If you keep looking for red flags in your relationships, you’ll always find them, and will never experience genuine love and happiness. Remember that we attract who we are not what we want. So fix your traumas and insecurities first before seeking a relationship partner
It just never seems to fail. You find a woman, she seems nice at first, shows you attention, makes you feel good. Then after a while, she starts finding ways to make you feel bad about yourself, and relationship ends. Why does this always happen? Every single freakin time. It’s the definition of insanity!
Yes, I used to think it was me and started thinking I wasn't very giving, caring or loving. But when I realized I was doing everything I should be doing, I started to understand it's not me and now I'm very depressed thinking that the women available are mostly narcissistic gaslighters. I've developed trust issues from dealing with women who have issues. Or maybe I just bring it out in them. I sometimes learn down the road and have seen that some of these women I've seen red flags in are seemingly in good relationships and I wonder how the guy can tolerate their behaviors. I think I'm ruined when it comes to relationships. I'm also seeing a lot of content online about many men choosing to stay single just because there are so many messed up women out there. And at 59, although I feel a little bit lonely at times, I'm really starting to feel that I'm better off single and have really become content with that.
@@lanemorrison4145if you think the women are messed up, the men are too. People with agendas, and we’re their vehicles. They give off signs, if only we pay attention. Hungry people make poor shoppers. Truth.
@@susanjones8489 IF you need to validate yourself by taking on men, you certainly have a red flag. Instead the comment should be attended with sympathy.
1. Gaslights you 2. "But you" type apologies 3. Excessively egotistical 4. Looks at kind gestures with skepticism 5. Constant need for validation 6. No cheers for your wins
There's a better question to ask. Who stays emotionally damaged? EVERYONE gets damaged by life, multiple times, some worse than others. But it's up to us what we do with that. Run away, hide from it, watch it grow bigger, watch it warp who we are until we can't recognize ourselves anymore. Or take the time to struggle through it, to relive it over and over again until we glean understanding and insight from it, and overcome it. There was a woman who's entire family was taken from her, and she was forcefully 'played with' multiple times when she was young. She could've let it destroy her, she could've let it turn her into a monster. But ya know what she did? Started a charity to help women who've gone through similar things, and led a fulfilling life speaking out to people about these events, and trying to get them to help themselves or accept the help of others. She overcame it, and used it to help others and spread positivity and healing. God never gives us more than we can handle. So will you handle it? Or run from it?
85% of humanity are narcissists of varying degrees, some more excessive than others. When dealing with narcissism in an abusive relationship, you should know that it’s not personal. Narcissists don’t know how to love; they can’t afford to spare the energy to learn, because they’re always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they don’t understand the concept - they can’t feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else. Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissists value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. Loads of them brag about being a good parent and seek compliments for that only to hide their masks. When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing. They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves. When they toss you out, it’s no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old. None of this is personal. They’re too terrified to have close personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain. This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesn’t know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, it’s from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection. Moreover, If you think THEY are the one that "made' you feel then you are still under their control/spell, you're still wrapped up in their neverending inner delusions/dar-kness, and you learned nothing. The truth is, you were loving YOURSELF the entire time you were interacting with them as they were doing nothing more than mirroring you, there is nobody inside them in the first place, therefore there was nobody for you to love but yourself (as they themselves are incapable of true empathy/love). Stating that they made you feel is like saying an empty robot made you feel, or an empty soda can made you feel. And in the same way it's completely ridiculous to think a Narc made you feel anything...As they were doing nothing more than mirroring you in the beginning. Based on a lie and you cannot truly feel for lies. They are completely incapable of processing their emotions, they don't know how to. And that is why when you state that you love them they greatly resent it, they turn you into an enemy and play their games. Because inside they ask themselves- " how can you possibly love this ? ' Unless you get over these massive hurdles and understand the bigger picture of Universal spiritual truths in your relationships then you will never be the truly empathic powerful loving spirit being you truly are to love the world/heal the world.
I married an emotionally damaged woman. Knew that going in. Figured if I could provide a "normal" life that she would re-adjust. Nope. I'll take responsibility for this failed relationship but also for lesson learned. People are who they are...
My girlfriend is very emotionally damaged and insecure. I've invested so much of myself into supporting her emotionally and ignored my own needs without realising it. She can get very cold and distant at times and it takes its toll on me.
@@risepheonixpopculture8197 I feel that pain. They are beautiful people inside but irreparably damaged. No matter how good our intention, it's nothing but an invitation to emotional disappointment. It seems callous but run if you can. You can't save her. Save yourself, if it's not already too late.
Stop beating yourself with taking responsibility as none of it was your fault. When dealing with a female narcissist, you must learn that it wasn't personal. Narcissists don’t know how to love; they can’t afford to spare the energy to learn, because they’re always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they don’t understand the concept - they can’t feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else. Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissists value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. Loads of them brag about being a good parent and seek compliments for that only to hide their masks. When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing. They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves. When they toss you out, it’s no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old. None of this is personal. They’re too terrified to have close personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain. This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesn’t know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, it’s from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection. Moreover, If you think THEY are the one that "made' you feel then you are still under their control/spell, you're still wrapped up in their neverending inner delusions/dar-kness, and you learned nothing. The truth is, you were loving YOURSELF the entire time you were interacting with them as they were doing nothing more than mirroring you, there is nobody inside them in the first place, therefore there was nobody for you to love but yourself (as they themselves are incapable of true empathy/love). Stating that they made you feel is like saying an empty robot made you feel, or an empty soda can made you feel. And in the same way it's completely ridiculous to think a Narc made you feel anything...As they were doing nothing more than mirroring you in the beginning. Based on a lie and you cannot truly feel for lies. They are completely incapable of processing their emotions, they don't know how to. And that is why when you state that you love them they greatly resent it, they turn you into an enemy and play their games. Because inside they ask themselves- " how can you possibly love this ? ' Unless you get over these massive hurdles and understand the bigger picture of Universal spiritual truths in your relationships then you will never be the truly empathic powerful loving spirit being you truly are to love the world/heal the world.
Decades back: on a date. Girl asks if I want to go up to her place. Of course I want to. She says make yourself at home, so I took my shoes off. She freaked out. "Why did you take your shoes off?" You said make yourself at home. I take my shoes of at home. "Put them back on and get the hell out. I had five brothers". I think I dodged a bullet with that one.
You played chess back while she was hoping you were ignorantly playing CHECKERS in response. Well played! (And you're not a so-called 'player'..) She was playing head games YET you knew to bail... You saved yourself a lot of inevitable nonsense from her... It's good that you ran off after that "Are you going to be the next pussy-whipped guy I date" test. But that was not one of those "fitness tests"/"shit tests" to pass. You saved yourself a bit of future pain by doing the "RUN LIKE YOUR ASS IS ON FIRE" perma response. (I'd also let some other dude deal with her crazy crap)
I've encountered this in female employers and my ex-wife. Once they know you know. They will attempt to destroy you by playing the victim they hate it when you set boundaries and stick to them. and yes men can have red flags too. run from both males and females that act this way.
True, sir, I'm almost 62, and you're right on point. Having learned this late in life is a tough pill to swallow. But it'll be adhered to for my remaining years. You're never too old to learn.✌️
Interesting. As a woman watching this all I see are traits of the men I've been dumb enough to have relationships with. In my past I attracted broken, narcissistic men who gaslit, but you apologized, etc. I've gotten better at listening to my instincts rather than overruling them with thoughts or physical desires.
Or did you do that to them? I can tell you did, because you blame all of them, but if you knew and still chose poorly, that reflects on you also, but it's ONLY their fault? Mmk.
Best advise anyone can give you is this. If you are with a chick that did not have a positive male role model in her life, ESPECIALLY with her father, don't just walk away run for your effin' life!
I have aquaintances and close friends that are caring and so sweet, with shitty male role models in their life as they grew up. Not sure your point guys is relevant
While this is an awareness of the women in your lives, don’t forget that this could be a wake up call towards you as well. You’re just as capable of causing the same damage as she would be without realising it. Keep yourself aware of yourself but don’t take any bullshit from anybody else.
This is exactly happened to me. My girlfriend was showing all these signs. After a while, I realized that she hard terrible childhood and lived in trauma.
It's important to to do the inner healing work and be self aware and aware of how others are feeling around us. Totally possible to not only heal but become an even better person for all you've been through. 💯% Attitude
Like pouring water in to a bucket with holes in it... Yep, this sums up my situation nicely. Constant self-depreciation and needing for reassurance from my side but not a single attempt to change things just for a little bit. And when I try to present her with something nice simply because I like her then I'm met with suspicion. Gave her the ultimatum, either she starts showing some effort in changing things on her side and then I'm will to stay with her as a support for her struggle or I simply fuck off. You can only guess her reaction. Spoiler - she didn't like the prospect of losing me as a spectator of her antics.
Law 36: Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best revenge and Law 39: Stir up waters to catch fish. Learn and master these laws. Apply it to emotionally broken women and you'll see it drive them into an even more emotionally abyss that they've self created.
Im guilty of doing that. It was a really difficult realization. Im not sure if i played victim (of course duh) but i know was grieving from multiple losses in a short while. Once it was pointed out to me i took accountability. It was not on purpose just the pain looking for an escape unconsciously. Triggered a dark night of the soul. Love is love and never a waste of time no matter the outcome. You were put there for a reason good or bad there are always lessons and room for growth. My karma is brutal but well received. Talk to the woman who doesnt see her own struggles she projects in to others. I bet more times then not it will be appreciated. Godspeed
Run like hell, don't even question it. Thanks for confirming my keen insight, I see all these big time here in CA, and since it didn't even get to the break up stage, I just lose their number. The are nucking futs. You were spot on with insecurities, ego and low self esteem - constant need for attention....I'm surprised you left off the next phase, but these were just red flags. If you don't pay heed to the warning, you'll find that their low self esteem easily puts them in bed with the guy who will feed it. Then what? - cut it off early.
As a woman, I can tell you that I agree with this video. There are emotionally healthy women out there!!! But these are not them!!!! I have had to work with some of these types of women, & I thank god everyday, that I don't have to live with any of them!!! As you get older & wiser, you will actually start to understand the type's of trauma that broke these type's of women and fear will actually start to turn into pity for them, but don't let that pity trapp you. You can not ussually fix them, because at some point, we all have to take responsibility for our own healing, & that is a personal journey that only the individual can take responsibility for.
Honestly I am so embarrassed and let down , I've dealt with multiple broken women in my life , learned a lot of valuable lessons unfortunately they had to be first hand ... Few years ago one basically destroyed me or gaslighted me to the point I destroyed myself Fast forward Now here we are again This individual came out the blue went above and beyond put the heat on me, Gassed Me Up Even though I recognize some of the holes in the stories, red flags, lack of accountability I'm sitting here loosing sleep over it ... Yet I did it to myself, I knew better ... Was hoping maybe I was wrong Unfortunately I wasn't 😜 Yet I take accountability for torturing myself by putting myself through this
I know a guy who was in such a relationship, he told me his dog save his life; I didn't fully comprehend the meaning behind those words. Oh my.... now after watching this video, he ex-wife was behind his problems.
6:20 "NEVER CHEERING for people for their for their wins IS the TRUEST FORM OF NARCISSISM and LOW-KEY JEALOUSY." Outside of just dating situations, I've learned this to be true as well. You are all but hearing in the worst-case scenario of those scenarios, "that's no big deal" as a weird reply to a true WIN. You're incidentally helping me decide to not invest in a friendship where someone showed that I'm not dating because they're male and I'm a guy and NOT GAY. But this really helps with an ex-girlfriend who I thought I could date without being in a relationship because anything that was annoying or even unacceptable I could ignore for a while as a FWB when they acted up. Like you say, you basically need to cut ties at some point when they show these red flags
Well, as a woman listening to this, not all women are going to be an emotional wreck. We are emotional that’s how it’s meant to be because women are made close to the heart. point where we are more physically and emotionally driven I believe it’s because God wants us to be helpers in a man’s life. The main thing the man should really look for. is if she really cares so if she comes off very nonchalant, she is not worth spending any time trying to build a serious relationship with.
Wish I just seen this before I got screwed over by my emotionally wrecked baby moma…we moved in HER HOUSE on section 8 and the attitude/how she act completely changed and came off nonchalant to EVERYTHING…I screwed myself over being in a relationship and not knowing any better….
That’s false and you need to do some more research before speaking on this topic. Scientific studies have shown that in fact women are NOT more emotional than men, they are about the same. Women tend to show their emotions more freely, that’s all. But both feel emotions the SAME.
I tried to get with an emotionally damaged woman a few years back. The descriptions were pretty accurate from your video. Except in the end she lost multiple friends and some of her family knows the kind of person she is now. I still see them from time to time, good people, can't say the same for her though. Never had my heart broken that bad before, but it was a lesson that needed learning. Some women are just poisonous to everyone, including themselves, and no matter what you do you can't fix them unless they want to be fixed. She's still drowning in her damage, dependent on drugs, and in one of the most abominable co-dependent relationships with a psychopath I've ever seen. Glad I killed off everything good I ever felt towards her. I know deep down she's not a wicked person, but we can't live and act like monsters without eventually becoming one.
Well shit, i guess im good since my wife has absolutely zero of these. The only thing she wants me to do is work my ass off so we can retire early with each other overseas at our home there. She motivates me to do that all in positive ways. Passport bro all the way👍...
Hopefully, you will live long enough to enjoy your retirement, instead of getting over stressed and dying from a heart attack. Otherwise, it sounds good.
I knew they seek validation online but I was surprised I met one who liked it in person especially someone I met in Church. Everyone thinks she's so sweet and shy. Another cover so she doesn't have to show her true self.
Stop trying to bring more men that aren't down, with the majority of women that are. You wouldn't dare make the same argument on any feminist channels or videos, so signal your virtue back at your college campus.
It can. However from my experience it's much more common in women, closer to the average in America for them. While it's still the exception for men. You can go out for a night on the town and meet 10 women, of those 10 likely at least 5 or 6 are damaged in some way. You go out and meet 10 men though, likely only 1 or 2 would have similar issues.
@@VoiceOvaGuy I suspect you don't actually date men, and that your experience with men is less intense because you're not trying to talk men into bed with you, or to live with you, or into spending a ton of time with you. I'm strictly heterosexual myself but I expect far less from my relationships with men, than I do with women. I image that's why our relationships with women are tougher to deal with, and when we struggle with them we're more likely to think "women be loco".
.......... and sometimes the red flags don't come out until after you've said "I do". Some women consciously do the "bait-n-switch". Not saying that some men don't either but this video is about women.
So that's not her fault. Red flags in men: #1 men who watch too much porn. #2 men who've slept with loads of women. #3 men who keep trying to put you down because of their own low self esteem 😂 Yeah you don't wanna be with a woman who causes lots of drama, but it depends on the person. We're not all like those red flags in that video
Yep. Did a 13 year stretch with one of these. It wasn't hell but certainly a rollercoaster with the inevitable downward spiral. Taking the +'s in that time and downplaying the negatives. Older and wiser. Remember. They were a victim. A Step father in this instance. Stupid selection processes of woman (the Mother) where they are drawn to Dark Triad assholes
A sigma male will never hook up with an emotionally damaged woman. However hard it sounds they need a lifetime of support and can damage the males life too. For an adjusted woman who finds herself in need of help the sigma male will spring to the rescue but would not get entangled with an emotional cripple.
I was 49 years old when I finally went no contact with my sister. Before that, I had always told myself that she was "a close family member." So, telling her to just leave me alone felt odd to me. But a voice within me had been calling out, "she (my sister) WILL respect me or she will not have access to me." I have been perfectly fine without her passive aggressive way of communicating. She can kick rocks.
The reason I said that is because many of females galloping horses always go for the gallop riders and jockeys who emotionally and or physically damage them I work as a hotwalker at Santa Anita and del mar Racetrack I guess we don't make enough money Nor not in their social circle
Just remember, you cant fix ppl or change them. Who they are when you meet is who they are. Dont think, "this aspect of them I dont like but I can change that".
Yep, even if that aspect is some form of trauma you know they could overcome, and would benefit in every way if they did. If they don't want to change, they won't.
FOR MENS IN THE WORLD BELIEVE ME IT'S BETTER TO YOU JUST STAY SINGLE MENS BELIEVE ME IT'S BETTER YOU LIFE IN PEACE YOU HAVE FREE TIME JUST FOR YOU MORE BENEFIT WHEN YOU ARE A SINGLE MEN
Mine had daddy issues. She was not wanting to be center of attention but she definitely was insecure. She felt really abandoned often even when they wasn't the intention. Her father growing up cheated on her mother and neglected her family. Not sure if any of that played a part in my relationship but feels like there's a good chance
See as a sigma we have emotional intelligence and that draws broken women and broken men to us. Most men dont have emotional intelligence so they dont know how to listen to women. Its a blessing and a curse to have emotional intelligence because most of the world doesn't have emotional intelligence.
BEWARE of dating a woman who has had many failed relationships in the past .. They are BROKEN women who are not worth your time Don't sell yourself short ..I would rather be alone than in a toxic relationship with a broken woman. She will only drag you into the gutter with her.
@@jamesjones7798 if the person is a mess, then I agree no. If the person learned to be a better person, healed and appreciates a good man now and treats him well, then yes.
😮 always there single moms … not going lo lie … my situation is small … so basically I find my doctor’s assistant good looking. Charming smile and cool personality BUT one time she was so sweet and kind of flirty … even suggesting that I went over for consultation I should bring coffee and stuff like that … I mean they reciprocated BUT then there were days that from sweet she went to total B*** and saying stuff like it was my fault that she wasted so much time on me and did not had time for other patients … WTF!?!? And just the other day she was being kind of sweet…. Oh did I mentioned she’s a single mom of three !!!! Nah man … let me focus on getting my body in top shape, keep healthy , new place, Porsche ,
Everything you do is wrong Your ideas are not good enough, only hers Only one way to do anything her way, She will constantly tell you how lucky you are
Reminded her of herself and told her her truths like these steps and she took it as an insult and I was putting her down. Took that and used it to ghost me. Mind You I treated her better in 4 months than hr ex fiance did. Keyword EX FIANCE. He got the heck out of dodge and I am too now.
Listen guys i know this toxic loop of hating women is addicting ...but honestly if you were not born to the darkness it will betray you. Be careful. Peace.
Ooh, I really like that line. "If you were not born to the darkness it will betray you". I'm stealing that. Very true too, and none of us were inherently born of/to darkness.
A dude who says he “mated” with women is definitely not a dude who has been with a lot of women. Who even says “mated” lmao? You sound like a serial killer that scares away all the women around you lol
@@nervotica7991 sounds like he just didn't give it long enough to find out. Oops next 😅 But yeah immature is a problem and some women never grow some soul despite being older
Oui oui, moi non plus je ne suis pas parfait. J'ai des défauts et des qualités. Ce que j'aimerais, c'est qu'on fasse un effort commun et qu'on essaye. Tu joues, ou tu joues pas. Si tu joues, alors accepte de me rencontrer, c'est tout. Ce qui demandera du courage. Ça devrait aller pour la petite louveteau.
The woman I liked seemed to like me saying hello and being friendly and flirting with her. But ask her out somewhere and she's busy and will have to let me know. That's when I knew she was using me for validation. I don't think she has a big ego if anything she has low self esteem and likes when I look at her. It's sad she seems nice but she's really screwed herself up. I'm at the point I'm going to lie and tell her I found someone else. We're not a couple yet so I'm still a free agent. I prefer not to lie but she'd lie and withhold info about herself towards me.
Maybe she was just being polite and does not like you the way you liked her. There doesn’t have to be something wrong with her for her to not go out with you. She isn’t necessarily screwed up. Maybe you are screwed up for the ego and high expectations
@@ScrumdiddlyYUMMtiousASMR I don't know how a woman flirts with a man and she gets upset when he doesn't look at her and when the guy asks her out and she says no the guy is the crazy one.
Really good artwork. Thank you for sharing this valuable information. This reminds me of both of my X Fiancees. Now I understand things with better clarity. Now I know what to watch out for.. my question is why women always use the water works tears after the mental BS?
If you keep looking for red flags in your relationships, you’ll always find them, and will never experience genuine love and happiness. Remember that we attract who we are not what we want. So fix your traumas and insecurities first before seeking a relationship partner
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I’m a dude….
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You really can't help it who you love but applying rational thought and planning helps future you avoid undue headaches.
@@Wahiniesthat is zen ☯️🙏
But if you don’t recognize some of the things stated in this video ok you will be a fool being played like strings of a guitar
It just never seems to fail. You find a woman, she seems nice at first, shows you attention, makes you feel good. Then after a while, she starts finding ways to make you feel bad about yourself, and relationship ends. Why does this always happen? Every single freakin time. It’s the definition of insanity!
Yes, I used to think it was me and started thinking I wasn't very giving, caring or loving. But when I realized I was doing everything I should be doing, I started to understand it's not me and now I'm very depressed thinking that the women available are mostly narcissistic gaslighters. I've developed trust issues from dealing with women who have issues. Or maybe I just bring it out in them. I sometimes learn down the road and have seen that some of these women I've seen red flags in are seemingly in good relationships and I wonder how the guy can tolerate their behaviors. I think I'm ruined when it comes to relationships. I'm also seeing a lot of content online about many men choosing to stay single just because there are so many messed up women out there. And at 59, although I feel a little bit lonely at times, I'm really starting to feel that I'm better off single and have really become content with that.
@@lanemorrison4145if you think the women are messed up, the men are too. People with agendas, and we’re their vehicles. They give off signs, if only we pay attention. Hungry people make poor shoppers. Truth.
@@susanjones8489 IF you need to validate yourself by taking on men, you certainly have a red flag. Instead the comment should be attended with sympathy.
@@carlosemiralonso7997 I post what I want.
If it is a pattern with you, work the 12 Steps to uncover your unhealed trauma, people reflect back to us our unhealed wounds.
1. Gaslights you
2. "But you" type apologies
3. Excessively egotistical
4. Looks at kind gestures with skepticism
5. Constant need for validation
6. No cheers for your wins
They question your kind motives because they feel they don’t deserve it.
Who isn't emotionally damaged now days.
You need to work on how to come out of it dude, or it's gonna end badly for you soon
There's a better question to ask. Who stays emotionally damaged? EVERYONE gets damaged by life, multiple times, some worse than others. But it's up to us what we do with that. Run away, hide from it, watch it grow bigger, watch it warp who we are until we can't recognize ourselves anymore. Or take the time to struggle through it, to relive it over and over again until we glean understanding and insight from it, and overcome it.
There was a woman who's entire family was taken from her, and she was forcefully 'played with' multiple times when she was young. She could've let it destroy her, she could've let it turn her into a monster. But ya know what she did? Started a charity to help women who've gone through similar things, and led a fulfilling life speaking out to people about these events, and trying to get them to help themselves or accept the help of others. She overcame it, and used it to help others and spread positivity and healing.
God never gives us more than we can handle. So will you handle it? Or run from it?
Married people, I'm guessing.
@@BeeRich33marriage is about serving each other. That's counter cultural...
85% of humanity are narcissists of varying degrees, some more excessive than others. When dealing with narcissism in an abusive relationship, you should know that it’s not personal. Narcissists don’t know how to love; they can’t afford to spare the energy to learn, because they’re always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they don’t understand the concept - they can’t feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else.
Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissists value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. Loads of them brag about being a good parent and seek compliments for that only to hide their masks. When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing.
They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves.
When they toss you out, it’s no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old. None of this is personal. They’re too terrified to have close personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain.
This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesn’t know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, it’s from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection.
Moreover, If you think THEY are the one that "made' you feel then you are still under their control/spell, you're still wrapped up in their neverending inner delusions/dar-kness, and you learned nothing. The truth is, you were loving YOURSELF the entire time you were interacting with them as they were doing nothing more than mirroring you, there is nobody inside them in the first place, therefore there was nobody for you to love but yourself (as they themselves are incapable of true empathy/love).
Stating that they made you feel is like saying an empty robot made you feel, or an empty soda can made you feel. And in the same way it's completely ridiculous to think a Narc made you feel anything...As they were doing nothing more than mirroring you in the beginning. Based on a lie and you cannot truly feel for lies.
They are completely incapable of processing their emotions, they don't know how to. And that is why when you state that you love them they greatly resent it, they turn you into an enemy and play their games. Because inside they ask themselves- " how can you possibly love this ? '
Unless you get over these massive hurdles and understand the bigger picture of Universal spiritual truths in your relationships then you will never be the truly empathic powerful loving spirit being you truly are to love the world/heal the world.
I married an emotionally damaged woman. Knew that going in. Figured if I could provide a "normal" life that she would re-adjust. Nope. I'll take responsibility for this failed relationship but also for lesson learned. People are who they are...
My girlfriend is very emotionally damaged and insecure. I've invested so much of myself into supporting her emotionally and ignored my own needs without realising it. She can get very cold and distant at times and it takes its toll on me.
@@risepheonixpopculture8197 I feel that pain. They are beautiful people inside but irreparably damaged. No matter how good our intention, it's nothing but an invitation to emotional disappointment. It seems callous but run if you can. You can't save her. Save yourself, if it's not already too late.
Stop beating yourself with taking responsibility as none of it was your fault. When dealing with a female narcissist, you must learn that it wasn't personal. Narcissists don’t know how to love; they can’t afford to spare the energy to learn, because they’re always in a state of high emergency, cataloging potential threats and redoubling their defenses. When they claim to love you, it means nothing. They may even think they mean it, but they don’t understand the concept - they can’t feel it. They never attach to you or anyone else.
Other people are paper cut-outs to the narcissist, like those cardboard figures of celebrities you pose next to for a selfie. Narcissists value their own children only as mirrors of themselves. Loads of them brag about being a good parent and seek compliments for that only to hide their masks. When they destabilize you or attack you, it means nothing.
They are stuck in an endless conversation with themselves, in which you are an inanimate object, to be assigned their own faults and used as a surrogate punching bag for their hatred of themselves.
When they toss you out, it’s no more meaningful than a junkie tossing away a needle; when they try to reel you back in, it only means that they tired of the new drug and need a hit of the old. None of this is personal. They’re too terrified to have close personal relationships, opting instead for extraction of admiration from a subservient partner whose range of action they strictly constrain.
This is not personal. None of it. The narcissist does not know who you are - it doesn’t know how to know other people. Like the vampire or the chainsaw-wielding creature in the horror film, it’s from another world, bereft of the concept of human connection.
Moreover, If you think THEY are the one that "made' you feel then you are still under their control/spell, you're still wrapped up in their neverending inner delusions/dar-kness, and you learned nothing. The truth is, you were loving YOURSELF the entire time you were interacting with them as they were doing nothing more than mirroring you, there is nobody inside them in the first place, therefore there was nobody for you to love but yourself (as they themselves are incapable of true empathy/love).
Stating that they made you feel is like saying an empty robot made you feel, or an empty soda can made you feel. And in the same way it's completely ridiculous to think a Narc made you feel anything...As they were doing nothing more than mirroring you in the beginning. Based on a lie and you cannot truly feel for lies.
They are completely incapable of processing their emotions, they don't know how to. And that is why when you state that you love them they greatly resent it, they turn you into an enemy and play their games. Because inside they ask themselves- " how can you possibly love this ? '
Unless you get over these massive hurdles and understand the bigger picture of Universal spiritual truths in your relationships then you will never be the truly empathic powerful loving spirit being you truly are to love the world/heal the world.
No cheers for when you win is the biggest red flag, in my experience.
Decades back: on a date. Girl asks if I want to go up to her place. Of course I want to. She says make yourself at home, so I took my shoes off. She freaked out. "Why did you take your shoes off?" You said make yourself at home. I take my shoes of at home.
"Put them back on and get the hell out. I had five brothers".
I think I dodged a bullet with that one.
You did. She just saved you a lot of time and money.
@@theserpentshallwin You saved your sanity.
You played chess back while she was hoping you were ignorantly playing CHECKERS in response. Well played! (And you're not a so-called 'player'..) She was playing head games YET you knew to bail... You saved yourself a lot of inevitable nonsense from her... It's good that you ran off after that "Are you going to be the next pussy-whipped guy I date" test.
But that was not one of those "fitness tests"/"shit tests" to pass. You saved yourself a bit of future pain by doing the "RUN LIKE YOUR ASS IS ON FIRE" perma response. (I'd also let some other dude deal with her crazy crap)
You sure did my guy
I've encountered this in female employers and my ex-wife. Once they know you know. They will attempt to destroy you by playing the victim they hate it when you set boundaries and stick to them. and yes men can have red flags too. run from both males and females that act this way.
*When someone constantly compares you to past partners or seems fixated on their past hurts, it’s a big red flag.*
very wel explained. i'm a 53 old man. and trust me. this video is right.
1000% right
True, sir, I'm almost 62, and you're right on point. Having learned this late in life is a tough pill to swallow. But it'll be adhered to for my remaining years. You're never too old to learn.✌️
They are all a mess, and it's not going to get better. Don't stress about it. Pursue your goals and don't let let get you off track.
Interesting. As a woman watching this all I see are traits of the men I've been dumb enough to have relationships with. In my past I attracted broken, narcissistic men who gaslit, but you apologized, etc. I've gotten better at listening to my instincts rather than overruling them with thoughts or physical desires.
That's who you choose
Bingo Rodger
Or did you do that to them? I can tell you did, because you blame all of them, but if you knew and still chose poorly, that reflects on you also, but it's ONLY their fault? Mmk.
Laughable. The ideal example of PROJECTING your own insecurities and narcissism.
@@TPFB129the video literally blames all the women for everything that goes wrong in a relationship 😆
Everyone goes through stuff. 💯% attitude what you do with that: become better person and make others feel good and empowered when around you
I can confirm this without a doubt, lived with her for a year and a half and she did all these things, now she's single
Best advise anyone can give you is this. If you are with a chick that did not have a positive male role model in her life, ESPECIALLY with her father, don't just walk away run for your effin' life!
AMEN!!!
Good call. The chances a woman turns out as a respectable and caring person without a father figure is slim to none.
I have aquaintances and close friends that are caring and so sweet, with shitty male role models in their life as they grew up. Not sure your point guys is relevant
While this is an awareness of the women in your lives, don’t forget that this could be a wake up call towards you as well. You’re just as capable of causing the same damage as she would be without realising it. Keep yourself aware of yourself but don’t take any bullshit from anybody else.
The ANGER is the disease. If you live in ANGER - past time to stop.
let’s not over complicate things, “I don’t play games, have a nice life.”
The red flags will show up eventually, you don't have to look for them. They're always showing up in plain sight. 💯
This is exactly happened to me. My girlfriend was showing all these signs. After a while, I realized that she hard terrible childhood and lived in trauma.
I prayed for a girl like that. Got one. I'm helping her heal. It is long and arduous. 4 beautiful children.
Run, get to the choppa!
It's important to to do the inner healing work and be self aware and aware of how others are feeling around us. Totally possible to not only heal but become an even better person for all you've been through. 💯% Attitude
@@msimon6808is she still nuts?
This perfectly describes my mother, my dad's second wife, and their daughter. Such insecure, hateful women. Ugh.
Like pouring water in to a bucket with holes in it... Yep, this sums up my situation nicely. Constant self-depreciation and needing for reassurance from my side but not a single attempt to change things just for a little bit. And when I try to present her with something nice simply because I like her then I'm met with suspicion. Gave her the ultimatum, either she starts showing some effort in changing things on her side and then I'm will to stay with her as a support for her struggle or I simply fuck off. You can only guess her reaction. Spoiler - she didn't like the prospect of losing me as a spectator of her antics.
You don’t need a record. You’ll take yourself out of the equation. Live a life not dictated by the pressure imposed by peers.
What you describe here looks pretty much to me as a woman with NPD. (Narcissistic personality disorder ).
Law 36: Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best revenge and Law 39: Stir up waters to catch fish. Learn and master these laws. Apply it to emotionally broken women and you'll see it drive them into an even more emotionally abyss that they've self created.
Do you have a name or list of these laws? Thanks!
@@helpdeskjnp 48 laws of power written by Robert Greene.
Fish are caught in calm waters
It is hardly ever self created. Child abuse is the usual cause.
@@helpdeskjnpOr,you may also read The laws of seduction by the same author (Robert Green).
I just went through this bs now she has a new beaux and I just think not my problem now
[They] are ALL emotionally 'broken'.
Exactly - tell that to lokimagic above.
Hmm I wonder why? (Men) 😂
Sometimes it’s from their own insecurities……..
@@Idkjustyetfound the gaslighter.
Im guilty of doing that. It was a really difficult realization. Im not sure if i played victim (of course duh) but i know was grieving from multiple losses in a short while. Once it was pointed out to me i took accountability. It was not on purpose just the pain looking for an escape unconsciously. Triggered a dark night of the soul.
Love is love and never a waste of time no matter the outcome. You were put there for a reason good or bad there are always lessons and room for growth. My karma is brutal but well received. Talk to the woman who doesnt see her own struggles she projects in to others. I bet more times then not it will be appreciated. Godspeed
Accountability is key. Most people don't have that in them! It is called empathy.
Run like hell, don't even question it. Thanks for confirming my keen insight, I see all these big time here in CA, and since it didn't even get to the break up stage, I just lose their number. The are nucking futs. You were spot on with insecurities, ego and low self esteem - constant need for attention....I'm surprised you left off the next phase, but these were just red flags. If you don't pay heed to the warning, you'll find that their low self esteem easily puts them in bed with the guy who will feed it. Then what? - cut it off early.
As a woman, I can tell you that I agree with this video. There are emotionally healthy women out there!!!
But these are not them!!!! I have had to work with some of these types of women, & I thank god everyday, that I don't have to live with any of them!!!
As you get older & wiser, you will actually start to understand the type's of trauma that broke these type's of women and fear will actually start to turn into pity for them, but don't let that pity trapp you.
You can not ussually fix them, because at some point, we all have to take responsibility for our own healing, & that is a personal journey that only the individual can take responsibility for.
Honestly I am so embarrassed and let down , I've dealt with multiple broken women in my life , learned a lot of valuable lessons unfortunately they had to be first hand ...
Few years ago one basically destroyed me or gaslighted me to the point I destroyed myself
Fast forward Now here we are again
This individual came out the blue went above and beyond put the heat on me, Gassed Me Up
Even though I recognize some of the holes in the stories, red flags, lack of accountability
I'm sitting here loosing sleep over it ...
Yet I did it to myself, I knew better ... Was hoping maybe I was wrong
Unfortunately I wasn't 😜
Yet I take accountability for torturing myself by putting myself through this
After recognizing only acouple of these flags , a true sigma will psychologically and mentally begin to control the narrative for HIMSELF.
I know a guy who was in such a relationship, he told me his dog save his life; I didn't fully comprehend the meaning behind those words. Oh my.... now after watching this video, he ex-wife was behind his problems.
How dog saved life?
@@shanukumar2992 He may have decided to end his life but his dog's love towards him might've changed his mind.
Life’s too short don’t let anyone compromise your happiness 🤗
Run, get to the choppa!
I was dating a woman with disorganized attachment….omg…devastating and painful relationship that was
Never heard of this before but it sounds horrible
women with high body counts fit into this category in this video
6:20 "NEVER CHEERING for people for their for their wins IS the TRUEST FORM OF NARCISSISM and LOW-KEY JEALOUSY." Outside of just dating situations, I've learned this to be true as well. You are all but hearing in the worst-case scenario of those scenarios, "that's no big deal" as a weird reply to a true WIN.
You're incidentally helping me decide to not invest in a friendship where someone showed that I'm not dating because they're male and I'm a guy and NOT GAY.
But this really helps with an ex-girlfriend who I thought I could date without being in a relationship because anything that was annoying or even unacceptable I could ignore for a while as a FWB when they acted up. Like you say, you basically need to cut ties at some point when they show these red flags
Well, as a woman listening to this, not all women are going to be an emotional wreck. We are emotional that’s how it’s meant to be because women are made close to the heart. point where we are more physically and emotionally driven I believe it’s because God wants us to be helpers in a man’s life. The main thing the man should really look for. is if she really cares so if she comes off very nonchalant, she is not worth spending any time trying to build a serious relationship with.
Wish I just seen this before I got screwed over by my emotionally wrecked baby moma…we moved in HER HOUSE on section 8 and the attitude/how she act completely changed and came off nonchalant to EVERYTHING…I screwed myself over being in a relationship and not knowing any better….
Right on, sister.
That’s false and you need to do some more research before speaking on this topic. Scientific studies have shown that in fact women are NOT more emotional than men, they are about the same. Women tend to show their emotions more freely, that’s all. But both feel emotions the SAME.
95 % of today's women. Very sad.
Literally more like 98% of women
I tried to get with an emotionally damaged woman a few years back. The descriptions were pretty accurate from your video. Except in the end she lost multiple friends and some of her family knows the kind of person she is now. I still see them from time to time, good people, can't say the same for her though. Never had my heart broken that bad before, but it was a lesson that needed learning. Some women are just poisonous to everyone, including themselves, and no matter what you do you can't fix them unless they want to be fixed. She's still drowning in her damage, dependent on drugs, and in one of the most abominable co-dependent relationships with a psychopath I've ever seen. Glad I killed off everything good I ever felt towards her. I know deep down she's not a wicked person, but we can't live and act like monsters without eventually becoming one.
Well shit, i guess im good since my wife has absolutely zero of these. The only thing she wants me to do is work my ass off so we can retire early with each other overseas at our home there. She motivates me to do that all in positive ways. Passport bro all the way👍...
Hopefully, you will live long enough to enjoy your retirement, instead of getting over stressed and dying from a heart attack. Otherwise, it sounds good.
Don't most women have a constant need for Validation, Isn't that why social media is so important to women?
I knew they seek validation online but I was surprised I met one who liked it in person especially someone I met in Church. Everyone thinks she's so sweet and shy. Another cover so she doesn't have to show her true self.
My ex wife of 20 years always spent money we didn’t have and for some reason that was my fault
@@johnhentges4210 she's your ex for reason forget about her and restart new life . New wife . New kids
@@NoName-zb1gm Christianity is BY FAR the dar.-kest form of Narcissism that exists.
MGTOW= Happy Life
Books Suggest Read On Subject: Helps
(1.) Outsmarting The Sociopath Next Door Author Martha Stout
(2.) People Of The Lie Author Scott Peck
All of these are spot-on, and my first wife demonstrated each one for 34 years.
I'm thinking this applies equally to men as well as women, and to pretty much anyone in your life.
It is male oriented channel. Basically, he is describing narcissism. It can sometimes manifest differently in men than women.
Can we just leave the pedantic platitudes behind?
Stop trying to bring more men that aren't down, with the majority of women that are. You wouldn't dare make the same argument on any feminist channels or videos, so signal your virtue back at your college campus.
It can. However from my experience it's much more common in women, closer to the average in America for them. While it's still the exception for men. You can go out for a night on the town and meet 10 women, of those 10 likely at least 5 or 6 are damaged in some way. You go out and meet 10 men though, likely only 1 or 2 would have similar issues.
@@VoiceOvaGuy I suspect you don't actually date men, and that your experience with men is less intense because you're not trying to talk men into bed with you, or to live with you, or into spending a ton of time with you. I'm strictly heterosexual myself but I expect far less from my relationships with men, than I do with women. I image that's why our relationships with women are tougher to deal with, and when we struggle with them we're more likely to think "women be loco".
Stay away do not interact I’ve experienced this 1st & 2nd hand once you let them in they latch themselves onto you without even knowing you.
"No sense of remorse or regrets" and women have the softest punishments in courts.
.......... and sometimes the red flags don't come out until after you've said "I do". Some women consciously do the "bait-n-switch". Not saying that some men don't either but this video is about women.
Run away. Don't look back
Looks like *somebody has been gaslighted and deems all women as such*
Number 1:
She starts to open her mouth... And talks...
Man Should RUN FOR HIS LIFE.
#0 - she was sexually abused in childhood
So that's not her fault. Red flags in men: #1 men who watch too much porn. #2 men who've slept with loads of women. #3 men who keep trying to put you down because of their own low self esteem 😂 Yeah you don't wanna be with a woman who causes lots of drama, but it depends on the person. We're not all like those red flags in that video
STAY AWAY FROM THEM
Stay away from the narcissists.
Yep. Did a 13 year stretch with one of these. It wasn't hell but certainly a rollercoaster with the inevitable downward spiral. Taking the +'s in that time and downplaying the negatives. Older and wiser. Remember. They were a victim. A Step father in this instance. Stupid selection processes of woman (the Mother) where they are drawn to Dark Triad assholes
Been there done that. After about 1 1/2 weeks I was out of there! 🤣
A sigma male will never hook up with an emotionally damaged woman. However hard it sounds they need a lifetime of support and can damage the males life too. For an adjusted woman who finds herself in need of help the sigma male will spring to the rescue but would not get entangled with an emotional cripple.
These red flags describe my sister. How can
I maintain a relationship with her??
Enter at your own risk. These women do not get better.
I was 49 years old when I finally went no contact with my sister. Before that, I had always told myself that she was "a close family member." So, telling her to just leave me alone felt odd to me. But a voice within me had been calling out, "she (my sister) WILL respect me or she will not have access to me." I have been perfectly fine without her passive aggressive way of communicating. She can kick rocks.
TRUTH
When I am with my girl, its like being in China.
This goes out to the gallop riders at the racetrack
Mainly one's in California
The reason I said that is because many of females galloping horses always go for the gallop riders and jockeys who emotionally and or physically damage them
I work as a hotwalker at Santa Anita and del mar Racetrack
I guess we don't make enough money
Nor not in their social circle
Just remember, you cant fix ppl or change them. Who they are when you meet is who they are. Dont think, "this aspect of them I dont like but I can change that".
Yep, even if that aspect is some form of trauma you know they could overcome, and would benefit in every way if they did. If they don't want to change, they won't.
Red flags sometimes lead to your life partner. Just gotta have love and understanding with strong boundaries. And never deal with abuse of any kind.
What
@@lionelgrisbane-ud87 you want me to teach you phonics son? Learn to read!
@@lucristianx learn how to make sense
@@lionelgrisbane-ud87 I’m sorry I don’t speak to those with 1 IQ point like yourself. #dumbassawareness
You're playing in mine fields, but it's technically possible. More likely you'll end up being deceived and manipulated, but possible.
Being with someone as described is like buying a Cobra and setting it loose in your Home. It may take a while, but, eventually it will kill you.
Super video. Thank you.
Glad you liked it!
Every woman I ever met.
FOR MENS IN THE WORLD BELIEVE ME IT'S BETTER TO YOU JUST STAY SINGLE MENS BELIEVE ME IT'S BETTER YOU LIFE IN PEACE YOU HAVE FREE TIME JUST FOR YOU MORE BENEFIT WHEN YOU ARE A SINGLE MEN
Mine had daddy issues. She was not wanting to be center of attention but she definitely was insecure. She felt really abandoned often even when they wasn't the intention. Her father growing up cheated on her mother and neglected her family. Not sure if any of that played a part in my relationship but feels like there's a good chance
Spot on - wow
See as a sigma we have emotional intelligence and that draws broken women and broken men to us. Most men dont have emotional intelligence so they dont know how to listen to women. Its a blessing and a curse to have emotional intelligence because most of the world doesn't have emotional intelligence.
BEWARE of dating a woman who has had many failed relationships in the past .. They are BROKEN women who are not worth your time
Don't sell yourself short ..I would rather be alone than in a toxic relationship with a broken woman. She will only drag you into the gutter with her.
Yes and no, depends also on the level of self awareness and healing work done. Gauge that properly before getting serious
@@ashton1952It dont make sense for you to go through all the construction in order to try to give her a good relationship. Shes not worth it
@@jamesjones7798 if the person is a mess, then I agree no. If the person learned to be a better person, healed and appreciates a good man now and treats him well, then yes.
It does make more sense when the pictures are being drawn.
Both men and women are like this
Accountability is female kryptonite
First u must pass all the tests. Then u must give ur soul . Then be patient. And all ur dreams will come true
Never date a single mother
Ooo but when I said this, folk got pissed.
😮 always there single moms … not going lo lie … my situation is small … so basically I find my doctor’s assistant good looking. Charming smile and cool personality BUT one time she was so sweet and kind of flirty … even suggesting that I went over for consultation I should bring coffee and stuff like that … I mean they reciprocated BUT then there were days that from sweet she went to total B*** and saying stuff like it was my fault that she wasted so much time on me and did not had time for other patients … WTF!?!? And just the other day she was being kind of sweet…. Oh did I mentioned she’s a single mom of three !!!! Nah man … let me focus on getting my body in top shape, keep healthy , new place, Porsche ,
Everything you do is wrong
Your ideas are not good enough, only hers
Only one way to do anything her way,
She will constantly tell you how lucky you are
Interesting video thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it!
My boyfriend does all these things 😢😢😢😢
Reminded her of herself and told her her truths like these steps and she took it as an insult and I was putting her down. Took that and used it to ghost me.
Mind You I treated her better in 4 months than hr ex fiance did.
Keyword EX FIANCE. He got the heck out of dodge and I am too now.
Amen on both genders❤ he is explained.. it can be him as well.. or anyone around you💯
Stay single!!!❤🎉🎉🎉
Listen guys i know this toxic loop of hating women is addicting ...but honestly if you were not born to the darkness it will betray you. Be careful. Peace.
Ooh, I really like that line. "If you were not born to the darkness it will betray you". I'm stealing that. Very true too, and none of us were inherently born of/to darkness.
I mated with tons of women and I have never encountered anyone of these types of women. Why? Because I don’t date immature women.
A dude who says he “mated” with women is definitely not a dude who has been with a lot of women. Who even says “mated” lmao? You sound like a serial killer that scares away all the women around you lol
Feel free to lie to yourself, just don't expect us to believe you...
@@nervotica7991 sounds like he just didn't give it long enough to find out. Oops next 😅 But yeah immature is a problem and some women never grow some soul despite being older
Oui oui, moi non plus je ne suis pas parfait. J'ai des défauts et des qualités. Ce que j'aimerais, c'est qu'on fasse un effort commun et qu'on essaye. Tu joues, ou tu joues pas. Si tu joues, alors accepte de me rencontrer, c'est tout. Ce qui demandera du courage. Ça devrait aller pour la petite louveteau.
best video so far
saved video shared video among friends been there done that it's excruciating
@@dragosdragos5944
You have met my wife then.
So long as she puts out I'm not gonna care everyones crazy
The woman I liked seemed to like me saying hello and being friendly and flirting with her. But ask her out somewhere and she's busy and will have to let me know. That's when I knew she was using me for validation. I don't think she has a big ego if anything she has low self esteem and likes when I look at her. It's sad she seems nice but she's really screwed herself up. I'm at the point I'm going to lie and tell her I found someone else. We're not a couple yet so I'm still a free agent. I prefer not to lie but she'd lie and withhold info about herself towards me.
Cut contact ,don't tell her anything about yourself.
Maybe she was just being polite and does not like you the way you liked her. There doesn’t have to be something wrong with her for her to not go out with you. She isn’t necessarily screwed up. Maybe you are screwed up for the ego and high expectations
@@ScrumdiddlyYUMMtiousASMR I don't know how a woman flirts with a man and she gets upset when he doesn't look at her and when the guy asks her out and she says no the guy is the crazy one.
@@NoName-zb1gm she never said u were crazy tho lol she was probably just being nice 🥴 not everyone’s gonna like you .. get over it lol
@@cookiegirl891 Well stop using people for validation and we won't think that way.
Can this apply to men? Sounds like a man I know that does this to me as a woman. Emotionally broken man.
4 minutes into this video described my ex fiancée to a T...mgtow!
Give me a real life woman in the picture and I'll put up with a few red flags, lol!
Woman is singular, women is plural. Cmon guys, these types of errors do not make us look like the smart ones...
ALL OF THESE THINGS, SOUND LIKE MY EX, BOYFRIEND...HES A NARCISSISST...😮😮😮
Really good artwork. Thank you for sharing this valuable information. This reminds me of both of my X Fiancees. Now I understand things with better clarity. Now I know what to watch out for.. my question is why women always use the water works tears after the mental BS?
Thank You For Watching
Manipulation. Guilt is the controlling factor.
This is so spot on!!!!!! 😢😮😮🎉😂❤
I learned one thing.... always follow your gut from day one.....your sixth sense isn't lying SHE IS!!!! CONSISTENTLY😢😮
I know one thing I know what I don't want a broken person refuses to get help and trying to take you down to hell with them 😢
She was truly the most despicable person I've ever NOT MET
Business as usual 😢😮❤ a poligimists needing constant validation at your expense 😢😮❤
Whore loving to take money from her violators over and over again 😢
1st thing she is divorced.
If she is broken why wouldn't you "fix" her? give her love and support?
👏👏👏👏👏💪I love this video
So glad!
All of these are very suitable to her
Or, she's over 35 and single.