Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ก.ย. 2024
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In this video, Sara Rosenberg will be sharing with us what it is like to live with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and how that impacts her mental health. We'll learn more about what Sara's journey to treatment was like and how she maintains a happy and healthy life today!
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I don't want attention but life is sucking the reason to live out of me
Just be patient with the process.. And find things that your good at doing and try to be content with just that vs. showing off sort of speak to the world
Something that’s help me- TRY THIS> create a journal and write 4 questions (you can also add questions)
1) how do I feel? ( can be simply or get deep into it)
2) why do I feel this way? ( it’s okay to write “idk” and “this is my mental health and I’m having a chemical Imbalance”
3) Can I do anything to fix this or change how I feel?
4) has writing helped me today?
This is called *Improving* *yourself* and everyone does it. *If* *it* *isnt* *apparaent* *to* Whatever u (the ppl claim to be) *BPD*
*BPD* *are* *like* *Victimhood* *ppl*
Ohh Sad n Tragic where it nodoubt *FISHED* it out of some clearance bin... *GET* *A* *JOB* *BPD!*
I really hate when people call me crazy, it feels really hurtful especially when it’s a lot of emotions and thoughts that I’m trying to battle through on my own. I’m trying to do my best and that’s “crazy”. Idk it’s really difficult.
I have borderline, too... thank you for speaking up. I'm learning to love living again, thanks to therapy and meds
*AmberTrud*
I don't want attention but life is sucking for just living.. *So* *its* *someelse* *fault.*
Yea, sure *PsychlolWithBPD*
There is no any other disease like this in Other Parts of the world.. *What* *r* *A* *different* *Specie?LOL*
Shouldn’t need meds get better bro
The lady in the video is so correct. We are in constant emotional pain so much to the point that it will affect us physically. ailments etc. So, if we come off the wrong way vs. snapping at us and embarrassing us just confidentially give us a heads up and we will adjust the outward process as much as possible.
People with BPD are not looking for attention... people pretending to have BPD are looking for attention.
*AmberTrud*
I don't want attention but life is sucking for just living.. *So* *its* *someelse* *fault.*
Yea, sure *PsychlolWithBPD*
There is no any other disease like this in Other Parts of the world.. *What* *r* *A* *different* *Specie?LOL*
I know a woman who claims to have BPD and I think she has narcissism instead.
@@julesj5853many people with BPD exhibit narcissistic traits. Why?
Look at a toddler. They are self centered, based on their development. They cannot consider others experiences, feelings, their impact on others, and more...this is expected of a toddler. However, in the arrested emotional development of someone with BPD, hence the issues with emotional regulation, acting out, inability to clearly/calmly state what they need...and so on...comes across like a toddler. Of course it's due to deep shame and pain.
The behavior can look very, very narcissistic. They are very unaware of their impact, trauma they cause, on others. They aren't trying to do this, but their near constant amygdala activation, makes it impossible to consider others. It is this blindness to others that seems narcissistic.
Since they often feel like they are being chased by a tiger, they are only concerned with their survival, in that moment...no one else.
It is one of the aspects that keep them from getting the support and compassion they need. They want from others, things they won't give others..:so it becomes very imbalanced and a one way interaction. Not healthy.
The main type of people who will tolerate it, are others who also suffer from low self esteem, and likely are codependent.
So you do have you hypochondriacs out there but that's and illness as well within itself but back on bpd... it is a real issue that not enough people take seriously that's why bpd awareness is so important.
@@julesj5853 me personally it’s not that I want attention I just don’t want too feel alone I like to be around people that like having me around that’s all if I split and feel like I hate you forever now yeah I won’t want to be around you even if I’m in my lowest moment I won’t want to be around you
So many professionals don't like BPD's, I've heard "they take alot of time" and yes the attention piece. STIGMA
The attention that we seek is not because we really want you attention but its because we were invalidated as kids growing up and we want to be validated we want to feel real we want to feel a live..
I should add...if we are still invalidated TODAY its normal to want attention
@@SouLightness very true, I catch myself still attention or validation from others at times, but I try to fight because I really want to control that part of my life as much as possible..
At this point, whenever someone asks what its like to have it, I tell them "it just hurts to exist at varying levels at varying times under varying circumstances."
My ex would create situations specifically to trigger my BPD so he could make me out to be psychotic Game Crazy in front of all of his friends families or Associates. It worked until my CBD and DBT therapies were set in place. Then it showed whom her really was/is and that I was 100% working my therapy.
*AmberTrud*
I don't want attention but life is sucking for just living.. *So* *its* *someelse* *fault.*
Yea, sure *PsychlolWithBPD*
There is no any other disease like this in Other Parts of the world.. *What* *r* *A* *different* *Specie?LOL*
Was it your bpd that made you think he “specifically” did those things or did he actually intend to exploit you for his personal benefit
Feeling immensely sad and afraid. I m diagnosed with IFS recently
yes, we are looking for attention. But because we can't feel connected. Or because we constantly socially fumble. So we create a cycle
Ewwwww
@@yomiseno you don't have to understand but you don't have to be judgmental. if you don't or didn't have the disorder you wouldn't understand the internal black pit it is.
What's the point of pushing forward when you finally reach out for help. And your therapist goes on a vacation with no notice. Only to stop responding when asking to set up an appt when they return. Digging myself up again to find another therapist. Only to have them cancel the next 3 appts after Only meeting once. I can't do this anymore.
Everything will work it self out, just trust in the Lord.
I get this, I know with myself it’s hard to not look at it as some thing or someone that wrongs me on purpose and equate that to the whole world quitting on me but it’s just one therapist and trust me not every therapist, not every person is a good person but that’s just the reality of the world and we can’t quit on ourselves because someone made a bad decision we just have to find the right person for us and it could take time but think of it as putting time into ourselves for the betterment of ourselves. it’s probably a good thing when people leave your life in any kind of way always look at the positive of it it was probably the end of their journey in your life and they served no purpose in helping you succeed because now when you find a new therapist they’ll probably be an amazing person and perfect for you but you would’ve never found that without leaving that past therapist I wish you all the luck!!
I'm here to talk if you'd like . I'm not diagnosed, but i believe I'm bpd. I can't post the complete email but its a gmail address, and its Verbatimorgish
There are therapists who won't work with people who have BPD. Especially Narcissistic BPD because it's not a disorder. It's the actual personality of the person. Narcissists don't ever change so therapy is pointless.
Have you tried DBT? I used to have BPD (still have some of the symptoms) and it was significantly more helpful than 1 on 1 therapy. Some therapists unfortunately refuse to treat clients with BPD, but if you’re going to DBT, they might be more willing to see you.
Which kind of bpd 😭
I can never tell if it's "borderline personality disorder" or "bipolar dosorder"
Bpd is borderline personality disorder.
Which always gets mixed diagnosed as bipolar.
there’s only one
*AmberTrud*
I don't want attention but life is sucking for just living.. *So* *its* *someelse* *fault.*
Yea, sure *PsychlolWithBPD*
There is no any other disease like this in Other Parts of the world.. *What* *r* *A* *different* *Specie?LOL*
I have bpd, and i want the opposite. Attention causes painful situations.
People that think that haven’t looked into the condition.
keep up the work - one step at a time - "keep pushing forward"
Ive got bpd wnd its hell!
Now apparently i have anti social personality disorder.
Im the opposite to that. Misunderstood massively.
Thank you
Thank you for this
Stay strong peeps I have it as well what helps me is to love myself and not let anyone or anything bring me down because I have what a lot say is a illness or whatever I work out a lot and strive for my dreams if you have good support by that’s even better but Most of the time people don’t yeah so what helps me just realizing that it is me and I love myself and nothing’s gonna change that rather I have illness or not I see what I bring to the table of life so yeah don’t let them get to you too much peeps I love you
Hugs! 🫂
I broke up with a girl who had bpd, she called the police on me with a made up.story
My daughter has BPD and I have a hard time trying to help her she had like someone to talk to then he dropped her because she missed some appointments then she got a new person and they said they wouldn’t drop her if she missed appointments but what did they do at her last appointment they dropped her she needs someone to talk to but sometimes when something is new like the last one it was on Monday afternoon and we just couldn’t remember that she had an appointment she was working as a live in nanny at the time the dr lied to her she said she wouldn’t drop my daughter and then she did what can I do
This sounds super enabling
I felt so selfish for feeling the way I do
I'm waiting for therapy for over a year and I'm losing it I'm getting worse
what is BPD????
Borderline Personality Disorder.
What is this? I don't recognize the name?
Amber Heard
I don't want attention I want help so I can sustain a Job and keep my relationships healthy. I wanna stop being so angry to overly happy within minutes. I want to stop impulsively acting. I hate it.
I don't even tell people I have it
Yoo you guys need just chill and not taking everything seriously
THEY ATE BATSHYT CRAZY!! RUNNNNN.
Girl shut up thats like saying all people with depression are nuts. 🙄
I'm seeing that out of you right now...
You don't understand the disorder or the fact that we don't all share the same mold. You were hurt by one person, not by all who have the traits or diagnosis.
When I first told my friend that I had BPD she looked at me and was like what is that so I explained it to her then when school started back up she told litterly everyone that I was basically lieing and she was the one that had it and all this stuff so this message was very heart warming thx 🤍
So…in what ways is there support? :/
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Not crazy?
Wrong…
My parents Inc others sexually abused me 😢 im 58 bk under mental health 3rd time
I show more distress when no ones around than when they are there so this notion all people with it at eattentionseeekrrs is so wrong plus I think I have bipolar as well but the nhs doesn’t tend to do more than one disaffiliated at a time it’s mental health system is a joke
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“We are in so much pain” is a very borderline thing to say, you dont know real pain
How can you know what she feels and experienced in the past she and any other individual with bpd?
Try BPD and parkinsons, you smart person. You have no idea. You dont live 8n another persons head
Is a bone broken? Is there heavy bleeding? If not, get up and take care of yourself. You don’t know pain.
It is pain. It feels like you're dying. The mind is a powerful thing.
I don't need everyone to understand, but some of us really relate to this. It's what I've been saying and have been dismissed about. Borderlines are hurt, not born evil.
Maybe it's a borderline thing to say because BPD is painful. If you think emotional pain doesn't count, that's on you.
I fucking hate living with bpd
Get therapy...
but I do want attention. Like a lot, I need more attention than the average person due to me being attention deprived.
Yes , you are in pain but you cause others pain . DBT has 50 percent success rates.. yet there’s no line outside the therapy clinic .
It's rooted in trauma as with many other mental illnesses which could be eliminated by treating/healing the trauma- not the symptoms of how that trauma manifests.
If only we cared to understand and heal trauma, rather than exploit vulnerable people for the sake of business and get them using drugs they think they can't function without, and yet they don't help you regulate yourself...BPD gets misdiagnosed the most, especially with CPTSD and survivors of Narcissistic Abuse.
I agree, they send more to therapy
I dont know what your one about my therpist and the other therpist nearby are fully packed. Like the reason alot of people with bpd dont get therapy is due to over bookings and waiting lists 💀
Not everyone borderline abuses.
telling people that you have a disorder is a pure example of seeking attention
No not really if you get close with someone you may just find that out most people with bpd arent just telling randoms they have it.
That’s part of it lmao like are you serious? Seeking attention and validation . They are monsters