I learned this around age 20 when I was in the army. A sgt told me to meet him at his room, we were going to deploy within the next few days so I thought we were being called to meet there for information on the actual day. Turned out I was naive and he wanted more. Luckily he accepted my no to his advance and I left untouched. It creeped me out though. I’ll never be that dumb again.
@@cutelittleReis90 Her story is that the first time was rape. The sexual encounters that came afterward were consensual. She said it wasn't a relationship but it was completely transactional. She had sex with him because she was concerned about her career. Make of that what you will.
from what I understand she was having an affair with him everybody knew about it and when he stopped speaking to her this is when she started complaining about him!! Two sides to every story!!
@@SavageThrifter And saw on TV today after the so called rape she still continued to see him and ha e sex with him until he ghosted her stopped communicating with her! Hmmm so 2 sides to the story,!!
I'm 100% being honest, I'm gonna advise my son when he gets old enough that he should have some proof of consent before ever getting involved with anyone sexually. It's just scary how much a simple allegation can destroy someone
@@johnmom9938 there's the court of law and then there's the court of public opinion. The court of public opinion doesn't need proof while a court of law examines the validity of any such evidence. 2 completely independent universes. All that's necessary in the court of public opinion is an accusation. A court of law can even find someone not guilty beyond any reasonable doubt while the court of public opinion will convict that same person anyway. Just an allegation will do, and that is enough to permanently ruin a person's career and personal life. The argument is often 'well they wouldn't have any reason to say that if it didn't happen, so it must be true.' and off we go into the land of fantasy. We have Hollywood to thank for this pervasive lack of critical thinking skills.
Yeah listen, after 6 shots of vodka most woman become completely drunk and probably wouldn’t remember a thing from the last night. Personally I don’t believe the accusations
@@juicylemonade6011 no. She literally made no sense. Loom I know it might have happened okay yeah but the fact that sje admits that they had an affair, admits that she was drunk it doesn't make much snese. I'm just saying. It might have happened though.
Actually no.false rape accusations usually fall under 6% of actual rape cases reported ( though the # could be a tad lower or higher). Either way, it does not come close to the amount of rapes that do happen
At some point women need to take responsibility on their choices. I’m not saying she deserved to be raped or saying she even was raped. But a 35 year old woman should know after drinking if a man invites you alone to his room he is looking for something more.
tomtomclub88 can you imagine a cop saying that to someone they pull over for a DUI. “Oh it’s ok, your only 28 & drunk. Your not in the right state of mind to make this decision. I’ll let you go.” I don’t see the logic in that. She still made the decision to go to his hotel room alone. He even answered the door in boxers.
You've obviously never been raped or know somebody who has. Effectively what you're saying is if a woman dresses a certain way, she's asking for it. If a woman wears lipstick, she's asking for it. If a woman goes into a hotel room on a work trip with her colleague, she's asking for it. If a woman doesn't adjust her choices to accommodate others, and doesn't take responsibility for her rapist's choice to rape her - she's asking for it. If a woman draws on her eyebrows, paints her face, and looks provocatively into the camera of her youtube profile - is she asking to be raped? Grow up you ignorant simpleton. The producer chose to go to his hotel room. You have no business to judge what that meant. She did not choose to be raped.
@Notre Aira I don't believe her, too. And I'm very much female, thanks. It just seems like today as a women you put on allegations quickly and everyone has to believe you. But believe me, I know, many women can br sinister
Ikr!!? That's very suspicious you're drunk, take your ass to your hotel room! And why go to his room Matt Laher was married, man, at the time, so he doesn't get all the blame, she has gotta carry some of that blame. 🙄
I’m not saying I don’t believe her, but it seems really strange that she says after he forcefully raped her like this she continued a romantic relationship with him. I want to understand more about that because it was somewhat glossed over here.
I totally understand your point, bc for many of us we would never want to have anything to do with someone who sexually assaulted or raped us ever again. However, for some victims, they use a coping mechanism as a way of dealing with the trauma. This can include trying to trick themselves into believing that having some sort of relationship with their attacker makes them feel less vulnerable and therefore makes the incident seem less like a rape in their minds. She could have had other reasons as well, such as needing to keep her job, but I have seen rape victims engage in some counterintuitive actions as a way to "fix" the incident in their minds.
Jennifer Robinson I can see how something like that would work in a situation like a date rape or a rape that was more of a “I didn’t say no but I didn’t say yes” that what she described, which was being physically held down, and forcefully raped after she said no many times and was crying. That just such an extreme situation I don’t think anyone could use that strategy you mentioned to trick themselves. Even in the moment she knew she didn’t want it and that it hurt and that she said no.
At least we still have Deborah, Lisa, Steve and Trent! Edit: OMG THANKS INSIDE EDTION Edit 2: Dont worry I took a screenshot of the heart so I'm good 😎
OK I am so confused and I tend to always believe the victim however if he raped you once and then you went back to have affairs with him afterwards in gives wrong for more than doubt also to have an affair with a married man speaks on her character
A grown adult needs to be expected to report a serious crime. It may be very hard but this needs to be a standard. Otherwise you get murky situations like these.
He opened the door in his boxers and you went in? Hmm. And then after that day you still engaged in more sexual activities with him? And didn’t refrain from meeting with him alone? Very strange.
To all my male friends, don't sleep with girls who had a drink of some sort, they will call rape in the future and say they were intoxicated and the judges will believe it possibly.
when a man invites you to his hotel room ... don’t go unless he invited you for work related reasons, because you know he’s expecting you to give up the poonani.🙄 I mean she knew what was up going to his hotel. But still if ever she said no, that means stop period.
Starting at 1:46 She acknowledges that she had many consensual encounters with Lauer.... in all fairness he probably thought it was one of their rendezvous & this is coming from someone who highly dislikes Matt and believes this to be his karma from “operation Bambi” I believe Matt 🤷♀️
I feel there should be a time frame for when people can report Allegations of inappropriate sexual acts. This is getting ridiculous when women can come forward years even decades after an inappropriate sexual act and the person gets fired based on allegations?!? Not facts. I’m all for justice but come on now.
I might have bought it if she didn’t keep having hook ups. Being on a Pseudo news show and her age, you would think she would know to go to HR right after she got back to the states. She did not have to report the rape to the police for charges but could hold the company responsible (which is why he got fired). She says that he treated her job if she didn’t keep it up. Why not get that on tape? She had access to hidden microphones. That would prove beyond a doubt that she was being forced. This went on for a few years and at no time did she think of this?
6 shots of vodka? Going over to his room? Then all the times going to his apartment after the incident? Taking an enormous settlement, then writing about it all, I don't know. Is an educated woman in NYC, in her 30s, already an achiever, so powerless to be victimized and re-victimized repeatedly amidst all of these logistical and volitional (seeming) acts?
Yea and grown adult would not continue texting and willingly participating in sex acts if the initial encounter was rape...Pull the Text and we will know the truth...BOOOM
I’m not on his side at all (he was an overly pervy, flirty dude) but how can you just go out and accuse someone with NO PROOF and ruin their entire life, career, etc? This just isn’t right. Unpopular opinion but unless a rape kit is performed and it’s been confirmed by a doctor I don’t feel like you should be able to accuse someone of rape. This is ridiculous. And I never liked Matt to begin with so don’t come at me feminists.
So if you continue a relationship with an abuser, your lying ? I feel sorry for all the woman that gave in to powerful people out of fear. Society will persecute you and people wonder why victims stay silent.
*too graphic? Lisa don’t underestimate us*
Squek Whom'st lol
It got bleeped out. If you were raped in the way they mentioned on the Today show this morning, yes, it might be too graphic.
@@drfreud65 weak. lol.
Faxxxx
Made me laugh out loud.
Word of advice, ladies: When a guy invites you to his house/apartment/hotel/van, it isn't to play a game of Scrabble.
MatthewP64 no it’s too watch Netflix,.....and chill, and maybe some touchy touch touch.
wrd bro
I learned this around age 20 when I was in the army. A sgt told me to meet him at his room, we were going to deploy within the next few days so I thought we were being called to meet there for information on the actual day. Turned out I was naive and he wanted more. Luckily he accepted my no to his advance and I left untouched. It creeped me out though. I’ll never be that dumb again.
Trump 2020 most feminists, blondes, and people who have nothing wrong with them but seem mentally impaired
Or to his office where you work..in his case
WTF SHE KEPT SLEEPING WITH HIM SMH
RaeAnn Ames It’s not that simple. People stay married after martial rapes, don’t they?
Yeah,because she was raped😁😁😁
@@lavendyrchi but not after the first time rape. And it seems really scetchy to me
@@cutelittleReis90 Her story is that the first time was rape. The sexual encounters that came afterward were consensual. She said it wasn't a relationship but it was completely transactional. She had sex with him because she was concerned about her career. Make of that what you will.
That’s because most women lie about rape
from what I understand she was having an affair with him everybody knew about it and when he stopped speaking to her this is when she started complaining about him!! Two sides to every story!!
Damn I hope that's not the truth
@@SavageThrifter And saw on TV today after the so called rape she still continued to see him and ha e sex with him until he ghosted her stopped communicating with her! Hmmm so 2 sides to the story,!!
should we start having written sexual consent nowdays?
Or record your every move.
LMAO FR
I'm 100% being honest, I'm gonna advise my son when he gets old enough that he should have some proof of consent before ever getting involved with anyone sexually. It's just scary how much a simple allegation can destroy someone
@@SavageThrifter Nowadays *proof of consent* is a must.
If it comes to this, than yes
Why are they using tony hawk combo sound effects tf
😆
Chill pil where?
Noah455765 HOW CAN YOU NOT HEAR IT LOL 😂
Whatever it takes
I figure she just wants more than seven figures...
She carried out an affair with Matt Lauer but ok. 🤨
I was thinking how they just casually brushed that off. Not saying he isn’t a pig but seems like an important detail
Is that why he had a button on the underside of his desk to lock the door?
@@drfreud65 oooh he had a button, soooo scary LMAO
Right??
We don’t know that for sure
I don’t believe her
isaiah young ya u can tell cuz of her big ass teeth
isaiah young I won’t make a stance on it now, but currently. Lauer is innocent because he wasn’t proven guilty
@@johnmom9938 there's the court of law and then there's the court of public opinion. The court of public opinion doesn't need proof while a court of law examines the validity of any such evidence. 2 completely independent universes. All that's necessary in the court of public opinion is an accusation. A court of law can even find someone not guilty beyond any reasonable doubt while the court of public opinion will convict that same person anyway. Just an allegation will do, and that is enough to permanently ruin a person's career and personal life. The argument is often 'well they wouldn't have any reason to say that if it didn't happen, so it must be true.' and off we go into the land of fantasy. We have Hollywood to thank for this pervasive lack of critical thinking skills.
Especially about the anal part.
That’s not easy to do from what I hear
@@Blitz1x lol
She kept pursuing a relationship after the alleged incident
She had my attention until she revealed she started dating him thereafter. 😕
I don't think Lisa knows what Graphic means
Then why did she go to his room in the first place.
In my opinion I think she setting him up.
Cinderella hoe.....
yea
Thank you
@@luvlullaby4062 Your such a Bully you know that
Say whatever you want, that's just reflection of you!!
Yeah listen, after 6 shots of vodka most woman become completely drunk and probably wouldn’t remember a thing from the last night. Personally I don’t believe the accusations
@Notre Aira her story just doesn't line up hon.
Alex YOURE the reason people don’t like to come out.
@@juicylemonade6011 no. She literally made no sense. Loom I know it might have happened okay yeah but the fact that sje admits that they had an affair, admits that she was drunk it doesn't make much snese. I'm just saying. It might have happened though.
@@Ashley-on4ln how many women who got raped the FIRST time start an affair afterwards?
@@juicylemonade6011 and you're the reason many women can lie nowadays just to collect the money and get revenge
Dont go to their hotel rooms .
Dee Dee Winfrey cuz they can
Dee Dee Winfrey she went twice
We really don't know..too many woman lie
Actually no.false rape accusations usually fall under 6% of actual rape cases reported ( though the # could be a tad lower or higher). Either way, it does not come close to the amount of rapes that do happen
All they do is mcdonals twerk pay de bills eat hot chips and lie
@@salt5725 lol wtf lol
@@pla5730 from ifunny
@@afearfuljeffrey9478 Actually no, literally every accused rapist that doesnt get sentenced means there was a false accusation.
Everyone have a lovely day
Thank you.
😊
No u
dont tell me what to do
@@noahr1379 u shut up
I hated Matt Lauer even before the crimes surfaced.
pantherowow77 I hated him after what he did to Ann Curry
👍 Me too
Yes! 😝
Bruh, why people gotta hate this guy, he is charismatic, the only reason why they even hired him, besides there’s no proof
Well if you hated him before all of this, that's a good indication that he's guilty.
At some point women need to take responsibility on their choices. I’m not saying she deserved to be raped or saying she even was raped. But a 35 year old woman should know after drinking if a man invites you alone to his room he is looking for something more.
I think she knew that. What woman goes into a guy's hotel room after drinks? To talk about the weather and politics? I am perplexed.
tomtomclub88 can you imagine a cop saying that to someone they pull over for a DUI. “Oh it’s ok, your only 28 & drunk. Your not in the right state of mind to make this decision. I’ll let you go.” I don’t see the logic in that. She still made the decision to go to his hotel room alone. He even answered the door in boxers.
@tomtomclub88 shut it, come on. I'm 29 and I can do better
@@jamiefaith834 girl true 👏👏
You've obviously never been raped or know somebody who has. Effectively what you're saying is if a woman dresses a certain way, she's asking for it. If a woman wears lipstick, she's asking for it. If a woman goes into a hotel room on a work trip with her colleague, she's asking for it. If a woman doesn't adjust her choices to accommodate others, and doesn't take responsibility for her rapist's choice to rape her - she's asking for it. If a woman draws on her eyebrows, paints her face, and looks provocatively into the camera of her youtube profile - is she asking to be raped? Grow up you ignorant simpleton. The producer chose to go to his hotel room. You have no business to judge what that meant. She did not choose to be raped.
I'm not buying her story! I guess all that happened and she said nothing! I just don't buy it PERIOD!
Notre Aira I don’t believe her either and I’m not white - you damn idiot
@Notre Aira I don't believe her, too. And I'm very much female, thanks. It just seems like today as a women you put on allegations quickly and everyone has to believe you. But believe me, I know, many women can br sinister
@Notre Aira I dont believe her either
Why does he looks like Jerry Seinfeld?
Baldish, old, white, jewish looking lol.
She?
@@deansolistino they wrote he
averaxl ooo I thought she looked like jerry Seinfeld. Thanks
james 123 oh my goddddd that’s what I was saying 😂😂😂
I believe more with the open letter statement. she just wants more money.
Details of her account were too graphic for this viewer. I'm suing Inside Edition, despite the warning. I'll never be the same.
Why did she go to his hotel room in the first place?
XPA *twice
Ikr!!? That's very suspicious you're drunk, take your ass to your hotel room!
And why go to his room Matt Laher was married, man, at the time, so he doesn't get all the blame, she has gotta carry some of that blame. 🙄
yawn sounds more like a case of regret not a case of rape.
what's funny is he was ridiculing corey feldman, and now it came back to bite him.
Today I was thinking about him and where he was now
Hes on earth at the moment
@@jumsiahsos5387 I know that
Jackson Mikes doing tik toks with his daughter lol
@@yourbeautyqueen3759 wow
I don’t know if it’s true but how come she didn’t say it earlier before he was famous
shes a liar and everyones afraid to call her on it duh
Ever heard of a nondisclosure agreement?
Maybe the seven figure was not on the table.
I’m not saying I don’t believe her, but it seems really strange that she says after he forcefully raped her like this she continued a romantic relationship with him. I want to understand more about that because it was somewhat glossed over here.
That's what I'm thinking about too.
I totally understand your point, bc for many of us we would never want to have anything to do with someone who sexually assaulted or raped us ever again. However, for some victims, they use a coping mechanism as a way of dealing with the trauma. This can include trying to trick themselves into believing that having some sort of relationship with their attacker makes them feel less vulnerable and therefore makes the incident seem less like a rape in their minds. She could have had other reasons as well, such as needing to keep her job, but I have seen rape victims engage in some counterintuitive actions as a way to "fix" the incident in their minds.
Jennifer Robinson I can see how something like that would work in a situation like a date rape or a rape that was more of a “I didn’t say no but I didn’t say yes” that what she described, which was being physically held down, and forcefully raped after she said no many times and was crying. That just such an extreme situation I don’t think anyone could use that strategy you mentioned to trick themselves. Even in the moment she knew she didn’t want it and that it hurt and that she said no.
I can explain it ... she's lying.
@@drstrangelove9851Seek therapy
I don’t believe This If I’m being Honest…
Matt looks like he is going crazy.
turntableone he is he denies any wrongdoing.
💥 He is crazy
@@NadiaGirl1 have you been there? Do you really know what went on?
I seen that last picture.Yeah she trapping people.
Oooooo big time!!!
She lied. Period. What a shame to ruin a man for personal vendetta.
What’s up with her teeth😂😂😂
Why u laughing?
I bet you're a prize?...lol.
And yet she kept sleeping with him and having an affair for months after this incident??? Something is fishy here and its NOT Matt!
Wtf, women bashing other women. You'll never know how someone feels until it happens to you.
At least we still have Deborah, Lisa, Steve and Trent!
Edit: OMG THANKS INSIDE EDTION
Edit 2: Dont worry I took a screenshot of the heart so I'm good 😎
Don’t forget Jim and Meghan
💢 WHO
Dude!!!!!!!!! U got a heart!!!!!!!! From inside edition!
They un hearted it
If you edit your comment, the heart goes away. RIP
Idk why but I was just thinking wouldn’t a lie detector test work
Matt Lauer is just weird, I don’t trust him at all.
I honestly believe it was consensual
Fact
7 figure settlement....anyone hear that.
She looks like a feminist, so 100% she lied just to ruin his career, I feel bad for him
He's guilty. He suits the personality type in e ery way
Katie Couric is complicit.
I do not believe one single thing she saying
Ruined his career and his life.
Inside edition: **blurs face of girl**
Inside edition: **includes girl’s tiktok**
What’s the tictok I can’t read it
holy gums
Um, try sphincter, not gums.
Townhouse teeth.
Inside edition always end their video gracefully with a bang "I am inevitable" Jeng Jeng Jeng Jeng Jeng!
There’s no proof
girl: sits on bed quietly crying
matt bust into the room with his boxers an socks on: I AM INEVITABLE
Turn over.
My gut says she's lying. I'm not a big fan of his, but something really stinks!!!
Bob Weber maybe its the sodomy
When he said come out then i was like. He is Gay?
That avengers reference will be the moment of this whole ordeal if he is able to clear his name and get that woman behind bars
Matt Lauer thought he was the peacock on the peacock network !
You must believe all women... so I heard. GUILTY
Guilty😶😐
Fact
OK I am so confused and I tend to always believe the victim however if he raped you once and then you went back to have affairs with him afterwards in gives wrong for more than doubt also to have an affair with a married man speaks on her character
A grown adult needs to be expected to report a serious crime. It may be very hard but this needs to be a standard. Otherwise you get murky situations like these.
Why don’t women ever accuse POOR men of rape or sex abuse? Hmmm.
I don't believe her.
me either shes clealry looking for a pay day
He opened the door in his boxers and you went in? Hmm. And then after that day you still engaged in more sexual activities with him? And didn’t refrain from meeting with him alone? Very strange.
So, does this chick..., boil rabbits😭🤣😭!!!
To all my male friends, don't sleep with girls who had a drink of some sort, they will call rape in the future and say they were intoxicated and the judges will believe it possibly.
when a man invites you to his hotel room ... don’t go unless he invited you for work related reasons, because you know he’s expecting you to give up the poonani.🙄 I mean she knew what was up going to his hotel. But still if ever she said no, that means stop period.
She knew what she was doing...quit playing victim lady!
My god look at those chompers
Alleged. Innocent until proven guilty. That doesn’t mean that he actually is innocent, just that we shouldn’t completely dox him.
Starting at 1:46 She acknowledges that she had many consensual encounters with Lauer.... in all fairness he probably thought it was one of their rendezvous & this is coming from someone who highly dislikes Matt and believes this to be his karma from “operation Bambi” I believe Matt 🤷♀️
Krazy how one woman can ruin your whole life 🤷🤷
Said every married man
Good grief Savannah and Hoda. Stop acting sooo surprised that your boy could do such a crime.
Do you know what happens when a woman accuses someone of rape?
He goes to jail even with no evidence cause, yes
She got the choppers fixed🤦🏾♀️. We never know what someone is doing, but why go to the hotel after drinking. That's a booty call right there🤷🏾♀️.
Lol did she ?? Lol
@@pla5730 It really looks like she did😁
So if I say that a coworker raped me, they would be fired and I will be paid a 7 figure settlement?
He’s like a Bond villain, lol.
This guy had a clean carreer ... that girl is the devil.becarful with this lady.
I always remembered him on Today
I feel there should be a time frame for when people can report Allegations of inappropriate sexual acts. This is getting ridiculous when women can come forward years even decades after an inappropriate sexual act and the person gets fired based on allegations?!? Not facts. I’m all for justice but come on now.
Fast Times At Ridgemont High
The Thanos clip sure made him look creepy
completely unrelated, but why did she go to a married man's hotel room after taking 6 shots?
Thought that was bald jerry sinfeld
Too graphic?? I've seen and heard worse on pornhub
3:41 That’s what he does
I might have bought it if she didn’t keep having hook ups.
Being on a Pseudo news show and her age, you would think she would know to go to HR right after she got back to the states. She did not have to report the rape to the police for charges but could hold the company responsible (which is why he got fired).
She says that he treated her job if she didn’t keep it up. Why not get that on tape? She had access to hidden microphones. That would prove beyond a doubt that she was being forced.
This went on for a few years and at no time did she think of this?
He has bad taste.
*From Today Show* for God knows many years, *to TikTok*
If that's not the biggest, most pathetic downfall, I don't know what is 😂
6 shots of vodka? Going over to his room? Then all the times going to his apartment after the incident? Taking an enormous settlement, then writing about it all, I don't know. Is an educated woman in NYC, in her 30s, already an achiever, so powerless to be victimized and re-victimized repeatedly amidst all of these logistical and volitional (seeming) acts?
alcohol consumption at that level prolly deterred her judgement calls by alot
HE SHOULD 100% BE FIRED. This is how businesses should be ran! Rapists and sexual assaulters should 100% be removed from employment.
THAT WAS 2 YEARS AGO?!?!
We learn in the 7th grade that if ur drunk you don’t have consent so she won’t even remember
Why doesn't he fight back or go to court and clear his name
Why u come out now 🤔
Not hard to understand NO MEANS NO! A grown adult would know that!!
Yea and grown adult would not continue texting and willingly participating in sex acts if the initial encounter was rape...Pull the Text and we will know the truth...BOOOM
I believe you matt! I don't know why I just do.🤔
Luc Longly me too
Dayumm that close up scared the h*** out of me
hey everyone. he is a tik tok “star” now. have fun cringing
She kept sleeping with him... my goodness.. and you say Rape
I’m not on his side at all (he was an overly pervy, flirty dude) but how can you just go out and accuse someone with NO PROOF and ruin their entire life, career, etc? This just isn’t right. Unpopular opinion but unless a rape kit is performed and it’s been confirmed by a doctor I don’t feel like you should be able to accuse someone of rape. This is ridiculous. And I never liked Matt to begin with so don’t come at me feminists.
He got fired on no evidence. What’s wrong with America.
So if you continue a relationship with an abuser, your lying ? I feel sorry for all the woman that gave in to powerful people out of fear. Society will persecute you and people wonder why victims stay silent.
Hmmm, bad karma coming back to him!! He did Ann Curry wrong. I loved Ann on the today show.
If Bill Cosby's fall was like the fall of the Roman empire, Matt lauer's is like the extinction of the dinosaurs!
And this is why people should never idolize reporters or celebrities