The power of letting go | Insa Klasing | TEDxBerlin

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  • @nikhatpathan
    @nikhatpathan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    It's sad how people don't want to watch talks on 'letting go'. We so badly want to be in control of life all the time. I'm trying to learn to let go off control for good.

    • @marilyncoyne4034
      @marilyncoyne4034 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes collective minds w zero common sense want other to do for them

    • @poquag349
      @poquag349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just this opinion is coming from your ego, with your ‘absolute matter of fact’ approach . Therefore your ego is still controlling you

  • @hannie77777
    @hannie77777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A beautiful warm story and so true. Letting go by breathing and switching off my mind reduces the pressure I lay on myself. It gives a stressless feeling, no pressure on myself from my mind, letting go of the control on myself. Experiencing that, I understand, that not only I, but my social surrounding as well, can lay great pressure on me, from childhood untill now, the social norm is strong. I realized that I don't want this pressure for myself, I too don't want it for the other, my friend, collegae or whomever. In this world of energy giving pressure bounces back, that's natural. I live, I'm energy, so I move and give pressure, but it's my wish to do that in a harmonic way, a joyfull dance, nourishing. I realized that some (often old trauma) situations trigger me in reacting with to big pressure, on people as well on stuff. It's not my wish but my reaction on anxiety to lose control (and eventually die). Breathing helps me to quiet down, to make contact with myself, switching of my mind creates stillness, no worry's, nothing. So I can reset again. From this calm state of mind and relaxed bodyfeeling, I can get in better contact with my passion and talent for life. It's a though but great journey. I'm sorry that Insa has the urge to apologize for breathing being esoteric and explains that it's proven with hard scientific material evidence, like esoteric is not done. It's a good thing that the esoteric wisdom is returning, ancient culture qualities are great. They worked with energy more than materials, people were less materialized more energetic. We gained a lot with science and technique, to become independant, but we lost something too. Knowing everything is energy, and that within quantum physics 'everything' is possible. With material devices you can only 'messure' material stuff, that's 5% of All there is. Quantum is not material but it materializes by consiousness. So indeed, I more often put off my smartphone, internet, and tv too, it costs me to much time, and time is energy.

  • @AllIsWellaus
    @AllIsWellaus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've watched many TED Talks videos wanting to gain something from other people's experiences. They all felt more self congratulatory than sharing something meaningful. I'll will keep watching.

    • @tonyh4257
      @tonyh4257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tend to agree, I also view Ted Talks looking for life lessons but it does seem that many of the speakers, though probably well-intentioned, are more invested in having a platform to air their egos.

  • @sabrinawanderer7560
    @sabrinawanderer7560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Wow, glad she overcome herself. She sounds humble and selfless. She is smart to discover her real self.

  • @Lore.r13
    @Lore.r13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    After planning everything in my life including a pregnancy that went sad and tragically (termination at 24weeks due to chromosomial abnormalities), i let go. No longer planning, no longer worring.

    • @Lore.r13
      @Lore.r13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rodneylake2 haha exactly in the month I posted this I got pregnant with my healthy baby boy. He is now 5 months 🤣❤️❤️❤️

    • @alison5009
      @alison5009 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Lore.r13belated congratulations!❤

    • @Lore.r13
      @Lore.r13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alison5009 thank You! He is now 2.5 years old ❤️

  • @EutierriaEcho
    @EutierriaEcho 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Note to self:
    3 things to unleash the power of letting go.
    1. Choose trust (antidote to control)
    2. Switch phone off- digital detox (switching off the outside- being lost in outside approval)
    3. Breathe- meditation (start gradually)

  • @amparocribas7792
    @amparocribas7792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    “Allowing life to take over” . So powerful, amazing!!!

  • @daenejunior1050
    @daenejunior1050 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Congratulations to this amazing TedTalk. Already shared it to some of my friends. So it's time to switch of my cell phone and start to breath.

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    One lives in a fools paradise. Do your best abilities to live with honesty n integrity. Letting go is the best things. Ultimately destiny has a part to play so like she said just breathe n trust destiny,or life. Inspiring. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @JC-ov8ko
    @JC-ov8ko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I needed to hear this. Thank you!

  • @jackiepower2439
    @jackiepower2439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Choose trust. I like this antidote for control. Thank you.

  • @GEORGIANATOR123
    @GEORGIANATOR123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am the QUEEN of control. It's taken over my life and I have forgotten how to live in the moment. This video truly changed my views on this illusion of control. Fantastic.

  • @Criskopa
    @Criskopa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great, great and great! thank you Insa!

  • @adrianb8832
    @adrianb8832 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    We are control freaks BECAUSE
    We care what others think of us.

    • @alison5009
      @alison5009 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oooo interesting

  • @artisticfelixsea
    @artisticfelixsea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow she’s shaking, but powerful speech

  • @TheJojo01902
    @TheJojo01902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful.

  • @BoyanGrigorov
    @BoyanGrigorov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The hardest thing is to trust people before they become successful. The greatest gift one can receive is receiving trust when they most need it.

  • @ashwithashetty5756
    @ashwithashetty5756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful talk..!!

  • @bazuin45
    @bazuin45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Turn to God. He is your Creator and you owe your existence to Him. Give Him glory.

  • @kunalkafunda6113
    @kunalkafunda6113 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's sad how people don't want to watch talks on 'letting go'.We so badly want to be in control of life all the time. I'm trying to learn to let go of control for good. But this channel is the best I have ever seen

  • @ald4805
    @ald4805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing 🙌

  • @poonamgiharshorts
    @poonamgiharshorts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Asoum techniques 😍😍😍

  • @amituniyal3412
    @amituniyal3412 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Control is an illusion

  • @shin-ishikiri-no
    @shin-ishikiri-no 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Will billionaires "let go" of their wealth and power in order to make a more equitable society? The answer is NO.

  • @captainjacksparrow5398
    @captainjacksparrow5398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful speech.

  • @halloooo1duuuuu
    @halloooo1duuuuu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2:29 Kafka metamorphosis

  • @AllIsWellaus
    @AllIsWellaus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't feel that trust is the catalyst of control but fear. Trusting too easily can invite personalities, people that will see this as a weakness. Being conscience of our breath is a useful tool in self regulating but to do this without truly knowing the cause or causes, say if you are an anxious person, can exacerbate the problem.

    • @waitwhat6882
      @waitwhat6882 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And you know all this how?!

  • @Sigma.Infinity
    @Sigma.Infinity 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My first question would have been "Is my horse alright?"

  • @RukaXchan
    @RukaXchan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope i make it this time 😥🙌🏻 wish me luck guys day 2

  • @kingzana
    @kingzana 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    16:55 looks like there's at least 5 ppl on the phone :D

  • @petermeinold1668
    @petermeinold1668 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let her go ...

  • @kikivrh1745
    @kikivrh1745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Control...thw ironi that this film is on the website off WEF🤦‍♀️

  • @JavierBonillaC
    @JavierBonillaC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There was a time when Ted had only extraordinary talks. This is ridiculous.

    • @AnthonyQuevedo
      @AnthonyQuevedo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What’s wrong with this talk?

    • @JavierBonillaC
      @JavierBonillaC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AnthonyQuevedo it's superficial. I love your last name. I live in Spain.

  • @thedood5665
    @thedood5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Two minutes silence for those clicked for break up video 😂

  • @nathanpetronzio6442
    @nathanpetronzio6442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Too much prologue. Insight starts @8:30

  • @marilyncoyne4034
    @marilyncoyne4034 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Figures from Berlin! Still can’t give up that power grab.

  • @trevorfry712
    @trevorfry712 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please send this to Putin

  • @kyleedevans8532
    @kyleedevans8532 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watch one of these and the date she says is his birthday...

  • @montgomeryscot6623
    @montgomeryscot6623 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember when TED talks were less banal.

  • @EmberHarrington
    @EmberHarrington 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honking car locking wakes people up and creates Noise Stress Everywhere. We can hear it inside our homes when you park. It wakes our kids up. Please! Break the Honk Habit!! Please lock your car quietly with light flash only.
    The Auto Industry needs to use technology that doesn't emit noise into our communities and neighborhoods. Thank you.

  • @chakanatravel
    @chakanatravel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I Will control, no You!

  • @sioraigrian8400
    @sioraigrian8400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let go of your position of power and go live on the street

  • @jeankagian1505
    @jeankagian1505 ปีที่แล้ว

    No offence, Insa. It sounds like "letting go" is easier achieved when you have a paid staff to pick up your slack. So essentially, you've succeeded in delegating to competent employees (like all good managers should do anyways) and then by shutting off your phone, you walk away from your responsibilities and spend your time in meditation. If only we all had the privilege of doing so. This advice is no good to the average person working a shift. All you've done is prove that you don't need a CEO watching over your sholder to make a business run if it's set up with the right people. You meditate, other CEO's play golf. Same difference. Congratulations on figuring out how to make money while working less hours. Imagine if all of your employees did that? You got hurt riding a horse (sorry to hear). Most people ride the bus. The problem is that you're surrounded by "yes men". Give me a shout if you want to hire someone who will give it to you straight instead of BS'ing you. This is so out of touch with reality. Am I wrong?

  • @juhanleemet
    @juhanleemet 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    good thing she didn't end up like Christopher Reeve; a bit too "new age" and facile for me; lesson to me is that we must allow some "chaos" (less our control, allowing for "everyone has a different idea") but then you have the challenge of trying to "steer" possibilities in "good" directions; "trust" as a panacea is just as bad as "control" as an absolute, IMO

  • @maryzheng5182
    @maryzheng5182 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @cefarther3945
    @cefarther3945 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my god, the three techniques to breathe, turn off phone, chose trust? Trust in whom when you've been betrayed? Oh my gosh, could this get any more trite? I am convinced this is a bunch of b.s. by the speaker to get on a stage.

  • @kunalkafunda6113
    @kunalkafunda6113 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's sad how people don't want to watch talks on 'letting go'.We so badly want to be in control of life all the time. I'm trying to learn to let go of control for good. But this channel is the best I have ever seen