i'm 43. here's what you *ACTUALLY* need to get done in your 20s and 30s

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  • @lynnhendley8910
    @lynnhendley8910 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You Rock Girl! I am an only child. I have always been very independent.. Even though I am married and have adult children I really enjoy my alone time. Especially when I am in my Quiet Time with God. I have gotten close and more intimate with JESUS. I am going on 75 next year. I am planning working for my Masters degree as a Christian Life Coach/ Counselor.

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love this!!! Go get it, girl!!! I was an only child for 9 years and am so good being on my own and often need it!

  • @_diddles_
    @_diddles_ หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "What God has for me, is for ME." Love this. So grateful to have found your channel, Thank you.

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so grateful that you’re here!!! 🫶🏽

  • @FrankEats
    @FrankEats หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just starting TH-cam and trying to learn how people are interacting with their audience and being comfortable in front of the camera. You are great! Subscribed ! 😁 . To your success! 🥂

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! It took a while to get comfy in front of the camera ( I still sometimes have to pump myself up before I hit the record button 😂) but thinking about who I’m connecting with really helps. You can do it!!!

    • @doulalavi
      @doulalavi หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree!

  • @hotdogflavoureddrink
    @hotdogflavoureddrink หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much, this journey is so hard and isolating. Its great to see people on the same wavelength.

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can do it! What journey are you on that’s been particularly trying?

    • @hotdogflavoureddrink
      @hotdogflavoureddrink หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kristidoingthings Thank you for asking! Unfortunately it is something I am wrestling with that happens to affect each and every single aspect of my life. I have got this far through sheer will and a lot of support but unfortunately my life has come to a screeching halt until I cant move forward with anything until I solve it. My age is catching up with me, but your videos have really helped me see things from a different perspective. Its really great to see you being able to live such a great life.

  • @deavillon
    @deavillon หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Love your hair, so bouncy and healthy. Love your videos, so helpful at this time in my life

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I’m beyond thankful to be able to help.

  • @BringTheRuckusPodcast
    @BringTheRuckusPodcast หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm just trying to be debt free by 40. I'm learning to set boundaries and really stand up for myself more.

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      These are great goals!

    • @BringTheRuckusPodcast
      @BringTheRuckusPodcast หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kristidoingthings lol I thought I commented with my regular YT 🤣

  • @israelc.8586
    @israelc.8586 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Philippians 4:11-13 🙏

  • @emily28038
    @emily28038 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The negativity! I was filing receipts, as I listened to your video. And I'm looking at receipts from going out to eat with my husband. We work together, have been on a big project all summer, and have been eating out a lot. I carry a lot of guilt about this for various reasons, but when I looked at the receipt, I felt happy. I really enjoy these times together. And I thought of how I need to not think so negatively of them, and be grateful. And then you starting talking about just this! I also love alone time. I get up early, so I can stretch, drink coffee, read Bible and journal.

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I really love how you were able to reframe your mind about it. The video was just confirmation that it was okay it let go of the guilt. ❤️❤️❤️ And on the subject of guilt, I’ve found that I make the most change in my habits when I focus on honoring that part of myself bc I want to be and feel better rather than focusing on guilt.

  • @lakendrawilliams377
    @lakendrawilliams377 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just love your positive energy. I am 41 and I am finally ok of now becoming a mother. I am married and have my dog baby. I am happy that this is my family. Also my career goals took me time to reach. I am finally in my dream job of running a child care center. I just have to not listen to people on what should happen in my life. People made me feel sad that I did not gave my hubby a baby. My husband and I have medical issues that prevent us from making this dream come ture. It took years for me to be greatful just having my hubby and dog baby. I also thank God for not blessing some of my wild prayers just because someone else was doing in their life. I am now a fan of your videos.

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awww, thank you so much! I’m so happy you’re here and part of this amazing community. Once we let go of what we think life “should” be based on other people’s opinions, we can free ourselves up for the dreams that will actually fulfill us. God’s plan will always be perfect for us.

  • @Only1QueenOfEverything
    @Only1QueenOfEverything หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So very, very true, definitely resonated with me! ❤🙏🏽

  • @williamrobinson4513
    @williamrobinson4513 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree, Kristi. The majority of the people, who are in my life, are actually doing too much for me. In my opinion, doing too much has brought out the negativity of most of the people that I am witnessing. My ALONENESS IS QUITE NECESSARY for me, but I'm looking forward to meeting and greeting with the people that GOD has GIFTED me with. Thanks AGAIN, KRISTI🎉

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s so easy to get overwhelmed by people. They really are needed, but we need to recenter with God and ourselves. I’ve also found that some people need more alone time than others. And along with that, the right people will fill our cup and vice versa.

  • @MountainofInspiration
    @MountainofInspiration หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Spend time with God to rediscover yourself and build confidence😊

  • @DiamondButterfly921
    @DiamondButterfly921 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Where is the usher so I can sow my offering? lol! 😁Good word and timely as usual. I think I will have this on repeat this week❤❤

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hahaha!!! 😂 girl, you have me rolling!!! So happy you enjoyed it!

  • @PableshaEskobar
    @PableshaEskobar หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    love this ❤

  • @bazor6883
    @bazor6883 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well said Hun, the time is now ❤❤❤

  • @ДарьяГолованова-й8щ
    @ДарьяГолованова-й8щ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @user-vu9gd8ed1h
    @user-vu9gd8ed1h หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this. If you don’t mind me asking, do you have children?

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you!!! And, I don’t mind at all. Nope, no kids.

    • @user-vu9gd8ed1h
      @user-vu9gd8ed1h หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kristidoingthings is that by choice?

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @user-vu9gd8ed1h Yes. It was the right decision for us. Such a personal choice for every couple. We also get to be surrounded by so many kids and just didn’t feel that tug. What makes you ask?

    • @user-vu9gd8ed1h
      @user-vu9gd8ed1h หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kristidoingthingsmarried and on the fence 😅 always curious why some married choose not to. I have this invisible pressure to do it and I think I might want one but not sure yet.

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I thought I wanted my own children bc of the invisible pressure and “that’s what you’re supposed to do” but every time I thought about it, no matter what age, everything beyond saying “I’m pregnant” completely freaked me out. 😂 Once I accepted that it was an okay choice to not want to birth children, it really freed me. I get to mentor young ladies and be around kids and that fulfills me. You and your hubby have to decide what’s right for you. Pray about it, think about it, weigh the options…you’ll know what’s right for you ❤️😘

  • @bigmoneycool1166
    @bigmoneycool1166 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What the heck you look 31 girl🌟❤️‍🔥🏆😘

    • @kristidoingthings
      @kristidoingthings  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you!!! 31 is so specific 😂