I'm a Multi-Millionaire Doctor Unmotivated to Work Another 13 Years

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  • @gerardopliego-financevideo8214
    @gerardopliego-financevideo8214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7345

    I have the same problem, but I’m not a doctor or a multi-millionaire...

  • @biriqueen2578
    @biriqueen2578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1562

    "You don't need motivation. You need a mission." I felt that.

    • @MRiGOin23
      @MRiGOin23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s crazy how I read this as he said it 🔥

    • @coachcarroll963
      @coachcarroll963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lemme guess Queen , you do hair and eyelashes

    • @MRiGOin23
      @MRiGOin23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@coachcarroll963 that’s unnecessary... she could be applying that to anything in her life.

    • @biriqueen2578
      @biriqueen2578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@coachcarroll963 Incorrect. But, good guess!

    • @kiethlowry2862
      @kiethlowry2862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can definitely relate to that statement

  • @aaronschen9896
    @aaronschen9896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1268

    She is obviously bright, type A personality, and completely financially secure. She needs the advice of a therapist or life coach not a financial planner.

    • @marisol033
      @marisol033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      I need she needs God in her life. Most of the time we all have stepped away from God. I would say she needs to give of her time to those in need.

    • @eldritchpumpkinghost2968
      @eldritchpumpkinghost2968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      @@marisol033 lol no

    • @tentimetex
      @tentimetex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes a therapist to understand why she took the Hippocratic oath in the first place.

    • @grancanariaforvacations7303
      @grancanariaforvacations7303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought the same

    • @ImNotADeeJay
      @ImNotADeeJay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@marisol033 here we go with the religious nonsense

  • @adrias4685
    @adrias4685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    This woman has singlehandedly destroyed every molecule of pride I had in what I thought I could call a strong work ethic. If you need me I'll be off in my corner in fetal position

    • @AlPha-nc6ih
      @AlPha-nc6ih 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Those fries aren’t gonna fry themselves! Get back to work lol

    • @adrias4685
      @adrias4685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@AlPha-nc6ih lol time to up my game! People will be asking all concerned-like why I'm running myself into the ground, and my only utterance will be some garbled mumbling about the TH-cam baby doctor lady and something about Dave Ramsey

    • @littleviolagirl
      @littleviolagirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Why live by someone else's metric? If you think you work hard and enjoy what you do, keep going!

    • @adrias4685
      @adrias4685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@littleviolagirl I'm mostly just joking, but you're absolutely right! 💯

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Part time 60 hours

  • @jamessalvatore11
    @jamessalvatore11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2212

    You can tell how intelligent she is just by listening to her speak.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      She’s also very gracious.

    • @karlasosa5304
      @karlasosa5304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes exactly!

    • @carlcampbell6827
      @carlcampbell6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      James Salvatore - I lived in her city for many years, and have seen all the medical facilities: and am guessing she is Asian.

    • @rickyrick9328
      @rickyrick9328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you for that

    • @franco521
      @franco521 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@carlcampbell6827 Now that I read that I think I have to agree. Saving. Doctor. Takes care of parents. Plays instruments.

  • @CZsWorld
    @CZsWorld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2274

    There are going to be a lot of retired doctors after this pandemic ends...

    • @bettysmith4527
      @bettysmith4527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Not just doctors, nurses, mid level providers, etc.

    • @foredimples529
      @foredimples529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      And teachers

    • @FlutterSwag
      @FlutterSwag 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Guess their dancing skills werent up to par

    • @samjordan8800
      @samjordan8800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Teachers? Naw, they're still resisting reopening the schools some places!!!

    • @thomasthumim7630
      @thomasthumim7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And dead beat dads

  • @maryberon4193
    @maryberon4193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Quit her job, take care of her mom, enjoy her music! Life is short, you never know when it all be over.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She has to work to age 60 for the health insurance.

    • @nazbah5929
      @nazbah5929 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @beautiful20106
      @beautiful20106 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@genxx2724 I thought 65

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@beautiful20106 That’s the Medicare retirement age. She said her employer provides health insurance to retirees at age 60.

    • @nicholaslyons798
      @nicholaslyons798 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🔥!!!!

  • @BrandonMinguez
    @BrandonMinguez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    Am I the only one who thinks she could transition in careers to voice an answering machine or GPS navigation? Good for her in having these thoughts and trying to not have regrets later in life!

    • @darrenruben4108
      @darrenruben4108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Later in life??? She's 47, not 97.

    • @BrandonMinguez
      @BrandonMinguez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@shannon2748 That's what my point was. It's great that she's asking these questions at only 47 with so much time ahead of her. Since she's asking them now, she hopefully won't have any regrets when she does turn 97.

    • @sheldon6307
      @sheldon6307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed, she got the voice

    • @asavannah7439
      @asavannah7439 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has a very pleasant voice, you're right

  • @dbrandon4528
    @dbrandon4528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +945

    She even sounds like a doctor.

    • @annadaae26
      @annadaae26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Like a newsreader learns to speak like a newsreader. It's an authoritative voice that tells people not to question what they are saying to them.

    • @theatomic430
      @theatomic430 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Meh.

    • @stwida91
      @stwida91 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She simply speaks like an educated individual with an above-average vocabulary.
      There are pros and cons to this. Sometimes the inability to 'turn this off' or adjust your speaking based on your audience indicates that you're missing something, socially, and can cause people to distance themselves from you.
      I previously had a boss who couldn't say a single sentence, no matter how mundane it should have been, without overvomplicating the vocabulary.
      Instead of saying "We need to double check the report to make sure it's not wrong before sending it out" the sentence would unnecessarily become "Prior to distribution of this information to the necessary related parties, we should reconcile and validate the output in order to ensure accuracy and completeness."
      Same message, different tone, and sometimes one is tone-DEAF.

  • @baronb.7545
    @baronb.7545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2019

    I’m a Multi-Thousandaire Pizza Delivery Man Unmotivated to Work Another 13 Years

    • @AK-jt9gx
      @AK-jt9gx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Big baller over here... same man, same.

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Sounds like:
      I have a problem. My Porsche is in the shop and I really can't decide between the Mercedes or Ferrari.😆

    • @CooterELee
      @CooterELee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      *dave Ramsey impression * What do you like about delivering pizzas? What do you not like about delivering pizzas? lol

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CooterELee So true.

    • @sarahburggraf907
      @sarahburggraf907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Laugh if you want, but as a thousandaire your doing better than most Americans who cant save a dollar if their lives depend on it.

  • @vallieg54
    @vallieg54 3 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    My favorite doctor ever is my kid's pediatrician who always says "I'm not the wealthiest in my med school class, but I have the most grandchildren out of everyone" (said with a huge beaming smile on his face). He is truly content with his career and personal life. I respect this OBGYN for her success but I think she's lamenting that she doesn't have a higher purpose in life aside from career.

    • @jessa9877
      @jessa9877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Having children isn't for everyone

    • @raleigh2747
      @raleigh2747 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@jessa9877 true but, like the op said, she is missing some sense of purpose. That doesn’t only come from kids.

    • @TheDougSpot
      @TheDougSpot ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@jessa9877
      That’s probably what someone told her that lead her to this point in her life🤷🏾‍♂️
      It’s obvious that her problem is that money and career means nothing to her, and she’s looking for another purpose, but it’s too late

    • @bobjacobson858
      @bobjacobson858 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TheDougSpot At 47 it's really not too late. As long as she has her mental and physical abilities, she can decide to do whatever she wants (but probably not including giving birth to her own babies), and can do it for a couple decades or more. However, I agree that she should still try to keep one foot in medicine, at least for a while. Although I was into music decades ago but went into another field, I got back into it a few years ago at age 67, and I've been having a wonderful time since. (I retired from another field shortly before my 61st birthday to take care of my aging parents, but have done a few years of consulting since then.

    • @alqoshgirl
      @alqoshgirl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@jessa9877it is for 99% of people. Her life is pretty pointless and you can literally hear the emptiness in her voice. No kids, no spouse. What’s it for? Her dying parents?

  • @farmsquatter625
    @farmsquatter625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Her sentence was so precise, structured and clear. what a badass woman ... Absolute alpha...Glad she is doing great in her life.

    • @NUFCOfficial
      @NUFCOfficial ปีที่แล้ว +21

      But she will have 0 legacy and in 10 years all of her money is worthless to her

    • @coolandclassic7717
      @coolandclassic7717 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      @@NUFCOfficialHer legacy may not lie with her descendants, but with the hours she has poured into caring for her patients and her parents. Heck, I don’t even know or care about my ancestors past my grandparents.

    • @TurboAuss
      @TurboAuss 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @@coolandclassic7717glad you said this, i don’t know why people have this idea in their head the only legacy a person can create is with children. there’s a million reasons why she may not want or can’t have kids. she’s dedicating her life to patients and her parents, that’s a better legacy than 99% of ppl with kids.

    • @chevysaregr8
      @chevysaregr8 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thats the reason she doesn't have a man

    • @acruzro95
      @acruzro95 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@TurboAuss you talking like if having kids and being g a doctor are mutually exclusive.
      Why Americans trap themselves into binary choices? All these Harvard schools and MITs and NYUs to then say black or white, guns or no guns, kids or job, Democrat or republican. Etc.
      Obviously she can take care of kids and also patients like millions of other doctors in the US and all over the world.

  • @Casinogirl56
    @Casinogirl56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +610

    The minute my financial advisor told me I could retire I put my notice in so fast I had a smoke trail behind me. Just quit already, life is too short.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Good for you! Do you mind if I ask the sum and your age when you received that advice? I ask because I could retire now but I’m uncomfortable about it.

    • @Casinogirl56
      @Casinogirl56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@genxx2724 the sum is....enough for me to be comfortable and I was 64.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Casinogirl56 Good for you!

    • @pataleno
      @pataleno 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Casinogirl56 absolutely if I could afford to retire I’d be gone today.

    • @choosetoshine2610
      @choosetoshine2610 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you!. Live!

  • @KK-itiswell
    @KK-itiswell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1067

    Job burn out is real. With or without saved money. She is smart to have saved hers. Talking as a medical professional who can relate

    • @Ms-Jones
      @Ms-Jones 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Yep...burnout is real

    • @LG123ABC
      @LG123ABC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You've got that right. I've been in sales for over 30 years and I can totally relate.

    • @LGnLA
      @LGnLA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Especially after this year... a real eye opener for lots of folks!!

    • @philipgerry5228
      @philipgerry5228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      No matter how exciting the job, they get old after 20 years.

    • @mathisnotforthefaintofheart
      @mathisnotforthefaintofheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have a lot of folks in my circle who work in medicine and really make good money. I sense that lots of them are inadvertently in some rat-race about more money, better cars, bigger houses. They work crazy hours, make half million a year, but little life except at the parties. It seems like this is a kind of "danger" that is easy to fall into. As a radical solution, a lesson in minimalism comes to mind

  • @RRAREBEAR
    @RRAREBEAR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    Just listening to the clear and concise way she speaks in the first 30 seconds you can tell this woman is EXTREMELY intelligent.

    • @michaeldalton8374
      @michaeldalton8374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Or put another way-
      Very commonplace about 35 years ago.
      The devolution is real.

    • @HazeLmao
      @HazeLmao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@michaeldalton8374 her eloquence is not the norm even in the past.

    • @rally_chronicles
      @rally_chronicles 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm surprised many of you can string sentences together

    • @LawrenceTimme
      @LawrenceTimme 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yet she has no kids so genes are dead. Sad really.

    • @Mischiou
      @Mischiou 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@rally_chroniclesIsn't it cold up there in your Ivory tower? Beware, it's a long way down...
      Assuming you are one of those self claimed intellectuals, who look down on delivery boys and toilet cleaners.
      Highly intelligent species like yourself, ought to know about the 'black plague'. I recall it had something to do with hygiene...
      I pray to God that one day, you'll be forced to clean up your own shit or have to get your hands dirty, just like us commoners.

  • @brendanb4361
    @brendanb4361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    My goodness, her ability to thank others for their thoughts and then state that “we’re on the same page” affords her such an insane level of confidence and standing in the conversation.

    • @faizanalvi3932
      @faizanalvi3932 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its just the way doctors talk to patients were taught to talk to patients that way

  • @talyahr3302
    @talyahr3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +659

    What if she flipped the table completely and worked ONLY weekends, holidays, & emergencies. Most her time goes back to being hers!

    • @DrGoldieMD
      @DrGoldieMD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      That’s a great idea!

    • @melaniem8040
      @melaniem8040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I had the same thought. Just work on call only.

    • @gardenofe12
      @gardenofe12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes !! That’s a great idea !!
      She spent so much time in school and paid so much for medical school !!

    • @danielleterry180
      @danielleterry180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Her parents are elderly and not in nursing home so working weekends and hollidays wouldn’t be what she wants I got the impression she spends her time she has with them while they are still here

    • @rachelgooden9981
      @rachelgooden9981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes a lot of docs opt for that. The medical insurance is real though. One disease can wipe one out.

  • @kingali1606
    @kingali1606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    This is why smart saving and investing is so important, not necessarily to retire, but to never be in the position where you have no choice but to do something you hate in order to get by.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah not necessarily to retire but an option among many when financially sound.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s FU money.

    • @Sarvagya4
      @Sarvagya4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      unfortunately money saved up and having everything in place like zero debt also creates unnecessary possibilities in your head that you can quit and do what you want. its like a menu with too many food options. you cant make up your mind. having single point focus when you just work and make money allows you to be free of thoughts like "am i unhappy in my job"

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Sarvagya4
      Not talking about unstable people.

    • @michaelbennett6959
      @michaelbennett6959 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said.

  • @meerars4906
    @meerars4906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Ken started smiling when the lady started talking. Same with me....she sounds soooooo confident and graceful.

  • @As_A________Commenter
    @As_A________Commenter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    She wasn’t doing the usual “I have this much money” flex that many callers do, and was interesting to listen to, polite, and receptive to their advice.... but none of that made her safe from the Ramsey mute finger

    • @DewTime
      @DewTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Idk, I felt like it was a flex. But I don’t really mind it I like hearing the stories

    • @tomvonneefe4269
      @tomvonneefe4269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol the ramsey mute finger. I love that name, but hate that he did it to her.

    • @BenjesBride
      @BenjesBride 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tomvonneefe4269 The commercial break music had started

  • @robhaynes4695
    @robhaynes4695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    38yrs old . Near millionaire and I do not want to work more than I must. Life is short and I want to enjoy more than what work can provide.

    • @coolafternoons8930
      @coolafternoons8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I got 62 more years bruh

    • @HamiltonRb
      @HamiltonRb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think it depends on what you get out of working and why you work. If you don’t especially like your work, then financial independence gives you the opportunity to cover your expenses and do something you enjoy more, whether it be hobbies, travel or a different kind of work that you enjoy. My wife and I are both in careers we love, in our early 60’s and financially could have retired years ago, so it comes down to what you are passionate about.

    • @Shadowwind4
      @Shadowwind4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Can I have some money?

    • @alecsmith904
      @alecsmith904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Read rich dad poor dad

    • @eyubmusayev785
      @eyubmusayev785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is BS!
      He is lying to you! He wants to sell he’s books, that’s all he want.

  • @BrotherhoodWorkshop
    @BrotherhoodWorkshop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1654

    Holy cow this woman rocks.

    • @BobbyCommas
      @BobbyCommas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      She rocks so much she never got married or had children. Red flags all over the place.

    • @david1731048
      @david1731048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      @@BobbyCommas sounds smart to me!

    • @HamiltonRb
      @HamiltonRb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      @@BobbyCommas There are many ways to feel fulfilled in life, and marriage and children aren’t for everyone. My wife is a physician, the same as this lady, and we have children, but don’t enjoy the piano that she does, so we are all different

    • @youtuber6185
      @youtuber6185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      That’s why she called up, she was wanting tell us about it

    • @666dynomax
      @666dynomax 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@BobbyCommas thats up to her... whys that a red flag

  • @swn69
    @swn69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I'm 51 and I quit working. Life's too short. 20 year military pension, 13 year LE pension and investments. I ain't rich, but I do whatever I want every day. I'm comfortable.

    • @kuryanthomas1438
      @kuryanthomas1438 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      as long as you dont have a need in the world, u are all set! Good Job! Enjoy your early retirement!!!!

    • @anonymous-rz6zj
      @anonymous-rz6zj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You are rich with options

    • @vergespierre4271
      @vergespierre4271 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Better than 90 percent of Americans

  • @CycleCruza
    @CycleCruza 3 ปีที่แล้ว +622

    It's crazy that you have a doctor working her tail off and on call 24/7 stressed to the max and makes 200k to 300k a year while there are 16 year olds making a million a month on social media. lol 🤔

    • @annajones9701
      @annajones9701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Yes, but money is not everything. Medical doctor is better achievement than just making money.

    • @MooMoo69556
      @MooMoo69556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I bet you will amount to neither of those too 😂

    • @annajones9701
      @annajones9701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@MooMoo69556 I am a Master's in Finance grad and worked in investment management before.

    • @DewTime
      @DewTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      So what are you saying? It’s also crazy that some people win $20MM from the lottery.

    • @MooMoo69556
      @MooMoo69556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@annajones9701 I wasn’t talking to you, I was talking to the original poster.

  • @bryandelcid4065
    @bryandelcid4065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    Man no wonder a lot of older doctors appear to be burned out. 50-60hrs per week for part time??? That’s crazy. I would burnt out really fast

    • @Stoneface_
      @Stoneface_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yep many are working 90-100 hours a week. The burnout rate is extremely high for physicians.

    • @jaideepchahal491
      @jaideepchahal491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Stoneface_ It’s like that pretty much everywhere that you get paid a high salary. Law, finance etc.

    • @annajones9701
      @annajones9701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Finance is worst. Burn out is 2-3 years in investment banking. Then go and do other job.

    • @alexcoop522
      @alexcoop522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Stoneface_ they dont work that much they get paid like 200k for one simple surgery after payments and interest easy

    • @HunkyMonkey1203
      @HunkyMonkey1203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@alexcoop522 good joke

  • @DP-vo2kb
    @DP-vo2kb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    She should work as a doctor part time. She already has enough money saved, and that way she can take care of her parents.

    • @skajs426
      @skajs426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed!

    • @sugeymancia5806
      @sugeymancia5806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's what she said. She is already part time

    • @samod1990
      @samod1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      She said she is working part time, and in doctor's world that's 50 to 60 hours a week.

    • @LG123ABC
      @LG123ABC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@sugeymancia5806 Her version of part time and my version of part time are completely different.

    • @sugeymancia5806
      @sugeymancia5806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LG123ABC so true

  • @Bao171
    @Bao171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    It’s called the sunk cost fallacy. She feels that if she leaves the medical profession she feels guilty because she has invested her whole life into it. It’s ok to pivot and move on.

  • @lastempire7302
    @lastempire7302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    "ONLY" making 200K and have net worth of 5M in her 40s, way to go Doc!

    • @howo357
      @howo357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Power of investing

    • @ocvegasproperty
      @ocvegasproperty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She mentions she made 300+ at one point but cut back

    • @realdookoos
      @realdookoos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@howo357 and possibly divorce

    • @alexcoop522
      @alexcoop522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@realdookoos its always divorce

    • @benzandpour
      @benzandpour 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sounds fishy

  • @Jdhdbsbsjdnraqowirjfndksjdndj
    @Jdhdbsbsjdnraqowirjfndksjdndj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I was burned out and don’t have millions in savings. I sold my tiny condo and bought an RV and an RV lot in Colorado at Chateau Chaparral. Now I’m debt free and can travel. I’m still suffering from job burnout but now I can breathe! Just went on a big hike today and starting to de-stress and feel healthy again.

    • @fredericksharon6908
      @fredericksharon6908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice my man 🙌🙌🙌

    • @NicE-jq3wv
      @NicE-jq3wv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How do you pay for insurance? Or do you? That’s what traps us all until 65

    • @andrewsnyder9262
      @andrewsnyder9262 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NicE-jq3wv forego the insurance...I pay cash for medical needs vs spending $10k+ per year for insurance

    • @TexasGirl1633
      @TexasGirl1633 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you!! Sounds like a wonderful life!

    • @MasterBror
      @MasterBror 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is it going now? Anything you can share?

  • @BrianVelez
    @BrianVelez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1204

    Think she may need a sugar baby? 🤔

    • @WhyPee24
      @WhyPee24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      How do I see you here everytime😂

    • @BrianVelez
      @BrianVelez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      @@WhyPee24 I seriously spend all my free time watching financial channels 🤣

    • @britneyog9537
      @britneyog9537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @talyahr3302
      @talyahr3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Best comment 😂

    • @yoshialv9710
      @yoshialv9710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      yea she need me

  • @AznBoi871
    @AznBoi871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    Her voice is strong and confident, that's what women should strive for.

    • @donatello9482
      @donatello9482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      When someone says “she’s out of my league”, they must be talking about her 🤣😂

    • @regularity2556
      @regularity2556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@donatello9482 That's why she's 47, never married, no kids. She's out of everybody's league.

    • @faxoxo2306
      @faxoxo2306 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought she said 41?

    • @zeal4god402
      @zeal4god402 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@regularity2556 LOOOOOL

    • @zeal4god402
      @zeal4god402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I noticed that in her voice instantly, the eloquence and confidence

  • @santiagomiguel5180
    @santiagomiguel5180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    It’s how you deal with failure that determines how you achieve success

    • @gustavojose7491
      @gustavojose7491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't know who really needs to hear this, you've got stop saving money. Invest some part of it, if you really want financial freedom.

    • @beatrizantonio8772
      @beatrizantonio8772 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It baffles me that people are still in debt in thew new Era

    • @anapepe9905
      @anapepe9905 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      BIT =COIN is the future, investing in it now will be the wisest thing to do

    • @sarahenrique1145
      @sarahenrique1145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please how does this whole BIT=COIN thing work? I'm really interested and ready to invest in but I'm gonna need an assistance from any productive and reliable professional.

    • @irisinacio6105
      @irisinacio6105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will be recommending Mr Christopher George to you based on his high level of trading skills and strategies are top notch

  • @msheehandub
    @msheehandub 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Also in healthcare, no debt, six figure savings but I've worked myself to the point I have no desire to do anything. I'm gonna take this advice and cut back my work and make room for hobbies

    • @MegaBpop
      @MegaBpop 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You need to put yourself first and find the hobby that brings you joy! Congrats!

    • @JMian
      @JMian 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes I work in healthcare. But nowhere near your situation. Congratulations

    • @rockgod2131
      @rockgod2131 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JMian Yeah, that sounds genuine lol.

    • @theatomic430
      @theatomic430 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Okay.

    • @Mischiou
      @Mischiou 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, healthcare in some professions, really pays off.
      Both my mom and dad busted their asses, cleaning in hospital and side jobs. Both saving money, giving it all they had, but could barely make ends meet.
      Good for you to be so succesful and pity you got a burn out, but I'm certain the gratification of seeing your patients actually 'heal' and patient numbers decreasing in general is very rewarding, right?

  • @tripsyjellyfish2328
    @tripsyjellyfish2328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    She has the kind of problems I wish I had😂

    • @malik9856
      @malik9856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No bullshitting

    • @coolafternoons8930
      @coolafternoons8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Work for it! She was in school 10 yrs after 18 then worked two decades of 90 hr weeks. She would have more $ if she wasn’t a doctor.

    • @Joe-jc5ol
      @Joe-jc5ol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I used to say that, and then life gave me the problems I wished I had. And the anxiety level was the same as the old problems...

    • @arizonadesert5861
      @arizonadesert5861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂

    • @yuhanjong7269
      @yuhanjong7269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@coolafternoons8930 that's nice,but for me you should invest your time in more profitable ways of earning money...

  • @ishmael802
    @ishmael802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I think she needs a break. It sounds like burnout.

    • @RogerPack
      @RogerPack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah...maybe she should take a year off, that might be fun.

  • @jzplayinggame
    @jzplayinggame 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    We all benefitted from hearing this powerhouse of a woman speak

    • @jackhippler8054
      @jackhippler8054 ปีที่แล้ว

      More than 50% of doctors are female. I absolutely love this and feel connected when she states some of her issues.

  • @derrikbarnett9803
    @derrikbarnett9803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    =She needs to find herself. Her whole life she has been too structured and she needs to go out and "live a little".

  • @IceColdProfessional
    @IceColdProfessional 3 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    She's living her life the way most people with kids THINK they would live theirs if they didn't have any kids.

    • @whyme7996
      @whyme7996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      listless and unsatisfied with her achievements?

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@whyme7996 She’s not listless, she’s very energetic. All she needs is attitude adjustment. That’s far easier to achieve than cleaning up the fallout from decades of poor choices.

    • @whyme7996
      @whyme7996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@genxx2724 she's a woman who is caring for her parents and sees her own future....no one around to care for her, just paid "care givers" during her waning years.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@whyme7996 Few people lovingly care for their parents. Kids are no guarantee of anything, and many turn out poorly these days.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@whyme7996
      She said she need a motivation to work a few more years not motivation to live.

  • @skeet0rz
    @skeet0rz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    She has no kids, her parents are on their way out, she's aware of her own mortality (arthritis & hearing loss on the horizon)... This has midlife crisis written all over it.

    • @Susan13554
      @Susan13554 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You're just jealous 😂

    • @Susan13554
      @Susan13554 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Empty nesters without millions at her age feel way worse

    • @skeet0rz
      @skeet0rz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@Susan13554 I wouldn't want to be her, no matter how rich she is.
      But I'm glad she's exploring music as a way to enrich her life.

    • @mariog5737
      @mariog5737 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@skeet0rzyou’re right those people who don’t have kids are never happy especially women.

    • @roaldruss4211
      @roaldruss4211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But this woman ISN'T happy. That's why she called. Stop generalising/deflecting and stick to the topic. ​@@mariog5737

  • @amazingjason455
    @amazingjason455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    It is reassuring to know that we have smart, competent, responsible people like this in our society. She makes the world better.

  • @mikedanaher3413
    @mikedanaher3413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I normally watch this channel to feel better about myself. Now I need a counselor. 😂😂😂😂

    • @unnamedchannel1237
      @unnamedchannel1237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s not good to feel good about other people’s pain. Instead of feeling better about your self from their issues try to learn from them

    • @acsentu8
      @acsentu8 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol 😂😂

  • @iay8334
    @iay8334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    I love calls like this from successful people. So inspirational, more please!

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ramsey’s target audience isn’t successful people. It’s unsophisticated people who are in financial trouble and need to learn the basics. Successful people are elsewhere, such as The Money Guy.

    • @endofquoterepeattheline7516
      @endofquoterepeattheline7516 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love hearing these stories to make me feel bad about myself lol

  • @Primitivegarage915
    @Primitivegarage915 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Okay I’m glad she explained why her salary was 200k as an OB/GYN. All of the ones I work with make around +350k.

    • @cbl6520
      @cbl6520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was about to say. Though to be fair, it’s the lowest reimbursing surgical specialty.

    • @user-em4wh5ji3w
      @user-em4wh5ji3w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@stoneyjosephine urologists make ~400k in private practice

  • @cdw222
    @cdw222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I feel like a big part of her dilema was being able to be there for her parents, and they didn’t acknowledge that much.

    • @abdallababikir4473
      @abdallababikir4473 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      it'd be too much to handle in one call

    • @jasonk8793
      @jasonk8793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She doesn't have 3.7 million to live on at age 47. 2.1 million of it is in 401k

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 ปีที่แล้ว

      They just saw dollar signs.

  • @bemkim4225
    @bemkim4225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    she talks like a doctor

    • @AllIAm1
      @AllIAm1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not in a good way eck

    • @belindaevans6915
      @belindaevans6915 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that a comment praising God? Or taking his name in vain?

    • @bemkim4225
      @bemkim4225 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@belindaevans6915 however you please to understand 🤗

    • @SevenRiderAirForce
      @SevenRiderAirForce 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bemkim4225 I, too, speak to God through TH-cam comments 😂

    • @bemkim4225
      @bemkim4225 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SevenRiderAirForce okay.. i revised...

  • @kuryanthomas1438
    @kuryanthomas1438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    very well to have already saved 3.7 million at age 47 at 200k a year. I know a lot of doctors who make more than that who are holder and dont have that much saved!

    • @kuryanthomas1438
      @kuryanthomas1438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      oh ok she did make over 300k for a long time, so that helps, still saved very well!

    • @Alexis-wh2de
      @Alexis-wh2de 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Mark T she did say she take care of aging parents. There is a possibility they owned a home but sold it to live with their daughter, or maybe she lives in the same house with them and so never had to pay extra housing costs 🤷

    • @vchafab
      @vchafab 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Mark T Yes I was just trying to figure out the same thing. This is where we live and my husband and I make 180k and we just about live paycheck to paycheck after we max out our retirements.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Mark T
      Just because you have the power to buy don’t mean you have to. People that handle their money well don’t contribute to buying power.
      This responsible woman knows her priorities.
      Only broke people create most of the buying power anyway. Just ask MasterCard,Visa, or the FOMO crowd.

    • @theflightsimulationexperie6894
      @theflightsimulationexperie6894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Mark T absolutely 100 percent true.

  • @ikene9821
    @ikene9821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I burnt out in 10 years and quit. I work on my farm and a lot happier. The wards were a very depressing time for me.

    • @ijlalamir1267
      @ijlalamir1267 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How often did you work in those 10 years? How many hours per week?

    • @pinoytunes7707
      @pinoytunes7707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here, I practically lived in the hospital in those 10 years and really loved it. But now I have kids and prefer to stay at home.

  • @georgewagner7787
    @georgewagner7787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm 60 and can hardly wait for 62.

    • @mrsteve7539
      @mrsteve7539 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      At this age I think you should be thinking of online investment

    • @dizmund
      @dizmund 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Wooten Blazer exactly you're correct. It's true there are scammers but real license brokers are out there for investors.

    • @richardfernande4142
      @richardfernande4142 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dizmund then I'll like to introduce you to my expert MRS Beatrice.

    • @richardfernande4142
      @richardfernande4142 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      expert Mrs Beatrice is a reliable and sincere broker and since I got to know her I never made any loss I think she's the best broker I have ever known

    • @mdsaini4294
      @mdsaini4294 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I encourage newbies to invest with her and come back with testimony

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    This lady is on another level.

    • @GiantsWS
      @GiantsWS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep - another level of sad and pathetic. No family, no children, probably no husband. Such a waste of an intelligent mind.

    • @achavez78
      @achavez78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Bruh I always see you commenting!

    • @siddheshmirjankar910
      @siddheshmirjankar910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@GiantsWS Is it compulsory to get married and have kids? Imo being single saves you a lot of money in the long run to enjoy life

    • @kayw1771
      @kayw1771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@GiantsWS her intelligence contributed to the safe and healthy carriage and delivery of babies. Not a waste at all. She’s been a blessing to many families. Everyone’s happiness and existence isn’t wrapped up in or dependent on the existence of another. You go have yourself a spouse and children and don’t worry yourself about her choices especially when they do not negatively impact your life at all.

    • @maljones1398
      @maljones1398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@GiantsWS She has immediate family . She’s a Christian who is not married therefore she can’t religiously have kids because that requires sinful behavior. She worth millions . What man with millions would be stupid enough to get married ? This woman is an ALPHA.

  • @jaysmith6013
    @jaysmith6013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    “I love my job so much I don’t have the motivation to continue”.

    • @user-tg3jl1mt4e
      @user-tg3jl1mt4e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @Csab It makes perfect sense, just because you love your job doesn't mean you want to continue doing it every day for the next 13 years. She is getting up there in age so working 50+ hour weeks just isn't as practical. I love playing video games but that doesn't mean I want to put in the same amount of hours on games as I was doing in high school and college.

    • @mv7374
      @mv7374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Burn out

    • @cw9515
      @cw9515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She’s confused so here explanation is confused

    • @busybee6692
      @busybee6692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I love my job but I hate working. If that makes any sense. Burn out is real. Took a year off and I feel so refreshed.

    • @jaysmith6013
      @jaysmith6013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sorry but I just understand all these people claiming to love their jobs but being “burned out” or “lacking motivation” to actually do it. I’ve never experienced a lack of motivation in doing things I love.
      I think people are conditioned to say certain things like loving their jobs as a societal norm, in order to convince themselves they are not wasting their life away doing something for a paycheck

  • @TL-ms6lp
    @TL-ms6lp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This woman is goals.

  • @thegoodearth9427
    @thegoodearth9427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Ok, at least I feel a little better after listening to this woman. I’m 42, net worth of 3.5 million (excluding home and car), and I make 270k/yr (equivalent to 500k in California). And I can’t get myself motivated to work, all I want to do is to be able to take care of my aging parents when they need me. And I know they are going to need me.

    • @annajones9701
      @annajones9701 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amazing. What work do you do?

  • @richardwalter7571
    @richardwalter7571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I’m a multi-hundrednaire unmotivated to work another day

    • @universalservicetechust3578
      @universalservicetechust3578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol 😝

    • @ms.herlan7860
      @ms.herlan7860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅😅😅😅

    • @zainabomer7511
      @zainabomer7511 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!

    • @thomasthumim7630
      @thomasthumim7630 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Typical women s always a victim

    • @joeshmoe7967
      @joeshmoe7967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Richard, I am there with you. I work for money, not fulfillment.
      My dream is to criss cross the country on my motorcycle with my guitar and little amp(I bought the amp with strapping on to the bike in mind) playing for tips and giggles where ever some one would have me, pub, coffee shop, street corner...
      With my business just about going under, I wouldn't make any less than I am making now, and I might make more! LOL! Cheers

  • @EricFinanceTips
    @EricFinanceTips 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    This woman has achieved FIRE. She should continue to work on things she wants to, not because she has to.

  • @jeffcaswell3706
    @jeffcaswell3706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I think Dave should invite her to be a guest on his show. She may realize how much others struggle to achieve a quarter of what she has accomplished. Congratulations on your hard work . Talk it out with your parents maybe they don’t require that level of care

    • @stevel6337
      @stevel6337 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a great suggestion! I was wishing they kept the conversation going longer.

    • @ManSeekingChrist
      @ManSeekingChrist 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She does not have any family. It is not unusual for a doctor who works as much as her to be where she is. Her salary is on the low end for a doctor too.

  • @victorzeferino7008
    @victorzeferino7008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Now I understand why many Americans are retiring in México, with that money she could live comfortably and not have to wait 13 years.

  • @yourgooglemeister6745
    @yourgooglemeister6745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Happens to lots of doctors. Better than opening a restaurant

    • @husher5142
      @husher5142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      yeah, dont open a restaurant. Even in the best of times food is a risky business

    • @DJayAce4
      @DJayAce4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I've seen too many Kitchen Nightmare episodes to believe opening up a restaurant is ever a good idea 😂

    • @waflletoast11
      @waflletoast11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@DJayAce4 food is one of the most competitive businesses out there, especially with the age of technology and delivery.

    • @Rehabszz
      @Rehabszz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mom has a bakery/restaurant her store makes about 200k/month gross.

    • @AznBoi871
      @AznBoi871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Rehabszz -why would you say something so personal that isn't even yours to tell on the internet. Stay humble.

  • @LifeofKairo
    @LifeofKairo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    You’ve got a parachute that most musicians dream about 😊 you can do both because you’re an absolute champ!

  • @FabioSantos-cs2cf
    @FabioSantos-cs2cf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    She’s not motivated because although she’s type A working in the field of her passion…she has no one to share it with or kids to support. She’s not needed in her home. I’m not saying to be cruel. I dated a doc who I wanted to marry, still love her and would still try to make things work but she brought the type A shit into the relationship and I happened to lose my job and got depressed for 3 months. It killed the attraction on her side. I don’t blame her and not resentment, but that’s what ultra successful women doctors often experience

  • @Nevertold23
    @Nevertold23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She is such a hard worker!!! Do what works for you Doc!!!

  • @aprilmcclellan1248
    @aprilmcclellan1248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I'm an ER physician. 30 hours/week is considered full-time for us. I couldn't imagine 50-60 hours per week

    • @webfreakz
      @webfreakz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      30? Sweet

    • @2012jjoykutty03
      @2012jjoykutty03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Where? In NY 60 hours is the standard hours for most doctors

    • @aprilmcclellan1248
      @aprilmcclellan1248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I did 60 hour weeks during residency. But when I took my first attending job, full-time was considered 30hr/week. Anything over 135 hours/month is paid overtime. I'm in PA.

    • @jakem7591
      @jakem7591 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How much do you get paid?

    • @aprilmcclellan1248
      @aprilmcclellan1248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@jakem7591 $240/hr

  • @ohnoitsohno9767
    @ohnoitsohno9767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    “How do I take care of my parents”
    Dave: “You are not going to see the inside of a restaurant unless you are working there!!”

    • @jamiesonmelnyk
      @jamiesonmelnyk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Dave: "Sell your mom"

    • @MrYCROCKER19
      @MrYCROCKER19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jamiesonmelnyk 😂😂😂😂

    • @kaohsiung99
      @kaohsiung99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Beans 'N Rice... Rice 'N Beans

    • @briannaje5419
      @briannaje5419 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "No vacations until you get this mess cleaned up."

  • @niallroberts3807
    @niallroberts3807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was really enjoying this conversation and hearing about this woman’s life. Wish the chat was longer. 😩

  • @rosem5361
    @rosem5361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    All it cost was not getting married and not having any children. Dont think I could ever do that.

    • @cathy7824
      @cathy7824 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I have no children, I do have nieces I love dearly. Children and a husband isn't everybody's dream. I love animals and I'm free to go where I please. I have many hobbies. This lady doesn't sound like she's living a life of regret due to no children.

    • @rushrush1209
      @rushrush1209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      A lot of people choose not to get married and not have kids. But most don't get to where she is in her career or financial situation.

    • @prepaidtrash5552
      @prepaidtrash5552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Imagine thinking everyone has the same goals in life

    • @tasneemahmed5821
      @tasneemahmed5821 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's really surprising how many think that a woman has to sacrifice her marital life in order to be successful in a career. Or worse, think that women NEED marital life. 😐

    • @DewTime
      @DewTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly. It’s the new age feminism though

  • @dreg5845
    @dreg5845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    DONT WORK. We are only here once and it's not only to work!

    • @christianc7420
      @christianc7420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Some of us enjoy working.. we all need a purpose and to contribute to society

    • @fordtechchris
      @fordtechchris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You still need something to do.

    • @jtyree0226
      @jtyree0226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@christianc7420 “some” yes, but she already contributed enough to society. Let here do whatever she wants

    • @PremiumFuelOnly
      @PremiumFuelOnly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Work is ok as long as you enjoy it. Even if you win the powerball, You need something to keep the mind busy.

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PremiumFuelOnly That's what we call hobbies/interests. If I won the powerball, all employers could get stuffed. Most bosses are evil, psychotic jerks.

  • @timeinvestors-motivation456
    @timeinvestors-motivation456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    “If you’re not doing what you love, you’re wasting your time.” - Wise person

    • @profitmix441
      @profitmix441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Cheers don’t pay the bills

    • @ArcticZombie
      @ArcticZombie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Doing what you love can get boring eventually and even stressful if you do it everyday.

    • @Ibrahim-vx5kq
      @Ibrahim-vx5kq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ArcticZombie better than doing something you hate tho

    • @7318ify
      @7318ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is really bad advice that I hear too often. You should "like" your job but you certainly don't have to love it.

    • @stefanossmitty3318
      @stefanossmitty3318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Doing what you love is silly if it doesn’t sustain you. You should do what you are good at.

  • @Mai-id4fw
    @Mai-id4fw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She worked to hard for others that when it comes to her she lost herself. Money can’t answer everything. It’s time that she has lost that she regretted. She finally found herself today.

  • @yesseniaescobarable
    @yesseniaescobarable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Renee you’re unmotivated and you’ve motivated me! Thank you bunches Renee ❤️ can you please write a book on your journey? 🙏🏽

    • @endofquoterepeattheline7516
      @endofquoterepeattheline7516 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not really sure there’s enough material for a book here..maybe a short story lol

  • @todd2456
    @todd2456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    That was a SAVAGE mute button.

    • @kaohsiung99
      @kaohsiung99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He has to take an "Obscene Profit" Commercial break (as Rush Limbaugh sarcastically called it).

    • @todd2456
      @todd2456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Anne Day she was mid-sentence.

    • @kaohsiung99
      @kaohsiung99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@todd2456 Dave doesn't like a lot of follow-up random comments that go all over the place.... and neither do most listeners.

    • @todd2456
      @todd2456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Anne Day bruh

  • @CycoPatPonfe
    @CycoPatPonfe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Doc, you’re awesome! Do what you love and love what you want to do!

  • @hrithikzgirl83
    @hrithikzgirl83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She’s got more than enough money to retire now! Dave’s advice is on point!

  • @nreitman
    @nreitman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Professional Musician here. Grass is always greener on the other side.

    • @loui7210
      @loui7210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea it's not that great being a musician

    • @RP-cn8si
      @RP-cn8si 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      lots of conservatory students opt for med school. Lots of us are liked for our work ethic and diligence.

    • @joshuag.4873
      @joshuag.4873 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Also a pro musician. Looking for a way out!!

  • @Mak2Grim
    @Mak2Grim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    if i ever had 1.5+mil i’m buying property for passive income, rinse n repeat n just enjoying my life

    • @HamiltonRb
      @HamiltonRb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      You can get that same passive income by owning reits and not worry about broken toilets or tenants not paying rent

    • @mikehallrealestate
      @mikehallrealestate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You don't need 1.5m to do this.

    • @Okay-vz3qw
      @Okay-vz3qw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@HamiltonRb 1.5m out of 1.5m in reits? Oof lol...

    • @erwina4738
      @erwina4738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@HamiltonRb or she can hire a property management company for those toilets

    • @HamiltonRb
      @HamiltonRb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@erwina4738 That is another option, which we have tried in the past, but it cost much more and you don’t get the diversification that you would get by owning reits

  • @Citizenm33
    @Citizenm33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Am I the only one who finds it so cold (yet hilarious) when Dave just slams that button and hangs up on them lol

    • @kaohsiung99
      @kaohsiung99 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He has to take an "Obscene Profit" Commercial break (as Rush Limbaugh sarcastically called it).

  • @braveheart85
    @braveheart85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dave’s sidekicks question to her we’re right on point! My man

  • @ritatharp5238
    @ritatharp5238 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @go4384
    @go4384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    No kids. There’s your first road to wealth.

  • @sweetzs100
    @sweetzs100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Wait I want her to deliver my babies when I have one. She’s so comforting and seems so sweet. I adore her. She’s the type of person that would make me feel so safe and comfortable

  • @nohandlebravo
    @nohandlebravo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good call, Awesome advice Dave!

  • @brittneyleroy9292
    @brittneyleroy9292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a lady! Congratulations! It pays to be disciplined and smart.

  • @ashleyjones5396
    @ashleyjones5396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Wow, this woman is awesome! If working as a Doctor is a passion, I would do it part time and take care of my parents. In reality this lady can do whatever she wants!!!

    • @ghostl1124
      @ghostl1124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Including refunding some of what she charges her patients. Medical professionals help and hurt society. Jesus never told doctors to be multimillionaires and own three houses. Maybe she does more already than supporting her mother. But I still believe that many of her patients don't enjoy paying the high cost of health care that she provides. Not just her, but the entire medical industry.

  • @jusplay7309
    @jusplay7309 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    She is such an achiever with many skills. How about teaching part time and doing the conservatory thing as well.

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  • @tandramc
    @tandramc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's amazing! Good for her for being so multi talented and successful.

  • @fontekevin0
    @fontekevin0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    She probably just needs a good and long vacation.

    • @glamoc0000
      @glamoc0000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or to meet Tommy Gunn

    • @gordonsmith5589
      @gordonsmith5589 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And needs a dude in her life

    • @youtubeuserzzzz
      @youtubeuserzzzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@gordonsmith5589 lots of financially stable women prefer to be without a Man. Having one actually stresses them out more. She needs to find a travel and music group. She will be just fine.
      It's not the same as with men. Men are stressed out for not having a woman.

    • @pratriciadewan7396
      @pratriciadewan7396 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gordonsmith5589 If she wants one, she obviously would. And maybe she secretly does. Who knows?

  • @kjtp01
    @kjtp01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Must be medical day as I'm a 64 yo doctor with 5.1 M and still working pretty hard. My problem is I don't know what to do if I slowed down. I have a few hobbies but nothing that could keep me busy all the time. Maybe I'll take up an instrument.

    • @aba1791
      @aba1791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Michael EllingsworthOr b*ng the nurse Lol

    • @jacqueline8566
      @jacqueline8566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In this world, there is so much to do! Be encouraged. Explore your interests

    • @jorgesolis7897
      @jorgesolis7897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nice, Dr. Phil! What specialty do you practice?

    • @kuryanthomas1438
      @kuryanthomas1438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      just keep working if you love what you do, and leave an even bigger nest egg for future generations, try to get to 10M

    • @aba1791
      @aba1791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jorgesolis7897 Sorry to break to ya but I don't think he likes dudes so find a sugar daddy somewhere else. Lol. JK

  • @jmanrock11
    @jmanrock11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    When people say "more money more problems" is this what they're talking about cause sign me up!

    • @bigreddaman5988
      @bigreddaman5988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shes never been married and has no kids at 47 lol. If all you want in life is money I feel bad for you

    • @jmanrock11
      @jmanrock11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@bigreddaman5988 It was a joke and you saw right through it. Not everyone wants to get married and have kids. She could have a boyfriend who can take care of himself.

    • @blackworldtraveler3711
      @blackworldtraveler3711 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jmanrock11
      Yup.I’ve met people that think life ends if not married and no kids. They are divorced now and tend to have selective memories when I bring up the subject.
      I’m 50 and never had kids, money issues, or marriage. I have a girlfriend longer than most marriages,family,good neighbors, and friends.

  • @claudinel1888
    @claudinel1888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I didn’t know that doctor works 80-90 hours a week. Good for her for saving so now she has freedom!

  • @roxyperson8328
    @roxyperson8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The amount of work that doctors are expected to maintain after spending 8+ years in college is insane!!

  • @ZeroMajor01
    @ZeroMajor01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    She needs to hire a really good NP or PA

    • @itzelr3514
      @itzelr3514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol 😆 !! Smart answer 🙂

    • @PurpleDog06
      @PurpleDog06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'd rather see a NP or PA most of the time, tbh,

    • @itzelr3514
      @itzelr3514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PurpleDog06 :)

  • @cherylharwood7267
    @cherylharwood7267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow 🥺 love it you go girl

  • @randomamerican6320
    @randomamerican6320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow, she is an AMAZING individual, she is a jack in all trades!
    I as a citizen would love for someone like her to continue servicing our Country and providing Grade A service,
    but at the same time, she's done so much for everyone else, she has the money to retire....
    all I would say, is remember this quote,
    "The cost of not following your heart, is spending the rest of your life wishing you had."

  • @james.yt.00
    @james.yt.00 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was in a similar place. Although much younger and not a doctor. At 36, several million in investments and retirement, and my homes paid off - but doing a job I wasn’t fulfilled with. I retired. Then I started a mental health publishing and production organization that creates very high quality programs and distributes them for free. I’m incredibly fulfilled and motivated to keep going. 100% of my time is volunteer and I’m not burned out. Once you have enough money to live comfortably, having even more did not make me happy - instead I just worried about what to do with it.

  • @Sombra_Azul_
    @Sombra_Azul_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    CRUSHING IT!!!!👏👏👏

  • @briannaje5419
    @briannaje5419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I pray she meets a like minded, well accomplished man to share life with. She's pretty much set for life but would be nice to share it with someone. She has done so well for herself and takes care of everyone else. She seems like a loving person and would love someone well but would recieve that same love and care from a man who would take some of what feels like the weight of the world off of her.

  • @chassiddywilliams3309
    @chassiddywilliams3309 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations ma’am!!! I’m totally inspired!!!! 💕🙌🏾🎈

  • @hammerradiology1470
    @hammerradiology1470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, someone to look up to. Amazing woman. Really understand the music aspiration...too much stress requests downtime and music speaks to the soul.
    50%-50% sounds just right. Good luck to her!

  • @GreggoryThorpe
    @GreggoryThorpe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We need to normalize early retirement. Retire young and retire rich

  • @TAPPChannel
    @TAPPChannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Finally friendly to listen epizode... thanks guys

  • @mw1932
    @mw1932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I definitely hear you on the lost opportunity aspect. Follow your gut instinct and never look back

  • @geekhomeworld4248
    @geekhomeworld4248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This caller is inspiring and fantastic.