How forgiving my father liberated me | Agon Hare | TEDxNTU

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  • @ProjectNightfallSTORIES
    @ProjectNightfallSTORIES 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Wow watching it after two years, this truly was one of the most important moments of my life. The journey of forgiveness changed everything. I hope you find strength to be on your own journey. You deserve it!

    • @fonsie_games
      @fonsie_games 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh hi!

    • @fordee.alternative
      @fordee.alternative 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you are one of my favourites!

    • @ZuroPL
      @ZuroPL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wstrząsające. Szczególnie końcówka. Jesteś postacią strasznie inspirującą. I pomyśleć że człowiek z zapyziałej mieściny w jakiejś Polsce, mógł zrobić naprawdę wielką karierę w anglojęzycznym internecie, będąc jednocześnie anonimowy w swoim kraju, wow.

    • @imberrysandy
      @imberrysandy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      love project nightfall :) thanks for being an inspiration and a messenger for ethical beliefs

    • @sandraburgos5590
      @sandraburgos5590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am so proud of you! Life is so hard I lost my dad to covid and my health but I am in recovery and falling in love with myself. Thank you so much!

  • @StanzinPadmaSelakui
    @StanzinPadmaSelakui 4 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    He has deep emotions in his voice 😭

    • @hendhanooda1926
      @hendhanooda1926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are right 💔

    • @herbertant4096
      @herbertant4096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because he had a bad past life and i realized that too

    • @javarare1769
      @javarare1769 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ok bomer

    • @AbdulRahman-om2kf
      @AbdulRahman-om2kf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes because he has gone through bad times

    • @xeta5200
      @xeta5200 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@javarare1769 what?

  • @isqueakifyousqueeze4714
    @isqueakifyousqueeze4714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +233

    I forgave my parents not for their sake but for my own, so that I could move forward with my own life. And I understand now more than ever that they were just people who were abused too.

    • @ablan8801
      @ablan8801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God Bless You Brother ♥️♥️

    • @tochie-ugorji2021
      @tochie-ugorji2021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's true. Forgiving actually says and does more about you than the person who wronged you.

    • @joannasun9921
      @joannasun9921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      im happy for you but them being abused doesn't excuse abusing their own child

  • @AKILABOSE
    @AKILABOSE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    In my case my parents don't talk to each other since my birth and now I'm 22, still I haven't seen my parents talking to each other by living in same house. This hurts a lot. They have ruined my happy childhood n teen also. But Agon ur video changed my perspective towards them. It's hard feeling, that having parents and feeling like an orphan. Proud of you and hats off Agon.

    • @herbertant4096
      @herbertant4096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God Bless you and your family 😇

    • @ViktorCaine
      @ViktorCaine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They haven't talked even once!? How do they even do the groceries??

    • @Trisin-m3i
      @Trisin-m3i 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ViktorCaine yeah ikr

    • @tanishqsuryawanshi1276
      @tanishqsuryawanshi1276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ViktorCaine and you thought about making a joke on this😑

    • @ilove6x673
      @ilove6x673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really good know how it fells.Just stay strong.

  • @udas_aayush_
    @udas_aayush_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    "Everything changes the moment when you start seeing forgiveness as not just something for the other person, but also something for you"
    -Agon Hare

  • @joshua_dlima
    @joshua_dlima 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    He deserves some more attention on TH-cam

    • @joshua_dlima
      @joshua_dlima 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Carlos Basulto he had like 150k that time... he deserves much more popularity on this platform... and he's growing exponentially too

    • @f1ybo1
      @f1ybo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He reached 2M+

  • @MangiferaIndica918
    @MangiferaIndica918 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1010

    Agon is really underrated.

    • @valeriasandoval9839
      @valeriasandoval9839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Chunnu-Punnu Michki-Chichki he diserves more! His predicate is amazing!

    • @haziqsalman517
      @haziqsalman517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes he is

    • @uswahefatima104
      @uswahefatima104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No he is not

    • @TeacherJayvee
      @TeacherJayvee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is so Inspiring, he reach million views on FB ok

    • @Vbjoctiz64739
      @Vbjoctiz64739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

  • @murderthemassacre
    @murderthemassacre 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I was drowned,beaten,severely abused and maltreated by my father. Physical child abuse really hits different to be honest,it ruins you but im glad you had your grandparents.

  • @soulpure8663
    @soulpure8663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I cried a lot of reflecting your words. Your truly an amazing...with a pure heart. Same here. I was so cruel and hard headed child...but when I realized that I have to use my intellect and compassion I was changed of it...itself....

  • @sonalpatel7741
    @sonalpatel7741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Yes forgiveness is the hardest thing to give

  • @ttttttttttttttt5525
    @ttttttttttttttt5525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    Agon! U r really an amazing person...I love ur accent...I learned a lot from ur video... those videos are very inspiring...may Allah bless u

  • @timothybanks7689
    @timothybanks7689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This message helped me call my father and forgive him. Man keep doing this. I don’t know your beliefs bro, but you are doing Godly work. Christ preached forgiveness, because it’s so important to moving forward in a healthy way. I pray God continues to shower you with blessings.
    Thank you,

  • @judedevera5137
    @judedevera5137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Agon is indeed an inspiration to out generation. All of his videos are worthy to get viewed and shared.😘😘😘❤❤❤

  • @eanwood
    @eanwood 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "Forgiveness is something I deserved." GOLD. Great talk.

  • @brentcenencalong1165
    @brentcenencalong1165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "If you want to forgive somebody the best way of doing that is understanding them"

  • @UlmOst92
    @UlmOst92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I wished I could forgive father, but he died in 2010 😔
    So please, forgive your parents no matter what you experienced. Even if they will not accept it. Just for your inner peace. May god bless you all. And thanks to Agon for the words, which touched me deeply.

    • @RiyaArtZone
      @RiyaArtZone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      NO! Im not forgiving my mother for abusing me since age 7!

    • @karl817
      @karl817 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Condolence

    • @tanvikittur7352
      @tanvikittur7352 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RiyaArtZone Exactly

    • @Jay-pc2fp
      @Jay-pc2fp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry you've gone through that pain. but you're only hurting yourself by holding onto that.@@tanvikittur7352

  • @cookingworldworld3405
    @cookingworldworld3405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This was hard to watch 😢.I had to pause a couple of times to cry my eyes out.But I am glad I watched it.

  • @atiyamina1922
    @atiyamina1922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    How is it POSSIBLE for a person to be this much inspiring to you even though you're only hearing his beautiful words through a screen!
    I mean this is the definition of Legendary to me! ❤️

  • @ErenYeager-vk1hz
    @ErenYeager-vk1hz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    His mom will be proud of him, seeing him from heaven. Even his father.

  • @ulooketmeh9961
    @ulooketmeh9961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    the man who made Project Nightfall.

  • @dvnajoy
    @dvnajoy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I feel like crying while watching him. Not because I feel bad about what happened to him but because of happiness. He found the courage to forgive and now he is free from the baggage that he was carrying from his childhood. I hope that someday I will have the heart to be as forgiving as Agon. 💙

    • @CedricKarlFonk
      @CedricKarlFonk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. I agree with you. I'm not that forgiving. I'm struggling to find it in me to forgive those who hurt me both mentally, emotionally and physically.

  • @yabourtaipodiatatin9724
    @yabourtaipodiatatin9724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lotus bloomed amongst dirt.beautiful man 👍❤️

  • @soulpure8663
    @soulpure8663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    When you Forgive, First you Forgive and liberate yourself....then, things around changes into positive..clear understanding and wisdom goes into your inner dept..and change the way who you are.

  • @roseh1132
    @roseh1132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The wisdom & kindness you have at such a young age is other-worldly. 💓 expanding!

  • @cartman7570
    @cartman7570 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Forgive people not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace.

  • @kat9587
    @kat9587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have truly taken your power back 🙏🏻

  • @cg.man_aka_kevin
    @cg.man_aka_kevin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He has a lot of pearls of wisdom... Love from Indonesia!!! ❤️❤️❤️🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩

  • @rier7998
    @rier7998 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Agon's story is so inspiring. It can touch many hearts and enlighten lots of people about making yourself free from all the heartaches and pain because you forgive.

  • @diaaa1309
    @diaaa1309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    this guy is a legend

  • @CedricKarlFonk
    @CedricKarlFonk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an amazingly powerful and beautiful speech! He touches millions. Agon, you are a hero!

  • @virginiacajano1507
    @virginiacajano1507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love you Agon! ❤ I'm inspired by your story and I love all your videos on Project Nightfall..👍
    Your power of forgiveness will take you to much brighter future and Godbless you Agon.. 😊❤❤❤👐

  • @borsharahman6879
    @borsharahman6879 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Agon you are amazing. You have a pure beautiful heart...!! I love your videos it has change many peoples life's.. you are a real superhero...!!

    • @trollnehru8102
      @trollnehru8102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are beautiful too.😘😘

  • @EnglisholicExpressions
    @EnglisholicExpressions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He gives me good vibes nice kind hearted guy God bless him..

  • @farismohamed7897
    @farismohamed7897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Agon ....you are so great.....forgiven to a person who spoiled your beautiful childhood....you are a little batman❤️

  • @riamichellequiliope3725
    @riamichellequiliope3725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've already watch this video but I'm watching it again, he's accent and the way he tells story has always amaze me.

  • @Bhavya_2000
    @Bhavya_2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're such an amazing person Agon❤️you never fail to inspire me⭐

  • @jubaerahmed1992
    @jubaerahmed1992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Agon, you're an icon ❤️

  • @riceball4047
    @riceball4047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This lesson going to my mind forever,AGON.

  • @shahdaniel741
    @shahdaniel741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Agon is a very great person. I love how he could forgive himself. Now it changed my point of view to this world, Im happy to see the outside world, people smiling. And that could make me even happier than what I would have now. Thanks Argon, thanks people. 😊 love from Malaysia

  • @manuelraposo1405
    @manuelraposo1405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Agon you are a true kind human being,you changing so many peoples lives and making a world a better place, love your videos,keep up with your great deeds in serving the world community...❤️😊🌏

  • @kahinaharrache5026
    @kahinaharrache5026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi cracked voice made me cry from the beginning till the end and i'm quite surprised because my tears don't flow easily ..

  • @kenyanfurnishedrentalsllc2505
    @kenyanfurnishedrentalsllc2505 ปีที่แล้ว

    "❤BEST WAY TO FORGIVE SOMEONE IS TO UNDERSTAND THEM!❤ Thank you Agon. I needed to hear this because I need to be truly free! I have been binge watching many videos today trying to understand myself, my family, the dysfunction, the pain and then I thought to myself, why not start searching for videos on "Forgiveness". This touched me, THANK YOU!🙏

  • @Gyanwdshorts
    @Gyanwdshorts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Life teaches us everything and you carried it really well. Proud of you

  • @sprakleec5404
    @sprakleec5404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The story is so touching and sad. I can feel you.

  • @ayanakhtar5226
    @ayanakhtar5226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    @Project Nightfall ❣️❣️❣️

  • @boosuartistry4080
    @boosuartistry4080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    His accent make him and his works unique and more intriguing i love it.😊

  • @starclone4
    @starclone4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Your words... Truly must come from God, speaking to your heart !!!! You're a wonderful young man, thank you
    .

  • @MuhammadAli-jd2ut
    @MuhammadAli-jd2ut 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn't know these things about him. He has such a strong personality. More people should watch this.

  • @slzvq
    @slzvq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how Agon talks!

  • @sonyrhr
    @sonyrhr 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    every human should hear this. he will help a lot of people and get them out of their hardest times. he should be more recognized in the eyes of the world.

  • @stellamaryjose5794
    @stellamaryjose5794 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    My dad left me wen i was 5 he was lyk a nightmare in my lyf a person tortured me nd my mom later he married another women he never tried to contact us never helped us other side he took care of his new family well my mom raised me alone later I fell in love my luvlyf turns to be another nightmare in my lyf I
    left everything now happy being myself I never heard sorry from both of them not even once they never felt sorry fr der actions my forgiveness doesn't matter fr them maybe I will be able to forgive my dad nd my ex in future whatever lyf goes on

  • @justbluemartin9346
    @justbluemartin9346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The world needs more Agons😎😎🙌🏾🙌🏾✌🏾

  • @highagain4278
    @highagain4278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much Agon♥️♥️

  • @sanjidameem2737
    @sanjidameem2737 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Agon your voice almost made my cry!

  • @pennibarnett1222
    @pennibarnett1222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful and full of truth.

  • @Zotal-xc8vd
    @Zotal-xc8vd ปีที่แล้ว

    You're my inspirational Agon 🔥💪♥️

  • @muhammedalsabith6030
    @muhammedalsabith6030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We appreciate you Agon! You have set a beautiful example for every one of us! God willing, you will get more recognition worldwide and God Willing, You will become a very busy man, May God Help you through this journey
    You have been a very inspiring person always, May God lighten your path to success,
    With so much love,
    Your Biggest Fan

  • @JB-pk4ck
    @JB-pk4ck 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People who have hurt you either dont know or they dont care. They don;t care about yoru forgiveness. That is why enlightened forgiveness to release yourself from bitterness or anger is so important. Believe me. i had so much anger in me towards someone i had loved and who betrayed me. it gave me a hiatus hernia. The solar plexus is where you feel it. This guy is very wise.

  • @anusharanjana
    @anusharanjana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    He is such an amazing person omg i want to be like him man its so damn amazing agon u r a hero❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @anthonysturdivant2971
    @anthonysturdivant2971 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mr. Hare, your videos are making a huge difference. Wishing you prosperous success & happiness.

  • @Jellyfishdestroyer
    @Jellyfishdestroyer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's literally impacting the world ToT so lovely

  • @mariafilipinawrites4384
    @mariafilipinawrites4384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Agon, you’re really a blessing ❤️

  • @pasqualepalena2556
    @pasqualepalena2556 ปีที่แล้ว

    I left home mainly because of the fights between my parents. Insulting each other, never a smile, they hated each other. I hoped that the arrival of my daughter would change them but nothing happened. In my hearth I forgave them both but I know that we cannot recover our relationship (if one ever existed). I would go and hug them both but I know that it's a version of them that exist only inside my head, better than the real one.

  • @tanishaafneen3233
    @tanishaafneen3233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you Agon, more power to you

  • @mhk9734
    @mhk9734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Forgiveness is very important.. To forgive yourself is the first step and then it carries on

  • @yusvarietytv6876
    @yusvarietytv6876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Agon you really made my day and change my whole life, you are truly an example and inspiration of young people.! keep up a good work...! love

  • @swatighosh_9978
    @swatighosh_9978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good evening!
    Argon,
    I have been looking for you, your name as I liked a quite a few videos of yours.
    Finally, I could place you by searching your video on your grandparents.
    Also, I am so happy to see this video of yours.
    Forgiveness actually is a miracle ....
    It helps us heal our self ....
    And find a new self and better soul .... mind and heart.
    Best Wishes

  • @RandomPerson-hd6wr
    @RandomPerson-hd6wr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know what they say... "The people with the biggest smiles have the biggest struggles"

  • @mscarolynnigro
    @mscarolynnigro ปีที่แล้ว

    This really touched me ... very inspirational

  • @DitechGaming
    @DitechGaming 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nightfam here

  • @jyotiyadav-rx5wd
    @jyotiyadav-rx5wd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    not now but maybe don't know but your words make me strong. thank you

  • @galaxystudios5822
    @galaxystudios5822 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Watching this as part of the nightfam, I'm so proud

  • @VarshaSharma-nn7sq
    @VarshaSharma-nn7sq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're truly amazing, Agon....Love from India

  • @andnowthesunisupimcomingdo1045
    @andnowthesunisupimcomingdo1045 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    just recently discovered this guy. now i’m addicted to his videos

  • @sherryhtoon
    @sherryhtoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you so much Agon (in an admiring way) and I'm only youthful so I don't know how it feels to hate yet but I am certain that I will always be reminded of your words... You deserve the world.

  • @itzme.7389
    @itzme.7389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you project nightfall

  • @dianamalfoy4173
    @dianamalfoy4173 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Agon is super underrated how is he not on like 10 million????

  • @anitaramchandani7838
    @anitaramchandani7838 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are amazing!

  • @honeybeejourney
    @honeybeejourney 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is a supernatural work of God.

  • @NOT_EZEKI
    @NOT_EZEKI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Project nightfall!!!

  • @utuberhere
    @utuberhere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! You are the real deal, Agon!

  • @nicoleallen9221
    @nicoleallen9221 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The name Damen is cursed name..Good changed it..Great info..I will be sending this to others..God bless you and keep u in perfect peace🙏😇

    • @patrickhamilton7849
      @patrickhamilton7849 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is my nephew's first name. I adress him by his middle name (Jonathan).

  • @telgend
    @telgend 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *Project Nightfall* ❤️

  • @mominaalyaly9080
    @mominaalyaly9080 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agon, u r such an amazing personality,😘😘😘😘😘 Super hero........ ❤️ Love you Bravo 😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @himanshu816
    @himanshu816 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am inspired by agon and nussier(NAS) these people are awesome

  • @edteddysheerios8051
    @edteddysheerios8051 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am a big fan of Agon Hare💜

  • @foneden8574
    @foneden8574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your the best agon

  • @juneboysen9021
    @juneboysen9021 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

  • @finmat95
    @finmat95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    To all people i CANNOT forgive for what they've done: "May God forgive you but i won't"
    I have been, am and always will be faithful to justice

  • @HARIHARAN-rs8nv
    @HARIHARAN-rs8nv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so compilation emoitanial

  • @TherealdealDava
    @TherealdealDava 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤ Love you thanks for sharing

  • @SabrinaWazien
    @SabrinaWazien 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Agon so much! thanks for sharing this!!!

  • @omega_6926
    @omega_6926 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let's goooo project night fall

  • @khrawnam
    @khrawnam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great speech Agon

  • @wikhaibowikhaibou7951
    @wikhaibowikhaibou7951 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So painful story but u r very great person I like u

  • @okedoom7158
    @okedoom7158 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its project nightfall!!!

  • @carrenjoylacay7759
    @carrenjoylacay7759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your soul Agon

  • @enno927
    @enno927 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ayyyy Project nightfall

  • @elliotglickman4599
    @elliotglickman4599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Once you forgive yourself, you are feel free to accept yourself. And once you forgive another, you are free to accept them.

  • @chinmayanagesh3634
    @chinmayanagesh3634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Argon, Your video really works. I hope I will be able to do this sometime in life.