Exhale, I considered a destination wedding as a way to thin the crowd… we are self made people who at that time were stretched so thin financially … There was family pressure, they just added to the financial stress with no consideration of our budget…. We eloped.
@@Thomas.3698or it could be the opposite. Smaller party of guests and probably same destination as the honeymoon… and about a 1/5 chance it’s Mexico lol (just made that 1/5 chance thing up, but that’s what i see all the time…)…
Even an hour is too long. Especially if you hit traffic. I went to a wedding where it was about 45 mins away. Coming back home at night was pure hell. Traffic took us close to two hours to get home.
@@saltycat662the reason why you hit traffic is because you left at prime time when you're traveling you have to be smart you should have left at an odd hour where there's no traffic like at 2:00 a.m. so you made that mistake
The sad thing is that that answer probably would not be accepted by a lot of people. They would be furious that you wouldn't fly across the world for them.😅
@@reeceraur8735same, I didn’t learn the art of saying “no” until I was in my 40’s…. Now I’m in my early 50’s and I give zero phucks about saying “no”…. One of my favorite shirts I wear says “nope” on it 😂 It’s ok to say no, you’re still a good person if you say no! ❤️💕🙏🏼!!!! Saying no is often good for body, mind and soul!!
Hmmm...An hour and a half drive to the wedding, at least another four to five hours for the wedding and reception, another hour and a half to drive home. You're talking 7 or 8 hours. Nope. Not gonna do it. Hour and a half drive is too long, because life is too short. Sorry.
@karens1967 the 5 hours is happening no matter if they live next door to you or whatever, it's 1.5 hour drive there then 1.5 hour drive back the next day because weddings are celebrations and every body drinks so it's on a Saturday 100% of the time or it doesn't count
It started out as wedding/ moons ment for a small intimate wedding then of course people decided they wanted it all and viola the destination wedding was born.
This video is cringey, people just laughing because he is Larry David, doesn't matter that he is unfunny by trying too hard to be funny. I'm sorry , this is the first time I've seen him talk, and he didn't leave me the impression of being a genius comedian as others I have seen
Listening to this made me realize that I’ve been identifying incorrectly my entire life. Apparently my true self is a 76 year old Jewish writer from New York.
I hate it when people argue that you’re getting a vacation out of it. Yeah, a vacation where YOU get to decide when I have to go, where I have to go, how much I have to spend and all the things we’re gonna have to do each day just to ensure YOUR wedding was everything you dreamed of. No thanks.
The "Dream" is there, but the reality is, there is excessive planning and coordination going on along with it. One couple with 2 separate minds dealing with hundreds of people. Their mission; I imagine, is for their guests to remember having a great time, in a beautiful, lavish, get-a-way oasis with them on their special day, enjoying every minute, it has to offer. But deep down, many of them can't wait to get back home to business away from this place. Unfortunately, you can't always pass that feeling along. But the thought is there.
@@markinohio1 imo even if airfare and hotel are paid for by the bride and groom it's still BS, people have limited time off work each year and they should be able to spend that time however they want
If you have a wedding that makes people travel to get there, then EVERY expense needs to be covered. Every single part of it, down to the gas, plane ticket, hotel, food, etc. That's all.👏🏻
And then expect you to give a gift after spending money on airfare and hotel. You are OUT OF YOUR MIND if you think you're getting a monetary gift on top of all the money I just spent....
You are not supposed to rsvp to a save the date. It supposed to be a simple way to get the word out about the date the couple picked so they don't have to answer the question a thousand times.
Even if you’re in a nice hotel and you’re all set up? I’m in a nice home & all set up. Without paying for the annoyance of relations and jet lag. 😂 This is a no brainer.
I only get on long flights like that if I plan on staying in the destination for a while. I'm not sitting 14 hours on a plane to spend one day or two or three I don't know. I want to spend a couple weeks.
My take on destination weddings is if someone has one and they don’t offer to pay your way then it is their way of saying they really don’t care if you go. It is a huge expense and if they want you to attend they will pay for your travel accommodations. It’s ridiculous to expect one person to pay a couple of grand and fly thousands of miles to see you get married when you live 30 miles away from each other.
Yeah it is wild to say "Hey, you love us so much you're going to take an entire vacation budget, days off work, cash-in on childcare requests, etc. not to vacation WITH us, which could perhaps be fun... but rather near us. We'll see you for a bit as you sit through our bullshit. We'll talk to you for a couple minutes maybe. And you can leave your registry gift on the table over there. We'll spend most of our time with people who don't live near us because we hardly see them. I'm sure you can understand"
I wish it were ‘Only’ a couple of grand. One destination wedding cost us $10K [airfare for 2, posh accommodations, only thing available, in a high end ski resort, clothing, meals, etc etc etc]
@@gailkshawa "no" could've saved all that. I feel like DestWeds are tests of people's pocketbooks, and no one opts out because they want to impress others and not admit they don't want to spend the money.
the older you get, the easier it is to say no. it's a learned ability. you say yes to everything when you are younger, even if you don't really want to go.
I’m an old expat now. My second marriage - just us and witnesses. We made it for us. Pressure free. Told everyone later. Same when I was pregnant - Sent ultrasound pics late in pregnancy, spouse called after birth. It’s not for everyone, but I found great peace in quietly experiencing these milestones in privacy, far from the maddening crowd.
I was the same way. Didn't want anyone to know I was in labor and made the "baby's here" phone calls afterward. I didn't want to give a play by play of my labor progress. So many people want everyone to be captivated by their wedding or childbirth. I don't get it lol.
Wedding is a sad, sad…pathetic, dreamy, useless, dumb event, most of which ends in either divorce or a forceful union with the most obnoxious, perpetually annoyed and mumbling partner! 🎉💍🤵♂️👰♂️
Where I’m from, destination weddings would come with the assumption that we will be paying for all of you to be there- hotel, flights, the lot. So we’d invite like 5 people. I have a strong personal objection to the culture of the country I’m living in always expecting people to PAY to come to your stag, Ben, destination wedding etc. if someone wants fancy they should pay for fancy. End of story
@@BM-ub9gh So true. People think they're so freakin' special because they're getting married. Meanwhile no one except their mothers could give a rat's patooty. I've been married for 20 yrs. We went to city hall with our parents, had a little dinner and went home. No wedding gifts, no parties, nothing. Just peace.
My mother nearly ruined her credit rating by blowing up her cards to go to her nephew's wedding in the Caribbean. I told her not to go but she was all for it, cost be damned. I think she is still paying off that trip.
Honeymoons are for the couple experiencing some destination. Weddings are about sharing your commitment to the one you love with the most meaningful people in your life. Those people should be considered.
I mean when we go to a wedding, flight cost is paid by us, except wedding days, accommodations and food is by us as well. Its more of us doing them a favor than anything else
I am amazed at how common destination weddings have become. What happened to getting married in the church down the street and having a reception close by at a nice place? In addition to that craziness, bachelor and bachelorette parties are now week long or long weekend destination events as well. It's crazy.
It's because deep down most people know they will never get that much attention and focus ever again. Most people want to feel special so some sick every last ounce of time, money and energy from their loved ones. There's some horror stories online that have gone viral. Many people fall out with these bridezillass because they realize they're very bratty and taking advantage of them.
My entire family lives in the Midwest US and my niece wanted to have her wedding in Hawaii. The 2 oldest members of the family were healthy, but could never make such a long flight. We convinced her it was selfish of her and that the "destination" should be for their honeymoon. She relented, and the seniors got to attend the wedding.
uh yeah? You guys are acting like this is some weird secret. When you have a wedding 90% of the guests are people you're socially obligated to invite. A destination wedding cuts the roster by a ton and gets you better wedding pics.
He’s right. No matter what anyone says NOBODY really wants to travel at length to someone’s wedding. I’m embarrassed to admit people from all over the country flew to Florida for my wedding. In all fairness I was TOTALLY against the idea of ANYONE coming accept the 2 of us and witness. And if we didn’t need a witness he could’ve skipped it too.
My former husband and I had a backyard wedding. Plenty of cake and build your own deli sandwich. Still with all the mothers interference if we were to do it again we opt to Elope and have our Peace. We eventually went No Contact with all of them.
Having a destination wedding is like telling everyone you invite, "I am judging you by your financial status and tolerance for inconvenience. If you can't afford to travel or can't handle the hassle, I don't actually want you here."
Never mind another 1.5 hours back. 3 hours of travel and a few hours of ceremony eats up the whole day, so you really need to stay overnight, especially if it is a long ceremony, has a reception, and you are drinking.
Maybe an unpopular opinion, but I strongly disagree. A Bride and Groom can and should do whatever they want that makes them happy if they have the financial means to do so. The day is about the bride and groom. Just don't be disappointed when people don't show up. Bride and Groom should make it very clear that there are no expectations for people to come if they don't want to. The selfish part would be to have a destination wedding and be upset when people don't attend.
@@ericbaker8807I fully agree with you. Any bride and groom who get angry at guests for not coming to a destination wedding is wrong and any guest who gets angry at the bride and groom for having a destination wedding is also wrong. If you can come, come. If you can't, don't, it is that simple. You're not obligated, you're just invited to come if you can.
I always considered a destination wedding as my friend’s way of telling me “it’s ok you don’t have to come”
I had the bride hand-write on the back of my invitation: If you can’t come, no worries!
Exhale, I considered a destination wedding as a way to thin the crowd… we are self made people who at that time were stretched so thin financially … There was family pressure, they just added to the financial stress with no consideration of our budget…. We eloped.
I consider a destination wedding as a way for the couple to say, we have more money than you.
@@Thomas.3698or it could be the opposite. Smaller party of guests and probably same destination as the honeymoon… and about a 1/5 chance it’s Mexico lol (just made that 1/5 chance thing up, but that’s what i see all the time…)…
Obnoxious of them to invite me, no present is forthcoming because they know I won't be at the wedding.
“An hour and a half by car” was the perfect comeback 😂😂
Even an hour is too long. Especially if you hit traffic. I went to a wedding where it was about 45 mins away. Coming back home at night was pure hell. Traffic took us close to two hours to get home.
@@saltycat662the reason why you hit traffic is because you left at prime time when you're traveling you have to be smart you should have left at an odd hour where there's no traffic like at 2:00 a.m. so you made that mistake
That's a half an hour more than I would drive. 😆
i'm not feeling the hilarity
This isn't Bernie Sanders?
"Can't make it. Too far." LMAO
😂 I died laughing at that part too!
CM;TF
The IRL version of TL;DR
@@Gh0stParty FJ-TD, when PQZ + OMX = jjmT?cW. How's that for VlDy;GG?
The sad thing is that that answer probably would not be accepted by a lot of people. They would be furious that you wouldn't fly across the world for them.😅
AGREED!!!
Larry has perfected the art of saying “NO”. He’s the antidote to people pleasing.
Ugh! I need lessons from Larry. I've such a time saying, "No.". It's an acquired skill...
👍👍
@@reeceraur8735same, I didn’t learn the art of saying “no” until I was in my 40’s…. Now I’m in my early 50’s and I give zero phucks about saying “no”…. One of my favorite shirts I wear says “nope” on it 😂
It’s ok to say no, you’re still a good person if you say no! ❤️💕🙏🏼!!!! Saying no is often good for body, mind and soul!!
Larry David is hilarious and giving great advice. 🤗👏👏😂😂😍
My spirit animal
An hour and a half by car sounds like the perfect boundary
If it is an immediate family member. That I like.
ONE hour ~that’s it!😂😂😂
Hmmm...An hour and a half drive to the wedding, at least another four to five hours for the wedding and reception, another hour and a half to drive home. You're talking 7 or 8 hours. Nope. Not gonna do it. Hour and a half drive is too long, because life is too short. Sorry.
@karens1967 the 5 hours is happening no matter if they live next door to you or whatever, it's 1.5 hour drive there then 1.5 hour drive back the next day because weddings are celebrations and every body drinks so it's on a Saturday 100% of the time or it doesn't count
No... an hour and twenty minutes.
If only half the population was this honest and straightforward…
And has this common sense.
I have both!!
not even .01% of the population is, genius.
Irl, ppl would ostracize you. I wish I could be like Larry David and Seinfeld. Just say No and don't care. I'm getting there
Movie: invention of lying.
This man is 500% correct 😂🎉
Absolutely
he always is
Don't go, because get this, you're not needed.
it's true. but why does he always seem so grumpy? is he really always grumpy, or does he just seem that way?
❤😂❤😂@@klondike69none85
I would just ask them to stream it and I’ll watch it on line
I would just ask them to stream it and I wouldn't watch it online.
Ugh! Why would they invest that bit of money for you? Unless you’re an ailing grandparent. And would you really sit and watch it?
@Woosaidthat Seriously! They want those 5 gifts!!! They don't care if you see their wedding.....
@@Woosaidthat I would have it playing in the background
Best response yet!!!
The older I get the more I relate to Larry David.
Same here!
and Al Bundy
I am becoming Larry David. 😂 I realize this everyday at some point.
I’ve been Larry David since my early 20s 😂😂
Right!!!
Love it, and totally agree!! Destination weddings are thoughtless of guests’ circumstances. Never understood who first thought this was a good idea!
Rich people lol
It started out as wedding/ moons ment for a small intimate wedding then of course people decided they wanted it all and viola the destination wedding was born.
You obviously run in the wrong crowd. Nation weddings I've been to people don't really worry about the financial side of it
I think Larry should start an advice column. "Ask Larry...."
Funny!
it’s called curb your enthusiasm, you see how he would handle almost every situation just turned up a notch
I bet it would be pretty pretty good
This video is cringey, people just laughing because he is Larry David, doesn't matter that he is unfunny by trying too hard to be funny. I'm sorry , this is the first time I've seen him talk, and he didn't leave me the impression of being a genius comedian as others I have seen
nah. it's funny but if we all started acting like Larry society would crumble in about 2 weeks
Larry is all of us 🤣
I wouldn’t even go to another country for my own wedding 🤷♂️
lol
But you'd go for your divorce, though, right?
exactly
@@Kube_DogCan’t be willing to divorce if you’re not willing to marry, mate.
Amen
American icon. His writing on Seinfeld and writing and acting on Curb Your Enthusiasm were superb!
This is how to live life. No pretence, no anxiety
That's it, that's who he is.
He is one of the most anxious and neurotic humans on the planet lmao.
@@mikee702yeah he's completely neurotic
@@lalachihuahua5304 quite the opposite!
AGREED.......😊
Larry David is my spirit animal.
Listening to this made me realize that I’ve been identifying incorrectly my entire life. Apparently my true self is a 76 year old Jewish writer from New York.
Bro Larry David is always correct
Same
Hes 76?! Damn! His personality and wry smirk makes him seem much younger
He’s Jewish? Oh man, I hope it gets better for him
@@turolretar s0 3dgy br0
The best person ever…I will be forever grateful to Larry for curb and Seinfeld 😂😂
One of the reasons Curb your Enthusiasm was such a great show, was that Larry truly portrayed himself as himself.
Didn't he fly to Mexico for a wedding in Curb? Oh that's right he was sourcing coffee beans
He did but that's like a 2 hr flight tops@@davidmorton3222
I'd submit,
portrayed himself as Mankind truly thinks & feels,
without all the formalities and pleasantries..
Larry insists that he is NOT his character on "Curb".
@@itsROMPERS...that’s true. He says he wishes he was like the character on Curb.
“my presence is my present” literally what my mom has told me she thinks on destination parties
I hate it when people argue that you’re getting a vacation out of it. Yeah, a vacation where YOU get to decide when I have to go, where I have to go, how much I have to spend and all the things we’re gonna have to do each day just to ensure YOUR wedding was everything you dreamed of. No thanks.
I feel the same about a family trip.
The "Dream" is there, but the reality is, there is excessive planning and coordination going on along with it. One couple with 2 separate minds dealing with hundreds of people. Their mission; I imagine, is for their guests to remember having a great time, in a beautiful, lavish, get-a-way oasis with them on their special day, enjoying every minute, it has to offer. But deep down, many of them can't wait to get back home to business away from this place. Unfortunately, you can't always pass that feeling along. But the thought is there.
And they still expect a wedding gift. Only Billionaires should do this because they can pay for everything, including airfare.
It’s like a timeshare meeting
@@markinohio1 imo even if airfare and hotel are paid for by the bride and groom it's still BS, people have limited time off work each year and they should be able to spend that time however they want
If you have a wedding that makes people travel to get there, then EVERY expense needs to be covered. Every single part of it, down to the gas, plane ticket, hotel, food, etc. That's all.👏🏻
It’s actually beyond obnoxious to have a “destination” wedding and expect guests to show up hundreds of miles away.
Well if the person who is having the wedding is beyond obnoxious, I feel you.
And then expect you to give a gift after spending money on airfare and hotel. You are OUT OF YOUR MIND if you think you're getting a monetary gift on top of all the money I just spent....
@@leahartlee29 Doesn't matter if they are obnoxious or not.
Right? Isn't that what the honeymoon is for?
Maybe it’s you who’s the obnoxious one?
Agreed, 1 million %.
Absolutely, I’m with Larry 100%
Love Larry David.
CURB YOUR ENTHUSIASM
I don't want to go to most weddings to begin with. Traveling to another country for one is out of the question.
Bingo lol
Exactly no weddings for me anymore. If I am traveling somewhere I don't want to have to do things I don't want to do.
1 hour in a car for me is about my limit for traveling to a wedding. An hour and a half only if I’m expecting a blowjob as a result of my presence.
@RonRicho: "No weddings for you! Come back, ONE YEAR!"
I hate weddings.
On the RSVP I would just say that I’ll make it to the next one!☠️
😂
😂
😂❤
"Can't make it, too far" like its a text message 😂
Well yeah that's what he'd send lol
Hour and a half by car 😂😂 Never change Larry😂
This is the man who rightly argued that sending a SAVE THE DATE should double as an actual wedding invitation. Not a precursor to a second RSVP.
You are not supposed to rsvp to a save the date. It supposed to be a simple way to get the word out about the date the couple picked so they don't have to answer the question a thousand times.
The way he turns his head with intolerance before the answer is hilarious.
Even if you’re in a nice hotel and you’re all set up? I’m in a nice home & all set up. Without paying for the annoyance of relations and jet lag. 😂 This is a no brainer.
Ahahahaha
Well said!
Best answer🎉
The hotel expenses, etc are the responsibility of the invited guest.
I only get on long flights like that if I plan on staying in the destination for a while. I'm not sitting 14 hours on a plane to spend one day or two or three I don't know. I want to spend a couple weeks.
@virginiamoore4429 the host said all accommodations were paid for them.
I think destination weddings are an unassertive way to say "don't come" and I'm happy to comply.
My take on destination weddings is if someone has one and they don’t offer to pay your way then it is their way of saying they really don’t care if you go. It is a huge expense and if they want you to attend they will pay for your travel accommodations. It’s ridiculous to expect one person to pay a couple of grand and fly thousands of miles to see you get married when you live 30 miles away from each other.
Yeah it is wild to say "Hey, you love us so much you're going to take an entire vacation budget, days off work, cash-in on childcare requests, etc. not to vacation WITH us, which could perhaps be fun... but rather near us. We'll see you for a bit as you sit through our bullshit. We'll talk to you for a couple minutes maybe. And you can leave your registry gift on the table over there. We'll spend most of our time with people who don't live near us because we hardly see them. I'm sure you can understand"
I wish it were
‘Only’ a couple of grand. One destination wedding cost us $10K [airfare for 2, posh accommodations, only thing available, in a high end ski resort, clothing, meals, etc etc etc]
@@gailkshawa "no" could've saved all that. I feel like DestWeds are tests of people's pocketbooks, and no one opts out because they want to impress others and not admit they don't want to spend the money.
@@mettamorph4523 OR it’s family & one is in the wedding party. Hard call to make.
@@gailkshaw Y did u go?
Thanks for taking us with you through the clean up 🎉
He’s an international treasure
the older you get, the easier it is to say no. it's a learned ability. you say yes to everything when you are younger, even if you don't really want to go.
I’m an old expat now. My second marriage - just us and witnesses. We made it for us. Pressure free. Told everyone later. Same when I was pregnant - Sent ultrasound pics late in pregnancy, spouse called after birth. It’s not for everyone, but I found great peace in quietly experiencing these milestones in privacy, far from the maddening crowd.
Love it! There is so much hypocrisy surrounding weddings!
1000 likes!! this is how to live life!
It’s “madding” crowd🙂, but I get it, in this case (and most cases) they really are “maddening”!
I was the same way. Didn't want anyone to know I was in labor and made the "baby's here" phone calls afterward. I didn't want to give a play by play of my labor progress. So many people want everyone to be captivated by their wedding or childbirth. I don't get it lol.
From the *madding crowd
YES ! Thank you Larry!
100% right Larry.
ABSOLUTELY HILARIOUS But he's absolutely RIGHT !!😂😂 I soooo AGREE!!😂😂😂❤
100% correct. Sorry have the wedding here🤷🏻♂️
“An hour and half by car” came out to prepared and engrained. Perfect Larry David material 😂
Using up your money, time and vacation holiday for someone else? No. A normal wedding, you are lucky to take my Saturday.
Wedding is a sad, sad…pathetic, dreamy, useless, dumb event, most of which ends in either divorce or a forceful union with the most obnoxious, perpetually annoyed and mumbling partner! 🎉💍🤵♂️👰♂️
For your fucking doomed marriage
Right? And usually a *summer* Saturday at that! 🧐
Facts. It’s honestly so rude, self-grandiose and presumptuous to expect someone to attend. Let alone also give you a gift.
@@BM-ub9gh😅😅
Larry David is the absolute best!
Where I’m from, destination weddings would come with the assumption that we will be paying for all of you to be there- hotel, flights, the lot. So we’d invite like 5 people. I have a strong personal objection to the culture of the country I’m living in always expecting people to PAY to come to your stag, Ben, destination wedding etc. if someone wants fancy they should pay for fancy. End of story
Yes, 100%.
My nephew who lived at the time in Tampa, Fla, but got married in Cancun, Mexico and I told him to have fun but it's to far for us. 😅
I ❤ him!! Couldn’t agree more!
Destination weddings are absolute narcissism unless you’re paying for everyones travel and full accommodations.
And they expect a gift, I went to one in Hawaii and I did not give them a gift. I was the gift!
I knew someone who stopped talking to their sister when her family decided they couldn't afford to go to one if these weddings!
@@warrioroflight3813heck, I do that for close weddings. My present is I showed up. It's hard enough getting out for anything with anxiety.
The wedding itself is a narcissism. Forget “destination”!
@@BM-ub9gh So true. People think they're so freakin' special because they're getting married. Meanwhile no one except their mothers could give a rat's patooty. I've been married for 20 yrs. We went to city hall with our parents, had a little dinner and went home. No wedding gifts, no parties, nothing. Just peace.
My man, Larry! Will always miss the show….
My mother nearly ruined her credit rating by blowing up her cards to go to her nephew's wedding in the Caribbean. I told her not to go but she was all for it, cost be damned. I think she is still paying off that trip.
Are they even still married at least?
@@walter2695 Yes
The divorce will be finalized before it’s paid off lol
A trip to the carribean is way cheaper than traveling domestically, I spend way more money when I go to Miami than when I go to Dominican Republic.
@@Simon_Cowwhat is cheap for you is not necessarily cheap for others.
“Can’t make it, too far” lol!
Larrys the man!!!! I live by these rules
The BEST response to a destination wedding. 😂 we had our wedding in town so everyone could be there. It about WHO comes, not WHERE it is.
Honeymoons are for the couple experiencing some destination. Weddings are about sharing your commitment to the one you love with the most meaningful people in your life. Those people should be considered.
You nailed it. Thank you!
Larry David is a comedic genius!
Words of wisdom
I mean when we go to a wedding, flight cost is paid by us, except wedding days, accommodations and food is by us as well. Its more of us doing them a favor than anything else
I am amazed at how common destination weddings have become. What happened to getting married in the church down the street and having a reception close by at a nice place? In addition to that craziness, bachelor and bachelorette parties are now week long or long weekend destination events as well. It's crazy.
Coworker of mine recently got married and she had an engagement party, a bridal shower, a Bachelorette party, AND a destination wedding. Come on!
It's because deep down most people know they will never get that much attention and focus ever again. Most people want to feel special so some sick every last ounce of time, money and energy from their loved ones. There's some horror stories online that have gone viral. Many people fall out with these bridezillass because they realize they're very bratty and taking advantage of them.
No one goes to church anymore
All so overblown. And especially since the divorce rate is over 50%
@@gutsfinkyDamn, imagine what the people who were in the wedding party had to spend 😳
My entire family lives in the Midwest US and my niece wanted to have her wedding in Hawaii. The 2 oldest members of the family were healthy, but could never make such a long flight. We convinced her it was selfish of her and that the "destination" should be for their honeymoon. She relented, and the seniors got to attend the wedding.
Can't make it, too far!! Omg that gor me😂😂😂😂.... I just traveled to Florida from Pennsylvania to a wedding but I didn't want to go to
Always agree with Larry❤
He is 100% correct!
I'm convinced that couples have destination weddings so guests won't show up but just send expensive gifts.
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I'll send a 'good luck' text and then request a return call once they reach the 10 year mark. 🎉
He justifies my grumpiness
I'm only 35 but more and more im realizng Larry's antics are exactly how I feel
I told my buddy when he had a destination wedding that his wife wanted that because she knew none of his friends, including me, would go.
Many couples choose destinations to cut the guest list
That's a smart move on her part.
I suppose so. After they got divorced 4 years later due to her infidelity, he made sure his next wife got along with his friends and family.
uh yeah? You guys are acting like this is some weird secret. When you have a wedding 90% of the guests are people you're socially obligated to invite. A destination wedding cuts the roster by a ton and gets you better wedding pics.
Sucks ..she got the best of you
I love this Larry David. Simple, period.
This is so true it shouldn't even get a laugh!
Sometimes laughs come from the sudden realization of a truth!
Absolutely right on!!!
Two hours into a flight and I’m ready to try the emergency handle
😂😂😂
Gold, pure gold.
He’s right. No matter what anyone says NOBODY really wants to travel at length to someone’s wedding. I’m embarrassed to admit people from all over the country flew to Florida for my wedding. In all fairness I was TOTALLY against the idea of ANYONE coming accept the 2 of us and witness. And if we didn’t need a witness he could’ve skipped it too.
People feel they have to invite friends and family and probably hope half of them dont come
My former husband and I had a backyard wedding. Plenty of cake and build your own deli sandwich. Still with all the mothers interference if we were to do it again we opt to Elope and have our Peace. We eventually went No Contact with all of them.
Went to Goa for my cousins wedding and was such a beautiful ceremony was happy to attend and take part of the festivities
Larry’s living the dream
I just love Larry David!!! ❤
THIS MAN IS WISE
LoL sometimes u got a be honest love this man's attitude 😂😂😂😂😂
I’ll be using that “can’t make it, too far” one to the next wedding invite 😂 don’t care if it’s two hours away
My brother had a destination wedding and said it was great because it was much cheaper...which it was, for him!
Having a destination wedding is like telling everyone you invite, "I am judging you by your financial status and tolerance for inconvenience. If you can't afford to travel or can't handle the hassle, I don't actually want you here."
That’s comedian talk. Good stuff
He’s freakin hilarious
Larry is my spirit animal
Totally agree with Larry and I would have to be in a really good mood to drive 1 1/2 hours.
Never mind another 1.5 hours back. 3 hours of travel and a few hours of ceremony eats up the whole day, so you really need to stay overnight, especially if it is a long ceremony, has a reception, and you are drinking.
Larry David is too hilarious. 😆
An hour and a half by car in LA is literally Burbank to West Hollywood, i.e. 7 miles morning and evening rush hour.
100% AGREE, destination weddings are so audacious!!!
Audacious
😂
Hes a 1000% right!
I'd say more like 2000%
Love this guy!!!
I'm with Larry! "Destination weddings" = selfish and/or entitled bride/groom.
Maybe an unpopular opinion, but I strongly disagree. A Bride and Groom can and should do whatever they want that makes them happy if they have the financial means to do so. The day is about the bride and groom. Just don't be disappointed when people don't show up. Bride and Groom should make it very clear that there are no expectations for people to come if they don't want to. The selfish part would be to have a destination wedding and be upset when people don't attend.
@@ericbaker8807I fully agree with you. Any bride and groom who get angry at guests for not coming to a destination wedding is wrong and any guest who gets angry at the bride and groom for having a destination wedding is also wrong. If you can come, come. If you can't, don't, it is that simple. You're not obligated, you're just invited to come if you can.
I feel like you have a destination wedding when you don't get along with your family, but you feel like you have to invite them.
@@ericbaker8807 arrogant and egoistical behaviour, the result: failed marriage
What if that's where they live... It just happens to be out of country. Work related etc
I hope he lives forever ❤
Enjoy your wedding day, it's not my problem! 😅💓💒💍
Love Larry David…speaks the Truth…
Heard a young nurse from Devon say her wedding is in Hawaii, crazy
I love Larry! And his Curb your Enthusiasm
Love the butterfly idea that's great idea ❤❤
"You don't go..."
Rich laughing like it's the funniest thing ever said in the history of man....
and this is why you have no friends...
@@animalmagic5575 It seemed odd to me, too. It's not so surprising: he's right! Simple words of wisdom: you don't go.
Such a realist. ❤