woman’s starting point. That is, when you first met her, how much of the good habits was she ALREADY invested in? Because if you start implementing these changes and things are going well, eventually there will be a rough patch in the relationship and she will “Snap back” to said starting point. Hamza has a really good video on this Rubber band effect. Search (Hamza unfiltered My ex slept with multiple men but I really want to get back with her) I know it may be hard to keep an abundance mindset especially with someone you love. Not saying you should break up with her but integrate this truth FULLY into your psyche or risk losing everything. Best of luck
The second you "set frame with beautiful women," you have no "frame." You can choose between being authentic, and being a loser. There are no other options.
If you’re already doing all these things as a girl, and you’re a natural 7-8 (ie without heavy make up, fillers, fake boobs etc), how do you meet/find someone who values these things?
Think about where those type of men would socialize or hang out @lolabradley6548. Work on discernment so you identify which ones are the real deal and which ones are faking it. Look at memberships to elite social clubs, professional organizations in certain industries, etc. sometimes it’s things that cost money. If there is a social club where the membership fee is $5000 a year, there will be a different caliber of man there. Then once you’re in those types of places, be ready to compete with other women. The women there all understand what is at stake even if they don’t verbalize it. Hope this helps
These rules are basically characteristics of a woman that reflect that of a high value man. Given that the guy already is a HVM. If not, that should be step one.
My girl lives up to this standard. I’m missing financial security but everything else is high value, regarding looks, charisma, health. Just need to make this online business work.
Number 6 - she will tell you everything you want to hear and be a Chameleon to please you if the juice is worth the squeeze. Never lose control of your financial leadership. Have a lawyer. It’s business. It takes years to truly know if it will work.
I'm single. I'm a prize that nobody seems to want. 90% of beautiful women want to drink and party. I haven't drank in over 20 years. Social life was gone with the booze.
This info would've mattered to me in the 90s but I'm on another level now. Women are a liability, not an asset. Living your best life is by yourself without kids. You'll see one day..
Proverbs 18:22 [22] He who finds a wife finds a good thing And obtains favor from the Lord. I'm about to anger all the 'alpha males' by saying the woman is the prize, especially if a good woman is truly as scarce as you believe. And here's the thing: a woman can inseminate herself and carry on with her life having a family and things that fulfill a person by her lonesome. Obviously not ideal, but possible. What hope does a man have in anything other than himself and his posessions without a woman? He will die with everything he had when he was born.
I am a woman n I agree with your rule number 1 and 2 and I want to go to the gym ahahah I do already self development readying books! I don't even have Instagram!!! (I'm cute n pretty)🎉
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Jack be doing that big bro stuff we all need
cool pic
Clown 🤡
too real
Brother, the timing of this is impeccable. Thank you G
Just started to re-build my confidence with women, stopped drinking for good, working on myself and following your advice!
Cool points, Just remember we have all been at points in life where we think we are spitting truth, a few years later you often realise you were mistaken
You are doing really well brother. Bless you! Good vibrations and positivity here. ✨
1. No partying
2. No alcohol
3. Must go to gym/eat well
4. Must read self help books
5. No sexy pics online
Great video but the way I roll is I look for a girl that already acts this way. Big difference to find a girl that never posts half naked pics and has a private ig already vs “training” her to not post those pics. Those 2 mentality’s are completely different
Ask most Asian women to do these things for you and they will....ask most Western women and you've picked a fight. Choose wisely lads
Not true at all lol
American chicks really be bucking
absolutely love your videos, especially this everyday streak you have rn
Stay hard 💪🤝
Top marks on your five points. It bears repeating men sets and enforces the boundaries/ expectations in a serious relationship with a woman, exceptionally attractive or not.
One other boundary I would strongly recommend, setting a monetary budget for the relationship. Letting a woman know you EARNED your financial stability and it isn't from some professional contract is probably the best tests you can give to a woman to determine if she respects YOU and not a "lifestyle".
Just because your strategy doesn’t land you in the “friend zone” doesn’t mean that your not a simp.
*you're
It's not difficult
I was looking for exactly this. Well said brother, thank you.
Boundaries - security controls - what you allow and demand
I’m a 58 year old man who doesn’t drink smoke or does drugs
I’m divorced and have relationships with lots of women some beautiful and some not so
But I have to say this whole thing makes you sound very controlling
I wouldn’t dream of telling a girl she HAS to train and CANNOT drink any alcohol
I don’t want a woman who’s a drinker or a lazy out of shape Heffa but steady on with the demands Guys
Super controlling. This is just diet Andrew Tate.
@@ericpeters0n SHUSH
Nice one Jack. As a Muslim a lot of these points are common practice. I like how you emphasize that it is up to themselves and they are not forced. I just turned 40. Divorced four boys and building up for the next relationship. Take care 💪 👊
Can't fake it always just be relaxed
Could you please share some books that you give your girlfriend? Perhaps something that helps her stay in a feminine frame or how she should conduct herself as a woman in a relationship and treat her man...
Also - here's a VIDEO IDEA :could you please make a video about how to act in social situations with your girl and how your girl should treat you in social situations? (For example when going out to a club)
Which boundaries do you have for her when going out? Such as not talking over you etc.
This could be way more simple of a process if you just show up as you are and build a connection. If there's something you like to do, just invite them to do it with you. If whatever you like is unreasonably a deal breaker to them, move on. Otherwise change, and make it work. People don't have to be exactly like you for a relationship to work. Instead of trying to change others, just find someone who actually has common values and matches your lifestyle.
Brilliant and so true.
Absolute G advice, Jack
What is the list of books you recommend your girls?
I got my girl reading The Four Agreements at the moment
What books should I recommend them
No disrespect, but I have a different take. She shouldn`t feel pressured to behave a certain way. If her behaviour doesn`t agree with you inform her, but don`t be demanding. Also, don`t make demands on her that you don`t make on yourself. Be humble and honest. Perhaps the most important ingredient in a successful relationship is mutual respect. That includes self respect. It also includes seeing something in your partner that you yourself lack but respect. This does not mean unconditional adoration or that you put yourself below your partner, again you must have core self respect. This deep respect however I find is an important factor that helps to prevent one, when arguing, to be disrespectful and take harmful action towards your partner. This in turn gives yourself more self respect, and boosts your sense of selfworth, which makes you more attractive, and so it goes on. This is the way both you and your partnership keeps growing stronger and healthier as time goes by. Respect yourself, and your partner. If you or your partner cannot meet these standards in your behaviour towards each other, then you are probably not right for each other.
J HOP smashing life in all areas
Well said! Kudos.
What is the reading list?
Can you make a video about books you want a girlfriend to read?
Dude what?
We have very similar philosophies on the positive, note the juxtposition tends somewhat thwarting albeit organic sounding, resonating less pedantic in frame and frustration banal.
main takeaway from this: if You set a boundary you also must respect them for yourself.
How exactly do you go about telling her these rules/boundaries? Love the vids bro keep going!
Did you even watch the video ya donut?
Exelent! What Kind of books U got in mind for a Lady?
Would love to hear about these books you recommend Jack
What do you define as PARTYING? Because going dancing to good music is very healthy and nourishing for the mind body and soul. Plus it does not need to include drugs or alcohol.
What are the books you recommend your gf reads?
About to become Jacks GF just to get the booklist
very good advice
A man with a pinky ring shouldn’t be regarded as an authority on anything.
Do you guys know wich book I can give to my girlfreind to develop herself?
The four agreements
@@smoothconsulting thank you!
Gave that to my girl a few weeks ago@@smoothconsulting
What about social media? 😮
Give us some book ideas
Number 5 is a big one. Theres bare man out there who's bird has 1 photo of them on insta and the rest are bikini or dress photos. Brother she advertising herself to find a better man and replace you. You just temporary.
Great advice!
What books hajaj
You may be elite bro
What is this gold chain called ? Looks G
Legend this is good
do you have prompts or bullet points in front of you while you record these videos?
Tom Brady agrees... 😂
Does anyone know where is this location
Daytona beach Florida
@@mattg5978 alright thanks 👍
if i am currently in a relationship for 2 years with a 10/10 and i didn’t do any of these things, is it to late to implement them now?
Talking from experience do it before it’s too late, now I know if she is 20/10 but has a bad character she is not a good person
@@enz0zz702 i totally agree. when i got into the relationship i didnt really knew her character plus the important of it. now im facing a lot of trouble on a daily basis...
@@enz0zz702 i am working on myself and will see, if that helps the relationship and her respect+behavior towards me. if no, no.
I’d say it’s too late. It’s not fair to put all these rules on her all of a sudden.
I will give you some non-bullshit advice that you may not want to hear. It’s NEVER too late to try and implement things you want in a relationship. And your woman will probably accept quite a lot more guidance than you expect. However that being said there is such thing as a woman’s starting point. That is, when you first met her, how much of the good habits was she ALREADY invested in? Because if you start implementing these changes and things are going well, eventually there will be a rough patch in the relationship and she will “Snap back” to said starting point. Hamza has a really good video on this Rubber band effect. Search (Hamza unfiltered My ex slept with multiple men but I really want to get back with her) I know it may be hard to keep an abundance mindset especially with someone you love. Not saying you should break up with her but integrate this truth FULLY into your psyche or risk losing everything. Best of luck
The second you "set frame with beautiful women," you have no "frame."
You can choose between being authentic, and being a loser. There are no other options.
If you’re already doing all these things as a girl, and you’re a natural 7-8 (ie without heavy make up, fillers, fake boobs etc), how do you meet/find someone who values these things?
try to work at somewhere like Gucci
Think about where those type of men would socialize or hang out @lolabradley6548. Work on discernment so you identify which ones are the real deal and which ones are faking it. Look at memberships to elite social clubs, professional organizations in certain industries, etc. sometimes it’s things that cost money. If there is a social club where the membership fee is $5000 a year, there will be a different caliber of man there. Then once you’re in those types of places, be ready to compete with other women. The women there all understand what is at stake even if they don’t verbalize it. Hope this helps
These rules are basically characteristics of a woman that reflect that of a high value man. Given that the guy already is a HVM. If not, that should be step one.
My girl lives up to this standard. I’m missing financial security but everything else is high value, regarding looks, charisma, health. Just need to make this online business work.
@@jackward770 She knows you are ambitious, which might be even more important than actually having it. Keep killing it my brother
@@brock5946 I appreciate the kind words brother, wishing you the best also!
If you have to think about things like “ setting frame “ as a man you’re already a Todd
where do you meet these 'beautiful women'
If I dont want my girl to get involved in economic hussles, then what type of books will be good for her?
Stefan Aarnio has a book called The Oracle.
Could be worth checking out
@@realnotoriousnicco Thanks man. Topic of the book appear to be one of the big things in my mind that I couldn't really solve.
Number 6 - she will tell you everything you want to hear and be a Chameleon to please you if the juice is worth the squeeze.
Never lose control of your financial leadership. Have a lawyer. It’s business.
It takes years to truly know if it will work.
Yeah! Just be Manly Nice
I'm single. I'm a prize that nobody seems to want. 90% of beautiful women want to drink and party. I haven't drank in over 20 years. Social life was gone with the booze.
Incredible stuff again, never thought of it like that. 🤝🏽
be handsome
He is right...also a great way to ensure you stay single, but F it anyways
🐐
oh god here we go loll
How ghastly this is.
This info would've mattered to me in the 90s but I'm on another level now. Women are a liability, not an asset. Living your best life is by yourself without kids. You'll see one day..
Proverbs 18:22
[22] He who finds a wife finds a good thing And obtains favor from the Lord.
I'm about to anger all the 'alpha males' by saying the woman is the prize, especially if a good woman is truly as scarce as you believe. And here's the thing: a woman can inseminate herself and carry on with her life having a family and things that fulfill a person by her lonesome. Obviously not ideal, but possible. What hope does a man have in anything other than himself and his posessions without a woman? He will die with everything he had when he was born.
G video
I am a woman n I agree with your rule number 1 and 2 and I want to go to the gym ahahah I do already self development readying books! I don't even have Instagram!!! (I'm cute n pretty)🎉
What a joke! You can be a great catch without being an Ahole. I only date 9s and 10s and never acted like I was this needy.
A beautiful woman is not the prize.
Ha ha little boy narc over here claiming he’s the prize!
All these guys copying NELK saying “boys” to everything
Very wise.
This guy looks 5'6"
🤣🤣🤣
Your a g
This guy doesnt know shit jaja
True words! Thanks for sharing🙌