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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ต.ค. 2024
- Funny secret story: We went camping with a whole bunch of ladies who loves to put on make up. So I stumble into one of the ladies in the women's restroom and she had no make up. I couldn't recognized her and she also looked weird to me. It was a funny moment!
Lawv laus lawm ces lawv yeej zoo li ntawv lawm kuv tus txiv laus lawm ces yeej coj tus cwj pwm zoo li koj tus thiab nawb
Peb tuaj tebchaws no ib zaug yuav tsum muaj in lub tsev thiaj tsis nyob.
Part of the American dream is owning your own home. Not renting! Tell your wife to stop being a cheapskate! When you die, you're not going to be able to take that money with you. Spend it while you're still alive.
Q1 Just ask your husband what’s happening to him. Know one knows him better than himself.
Q2 Mister, if you’re wife is greedy and don’t want to use the money, just be happy she’s saving the money for you. After she dies, she can’t take the money with her, so you’ll end up with all the money.
?.1"unless he has medical excuse maybe he cheating.at 40 he shld be perform.?2. Work it out together.she too stingy
Q1 poj niam 40 xyoo tab tom nyiam2 txiv neej xwb
Txiv neej 40 xyoo ces qaib tsis qua lawm
Lub siab ntshaw npaum twg los tus kwv tsis ua hauj lwm li lawm
#1 as if you were telling my story!! 🤣 Goodness, I'll be lucky to get it once a week. I believe some men loses strength as they age.
Vuag kuv mas xav kom ib vas thiv kuvv tus txiv mam nrog kuv ua niam txiv ib zaug xwb os cas sij tshawb yus txhua hmo mas dhuav2 txiv neej li os
Question 1. Depend on his health.
Question 2. Tell ur wife. U rather be in debt 30 years and pay off early than kick out someone's property at age 60 and have nowhere to go. I hate renting!!! If she don't wanna be in debt for that long. Pay it off in 10 years and spend ur 60s not having rent or mortgage
LOL. #1: that is real vacation. Showered in cow's poop😂
#1 Geesh I’m in my mid 30’s and don’t even need it. The less my husband needs, the better. Even once a month is too much for me!
Same here! 🤣
Forreals!!!!!! 😂🤣
There’s something wrong with you lady! 🤣🤣
Woman that don’t need it because they’re so dry no homo
Woman that don’t need it because they’re so dry no homo
Q1: It could be due to age. My husband and I use to be more sexually active when we were younger. Now that we are close to our 50s, once or twice a month is the norm for us. Luckily we both have the same level of sex drive and are both ok with it.
Q2: Tos tuag mam nqa nrog neb coj mus puag pw pw noj pw haus tim zos txias xwb los mas.
Muaj tus tshiab lawm xwb
Question 1. If his history is not like that you really need to investigate him and start looking for other signs.. Also trust your intuition as it's usually right. Usually it's the men who you think will never cheat that does cheat.
Question 2.
Without any details about your finances it's hard to give advice. If you are currently in a lot of debt, I would agree with your wife. If you have money saved and you can afford to buy a house or new car and it would not eat into your savings you will need to weigh the pros and cons.
Q1: Pog aw txhais tau hais tias nws laus lawm los mas.
Q1: it’s normal with age…yet I’m amazed that the older men (over 60) goes to Laos to marry the young girls young enough to be their granddaughters 😬 How do they have the energy? Now that’s another question to be asked 😂
Q2 you only know today. Tomorrow is not promised. That’s why you buy life insurances to secure your funeral. If you’re already in your 50s better start to spend on stuff you want bc it’s just going downhill from now. When we die money can’t with go with us. At the end of the day, money is just paper.
Depend on what they r doing...I know my husband is super bz. Lol
Nyob ntawm lub neej mas thaum pib kiag xwb, twb yeej ntshaw lub tsev. Ntshaw tsheb tshiab, ntshaw noj qab hnav zoo xwb. Yog khwv2 es nyob li pluag2 no tsis tsim nyog khwv thiab ua neeg ib zaug li os.
Question #2: Your house is your investment. She thinks saving money will help in the future, but actually your house will get you more money back in the future. Without a house of your own, you do fall behind.
teb rau tu niam tsev lo lu nug nawbtu me niam tsev aw txiv neej hnub nyoog plaub caug tawm lawm ce kaum hmo ib lawm xwb oskuv tu ib lo ib yam os nyaj g yog nw muaj lwm tu os
Buy your house and car. If she don't want to then split the money and you go buy a brand new car
#2 question- a used car is ok, but a new house is worth the investment into your old years. You don’t want to live life paying off other’s mortgage only. It’s nice to have a place that’s yours to be comfortable in and call home . If u really want your own home, step up and make the move. U and your wife need to compromise
This is America, we must live or strive to live the America dream. This country is about debt! Buy what you can when you can afford it and live life to the fullest!
#1 It just depends if that's a regular for him, if not definitely look into possiblely cheating or health decline.
#2 Life is short, enjoy it with your hard earned money. Don't over do it because you still have bills, but use some to make you happy. You deserve a new house and new car if you work hard.
Tug niam tsev kws tau nia quav twm, when you go to foreign countries, you always prepare for unexpected thing because their driving is totally different from USA. Your husband was correct. You were lucky that you felt on the buffalo shit and you didn’t get hurt. If felt on rock, you would be in serious injury.
Question #2: first be glad your wife is saver. Yog koj ntshaw tsheb tshiab, koj yuav los yeej tau. Tabsi lub tsheb tshiab nws tsuas yog nuj nqis xwb....Ua rau koj poob nyiaj xwb vs save tau nyiaj. Tsheb poob nqis, insurance kim, lub tsheb los kim. In the end, koj poob nyiaj xwb. Tabsi yog koj ntshaw dhau lawm los kuj tsim nyog yuav ib lub kom koj siab nqig. A wise person would choose to save money over siab nqig. Hais txog lub tsev....yuav tsev zoo vim tsev yog ib qho asset uas yuav nce. Owning a house could bring you more expenses than renting...but it is a long term investment so you will get a return in the end.
Tus niam tsev tej zaum koj tus txiv yeej yog cov txiv neej tsis nyiam ua paum heev cov txiv neej zoo li no mas koj yuav tshum txhawj2 tawb ua kom nws tawv2 heev es xav2 mas thiaj ua tau li yav thaum hluas nawb.
we work hard and play hard. if you don't spend your money someone will. we are not rich but its ok. we have fun and have no regrets in life.
Es yus ua tsis taus txiv lov ? es pheej yuav noog nws xwb , nws tsis nyiam li yus nyiad ces yus ua ab tsi ces yus ua yus xwb .
Tus muam Ntshe koj muab kev hlub G txaus rau koj Tus Txiv lawm 1 week nws thiaj nrog koj Lwm ib zaug xwb vim koj G cuab zog lawm. Nco ntsoov kev ua niam Txiv saum txaj saum chaws tsis hais Tus poj niam los Tus Txiv neej koj Yuav tsum npaj koj Tus kheej kom zoo nkauj thiab ua ntxeev tiaj Khwb Rwg Ua txua yam kom koj Tus Txiv los Tus poj niam txaus siab mas nws thiaj li xav nrog koj pw txua
Hmo. G Muaj li no ces nws Yuav nrug koj ho koj los nrug nws mus nriam Tus tshiab .
Question #1 normal mas tus viv ncaus aws. Txiv neej laus lawm ces lawv yeej zoo li kos
A pound of makeup lol. Had a lady who goes to bed with makeup on, took her makeup off in the morning (1st time seeing her natural face) I was shocked..she said what..I wanted to say zoo li poj ruam...but I thought that'll be rude so I said vuag, koj txawv ua luaj. Lol 😆🤣
The first question u need to check him out find out if 1. His body change only 2. He is cheating sleeping with someone else and don't want sleep with u . My cousin husband lie heis body change but the truth he cheating on her and just don't want sleep with her nomore so find out
The makeup story
You say you feel bad for calling her a poj dab
BUT evidently you don’t feel bad about it
Because you’re here calling her a poj dab
Even though you know she might hear your story!! 😏
Q#1... could be health issues.
Q#2...a house is a long term investment.
seb koj tu poj niam tua es nws nqa pua tau nws cov nyiaj nrig mus no xwb os.
Q1. He might has somebody. Watch closer 2 get . .
Q1: if he is always like that then no problem but if he changes then maybe he is cheating on you. Does he always on the phone and goes somewhere else when answering phone? Hiding his phone or missing without reason? yes, he is cheating on you.
To ? 2- You can observed if there is anything different. If he is not unfaithful, it is normal for men 40 yrs + to "slow down" due to age, health, work, family, focus, etc.
Kuv twb muaj 26×2 lawm kuv twb muaj 2 lub tsev tseem npaj lub 3 ntxiv. Koj tus poj niam kuj hais yog lawm tabsis tsis tsum nyob nyob meskas. Tshuav los yuav tsum muaj thiaj zoo.
Let me answer #1 and #2.
#1: when you are in your early 40s, you can still do it every other night, not sure when you turn 50. I think your husband is either cheating and wasting his enery on someone else during the week days or he's not sexually active. Most Hmong woman in early 40s dont know how to seduce their husbands, you got to make the move. Dont just wait for him, else he careless.
#2: live your dream, buy what you can afford. If you really want something, work hard and get it no matter how old you are.
Lol the long time friend camping trip.
Question #2
Ua neej nyob ces ntshaw lub tsev zoo , muaj nyiaj thiab me nyuaj tsim txhiaj . Yuav tsev yog qhov zoo.
Cov poj niam hmoob meskas tam sim no ces yog tsis tha makeup ces zoo li tus poj dab tuag tau ob 3 hnub lawm ntag hos.......
Q2 yuav tsev yeej yog ib qho zoo ua neeg nyob lub ntiaj teb no es yus twb khw2 ua luaj ho tsis yuav kom tau ib lub tsev kom you yus li no xuab dhau lawm
Wow neb khwv tiam neej no neb khaws nyiaj cia thaum faus xwb lo puas txim nyog ua ib zaug neeg na. Yug lo ua neeg twb yog vim yuav yam yus ntshaw yus xav siv xav tau yuav li yus them tau kuj Txhob siv kom yug tas tes xwb
Lol.900 to 1000 for a whole month is cheap..thats what u guys get for being cheap. Lol
Q2. Koj cia li yuam yuav kiag vim nws yog tus neeg tsis muaj peev xwm. Thaum ua tau tag ces nws mam li pom tias ua cas es tsis ntxov 10 xyoo dhau tas los. Kuv tus hlub ua li koj rau kuv na ces kuv yuam kiag xwb cia li yuav tsev los 20 tawm xyoo no lawm. Tsheb tshiab los yuav tibsi nawb. All my cars was bought brand new only.
🤣 OMG! I've had that happen to me too where I was freaked out by someone without makeup on and I didn't know who they are.
Ob niam, Txiv mus nplog teb: txhob kom yus cov txheeb ze thauj yus yog mus Nplog teb, lawv lim hiam heev, kom cov neeg ua business thauj neeg thauj xwb thiaj li zoo hais lus. Ob niam txiv los yog tsis muaj hlwb lawm los us cas tseem kom lub tsheb "xoomthias" no thauj nkawv thiab tab tom phim lo quav twm thiab lo pa av.
Q1: Is your husband in good health? If yes then you will need to observe his actions and hobbies and see if he do anything out of the ordinary. If he have high cholesterol then he might be impotence. If you are truly concerned then just vice him your concern.
Honestly, it’s hard to bring the subject up.
Q1 koj tus txiv tsev no mas nws ok os vim peb cov ces lawv muaj 45 xyoo xwb ces twb tsi muaj dabtsi lawm thiab tab sis yus ib txim yuav ces yus paub zoo2 lawm xwb es ua siab ntev mog.Q2 yog ntshaw2 tsev es cia li yuav xwb vim yus tuaj txog lub tebchaw vammeej no es ib simneej tsi nrog luag muaj dabtsi li no mas txawv2 kawg li thiab mog...ua neej tsi paub tag kis yuav zoo li cas es ntshaw ces yuav xwb tsam ho lig rau you start over again.
2nd question, I feel for you. Your wife is FRUGAL!!! That type of person, sleep better knowing they have a bundle of money! Even though life is falling apart around them!
#1 If he's always been like that then it's normal. My husband and I have always been like that. Once a week or even a week and a half 😆.
Omg sis I’m glad to hear that thought my husband n I was the only one sometime it get me wonder cus we are only in ours early 30s n if I’m lucky then I’ll get 1x a week if not 11/2
Q1 vi Cau txiv neej 45 mu 50 ib zaug ib VA thi CE zoo lawm lo ma nw Lau g muaj zog lawm Yog thaum lhua g txuag si hee CE g tau lau lo g muaj zog lawm o Yog kj tu txiv kj nruam tau kawg g that nu Li o
@@maytuekue9997 tus txiv yeej zoo li ntawd os zoo li thaum wb nyuam qhuav sib yuav. Nws muaj muaj zog kawg os.
Q#1... just Look at his behaviors, his activities. If everything’s seem normal ... than you should have him get physical check up. I don’t know how fit your husband is, but usually when man get like that, they usually have health issues, it’s important to get it check.
Q1- sister if he work more than 8 hours in a day then it’s normal of him not wanting to have sex on the weekdays. His body over work and all it needs is sleep. If it only 8hr shift and he is acting this way than I would spy on him.
Q2, brother, your wife is living very frugal life style to save you guys tons of money for the future. I would said, follow her footstep to saved and when you guys comes to retire then cash a nice house and new cars, debt free is the key to a happy life. You suffer now for a better future.
Hoyo kuv tus txiv twb ham yam ntev tsaj ko os kuv tus mas tseem yog 2 week ib zaug xwb los kuv yeej twb tsis xav nrog nws sib deev thiab os li ko ces zoo mas yus thiaj li tau zoo pw os mog
Thov teb nqe lus 1; tsis paub koj tus txiv tia yog zoo li cas tiag tab kuv tus txiv nws nyuam qhuav muaj 40 xyoo xwb 1w nws nrog kuv pws ib zaug los yog ob zaug xwb as
Qhov ntau tshaj tsua yog ib zaug xwb tab nws kuj tsis muaj hluas nkauj thiab yus haj tau zoo pws xwb os tus viv ncau aw
Lo lus nug 1, Koj Yuav tau Mus nrhiav tshuaj pab Koj tus txiv tsis li ntawd ces nws nws muaj tus tshiab lawm xwb
Oyo tseem poob rau pawg quav twm lawm thiab
Mus yuav niam yau los maj ruam aw
Koj tias yog hais tsis tau mad kuv yuav mus yuav dua ib tug los hais thiaj yooj yimhais lus hais kiag li no rau nws saib nws yuav teb li cav ?
The last secret story, that was what my mom, aunties, and grandma would said to us too when we(my cousins, me, and my siblings) does not finished our foods either. That was memories for us too. Now they are gone, may they rest in peace.
Q1: Most men crave for women everyday. He either has medical issues and lost interest, or he lost interest in you because you don't know how to take care of yourself for him to want you like the day you 2 met.
Q2: Either she don't want no more debt and think about saving for emergencies, OR she got other plans where that money saved will be going *raise eyebrows*.
Q2 when you die you can't bring with you remember that.
Eat good buy things you like and travel...
Ko lus nug 2 yus khwv2 twb yog ntshaw tsheb tshiab vaj tsev zoo Nyob es ho tsis kam li no hnub yus tuag lawm mam cia rau tus Nyob Muab rau lwm tus siv yus tej nyiaj los...? Tsis txhob qhia dub npaum ntawd thiab mas. Coj Koj tus Poj niam Mus rau Neej tsa hais kom kam txhob qhia dub xwb
Question 2: Tus txiv tsev aw yog Koj ntshaw ces koj yuav koj kiag xwb mas. You don’t need your wife’s approval since she’s stubborn that way. Once you died you won’t be able to take your money or things out you. Enjoy life while you can. Enjoy the luxury of life while you’re still living. Twb tsis yog tias nws ib leeg work xwb Koj twb ua hauj lwm thiab ces yog Koj ntshaw abtsi los kavtsij yuav thiab. Kuv twb nyob lub neej koj dhau los lawm kuv yeej understand kawg. Yog yus tos yus tus partner qhov approval ces sim neej no yus lub neej yeej tsis mus qhov twg. Txhob cia ib tug tuag kiag es mam li pib yuav everything brand new nawb.
Koj kuj muab nws txhom ua seb nws coj licas r koj.
Nws tu yob puas mj zog ma?
Nws puas cheat behind koj back do your research
Question 1
Red flag, pay attention to your husband, he might gsve another woman.
It’s hard to live with a person that have a different vision and life style or doesn’t want to compromise. If she’s hard headed and won’t change than it’s up to you if you want to continue to stay in the marriage or adapt to her way.
#1 Its better to have a man who dont want it everyday than one who does...lol That in itself is another job...lol
Qhov ko ces kuv twb raug los lawm yog li ko ces nws twb mus noj sab nraud lawm os tus mi Niam tsev es nws lam los kom koj txhob hais tau nws xwb os lam ceev faj nawb
2. If you want new things just buy it. You make your own money…
Q2: you just need to man up and make your own decisions for what's good in life and family, if you can't then there is nothing anyone can say to change your situation.
To ? 2 - Your wife is money responsible, dont blame her. You will have to convince her with facts. Pro/con list of owing vs renting. Use a chart to show you can financially afford a home. Facts are better than assumptions. Same method for aquiring anything else.
#1 - 100% Koj 'expire' lawm xwm os.
Questions #1 1 ces yog koj tus txiv Cheating lawm 2 ces hnub nyoog 50 xyoo li ko lawm ces kawg 1 week 1 los sis 2 xwb mas yeej tsis muaj tus heev ntshaj ntauv ces dag thiab noj tshuaj lawm xwb twb yog heev kawg. Questions #2 ua neeg nyob no twb ntshaw vaj tse tsheb nyiaj xwb thiaj khwv ciaj khwv tuag es tej ntawv twb tsis yuav tseem yuav khwv ua tus dab tsi ma lo
Cov niag poj niam uas tha phlu ntau ntau ces txhua leej Yeej dabtuag tag li o thaum hle khaub peeb tas na
Not everyone looks the same
But don’t be jealous because some people know to make themselves beautiful! 😂
At 40, ua pim tsis zoo nyob li lawm os.
Q1: lack of physical activities and drinking alcohol reduce libido. Is he healthy? If not, once a week is average. Active, 3x/wk.
Q1: it may be due to exhaustion from work and or health related. Every man is different. What was doesn’t have to be what is. People’s way of life change and can be due to a lot of reasons/things. Doesn’t always have to be cheating, but to make you feel better, then observe his character.
Q2: Different way of outlook in life can be challenging. However, if those are her worries, then don’t dismiss them. Maybe, first, understand her concerns, then give her reasons why she shouldn’t have to worry about those unforeseen events. Make a concrete plan, which addresses those concerns, together. Hopefully, that will ease her mind.
Q1: Be careful for what you ask for. If you find out the truth, will you be able to handle it?? If you want to know, start investigating but if he is cheating, what's the consequences?
Q2: Live life and be happy. If you want a house, go buy it. If she don't want to move than she can stay where she is. Don't let her stop your happiness if it's for the good. It only takes one person to buy a house. 😁
Hi Kablia Niam Neejvam, I loved all of your secret story telling. I was wondering how do find time to do this. Do you work at all? I'm just curious that's all. I worked all day 8hr 40 hrs a week and cannot find time to do what you do due to families, cooking, children, chores, cleaning, etc. I commend you if you have these responsibilities as well and still have time to tell stories. Keep it up!!
Thank you for asking! Yes I work a 40 hour job Monday thru Friday. I'm a very busy mother and wife. Yes I do regular chores just like every Hmong women. I just make time for my Two youtube channel. Although it's not easy.
#2. Neb yuav tau khwv kev qab zib.
Cov neeg ua thaj2 plu ces zoo li ko ntag mas lawv lam zoo nkauj thaum lawv tha plu xwb os
1st. Question, my husband is 50, he has some health issues too but he still going strong every night! Not kidding! The only time I get a break is when I'm on my period. IDK, either get him check or start following him 🤷♀️
Q2: uncle, have a seat with her and discuss both of your goals. Maybe her goal is to save but not home ownership. I understand you are upset but talk to her and tell her how much you wanted the house and why. Good luck
Yiv 1 week-end au Niam txiv 1 Zaug xwb mas tsawg dhau lawm Juventus il 1 hmo1 hmo li nawb
q1: why ask in here? go ask your husband directly..know one knows him better than he himself...if you need to know..just talk to him. i dont understand why you need the opinions of completly strangers...i mean would you give your money to a stranger to hold onto??? the concept is the same.
Question #1: Try to please him as much as you can for now. Go a little above and beyond your normal love life. He has someone else.
Question 1: U know your husband better. From my experience; he has a side chick that u are not aware of.
1st question: if your husband is always like that or in the last couple of years his sex drive frequency had been like that then it’s normal. If his drive suddenly changed but his work habits or schedule haven’t changed then he is either having an emotional intimacy with someone or is already having an affair. Finally, most of the time, if you had to ask then you already answered your own suspension and question. Good luck to you.
Ob niam txiv ua tus niam poob lo quav twm ntawv nas kv tsis ntseeg li os yog poob li ntawv ces nws ham tsis tuag lawm las as kv twb mus lawm kv tsis ntseeg li os cas dag ua luaj li os tsav ceev npaum li ntawv Mas tuag lawm os
Q1. If he sleeping outside the house or you dont know where he goes during certain times then yes maybe he's getting it somewhere else. Men dont always have to sleep with you daily to survive.
Q2. Remind your wife you cannot take that money with you when you die. Time to splurge and live a little. If you guys cannot agree on money maybe best to separate your money. Hard to live with neeg nplaum. Good luck brother.
Koj yuavtau ua kom tau txiv. Yus khaw yus nyiaj ces to p.om yus twb yuav tau tsev nyob lawm xwb
Haha #1
Q2. People have different life style, ways living, #1 if she faith 2 u. Got 2 adjust 2 each others