Secret# 189 (Ntiav Under cover Muab Niag Txiv Laus Xyuas Kiag) 05/29/2021

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ต.ค. 2024
  • A funny secret: I help hired an under cover to spy on my brother in law who's been cheating on my sister for so many years. The funny part is that he does know that I help assisted with the whole situation. My secret for life.

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  • @kathyxiongchannel138
    @kathyxiongchannel138 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    zoo niauj kawg li os Kablia

  • @NyabK2022
    @NyabK2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1st question: Please don't let anyone dictate your life. That's one of my top motto. I do what I want as long as I know it is good for me. You do you!

  • @jackieyunan4899
    @jackieyunan4899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nram teb xas muaj poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj coob heev nawb lawv aw.....

  • @Maivntxawm05
    @Maivntxawm05 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Q1: Only go to college if you want to do it for yourself. College is not easy and not for everyone. Also, your in-laws don’t like you no matter what you do they will still find other things to dislike you. Just live your life.

  • @wieberlee161
    @wieberlee161 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hais tsis tau li nawb kawg tso tseg zoo dua mog tus me muam

  • @nkaujhnubnraughlis2024
    @nkaujhnubnraughlis2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ?2..go joined him or leave him.
    Guys do xa in the future when he see more money he will cheat u or leave u 100%.

  • @chayang4525
    @chayang4525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I know someone who went through the same thing. You will not be liked either ways. Its just an excuse. Once you meet one expectation, you will get nitpicked on the next thing. Go to college because you want to and not to please them.

    • @bchasengnou
      @bchasengnou 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Q1: You don’t need to be smart to return to school. It’s about being dedicated and determined. Find what you are interested in and go for it…. You’re very lucky to have a hubby who supports and encourages you to return to school. Do it for yourself, your husband and your kids. Most importantly, lead and be that good example for your kids.

  • @tonymiller2259
    @tonymiller2259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Q2: your husband put $ first before you and your kids. He needs to put you and your kids first or your marriage will end up in divorce

  • @kaoleevang7037
    @kaoleevang7037 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    To the lady that's addicted to smoking. You mentioned that you're not sure how to stop the addiction. First, you already realized that you have an addiction for smoking and you wanted to stop. That's the very first step in the process to stop an addiction. Now you have to be honest with your doctor about the addiction and continue asking for help. Be honest with your husband too. It will be hard, but you might need his support in the process. You sound like an amazing lady. I'm sure you'll overcome this.

  • @MZigan
    @MZigan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Question 2- pack up your kids, yourself, and follow your husband. It’s a family thing so why not? He will realize he needs to stop and come home..

  • @kajsiabyang7287
    @kajsiabyang7287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Q2- coj kiag koj pab me nyuam mus nrog nws nyob nram teb xas xwb ma.

  • @jasthao9330
    @jasthao9330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Question 1: Go to school, better yourself and your life. Do it for yourself and your family.

  • @onglee3292
    @onglee3292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Q1- sister, if your hubby willing to put I through school then go for it. You don’t want to depend on him ever.
    Q2- sister, I don’t know why people would leave their kids and do that. There are some cases where both parents would hire some one else’s to watch their small children’s so that they could commit illegal activities. It’s up to you whether or not you want to put up with this. Follow your ❤️.

  • @ntujntshiab8667
    @ntujntshiab8667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Koj lub tsev qab vaj tsib ntaug zoo nkauj dav kawg li

  • @bellayang6993
    @bellayang6993 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahaha the wife in the last story is a keeper! You don't know how lucky you are. Better treat her right!

  • @Lunamochi4
    @Lunamochi4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Last story...when the husband is a weakling, the wife gotta be the strong one or both will be eaten by the bear! 🤣🤣

  • @Llis3322
    @Llis3322 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    question 1: he knew what he was getting into when he married you. he cannot expect you to change now. As long as you're working and bringing in some money (even if its not a lot) he has no right to make you change now just so he has the "approval" of his stupid fake family.

  • @maylauj9032
    @maylauj9032 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol! Cat daughter😂😂 my son use to do the same thing to guys that visited me. Instead of meowing he was barking at them😂😂. It’s just a phase that they go through. My son didn’t want me to date anyone but go back to his dad. After awhile he stopped & said I can date. Sadden it was due to his father passing, but now my son is a grown young man & I would tease him about what he use to do when he was younger😂😂😂

  • @user-bw9ro3jz4v
    @user-bw9ro3jz4v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Question 2: get his cousins or the leader of their clan to talk to him and his family. He needs to understand that you are suffering without him. It's hard being a single mom

  • @sydneythao6428
    @sydneythao6428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Questions 2 tsam no koj STOP tsis tau koj tus txiv thiab nws tsev neeg lawm nawb
    Tus yuav STOP tau ces yog teeb liab teeb ntsuab lawm xwb
    Li cas los nws yeej tsis los hlub nej cov niam tub lawm ces siv lub maib no kiag xwb

  • @arinalis3130
    @arinalis3130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Question 1: It may be hard for you now but only time will tell. Let's hope they don't come asking you for help and care in the future. They may be shining now but remember, everyone has their own time to shine. Just hold onto your life well. Your husband is willing to support you, so why not go for it. You'll only regret what you don't try. Don't blame the way you are and the way you're living on your parent's past.

  • @nkaujhnubnraughlis2024
    @nkaujhnubnraughlis2024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ?1.. no one can force u to go back to school even if its ur husband. If he love u he should love u 4 who u r.
    Stand up 4 yourself dont let him n h ih s family tell u what to do.
    Take him n move out of state stay far away from his family.

  • @AprilMay.2023
    @AprilMay.2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Q1: that's nice your husband wants to support you. Find your passion and go back to school for it, or get certified and licensed to do something you love. Good luck 😊

  • @chayang4525
    @chayang4525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Q2 - Birds of the same flock fly together. Opposing will not be beneficial, hope for the best, plan for the worst.

  • @niamstacey2441
    @niamstacey2441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    1st question: if they want you to go back to school make then pay for it
    2nd question: if your husband wants to do xaa u should quit your job and stay home with your kids and let him bring the $$$ to the family.

  • @ouradventuresnspecialmoments
    @ouradventuresnspecialmoments 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Q1: If they look down on you, you need to prove yourself to them! I went back to school in my Mid-30's and landed the job I wanted! You can do it, if you truly want to, sister!!!

  • @nroogzajchannelthegatetoth67
    @nroogzajchannelthegatetoth67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yog tsis xav nrauj ces coj tag nrog cov me nyuam es mus nyob zes los yog nrog koj tus txiv nyob ua ke nawb. Kuv tus niam hluas nkawv ua ib yam li ko thiab os. Tau 1 xyoo ntau xwb ces txiv hluas nkawv sib nrauj lawm nawb. Vim lawv mus ntsib tus tshiab lawm ne.

  • @pangher8903
    @pangher8903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Q1. You caanot make it to college then you can go to vocational school to get a skill job.

  • @ugaylus
    @ugaylus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Q1: don’t let his parents judge you. Even if you got your degree they will still gossip about you. Regardless just live your life the way you wants.
    Q2: If he’s not welling to help you take care of your family but he’s willing to share his earning money and support the kids and you then it’s okay.

  • @ashton8878
    @ashton8878 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Besides that train tracks, that area in the background looks tranquil.

  • @tonymiller2259
    @tonymiller2259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Q1: owning n running a hmong grocery store is not rich in American standard

  • @yinglee4019
    @yinglee4019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ?1: no matter what you do-school or not, you’ll to work hard to prove them wrong

  • @beautifulyang1302
    @beautifulyang1302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Q2: either way he is going to divorce you once he sees more money in the future.

  • @meexiong9292
    @meexiong9292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tus txiv neej ua siab phem ces thiaj li muab poj niam thaiv Dais xwb o hmoob e

  • @isabellexiong227
    @isabellexiong227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    tus tsuv yim no yog kiag li kuv tus txiv thiab

  • @marielor2255
    @marielor2255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So funny 😂 how the wife caught her husband cheating on her, love it 🥰.

  • @acondon9985
    @acondon9985 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Q1. Wealth is not all about money. You shouldn’t let others dictate how you should live your life. You should do something that will enhance yourself esteem so you don’t let others’ negativity effect how you live.

  • @mandylao4496
    @mandylao4496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ntuj aw tus viv ncaus koj tsev neeg yog neeg tsis ntse neeg siab phem zoo li hmoob ib txwm muaj nyob hauv hmoob lub neej. Ua cas koi tseem mus yuav koj tus txiv kod thiab. Lig dhau lawm. Koj tus txiv yuav tsum txawj hlub koj es txhob yuam koj rov mus kawm ntawv. Tus neeg muaj los saib tsis taus tus tsis muaj yog li no kuv thiaj ntxub hmoob lub hlwb. Txhob tu siab txhob mloog koj tsev neeg tej lus quav dev. Nrog koj tu siab tau ib tse neeg hlwb xuab. Yog koj tus txiv hlub koj ces nws yeej tsis hais li ntawv rau koj vim yog nws yeej muaj ntsis nyiam li nws tsev neeg hais. Nws yuav tsum thaiv koj, koj los ntawm tsev neeg zoo li cas los sim neej no koj niam koj txiv twb tsis thov leej twg pub mov rau nej noj. Yus txhob tu siab rau tej neeg siab phem, rau 2 siab tu yus tus kheej thiab txuag yus kom yus noj qab nyob zoo thiaj tsis muaj kev ntxhov siab.

  • @ginavang4369
    @ginavang4369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    To the first question, if your in laws don't like you no matter what you do you will never catch their eyes. No matter what you do, they will always think low of you when they don't have you in their favor.

  • @the4everhmong
    @the4everhmong 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s the undercover ladies #???? Asking for a friend lol 😂

  • @AprilMay.2023
    @AprilMay.2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Q2: I'm sorry you have to take care of your kids alone. I don't recommend you to go to the elders or cousins. I think it's only going to upset your husband and worsen your relationship with your husband. I find it helpful when I cook meals on the weekends. Then I heat the foods to feed the kids on Monday and Tuesday. Then I cook more on Wednesday and heat it Thursday and Friday. Sometimes if I can't cook on the weekend bc I'm busy, Id find easy meals to cook on week days. I used to wash all my produce on the weekend before I put in the fridge and it saves a lot of time when I cook during the week.

  • @paochoua
    @paochoua 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Xa story, You either bring your whole family down there or he’s planning to leave you when he makes his money.

  • @1976YANG
    @1976YANG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Niag txiv neej ntshai dais cas koj lub siab yuav mus phem tag npauv li rau koj tus poj niam os. Koj tsis tsim nyog nyob ua ib tus txiv neej yawg muaj tsab yaj phom li os nawb

  • @mayxiong3952
    @mayxiong3952 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't need to waste your money to hire anyone to find out if they are cheating on you.
    Use that money for yourself and your kids.
    I don't know why you are so proud of it that you are a pro in finding out your husband's cheating?!!

  • @jackieyunan4899
    @jackieyunan4899 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Koj niam pog thiab txiv yawg thuam koj txom nyem tam sis koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj thiab nawb ntxov nrauj ntxov tau zoo os tus mi niam tsev aw......

  • @yajliabcuam5609
    @yajliabcuam5609 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Niam neej vam aw tos koj ho tau hauj lwm youtube ua los vim muaj cov neeg uas ruam tsab ntse zoo li ob niam txiv ntiav under cover ko ntag nawv vim cov ruam coob dua cov ntse ces yog li no ntag nawv.

  • @4simplyme4ever
    @4simplyme4ever 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    1. Use their negative comments as a motivation to succeed in life. U don't have to be the brightest person to succeed. Just need to be motivated. If your husband is willing to support u, go for it.
    2. Report him to the authorities for doing weed illegally..lol..or leave him.

  • @JohnnyTY
    @JohnnyTY 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kablia i know where tat is ma ur just my uncle neighbor xwb....😀😀😀

  • @jasthao9330
    @jasthao9330 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Question 2: Can't fight them, join them

  • @douavue4167
    @douavue4167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nrauj kiag xwb mas txiv muaj coob os. Cov txiv tsis ua cas tsiav coob OS txob tos tus txiv ua xad lawm tsis ntev no CES xas twb tsis muaj nqi lawm.

  • @douavue4167
    @douavue4167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tus txiv neej kos CES mus ua poj niam es cias poj niam hos Los ua txiv xwb mas.

  • @keith2o9
    @keith2o9 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Q1: You need to be more confident about schooling. There's a lot of services to help you if you have a hard time in school. I think your excuse is just a way out of schooling. But do whats best for you.

  • @maivxyooj1797
    @maivxyooj1797 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hais rau tus niam tsev uas tus txiv mus ua teb xas ..koj kav liam nws yog tias nws yeej muaj peev xwm mus ua teb ib leeg tsis toob kas txog koj no los cia nws mus ua nws hos ntawm koj ces yeej meem qhia rau nws tias koj yeej muaj peev xwm saib xyuas tau koj cov me nyuam thiab ua koj txoj hauj lwm thiab es koj thiaj li tsis swb nws nawb hos yog koj pheej hu hu nws ces nws xav hais li cas rau kpj los tau ua siab los os tus niam tsev

  • @leelor9411
    @leelor9411 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ntiav under cover: Ob niag poj hmoob ruam, neb ntiav under cover mus nrhiav neb tus txiv tham hlua nkauj es tus under cover poj niam cia li pretended ua hluas nkauj coj neb tus txiv mus tom bar ces ci li hu neb mus nte nws xwb es nws tes hauj lwm neb ntiav nws ua cia li xau li ntawd xwb, nws cia li tau neb qhov nyiaj dawb, dawb xwb, cas yuav mus ruam, ruam ua luaj poj niam hmoob ruam, neb tus under cover twb tsis ua neb tes hauj lwm rau neb los sav, nws txoj hauj lwm mas muab kom tau neb tus txiv thiab tus hluas nkauj li (lav tham) evident nkawv ua nkauj, ua nraug los lwm yam rau neb mas thiaj li yog, tus niam hluas ruam tsab ntse koj mas ruam kawg kiag ob tus meskas no thiaj muab koj dag noj nyiaj dawb, dawb.

  • @nouthao4669
    @nouthao4669 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Q1. Txawm koj tsi txawj nre los Neb khwv Neb noj neb xwb ne . Koj txhawj dab tsi naj . Tsuav neb sib2 hlub xwb ces yuav li xwb mas. Yog koj tus txiv tswv yim tsi duav nws ces ruam dhau os.

  • @user-lx5yp8kx2s
    @user-lx5yp8kx2s 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Education is good but not for everyone. Unless you're doing well in class.
    Chanse are, you may not get the job that you go to school for then your in laws will have something to said about it, too. Do what you do best. Try to get job that will pay good or the best paying job that you can. Try to save up money for your family. Make sure you don't ever have to go ask your in laws for money. Because your husband's family live and own many big business or good home but they may only have enough money for show off. Some of the family I know are big business owner, expensive home and going out to eat all the times. Comes down to funeral and wedding - they don't have any money. They end up go around to borrow money and claim that they have no money.

  • @meexiong9292
    @meexiong9292 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nws mud teb Cas twb tau Tau nyiaj ces koj kuj tawm kiag haujlwm los tu koj cov me nyuam nkaus xwb txhob huas ua haujlwm lawm xwb ma.koj tus txiv mam li xa nyiaj Los them nun nqis xwb ma...

  • @nouthao4669
    @nouthao4669 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Koj yog ib tug txiv tsev phem tshaaj plawg tseem coj yug tug quas puj moog rua dais khawb hab. Yog nwg txhaj tseem yuav koj yog kuv ces muaj koj nraws khib nyawb lawm os. Txawm yog nwg sab tawv los tsi tsim nyog koj yuav khwv sab phem le ko naj.

  • @mouavang3371
    @mouavang3371 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lus nug # 2. Yog thaum yus tus txij nkawm hais kiag tias yog tsis kam nws ua li nws xa ua ces kawg qhov yuav tsis sib yuav lawn no. Ntawm kuv xav, yog nws twb hais tau li ntawv lawm lub neej yeej yuav kawg puas. Yog yus ho tsis pom zoo ces kawg nyias mus nyias, tsis li ces nws ua dab tsi ces nrog nws ua dab tsi xwb.

  • @seethoj2082
    @seethoj2082 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rau tus niam tsev qhov question about nws tus txiv mus ua xas. Qhov zoo ces move kiag koj family mus nrob uake mas zoo tshaj. Menyuam kawv ntawv hauv tsev xwb ces yooj yim dua.

  • @denamoua7262
    @denamoua7262 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ?1.tsis k cov neeg thuam neeg no yus khwv yus noj tsis thov twg noj.mus kawm diploma tom tech kom koj tau job zoo lawv thiaj saib taus koj.?2. Lub neej teb xa ua neeg liam thiab sib nrauj pluag kob huam coob kawg.tso txiv mus los txiv ua cheater tso niam mus los niam cheater...your kids come first...kwv tij los yeej hais tsis tau kav liam nws mus nws xwb yog koj nrauj tsis tau nwd

  • @beeyushon9788
    @beeyushon9788 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Q1 not way 2 bring husband back. Only he want.

  • @amazinggrace8136
    @amazinggrace8136 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    2)talk about not having any integrity.

  • @Joy-eo3nv
    @Joy-eo3nv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You talk more like a true human self in this episode. More natural. Other time, like fake.

  • @Momo-fw8lm
    @Momo-fw8lm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The train plain wind is soo distracting.