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1 only treats you nice when she wants something. 2 takes no interest in your sexual satisfaction. 3 gets irritated when you as questions. 4 gives you vague hope for the future. 5 keeps the relationship secret
"Transactional Arangements" this is why sex workers and sigma males make compatable couples but with toxic longevity kinda like Destiny and Idubbbz with their GF/WIVES
I went through this (2 kids married 7 years)…. Understood at the tail end what I was dealing with, and got fully educated on the subject. Just allowed her to branch off to her new partner - there is always overlap with these folks. When she tried coming back (her new relationships failed), nope you burned that bridge i’m just focusing on myself and the kids now.
It’s a fascinating experience I wouldn’t wish upon my worst enemy. Total wolf in sheep’s clothing, marriage vows meant nothing it was all show to extract as many resources as she could until she felt she had a bigger fish on the hook.
@@Dansyoung I had something sort of similar. A girl I thought was the one, told me she wanted me to talk to her shrink, to get the low down, on her mental illness What it really was was his dictating to me that I could not have a life where I made any decisions and had to exist only for her. Of course he wasn't that obvious or blunt about it. But that was the loud and clear message. In top of that, while I had not even said two words to this guy I had never met, before that day. He had said to her all kinds of things about me to her. Yeah I could have reported this guy and ended his career. Anyway, I manipulated her, right back. I broke up with her, but made her think it was her idea. That was because in my circle, they thought she was perfect, and did not realize her decietful nature. Rather then spend years trying to explain it to deaf ears. I just made them think it was out of my hands, and she had dumped me.
You got that right. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. So many take for granted and mistake kindness, understanding, love, affection, equality and generosity for Weakness.
The sigma male moves and thinks in silence . A woman I’m dealing with now is trying this stuff , she thinks I’m stupid . But I know all her moves and agenda . WALK AWAY GENTLEMEN. We are lone wolves by nature
My wife will say to me on occasion that I'm disconnected, that I don't care. Such bullshit. I am mostly quiet, but will speak up or act when logic dictates, not some silly-ass emotional shit with no real basis.
@cristianmartinezlugo3463 Narcissistic Personality Disorder. You'll be surprised how many people have it. It's definitely worth looking into, as not many people are aware of it. It's an extremely destructive condition, but more people are now becoming aware of it, and how widespread it is. There are loads of channels on here about it.
2 months ago till right now...Abit of a long read 😅: Decided to get back with my ex 2 months ago after an 8 month break up. She was playing mind games, asking for time to think about it when in reality, she was in another relationship (she never disclosed this information until recently) but agreed a month later when the situation was convenient for her (said she actually needed time to break up with the other guy, apologized for lying the first time and her justification was that she knew that if she told me, I'd have stopped pursuing her). Wasn't happy about it, although I thought, logically, it makes sense, I forgave her for lying and we started dating. She soon started exhibiting EVERY aspect described in this video to which I asked if she was sure she wanted to be in this relationship to which, she further affirmed that she did. Her behaviours were: 1. that she was avoiding real conversations and questions. 2. She threw sex out of the window before even getting my perspective on the issue 3. put in VERY minimal effort, 4. She would give the most vague assurance of us having a future together even after making my intentions clear (us getting married). 5. There was no follow through in her actions, just empty promises. 6. She kept our relationship on the low from her peers. 7. The worst was that she was emotional absent. Only showing just enough kindness when she felt I would get Abit distant just to reel me back in and continue the cycle. The next 3 weeks were depressing... Couldn't sleep, had loss of appetite, was falling back on work. I Did a lot of research on relationships, toxicity and marriage during this period. Deep down I knew I deserved better but I was enraptured by the POTENTIAL the relationship would have when in reality, settling down with someone should be based on the present... Fast forward to last week, on my birthday... Got calls and encouraging messages from family and friends with meaningful birthday wishes and the only thing this human being did was send me a "happy birthday babe" message... no call or visit the WHOLE day (and she was off work during the day), only later in the evening to ask me to get an Uber to collect a birthday cake... something inside me snapped, the levels of clarity sky rocketed, this amount of effort was laughable. Had gathered the courage and made the mental decision that I'd break up with her the next day and I slept like a baby that night, my morale was INSTANTLY boosted. Broke up with her the next day... There's No amount of wings red bull could give that would have made my spirit soar the way it did after I did it. I swear, the effort she's ONLY NOW putting in the last 3days out weighs what she put in during the entirety of the relationship (And it's only cause she wants me back, saying we'll get back eventually - even briefly highlighted that we could have sex if I wanted to, happy to say I WASN'T moved in the slightest 😎, instantly remembered the other girls/women that would offer sexual gratification who I ignored cause of our relationship). I'm now back to my usual self ie; ambitious, self motivating and healthy. My key take aways: 1. Walk away from someone who doesn't respect your feelings and time. 2. Stop associating being a good person with how much you're willing to suffer for them. 3. Wrong marriages have ruined great destines. 4. Never beg for love, you could be someone's answered prayer. 5. If you have to tell them to help carry the bricks, they're not the one to build with. 6. Growth will sometimes feel like loss. 7. Your purpose should always come first, everything else will eventually fall in place. 8. Seek God's hand in the relationship, He reveals things to you that you alone cannot see. Have a blessed week kings!!! 💪🏿😎
"Settling down with someone should be in the PRESENT". Man, you've just saved me !! You do not know HOW MUCH !!! Just Thank you ! From France, Paris 🇨🇵👍🏾
Wow, I actually had a woman use that line on me: "If you can't handle me at my worst..." I didn't know it originated with Marilyn Monroe. Well, her worst was toxic, so her best wasn't worth it.
😂 this video is funny a true Sigma would see through a woman's true intentions a mile away, he has already dissected her from the inside out before even going through all this mess, the Betas, Deltas, Omegas and Gammas here are hilarious
Literally just went through this. This woman would speak so highly of me but those actions just never really lined up. Her words were “If I’m too much go find less”. Honestly let her get away with a lot of her shit because of her age and the sad story she told me. I showed way too much love.
As a TIGER SIGMA MALE, never tell a woman you LOVE her, instead tell her you WORSHIP her, yea? A woman that hears those words will honor an authentic relationship and the women that hear those words who have hidden agendas will not be able to relate and run the other way, yea? Those words are like FIRE, they will get burned forever, yea? "EVERY WISH FULFILLED" E.T.
@@xy28100 Dude is clearly insane or a troll lol. Only an idiot who wants to lose his manhood and get stepped all over would tell a WOMAN he worships her.
The "introductory" period allows you to appear to be in control, to assert yourself, to be her hero and she loves you for it so much.... until you commit. The next stage brings a total reversal of roles and the use of attitude and sexuality become her weapons to manipulate and control your ass. I've lived it. Don't ever do the "gov't paperwork" as it drastically changes everything in one direction.
Be straight forward with all women you encounter, make clear your intentions, if she doesn't like it and refuses further contact you successfully filtered out a delusional idiot.
You don't get it. They are actors and at first, they do so much for you, give you attention, participate in things you enjoy, are very intimate, loving and caring. They listen to your intentions, they absorb them and do their very best to support you....they are setting the hook. Once you take the bait thinking you have found true love and your commitment is consummated it's not long before the real deal surfaces. It's mental, spiritual, physical, sexual and financial manipulation to perfection. You are their vehicle to get them to their next level ambitions at your expense....you are just a stepping stone. I lived it.
@@mikejohn0088 OK mate I don't get it, I have 2 Daughters in England 22, and 21, I have 1 Daughter in the Philippines 10, and 1 Daughter due in December in Indonesia. OK mate I don't get it.
I went through a very similar scenario with my now ex wife. We had a child together and I ignored all the signs for the sake of our child. I provided and basically was bent on my knees trying to create a happy home, while in return I was being drained of my happiness. Not even a year into our marriage, I finally opened my eyes and filed for divorce. I am still very much a huge part of my child's life. I only started to truly realize the type of female I was dealing with after we parted ways and people heard my story of the things I went thru. It's very different when you hear an outside individual's perspective. From the inside, all I thought about was my ex wife's and child's happiness. Never of my own. And I also hated the idea of having my child grow up without both parents. But now that I'm not with my wife anymore, I actually feel more happier than I've ever been.
You will unfortunately have a child that's been exposed to the Narcissistic behavior. You have to keep addressing what isn't normal behavior so she won't follow her mama off a cliff. Trust me on that
If you are in the dating game , you should have some boundaries in place that would help you stay out of bad relationships. Never permit or participate in disrespectful behavior. If you observe bad behavior, fade away they aren’t worthy of your time , or aggregation.
@@thomasgrabowski2202 good luck with that. If you're good you can keep things going good by fighting it. But get used to it. It will never end. Tireless effort for marginal rewards isn't my cup of tea.
Thank goodness I have two others on standby if desire be. For all you good men out there, learn to have a variety of choices. Learn to bump it down to the next one. Happy fishing 🎣.
1 thru 5 i just went thru this. I was telling myself the whole time. The inconsistencies and all it didn't add up. I thought i had something to build on and i never had a chance from the jump. This is really gonna help someone in the future. Hopefully sooner than later.
I think it's deeper. The those thing you've mentioned are applied to all men. But with sigma it may be like «dissecting» of all red flags up to the limit. I think you can even analyze how a woman speaks. Sometimes even her talking may reveal a lot of about herself.
went through that, caught it real quick and told her to kick rocks and now she's INVISIBLE to me, it was just a big waste so fellows don't wear blindfolds or feel you have to walk and egg shells to have who u want, be you no matter what 💯✊ she coming..
It's kind of a tricky video because sigma males already know before they're being used or taken advantage of however it's tricky when the user or manipulator hides behind children especially young children.
If she's working with you, you can't beat her. If she's working against you, you don't need her. Gentlemen, liberate them if they are working against you.
All this happened to me when I was younger 18 19 years old, I can’t tolerate even one of those with any women now, I will be gone before she even noticed I was arround.
I married the finest woman in the world. A couple of years before I met my wife I saw my old girlfriend in a store. I can’t lie. She climbed the good looks ladder about five rungs beyond spectacular. Despite her incredible beauty I had no interest in getting back together. I found out another guy had run her through. We were crazy about each other when dating, and she was drop-dead gorgeous but… no hymen, no diamond. I married a pure woman who was outwardly beautiful and stunningly gorgeous on the inside. She doesn’t play head games. We are only for each other and no one else. We have now been together for many decades. Other men notice her but her heart is only for me, and mine for her.
wow, found this and can not believe I fell for a women who treated me exactly like this and because I loved her so much she got away with it for years. Thanks for this. Now I finally understand what was going on.
I know exactly how you feel and I will always hate I waisted over 9 years of this life I am 57 now seeing this I am so Mad at me for letting me go through it .
Woman: "if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best" Me: "if you can't be at your best all the time, then you sure as hell don't deserve to be with me"
When a Woman Is Using a Sigma Male, She'll Do These 5 Things (Be Aware) 5. She only treats you nice when you want something 4. Takes no interested in your sexual satisfaction 3. Gets irritated when you ask significant questions 2. Gives you a vague hope for the future 1. Keep the relationship a secret
She put a spell on me 44y ago, after being 1 month together I was wandering in the wilderness for 40y before we met again on Facebook. I can't f*cking get her out of my head ever since although she's playing me for 4y now. I could quit taking coke & speed and smoking tobacco & ganja but I seem to be addicted for life...
A woman who does those five things will reveal her self-absorption in many other ways, such as not fully engaging with you & looking at her phone when you’re out together, disregarding your insights or experiences by interjecting her own, talking about herself all the time, etc.
Very true from personal experience, it will feel as if they don't wanna be there with you and as if they have to "deal" with you...leave without explanation
I too a sigma male. I too had this problem for 7,8 years. I was struggling to clarify what it was but never understood.finally i got rid of that problem. But today only i realised really what it was.many thanks to u.❤
Love the video topic as always, Sigma Male! It's so spot on as ever! And also, do you think that you can please do a video topic about how Sigma Males become a force to be reckoned with in life? If you don't mind?
never did....even when I'd been married a while....I knew she had an agenda.... all women use and play games....you are only there til she finds something better....
I once had what I thought was a really amazing connection with a life long friend. I won’t keep anyone here with the story. But long story short, she only ever spent time with me, acted like she wanted more and dragged our connection on to get my help staging her parents house to move. And I didn’t pick up on it til after the fact because I actually did have genuine feelings for her and it took me a bit to uncuck my mind from realizing she was just using me the whole time. And I didn’t have the answers to why until her and her family were already moved and gone. After they moved, she already had someone lined up and she was probably talking to him the whole time I was in her life. Only reason I know that is because I know people who told me. Even though I didn’t care to know. They just wanted me to have that insight.
I'm so sorry . Im going thru the exact same thing. It literally drove me insane when I lost my wife, kids , house, car, job , cat, etc . Literally no one in my family has comforted me except dad. And wife believes she did nothing wrong. Ugh I almost offed myself as I was consumed with murderous rage and had a alchohol, speed and weed addiction . Thankfully a pastor consoled me and the anger subsided. Thank god I Feel your pain , and it was like my mental health went thru the holocaust and I suffer from PTSD now imo. I have uncontrollably ticks at times and the simplest inconvenience would make me start yelling in anger and after I'd cry uncontrollably screaming my wife's names begging her to come back. Yeah that sucked . All of my women family members said I should just toughen up and everything was my fault . All of them share the same toxic feminist mentality. Damn I'm about to go to therapy with her today .hope it goes well😂 God bless
I've seen that, recognized it then cut off the relationship quick, 2 - 10 days quick. We reconcile and then I'm like in the doghouse & she's got power on me. lol
That's why I am a single man. After going through a toxic relationship for ten years with her. Taught me a valuable lesson. Staying single would give you less stress, and being in a relationship will draw you into trauma. That's my opinion. What's yours?
While I agree, in principle, I find this is how they destroy society, by aiming at the individual which makes up society, they damage your ability to grow as a society as every individual is carrying a parasite/soul vampire. My relationship happened during my most virulent time (family making fighting age) simply to engage me away from procreation, Im in my 40s and have now lost my most fertile years to this demon, it's a national (maybe even international) problem being fought on a individual basis, but remember individuals make up society, nations etc....its a planned war. Many of these demons are connected to secret societies and workplaces offer cover for this dynamic, nobody talking about that though, so it continues as a case by case phenomena, also some of these youtube chnnels are created by narcissists themselves.....just sayin.❤
I went threw ten years with the same thing .. when she left? , she told me she was just relocating. An what she wanted was for me to sit in an empty house an stare at empty walls. Waiting for her to come around to visit once in a while .. lots of married couples live this way she said . I was not to go out an see any other women or all bets was off. Lots of married couples live like this she told me. So I told her lots of divorced couples live like this too. Here’s ur papers. Uve been served. Omg she looked at me like I slapped her in the face with a wet rag. Look, u can’t hurt a narcissist like her in the heart. The only thing u can hurt with a woman like that is her pride. As far as losing a wife that loves u? When they pull this shit? All I can say is u can’t lose what u never had . Fake love is like a can of non alcoholic beer. What’s the point of drinking it ? If they get done an go look for new supply? Let it walk an close the door behind them . Then thank the good lord for taking mercy on u.
Last 3 years of my marriage were shit, the last year really shit and heartbraking. I've been living on my own for the past few months and my emotional state hasn't been this good since I can't remember. One imprtant point. Don't ignore red flags, they won't go away.
I would have to be incredibly caught up on projects to sit around and evaluate if this is happening. I don't mind being used, but it is a 2 way street. Everything is a negotiation. The world is a business. Some businesses generate jobs and exchange currencies, some businesses are mutually symbiotic while serving to fill what ever voids are there.
BEWARE if she does not introduce you to her friends or family ... If she does this she knows the relationship is temporary and WHEN she drops you like a used paper tissue she won't have to explain where you have gone to her friends and family. Remember women always think they are of higher value than they actually are ... If she does not introduce you to her friends/family she may think she is better than you and "You will do" until the "Better offer" comes along. Thank you so much for these videos.
Truth. Lucky for her, she does not usually fool me . I shall play along until I've had enough 😐. A well developed sigma always knows the mate's truths.
I've found that if the relationship starts down that path, go the MGTOW route. Act like you are too busy for her. Keep all your financial stuff to yourself, start doing things by yourself while enjoying the alone time, if she complains, tell her you are not forcing her to stay, focus on things that are important to you, give little or no affection, and work long hours at work or other things that keep your interests stable. Act like you are distancing yourself from the relationship. If she is using you, she will bail on the relationship. If she complains, tell her you are not happy in the direction the relationship is going and be brutally honest why. She will either realize she has taken all she can get from you and leave, or she will stop the bullshit before she loses you for good. We all know what to do after that................
…. I was hoping you'd state the detail on the end,…. cliffhanger. So, if she stops the bullshit, will you keep her? Or, are you making sexual reference at the end, like 'fuck her good', literally?
Thank you for your positive comments, gentlemen. As an older dude, last of the boomer generation and turning 60 in 2 months, I regret that it was my generation that started this feminism shit. I feel obligated to encourage you young bucks, assuming you are younger, be yourself. Do not let a woman change who you are. Stay masculine and grow a pair. I am a victim of divorce too. My sons aren't buying this feminism shit either. It's better to be alone than put up with a modern entitled woman. If you have given up on finding a good mother for your children or future children, get a vasectomy and don't tell her. Become successful in everything you do. Hide your finances and don't ever put your house in a woman's name. Become self-reliant, take good care of yourself, and live like you don't need a woman. Embrace your masculinity, work hard, and love your family. You don't need a woman to survive, she needs you. Being a sigma male makes you a chick magnet but be patient. Do not rush into any relationship. Don't date strippers, bartenders, or cam girls. Their body count could get you sick or make you feel you are banging a jar of mayonnaise. The average looking girl next door type with a heart of gold would make a way better wife or girlfriend. Take control of your life and your relationships. It is my belief that America was founded by sigma males so chive on like respectful men. Let the betas be betas, cucks be cucks, and alphas be alphas. We are sigma. Carry on gentlemen.
Very true. I am in a similar situation. Yet I have found a way to make this work. I am doing what I want/ need while being a team member in other matters. Essentially, I've traded intimacy (her choice) for the freedom of not doing the "yes dear" routine. We get out and have fun. Her approval/disapproval doesn't carry much weight bc I am me. Sorry ladies but your self sufficiency and increase in testosterone has led to what has created a litany of failed relationships. Welcome to the new age of non-binary sculptures.
It amaze me that I came across this video because I'm dealing with this now. All 5 of these 5 signs he mention is right on the money. I'm have to walk away
Everybody is vulnerable to Womens fraud, cheating by pretentious relationship !Sigma always make a way out even in a trap and thats what makes them Sigma!
One of the best videos I've seen about this topic and low key things all men should here because modern western women do this and in general the majority of them are fairweather and not committed.
Most women like this are not used to a guy standing up to them. That's why when they meet me and things start kind of going south at I speak up, they don't like that. What they don't realize is men like us do not need, but occasionally we do want them. A couple years back I finally met my match. When she started going through some difficult times she started putting me to the side and I called her out on that. I will admit that stuff that she is still going through is still pretty, so she wasn't even really aware of what she was doing. Once I wrote her a detailed email and ask her to read it over and over get what I was saying it dawned on her. Now we are better than ever and she still going through her crap. Us guys no matter the type need to stand up for ourselves because most men let women run the relationship, not us Sigmas
This video is spot on. I just got back together with a woman that I dated ten years ago, who I broke up with because of several of these same behaviors. At the time, I thought I was just too soon out of a really toxic relationship, and hyper-sensitive to her odd behaviors. I really feel a lot for her, but here it is, ten years later, and we picked up right where we left off. Her main behaviors, #2 , #4, and #5 are exactly as depicted in this video. I am certain that this relationship is going nowhere, and this video just put it into words for me.
Fellas....don't be too nice or give in easily. Remember through the tough times you had and you overcome it. DONT LET ANY FEMALE CHANGE YOU!!! THE ONLY PERSON YOU CAN CHANGE IS "YOURSELF"! So if you sense it leave her, there will be better female out there. Don't ever lose your motivation in life
Songwriter Townes Van Zandt said it all. 'A warm bed just ain't worth the pain'. Bang on in my view. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Remember guys. Not all women are out to use us. Keep the faith but set the rules.
Once I caught on? It ended in Flames and I explained to her? My heart when it is hurt? Will lash out seeking retribution and embarrassment on YOU! I don’t like being made a fool
*Women who are using a Sigma male may try to emotionally manipulate him or take advantage of his willingness to help, but a true Sigma is aware of these dynamics and remains true to his own values, not falling into codependency.*
Yup...absolutely true but you forgot about when she wants something she'll play you like a fiddle...and throw everything she does for you in your face...
You kids worry me. Wait until you get into your 30s. These are lessons for the 20s. All you gotta do is hang back, take no shit, but no reason to be mean, either. Do you really wanna be a sigma? Or an alpha? Study stoic philosophy. That’s what the world needs right now. Young men want sex , young girls want money, but as we get older, all we really want is no bullshit. Find a partner who wants no bullshit. Simple.
Women like that are best buttered up before a nasty rejection which pulverizes her ego and letting her know you had no true interest in her more than a plaything....I have watched a narcissistic woman self annihilate after trying to use me for money, sympathy, after lie after lie...And yeah, she self destructed hard .
A man doesn't need 5 signs to know a woman is trying to use him. If she isn't willing to give what she expects to receive, then she is trying to use a person. It's that simple.
Crying for sympathy is also a tactic. That shit doesn’t work on me as I’m mostly unemotional and unaffected by it. Especially when I know it’s bullshit.
I definitely experienced this last year, I learned alot from that experience, Thank you for explaining this Detailed List of red flags in a relationship
Ok #5 is called Love bombing #2 is called.future faking. ...#1 is true after narcissist has begun devaluation...and I agree totally when you awaken to the reality of personality disorders that blanket the whole spectrum...it certainly will never see the light of day again... aversion is the correct word for your reaction to these creatures
@@桜_秋ちゃん All this Alpha/Beta/Sigma crap is such pansy nonsense .. dudes so desperate to understand their own psychology and place in the world that they resort to watching content about this sort of snake oil mumbo jumbo. It's sad ... I've heard it said that it's "astrology for guys" .. and that sums it up perfectly. Dudes running around trying to label themselves by some all encompassing definition that some other nimrod made up. It's pathetic ... I click on these things mainly to watch these aimless people chatter at themselves about this nonsense. ... Just do stuff, and stop thinking about how you fit into some collective category , stop thinking about what other people thing about you, especially women. It's a waste of time chasing any of this garbage. 😂
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This literally is happening to me ..she's hot but I just stopped calling good work
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@@trickywily2823 there's another one just like her around the corner. A dime a dozen.
Alright
Can you do one of these for when a friend uses you? It would help me out a lot 👍
1 only treats you nice when she wants something.
2 takes no interest in your sexual satisfaction.
3 gets irritated when you as questions.
4 gives you vague hope for the future.
5 keeps the relationship secret
My wife😢
No way bro. Feels bad man
"Transactional Arangements"
this is why sex workers and sigma males make compatable couples but with toxic longevity
kinda like Destiny and Idubbbz with their GF/WIVES
I know, I know I know, Its a Woman.
\Get a Car Its more fun.
@@Deepfocus0228If your wife does this and you're still there , sorry you're not a Sigma.
I went through this (2 kids married 7 years)…. Understood at the tail end what I was dealing with, and got fully educated on the subject. Just allowed her to branch off to her new partner - there is always overlap with these folks. When she tried coming back (her new relationships failed), nope you burned that bridge i’m just focusing on myself and the kids now.
It’s a fascinating experience I wouldn’t wish upon my worst enemy. Total wolf in sheep’s clothing, marriage vows meant nothing it was all show to extract as many resources as she could until she felt she had a bigger fish on the hook.
@@DansyoungAnd when she tried to get back together, I am sure she had plenty of lies and excuses, about how "It's not what you thought."
Right?
@@mikehenrys She claimed she was battling with her mental health. 🤷♂️ That can be the next guys problem!
@@Dansyoung I had something sort of similar.
A girl I thought was the one, told me she wanted me to talk to her shrink, to get the low down, on her mental illness
What it really was was his dictating to me that I could not have a life where I made any decisions and had to exist only for her.
Of course he wasn't that obvious or blunt about it.
But that was the loud and clear message.
In top of that, while I had not even said two words to this guy I had never met, before that day.
He had said to her all kinds of things about me to her.
Yeah I could have reported this guy and ended his career.
Anyway, I manipulated her, right back.
I broke up with her, but made her think it was her idea.
That was because in my circle, they thought she was perfect, and did not realize her decietful nature.
Rather then spend years trying to explain it to deaf ears. I just made them think it was out of my hands, and she had dumped me.
@@Dansyounghypergamy at it's best . Use this as a learning experience.
Sigmas will only go through this once. They learn quickly. Never again.
I’m with you, all it takes is one time.
Twice...first time forms experience, second time validates and becomes knowledge... every relationship has new quirks, let's not fool ourselves
Fool me once... shame on you,
Fool me twice.... shame on me
Once and never again
You got that right.
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
So many take for granted and mistake kindness, understanding, love, affection, equality and generosity for Weakness.
A bad woman does this to all men. Has nothing to do with Sigma, alpha, beta etc..
Most women
That's because "sigma" male is just a BS term betas made up to feel better about themselves.
@@fredstriker2042
Yes. Unfortunately that is true.
@@fredstriker2042He said it right, the first time...... Comprehend
@@terrencepoinsett4169 I'll say whatever the F I want, and I also respectfully disagree
The sigma male moves and thinks in silence . A woman I’m dealing with now is trying this stuff , she thinks I’m stupid . But I know all her moves and agenda . WALK AWAY GENTLEMEN. We are lone wolves by nature
My wife will say to me on occasion that I'm disconnected, that I don't care. Such bullshit. I am mostly quiet, but will speak up or act when logic dictates, not some silly-ass emotional shit with no real basis.
Negative. We are social creatures. I've learned that as an introvert the hard way
@@coreydunn7665 the true sigma is a lone wolf . Introvert or not . We are ok being alone and prefer that way with or without a woman in our lives .
Extroverted people can't be alone.
Ah spoken like a true Sigma. I'm a Sigma myself. It's almost impossible to fool or play a Sigma.
When a woman is using you she will do these two things ..... Speak and breathe. Sad part is they feel zero guilt
Thats right. Women lack of self reflection is the main problem.
Truth ❤️
Accountability and Responsibility are the Kryptonite of today's "Modern" woman.
I like this truth: If it has tits, or tires, you're going to have problems.
Absolute ZERO guilt - no conscience, no souls. I know----been there too pal.
Many young sigma males go through these learning lessons.
Live and learn and grow
Depends how you define "young." It can happen in your 30s, though - and I don't consider that to be young. To me, "young" means under 25...
@@ThaiThom to me “young” means under 40
@@arigold3333 Then you are right.
A true sigma would never let any of these happen. You move on and find another in 10-15 minutes.
A true sigma would never let any of these happen. First sign of any of these you move on and find another in 10-15 minutes.
I think you've effectively described a narcissist, or at least women with NPD tendencies. 👍
Yes, a good example of cover narcissistic behavior
Covert *
What is NPD?
@cristianmartinezlugo3463 Narcissistic Personality Disorder. You'll be surprised how many people have it. It's definitely worth looking into, as not many people are aware of it. It's an extremely destructive condition, but more people are now becoming aware of it, and how widespread it is. There are loads of channels on here about it.
YES!!
2 months ago till right now...Abit of a long read 😅:
Decided to get back with my ex 2 months ago after an 8 month break up. She was playing mind games, asking for time to think about it when in reality, she was in another relationship (she never disclosed this information until recently) but agreed a month later when the situation was convenient for her (said she actually needed time to break up with the other guy, apologized for lying the first time and her justification was that she knew that if she told me, I'd have stopped pursuing her). Wasn't happy about it, although I thought, logically, it makes sense, I forgave her for lying and we started dating. She soon started exhibiting EVERY aspect described in this video to which I asked if she was sure she wanted to be in this relationship to which, she further affirmed that she did. Her behaviours were:
1. that she was avoiding real conversations and questions.
2. She threw sex out of the window before even getting my perspective on the issue
3. put in VERY minimal effort,
4. She would give the most vague assurance of us having a future together even after making my intentions clear (us getting married).
5. There was no follow through in her actions, just empty promises.
6. She kept our relationship on the low from her peers.
7. The worst was that she was emotional absent. Only showing just enough kindness when she felt I would get Abit distant just to reel me back in and continue the cycle.
The next 3 weeks were depressing... Couldn't sleep, had loss of appetite, was falling back on work. I Did a lot of research on relationships, toxicity and marriage during this period. Deep down I knew I deserved better but I was enraptured by the POTENTIAL the relationship would have when in reality, settling down with someone should be based on the present...
Fast forward to last week, on my birthday... Got calls and encouraging messages from family and friends with meaningful birthday wishes and the only thing this human being did was send me a "happy birthday babe" message... no call or visit the WHOLE day (and she was off work during the day), only later in the evening to ask me to get an Uber to collect a birthday cake... something inside me snapped, the levels of clarity sky rocketed, this amount of effort was laughable. Had gathered the courage and made the mental decision that I'd break up with her the next day and I slept like a baby that night, my morale was INSTANTLY boosted.
Broke up with her the next day... There's No amount of wings red bull could give that would have made my spirit soar the way it did after I did it.
I swear, the effort she's ONLY NOW putting in the last 3days out weighs what she put in during the entirety of the relationship (And it's only cause she wants me back, saying we'll get back eventually - even briefly highlighted that we could have sex if I wanted to, happy to say I WASN'T moved in the slightest 😎, instantly remembered the other girls/women that would offer sexual gratification who I ignored cause of our relationship).
I'm now back to my usual self ie; ambitious, self motivating and healthy.
My key take aways:
1. Walk away from someone who doesn't respect your feelings and time.
2. Stop associating being a good person with how much you're willing to suffer for them.
3. Wrong marriages have ruined great destines.
4. Never beg for love, you could be someone's answered prayer.
5. If you have to tell them to help carry the bricks, they're not the one to build with.
6. Growth will sometimes feel like loss.
7. Your purpose should always come first, everything else will eventually fall in place.
8. Seek God's hand in the relationship, He reveals things to you that you alone cannot see.
Have a blessed week kings!!! 💪🏿😎
Thank You For Sharing your Life Experience
@@SigmaMale1337And a million thanks for sharing this video 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@@shawnbanda3109 You Are Always Welcome here
"Settling down with someone should be in the PRESENT". Man, you've just saved me !! You do not know HOW MUCH !!! Just Thank you ! From France, Paris 🇨🇵👍🏾
Awesome advice brother
Wow, I actually had a woman use that line on me: "If you can't handle me at my worst..." I didn't know it originated with Marilyn Monroe. Well, her worst was toxic, so her best wasn't worth it.
You mistake what they are saying.
Their Worst is their BEST, it only goes down hill from there.
Just a deflection of responsibility from toxic women who are usually at their worst and don't have the maturity or will to change for the better.
😂
@bobdobalina8910 In the category of: Friends like you, who needs enemies.
And how did Marilyn Monroe end? She became addicted to pills, alcohol and committed suicide.
This is an accurate description of a female narcissist.
I swear it sounded like the women in my family! 😂
@@infinitetreasure You have my sympathy.
Thank you very much.
A covert one
Most women are users, freeloading is their ladle
A woman is not a priority to a Sigma Male in the first place. She is not using a Sigma Male. It's another type of male. 🤷
Good point
beta?
@@JordanG-ds1ii Very good. You understand.👍
😂 this video is funny a true Sigma would see through a woman's true intentions a mile away, he has already dissected her from the inside out before even going through all this mess, the Betas, Deltas, Omegas and Gammas here are hilarious
You can be a Sigma with child traumas... your environment has a child got effects on your nature or profil too...
Literally just went through this. This woman would speak so highly of me but those actions just never really lined up. Her words were “If I’m too much go find less”. Honestly let her get away with a lot of her shit because of her age and the sad story she told me. I showed way too much love.
As a TIGER SIGMA MALE, never tell a woman you LOVE her, instead tell her you WORSHIP her, yea? A woman that hears those words will honor an authentic relationship and the women that hear those words who have hidden agendas will not be able to relate and run the other way, yea? Those words are like FIRE, they will get burned forever, yea? "EVERY WISH FULFILLED" E.T.
@@bobvillanueva712huh
@@Underratedcommentatorright I'm so lost on that comment lol, how about we don't say we love or worship that one person, what so ever!!!
@@xy28100 Dude is clearly insane or a troll lol. Only an idiot who wants to lose his manhood and get stepped all over would tell a WOMAN he worships her.
Have to go red 💊 pill.
Basic dating rules for all men, dont let the women run your relationship.
The problem is, women will strive to run the relationship sooner or later, Its like tell water not to be wet, or fire not to be hot.
Exactly I totally believe this.
Nice job.
The "introductory" period allows you to appear to be in control, to assert yourself, to be her hero and she loves you for it so much.... until you commit.
The next stage brings a total reversal of roles and the use of attitude and sexuality become her weapons to manipulate and control your ass.
I've lived it. Don't ever do the "gov't paperwork" as it drastically changes everything in one direction.
Thank You for this video because this just happened to me and I had a feeling something was not right.
Always Welcome
Be straight forward with all women you encounter, make clear your intentions, if she doesn't like it and refuses further contact you successfully filtered out a delusional idiot.
Straight forward comment .
Why Am I not seeing thousand comments here yet?
I agree with you 💯
You don't get it.
They are actors and at first, they do so much for you, give you attention, participate in things you enjoy, are very intimate, loving and caring.
They listen to your intentions, they absorb them and do their very best to support you....they are setting the hook.
Once you take the bait thinking you have found true love and your commitment is consummated it's not long before the real deal surfaces.
It's mental, spiritual, physical, sexual and financial manipulation to perfection.
You are their vehicle to get them to their next level ambitions at your expense....you are just a stepping stone. I lived it.
@@mikejohn0088 OK mate I don't get it, I have 2 Daughters in England 22, and 21, I have 1 Daughter in the Philippines 10, and 1 Daughter due in December in Indonesia. OK mate I don't get it.
I went through a very similar scenario with my now ex wife. We had a child together and I ignored all the signs for the sake of our child. I provided and basically was bent on my knees trying to create a happy home, while in return I was being drained of my happiness. Not even a year into our marriage, I finally opened my eyes and filed for divorce. I am still very much a huge part of my child's life. I only started to truly realize the type of female I was dealing with after we parted ways and people heard my story of the things I went thru. It's very different when you hear an outside individual's perspective. From the inside, all I thought about was my ex wife's and child's happiness. Never of my own. And I also hated the idea of having my child grow up without both parents. But now that I'm not with my wife anymore, I actually feel more happier than I've ever been.
You got out of jail which could have been a prison---good move pal!
You will unfortunately have a child that's been exposed to the Narcissistic behavior. You have to keep addressing what isn't normal behavior so she won't follow her mama off a cliff. Trust me on that
I been thru all of that and all it did was break my heart. True facts.
As long as you learned from it and never make the same mistakes again, it was not wasted time.
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Hold on, I send you my support 🤗
I been there so long that I can’t change a thing or half my hard work will walk out the door with her. She’s a better Mother than a wife.
Been there too! We just got to carry on 💯
If you are in the dating game , you should have some boundaries in place that would help you stay out of bad relationships. Never permit or participate in disrespectful behavior. If you observe bad behavior, fade away they aren’t worthy of your time , or aggregation.
Well said
Or confront it head on.
@@thomasgrabowski2202 good luck with that. If you're good you can keep things going good by fighting it. But get used to it. It will never end. Tireless effort for marginal rewards isn't my cup of tea.
The test, go to an establishment with sub par service and evaluate how she reacts. If she Karen's out it's probably time to split.
Thank goodness I have two others on standby if desire be. For all you good men out there, learn to have a variety of choices. Learn to bump it down to the next one. Happy fishing 🎣.
1 thru 5 i just went thru this. I was telling myself the whole time. The inconsistencies and all it didn't add up. I thought i had something to build on and i never had a chance from the jump. This is really gonna help someone in the future. Hopefully sooner than later.
I think it's deeper. The those thing you've mentioned are applied to all men.
But with sigma it may be like «dissecting» of all red flags up to the limit. I think you can even analyze how a woman speaks. Sometimes even her talking may reveal a lot of about herself.
Facts
And that my friends is exactly what it's like to date a maladaptive, malevolent narcissist!! Never again! Keep those boundaries up.
You forgot malignant! This is what my boyfriend did!
Yep
Yep I did twice and learned my lesson.
went through that, caught it real quick and told her to kick rocks and now she's INVISIBLE to me, it was just a big waste so fellows don't wear blindfolds or feel you have to walk and egg shells to have who u want, be you no matter what 💯✊ she coming..
It's kind of a tricky video because sigma males already know before they're being used or taken advantage of however it's tricky when the user or manipulator hides behind children especially young children.
If she's working with you, you can't beat her. If she's working against you, you don't need her. Gentlemen, liberate them if they are working against you.
All this happened to me when I was younger 18 19 years old, I can’t tolerate even one of those with any women now, I will be gone before she even noticed I was arround.
I married the finest woman in the world. A couple of years before I met my wife I saw my old girlfriend in a store. I can’t lie. She climbed the good looks ladder about five rungs beyond spectacular. Despite her incredible beauty I had no interest in getting back together. I found out another guy had run her through. We were crazy about each other when dating, and she was drop-dead gorgeous but… no hymen, no diamond. I married a pure woman who was outwardly beautiful and stunningly gorgeous on the inside. She doesn’t play head games. We are only for each other and no one else. We have now been together for many decades. Other men notice her but her heart is only for me, and mine for her.
This reminded me of my past mistakes. Thank you for your content it makes me strong looking foward ✌️ ❤
You are so welcome!
wow, found this and can not believe I fell for a women who treated me exactly like this and because I loved her so much she got away with it for years. Thanks for this. Now I finally understand what was going on.
Thanks for sharing!
I know exactly how you feel and I will always hate I waisted over 9 years of this life I am 57 now seeing this I am so Mad at me for letting me go through it .
Woman: "if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best"
Me: "if you can't be at your best all the time, then you sure as hell don't deserve to be with me"
I'm embarrassed to say this hits hard, being articulated in this way puts it all together, thanks for the vid.
Always Welcome
We've all been there.
Hit the nail on the head.
When a Woman Is Using a Sigma Male, She'll Do These 5 Things (Be Aware)
5. She only treats you nice when you want something
4. Takes no interested in your sexual satisfaction
3. Gets irritated when you ask significant questions
2. Gives you a vague hope for the future
1. Keep the relationship a secret
I'm happily married now but I can only think of one woman that ever treated me this way.
The crazy thing is she's the one i think about every day.
She put a spell on me 44y ago, after being 1 month together I was wandering in the wilderness for 40y before we met again on Facebook. I can't f*cking get her out of my head ever since although she's playing me for 4y now. I could quit taking coke & speed and smoking tobacco & ganja but I seem to be addicted for life...
A woman who does those five things will reveal her self-absorption in many other ways, such as not fully engaging with you & looking at her phone when you’re out together, disregarding your insights or experiences by interjecting her own, talking about herself all the time, etc.
Very true from personal experience, it will feel as if they don't wanna be there with you and as if they have to "deal" with you...leave without explanation
I suffer from 5, 4 and three. The worst is #4. 3 is a close second. Also, she's never been much on PDAs, even holding hands.
I too a sigma male. I too had this problem for 7,8 years. I was struggling to clarify what it was but never understood.finally i got rid of that problem. But today only i realised really what it was.many thanks to u.❤
Thanks for sharing!
Stay strong kings!
Love the video topic as always, Sigma Male! It's so spot on as ever! And also, do you think that you can please do a video topic about how Sigma Males become a force to be reckoned with in life? If you don't mind?
I agree with all your content. But don't these points apply to all males, not just sigmas?
Yes, it's apply to all males also :)
NEVER attach your full feelings to a woman unless you are SURE her full feelings are ATTACHED to YOU.
Even then, her attraction and feelings could change on a whim because women operate on emotions and what makes them Feel good in the moment.
never did....even when I'd been married a while....I knew she had an agenda....
all women use and play games....you are only there til she finds something better....
Define SURE. Hello. I'm sure of one thing and that is nothing is SURE.
Need to put that on shirt wear it as a billboard 😊
What if it's fake attachement
I once had what I thought was a really amazing connection with a life long friend. I won’t keep anyone here with the story. But long story short, she only ever spent time with me, acted like she wanted more and dragged our connection on to get my help staging her parents house to move. And I didn’t pick up on it til after the fact because I actually did have genuine feelings for her and it took me a bit to uncuck my mind from realizing she was just using me the whole time. And I didn’t have the answers to why until her and her family were already moved and gone. After they moved, she already had someone lined up and she was probably talking to him the whole time I was in her life. Only reason I know that is because I know people who told me. Even though I didn’t care to know. They just wanted me to have that insight.
Never understood the reason for us separating. Always felt I had been used. No one likes to feel that way.
Reality most of the time sucks.
I'm so sorry . Im going thru the exact same thing. It literally drove me insane when I lost my wife, kids , house, car, job , cat, etc . Literally no one in my family has comforted me except dad. And wife believes she did nothing wrong. Ugh I almost offed myself as I was consumed with murderous rage and had a alchohol, speed and weed addiction .
Thankfully a pastor consoled me and the anger subsided. Thank god
I Feel your pain , and it was like my mental health went thru the holocaust and I suffer from PTSD now imo. I have uncontrollably ticks at times and the simplest inconvenience would make me start yelling in anger and after I'd cry uncontrollably screaming my wife's names begging her to come back.
Yeah that sucked .
All of my women family members said I should just toughen up and everything was my fault . All of them share the same toxic feminist mentality.
Damn I'm about to go to therapy with her today .hope it goes well😂
God bless
I've seen that, recognized it then cut off the relationship quick, 2 - 10 days quick. We reconcile and then I'm like in the doghouse & she's got power on me. lol
We are Addicted To Love after all...
I was used exactly the very same way this video explains 😢 and only to find out that she is dating someone else whom she loved
Bro , it's her loss . Seek Jesus 1st
Man, how I could have used this 6 months ago. 5 out of 5 . Damn !
Remember, she doesn't just want to leave you, she wants to leave you in ruins.
1,000% truth = I lived it.
That's why you need to play along and instead ruin them.
These are narcissists; beware and get the fk out ASAP.
Worst ones ruin you but say anything so you stay
Yes this happened to me just once and ever since i grew up so much to be come a MAN a MAN yes a Sigma minded introverted guru 🙏😒🤕🔥🔥💯💯😭😭😭
That's why I am a single man. After going through a toxic relationship for ten years with her. Taught me a valuable lesson. Staying single would give you less stress, and being in a relationship will draw you into trauma. That's my opinion. What's yours?
Agreed
While I agree, in principle, I find this is how they destroy society, by aiming at the individual which makes up society, they damage your ability to grow as a society as every individual is carrying a parasite/soul vampire.
My relationship happened during my most virulent time (family making fighting age) simply to engage me away from procreation, Im in my 40s and have now lost my most fertile years to this demon, it's a national (maybe even international) problem being fought on a individual basis, but remember individuals make up society, nations etc....its a planned war.
Many of these demons are connected to secret societies and workplaces offer cover for this dynamic, nobody talking about that though, so it continues as a case by case phenomena, also some of these youtube chnnels are created by narcissists themselves.....just sayin.❤
Maybe you are right. Or maybe we all just haven't met good people yet...
I went threw ten years with the same thing .. when she left? , she told me she was just relocating. An what she wanted was for me to sit in an empty house an stare at empty walls. Waiting for her to come around to visit once in a while .. lots of married couples live this way she said . I was not to go out an see any other women or all bets was off. Lots of married couples live like this she told me. So I told her lots of divorced couples live like this too. Here’s ur papers. Uve been served. Omg she looked at me like I slapped her in the face with a wet rag. Look, u can’t hurt a narcissist like her in the heart. The only thing u can hurt with a woman like that is her pride. As far as losing a wife that loves u? When they pull this shit? All I can say is u can’t lose what u never had . Fake love is like a can of non alcoholic beer. What’s the point of drinking it ? If they get done an go look for new supply? Let it walk an close the door behind them . Then thank the good lord for taking mercy on u.
Last 3 years of my marriage were shit, the last year really shit and heartbraking. I've been living on my own for the past few months and my emotional state hasn't been this good since I can't remember. One imprtant point. Don't ignore red flags, they won't go away.
I would have to be incredibly caught up on projects to sit around and evaluate if this is happening. I don't mind being used, but it is a 2 way street. Everything is a negotiation. The world is a business. Some businesses generate jobs and exchange currencies, some businesses are mutually symbiotic while serving to fill what ever voids are there.
It's very hard to get a Sigma male into this position in the first place.
That's right. If a woman wants to work against me she can hit the road.
WOW. Just WOW! 30 years of dealing with this and then she took EVERYTHING
2:08 "Like a chum-eluin" 🤣🤣 Sometimes robo-narrators can be quite funny!
What do you call it when a chameleon can't camouflage?
A reptile dysfunction
@@OnBakePlatinum That's funny!
BEWARE if she does not introduce you to her friends or family ... If she does this she knows the relationship is temporary and WHEN she drops you like a used paper tissue she won't have to explain where you have gone to her friends and family.
Remember women always think they are of higher value than they actually are ... If she does not introduce you to her friends/family she may think she is better than you and "You will do" until the "Better offer" comes along.
Thank you so much for these videos.
Just one thing: Sigmas tend to wake up early to women's bad behavior. They usually withdraw once that becomes obvious.
You live and you learn ✅️ right life experiences 💯
You say I'm crazy cuz you don't think I know what you've done. But when you call me baby, I know I'm not the only one...
Yep!! On target found one that was always irritated!!! Red flag😅
Truth. Lucky for her, she does not usually fool me . I shall play along until I've had enough 😐. A well developed sigma always knows the mate's truths.
I've found that if the relationship starts down that path, go the MGTOW route. Act like you are too busy for her. Keep all your financial stuff to yourself, start doing things by yourself while enjoying the alone time, if she complains, tell her you are not forcing her to stay, focus on things that are important to you, give little or no affection, and work long hours at work or other things that keep your interests stable. Act like you are distancing yourself from the relationship. If she is using you, she will bail on the relationship. If she complains, tell her you are not happy in the direction the relationship is going and be brutally honest why. She will either realize she has taken all she can get from you and leave, or she will stop the bullshit before she loses you for good. We all know what to do after that................
Man I love your comment . It made my day .
…. I was hoping you'd state the detail on the end,…. cliffhanger. So, if she stops the bullshit, will you keep her? Or, are you making sexual reference at the end, like 'fuck her good', literally?
Great Advice I’m gonna apply now
Thank you for your positive comments, gentlemen. As an older dude, last of the boomer generation and turning 60 in 2 months, I regret that it was my generation that started this feminism shit. I feel obligated to encourage you young bucks, assuming you are younger, be yourself. Do not let a woman change who you are. Stay masculine and grow a pair. I am a victim of divorce too. My sons aren't buying this feminism shit either. It's better to be alone than put up with a modern entitled woman. If you have given up on finding a good mother for your children or future children, get a vasectomy and don't tell her. Become successful in everything you do. Hide your finances and don't ever put your house in a woman's name. Become self-reliant, take good care of yourself, and live like you don't need a woman. Embrace your masculinity, work hard, and love your family. You don't need a woman to survive, she needs you. Being a sigma male makes you a chick magnet but be patient. Do not rush into any relationship. Don't date strippers, bartenders, or cam girls. Their body count could get you sick or make you feel you are banging a jar of mayonnaise. The average looking girl next door type with a heart of gold would make a way better wife or girlfriend. Take control of your life and your relationships. It is my belief that America was founded by sigma males so chive on like respectful men. Let the betas be betas, cucks be cucks, and alphas be alphas. We are sigma. Carry on gentlemen.
Very true. I am in a similar situation. Yet I have found a way to make this work. I am doing what I want/ need while being a team member in other matters. Essentially, I've traded intimacy (her choice) for the freedom of not doing the "yes dear" routine. We get out and have fun. Her approval/disapproval doesn't carry much weight bc I am me. Sorry ladies but your self sufficiency and increase in testosterone has led to what has created a litany of failed relationships. Welcome to the new age of non-binary sculptures.
It amaze me that I came across this video because I'm dealing with this now. All 5 of these 5 signs he mention is right on the money. I'm have to walk away
u cannot use or manipulate a sigma male lol they know the game and excellent observer bcoz of their introverted nature.. so goodluck ladies lol
Bingo
Narcissism at its best . I went through this with a covert narcissist. I found out she had been seeing a psychiatrist for 5 years.
A self appointed Sigma Female with BD isn't real fun either...
Use your intuition to spot fakes
Right! Run tests on people
You ain't a sigma male if a woman is using you.
That is very true!
Well anyone can be blinded by love/attraction, but i agree that a sigma will see or at least feel that something isnt right very fast.
It can happen to anyone the sigma will walk when he sees what's happening
Everybody is vulnerable to Womens fraud, cheating by pretentious relationship !Sigma always make a way out even in a trap and thats what makes them Sigma!
It can happen - temporarily. But yeah, if you don't cut your losses you're not one.
It’s called “holding a friendship or relationship hostage.”
Spot on
One of the best videos I've seen about this topic and low key things all men should here because modern western women do this and in general the majority of them are fairweather and not committed.
Most women like this are not used to a guy standing up to them. That's why when they meet me and things start kind of going south at I speak up, they don't like that.
What they don't realize is men like us do not need, but occasionally we do want them. A couple years back I finally met my match. When she started going through some difficult times she started putting me to the side and I called her out on that.
I will admit that stuff that she is still going through is still pretty, so she wasn't even really aware of what she was doing.
Once I wrote her a detailed email and ask her to read it over and over get what I was saying it dawned on her.
Now we are better than ever and she still going through her crap.
Us guys no matter the type need to stand up for ourselves because most men let women run the relationship, not us Sigmas
Ok here is the deal tho you forget, not every man is good looking to the point that he can just change women like socks.
Every woman in my life, was like this, but two and I blew it, both times……
This video is almost describing my life right now almost perfectly
Uhm, news flash! Women do this to ANY & ALL men they are using.
You mean there's women that don't use men? 😆
Dang.. this gave me so much understanding and peace of mind
Jezebel 🧹
Evil Dark Female Spirit
This video is spot on. I just got back together with a woman that I dated ten years ago, who I broke up with because of several of these same behaviors. At the time, I thought I was just too soon out of a really toxic relationship, and hyper-sensitive to her odd behaviors. I really feel a lot for her, but here it is, ten years later, and we picked up right where we left off. Her main behaviors, #2 , #4, and #5 are exactly as depicted in this video. I am certain that this relationship is going nowhere, and this video just put it into words for me.
Thank you for watching the video and taking the time to share your opinion.
Fellas....don't be too nice or give in easily. Remember through the tough times you had and you overcome it. DONT LET ANY FEMALE CHANGE YOU!!! THE ONLY PERSON YOU CAN CHANGE IS "YOURSELF"! So if you sense it leave her, there will be better female out there. Don't ever lose your motivation in life
Songwriter Townes Van Zandt said it all. 'A warm bed just ain't worth the pain'. Bang on in my view. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Remember guys. Not all women are out to use us. Keep the faith but set the rules.
After watching this video, I’ve now realised my marriage has been a farce 😂😂
Join the club mate🥂😢😊
Once I caught on? It ended in Flames and I explained to her? My heart when it is hurt? Will lash out seeking retribution and embarrassment on YOU! I don’t like being made a fool
“Sigma male“ seems like an unnecessary buzzword in this context. These manipulative tactics of a toxic female would be universal for any type of guy.
*Women who are using a Sigma male may try to emotionally manipulate him or take advantage of his willingness to help, but a true Sigma is aware of these dynamics and remains true to his own values, not falling into codependency.*
We Sigma planned ahead and constantly thinking about what kind of female around me, I will ghost a female, the minutes I see she's a time waster
Sixto Rodriguez said it perfectly in the song Cause...
"Beauty that which obeys
Is bought or borrowed"
The tragic story of my marriage. Divorce is truly a blessing in disguise 🎉
Seeing the cooperative social manipulation (we're like a family here) it only shines light on this message than anything else.
Yup...absolutely true but you forgot about when she wants something she'll play you like a fiddle...and throw everything she does for you in your face...
I went thru this, hurt!!!! But my God delivered me out. You make one step he will make 2. Lesson learned.😅
You kids worry me. Wait until you get into your 30s. These are lessons for the 20s. All you gotta do is hang back, take no shit, but no reason to be mean, either.
Do you really wanna be a sigma? Or an alpha? Study stoic philosophy. That’s what the world needs right now.
Young men want sex , young girls want money, but as we get older, all we really want is no bullshit. Find a partner who wants no bullshit. Simple.
Its REAL EASY! If you treat her like a celebrity and she treat like a FAN keep it MOVING!
Women like that are best buttered up before a nasty rejection which pulverizes her ego and letting her know you had no true interest in her more than a plaything....I have watched a narcissistic woman self annihilate after trying to use me for money, sympathy, after lie after lie...And yeah, she self destructed hard .
A man doesn't need 5 signs to know a woman is trying to use him. If she isn't willing to give what she expects to receive, then she is trying to use a person. It's that simple.
Stay away from Narcissists, plain and simple.
Where do they wear that sign above or below the waist line?
A girl i never heard from called me out the blues being all nice, needing my help with something. I hung up
Crying for sympathy is also a tactic. That shit doesn’t work on me as I’m mostly unemotional and unaffected by it. Especially when I know it’s bullshit.
I've been thinking about this..
I definitely experienced this last year, I learned alot from that experience, Thank you for explaining this Detailed List of red flags in a relationship
Glad it was helpful!
Why single out Sigma males? Isn't this good advice for ALL males?
It's good advice for all males also
The channel is literally called "Sigma Male."
Sigma males might be the only ones who can learn from it.
@@ThaiThom Hahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!
Alphas may think that buying women is okay. Betas may think that giving money to women is okay. Omegas may not have met any women yet...
Going through that same thing Presently
Ok #5 is called Love bombing #2 is called.future faking. ...#1 is true after narcissist has begun devaluation...and I agree totally when you awaken to the reality of personality disorders that blanket the whole spectrum...it certainly will never see the light of day again... aversion is the correct word for your reaction to these creatures
Narcissism is very real ....The concept of 'Sigma male' is a bunch of bologna. 😂
@@Fiveash-Art about as real as dominance and submission Aaah...some of us march too our own drummer stick that in your sandwich lol
@@Fiveash-ArtYes
If I hear sigma Male one more time in this video I will beat my head through my ohone
@@桜_秋ちゃん All this Alpha/Beta/Sigma crap is such pansy nonsense .. dudes so desperate to understand their own psychology and place in the world that they resort to watching content about this sort of snake oil mumbo jumbo. It's sad ... I've heard it said that it's "astrology for guys" .. and that sums it up perfectly. Dudes running around trying to label themselves by some all encompassing definition that some other nimrod made up. It's pathetic ... I click on these things mainly to watch these aimless people chatter at themselves about this nonsense. ... Just do stuff, and stop thinking about how you fit into some collective category , stop thinking about what other people thing about you, especially women. It's a waste of time chasing any of this garbage. 😂