1:46 frequent lying or exaggeration 2:58 exploiting others without guilt or remorse 4:19 frequent fluctuation in mood or behaviour 5:38 projecting their own faults on to others 6:55 frequent gaslighting
Yes! I should've paid more attention when I switched these things during our brief courtship before I went and asked her to marry me, foolishly thinking that maybe it'll change after we marry
I had a sister in law who is overly narcistic. My brother payed the price for 15 years until he was completely drained emotionally and mentally. My wife is a saint though. As all people she has her flaws, but she is kind, responsible, orderly, honest, good work ethic and open minded. We always work like a team and agree on most things. I hope you will all find a compatible partner like that. They are hard to find, but they are out there!
I wish you the best. But if a unicorn presents herself to me or does things for me I'm still going to have to decline. I'm a big believer of the saying "if a deal is too good to be true it usually is"
You basically just described 99% of women. In regards to understanding women, Jack Nicholson once said, "Think of a man, then take away reason, and accountability."
@@ronnie_5150 I think men want a woman that is accountable “You know I was mean and I’m sorry.” And women want a guy that is malleable ie “Sure we can go there this weekend.” It’s give and take in any relationship, but if they give you shit and expect you to take it have boundaries and say “No.”. Then watch her leave or if she stays maybe it’s a relationship worth working on.
suffered all these for waaaayyy tooo long.... her face when i said ENOUGH and walked away was priceless......15+ years later a meet through family ... she has not changed her way one bit.. confirming my choice was correct to end the ..... leopards do not change spots....
I know what you mean. Married for 17 years and was in denial. Until I had enough. I wished I would have had TH-cam information on this when I was married from 89 to 05. I could have figured it out sooner..
@@dennisfant2620 I feel for you, brother. Twelve years of deception until the breakup. I wished that my healing would be faster. I hope you are doing well now.
Dude, the last time I was in a LT relationship (2014-2016) I ended it because of the gaslighting and lies. Caught her giving her number out and claiming she wasn't taken and then she tried to gaslight my ass by saying she just didn't want to hurt the guy's feelings. But, it was the fact she actually thought she'd get away with that line of BS that made me laugh in her face. I knew then she'd either already cheated on me, or was going to eventually. DONE!! 🙌
‘her face when I said ENOUGH and walked away was priceless ‘. Fully comprehend what you did , well done 👍🏻 , I walked 2 year ago. Everything was an instruction or an order. She has a boyfriend now to ruin. Me, I found someone who actually appreciates me and likes the way I look.
@@cokehagias4316 Beware, no matter how rich the other guy is, she will cheat on him. And no matter how much attention and energy you give her, she will cheat on you. She is broken beyond repair, don’t waste your time or resources. Ignore her, delete her and most importantly…block her from your life. Let her truly “feel” the desperation of not having you in her miserable life. That is the ONLY way to teach a narcissistic woman a lesson.
Absolutely. I've heard of situations where someone will constantly hide their phone and yet asks to see their partners phone from time to time. That just means they're scared that you're cheating the same way they are.
#1 red flag on dating apps: you get the impression that the woman you are interested in doesn't focus on you only but is discussing and/or is having interest in many men at once.
From personal experience, I find that you should be very leery of a very attractive woman you meet from a dating app. Even semi normal good looking women don't need a dating app to meet men.
Agreed. I've experienced this enough to know you have to take active steps. Say: "I know you're not lying, but are you not telling me anything it might be in my interests to know?" She may still not tell you, but it at least means you can then confidently identify any lie and cannot be gaslighted afterwards. Sad you have to go to those lengths but women are very adept at this type of manipulation.
@@sammyb1651these are personality disorders is what they are but this system will not label women as having personality disorders it's designed to protect and excuse them
Self importance, ignorance of a partner, lack of empathy, lack of bothering with their partners needs etc etc etc. I got to admit, I feel like I can't be bothered with them any more. I'm happier on my own. I think most women are emotionally unstable.
That’s cause they have hormones and bleed every month. All that is important for pregnancy… unfortunately it causes weird behavior… but every man on earth should be happy that he doesn’t bleed every month a whole week
@@Sa_m-samumm no! Most like being evil and society rewards them For it. Ladies aren’t like that but they are rare in this modern society that encourages materialistic crap and over indulgence.
Damn, exactly my though. How to differentiate from one unhealthy woman when they all seem unhealthy? Beating, being used (as a man), admiration and validation seeking and punishment by mental stress seems to match all women I have been with. It’s developing over time and usually after some time I think it must be me, but it seems to be e when they all seems to be like that after some time. What to do, is it possible to meet and establish a healthy relationship with "a normal woman" at all?
@@drgreengood I do not waste my valuable time getting mentally, physically, or psychologically prepared for doing stupid things or dealing with worthless people.
Thank you for sharing. Yes I had experienced all this from my ex. I only wish I had had the self worth earlier in my life to have ended it then. Now at 60 I am struggling to regain my wealth. She had high tastes and as a artist little income, not to mention the cash I am 99.99% sure she walked away with instead of putting it in the bank. Bottom line, PAY HEED TO WHAT IS SAID HERE. It could save you thousands as well as your health and dignity. My2 cents worth……
If you take a look behind the curtain, you'll also find out that such a woman is extremely jealous. I once had a joke about Mary Jane and she thought that I had some woman that I was interested in🤣. It means such a woman often does not want to lose their «free entertainment». And jealous about the fact that someone finds someone else. So, it means such women do not like when someone finds a proper partner, who suits in a genuine form.
I want to give you all a witness. Without the help of God I wouldn't have survived an eleven year marriage to a narcissistic woman. This video is spot on. Thanks to the uploader for uploading! Prayers
You wouldn't sat that if you'd ever had the soul-crushing misfortune to have had to deal with one ,who you were in a relationship with I can promise you that.
Yeah, be an idiot and assume that about every woman. Please do stay home. No need to go out and be a sore loser that only deserved to be spitted on. Perhaps that's how a toxic masculinity is born. Can't accept yourself which means control yourself and that's how that thing evolve. If you have any brains left you work on yourself, educate yourself rather than be victim and blaming outside world for your misfortune. You're not eternal. You'll die sooner or latter. So go ahead and waste your time on self-pity because it's alway works.
If she makes you feel unsure in & about yourself then go. If she loves you she won't need to cut you up inside ???. Its a partnership not a dictatorship..
This is by far the best video of the ones I watched on this subject to help me realize Ive been experiencing these red flags for 20 years. And now sibce webe had a huge blowup caused by her traits, she even gaslighted me about this that's left me confuse and blaming myself😒
Wow after watching this I now realise that’s exactly who I was with for over twenty years ,I never understood the signs that were always there until it was too late ,I was put thru pure hell after finally having to leave her ,she made stuff up to have me thrown out of my house and away from my young daughters here in Australia with help from an unfair court system geared one way ,I am a good man and have been lucky to find another love completely opposite to narcissistic x ,the only thing is she poisoned my two daughters minds and the contact is no longer ,so all sigma males like me please be aware of the signs in this clip it’s really important to pick up on those flags and leave right away ,something I should have done but failed to do and it cost me dearly Thanks TL
Red flags don't matter! The heart is dumb and over rides the mind when "love" is involved. 2 of my 3 kids have dated horrible people, even though the person had tons of red flags, the heart needs BROKEN and BETRAYED before it can see red flags. I wish it wasn't so, but it is.
Shit like this puts me on guard and scares me shitless. I'm 44, introvert, diagnosed autistic, single, working on myself, open to meeting new people... but my biggest fear is that I don't recognize signs, meet a chameleon and fall into some kind of social trap. Then get slowly drawn in. I don't want to be avoidant, but wtf is this.
While being in relationship I always remind myself I can end it any time. If I feel tired of a person, I just ghost her/him. I ruled that out as I am overly attracted to narcissists in love and friendship, and they all tend to disrespect you and use you more and more. But they are fun to have sex or drinks with, and are way less boring than normal people.
healthy relationships are open and spontaneous, should be open to new thoughts and behaviors. Any person going into a relationship with expectations, demands, or controls, is looking for a manipulation, not love
If you're over 40 or 50: "Shy" women who act like they are uncomfortable talking about themselves and their past. The divorced woman with children who owns the house they bought with their ex-husband. The woman likely got bored with the marriage so she forced the divorce and used getting custody of the children to get the house.
This video alludes that Sigma (and Sigma candidates) attract/are attracted to Narcs. Has my looking into the common denominator of a person experiencing both. I'm seeing that developing the fortitude to not be hooked by Narcs is what (perhaps) projects one to integrate as a full Sigma. Part of the training process; of which one can Be grateful. Thank You for these videos; it's a game changer to finally understand, "What the fuck is wrong with me?" ❤
A lot could have to do with that narcissistic women (or men) can be very different from the norm, and Sigmas would naturally be primarily attracted to outlier personalities, as the norm feels like they are absorbed in group-think and lack self-reliance. Secondly, may be the factor that sigmas can at times have a hero-complex to a smaller degree than Alphas, and would be a component in finding an erratic woman alluring, most likely on a subconscious level.
#1 is THE ONE. First time you catch her in that you absolutely have to leave. There is no coming back from someone trying to coerce you into believing their lies are truth and the truth isn't real. HELLS NO!!!
It goes with any gender. You'll be a fool not to consider it. Because toxity has no gender. I'm already tired of toxic masculinity and it seems to be everywhere. Simply claim that they're kings of the world when there's nothing to prove that.
My personal list of red flags prompting immediate dismissal... 1 Hard drug abuse 2 Hopeless alcoholism 3 Sex industry work 4 Perfidity 5 Empathy impairment
My wife has constant mood swings, I feel like I'm always walking on egg shells, she is passive agressive and not a good communicator. She gaslights me and criticises me. She does not show any empathy towards me and I feel like she hates me. She goes out with unknown friends all the time. She disturbs my peace by being noisy on purpose. She makes me feel bad when I see my friends. She is not willing to pay any bills even though she works. When I put my foot down she cries to make me feel bad. Is she a narcissist? Is this normal? I'm planning my escape at this point. Even if it costs me a fortune.
Most women have one of more of these traits. Stay stoic maintain your path and ignore them when they act like a child. If they threaten to leave let them they will come back.
Great video, One thing, I never grasps that saying "Insanity is doing something repeatedly and expecting different results"... For example if you're playing a level on a video game and lost over 100 times tryng to beat it but then you finally beat it ...OR could it mean for example You keep scrubbing paint off a wall thinking its going eventually return back to that color if you keep scrubbing it off? 😂 pointless obvious saying I would say. Great video once again.
@@wilsonmpesha904 But what about beating the same level 100 times but getting different high scores. I used that because I see it in today's youth and I find myself doing it with games on my phone, over and over just to beat my last score, I feel its some type of hypnosis trap or just may be insanity.
1. Alaways think that in this situation she is insecure not you its a type of manipulation dont get confused always think your self as if you're a main hero of a movie stay confident
this vid described every woman out there. the only way you can learn about narcissism, is dealing w one first hand. the problem arises when you dont know about narcs, how they operate, and u have to learn the hard way.
My ex turned into a passive/agressive unit (with a hint of selfishness) about an hour after our (HER) wedding. Unfortunatley, I put up with it for 19 years (we had 3 kids) ......and then they wonder why we want foreign women
Being a saver-reliable- feeing sorry for someone and a financial resource all have term limits! Go past those limits with someone will destroy you. Need to push empathy aside and move on. You can only bail water in a sinking ship for so long before it pulls you down to the bottom. Get on the life boat a sail on!
Do you know what’s just been described here.. The typical 2000s modern woman. And do you know what their go to is for people who enforce boundaries that won’t let them get away with these antics… A narcissist… Oh the irony
Wonderful i did not know you know my Exwife and make a clip about her 👀 ... it took me years to realize what happend even friends give me warning. I dont know if other have this problem too but in young age if something was to close for my "radar" i dont realize what happen and even overthinking again and again help nothing.
When (my ex) manufactures a struggle....I get more time with my kids. Let her lean on me all she wants as I simply get more time with our kids. Her new dog even loves me the most. I have control and therefore flexibility in my life. My kids have me as a rock. She is always in need...I am not.
Doesn't just apply to women you are in a relationship with my daughters mother has kept control of me for 15 years and now my daughter is exactly like this, so I'll never be free.
@@mikelouis9389 I have buddy, but it's the holidays and I'm missing my daughter so much. I might look happy but I'm dying inside. Really appreciate your amazing support though.thanks a bunch ❤️
@jewLUBEkneegahRsWHINE I can't do it..but I have blocked everyone ATM because it's really becoming a detriment to my health, and of course I'm getting the, I'm a bad guy, demands, threats from her mum's family , and the flying monkeys have been sent in. But as much as in trying to stay strong this is the first holiday I haven't been with her, so it's all so hard and I'm regretting turning her away , rightly or wrongly. I feel bad and I do feel I've let her down because I couldn't do enough to protect her and help her become a better person, I know she is only being abusive towards me and saying cruel things about my dog because she's doing it through others who are encouraging her . I don't hold anything against her.❤️💔
@reneeparsons my daughters mum doesn't understand boundaries, there's definitely parental alienation going on. Annoyingly I can't do alot to reach out to anyone, but I am speaking to cahms in the morning.social services are useless.
Rest In Peace, Kevin Conroy. We All Miss You, Good Brother ! Not to take away from the theme of this video, but the narrator sounds a LOT like the late, Great Batman Voice Actor ! Just the way the narrator is explaining narcissistic women, it sounds like Conroy’s Batman in total detective mode. Rest In POWER, Good Man ! 🙏💪 🦇 🤘
AND that does happen, any decent hearted woman will have a 100 guys fighting for her, I mean FIND a modern woman that will do ANYTHING for you, anything.
So TH-cam’s in vogue topic is a must to get the algorithm to push your channel. Narcissism is ridiculously overdone. The incidence of true clinical narcissism isn’t as prevalent as TH-cam’s content on it. Pseudo narcissism is the product of social media attention seeking. It’s released the sublimated trait in those addicted most to it.
So based off of this video, most women are narcs.. mood constantly changing, no accountability, uses people, points the finger when she’s cheating, the list goes on.
1:46 frequent lying or exaggeration
2:58 exploiting others without guilt or remorse
4:19 frequent fluctuation in mood or behaviour
5:38 projecting their own faults on to others
6:55 frequent gaslighting
Thank you very much! Saved me from watching that video.
Sounds like narcissism, male or female.
Men and Women. Watch out for these traits in human beings...
Very sickening
"When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time." That's a lesson i learned the hard way.
Yes! I should've paid more attention when I switched these things during our brief courtship before I went and asked her to marry me, foolishly thinking that maybe it'll change after we marry
I had a sister in law who is overly narcistic. My brother payed the price for 15 years until he was completely drained emotionally and mentally. My wife is a saint though. As all people she has her flaws, but she is kind, responsible, orderly, honest, good work ethic and open minded. We always work like a team and agree on most things. I hope you will all find a compatible partner like that. They are hard to find, but they are out there!
And hard to find
How long have you and your wife been together?
15 years together and married for 6 years.
I wish you the best. But if a unicorn presents herself to me or does things for me I'm still going to have to decline. I'm a big believer of the saying "if a deal is too good to be true it usually is"
both my brothers live a living hell w their nut job wives, and they put up with it. not i. see ya.....
No empathy, no accountability and professional victimhood if someone points out their wronging of others.
no responsibility...
You basically just described 99% of women.
In regards to understanding women, Jack Nicholson once said, "Think of a man, then take away reason, and accountability."
@@ronnie_5150 I think men want a woman that is accountable “You know I was mean and I’m sorry.” And women want a guy that is malleable ie “Sure we can go there this weekend.” It’s give and take in any relationship, but if they give you shit and expect you to take it have boundaries and say “No.”. Then watch her leave or if she stays maybe it’s a relationship worth working on.
“You know I was mean and I’m sorry.” I literally have never heard a woman say that. :)@@JohnRhodes-lv3rg
Why do men treat women the same way they would treat another man? Women aren't accountable, get over it lol.
suffered all these for waaaayyy tooo long.... her face when i said ENOUGH and walked away was priceless......15+ years later a meet through family ... she has not changed her way one bit.. confirming my choice was correct to end the ..... leopards do not change spots....
I know what you mean.
Married for 17 years and was in denial. Until I had enough.
I wished I would have had TH-cam information on this when I was married from 89 to 05. I could have figured it out sooner..
@@dennisfant2620 I feel for you, brother. Twelve years of deception until the breakup. I wished that my healing would be faster. I hope you are doing well now.
Dude, the last time I was in a LT relationship (2014-2016) I ended it because of the gaslighting and lies. Caught her giving her number out and claiming she wasn't taken and then she tried to gaslight my ass by saying she just didn't want to hurt the guy's feelings. But, it was the fact she actually thought she'd get away with that line of BS that made me laugh in her face. I knew then she'd either already cheated on me, or was going to eventually. DONE!! 🙌
I feel ya dude, glad you made the right decision by ending it.
‘her face when I said ENOUGH and walked away was priceless ‘.
Fully comprehend what you did , well done 👍🏻 , I walked 2 year ago. Everything was an instruction or an order. She has a boyfriend now to ruin.
Me, I found someone who actually appreciates me and likes the way I look.
Another huge red flag... When she is in a relationship already and she approaches you by saying that you are something important in her life!!!
Gold-digger... mind always calculating the 'next move' to where the grass is more greener.
@@WaweruG
That's the thing mate, her boyfriend is richer than I am...
@cokehagias4316 they have roles brother..
Rich bf funds
Broke boy boost ego
Cute boys for showing off
Thug for sex
@@cokehagias4316 they just need more attention. Who gives the most attention or energy wins.
@@cokehagias4316 Beware, no matter how rich the other guy is, she will cheat on him. And no matter how much attention and energy you give her, she will cheat on you. She is broken beyond repair, don’t waste your time or resources. Ignore her, delete her and most importantly…block her from your life. Let her truly “feel” the desperation of not having you in her miserable life. That is the ONLY way to teach a narcissistic woman a lesson.
You forgot #6...
Cheating (mysterious disappearances).
Also if she the narcissist woman hides her phone when her man comes in the room deletes or hides the phone immediately this is a huge red flag to!
Absolutely. I've heard of situations where someone will constantly hide their phone and yet asks to see their partners phone from time to time. That just means they're scared that you're cheating the same way they are.
Yep! That phone is what busted my ex girlfriend. 😮
Be on your own then no one can control you ever simple as that.
#1 red flag on dating apps: you get the impression that the woman you are interested in doesn't focus on you only but is discussing and/or is having interest in many men at once.
From personal experience, I find that you should be very leery of a very attractive woman you meet from a dating app. Even semi normal good looking women don't need a dating app to meet men.
@@ronnie_5150 Yes some of us do because we don't go to bars and don't ever meet single men who are good.
Lying by omission is a big thing with them as well.
Agreed. I've experienced this enough to know you have to take active steps. Say:
"I know you're not lying, but are you not telling me anything it might be in my interests to know?"
She may still not tell you, but it at least means you can then confidently identify any lie and cannot be gaslighted afterwards. Sad you have to go to those lengths but women are very adept at this type of manipulation.
@@sammyb1651these are personality disorders is what they are but this system will not label women as having personality disorders it's designed to protect and excuse them
Self importance, ignorance of a partner, lack of empathy, lack of bothering with their partners needs etc etc etc. I got to admit, I feel like I can't be bothered with them any more. I'm happier on my own. I think most women are emotionally unstable.
And mentally 😅
That’s cause they have hormones and bleed every month. All that is important for pregnancy… unfortunately it causes weird behavior… but every man on earth should be happy that he doesn’t bleed every month a whole week
I do hope you stay well, well away from them!
@@Sa_m-samumm no! Most like being evil and society rewards them For it. Ladies aren’t like that but they are rare in this modern society that encourages materialistic crap and over indulgence.
@Sa_m-sam our hearts bleed having to deal with women and their non sense
I never dated a woman who didn't have at least three of these traits. Good luck finding one who doesn't.
Damn, exactly my though. How to differentiate from one unhealthy woman when they all seem unhealthy? Beating, being used (as a man), admiration and validation seeking and punishment by mental stress seems to match all women I have been with. It’s developing over time and usually after some time I think it must be me, but it seems to be e when they all seems to be like that after some time. What to do, is it possible to meet and establish a healthy relationship with "a normal woman" at all?
So have I dating is a waste of time, money and effort. Just don't do it.
@@adameckard4591 I's a waste unless one is mentally prepared for all of that and just accept it.
@@drgreengood I do not waste my valuable time getting mentally, physically, or psychologically prepared for doing stupid things or dealing with worthless people.
Then you are problem ! Look within and your insecurities which are attracting them !
Thank you for sharing. Yes I had experienced all this from my ex. I only wish I had had the self worth earlier in my life to have ended it then. Now at 60 I am struggling to regain my wealth. She had high tastes and as a artist little income, not to mention the cash I am 99.99% sure she walked away with instead of putting it in the bank. Bottom line, PAY HEED TO WHAT IS SAID HERE. It could save you thousands as well as your health and dignity. My2 cents worth……
If you take a look behind the curtain, you'll also find out that such a woman is extremely jealous. I once had a joke about Mary Jane and she thought that I had some woman that I was interested in🤣.
It means such a woman often does not want to lose their «free entertainment». And jealous about the fact that someone finds someone else. So, it means such women do not like when someone finds a proper partner, who suits in a genuine form.
The jealousy alone would turn any man off.
They very jealous yes.
Once you put a ring on the finger, the crazy switch is flipped.
Yes, i made that dumb decision and I lost 6 years of my life.
A married narcissist woman acts like a single one in disregard of her marriage covenant, be mindful of that, don’t fall for that death trap.
I want to give you all a witness. Without the help of God I wouldn't have survived an eleven year marriage to a narcissistic woman. This video is spot on. Thanks to the uploader for uploading! Prayers
Thank You For Watching
This describes all women these days.
You wouldn't sat that if you'd ever had the soul-crushing misfortune to have had to deal with one ,who you were in a relationship with I can promise you that.
Yeah, be an idiot and assume that about every woman. Please do stay home. No need to go out and be a sore loser that only deserved to be spitted on. Perhaps that's how a toxic masculinity is born. Can't accept yourself which means control yourself and that's how that thing evolve. If you have any brains left you work on yourself, educate yourself rather than be victim and blaming outside world for your misfortune. You're not eternal. You'll die sooner or latter. So go ahead and waste your time on self-pity because it's alway works.
YUP
She/her
Mood swings.....I ignored it because there was no one else. I still have no one else but am out of THAT one anyway.
If she makes you feel unsure in & about yourself then go. If she loves you she won't need to cut you up inside ???. Its a partnership not a dictatorship..
Sounds Pretty Much Like Female Nature.
I agree
Women are control freaks
😂 it is what it is. We all know the great poet....2 things in my life I ain't never seen before is a UFO and hoe that want go....project pat
Every female matches all these…that means pretty much all of em r narcissistic
@@prameshsahu1957They pretty much are
This is by far the best video of the ones I watched on this subject to help me realize Ive been experiencing these red flags for 20 years. And now sibce webe had a huge blowup caused by her traits, she even gaslighted me about this that's left me confuse and blaming myself😒
educate yourself fully. their are lots of narc vids on here to learn from.
There should be a "Car Fax" service available to look up a women's past history before buying.
LOL, there is, look for their social media pages, stupid animals post their lives all over the place for validation.
@jewLUBEkneegahRsWHINE Hire a private Investigator to research her past and present legal and financial history b4 moving her in. Money well spent.
@jewLUBEkneegahRsWHINE 14 dwi's per year
Takes credit for things they didn’t do …ie you cut the grass, trim the hedge etc, yet “we did the garden”
Wow after watching this I now realise that’s exactly who I was with for over twenty years ,I never understood the signs that were always there until it was too late ,I was put thru pure hell after finally having to leave her ,she made stuff up to have me thrown out of my house and away from my young daughters here in Australia with help from an unfair court system geared one way ,I am a good man and have been lucky to find another love completely opposite to narcissistic x ,the only thing is she poisoned my two daughters minds and the contact is no longer ,so all sigma males like me please be aware of the signs in this clip it’s really important to pick up on those flags and leave right away ,something I should have done but failed to do and it cost me dearly Thanks TL
How old is your new wife?
Red flags don't matter! The heart is dumb and over rides the mind when "love" is involved. 2 of my 3 kids have dated horrible people, even though the person had tons of red flags, the heart needs BROKEN and BETRAYED before it can see red flags. I wish it wasn't so, but it is.
Shit like this puts me on guard and scares me shitless. I'm 44, introvert, diagnosed autistic, single, working on myself, open to meeting new people... but my biggest fear is that I don't recognize signs, meet a chameleon and fall into some kind of social trap. Then get slowly drawn in. I don't want to be avoidant, but wtf is this.
While being in relationship I always remind myself I can end it any time. If I feel tired of a person, I just ghost her/him. I ruled that out as I am overly attracted to narcissists in love and friendship, and they all tend to disrespect you and use you more and more. But they are fun to have sex or drinks with, and are way less boring than normal people.
Omg this is spot on!! Took me 4 years to figure out and then getaway from this type of person. The manipulation runs deep.
healthy relationships are open and spontaneous, should be open to new thoughts and behaviors. Any person going into a relationship with expectations, demands, or controls, is looking for a manipulation, not love
Wrong
Right
My ex....100 percent this. Sad i did not recognize it sooner
If you're over 40 or 50: "Shy" women who act like they are uncomfortable talking about themselves and their past. The divorced woman with children who owns the house they bought with their ex-husband. The woman likely got bored with the marriage so she forced the divorce and used getting custody of the children to get the house.
This video alludes that Sigma (and Sigma candidates) attract/are attracted to Narcs.
Has my looking into the common denominator of a person experiencing both.
I'm seeing that developing the fortitude to not be hooked by Narcs is what (perhaps) projects one to integrate as a full Sigma.
Part of the training process; of which one can Be grateful.
Thank You for these videos; it's a game changer to finally understand, "What the fuck is wrong with me?"
❤
A lot could have to do with that narcissistic women (or men) can be very different from the norm, and Sigmas would naturally be primarily attracted to outlier personalities, as the norm feels like they are absorbed in group-think and lack self-reliance. Secondly, may be the factor that sigmas can at times have a hero-complex to a smaller degree than Alphas, and would be a component in finding an erratic woman alluring, most likely on a subconscious level.
Damm
#1 is THE ONE. First time you catch her in that you absolutely have to leave. There is no coming back from someone trying to coerce you into believing their lies are truth and the truth isn't real. HELLS NO!!!
It doesn't take wrong to decipher a woman as you think.
Just be suspicious first
It goes with any gender. You'll be a fool not to consider it. Because toxity has no gender. I'm already tired of toxic masculinity and it seems to be everywhere. Simply claim that they're kings of the world when there's nothing to prove that.
You mean “long,” right??
@@bryanpanen448 yes
I have literally lived this. And boy did I pay the price.
Sorry to hear that.
My ex. I didn't realized it, until the end, and not even then, but after. May she reap what she sow.
your discription of women here is just about every women i know our heard of.
My personal list of red flags prompting immediate dismissal...
1 Hard drug abuse
2 Hopeless alcoholism
3 Sex industry work
4 Perfidity
5 Empathy impairment
My wife has constant mood swings, I feel like I'm always walking on egg shells, she is passive agressive and not a good communicator. She gaslights me and criticises me. She does not show any empathy towards me and I feel like she hates me. She goes out with unknown friends all the time. She disturbs my peace by being noisy on purpose. She makes me feel bad when I see my friends. She is not willing to pay any bills even though she works. When I put my foot down she cries to make me feel bad. Is she a narcissist? Is this normal? I'm planning my escape at this point. Even if it costs me a fortune.
You got to get out of there
That was my ex- who taught me that never trust anyone outsiders.
Sums up my sister to a T. I gave her a full partnership in my business, 16 years later, the blinders came off (when she left) without squaring up !!
This video perfectly describes my older sister, not only with her husband.
Another 🚩when she's in a relationship already and starts calling them "flatmate" or "just a friend".
Another red flag, she tries to make you jealous along with everything is your fault, not hers. Also, rules for theee and not for meeee.
Most women have one of more of these traits. Stay stoic maintain your path and ignore them when they act like a child. If they threaten to leave let them they will come back.
They can leave but i,ll never take them back sorry.
@@christianbenn316 You beat me to the punch on that one. What kind of man wants a woman who plays stupid games, like many do?
I have to say my woman fit a couple of these perfectly. I would say number one was as if you were actually describing her.
As an Alpha male, I don’t put up with this shit and show these women the door.
The girl I was seeing who keeps disappearing on me exhibited a lot these behaviors. I guess I was too blind to see it.
My Ex wife was like this. I saw her take a story that i told her years ago and make it hers. Same situation just different people
What if she can't gorget her ex but tells that she has forgotten (but still tells about him everytime)?
On point! If you see these red flags please run.
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Great video, One thing, I never grasps that saying "Insanity is doing something repeatedly and expecting different results"... For example if you're playing a level on a video game and lost over 100 times tryng to beat it but then you finally beat it ...OR could it mean for example You keep scrubbing paint off a wall thinking its going eventually return back to that color if you keep scrubbing it off? 😂 pointless obvious saying I would say. Great video once again.
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Insanity would be more of the latter. More specifically... Playing that same game and beating it every time but expecting a different ending.
@@SigmaMale1337what bout GHOSTING. Is that a red flag too???
@@wilsonmpesha904 But what about beating the same level 100 times but getting different high scores. I used that because I see it in today's youth and I find myself doing it with games on my phone, over and over just to beat my last score, I feel its some type of hypnosis trap or just may be insanity.
@@AOCITYBOY I'm sure you're aware that not all analogies can be used to the same extent.
I suspect that narcissistic women hate my company. It's a nice defense.
1. Alaways think that in this situation she is insecure not you its a type of manipulation dont get confused always think your self as if you're a main hero of a movie stay confident
Describes someone I dated to a T. Avoid these women at all cost they are deceitful and disgusting
& dangerous & allways play the victim.
I work with a woman who's similar to this. She tried to dig her claws into me because she thought I was rich. Totally disgusting woman.
That’s most of society now. 90% of what you see in schools and in the workplace.
getting married is a red flag
this vid described every woman out there. the only way you can learn about narcissism, is dealing w one first hand. the problem arises when you dont know about narcs, how they operate, and u have to learn the hard way.
Most if not all of this sounds like how my brothers treated me growing up. Might explain my lay-back, reserved, old soul type of attitude.
if there are no timestamps in a video, doesn't worth watching it. That is a sigma rule.
Constant need for affirmation
All of these apply to the male narc too
" It's better to be lost at Sea , then stuck in a relationship/ home / house 🏘️ with a Narcissist women 🤿🤿⚓⚓⚓🦈🦈🦈🦈🦈🌊
What is remady Or treatment?
I only wish I had seen this years ago when I was in a relationship with this very same woman. Glad to be done w/ all that.
I found my darling Wife in Thailand. She's traditional, respectful and loving. We have a very happy Marriage.
Wonderful!
Amazing video.
I have been 3 years with a woman like this, and it hurts!!!! Whatch out!!!
My ex turned into a passive/agressive unit (with a hint of selfishness) about an hour after our (HER) wedding. Unfortunatley, I put up with it for 19 years (we had 3 kids) ......and then they wonder why we want foreign women
Foreign women can also be narcissistic. Every woman is different. Be careful.
Very constructive video. Thank you
Glad you enjoyed it!
This perfectly describes my ex. I am SO better off now!
I've met so many women like this in Georgia lol facts
Being a saver-reliable- feeing sorry for someone and a financial resource all have term limits! Go past those limits with someone will destroy you. Need to push empathy aside and move on. You can only bail water in a sinking ship for so long before it pulls you down to the bottom. Get on the life boat a sail on!
Using their emotions a tool against a man... Tears carry a long way when sold right
2. Sounds like my mom and every female members
Is there any specific reason why you have the theme music to Her Story playing in the background?
I blame tik tok and other social media
it has really put an end to life and the mystery of life.
I can't ignore the go pros light shining out the side of the screw mount 😂
Do you know what’s just been described here.. The typical 2000s modern woman. And do you know what their go to is for people who enforce boundaries that won’t let them get away with these antics… A narcissist… Oh the irony
This is me and my ex girlfriend 100%
2 years of absolute hell.
You should have added a point separately: They always play the Victim Card to rationalize their cheating once got caught!
@jewLUBEkneegahRsWHINE Yep, that too!
Wonderful i did not know you know my Exwife and make a clip about her 👀 ... it took me years to realize what happend even friends give me warning. I dont know if other have this problem too but in young age if something was to close for my "radar" i dont realize what happen and even overthinking again and again help nothing.
When (my ex) manufactures a struggle....I get more time with my kids. Let her lean on me all she wants as I simply get more time with our kids. Her new dog even loves me the most. I have control and therefore flexibility in my life. My kids have me as a rock. She is always in need...I am not.
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Doesn't just apply to women you are in a relationship with my daughters mother has kept control of me for 15 years and now my daughter is exactly like this, so I'll never be free.
Ghost them all. After a few months someone will need to use a weapon to force you to reconnect. 11 years free. I wish them nothing but to stay gone.
@@mikelouis9389 I have buddy, but it's the holidays and I'm missing my daughter so much. I might look happy but I'm dying inside. Really appreciate your amazing support though.thanks a bunch ❤️
@jewLUBEkneegahRsWHINE I can't do it..but I have blocked everyone ATM because it's really becoming a detriment to my health, and of course I'm getting the, I'm a bad guy, demands, threats from her mum's family , and the flying monkeys have been sent in. But as much as in trying to stay strong this is the first holiday I haven't been with her, so it's all so hard and I'm regretting turning her away , rightly or wrongly. I feel bad and I do feel I've let her down because I couldn't do enough to protect her and help her become a better person, I know she is only being abusive towards me and saying cruel things about my dog because she's doing it through others who are encouraging her . I don't hold anything against her.❤️💔
@@reneeparsons she's not my wife.
@reneeparsons my daughters mum doesn't understand boundaries, there's definitely parental alienation going on. Annoyingly I can't do alot to reach out to anyone, but I am speaking to cahms in the morning.social services are useless.
what do i do if im talking to one that has all 5 rn?
triangulating with their exes or friends who are narcs...often the the ex is also a narc. Narcexes.
Great information
Glad you think so!
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You're welcome!
Rest In Peace, Kevin Conroy. We All Miss You, Good Brother ! Not to take away from the theme of this video, but the narrator sounds a LOT like the late, Great Batman Voice Actor ! Just the way the narrator is explaining narcissistic women, it sounds like Conroy’s Batman in total detective mode. Rest In POWER, Good Man ! 🙏💪 🦇 🤘
This is all women. If a normal one exists, it would be a bloodbath of all the men on earth fighting each other to have her.
AND that does happen, any decent hearted woman will have a 100 guys fighting for her, I mean FIND a modern woman that will do ANYTHING for you, anything.
Yes that’s her .
I have met who have many of these traits. I just don't date anymore. It is a waste of time, money and effort. Just don't do it.
Actually, insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and getting different results.
😂😂lol
That's is true.
Tru tru
I don't now about narcissistic women but this sounds very much like the behavior of the federal and state governments today.
Wow...........these traits apply equally to GOVERNMENTS also!!!!
Our government is wholly narcissistic and evil....
So TH-cam’s in vogue topic is a must to get the algorithm to push your channel. Narcissism is ridiculously overdone. The incidence of true clinical narcissism isn’t as prevalent as TH-cam’s content on it. Pseudo narcissism is the product of social media attention seeking. It’s released the sublimated trait in those addicted most to it.
Everyone feels like that
I wouldn’t have called any of these qualities as narcissistic. But just how woman behave to get what they want.
lol
So based off of this video, most women are narcs.. mood constantly changing, no accountability, uses people, points the finger when she’s cheating, the list goes on.